How do I handle this kind of woman? Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words. I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities. I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with…
@Seersam in September 2020
Procrastination, beneficial or harmful? The present world has shown us beyond proof that almost all humans has exhibit a degree of what I call 'Procrastinating spirit'. Though this degree varies among us all yet we all exhibit it. What makes it an issue is whether procrastination really affect us positively or negatively. Procrastination has been defined as the act of postponing, delaying or putting off especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness.. see source…
Biased Love Why do you think most ppl love their moms more than their father, is it natural or usually a nurtured one?. Many ppl can even sacrifice their father for their mother. Many people have justified the fact that their mother is the one they first open their eyes to see when they were born. Some claimed that their father doesn't have time for them so their closeness to their mum makes for the bond. But in all, is it good for that love to be biased what do you think…
Your Time Zone? Don't worry Some people complete their education at the age of 22. But they don't get a good job for five years Some people become the CEO of a company at the age of 25 and at the age of 50 we find out they have passed away. While some people become CEO at the age of 50 and live for 90 years. Despite having a good job, some people are still unmarried and some people have got married without a job and are happier than those who have a job. Obama retired at the…
Is Age a problem? In a society like ours, where marriage is seen as scared and the level of one's sense of responsibility is judged by it.. No matter the amount of money and wealth you acquire as a man or woman ,the first question everyone would want to know is "is he married" , "Who is her husband"..Being married is seen as the first achievement before any other thing.. The way Marriage is viewed makes me wonder if it is written somewhere that everyone must marry. In…
Chores are not gender based **Generally a greater number of men treat the females as second class citizens, they females have always been neglected or maltreated..** **Some men see women as nothing, some believe that women are supposed to be under them, yes women are supposed to respect the men but they shouldn't be forced to it or mandated to do so...** **I have noticed that women are sometimes mandated or expected to do some specific works or chores, most times I hear…
The significance of timely information in achieving Relevance. Information is the bedrock of the learning process. I want to stress this point because many do not know the importance of updating their information bank. The more current you're with information, the better developed your mind becomes. If what you knew yesterday is all that you still know today, then your mind is not being developed and you may soon become out dated in what you are doing. One wise man said, "I…
Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges and bitterness **W*****hen someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace forgiveness and move forward.*** Who hasn't been hurt by the actions or words of another? Perhaps a parent constantly criticized you growing up, a colleague sabotaged a project or your partner had an affair. Or maybe you've had a traumatic experience, such as being physically or emotionally abused by someone…
Think like a millionaire Your earning potential doesn’t start with your job — it begins with your mindset. So, if you want to become a millionaire, it doesn’t hurt to start thinking like one. If you want to set yourself up for success, here are four millionaire mindsets to adopt. 1. MILLIONAIRES THINK LONG TERM Wealthy people don’t only think about the present. They also consider the potential of the future. That means setting goals that might span years or decades, not just…
Honor Your Past Every second you dwell on the past you steal from your future. Every minute you spend focusing on your problems you take away from finding your solutions. And thinking about all those things that you wish never happened to you is actually blocking all the things you want to happen from entering into your life. Given the timeless truth that hold that you become what you think about all day long, it makes no sense to worry about past events or mistakes unless…
Take More Risks I’ll make you this promise: on your deathbed, in the twilight of your life, it will not be all the risks you took that you will regret the most. Rather, what will fill your heart with the greatest amount of regret and sadness will be all those risks that you did not take, all those opportunities you did not seize and all those fears you did not face. Remember that on the other side of fear lies freedom. And stay focused on the timeless success principle that…
Corruption, internal or external? Many a times we often lambast our political leaders that they are responsible for our woes as citizens and that all of them are corrupt. Meanwhile none was able to assume that corruption doesn't end on top. It reeks in everyplace and everywhere, high and low, up and down. **What is corruption?** Corruption is the act of corrupting or of impairing integrity, virtue, or moral principle; the state of being corrupted or debased; loss of purity…
True love?😂😂 Sometimes we are immersed in our own fantasies, feeling that we have found a true partner, a loving one, but is it usually the case? Can there be true or unconditional love? Love can be defined an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. A deep or abiding liking for something .A profound and caring attraction towards someone. See source http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/love Firstly, Humans have always acted on their own impulses, usually a…
The Genius Minds A genius mind is a mind possessing extraordinary intelligence or skill especially been demonstrated by a creative or original work in science, music, art etc. A genius mind possesses a extraordinary mental capacity, ability to produce extraordinary results. A genius mind is not born naturally, it's usually nurtured. Nobody is born a dullard. Been a genius is a matter of choice. To be a genius, you have to engage your mind in the right thinking. All those…
Improving your writing skills 🤗 Writing, especially on paper, is fast degenerating in our world today. Many people, including teenagers, find it easy to write short text messages on phone, chat with friends and use non-conventional abbreviations to pass across their message. Yet still the importance of writing in ink to hone your writing skills cannot be overemphasized. In this contemporary times, writing is a skill that must be developed. Why, because writing expresses the…
