Thinking about life.
First of all,gooooooood morning everyone .Hope you all are fine & shine. One hour ago I wake up and first time I thought to open readcash in the morning usually I don't write my article in the morning but today I'm writing don't know what the reason behind this .But I want to share something with you and I want your answers regarding headache... whenever I wake up in the morning I always have headache and that's why whole day I can't do any activity because of being in pain.
I want to tell you my story,I was a girl who have smile on her face after every second whenever any hurdle came i always smile ,even when I was in operation theater I was also smiling in pain .I'm in search of reasons why I had lost my smile? Now everybody asks from me why are you so serious?you were the girl who always smiled.My mother she asks me what happened?do tell me you can share I'm seeing you in sad mood whole day what's the reason behind?Do you need anything?my mother and grainy get angry with me because of my mood but I don't know why I'm not smiling and living in sadly mood. Inspite of being sad now I try to pass smile Infront of my mother.
I get emotional and start crying instantly. I want to come in my smiley world again but how can I?
I think my friend @tanian143 can give me answer because she is talented .... I know you're now thinking that you're not a doctor but still I'm saying search about this misterious thing...if you have knowledge regarding morning headache then do tell me the reason + cure.
I was thinking about headache and suddenly I thought to write article and ask from @tanian143.
If anybody knows then you can also answer my question.
Thank you!!
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Eid-ul-Fitr,the day filled with love.
"Assalam-o-Alaikum"
It confers me fathomless gaiety to unbosom my vivacious felicitations regarding Eid-ul-fitr to you and your kinsfolk.
I fervently covet and supplicate that this Eid unfolds such ecstatic and dazzling events for you that even transcend all your yens and hankerings **...**
Simplyyyyy Eid Mubarak !!
Hope you all are doing well and enjoying your precious day with your loved ones'I wish you a prosperous and happy life ahead.
I was offline for few days because of some sorts of reason ,I was too much busy with my family members because after a long time I visit them that's why I'm giving most of the time to my family & sadly I'll leave them again in just few days and never have had breakfast,lunch & dinner with them for few months and that thing is getting me sad All the time but what can we do ,we also have to study & complete my family and my dream, my mother always said me that;
After every difficulty there is ease!!
With this point I always get some motivation & moved on to overcome any hurdle
Well coming to my days that after fasting we got reward and that is our Eid day...I was thinking about my day that it will be boring and I'll sleep for whole day but the day spent was too much amazing because everyone came to visit us one by one and giving us (Eidi) in the form of money and first time I got too much money on this Eid from my family ... First of all I wake up when my father came after offering Eid nimaz he came to me & give me side hug & kissed on my head and he said do u wanna eidi? I said off course how can I leave you without giving me eidi, he laughed and said my love here is your eidi & he give m 2000 rupees.Even money doesn't matter ,but their hardships
I got my eidi from my grainy,my mother,my aunt and uncles still my eidi is remaining from my Grandpa inshallah soon I'll meet him
After few moments later our neighborhood aunt sent me eidi and it was 100 rupees ,I can't believe while sitting at home anybody send you your eidi because when we were in childhood we went them & distribute some special things & in reward we got eidi from our neighbors ....Inspite of being young I'm still receiving my eidi from neighbors and I'm quite lucky...Hahah,then there came a woman who do our house work she met me & also give me 100 rupees as she can't afford but still give me eidi
These were two precious red notes received from my neighbors 😂
I didn't visit any of my dear ones even they were messaging me to come but my heart wanted to spend my whole day with my father,mother, brothers & sisters that's why I decided to visit them after few days in marriage ceremony of my cousin .(Inshallah)
Then after too much insist of my grandma I wore my Eid dress & got ready ...After getting ready the only way to be amused was to capture my pictures.But I can't share my pictures with you (Sorry)ಠ︵ಠ
Though, I was sitting with my mother & suddenly I thought to see our old Eid pictures.As life brings tears,smiles,and memories.The tears get dry,the smile fade but the memories last forever.
Here are some of my childhood pictures sharing with you people...Hahha
Still the days are very tiresome that's why I'll share most of the things with you all in next article.
Take care and Allah Hafiz...See you soon!!
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Be someone's shoulder.
Many of us needs someone's helping hand because poverty has been increasing day by day.Due to poverty,peoples are suffering from lack of income ,lack of nutrition,as well as lack of participation in decision-making,they can't complete their basic necessities including clothing,food, shelter & Many more things.
