@SilverBack 19 January 2022

Matrimonial Conflicts Majority of couples are being involved in marital conflicts and could sometimes question themselves where it all went wrong. Beliefs have it that the best couples argue and disagree a lot and that it keeps them together as practices like that shows their strengths, weakness, likes, dislikes. It can be deduced that "*Couples who argues alot stays together for long"* but is it really true? as this tends to encourage conflicts and disagreement but it isn't... at least, not quite. A couple can have issues before or after marriage, before or after having children ... it is up to them to solve their issues and no one else. Couples having constant conflicts doesn't have a good effect on the family as it tends to bring them apart and furthermore, cause discontentment between them. Most couples argue over financial issues, some over insecurities, some over opinions and so much more. When couples gives birth,  all sorts of conflicts should be avoided or reduced to bare minimal as it can have a negative impact on the children where they start adopting to what they see and hear in the family ... this doesn't have a good effect on the children as they can grow up to hone to such acts and become a liability to the society and others. No one is perfect for sure and not all opinions would be understood by one's partner but time and patience are all that is needed to overcome such deficits. A partner can have anger issues and it is up to the husband/wife to try and maintain a situation of not getting them to anger as they already know their situation. This kind of approach also helps where you know where your partner achelles foot and strong fort as it helps you to maintain peace and order in the relationship.

Matrimonial Conflict also has a negative impact on the couples themselves where such acts leads to domestic violence, external affairs, reproach towards one another, all sorts of discriminatiing values and in the thick of it all, separation. A man has the most job in maintaining peace and stability in his home though sometimes this can be a bit tough. He has to provide for the family and protect the family and also be fair to his wife . Not all man are blessed with understanding partners and likewise not all women are blessed with an understanding partner ... wrong choice of marriage also induces matrimonial conflict and that is why dating/courting is being advised to people as to know what kind of spouses they are tying their lives to. You can't know one's all characters but at least , you would get an insight while courting. I , for one, wouldn't say love is enough or all that is needed to stop matrimonial Conflict; understanding, patience, sacrifices, trust and endurance also are very important. Domestic violence also is not acceptable no matter the situation faced in the home and should therefore be prohibited or stopped by all means. Thanks for reading and for your time.. feel free to check out my amazing sponsors.