Wise Up!
The wise carry their knowledge as they do their watches; not to display, but for their own use. (by: **T.Brown)**
Brainy, Intelligent and Smart. That's how we call people we perceive as wise. That's how also we want others to call us.
But do we really know what true wisdom is? Is it just being able to understand and store facts? Is it merely the skill to recite correctly what being discussed in the classroom? Are you people proven mainly by their class cards teaming with A's or 95's?
Let's assist our understanding the meaning of wisdom and the methods of gaining it.
It should be obvious by now that true wisdom is rooted in a person's use of what he or she knows rather than in how much he or she knows. True wisdom grows with the right focus and planned activities.
**Here are some pointers to help us "wise up";**
Will to have it. God is the source of true wisdom, and He gives this wisdom to those who ask for it.
It may sound too simple but it's true. Remember King Solomon, considered as the wisest man who ever lived. He sought wisdom and the Lord was so impressed by his choice that He also blessed him with fame, riches and health.
Involve ourself with wise people. We know that people we get close to have certain influence on us. The saying, Birds of the same feather flock together" is true in this sense. If we serious in becoming wise, we must choose wise friends. Our constant exposure to them will positively affect our character.
We should store up knowledge. Our capacity for wisdom increases as we continue to take advantage of every learning opportunity. Learning is not limited to the classroom. Knowledge increases by constant reading, study,observation,analysis and consultation with authorities. Meanwhile, an extensive and balanced list of stored information in our minds can help us to apply the most appropriate information for a given situation.
We should devote time for biblical study and meditation . The Bible is the best source of true wisdom. This is because it contains practical principles for daily living. The Bible Proverbs tested guidelines for success,health,peace,joy,contentment and victory over all sorts of dilemma and problems. Continues reading and study of it's messages will certainly purify our hearts and sharpen our minds.
We should obey **God.** Obedience to God is a result of wisdom. It is also a way of gaining it. To go against God's laws is foolish, because it only leads to guilt, shame, frustration and failure. On the other hand, obedience leads to wisdom. It clears our mind and spirit from hindrances, making us understand the best response or plan to a given situation or problem.
We should make the most of every opportunity to do good. Wise people know that time is not in their hands. By accepting this, they gain wisdom. They become more focused on the challenges that are present. They make sure that whatever they do now will have a lasting implications and results. This makes them more sensitive to situations and their intention to do good makes them reject evil.
We know that true wisdom is the ability to discern what is right,just and good. We gain wisdom by reading the Bible and obeying its commands. And the best source of knowledge and wisdom is the Bible 📖😇.
A wise person must always have a recognition of God's presence in his/her life and surrounds himself with wise, God fearing people.
**But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere," (James 3:27)**
"**FOUR THINGS ON EARTH ARE SMALL,YET,THEY ARE EXTREMELY WISE"**
The **Ants** are creatures of little strength,yet they store up their food in summer.
**Coneys** (rock rabbits) are creatures of little power, yet they make their homes in the crags.
**Locusts** have no king, yet they advance together in rank.
A **Lizard** can be caught with the hand,yet it is found in the king's palaces."
Based on the qualities of a wise person that we identified above, would we consider ourself wise?
The book of Proverbs shows us how to get it together and keep it together..Let's live it.
Thanks for reading 📖
Love lots ❤️
@Kris2310
Being Enterprising
Everyday, we came into with an entrepreneur, directly or indirectly. Even at school, your school canteen is run by an entrepreneur. The little boy next door who rents out his rollerblades at 20,30,40 (PHP) for minutes is an entrepreneur.
Webster defines an entrepreneur as one who undertakes to start and conduct an enterprise or business, assuming full control and risk.
Probably we learned from our own experience also that being an entrepreneur is not easy. We must consider few things when going into this kind of business.
We consider Risks. At the start, we never know if our business will succeed or not. What if someone starts the same kind of business at the same time that we do? What if a crisis hits the country? And what if a construction project five kilo meters away affects the drainage in our area, causing floods every time it rains. These is only some negative thing to happen when engaging entrepreneur. Every business involves a certain amount of uncertainty and risk. Be prepared.
We consider location too. A business needs a customer or clients so it must be located where people often pass by or where it will easily be noticed. It must also be where the right kind of people will see it. So it is important of choosing location for our business.
