Anggulo ng relasyon
Aling bahagi ang nais mong tuklasin? Sa solong o sa maling relasyon? Kailangan ba ito o isang kahilingan upang mabuhay sa mundong ito? Mayroong maraming debate batay sa mga paksang ito, sinabi ng isang tao na ang pagiging single ay mabuti kaysa sa isang relasyon na puno ng responsibilidad sa kabilang panig. Sa ibang palagay sinabi nila na mas mabuti na magkaroon ng isang relasyon upang maramdaman mo ang pagmamahal na kasama ang iyong kasuyo. Ang pagmamahal sa iba at sa iyong sarili ay magpapasaya at kontento sa kung anong mayroon ka.
Hindi mahalaga kung gaano kahalaga ang dalawang paksang ito, ang pinakamagandang bagay ay buhay pa rin tayo. Sinabi ng isang tao na ang pagiging walang asawa ay hindi isang krimen, pagpipilian lamang na maging malaya mula sa anumang mga obligasyon sa kanilang mga kasosyo. Gawin kung ano ang gusto mo nang walang pahintulot ng iyong gf / bf dahil ang iyong solong. Nagagawa mong magbigay ng sapat na oras para sa iyong sarili at masiyahan sa mga bagay sa buhay. Ang pinakamahalaga ay walang sinuman ang maaaring subaybayan at ma-access ang iyong mga aktibidad sa social media. Kung ang iyong solong mayroon kang mas maraming pera sa iyong bulsa, Alam nating lahat na ang pagkakaroon ng isang relasyon ay napakamahal. Maraming mga perks kapag ikaw ay walang asawa, hindi mo kailangang mag-isip ng kahit sino maliban sa iyong sarili. Ang isa pang bonus para sa pagiging walang asawa ay ang kakayahang makipag-date sa ibang mga batang babae o lalaki at maaari mong makilala ang ibang mga tao.
Habang kung ang isang tao ay nasa relasyon, Nakakatuwa dahil madarama mo ang pagkakaroon ng pag-ibig, tinatangkilik ang sandali na magkasama kayo, pumupunta sa mall upang manuod ng mga pelikula habang magkahawak. Parang ang sweet diba? Ngunit hindi lahat ng oras sa relasyon ay laging masaya. May mga oras na may mga pakikibakang kailangan harapin. Normal sa isang relasyon ang harapin ang mga problema ngunit paano kung nakikipag-ugnay tayo sa isang maling relasyon? Kung ikaw ay nasa isang maling relasyon, kailangan mong magdasal ng maraming upang gawin ito sa tamang paraan. Walang magagandang bagay sa isang maling relasyon, una sa lahat ay nasasayang mo lang ang iyong oras sa maling tao. Sa isang maling relasyon laging may isang labanan sa pagitan mo at ng iyong kapareha. Maaari mong pakiramdam ang pagkakaroon ng sobrang saiyan at maririnig mo ang tunog ng machine gun.
Hindi mahalaga kung ikaw ay walang asawa o nasa isang relasyon, mahalagang mahalin mo muna ang iyong sarili at sumisid ng oras upang masiyahan sa mga bagay sa buhay kahit na ang iyong nasa isang relasyon.
Sa pagtatapos nagagawa nating magkaroon ng isang relasyon sa ating mga mahal sa buhay at sa ating sarili upang makakuha ng kaligayahan sa buhay. Bagaman mayroong magkakaibang pananaw sa pagitan ng dalawang paksang ito, mahalagang pakitungo muna sa iyong sarili. Sa mundong ito dapat nating tamasahin ang buhay habang bata pa tayo dahil makakamit natin ang perpektong ugnayan sa hinaharap.
Purity of mankind
This will be my last article to publish, since no one is interested to read my articles, maybe my articles is pure trash thats why readers just ignored, I know it to myself since I'm not good in English and my sentences and grammars are totally trash but this is my last article, I'm down right now maybe I can write if I got inspiration again :)
Do you believe that humans was born pure? Does environment change the behavior of a person? Are you aware that everyone of us got sins? In philosophy it states that humans was born without sin, they are pure and innocent when they open their, eyes and see the world. So how does person becomes evil and commit sin? One of the best answer in that question is because of its environment, if a person was born is a abusive parents, he or she can adapt its environment, maybe they will adapt that violence is the solution in all problems, another factor is if a person was born in state of poverty, they will force to steal food or money so that they can survive.