Living in poverty means a life of struggle,life of hardships,life of difficulty....
We can see poor children they can't afford quality education because their parents can't afford school expensis that's why they start to do work in their earlier ages .
Poverty is a big challenge for people to survive and handle the harsh condition in anyway.Now a days , the rich is getting richer & poor is getting poorer academically.
Poverty affects on humans in various ways:
Lack of awareness
Anxiety overloaded
Health-care issues
Homelessness
Shyful with others
Un-educated
Unlawful acts
Relly on others
Torturing on women
Facing lots of crisis
Tons of burdens in early age
1:Lack of awareness:-
They lack sense of how to behave,how to treat others,how to be well-being, well-known & respectful to others..... Due to lack of awareness they don't know how to keep themselves heathy & clean & well dressed and because of this many viral diseases are occuring which is so harmful.
2: Anxiety overloaded:-
Due to lack of money,they totally depend on others & this is the big challenge for them that causes stressful situation which is big deal for them.
3: Health-care issues:-
Money is huge source for healthier nutrition ,lack of money causes malnutrition & lack of healthier nutrients.
4: Homelessness:-
Home is everything, being homeless peoples are called street-residents.Without any kind of shelter survival is very much difficult in winter rainy nights & summer hot+ chilli days..
5: Uneducated:-
Education is most powerful weapon that can change the world being uneducated our generation is getting poorer and we are losing our youth because today's child is tomorrow's leader.
6: Torturing on women:-
As women's are like football for them wherever they want ,they kick it...Due to lack of amount they torture their women & sold-out their daughters without their will.
I was getting very much anxious when I was coming from university & saw two people (Father & daughter) who were sitting under the tree for begging purpose & that time I was looking only at their upset faces & I was like Oh God please help us to bring our poor community to high-level.
Moral: we should educate our youth ,be someone's helping hand ,create some awareness programs ,So that we can do everything for our nation because a nation will be rich if her youth is educated.please Eradicate the poverty & promote human rights.
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Cure to reduce anxiety.
Well, Anxiety kills the person's personality,their intentions with others ,even it harms emotions, feelings,heart's peace that the person really wants.It is one of the biggest cause that breaks your relations with others ,in this stage people don't know how to behave ,what to do? Mentally person goes to another way that he actually don't know,means the sense of humor is lost by persons
In fact,it is very dangerous to us because people don't have control on things . Anxiety comes when we move towards dissatisfaction from inner self,we get conscious earlier about everything.
Yesterday night ,I was feeling very sad don't know why? Even I'm with my family,where everyone is loyal to me ...I find none who is selfish here & I thought, it is the biggest thing that you have!!So my migraine pain started and I was very sensitive to light .I covered my eyes and was in search of peace where nobody can talk with me then I moved to silent place...& In that condition I was not able to talk with anyone.Suddenly my brother started music in Full volume on speakers at that time I was in situation to beat him,my mood was totally down ,I went and cut the lead of speakers everybody was staring at me that what had happened with you as I already told that anxiety kills you & move u towards that things that you actually don't know.After taking medicines of migraine pain I was feeling little bit better then my grandma said : let's go somewhere so that you should find yourself happy tell me where you want to go,we will move there.So me & my family went to special places in Karachi where I can find peace because I really like chirping of birds, sound of flowing water , peaceful music & find myself in another world of peace.
First we went to seaview in evening time where we were enjoying in water ...I had listened somewhere that when you are upset & tired you should lay down your feet in salty water & I found seaview as a good place to make myself relax,when we arrived & I was looking at tides & sunset where I had take a short camel ride that view was oh my God !!
This is another side of seaview where we can just sit on stones & can't go inside of water
So we lastly we went to Doo daryaa(most favorite place to visit) at night ,there is a restaurant situated in center of sea and that is beautiful and relaxing place where we have had a dinner with my family & then I went at the coast of sea and was making myself relax .
& Now I'm feeling better after coming back from anxiety just because of my parents efforts they never let me to depress but Everytime my mood swing.Moral of this ,if a person is anxious do give them your time because of you someone find theirselves relax & you will be the reason to get them out from depression.
Stay happy all and do remember me in your prayers.
Night of attack on Imam Ali a.s (shab-e-zurbat) at kufa mosque.
The commander of sincerity,the caretaker of orphans,the shelter for needy people.How blessed he(pbuh) was that,he was born in the House of Allah (Holy Kabaa),and martyred in the House of Allah(Masjid-e-Kufaa) .