Next the Capital big factor to consider. Because this is the money we invest in business. It will be spent not only for the product we will sell, for instance, but also for items that will make selling those things possible. Allow this example to understand more better. **A man who wants to go into the fish ball business, for instance, needs a frying pan, a gas stove and a cart.** Where do we get money to start our business, of course, it could come from our savings,or we could borrow it is from someone else.
Being an entrepreneur needs a long hours and long hard work. Entrepreneurs invest a lot of time and effort into their business. Best example here is if you have a **Bakery.** Your day starts at four in the morning when you start baking pan de sal in the oven. Customers start coming at 5am. By 8:30 pretty sure all the pan de sal is gone., but still have other breads to sell. While you sell, you also have to keep an eye on the cookies in the oven. You take a nap after lunch. At 3pm, you start supervising your helpers needing dough for more bread. The **pan de sal** baking process starts at 6pm. After the dough is mixed, kneaded and shaped by one of your helpers. You check to see if everything is clean and ready for the next day. With the pan de sal rising and ready to pop into the oven the following day, You know it's time to call it a day, at 12 midnight. See?
We consider record keeping also. Business people must keep records of the money they received and the money they spend. It is very important. The work of keeping such records is called bookkeeping. Wise entrepreneurs do not spend all their profit. They put some of it back into the business to help it grow or expand. They also set aside some savings.
And lastly let's consider Competition. In the business world, competition is to be expected. Having competition actually is good for the customer because it the entrepreneur looking for ways to make his/her product or service better than that of the other store or shop.
Important thing to remember as an entrepreneur to keep customers back. Make the product cheaper than others. Make the product better, offer free items, promo, discount, offer good and services not found at the competitor's store.
Anyone can be an entrepreneur, but not everybody is going to have the same level of success. Entrepreneurship takes a lot of experience, determination and sometimes education.
Many people dream of becoming entrepreneurs someday. But it made me realize that there other factors that needs to be taken into consideration. We need to ask ourselves are we ready to take the challenge to the outside world. Not everyone have the vision, innovation and creativity to become an entrepreneur. The individual must have a positive attitude and accept the responsibility, have discipline to meet their goals, and take action when the opportunity presents itself. Many prefer a job security and rely on a weekly paycheck, while entrepreneurs will take risks and doesn 't have that luxury to know the amount of their income.
Being an entrepreneur requires taking on significant responsibility and comes with significant challenges and potential rewards. ... The motivations for becoming an entrepreneur are diverse and can include the potential for financial reward, the pursuit of personal values and interests, and the interest in social change. WE can Conclude **ENTREPRENEURS** are the one who have several characteristics distinguish from other individuals and they are more motivated by achievement rather than the power of **MONEY**. They are more interested in create something rather than getting rich and set high goals as they can reach through their skills. However, A person who want to be successful as long as their can keep picking themselves up when they get knocked down,and keep try and explore different things and keep learning and obtain some entrepreneur characteristic.
Thanks for reading once again.
Love lots ❤️😘
Mood Management
Understanding your emotions and controlling, managing and responding to them correctly will help us get through life more easier.
Emotional response aren't bad. They prove that we are human and that our brains are functioning properly.
**But mismanaged our feelings is wrong.**
It happens when we give the incorrect emotional response. To feel sad without reason, when in fact we should feel happy. It means that we are not aware of our feelings. We might be so attached to the feeling of loneliness that we could no longer recognize happy situations and respond properly when we encounter one.
When we swallow in our negative mood for a long time. To feel anger, to be frustrated,saddened or grieved is normal. What is not normal is when we allow that feeling to take hold of you longer than what is necessary. The **Bible** says that we should not let the sun go down on our anger.
When we try to drown it out the wrong way. There are some people who do not acknowledge their feelings and who want to get rid of them immediately. To do this, they get drunk or take drugs. This is **escapism** and is useless. When they wake up from their stupor, they are still in the same situation. By using alcohol and drugs, they just irresponsibly destroy their bodies.