In short, if you born in an environment that full of wickedness and suffering, you will force to do bad things. There are people who commit sin but its not their fault since they born in a world that full of suffering, they just force by nature to do sin, but there are people that commit sins but they always regret it and asking for forgiveness of God, as Bible says God always forgiving. In reciprocate, there are people that commit crimes just to earn money or steal money, they are totally evil that don't deserve forgiveness. As always money makes a person evil, the devil is convincing a person to commit crimes so that they can get its soul to hell. Despite of our sins, God is always forgiving us, our beloved Jesus Christ sacrifice himself to cleanse our sins.
Humans is just humans, there is a good and evil, those good people are doing everything to surpass evilness in this world and replace it with happiness and laughters. In the end no matter how evil you are there is still a purity in your heart, even if you are the most evil human in the world, if someone touches your heart, you will never escape it and you will do a thing to help or follow your heart. As an individual even if we commit sins we must regret it and replace it by doing good things.
Who are you?
Do you really understand this question well? At what rate do you know yourself well? Is there instances that you ask this question in yourself? Usually when we are at school our teacher are asking who are you or maybe a stranger will ask this one and we just answer our name right? But as we grow older the question who are you becomes a puzzle to us, were starting to ask who really am I?, if I'm going to ask you a question, Do you know yourself well? maybe your answer will be different from the answer from your childhood.
So there is a factor affecting the answer of a person? the answer is Yes, from our childhood as the days,months and years past we are adapting in our environment and we realized the reality in that way the way we think becomes differ, did you get it? As long as the day goes by and you living in this world, there is something new added to yourself and it will change your perspective, for an example your 20 year old now and im going to ask you Who are you? then your answer will be based on your perspective, for an instance you will say that I'm a person who enjoys everything in life, but 5 years will past do you think your answer will still the same? Did you get it now, Who are you is not a simple question that is answerable by your name but as we grow older that question becomes deeper and we dig inside our mind to find the answer to that question.
It really proves that in our childhood, the way we think is not deep and were just answering based on what we feel and answer that question in a simple answer and that is our name. If your truly matured enough and you know yourself well that type of question is easy to answer. But I believe that there's no person in this world that can perfectly answer that question since there are still part of us we didn't discover, even elders are still confused at the question Who are you? since they don't know there real self, also teenager or adults are still finding the piece of them to completely answer this question.
5 Ways to Happiness
First things first this is my opinion and based on my knowledge on how to feel happiness despite of cruelty of this world. There are lots of problems we see and hear everyday, from Political, social and other problems that the world facing, it must not stop you to feel happiness but we must remove MONEY from choices sins money makes people evil. There 5 steps to feel happiness
1. Enjoy Life
Do you believe in quote saying that enjoy the life to its fullest, to become happy you must remove all the negativities in life replace it with joy and laughter. Having more friends will make you happy, especially in times of bonding and having a food trip, thats the best thing that makes you happy. But remember that you must enjoy the life in a good way, you must prioritize your studies or job since it is more important than enjoyment.
2. Have faith in God
Eventhough your experiencing too much problems , you can feel happiness if you have faith in God, he will remove all the pain that you have and replace it with happiness, telling him your problems will make you feel comfortable, though you can't see him, in your heart you know he is existing and listening to your words. The life is full of negativities but God is always there to help us cope up in our problems. Sometimes God sending a person that will comfort you and make you happy again that's why you must trust God since he has plan for you.
3.Helping others
Maybe people didn't know the feeling of helping a person or a community, but its really satisfying if you help others, in a simple way of helping them, you can't replace the happiness written in their faces. A simple thank you from them will make you goosebumps and the smile will drawn in your face also, you will realize that your helping yourself if you help others. Eventhough its not about money its still worth it if you help in a way that you use your force and use your skills to teach them or help them build something. In that way you can find new friends and companions, if your in times of your downfall there will be people that also ready to help you if you show them your kindness and lend your help. In this case you can feel happiness that material thing can't surpass it.
