@RektflipOnNoiseApp 14 July 2023 edited

In the beginning of a relationship/marriage men treat their women like a princess. They make her gifts, regularly go out on dates and treat her in a really nice way. But after some time things start to change. The man slowly turns lazy. He got what he wanted and got used to it. He starts taking her for granted. My mom explained to me that a relationship need constant care from BOTH parties to work out in the long term. Even when you are together for 15+ years you have to find time to do stuff together. Men have to understand that a long term relationship isn't only about these sparkly feelings of the first years, but about something way more precious. It's a deep level of trust and care. It's not possible to unlove someone you truely love. But if you start getting lazy and stop actively caring about your partner it will initiate a chain reaction. The egoistic lazy man, who is only laying on the couch all day long isn't the one the woman fell in love with... And because of that after a while she will indirectly show that to him. This chain reaction leads to more fights, less physical contact and even less time spend together. Everything slowly escalates until a relationship isn't possible anymore. Just a personal theory on why so many long term relationships fail.