**What will we lose if we mismanage our moods?**
We lose precious time. Brooding takes time, and when we do, we don't get to do anything else. We lose our energy. Feeding an emotion eats up our strength thus making us less productive. We don't have the motivation to work and can't work because of mental and emotional fatigue. We lose direction to. We tend to forget that we have a purpose for our life. Mishandled moods make us blind to what we have to do because it focuses our mind on what is wrong. We lose touch, since we're focusing on ourselves, we block out friends. Self pity drives away company. We even lose confidence in ourself. We lose self assurance since we become afraid to once again move on. And lastly We lose our health. Some unhealthful effects of mismanaged moods are **insomnia, headaches, hypertension, heart problems, stomach problems, backaches, skin rashes,migraines,nervousness and ulcers.** Imagine that bad effects not good to us really.
**To avoid that, we should manage our moods properly.**
We should analyze our feelings. Our moods come out based on how our brain analyzes the situations we are in. Sometimes the assumptions our brain makes are not correct. When we feel bitter toward a certain person for example, we should first ask ourself whether it is right to feel bitter. Second, we should ask whether it is right to feel bitter towards that person. You be misdirecting your bitterness. Third, we should also find out whether the person you feel bitter toward is really at fault. He or she might have an explanation. We therefore have to gather more information and get the facts straight first. The emotion you're feeling might be out of hand.
We need to breathe it out. No, don't ventilate it. Share what you've feeling with your parents or with a caring friend. The feeling of having someone empathize with you might help you get rid of that emotion fast. This is what you need friends for. What's more, voicing out what you feel helps you evaluate what you feel too.
We should create a happy atmosphere also. When we feel lonely, then don't listen to sad music and shut ourself in our room with the lights off. This creates much more depressing mood. And don't watch those telenovelas where all the characters do is cry. Go out and have fun. Call or visit a friend. Let's give ourself a treat.
We need also to decipline our thoughts. Sometimes worry is caused by an overly productive imagination. The person thinks up the worst possible things that could happen and worries about them. Often, these worries are Baseless.
We should Entrust Everything to God. No matter what state of mind we are in, there will always be a God who understands you and who has the power to change your situation. And He has asked you to cast your burdens on Him. Isn't this a great privilege.
Let's Fix it up. Don't wait for your mood to go away. Make it go away. Sometimes, this call for a decisive action. Are you frustrated with your performance? Then start doing your best now. If you angry with your friends, then call him or her up now, reconcile offenses, be willing to forgive. If you worried of a mistake you made, then correct that mistake or ask for the help of someone who can.
Therefore I conclude that mood management is acknowledging the biological antecedents and value of emotions such as sadness and anxiety, and the possibility that ‘ordinary’ sadness and anxiety may now be over-diagnosed as disorders and over-medicalised, we must not forget that we are dealing with a spectrum of severity. Thus, far from being ordinary, major depression is an extreme form of sadness. A Patients, who live with depression, their family and friends, have enormous challenges to overcome. Primary care physicians can provide compassionate care, important education, psychiatric monitoring, social support, reassurance, and advocacy for these patients and their loved ones.
**Do not let this situation affect you, remember the ability to manage your moods correctly helps you make a success out of living.**
Thank you for reading 📖
God bless us all.
Love lots ❤️
@Kris2310
Forever Grateful
Thankfulness is the key that can help dispel depression. Think of some of the happiest people whom you know. You would notice that these people are also thankful people.
Look around you and enumerate the people,things and circumstances you want to thank God or other people for. Should you be thankful for good things only and forget the bad things or misfortunes? How can you be thankful for pains, difficulties and troubles?
**We should have a Grateful Heart first.**
We must be contented for what we have. Contentment is the attitude cultivated by consistent consideration of God's daily provisions to us. With a content heart, we can be thankful. It will be easy and natural to thank God for all the troubles and triumph we are experiencing, and for all the people who give us joy and sorrows.
We must stop complaining. An Indian proverb says, "I complained because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet." When misfortunes come, it is natural to complain. Yet, these are the moments we are challenged to be thankful. Commit this proverb to memory and reflect on it every time you feel like complaining and comparing your situation with others.
We must develop an attitude of gratitude. It may sound ridiculous but we have to be thankful in all situations. Start being thankful for the little things, then branch out. Turn this into a habit. Once it is a habit and placed in the heart, thankfulness will come out naturally in both good and bad situations. Hence, life experiences in every way will be better.