4. Participate in Environment Activities
If your a nature lover and you want to preserve our environment, you must try to participate in activities involved in preserving our environment. For example, tree planting, its exciting to plant trees in mountains or near roads since it will help to reduce carbon dioxide and people can breath fresh air. In participating in this event you can gain friends, there will be companions that you can share whats on your mind, there will be laughters while engaging in activity, you can feel happiness if you help a lot especially on our environment. Maybe you can encourage others to participate in Environmental activities also in that case there will be more friends added in your life and the more your friends the more your happier.
5.Create more friends
Maybe you can make a lot of friends in social media sites but its also good to have in real life, having lot of friends will make you happy, to gain more friends you must show them kindness, do not fake them since its not healthy to have fake friends, just show them who really you are and they will accept you in their life. You can't avoid those people who betrayed you but you must not stop yourself to look for more friends, a single person can replace by ten people, in the future he or she will regret what they do and its a mistake for them to betray you.
Thats why if you experiencing problems in life, always remember that there are ways to become happy. Do not limit yourself to be alone and eat by sadness, do an action to surpass your pain so that you can feel everlasting happiness.
No man is an Island
Are you familiar with this quote? Are you experiencing this one? In this article you will learn the essence of life, the importance of communication and friendship. There are people in this world believes that they can live on their own without interaction to others or without others help. From the title of this article, it tells in sarcastic way that there is no man living on their own, they need the help of community or other person. Maybe there are people in this world believes that they can live without interaction,those people may receive too much problems and pain, they are afraid to be judge thats why they don't want to share it with others, Also, maybe they have mentality that other people will worsen their problems.
Another circumstance that people don't want to interact in others is betrayal, because that person trust too much in the past and give everything but in the they've been betrayed. That's the reason why that person choose to live on their own and don't trust any person anymore. It really proves that pain changes people, trusting too much can cause pain that is difficult to heal, pain makes people live alone and keep them away from others. For me this quote is true since a person can't withstand the day without communication with friends, family or relatives. People needs to interact to develop the relationship and bond between two person, without communication people will become lonely and crazy. Maybe there are people who has Pride and philosophical thinking thats why they believe what they believe, but in reality that person with a pride must lower himself since he/she can't live in this world with a pride. In the worse case scenarios you can't be an island, since people will automatically helps you, its a nature of man that helping in times of emergency.
That's why as a human avoid being selfish and try to help others in any situation, in return people will also helps you. Being an island is not the solution to escape from reality of life, our world is awful but you must not limit yourself to become an island, eventhough you encountered so much pain, betrayal and other circumstances. Just pretend that your not affected and find someone to talk and share your problems, its not a sin to find some companions. Creating a group of friends will make you happy. Always remember that enjoy the life, try to break your limit and throw the mindset that man is an island.
Mother earth is Crying
Can you believe that billion years ago our beloved planet was just a new born baby? In which everything was made up of lava, rocks, different minerals and toxic atmosphere. We can witness how our planet was grow from baby into adult, billion of years later our mother earth has life formed, there are plants, bacteria, fungi and other species born on this planet. Due to evolution those bacteria becomes life forms and they live on this planet before humans, humans just evolve in this planet million years later, plants and other life forms enjoys everything in this planet, the ecosystem was 100 percent healthy and biodiversity was in balance no until humans came, Scientist believes that humans evolve from family of monkey thats why if you observed we have the same traits to them physically and through genes. Since humans is the highest form of animal, they are at the top of food chain in which they can be a predator that will hunt for their food and defend their territory from other species. Million years ago our ancestors learn how to adapt on environment and use everything to survive, it is the start of struggle of our planet, humans are using all the resources in our nature and sometimes abused by greed people, our environment is being destroyed and the balance in our ecosystem is ruined, deforestation is the main reason why animals are migrating in other places eventhough its not the right time for them to migrate. Also, people cut down trees to make furniture, woods, papers even coffin. Because of this thousand hectars of trees in forest lost every year, people don't know the benefits of trees, first is it gives oxygen, our normal oxygen level is 20% but I'm sure its decreased since humans actions is too bad, another benefit of trees is trapping carbon dioxide in environment, do you know the breathing cycle? in which we release oxygen and the plants or trees will trap it and exchange in fresh oxygen.