On the 19th of this holy month of Ramadan 40 A.H,He (pbuh) had two sons named Imam Hassan a.s & Imam Hussain a.s both always came with moula Ali a.s for offering namz but at that day moula Ali a.s refused them & said them offer morning prayer at home, When he was leaving his home the birds were chirping in sad voice where one of his co-worker was stoping them but Ali a.s refused not to say anything to them ,Imam Ali a.s came to the mosque at Masjid-e-Kufaa(situated in Iraq) for his morning prayer where Imam Ali used to give the morning call (Azaan) and was engaged in leading an assembly of people's (jamaet) for worship & was willing to offer morning prayer (fajar) ...But it was the worst day for all Islamic religion people that they lost a person who was the apple of an eye for whole humanity,he was the protector for the hard time that's why he was titled as shair-e-khudaa .So moving ahead when moula Ali as was going to start first raqat ,a person was standing just behind Hazrat Imam Ali a.s & was pretending to pray but when moula Ali a.s was in a state of prostration ,Ibn-e-Mulajim attacked on moula Ali a.s head & dealt a heavy stroke with his sword , it was deep wound on the head of moula Ali a.s .It was heartbreaking,shocking& mournful incident for his household and for All Muslim ummah.
The crime of assassinating Imam Ali a.s remains one of the most cruel , bloodthirsty & hideous because it was not committed against one person ,but was committed against whole rational Islamic leadership.
Moula Ali was injured on 19th of Ramadan and unfortunately died after 3 days means on 21st of ramdan but still he didn't forget to praise Almighty Allah ,he even didn't let off namaz ,he still continue to give beautiful lessons to his household (BiBi Fatima R.a) & his 2 sons till his last breath .He (pbuh) taught them not to get revenge, always take care of human beings & should be helpful to them always ..There are Soo many lessons from his life I couldn't write here because his works are long that can't be written in short article.
I want to quote some beautiful lines said by moula Ali a.s that:
The moment you start arguing with an arrogant fool,you have already lost!
So you can imagine how good personality he was....
The worst day in history!!!!!!!! Because nation lost a heroism,& courageous person.
~Haidar -e safdar,Nafs -e-payambar
Ali Ali- Ali Ali
~Qul -e-Eman,Saqiy-e-kausar
Ali Ali - Ali Ali❤️
Close your Eyes & imagine the incident happened on 21 Ramadan ಠ︵ಠ
A journey from hostel to a place we call it (sweet home)
Well, greetings from my side to all of you my readers.The journey,which is totally based on sacrifices, self-care , hardworking & dreaming high...
On these things your life is based ,I think.
So,few months back my life gave me a new way to start my new life ...After leaving college my step was to take admission in university & off course while coming in university life you have to leave your home , leave your parents & leave your loved ones. It is totally hard time for a student to manage everything by themselves,where no-one is there for you , only you have to face every kinda situations & that is very hard but curious time for us to be responsible for everything . Hostel life teaches you the most important things i-e punctuality, management, braveness,& responsible person.Really it's too hard for a person to get away from home & have tons of burdens upon them .
Everybody was saying hostel life is tough but I was saying them no I like hostel life ,but but entering in this life make me wrong ...So it was my first experience to live in hostel & it's totally hard for me but I'm managing everything with my braveness.
I salute every parents because they're living without their apple of eye ......
Now starting about my first day in hostel when my grandma and my father left me ,on that day I was making myself very brave Infront of my parents ,I was controlling my tears but my grandma can't...it was first time when I saw tears in my father's eyes but still I was brave & controlling my emotions infront of them to let them know I can survive & handle tough situations by my braveness ,when they left me I was feeling myself too much alone in new city with new people's having different sects, different tradition, different language. I couldn't control on my tears then I went in alone place where I was crying and controlling my voice so that nobody can hear that I'm crying . Really Really it's tough time so,by the passage of time I learnt everything as I already told you life is game changer & it teaches you most of the things you can't think for.
Day by day I was counting the days & time that when will I meet my parents & find myself in their arms ....So time passed after giving my mids & final papers in university, I went to home after 4.5 months.I was very much excited on last paper that I will meet my loved ones & that happiness I can't define!!
~when I came back to home & I entered on the door step where I say mamma I have arrived & that time my mother cried,
But there is also amazing thing when you came back home everybody gives you more respect . Actually I'm quite lucky to have a loving family members... Everybody invites me to visit them and I was feeling Soo much joyful with my cousins while attending them on dinners specially
Everybody was taking care of me & that is huge respect for me
& my most favorite thing was ordered by my cousins we were 4 person's that's why we ordered 4 burgers but one was little bit late that's why we put her Burger in refrigerator..
