Focus on what you got and not on what you didn't
**The first step you can make is focus on the positives. You cannot change what happened, only how you view it. Your past cannot be changed and it may never be forgotten, but it can always be used. No matter how bad your starting point was, there must be positive things you got, be it on the physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual or material level. You should be focused on the thing you did get, not only on what you didn’t. There are, of course, big differences in starting points, but nobody gets everything and nobody gets nothing. Try to find the things that you got, the things you’re proud of, the lucky parts of your past that you’re grateful for. Add them to your gratitude list.**
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This is to say "a bird in the hand is worth thousands in the bush". It is good to value what we have at present.
You're right Olad
Bad things are life lessons we should not forget but use to change. Only with the change, person growth it will never happen again and it's possible to improve life. 💕
Nice contribution pal, thanks for the comment.
We shouldn’t stress about the could have because it would have if it should have. Taking lesson from past we should be attentive in present. Nice article