Its sad to say that our mother earth is crying, humans are abusing the environment too much, from water pollution, deforestation, illegal mining, air pollution, green house gases, global warming, war, and climate change our planet is already sick and there is no cure to make it better again, human greediness results in this dilemma that our world is facing, even though we have organization worldwide that trying to resolve this issues, there are still nation who choose to harm our environment for their own sake, maybe in a simple word For **MONEY,** money rolls everything even if the exchange is our environment. As a result, we are experiencing tremendous disasters that humanity will see in entire history, its 2020 this time and we experience the revenge of our planet and that is COVID-19, I'm not surprise that in the future if illegal human activities will continue, our mother earth will totally give up just like a mother who has a children , eventhough the mother treats the children well and give them all their needs, they still abused it. In the end our planet will give up and humanity will suffer, eventhough we will do global actions to save our mother earth, its too late. As an individual we have the voice that the world can heard, even if you are alone, people will support you as long as you have passion to stop illegal activities, with a group of people it can encourage other people to join you save the planet, in a simple of planting trees has big part to save the planet. Also, starts in your community by convincing them not to harm the environment, also, as a student try to create an idea or make an invention that can help in environment, when I was in senior high we created a bio plastics as an alternative to synthetic plastic that is really harmful to environment and takes hundred years to decompose while a bio plastics takes a year only to decompose, also try to convince parents to use eco bag instead of plastics since it can be reusable and reduce the use of plastics. Lastly, practice it to yourself since people will see it and maybe they will do it the same and it will encourage more people to practice things that can help in our environment. Thats all hope you like my article :)
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Metallurgy
Good evening guys try to read this one and it will get your interest, so I want to share with you our lesson in chemistry today on my online class, our topic is about metallurgy, Have you heard this branch of science? Honestly its my first time to hear this branch too since Earth science, environmental science, biology, physics and chemistry is common to me. So let's get started what is Metallurgy ? based on my own understanding metallurgy is a branch of science that deals with metals, this is how metals are processed to become raw materials or even minerals get from mining and running in metallurgical process, the first step to remove metals from ores is by the way guys ores is what miners get from mining and it is not completed a mineral since it has lots of waste and other minerals added to it thats why it need process to remove and separate other minerals. The first process is preparation of ores in which minerals is separated from waste material such as soil, rocks and other waste materials in that mineral these waste materials are called **gangue** rememberthat guys, so how these process do? so it is separate with the process called **floatation**, you might asking what is floatation? so in a big container there was a water with detergent powder and oil also there was an air compressor so that bubbles will created, in this process waste materials with soak at the bottom of the container while the bubbles at the top cointains **sulphide ore particals,**
these bubbles contains different minerals and metals separated from waste materials, so it is carefully gathered by a machine since its volatile or easily compress in air, then next process is production of metals, in this process it undergoes the **roasting** in which the free metals undergo reduction process, so are you familiar in **Oxidation-reduction process**
in this process were just undergo in reduction process in which we separating greenhouse gases such as carbon dioxide and sulfur dioxide from metals. So let me tell you the truth guys, this type of processes is undergo inside the mining site thats why the greenhouse gases separated from metals is being released on atmosphere that added to global warming and it worsening the problem of our greenhouse gases thats, also what I said earlier about process of floatation it also harm our nature since the waste materials deposit on river banks that why fishes are being harmed by chemicals also, when humans go swimming at the river banks they will feel irritation in their skin because of harmful chemicals came from mining sites dumped in rivers. Now you know the dark secret of mining companies, then the last process is called purification of metals, there are 3 ways to do it, **Distillation**, **Electrolysis** **and Zone Refining,**
in Distillation it is a process in which metals is being separated from gases but it is very hard to do since these process is volatile or the gases can easily scattered in air, next is Electrolysis in which the impure metals is undergoes electrolysis, the impure metals is dissolve and becoming pure metal, last is Zone Refining it is usually used by mining companies since it is cheapest way to separate metals from waste materials, it needs only a heat coil and the impure metals will enter in that heat coil and automatically remove waste materials and just cut the edge since waste materials are there. Hope you learn from me guys sorry if my English is not good heheh
Ang Pagkabigo minsan ay susi sa Tagumpay
Naranasan mo na bang mabigo sa isang bagay na nais mong makamit? Maeakit di ba? Kahit na ginagawa mo ang lahat upang makamit ang layuning iyon. Ang pagkawala ng ating sarili ay hindi nakakaapekto sa ating moralidad. Bahagi ito ng ating buhay na mawala sa isang partikular na bagay, normal na umiyak at sisihin ang ating sarili kung bakit tayo nabigo. Minsan nawawalan tayo ng pag-asa at sinasabi sa ating sarili na "Hindi ko na ito gagawin, pagod na ako sa pagsubok at pagsubok sa bagay na ito". May mga pagkakataong takot tayong subukan sapagkat natatakot tayong mabigo muli.
