Some random thoughts *Few thoughts just ran into my mind either by self experience or by watcuing others. Most of us, experience this in our day-to-day life. So let me put this in writing.*

Sone people talk of worldly things, praise themselves and defame others who are below them. But if you really need **to know their true self, foe instance, just give them a bulb to fix and they will look at you helplessly. That is the fact.** The people who knows to get self praised by themselves are infact a big zero in real life. When friends unite together its a moment. Among the circle of friends you have, their might be friends who are happy and few, who are sad. **There are friends among us who keeps laughing for silly things. These peoples are the one who hides their pain behind their smile**. It is just because they wanted to be one among us and do not want to disclose their pain. **Give your child what is within your reach. Never beg and borrow for their happiness. Because when time comes they will go to find their happiness.** Please note This usually applicable to some and not everyone . Let children face the difficulties and realities of life, so they dont let you down when you need their assistance. Go for peoples who are always with you in good times and bad times. This infact all of us knows and **still we keep these friends by our side and do not leave them, until we learn our lessons from them.** **It is always good to be around peoples who are one step below you. Only from such peoples you get the respect you need .** I have seen in most rich marriages when we go as an invited guest, the host just keeps a dry grin on seeing such guests. But at the same time you go to a poor man's wedding you will be honored with much pride. Such is the difference. **Everyone has a hidden talent in them. So nevwr try to be like others, rather try to bring out the best in you ie.,your hidden talent, patiently.** You are yourself and they are thenselves. Looking into others happiness and richness will lead you into trouble and will end up with a disrurbed mind. ***One last advice, do not over think. It only leads to destruction rather than solution.***