Run for your dear life
Beware of red flags in a relationship.
Should you agree with me that in anyway, if a future marriage is gonna have fault, you will see some certain reg flags while in a relationship with your spouse. I'm not saying that if a man is gonna be hitting you when you get married, he would have started hitting you since you were dating, what I'm saying is that there will definitely be some signs he would have been showing you while dating/ courting him. (I will talk about ways to detect reg flags in a relationship in my next article)
Now to the topic of today
So now my point is even if you fail to see the reg flags while you were in a relationship with him/her and you already got married to your partner but now he/she is maltreating you especially if it already involve domestic violence, my sister, Run for your life! See let me tell you the truth, even if you are just going through some form of hardship and maltreatment that does not entails him hitting you, you can still endure such but immediately you see that he's slapping, hitting or throwing stuffs at you, please and please RUN!
Something happened some days back at my area and that prompted me into writing this article. I will be sharing below.
A celebrity woman was beaten to death by her husband and according to the Police investigations, it was discovered that her husband has been hitting her badly with belts, metal objects, wire.... since she got married 10 years back. Ten good years!😲 When the police also questioned her children, family, neighbors, friends, pastor and so on.. they all said they know about the husband violence towards the wife but they normally tell her to endure the suffering and beatings from her husband and that God hates divorce. You can imagine?
God hates divorce??
Yes we all know that it is written in the bible that divorce is wrong but to the point of death? Hell No! It's not even compulsory you divorce him but you two can start to live separately and see each other once in a while if need be. As much as God hates divorce, he also hates abuse, he hates violence, he hates murder, he hates you for not loving your wife enough to be able to beat her up. He hates all manner of evil. When it comes to violence, divorce if you have to, don't suffer in silence, speak up if you have to, don't listen to haters telling you to endure the pain and hardship because you guys are married, trust me they don't like you cause if they do, they wouldn't dig your early grave for you.
I said your early grave? Yes your early grave! You still don't know that everyday he beats you, he pushes you nearer to your grave? Yes he does! He can't be beating you everyday and you are expecting to be growing healthier. Absolutely not! You will be deteriorating in health as day goes by so please I'm begging you to leave now when you can. Do not wait till you something bad happens to you and you cannot run anymore.
MAKE THAT DECISION NOW!
Published date: 13th of April, 2022 Published time: 16:01 pm (WAT) Author: Oyinwrites