Minsan nabigo tayo sapagkat wala kaming kumpiyansa upang patunayan na ang aming ideya ay tama o ang mga bagay na ginagawa natin ay tama, natatakot tayo na hatulan tayo ng mga tao dahil hindi tayo sapat na tiwala upang patunayan sa mundo na may kakayahan tayong baguhin ang lahat . Mayroong ibang mga tao na kung nakakaranas sila ng kabiguan nawalan sila ng pag-asa at pagtatangka na magpakamatay dahil hindi nila naisip na wala nang pag-asa, palaging magkaroon ng isang pag-iisip na kapag ang isang kabiguan laging isang pagkabigo.
Normal sa atin na maranasan ang kabiguan ngunit alam nating lahat, sa kabiguang iyon maaari tayong makakuha ng isang karanasan na magagamit natin upang mapabuti ang ating mga kasanayan. Marahil ay tinatanong natin ang ating sarili na karapat-dapat ba tayong magsimula muli? Siyempre bakit hindi magtatapos ang buhay kung nabigo ka, maaari naming itong kunin bilang isang pagkakataon upang umangat at magsimula ng isang bagong paglalakbay hanggang maabot natin ang aming mga layunin. Marami kaming mga kasama na makakatulong sa amin na muling bumangon, mayroon kaming mga pamilya na laging nandiyan upang suportahan kami o kahit mga kaibigan na palaging nagbibigay ng kanilang makakaya upang pasayahin kami. Kung muling babangon tayo, mapapansin natin na ginawa natin ito at makakamtan natin ito. Tingnan ang buhay ay puno ng mga pagkabigo ngunit ito ay isang aralin na maaari nating mailapat sa ating buhay. Balang araw ang mga pakikibaka ay hindi madali at aabot sa point na masisira ka nito ngunit ang mahalaga ay nakatayo ka pa rin sa iyong mga paa at tiwala na harapin ang mga pakikibakang iyon. Balang araw mararanasan mo ang buhay na puno ng tamis. Mayroong isang sipi na nagsasabing "Mahirap magtanim at lumago at mag-seed, tumatagal ako ng oras at pagsasakripisyo hanggang sa maging isang puno. Maaari nating tipunin ang mga prutas at tikman ang tamis nito. Bilang mga tao, normal na maranasan ang pagkabigo sa buhay, hindi perpekto, ngunit kung nagkamali tayo maaari tayong matuto mula sa pagkakamaling iyon at gamitin ito bilang isang inspirasyon upang lumikha ng isang bagong ikaw na hindi na muling nabigo.
Sa konklusyon ang kabiguan ay bahagi ng ating buhay ngunit maaari natin itong magamit bilang isang aralin upang higit na malaman kung ano ang maaari nating gawin at gamitin ito upang malampasan ang ating kakayahan. Laging tandaan na ang mga problema ay palaging nariyan upang masira ka ngunit ang mahalaga ay laging handa kang harapin ang mga ito na may kumpiyansa sa sarili at tiwala sa iyong sarili.
Technology: Helpful or Detrimental?
In this 21st century technology isvery rampant in which it makes people lives easier, also in daily communication technology is being used with the help of internet we can easily access the application or website that we can use to contact our loved once near or abroad. In industry, many business companies are using the potential of technology to build up their strategies on how to improve their sales, also it serves as a data base in which big companies are using computers to store their important data files and protect it will firewall so that hackers cannot access their database.