Jeeto Pakistan(biggest show ever), The most favorite show we all family sit together to watch this ...it's all about game show ,when people's perform different tasks by winning then they got motorbikes , Mobil phones ,home appliances etc but main segment I like the most is the game of gold if you watch it you all will like it.
Few moments later again we become hungry & we were thinking of what to do then we decided to order pizza actually, after fast we need too much food (ahahaha)& it was too tasty 😋
Further there are lots of things I will share with u all tomorrow because I'm too much tired
Thanks for reading...& Also share your journey with me in comment I will be grateful to hear from u all... stay happy all of you guyz
Allah Hafiz...
All the images are clicked by me.
Ramadan vibes
Allahmdullilah being Muslim we are rewarded with the holy month of ramdan(9th holy month in Islamic year)....it is blessing for all of us because in this pious month we do fast (which is 5th pillar of Islam),we do prayers ,do recitation of pious book named Holy Quran.
We are prohibited from drinking water & eating something from dawn to dusk in fast...
Fast means to be aware of everything that we have to believe in the oneness of Allah & having complete belief on him ... During Fast Almighty Allah says your every oragn of body become pious from every bad deed .Being Muslim when we fast ,we don't feel hungry or thirsty because it's the blessing which is gifted by God.Being in fast makes you more relax & you will find yourself in peace .
And in the reward of whole day we do have iftari(breaking of fast in sunset)with our family where our common dishes are pakoryy,channachat ,jam-e-sheeren (main drink), different types of fruits but dates are most important but mine most favorite dishes are dahi phulky & biryani +Pepsi....
But here is a wandering thing that we fast for whole day but when it's time for itar we can't eat & drink more ...hahah our tummy become full with less amount of food I think it's also a blessing by God.
Allahmdullilah after some time we will be done with 15th roza(fast)
I remember the last iftar with my roommates in hostel & I'm missing those moments badly ,now I'm going to share my last iftari with my roommates.
After doing iftar we 4 roommate go for walk outside & on the way coming back to hostel it was must having an ice cream, it gives us pleasure by eating ice cream and wandering around the beautiful houses in Islamabad & those moments were very much amazing.
After completing 30 fasts we are rewarded with the festival known as Eid-ul-fitr ..on this nights girls & Desi women do their last shopping .Girls apply mehndi on their hands and many more celebration we do on that night..on the day of Eid-ul-fitr every male go to mosque having namaz of Eid after coming back to home they meet with every member of his family & most important thing they give us eidi(in the form of money) we become happy after receiving our eidi from our beloved elders...Every women make delicious dishes on this day but savaiyan(dish of Pakistani people's) is main thing without this our Eid is incomplete... Every Muslim wear new dress on this occasion & celebrate it with their family members ,friends & neighbors
That is all about our Holy month of Ramadan.
Thanks for reading it constantly!!
Love your parents
Next to God,are parents .we are growing by lot's of hardships faced by our parents ,we don't know what kinds of hurdles they're facing for us ...just to make us happy & fulfill our desires.Home is nothing without parents they are everything for their children.
First guiders and mentors of children are their parents what they are saying,is right .they know how to lead us towards beautiful way ... Always respect & obey your parents
Don't ignore your parents because they're getting old day by day , Don't ignore their efforts because none is sincere to you in this world except your parents . Parents love is totally pure
When they raise their hands for ( duaa ),first dua on their lips is for their children because they want their child to be successful ,& growing up in his/her career .They are doing struggles only for us & it's our duty to make them proud
God says : paradise lies in your mother's feet & the father is the door of paradise .so, don't hurt your parents just make them happy by your side
No love is greater than mother's love & no care is greater than father's care...I felt that
Nobody on earth will love you than your parents ,never complain with your parents they will provide you whatever they have
Now I'm going to describe my parents love ,even I can't describe their love in this short article they are everything to me.