We must express our thanks. Make it a practice to send small thank you notes or cards to the people who have done you a good deed or even to people who have not. When you do this, you learn to look for the good in people and are able to appreciate them more.
We must Savor the good moments**.** If you notice you’re feeling happy, stop what you’re doing and pay attention for a few minutes.
We must Change our perspective**.** If you struggle to come up with something to feel grateful for, put yourself in the shoes of someone who is experiencing misfortunes greater than your own. Recalling a colleague who has a debilitating physical condition, for example, will inspire gratitude for your own healthy body, which you may have taken for granted otherwise.
We must look at the bright side of life. Do you live in a house that lacks space and furniture? Then, thank God because you still have a shelter from the rain.
**Oftentimes,we take for granted the little blessings and comforts we enjoy. There are many more small pleasures and blessings we should thankful.**
It’s truly difficult to feel grateful when times are really tough or when very depressed....But;
If we Practice gratitude. Recognizing and appreciating the good aspects of our life, no matter how small, can have a tremendous impact on our emotional wellbeing. How you decide to practice gratitude is up to you—maybe you’ll choose to jot down your blessings in a notebook, thank a friend face-to-face, or simply sit in quiet reflection to contemplate all the good in your life.
Let's Be kind. Helping others has been scientifically proven to boost your own mood and lengthen your lifespan.
**We must** Connect with others. Warm, trusted relationships are an essential component of emotional wellbeing. Strong social ties can boost confidence and self-esteem, as well as provide a psychological buffer against stress, **depression and anxiety.**
Enhance your wellbeing with nature. The environment can play a big role in triggering or soothing stress, and researchers say the more green in your life, the better you'll feel. Studies show that people who spend more time outdoors (or have access to green plants and windows in their indoor environment) have better moods, expanded thinking, and find more meaning in life than those who stay cooped up inside.
Being Grateful will make you happier and more successful because this feeling empowers you. This means that the feeling of gratefulness can only be generated by the outside world. So, if you want to be grateful, you need something outside yourself, and you cannot generate this feeling on your own. It simply means grateful always need someone else.
I am grateful for the love, care, and continuous support I receive from my family and friends. It is hard to find real friends, so if you have one, be grateful.
Many thanks again for reading.
Lovelots ❤️
Go Against The Flow
The pressure to conform is great on young people of today. You have to be in the "crowd to be accepted. You have to be part of the majority because " the majority wins ". You should always be in agreement with your peers so that you don't get to be called a " **killjoy** ".
However, at times, to be an upright individual, you will have to make a stand and defend what you believe is right, even if you are alone. You must always take an uncompromising attitude against bad influence.
How we be able to state the relationship of the words conformity and compromise and how we analyze the reasons people give for conforming.
Conformity
Is the need and desire to be just like everybody else..to do what others do, to act as they act, to think as they think, to wear what they wear and sometimes, even to be what they are.
It isn't always bad to conform. In fact, it is good for example to conform to the rules of the office; to wear your uniform, to respect those authority, to follow the regulations. However, there are also certain instances when it is bad to conform. This is when what you are conforming to is evil or is not beneficial or healthy for you.
To **compromise** is to adjust or partially surrender one's purposes or principles for the benefit of others. To compromise is also not necessarily bad. Sometimes it is needed to stave off an argument or seal an agreement. However, there are certain principles that cannot be comprised. Some people call these non negotiable principles. The laws and commands of God, for example, are non negotiable. You may not and should not bend them, no matter what. The school rule of always wearing the prescribed uniform is a negotiable principle. When the activity calls for it, the principal may allow you to wear civilian clothes.
Some people compromise non negotiable principles just so that they can conform. When they do this, they are compromising in the wrong way.
When you conform even though you know that it is not right to do so, you are compromising in a wrong way.
Many people are afraid not to conform because they might be rejected. They are much willing to compromise their principles rather than take an outright stand against that which is wrong. They might be mocked if they do so. They might be called a killjoy. They might be called walang pakikisama. Wost of all, they might be excluded from the group.