When it comes to transportation technology is really useful since our transportation is made up of technological equipments that can run the vehicles automatically, it's not hassle to walk miles away in your destination since technology is the solution to it. When it comes to agriculture, many farmers are not depending on simple technology and because of technological advancement farmers are using advance technology in farming so that it is easy for them to plant crops and harvest crops to be processed and become goods that community will benefit, despite of this advancement we cannot avoid different conflicts when it comes to technology, since social media is used world wide, there are people who using this platform to scam other or fool them in social media, since we have covid 19 many scammers are using this oppurtunity to fool others by using of online investments that you can earn money with in just a week or months.
Technology becomes bad since other people are using illegal sites to import malicious files that is against the law and harm the community. Overall, Technology has advantage and disadvantages in our lives but it depends on a person on how he will handle the technology in a proper manner, as long as their is a technology people can use its potential to make their lives easier or even creates an oppurtunity to have jobs or create a business.
Unti unting nawawala ang Moralidad ng tao
Naisip mo ba kung paano hawakan ng mga tao ang sitwasyong ito? May kamalayan ka bang nangyayari ito sa ating mundo o hindi mo lamang ito pinapansin dahil ikaw ito ay normal? Talamak ang teknolohiya ngayon na kung saan saan mo ito tinitingnan na ginagamit ng mga tao, nang walang mga gadget hindi ka maaaring kabilang sa mga taong mayroong cellphone at iba pang mga gadget at maluluwag mo ang lahat ng mahahalagang impormasyong nangyayari sa ating lipunan dahil ang teknolohiya ay ang bagong paraan ngayon upang maihatid ang mahahalagang balita na nangyayari sa ating planeta. Iyon ang dahilan kung bakit mahalaga ang cellphone sa buhay ng mga tao. Ngunit nagtataka ka ba kung paano nanirahan ang mga tao sa nakaraan nang walang teknolohiya? Maaari nilang makamit ang impormasyon sa pamamagitan ng hindi paggamit ng teknolohiya at nais kong sabihin sa iyo na sa nakaraang moralidad ay ang pinakamahalagang bagay na maaaring ipakita ng isang tao. Mahirap sabihin na sa mundo ngayon, ang moralidad ay wala na marahil ilang tao ang may malakas na moralidad ngunit may mga tao na binabalewala ang kanilang moralidad alang-alang sa pagnanasa sa sarili o marahil para sa pera.
Siguro ang iyong pagkalito kung bakit ang aking pamagat ay tungkol sa Birhen, sasabihin ko sa iyo ang isang sitwasyon na totoong nangyayari sa bansang Pilipinas, alam mo bang noong kolonyalismong Espanyol sa pilipinas, ang moralidad ang pinakamagandang bagay na mayroon ang mga kababaihan, hindi sila madaling makuha. dahil kailangan ng mga kalalakihan na gawin ang lahat upang makuha ang kanilang puso at hindi nila isinuko ang kanilang pagkabirhen hanggang sa ikinasal sila ng lalaking mahal nila sa harap ng Diyos at may utang ako sa ganitong uri ng moralidad ngunit nakalulungkot malaman na ang henerasyon ngayon, ang moralidad ay hindi na umiiral sa mga kababaihan sa aking bansa, ang pag-loose ng telepono ay mas mahirap kaysa sa pagkawala ng pagkabirhen, maraming kababaihan ang nagbibigay ng kanilang pagkabirhen sa kanilang mga kasintahan nang hindi iniisip ang mga kahihinatnan. Siguro dahil nakakaapekto talaga ang teknolohiya sa pag-iisip ng mga kababaihan. Nakalulungkot na sabihin na mahalaga na magkaroon ng pera at mga bagong telepono bilang kapalit ng pagbibigay ng dangal at moralidad alang-alang sa mga bagay na ito.
