Do you really know me?
As imperfect humans, we have a tendency to make quick assumptions about people and their motives. We even judge other based on the color of their skin, the shape of their face, or the size of their body. All of us have a tendency to judge others by their outward appearance. But, the question is: **Do you really know that person? π€** It's true that we can learn *"only a little"* about the person from what we see with our eyes π. BUT.. We **cannot fully understand them** by simply looking at their outward appearance. So what's my point? *Try to look beneath the surface β at the inner person.* Well, we cannot read hearts, so we will never understand others. But we can do our best. **1. Try to listen π** To avoid jumping into wrong conclusions about people, try to know their background and situation (everything s/he had been through). It can helps us to "hear the facts" before giving counsel. **2. Get to know them** Maybe sometimes we concluded that a person who seems unfriendly is actually shy, or a person whom you thought to be materialistic is hospitable. See.. Rather than judge another person's actions, do your best to understand how s/he feels. Put yourself in his/her situation. So the lesson is **when dealing with one another, may we be determined to listen and learn.**
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This kind of person is not a person who can understand you. He is selfish him self as well. Trying to judge someone for no reason. He may criticize your work but not your personality cause he didn't know you at all. We are all anonymous in this platform. Giving is not something that you can force it will came from the hear. I wonder how selfish he was too ?
She's already 1 month on this platform, but looks like she's not a good example for the newbies.
Sorry for any inconveniences it might have caused you just relax and stay calm
She can do what she want. But atleast try to consider other feelings.
That was why I said sorry . I know how you feel about it but maybe she didn't know it could go that way and also be ready for critics when you are exposed to a lot of people , take it normal and move on
I've also been criticized by her many times. Both good and bad criticisms though. I respect her opinions too. But I think calling someone's article *cheap* just because you don't agree with it is not right. It can discourage especially newbie authors. We can always express our opinions here but with respect. PS. Kalma sis. Keri yan. Sa mga ganyang comment tayo mas matututo at lalawak ang ating pag-unawa. π
GNyan tlaga Yan sya haha basher
oo sa akin din kaya. halos lahat ng sabihin ko kokontrahin niya. haha. pero di din ako nagaagree masyado sa mag kontra niya. minsan inilalaban ko din yung part ko ahaha...
Napost ko dinaya dati binura kolang , nung bago Lang ako , pero minsan Naman my point ung sinasabi nya pero ngaun msyado na e
oo minsan may point naman ngayon parang nonsense na minsan parang malayo na yung narating ng pagiisip niya ganun. tulad nung sabi ko dun sa post ko yata or article na kung wala siyang maisip na topic eh mag hanap sa siya google ng ideas. Ayun kinontra niya kesho daw pag nag google at kumuha ng ideas hindi na daw creative writing tsaka dapat free writing lang daw ganun. haha. kinontra ko din sabi ko maghahanap lang naman ng idea di naman kokopyahin yung content. madami kasi sa atin minsan nap[apaisip ka na, ano kaya magandang isulat ngayon na tungkol sa ganito sa ganyan. edi mag search ka. hanap ka ng topic ideas tungkol sa gnito tungkol sa ganyan tapos mula sa topic na yun gumawa ka ng sarili mong article. wala nama masama dun dba haha. pinabayaan ko na lang din. balakajan kako nalang sa isip ko. haha
Hahaha. Kakatawa ka Jdine. Wag na kayo magcomment about sakanya. Baka pagmulan ng gulo. Idelete ko nalang din kaya tong article? π€ Sa palagay nyo haha
hoy di pwede! kasi yung mga nakuha mong points dito, idededuct sa points mo haha
Ayy ganun. Nagmamalinis pa ee noh π€
hahaha ok lang yan. wag mo nalang masyadong dibdibin alam mo na.. pag nagpost tayo dito anjan na lahat ng klase ng tao na makakabasa ng articles natin. dapat handa tayo sa hamon ng buhay.. wahaha
Okay okay. First time ko kasi makaencouter ng ganun. Well, knowing na ganun pala talaga sya kahit sainyo. Ako nalang mag aadjust. Kakahiya naman sakanya. Joke βοΈ
haha oo ganun talaga siya beshy. Don't let it get into your mind. madami pang ganyan. may isa pa pero secret nalang ahahaha
Hahaha.. Parang gusto din imention ahh π buti nalang marunong ka sa buhay. π
hahahaha balik tayo duns a nangopya ng article mo? gawin ko din kaya bisaya, ilocano at iba pa ang articles mo? haha para multi dialect and language ang peg..
Haha.. Sige subukan mo. Mamemention ka din sa ibang article nyan π
Hindi ka nag iisa sis, marami tayo haha
Salamat ahh π
Hindi ka nag iisa sis, marami tayo haha
Sakin din hahaha minsan nagsasagutan kami sa comments nyan, tapos minsan di ko na lang pinapansin masyadong malawak pag.iisip nyan sa sobrang lawak wala na point minsan Hahahaha may pinagdaanan ata yan, base lang sa mga articles nya and minsan sa comments nya sa articles ko..
hahaha kaloka ka. kami din minsan eh. haha hayaan niyo na positive vibes lang tayo dito para masaya ang platform. pabayaan niyo na mga hindi mga ibang tao. as long we know we don't harm or hurt anyone go lang ng go..
