@Rioelder 7 June 2020 more from that month

I want to Marry a man of Deen.

I WANT TO MARRY A MAN OF DEEN Yes! You want a righteous man, but do you know what that means? lt means he won't take you out on your birthday or celebrate it with you.......... He will want you to cover according to the Qur'an and Sunnah,... .. he will expect you to seek knowledge as that's what he will be upon. He won't allow you to work with men, nor will he let you upload selfies on to Instagram or these 'couple pictures' because he's a real man and he has gheerah. Have you seen any Muslim scholar like for example, mufti menk and Bilal philip or Dr Zakir and his wife pictures online before? So when you fantasize over beards and trousers above the ankles and say you want to marry a man of the sunnah, know that you must be a woman of the sunnah too, not those type of dancing scorpion with tight jeans and leggy trousers shaking the hips like serpent tails left to right. Things like this don't just come. Social media hypes up the idea of marriage through these couple selfies or even couples giving dawah and what not and you think that's marriage? Wake up. We look at the marriage of Aisha radiAllaahu anha with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam and we all love the idea of it, but are we willing to give that? Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) narrated that 3 months would go by and they would not eat a thing other that dates and water Sahih Bukhari]. Can u live with ur husband without proper food for three months? Haha u will curse him and even insult him and call him all names, many of u will even seek divorce .. you see your life yet you think u are the best women on Earth but in reality u are not even qualify to be SubhanAllaah. Stop sitting here on Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp etc dreaming about your perfect life with the perfect man, it is not reality. There's sacrifice and compromise, all for the sake of Allaah. So many sisters love saying "I'm not going to cook or clean" get married and see the reality ,These times after you are married the reality will hits you, and u will like you are watching tutorials of how to hoover the living room. Marriage is serious. You're not going to cook? So he's going to spend the day earning a living to feed you and the family and you're not going to cook or clean? U are Deluded. Then, there's the other type. Some sisters, don't want a righteous man, they don't want someone who is 'strict in Deen' rather they want someone that is more easy going. Well that's a calamity, at least the first type there's a chance that he may be able to influence you to be on the same path as him, but this lenient one will drag you down with him. He will sink with you. What a mess. Many of u women want a niggar or swags men who will be playing Justin Bieber nasheeds at your wedding and dancing. How will you attain Jannah with this person? And you're here arguing with your parents, the ones that raised you because they won't let you marry him. Solution? Correct yourself. Learn your religion. Know Allaah. Act according to the sunnah. Be a woman upon the Qur'an and Sunnah and work for Jannah with a man upon the Qur'an and Sunnah. That's how it works. The example I gave you of Aisha Radhi Allahu anha and the Prophet sallal lahu alayhi wassalam, which are the best of examples, did they have everything in life? No. Did that take away from the status Allaah granted them? No. SubhanAllaah! You're going in to a marriage and you don't even understand the three categories of Tawhid and you want Allaah's blessing? It's not a joke. This religion is beautiful and as are the people that act according to it, without taking away anything from it or adding to it. SEEKING ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE IS COMPULSORY UPON EVERY MUSLIM AND MUSLIMAH. I will put on my body wash, I want to be looking so beautiful. Please beautification is poor without fully respect and full obedient to Allah, His prophet and your husband. Never sell your head because you want to buy tail. Stop cheap excuses and learn your Deen.