Hindi ito ang aking opinyon ngunit ang totoong nangyayari sa aking bansa, mahirap paniwalaan na ang mga kababaihan sa aking bansa lalo na ang mga kabataan ay nakikipag-ugnay sa isang relasyon at kapag nangyari ang tawag sa pagnanasa, ang moralidad at dignidad ay nakalimutan, sana ang aking kapwa mababatid ng mga kababayan ang dilemma na ito at inaasahan kong ito ang magiging address, ngunit sa oras na ito mahirap makamit hangga't umuusbong ang teknolohiya ang dilemma na ito ay hindi magagaling. Nakasalalay ito sa tao kung paano niya hawakan ang dilemma na ito at kung paano nila ito maiiwasan dahil sa huli ang pagkabirhen ay ang pinakamahalagang bagay na maibibigay ng isang kababaihan sa kanyang asawa.
Isang ngiti kapalit ng libong patak ng luha
Naranasan mo ba ang napakaraming mga problema sa buhay? Nararamdaman mo ba tuwing ngumiti ka nagbibigay ito ng isang libong kalungkutan? Karaniwan bang nangyayari sa mundong ito. Oo, nangyayari talaga ito sa akin, sa tuwing nakadarama ako ng kaligayahan nakakatanggap ako ng maraming kalungkutan. Hindi ko alam kung sumpa ito sa akin ngunit mahirap para sa akin na umiyak at umiyak tuwing nakakasalubong ako ng kalungkutan. Hindi ko alam ang problema kung ako o ang iba dahil palagi kong ginagawa ang aking makakaya sa isang bagay ngunit hindi ito sapat. Palagi akong sinisisi sa kasalanan na hindi ko nagawa at palagi kong tinatanggap ito kahit na hindi ko ito kasalanan sapagkat ako ang uri ng isang tao upang mahuli ang bawat problema upang ang mga tao sa aking kalungkutan ay hindi makapinsala,Palagi akong isang mapanlinlang na handa nang mahuli ang mga bala para sa iba, ngunit tao din ako nararamdaman ko ang sakit at kapag nabusog ako ay umiyak ako nang walang ingay upang hindi ito mapansin ng mga tao sa loob ng bahay. Siguro may sasabihin na umaarte lang ako, ngunit ang pag-arte na ito ay totoo, may iba`t ibang mga iniisip na pagpapakamatay sa aking isipan ngunit nag-iisip lang ako ng isang paraan upang mawala ang aking mga saloobin at masaya ako na ang mga online game at nakakatawang video ay tumutulong sa akin para maibsan ang sakit na meron ako. Hindi mo ako mapapansin na may problema ako dahil tahimik lang akong tao at mas malaki ang posibilidad na mag-isa ako. Palagi akong nakakalayo sa mga tao at ayokong makihalubilo sa kanila, siguro dahil natatakot akong hukomin nila, may mga pagkakataong nakikipag-ugnay ako sa mga tao ngunit pinipili kong kumilos at magsaya sa kanila upang sila hindi iisipin na hindi ako katulad nila.Iyon ang mundo na nabubuhay ako sa isang mundo na puno ng mga paghuhusga at ginagawang napakababa ng aking sarili, minamaliit ng aking pamilya ang aking kakayahan at hindi nila sinusuportahan ang aking gawain kung bakit tuwing may mga nakamit ako, hindi ko ito ibinabahagi sa kanila at ako laging itago ito sa kanila dahil alam kong wala silang pakialam. Ang aking sarili ay ang kaisa-isang kaalyado ko, sa tuwing iiyak ako ng aking sarili ay naaawa sa akin at kinakausap ko ang aking sarili na magiging okay ang lahat. Alam kong maraming mga tao na nakakaranas ng sitwasyon na katulad ko at inaasahan kong walang pag-iisip na magpatiwakal, narito ako upang makipag-usap dahil alam ko ang sakit na nararanasan natin. Pinapayuhan ko kayo na subukang manuod ng mga nakakatawang video o maglaro ng mga online game upang makatakas mula sa kalupitan ng mundong ito. Sa huli alam kong makakamtan natin ang kaligayahang hinahangaan natin, magtiwala lamang sa iyong sarili at huwag sumuko sa buhay at huwag bigyan ang mga problema na lunukin ka at gawin kang masamang bagay.