You can succeed without going to school 🙄 Most people have always thought that they cannot make it without certificates, but many successful people today have proved that perspective to be wrong. There are people who have certificates, but have nothing to show for them. And when a man has nothing to show for what he has, it is nothing but deception. Even without formal education, you can make it in any profession of your choice just like those who have studied it in schools…
Entrepreneur vs Investor; who is the greatest?🤑 Some days ago I stumbled on a post on Facebook,it was been said that between entrepreneur and an investor who is the greatest?. Naturally such question stirred up an argument as to which of the two is the greatest. This prompt me to bring it to readcash to hear your honest opinion on it. Meanwhile I also want to add my own view in the subject matter. First, who is an investor and who is an Entrepreneur. An Investor is a person…
Why some people keeps getting poorer?🤔 Sometimes we all wonder why some people keep getting poorer even though they have a high income. I learnt much in the book "The Richest Man in Babylon". When you are lacking financial literacy on how money works, you will work very hard and still have little to show for it at the end of the day. I will not be able to explain all what I learnt in the book, I will just buttress on a certain point which ppl do miss quite often in income…
Exercising your mind(part one) The mind is defined as the seat of thoughts and memory; the centre of consciousness that generates thoughts, feelings, ideas and perceptions, and stores knowledge and memories. Unlike the biological heart, it cannot be seen or handled physically, but it can be defined by its activities as expressed through brain or mental faculty. Humans beings are often said to be entangled in one challenges or the other in a certain point and stage in their…
Exercising your mind (Part two) Your attitude toward challenges is what determines your success or triumph over them. There are two major attitudes that people put up when they are faced with challenges. The first one is **REACTION.** Many people react to problems, but this is a negative attitude, because it does not provide solutions to the problems. Apart from leaving you confused, it leads to resentment and then to frustration. Most often, people who reacts to problems…
Processes involved in Learning (part one) All of us learn at a particular point in time. Infact we learn everyday. Learning entails personal efforts to acquire more knowledge. Today we will be talking about the processes involved in learning optimally. The process includes; RECEIVING, ADAPTATION, ADOPTING AND APPLICATION. We will be taking that one by one. 1. **RECEIVING** Before you can learn anything, you must encounter it either through hearing, observation or inquiry…
Processes in Learning (part two) We talked about two processes involved in learning yesterday which are RECEIVING AND ADAPTING. Today we would be talking on the last two which are ADOPTING AND APPLICATION. 3. ADOPTING The next stage of think(that is sieving and sorting out the information you have received for comprehension), is adoption. This is about making decisions which now leads to the integration of the acquired information into specific areas of your life to effect…
Have faith in yourself You may not have what others have, but you have something. You may not be something but that doesn't mean you are nothing. You need to have faith in yourself. It takes confidence and courage to venture into new areas of endeavors or invent new things, and that is what faith in yourself provokes. Have faith in yourself! Do not be afraid of competition if a need arise for it. When you see your colleagues moving out, you too step out. There's something…
Do I need a friend? Sometimes, You may seem lost in the waves of life. Troubles might set in and you are depressed. Some of the ways you can be soothen is through the help of a close friend. Some of us think we are strong and can pull through, but is it always true?. A close Friend is someone who is ready to be with you through your ups and downs. He is interested in your progress and he is ready to help you. But sometimes we tend to be immersed in our own world, often…
Don't give up yet, No! Sometimes we often looked depressed and unhappy if things are not going as we have expected and anticipated. Sorry but Life is like that sometimes, sometimes we are disappointed, we just want to end all things. But why must you give up when things are not rosy, you don't even know what we happen in the next minute. Pls continue to strive on and don't relent. Giving up is not always the best option. If it were, we wouldn't have see great men like…
Respect others, it doesn't reduce you. There are some categories of people who always think they are the best and that nobody can become like them. This is often so when some of this people has attained a very high position in life. They look down and disrespect others. They even mock them of their plight. Respect as they say is reciprocal, much being said, no matter how small a person is, he or she will feel bad if you disrespect or look down on him. People has always been…
Political Apathy (using Nigeria as a case study) You might have wondered why you see some people always displaying nonchalant attitude to the general affairs of the government of their state or of the nation. You have often wondered why and what term you can use to describe such act. Remind you to know that such people will not vote during elections, will not participate during census counting and so on like that. Political Apathy simply put is a situation whereby people has…
Why some people keep getting poorer(part one) No matter how some people aspire to be rich or struggle to gather wealth, they will keep on getting poorer why? Even though Government sometimes has a say in the poverty level of a country, sometimes people themselves are the real ones that are attracting poverty to themselves either consciously or unconsciously. Poverty can simply means lacking the means to satisfy our basic needs such as food, shelter and clothings. In a layman…
Why some people keep getting poorer (part two) Today we will be talking on the latter on why people becomes poorer everyday. If you are looking for this first part of the article, click here https://read.cash/@Seersam/why-some-people-keep-getting-poorerpart-one-c7d2e723 **Inconsistency in choosing career** Dealers of all trades, master in none. This act won't help someone to accumulate wealth or be rich. Inconsistent people are not always making it right. Some think any…