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@Maria894
how true & beautiful?? Treat yourself the way you treat others. Look to your backstory to understand your current plot. sympathize with yourself. recognize your flaws & appreciate your strengths. defend yourself, cheer yourself on. look for hidden potential in every relationship you make
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Why So many people have so much to say, but never have they ever tried to know why someone did something.They want to drop in their opinions when decisions have been made, but what led to that decision no one really cares. some people feel like they are entitled to have a say in our life, when really they don’t, they have not been present in our life, why is it that just when something important happens they tend to drop in their unnecessary & hurtful opinions? honestly
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Admit I think one of the most humbling lines to live by is that 'if someone tells you you hurt them, you don't get to decide you didn't.' it's not a difficult thing to take a few steps back & admit that your actions have caused harm to someone you care about.
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Let them go Focus on who loves you, focus on who cares. Focus on the **REAL lovers.** Your parents love you, they cry for you. They take care of you and one day a careless person comes into your life and they make you wish you were dead. How unfair is that? Why do you focus on the ones who don't love you when you have so many people in your life who do love you a lot. Please think about your parents whenever you feel suicidal or whenever you feel like giving up. They have dedicated their lives to you. They can't live without you, when you have such pure love around you, why do you want fake people and their love? Let them go.
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Some people can be so quiet about their pain There are so many who are so quiet about their pain, no one would ever be able to tell they are suffering. so to you who silently suffers. I pray the pain in your heart eases & you find the strength to keep going
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Don't know I don't know what it is but I don't find myself vibing with a lot of people these days. I realized that I've slowly and subconsciously filtered people out of my life who bring nothing to it. I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. If we don't vibrate on the same frequency there's just no reason for us to waste our time. I'd rather have no one and wait for substance than to not feel someone and fake the funk.
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Stay brave I used to think that being brave is being able to ignore the pain or letting go of something completely. I was wrong, being brave is facing things and moving forward despite feeling the pain. The pain stays there, less or more that depends, but it stays. Being brave means breaking down, crying, getting anxious but still facing the problem knowing you will be okay. Being brave is crying for two hours and then wiping your own tears and standing up for yourself. Not crying, not feeling the pain is NOT being brave. Being brave means letting yourself feel what you're feeling and also telling yourself that you will be fine. Sometimes you have to face your nightmares with your eyes open and realize you can do nothing about it except let the time lessen the pain. I have been told many times that time is the biggest healer and it's true if you concentrate on moving on and getting better. I have learnt that sometimes just staying alive and breathing means being brave. Bad things happen in life and you have to stay brave and not let it overcome your life, you have to keep moving forward, that's the key. It might be tough to understand but I'm sure some of you will relate to what I'm saying here! If you're understanding this, I pray that you heal and feel happy soon, till then... Stay brave❣️
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Temporary pain Stop watching life in short terms, temporary pain & pleasures will be gone one day. Run in the long race and see the bigger picture. Make sure you're not wasting your time for temporary pleasures & make sure you're ready to face temporary pain to gain something better in future.
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Forgiveness You find peace in forgiveness not revenge. Only letting go can heal you. Keeping grudges and hatred inside just grows like a poison in your mind and body. Eventually you get bitter instead of getting better. Learn, forgive and let go.
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Be Yourself Push yourself to be happier & successful because no one else is going to do it for you. Only you are responsible for your happiness & well being in life. Stop waiting for a miracle, magic or a hero to come & save you because only YOU can save yourself. Be your own hero & magic.
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Not everyone Not everyone you love will stay, Not everyone you trust will be loyal
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Revenge Want to take the deadliest revenge? Work hard on yourself, get so successful, ***be so happy that their existence doesn't matter anymore.*** Real revenge is when you don't even think about them anymore & you're completely focused on your own life & goals. **Live the life you DESERVE.**
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Be kind to yourself One of the biggest mistakes you can make is assuming others have a good heart like yours. Sometimes you don't see what you should see infact you see what you WANT to see, that's where you go wrong and pay a high price for it. If someone is repeatedly hurting you by their actions then it's definitely not a mistake even if your heart wants to believe so. Sometimes you keep giving other's new chances because you keep believing that they didn't do it on purpose, it's good to have a good heart but sometimes you need to know when to stop being nice or you pay for it. Being kind is something else and being a fool is something else, their a blur line in between these two and if you forget the boundaries, you start destroying yourself. **Don't break your own heart, be kind to yourself and stop letting someone play with your heart.**
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Strong It is true, you don't really know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. you realize how brave & patient you are. You realize that you can pull through all the obstacles you would've never imagined encountering.. **You are strong, have always been & will always be**
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Let go! Stop holding on to something that's not in your life anymore. You have to be brave enough to let it go and make space for new things in your life. Learning how to let go of something is very hard but it's very important. **What happened, happened.** **Now it's time to move on. It's time to let go.** You have to learn how to live in the present moment. Living in the past is only painful and foolish. *Deleting old memories* is the first step towards healing, you don't always have to hold on to something, sometimes you need the courage of 2 seconds to press the "delete all" button and it's all gone. You'll feel lighter, you will feel better. It's time you finally learn how to focus on yourself, you have already wasted so much time and efforts on toxic people and toxic relationships. Not anymore. **You have to move forward now.** **You have to give your 100% to yourself.** You have to walk on this new path and heal yourself. It's time to let go. Let go of all the memories, keep the good ones in your heart, learn the lesson and start walking. It will be lonely, it will be painful but not forever. Once you will start healing, you will be so much better and you will be thankful for this day. **Let go.**
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Move On ***Sometimes, you let go of people without even noticing.*** You stop thinking about them every day. You stop waiting for them to reply to you. You stop allowing them to take up so much space in your life. You move on. You go about your day without worrying about them. You stop expecting them to come back with an apology. You accept that they are no longer a part of your life. ***You just let them go, as simple as that.***
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Self Respect If you ever get the choice, choose your self respect over choosing any relation or any commitments. Put first and the right ones would still stay. **The right ones would respect your boundaries.**
@Maria894
Never again.. I have learnt to say NO to every person who wants that the world should only revolve around them. Some people are self centered that all they want is value, efforts, consistency but when we expect them to treat us the same, they will either have made-up reasons or they will start acting victim. The best way to deal with such narcissists is to say them a clear **NO** when they are demanding anything from you but are not willing to put up any efforts for you in return. **Being selfish for you isn't selfish.**
