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I'm Chubby and Ugly
Many of us got conscious of ourselves. Always see ourselves in the mirror... Comparing ourselves to others. There comes a time that we really do a lot of stuff to change ourselves. To be more beautiful, slim, and attractive. BUT THE QUESTION IS... **ARE WE REALLY THAT UGLY??** A lot of people compare themselves to an actress or to a model. Some people copied their idols... Buy everything that they can to be that person. When you view yourself in a mirror, what can you see? Maybe you're thinking that you're too ugly, that you need some change to be stunning. Actually, what you see in the mirror is not what other people see. ****We may think that we are ugly, but other people appreciate our beauty. We may think that we are fat or chubby, but other people view it as normal weight and size.**** So what's my point? **STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. STOP THINKING NEGATIVE ABOUT YOURSELF. TRY TO BE MORE CONFIDENT.** **AND REMEMBER THIS...** physical appearance is less important than what you are as a person. **Develop your good qualities, and your appearance is just a bonus. 😉**
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True wordings..everyone has its own role to play in this earth...then why to compare with others..
Yes. So true. Thanks for that comment. ❤
Everyone is beautiful in his own way..dunno why people comparing ownself with others!!!if u dnt love yourself then why others do??so everyone should valued ownself what he/she have.
So real. If we can't adore ourselves, how come others will do. ❤ I love that point of view @kFatema. ✨
You are chubby and beautiful dear💓
😂 Thank you.
Comparing yourself to others is like torturing, we should avoid it if we want to live in a harmonious way because there are people who are really born stunning but that doesn't give them the title to be superior to anyone. As for being chubby or fat, it's just a matter of self-discipline if you are not comfortable with your size do some healthy diet and exercise it can also boost your self-confidence and release toxins from stress. But if you are comfortable and happy with your size then be it, don't live by the expectations of the society live on your way the runway is yours.
There are people who are beautiful... But still not that confident. So it really depends on boosting your self-esteem. Also, there are people who got easily affected by what other people say, but people say negative as always. 😂 So it's us who need to adjust. 😅 And face them with confidence. ❤
Exactly it all depends on us how we react to people's opinions. We should never be bothered by them, some people bully me because of my flat nose but I don't mind them, I just said "I am beautiful without pointed nose how much more if I have, baka maging dyosa na ako" 😂😂 Pero char lang naman para pakita lang di ako affected hahahahhahahaha
Hahaha. That's what self-confidence does. 😂 It's not "I'm beautiful but I have a flat nose" But it's "I have a flat nose but I'm beautiful." See the difference? 😅
Yeah, the difference is deep 😆 It's just a matter of confidence and accepting yourself, because if you can't accept yourself who else will? Acceptance is the key before confidence.
So true. So it's a "you first, before us". Just don't compare. That's the biggest reason for low self-esteem.
Yeah comparison brings no good at all.
The first person who should accept you is nothing but yourself. We are beautiful in own little way. I am not that beautiful , but always tell myself that I am haha. I always tell my friend " kahit na pango ako, maganda ako hahaha " and regarding that chubby or fat, its a new trend today diba. Chubby is the new sexy. Its just a matter of comfidence on how you handle it. I havr friends who were fat and chubby , they are beautiful and they are proud of their body.
Yeah. So it really depends on us. How we handle ourselves. 😂 Some people are not just contented on their looks, thinking that they are still ugly... Expecting to be beautiful like an actor or a model. 😂
I don't know if this is you on the photo you show on your account. If yes, it's easy for you to say so. If no, why do you not show the real you? It's not only about being chubby or ugly it's about how we are raised, accepted by the community, the herd of sheep. Outsiders are never accepted and there are many reasons for that. In some culture, chubby is attractive in others it's seen as being overweight, not taking good care of your health. Ugly is in principle everyone who doesn't have the same looks as we have, the herd has. It's in our DNA. Next to that certain looks are at a certain point labelled as better. A white skin was (stay out of the sun even if it causes a huge lack of vitamin D), small feet, round eyes, long neck and the skinny types, certain hair color, straight hair, etc etc. What we look like, should look like is part of fashion just like the clothes, shoes we wear. You can ignore it because old fashion comes back and many do not care. In the end beauty comes by the energy that surrounds a person. Positivity and humor is a huge part of it. 👍
So true @wakeupkitty. Honestly, that's my true face in the picture... But I think, I'd rather change it. Sadly, people are not accepted based on their looks... That's why... They got the low-esteem. But this article is just a motivation to all who experienced that discrimination.
Many people have to do with an asymmetric face, a terrible skin, skin diseases, a big nose, badhair or hardly any, bones and joint issues, it's hard to be happy if people look down on you especially if you know you are different and there's no doctor able to fix that. Indeed the only thing you can try is accept it and... Focus on the positive things. Being chubby is not the worst that can happen to you or per se unattractive. It all depends on taste. 💕
Yes, you got it. It is just being contented on what you have. People can always say what they observe and see. So it's you who need to react. Just be positive on how you react, and view it as a favorable thing, whatever happens.
You're not chubby. You're just siopao and being siopao makes you beautiful 💕
Lol. 😂 Chubby cheeks indeed. 😂 Thanks for appreciating. 😅
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Aw okay... 👍 Noted. Thanks for mentioning. ❤