Hey hey chill.. I understand your feelings towards her as she must've hurt your feelings BUT , let's not go shame others just because we were hurt and was embarrassed by them. She hurt you, you're mad or sad, that's fine. your feelings are valid. just let it pass. Don't mind her. If you're hurt with her comment reply your thoughts to that comment. Let's not put her on articles. She didn't do something illegal or anything. She must've hurt your feelings and must've insulted you but as what we say in tagalog, "ang isang pagkakamali hindi matatama ng isa pang pagkakamali" .. I feel for you, really, that comment is really hurting. But I just don't see the need for her to be posted.Actually, she has been contradicting some of my articles or some of my thoughts in my articles since I got here. (though she's the first person to upvote me I guess) But she keeps on contradicting some of the things I say. She even screenshot her comment in my article and put it in one of her articles to make a point. And it felt bad for me. But she didn't copied anything in my article so I was fine with it. My point is, let's be mature even if other's cant. BUt then I'm thinking this might be okay. But then I think again, maybe it's a bit too harsh but she was harsh too.. urghhhh hahaha... I don't know this is your post, it's your thoughts, who am i to judge that. haha. maybe I'm just worried that this platform will begin to be have more resenting posts than those helpful ones. ang gulo ng pag-iisip ko, noh? haha
Okay I got you. I understand your point. Thanks for saying that. I'll just edit my post. π
ayyy. don't do that dahil lang sinabi ko. It's your decision. Article mo yan eh tsaka feelings mo yan. Magkaiba lang siguro tayo. :) pero what she called your aticle is sooo below the belt ha... that's not nice.
Di.. Pinag iisipan ko na din talaga kanina kung ipopost ko to. Actually wala ako planong imention sya, kaya lang nagawa ko e. Pero.. Sorry. Nadala lang ako ng emosyon ko.
oo we understand you naman. ok lang yan. may times talaga na madadala tayo ng emosyon natin. That's what makes us human.
Just ignore her bro , your articles are good ,she's harsh sometimes ,just ignore her , readcash don't like post like this
Okay I understand it now. Sorry.
Just calm and relax sis. Everything will be okay. Just ignore it and start to smileππ
π Thank you
She's just like that, I often got critics from her both negative and positive she's really active in doing that, but despite that I didn't mind. There are people really like that, like thier opinions sometimes out of the line ππ but still I'm her subscriber lol. Maybe it's just her way of expressing herself, things she can't do in her real life. She even commented one of my articles saying "No offense but this is not an article this is mere questioning about what's happening now" but I just shrugged it off and didn't reply to her comments HAHHAHAHA! In this kind of environment we should learn how to accept critics from others, learn the art of deadma. But just that sometimes she's crossing the line. Sorry for the word miss if you read this πππ Peace be with us all.!!! And to you Myt.24 just don't mind her, your article is not cheap, everyone is not doing cheap just that we have different opinions. We are not entitled to criticize someone's articles below the belt after all we are not in a competition.
Pambihira. Idelete ko nalang kaya tong article. Parang nakakapasama talaga e haha.. Sorry na. Di ko naman talaga intensyon na pahiyain sya. Tinuturuan ko lang sana ng lesson, ee kaso di pala ko teacher π€
Hahahahhahaa remove mo na lang yung ss nang comments nya para di nya alams at remove tag jusko baka e banned ka ni read cash hahahhaa. Hayaan mo na yan may pinagdadaanan ata yan πππ
Pwede pwede. Haha, nu bayan π€¦ββοΈ kayo pala makakadelete nyang comments nyo.. Di ako haha
haha walang delete delete laban ng pilipinas toh parang abs cbn lang yan ahaha charot!
Pinaglalaban ko nga.. Kaso di naman ako pinaglalaban π©
hala siya. hahaha yun pa din ba topic natin or parang iba na??? haha
Ayy hala.. Ano ba topic π€
Na edit ko na yung comments ko wala na name nya π walang delete delete friend edit edit na Lang, laban lang alaxan hahahhaha
Hahaha.. Ewan ko sainyo π salamat ahh haha
haha natawa naman ako sa "may ponagdadaanan" haha bad kayo hahaha
Meron tlaga besh, base lang sa mga articles nya at minsan na rin nag comments yan sa articles ko, I think she's abandoned by her dad and mama nya mdjo ma attitude din kaya. Ganyan sya parang bully sa iba kasi ganon pinagdadaanan nya. Venting out her emotions outside her real life
I don't know. I don't want to go that deep into her life. balasyajan
Nabasa ko pa nga lang tong new article nya. So totoo yun? Kung ganun talaga pinagdadaanan nya. Then nakakaawa din pala. Kaya sya ganyan kasi yun ang environment na kinalakhan nya.
Some people were like that. Just ignore them or prove them that you'll be better. Goodvibes lang tayo dito. Spread Love π Always choose to be kind π
Thanks Yen π
Nice writing.
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