@Methion 5 April 2022

Which Is Most Painful And Hurtful To You?? **Broke-shamed** This one is actually very common and the most painful part of it is that it's done a lot by friends. This a situation whereby someone who may or may not be able to afford a certain thing mock your inability to acquire it. It's something that can be done directly or indirectly. A rival will most likely do it directly without hiding the intent to hurt or shame you, but friends will do it in the name of fun, cruise or having a good laugh. The problem with this is that it can have a profound psychological effect on people who are really struggling or are depressed. It's a very wrong thing to do, but these days, people assume friendship removes all boundaries which again is a very wrong assumption. The fact that we're friends doesn't make it cool to mock my situation or financial standing. **Rejection** Have you ever had cause to believe all your hopes and prayers are about to be answered, like your moment is about upon us, that the breakthrough you've been waiting for is just right there and all of a sudden, you realise that you're not 'good enough'. This for some is the ultimate pain. Putting all your hopes on a particular opportunity, whether be it with a job, a woman, a man or whatever, only to discovered that you're not 'good enough' according to one or two stuffs. Especially when they are quiet little or insignificant. This doesn't just cause pain, it can leave a lasting feeling of inadequacy and low self esteem. **Disrespect And Bullying** In most organizations, it's common practice to see superior treat other worker with little to no respect. Most try to 'tolerate' the situation cos it's what it is. But imagine the reverse was the case; that a lower ranked staff in the organization is showing disrespect or any form of bullying. What would you do? How would you feel? The pain can be immense. This is something that happens in everyday life as well. **Incurable Disease** Just the thought of it is sending shivers down my spine. I just can't quantify how dejected and damaged I'd be if I were me. At times in such situation, some people will just choose die rather having to live with an incurable disease. Such news can bring a lot of person down, so much so that they stop living all together. This is probably what I'll do; I'll have them remove their pipes and all, I'll go home and shut myself in and cry in misery. Thank Good God for not allowing such to be my lot. **Death From Lack Of Funds** This is capable of breaking the spirit of even the best, strongest and cruelest of us. The hurt and pain from having to watch a love one (Friend, family), pass away just because you can't afford or help to afford drugs or treatment from him/her can leave you so mentally wacked, that you'll need the service of a professional therapist. You will always blame yourself for it and see a monster that you're not. **Murder** Oh my! my! I'm Stoll trying to figure this one out. Will I feel any pain for murdering somebody accidentally? Yes, I'll. Even though it's accidental, I'll never stop feeling guilty and seeing it as my fault. I don't even know if the pain in this scenario will be same and/or more as the scenario where you lose a loved one to drugs. What if the murder isn't an accident? I think I'll be able to live with that, relative to the above. This is because, I'll have something to argue with when my conscience starts punishing me for killing another human being. Either way, I have no desire to test this. **Having listed such scenario, which do you think would hurt you the most? Tell me about it in the comment section** *****Thanks for always stopping by and reading my articles. I really appreciate you guys. Thanks a lot.*****