@Pluma 1 September 2020

How to avoid pressure and Bad Influence in school? - Youth/Kabataan Pt. 7 [English/Tagalog]

***[English]*** STUDENT (Chp. 4) How to avoid pressure and Bad Influence in school? It is **normal** for **youths** that they want to be liked and accepted by others. That is exactly why it is difficult to resist the pressure and influence of others. School pressures is all about. **Smoking**, **drugs** and **sex**. You know what your schoolmate wants you to do. But you will come to the point where you want to prove to yourself that you are not a **coward**. Other reasons by youth when they are already influenced, they just want to be **liked** and **accepted** so they let others dictate to them. ***Do you want to face the pressure of others with*** ***courage?*** Here are the steps you can do. **Think carefully about what might happen.** Often you will know what could be the problem. For example you approach your friend and you see them smoking and they can possibly offer you to smoke as well. If you think about it immediately you can easily **face** them and **avoid** them. **Think for yourself.** You can ask yourself, how can I feel when I obey them. And how will my **family** feel when they find out about my bad deeds. You will always think of your **well-being** and **good perpective.** **Decide.** When you are in a situation of pressure, choose to **stand firm**, to refuse or to say that you cannot do what they say is the best thing to do. **Act or Do it.** Do those steps above with **determination**. Not only in your words.But also show that you do not like what they are doing by **avoiding** and **rejecting** them. ***It is true that there is pressure and bad influence around. But you have your own mind and stance and you can control the situation.*** ***Remember that you will not be submissive if you are in control of them.***

***[Tagalog]*** ESTUDYANTE (Chp. 4) Paano maiiwasan ang panggigipit at masamang impluwensya sa eskuwelahan? **Normal** lamang na naisin mong **magustuhan** ka at **tanggapin** ng iba.Iyan mismo ang dahilan kung bakit mahirap **paglabanan** ang pangggipit ng iba.Halimbawa,pinalaki kang alam mong mali ang **paglalasing** at **pakikipag talik** ng hindi kasal.Pero hinihikayat ka naman ng marami sa iyong kaeskuwela na subukan ang mga ito. Kabi-kabila ang panggigipit sa paaralan.**Sigarilyo**,**droga** at **sex**.Alam mong mali ang gustong ipagawa sa iyo ng kaeskuwela mo.Pero darating ka sa punto na gusto mong patunayan sa sarili mo na hindi ka **duwag**. Kadalasan nang naimpluwensyahan ay nais lamang **magustuhan** at **tanggapin** sila kaya hinayaan nilang **diktahan** sila ng iba. ***Ikaw gusto mo bang maharap ng may lakas ng loob ang panggigipit ng iba?*** **Ito ang mga hakbang na maari mong gawin.** **Pag-isipan mabuti ang pwedeng mangyari.** Kadalasan malalaman mo kung anu ang pwedeng maging problema.Halimbawa papalapit ka sa kaibigan mo at nakita mong naninigarilyo sila at posible ka nilang **alukin** na manigarilyo din.Kung maisip mo agad ito ay madali mo silang **mahaharap** at **maiiwasan**. **Mag-isip para sa sarili.** Maari mong **tanungin** ang iyong sarili, anu kayang mararamdaman ko pag naging sunod sunuran ako sa kanila.At anu kaya ang mararamdaman ng **pamilya** ko pag nalaman nila ang masama kong gawain.Lagi mong iisipin ang **kapakanan** mo at **ikakabuti**. **Magpasya.** Pag nasa situwasyon kana ng panggigipit, piliin mong mag pasya ng may **paninindigan**, ang **tumanggi** o sabihin na hindi mo magagawa ang sinasabi nila ang pinakamabuting gawin. **Kumilos o Gawin ito.** **Gawin** ang mga **naunang** hakbang ng may paninindigan.Hindi lamang sa mga **salita** mo ito sasabihin sa mga nangigipit bagkus ay **ipakita** mong ayaw mo sa mga ginagawa nila sa pamamagitan ng **pag** **iwas** at **pagtanggi**. ***Totoong nariyan lang ang panggigipit at masamang impluwensya.Pero may sarili kang isip at paninindigan at pwede mong kontrolin ang sitwasyon.*** ***Tandaan na hindi ka magiging sunod sunuran pag ikaw ang may kontrol sa kanila.*** *Read.Like.Comment.* *Subscribe@Pluma*