But why be afraid? Most teens respect a guy or gal who has the courage to be his or her own person even when being mocked or teased. Aesop, noted storyteller,warns, "He who always gives way to others will end in having no principles of his own." And if the crowd you go with has low moral standards, then you are better off without them. Choose friends who, like you, are not willing to compromise their beliefs.
When it comes to doing what is right and being rejected. Try to refuse and explain why, if you think it is unhealthy and not beneficial to you. Sometimes, it is easier to say things than do them.
In other words, the message to *go with the flow* that arises from our conditioned small sense is purely concerned with living a contained, controlled and safe life. And not only does it result in us living a less than fulfilling life- it is often an indication that we are living someone else’s life.
In these situations, we use the idea and resulting action or lack of action of going with the flow as a reason (often we’re not even aware of it) to not take responsibility for our own lives and get clear about what we want or need.
We go with the flow– but if we pay close attention we may notice that it’s someone else’s river that we’re flowing in.
We may still accomplish a lot and not appear to be flowing through life- but we are allowing other people’s agenda’s to dictate our flow.
Going with this type of flow undoubtedly has a person floating in the river wondering, “Who am I separate from my roles? What do I want and need to thrive? Why do I feel a sense of anger or resentment percolating just below the surface?” It often feels like a sense of emptiness and like we’ve lost our voice and sense of our self.
This is a dangerous kind of flow.
We become bystanders in our own life because we’ve bought into the idea that we’re meant to go with the flow. We have spent a lot of time either fitting into the flow of others or watching others’ lives unfold..
**For some people going with the flow is the worst possible thing they can do to thrive in their lives.**
What are your thoughts and experiences with going with the flow?
Thanks for reading 📖
Stay safe and God bless everyone.
Love lots ❤️
@Kris2310
Under Authority
We love being free. We cherish the moments when we can do whatever we want to do, whenever and in whatever way we want it done.
However, we must remember that we live in a society. All societies have culturally accepted forms of authorities. Webster defines authority as, personal power that command influence, respect or confidence; the person or persons in whom government or command is vested.
Literally authorities are those who have legal and moral powers over us. And whether we like it or not, authorities are everywhere! They're in School, Barangay's, Streets, Malls, Hospitals, Offices and even in our very own Homes!
Have you ever thought of what will happen if there were no authorities above us or if they would not function effectively for some reasons. Imagine the following situations, what will happen if a traffic jam with no policeman around. Likely effect maybe No rules will be implemented and followed..bumper to bumper and might have a long traffic. How about if there's No guard at the gate and/ or grounds of high school campus, probably outsider will get inside the campus. Or the Philippines without a president and law makers and, what do you think will happen. I'm sure every day there is trouble and killing in our country.
All of us are under authority in different degrees. We have to admit that the younger you are, the more authorities you have to adjust to.
**Remember this things to motivate you to submit to them.**
*To be under authority is ethical and vital for survival. To respect authority is basic etiquette for the entire human race. After all, those who are in authority have more responsibilities and accountabilities than we have. They worked hard and went through a lot before reaching their status. For instance, today's generals in the Philippine National Police took years of rigid training and all sorts of difficulties before reaching their rank. They simply deserve our respect.
Respecting authorities is not just ethical. It is also spells survival for societies. Submitting to them is necessary for our own sake and for the progress of our society.
Imagine if each of us would disregard authorities and do our own thing. There would be lawlessness and disorder everywhere!
*To be under authority is to be under the care, protection and training of others. People in authority are ahead of us in many ways. Our parents for instance, have years of learning experiences behind them. Our academic authorities have read tons of material and spent hundreds of hours of studies than most of us combined. Their expertise on many fronts of life serve as their tool for protecting and guiding us. They can assist us to become mature and more productive in life if we allow them to do so.
Our security under their care becomes all the more established as we realize that these people...most especially our parents, bosses, and teachers...are not out to lord over us. Despite their own weaknesses and failures, they love us, and truly desire the best for us.
Even their strictness and discipline are not meant to hurt and destroy us. These are intended to teach, correct, and train us. If we understand this, it won't be hard to cooperate with them.
*To be under authority now is to be at the top later on. " A good member is a good leader; and a good leader is a good follower." Our productivity as we grow older and more experienced will depend on the guidance of those above us. The more we follow the leaders, the better we are able to lead. The person who has always resisted authority in life cannot effectively exercise authority himself because he ot she has never really developed submission and respect.
