They're hurting too Divorce or separation is never easy and very often it can get ugly. Never mind the heartbreak of losing or leaving someone you've loved enough to envision your entire future with them; that's bad enough. Add to that a child, or possibly more than one and it's not just the two of you in the relationship suffering. It's a family. Both of you trying to navigate and balance (or possibly aiming to destroy one another out of pure spite) your children are trying…