When I land on earth they were only people who hold my hands as a supporting scheme,as I'm a girl but my father always said me (a brave son)he does everything for me I can't explain
When there was a time to go university everyone in my family was against my study there is a mindset that daughters can't do anything there job is only to live in home & do work of home but my parents are totally against this they thought girl have equal right they can make feel their parents proud .so,my father supports me, encourages me to go for higher studies in our capital city .My father took stand for me by fighting with everyone in family ,he is the great & ideal hero in my eyes ... it's my promise to you dad one day I will make u proud & will be proudy daughter of you both ...your head will be raised in whole community when I will become assistant commissioner in my area inshallah .I will update & guide our community to give equal rights to their daughters as my parents has given me.
I'm alone in this city , whenever I want to go I just said baba sain (dad) I want to go outside ,will u give my permission .he said,why are u asking from me you're my brave girl ,I have trust on you ...Go everywhere you want but the thing is Always remember Respect comes once in a lifetime so be in your hijaab then go wherever you want.Never break your parents trust
Inshallah baba sain(dad) I will fulfill your desires & we will went for Hajj together inshallah
Now my mother she is a working lady ...she wakes up early in the morning & worship god & prepare breakfast for us then went to get ready for job ...After doing 8 hours of job she came home & made lunch for whole family then go for worship to beg smiles for their children .she had done everything for 20 years for us ,Whenever I get stressed,I didn't show my sadness but still she know that her baby is sad for some reason & then she asks me why you're sad I replied no mom I'm not sad inspite of this she always said dear daughter don't be stressful, have complete faith on your God he will do everything because your mother has begged your smiles from God ..she always supports me,cares me,loves me from bottom of her heart.
Love you soooo much mamma & papa
Inshallah your hardships will pay off
ZG is the combination of my parents names...this is written on my hand with mehndi
Finding Peace in nature 🕊️
Nature indicates perfection of God ,where I find peace for myself . whenever I feel sad, depressed, anxious because of some reasons I always prefer to walk alone & see the beautiful multicolored flowers where my heart finds peace.
Soo lucky to be the resident of Second most beautiful capital named (Islamabad)
Going to share some clicks whenever I feel anxious my heart melts here& I always think to take pictures of nature & appreciate the creator of nature that how he made the beautiful sceneries for his human being we are nothing Infront of our lord but still he made life so beautiful for us
God has created Soo many things for our leisures that we even don't diserve , we always forget his mercy while doing some bad deeds .He (God) who never let us alone even we do shameful acts , whenever I sat Alone I praise Almighty God ,he is Omni present ,he who knows the hearts and minds of every person but still he is rewarding us with the best. Really God is the master of this whole universe
A evening I went to F-9 park Islamabad where I take most of the pictures of nature As I love to see the beautiful scenes, this is also one of my favorite scene (sunset )
After getting back ,I see the clean roads & greenery everywhere and it makes me calm.
Life as a game changer
Life is like a book some chapters are sad,some very happy ,some very excited.If u never turn the page u will never know what the next chapter holds.
Everyday there is a new hope for the better version of yourself 😉 I always thought about life what it is ?how it is?&where it is going?
Whenever I felt alone I usually think about what does it mean?why we are created & for what purpose we are created?
Then I got answers from my mind that we are created to do worship of our God. Everything is end here because u worship & beg Infront of your God you will be blessed with every thing you want & I have complete belief upon him.
~I have learnt Soo many things but one thing always inspires me & motivates me that:
•The things that are coming in my way are totally mine because those blessings are written in my fate ,no one can stole it ❤️
& Courageously it build up my strength to do something & have something by doing some hard work.
Life teaches you everything on different ways it is completely a game changer ,when you believe on his mercy , you will never be dissatisfied and you can move on in your life .On every way there is a lesson you learn from....
~There is a saying that:
The person who is not sincere to u,will give you the lesson & it hits me.
Wherever you go , Sometimes you face good things & sometimes you face hurdles in your way like if u want a rose ,you must go through the thorns of rose then u can achieve it.So life is also like a flower when you want something , you must face hurdles.
I want to share my journey that's why I am writing this article.
So my journey starts with the hope that I will be mbbs doctor, I tried alot for 2 years but I couldn't succeed ,I always wish for lab coat but due to God's will I couldn't have it & I was not dissatisfied from my God,I know what he is doing,is good for me .
As I'm the resident of lower class & lives in countryside ,I was just thinking to get admission in lower ranked universities in my area because I couldn't have approach to study in capital city ,I couldn't thought that I will got admission in my capital's university now I'm feeling so proud because I'm not diserving this high rank but my God has rewarded me with the best that's why I have complete belief on God that he can do anything you don't think of.
So, start your day with complete belief on your God that will lead you towards beautiful destiny.
@Laraibfatima
