@MicroReylatos 18 October 2022 more from that month

Things happen because it's appropriate. Many times in life we ​​ask ourselves, why does this have to happen to me? Or why does that woman/man have to be going through such a difficult situation? Or maybe why "god" always takes good people away? And here we enter into a topic in which people make a lot of religious propaganda , because if "good or positive situations, things that benefit you" happen to you, then GOD IS GOOD BECAUSE HE HELP YOU, but if the opposite happens, GOD ONLY PROVIDES YOU WITH TESTS, PUNISHES YOU BECAUSE YOU BEHAVED BADLY :( The truth is quite ridiculous to think that way. Things happen in people's lives simply because we need to learn new skills or improve the ones we already have, that we train ourselves on how to overcome each stage or episode that comes our way. I understand that all these situations produce anxiety, anguish and mortification in most people, and over the years I have learned that the way to deal with this is assuming that just as the situation arrives, we must go through it, because running away does not it is a way out, rather we hurt ourselves if we escape from that situation, if we postpone it or leave it to "resolve later", we are simply lengthening the duration of it, we are hurting ourselves. So starting from this point, the best thing is that we try to use all the tools that we have at hand to overcome that situation, whatever it may be, even if it is the death of someone very dear to us, a natural disaster that you are going through (earthquake, flood, fire, whatever), a street fight, being the victim of an assault, or witnessing something unpleasant, each and every one of the situations represents an opportunity to put our skills to the test; even the mere fact of reading this content represents a challenge, an intellectual exercise to assimilate everything I am telling you. We are constantly developing and we must use this in our favor. Let's be smart. The destiny and path we take in our life depends on the decisions we make and the way we choose to handle each of the situations that come our way, please always keep that in mind. They will always be able to go through the situation, even if they do not even have the necessary tools, they will learn how to acquire them, and sooner or later they will end up overcoming that moment of their lives, that difficulty, that obstacle that at the moment will seem unfair, difficult and complicated, but with my 55 years on top, I guarantee that they will manage to go through it and the way in which they do it will be in the terms of each one, because each of us is the one who chooses what attitude to assume before each episode of our lives. In short: don't expect "god" to solve things for you, better seek to solve them yourself