@Quuqueen
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Shape of you *****I'm not malnourished, my weight is okay.***** *****I'm not a stick, I'm just thin.***** *****I'm not sick, I am fine.***** *****I love to eat, so you better stop.***** When I was a child being bullied because of my body isn't new but, I still hurt. I can hear their insults everywhere, in our community, school, home, neighborhood, everywhere. It's easy to say that, I was born with this, I must accept it but, it's not! I try to take vitamins, and to work it out. I even ate as much as I can, to the point that I almost vomit. Also, because of having this kind of body and size is I can't easily wear whatever I want. I'm having a hard time to try different outfits and styles because I am shy by just thinking of it. I know that I'm not the only one to experienced to be bullied in this way. I also know that I can't stop people to criticize us, in the way I look, so not that I'm not a kid anymore? I started to help and educate myself. **First, I keep reminding yourself that I am beautiful in my own way.** When I look in the mirror. I always tell myself how blooming I am. How beautiful I am. Whenever I see someone's beauty I used to be insecure but I know it's natural but I didn't take it negatively, instead I take that us an inspiration that I can enhance my features more.
**Second, Listen to the people who are truly admire and appreciates me.** Like what I said, we can't force people to stop on saying bad things about us. So, I ignore negative people who's keeping on saying negative things about me. It's important to be distant to negative people because they have nothing to do good to you.
**Lastly, Take every step us a success.** Like everyone said, "Trust the process." Changing your size or body type isn't easy. In between the process, we will encounter to feel "laziness", but encourage yourself that it's all for you! Changes will not coming if you're not moving.
I think about sharing this to you because it might as well help me to be better. I'm happy to share this to you because read.cash is somehow like an open diary to me. So if you ever experienced it or other forms of bullying? It never benefits them! You are you! Get up and don't let anyone bring you down!
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Sana all sexyyyy 😭😭 That's really a good thinking, instead of feeling discourage, you use that bullying as your inspiration, I too whem I was in college I am so payat, grabii, I hate to wear jeans because my legs will be seen, it's so payat, I can't wwear anything I want, I'm so matakaw naman pero di talaga ako pumayat, pero ako di naman ako na bully, normal lang dito ang mga payat sa amin kasi, yumg iba nga nagpapalayat pa talaga. Pero nong pavka graduate ko, ayon tumaba na ako, yumg cheeks ko, looks like a siopao ma 😂😂 skl hihi
I think it's because you started to work and to be in a new environment? Hahahaha I hope to gain more soon. Anyway, thank youuu😊
Wala nga akong work ,😭😵😩
Because of pandemic po ba?
Are you ilongga? your face is same you are from Bacolod or Iloilo provinces. Sorry if I guess wrong.
It's okay but my parents are from Ilocos and Quezon province 😊
Your body isn't wrong, society is. Always remember that. 😍 It's the eyes of the people that is THE PROBLEM, and not your body. Body-shaming should be cancelled and not tolerated. Cheer up! You are sexy.
Thank you so much! I appreciate it! I agree to you 🤗
You are welcome. 😍👍🏻
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Hey dear, you are really beautiful looking very beautiful girl. Your last picture I like very much. Last picture is really pretty.😘😍😍
Oh thank you, I appreciate what you said. The last picture was taken on my birthday last may.