Depenisyon ng Buhay
Ang buhay ay ang aspeto ng pag-iral na nagpoproseso, kumikilos, tumutugon, sinusuri, at nagbabago sa pamamagitan ng paglago (pagpaparami at metabolismo). Ang kritikal na pagkakaiba sa pagitan ng buhay at di-buhay (o mga hindi nabubuhay na bagay) ay ang buhay na gumagamit ng enerhiya para sa pisikal at may malay na pag-unlad. Ang buhay ay anumang lumalaki at kalaunan ay namatay, ibig sabihin, tumitigil sa paglaganap at pagkilala. Maaari ba nating sabihin na ang mga virus, halimbawa, ay nakikilala? Oo, hanggang sa mag-react sa stimuli; ngunit sila ay buhay na mahalaga sapagkat sila ay nagpaparami at lumalaki. Ang mga computer ay hindi nabubuhay dahil kahit nakakaalam sila, hindi sila nagkakaroon ng biologically (grow), at hindi makakabuo ng supling. Ito ay hindi katalusan na tumutukoy sa buhay, kung gayon: ito ay higit na paglaganap at pagkahinog patungo sa isang estado ng kamatayan; at ang kamatayan ay nangyayari lamang sa mga nabubuhay na sangkap.
O ang tanong, 'Ano ang kahulugan (layunin) ng buhay?' Iyan ay isang tunay na matigas. Ngunit sa palagay ko ang kahulugan ng buhay ay ang mga ideyal na ipinataw natin dito, kung ano ang hinihiling natin rito. Dumating ako upang muling kumpirmahin ang aking motto ng Boy Scout, magbigay o kumuha ng ilang mga salita, na ang kahulugan ng buhay ay upang: Gumawa ng mabuti, Maging Mabuti, ngunit upang Makatanggap din ng Mabuti. Ang foggy term sa payo na ito, siyempre, ay 'mabuti'; ngunit iniiwan ko iyon sa mga intuitive na kapangyarihan na ibinabahagi nating lahat.
Mayroong, syempre, maraming malinaw na mga halimbawa ng Paggawa ng Mabuti: sa pamamagitan ng pagkuha ng umiiyak na sanggol mula sa isang dumpster; sa pamamagitan ng pagsubok na iligtas ang sinumang nalulunod. Karamihan sa atin ay maiiwasan ang pagpatay; at karamihan sa atin ay pipigilan mula sa iba pang mga kilos na nakikita natin na mali ang intuitively. Kaya't ang ating likas na intuwisyon ay tumutukoy sa kahulugan ng buhay para sa atin; at tila para rin sa iba pang mga species, para sa mga intuition na gumalaw sa buong buhay at bigyan ito ng layunin.
Having a relationship or stay single?
Which part do you want to explore? In single or in a wrong relationship? Is it required or a requirments to live in this world? There are lots of debate based on this topics, someone said being single is nice than in a relationship with full of responsibility in other side. In other opinion they said it is better to have in a relationship so that you can feel the love together with your lover. Loving others and yourself will make you happy and content in what you have.
No matter how important this two topics, the best thing is we are still alive. Someone said being single is not a crime, it's just choice to become free from any obligations in their partners. Do what you what you want without the permission of your gf/bf because your single. You are able to give enough time for yourself and enjoy things in life. The most important is no one can monitor and access your social media activities. If your single you have more money in your pocket, We all know that having in a relationship is so expensive. There are lots of perks when you are single, you don't have to think anyone but yourself. Another bonus for being single is ability to date other girls or guys and you can meet other people.
While if a person is in relationship, It is fun because you can feel the presence of love, enjoying the moment you are together, going in the mall to watch movies while holding hands. It's sounds sweet right?but not all time in relationship is always happy. There are times there are struggles need to face. It is normal in a relationship to face problems but what if we are engage in a wrong relationship? If you are in a wrong relationship, you need to pray a lots to make it in the right way. There is no good things in a wrong relationship, first thing is your just wasting your time to the wrong person. In a wrong relationship there is always a battle between you and your partner. You can feel the presence of super saiyan at you can hear the sound of machine gun.
No matter you are single or in a relationship, it is important to love yourself first and dive time to enjoy the things in life even though your in a relationship.
In conclusion we are able to have a relationship to our loved ones and in ourself to obtain happiness in life. Although there is different perspective between this two topics, it is important to deal in yourself first. In this world we must enjoy life while we are young because we can achieve perfect relationship in the future.
@Mar_chan