@Marques 4 June 2022 edited

Self introspection and mutual forgiveness are the best solutions in a friendly relationship Doing self-introspection will make our friendships better and will make us have many friends, when we have many friends, life will automatically be very fun because we can play at our friends' houses as we please. Forgiving someone is not easy because most people find it difficult to forgive others, but people who have high self-introspection will actually start to apologize, in the sense that it is not he who is at fault, only me, he wants his friendship to be okay. , In the end, he started to apologize first.

Dear friends, today I will discuss a topic entitled "Self-introspection and mutual forgiveness are the best solutions in friendly relations. Through self-introspection, we will be able to find the meaning of each goal that we have and will further confirm whether the goals we have set previously have been directed or not. Because we often see other people's mistakes and even criticize other people's mistakes, are we aware that we make mistakes too often, through introspection we can understand our weaknesses and strengths. It feels better to comment on people huh.. many commentators or not to mention many observers who respond to other people without knowing that people who comment on other people are not necessarily in a better condition than the person being commented on. Self introspection is also needed in looking deep within yourself, asking yourself directly whether you have succeeded in achieving what you want, whether your goal has been achieved, whether you are on the right track. with self-introspection we can find out if we have done something, make changes for the better, realize that our actions are right. Sometimes we fall into the trap of thinking "Don't worry, it will work itself out" / "I'm fine now" without ever really wanting to think about what's really going on inside you. With self-introspection you can evaluate, our words, our dreams, our attitudes, our actions, and our thoughts towards a better direction, and these things have the power to create better conditions in your life. What you say, think and do. That's what you get in your life. Don't ever hesitate to introspect yourself, because you really need it, with introspection yourself like standing in a mirror, looking at yourself, and try to be honest when you do introspection yourself, so you get a true picture of yourself. you. Keep in mind that your thoughts will attract more experiences to justify what you believe, not what you have the concept of self-introspection as a controller in your life. The best self-introspection is the most honest. Regarding technique, the point is that we must first know what is right, then we can recognize what is wrong, then how to do self-introspection. Understand personal weaknesses. Self-introspection begins with humility. Realizing that we are not free from mistakes or mistakes. Arrogant people don't want to do self-evaluations because they always feel right. As a result there is no personal growth, because only blame other people, situations or even God. Understanding the tipping point means having an attitude of alertness and anticipation. The ability to take care of oneself and be aware of situations before fatal things happen. Introspection agenda. When and what in us need to be evaluated? First, before doing anything. There is a saying that people who want to build a tower will definitely take into account the budget. Introspection in terms of the initial steps that must be taken, how the plans and abilities or resources we have. Second, while doing something. Introspection is needed to prevent it from going any further if it turns out to be a mistake. The things that need to be evaluated are the methods and methods, assumptions and views, knowledge and expertise used. The process of anticipating critical points and corrective steps if needed. Third, after doing something. Experience is always the best teacher. Self-introspection is useful for corrective action or recovery if something goes wrong. Or be a lesson so that later we do not repeat the same mistakes. The process towards a better person. Self-reflection does not mean being judgmental or self-blaming. But a form of generosity to improve and develop oneself. From introspection of ourselves, which makes it easy for us to forgive others, if we are easy to forgive others, it is certain that our friendship will be fine, when our friendship is good, then we will get a happy life because we have many friend. Today's article is an article that I wrote based on observations of my daily life, hopefully I will continue to be enthusiastic in writing my next articles. Thank you dear readers who have read my article, I hope you will stay loyal to my article. See you in my next articles,,,,