It's true that there are many ways to the top, but the best is always assist the one above us to perform more effectively. Eventually, that authority's own success will also pull us to his level.
Do you remember what God said? @Romans 13;2,5
" Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has Instituted, and those who do so will bring judgement on themselves. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities. Not only because of possible punishment but also because of conscience."
**Whether we like it or not it is our responsibility to follow rules and regulations. Even in the office, hospitals, school, church, street, etc. It is our responsibility to follow or else we will end up in a bad situation.**
Thank you for reading.
Keep safe Everyone!
Love lots ❤️
Your Clothes and You
In good grooming, clothing is only a part of the whole picture. But it is the most obvious and easily observed aspect. That is why it is also very important.
The way we groom and dress affects not only you but others as well. Good grooming gives you a healthy appearance. It makes us likable. It gives other people an idea of your character. In school and even in the workplace, it gives an impression of neatness and efficiency. Most important of all, it honors God.
**Consider, then the following Seven C's in good grooming.**
**Cleanliness**: This is basic, but very essential. You need to be odor or dirt free. This means taking a daily bath/ shower and applying deodorant if needed. As for clothes, it means having them laundered and clean regularly.
**Condition**: Your body has to be healthy and in shape. If you are overweight, it makes a big difference to lose pounds to literally look good. When you are too large, its hard to find clothes that flatter your figure. Your clothes should also be in good condition..repaired, not worn out, faded, run down, or torn.
**Comfort**: When choosing clothes, determine first if it is fits physically, or can you move freely in your outfit. Don't be deceived by the concept of " beauty before comfort, " or never mind if I can't move in these clothes 😂, as long as it looks good, it'll do."
Consider also your body type..whether you're long legged or long torsoed.. and your height and weight. If you're short, avoid horizontal stripes. If you're stout, use dark colors. If you're tall, avoid vertical lines. If you're thin, use light shades.
Don't be a fashion victim. Know that FADs are precisely that: **For A Day,** and what looks good on others may not necessarily do anything for you.
Ask yourself also if your clothes are becoming to you. That is, do they fit your personality. Otherwise, you will just feel awkward in them.
**Carriage**: Your overall posture will greatly affect your clothes. Not even the most expensive gown will look dazzling on a slouching debutante. Remember to sit, stand and walk tall even in your most simple outfit. And don't forget your "facial posture". A pleasant, smiling face can make a huge difference!
**Color**: Choose the shade of color you use. You need to know your skin tone., whether it is warm (yellowish/golden) or cool (pinkish/bluish). Generally, when you wear a certain color, you can tell its your color if the mirror and/or your friends tell you that your face looks healthy,your eyes are full of life, your hair shines, and your skin glows. A shade that doesn't fit you will make you look old, sick or tired. It will drain the color from your face, cause dark circles under your eyes and make your hair look drab.
**Combination**: Match tops (shirts, blouses) with bottoms ( pants, skirts) wisely. Make sure that colors complement, not clash. Match solids or plain colors with prints. (Stripe, florals,etc)
During a rainy day or when you find extra time drag out all your clothes from your closet and try mixing and matching them. Be sure to take note which looks well with what. You'll be surprised at how many combinations you can come up with., so that even if you don't have that many clothes, you won't get bored with them since you can wear them in different ways.
Don't forget accessories; shoes 👡, bags 👜,scarves , hats 🎩, jewelry 💎. They can change an outfit in an instant. Just be sure not to go overboard, though. To project a peaceful countenance,better have a little than too much attention...grabbers. The general rule is to have only Seven accessories on at a time...and these include your shoes and bag, besides jewelry.
**Circumstance**; As a teen trying out your social wings, social blunders are bound to occur. Remember the two Ps: **propriety** and **practically.** Keep a balance between appropriate and being dressed for the occasions with your age and budget.
Different occasions require different sets of clothing. So be sure you know the culture of the occasion. For formal such as weddings and parties, wear fancy dresses (lace, satin) and jewelry. Avoid denim pants (maong), tee shirts and rubber shoes. At school, let the uniform serve its purpose of equalizing social levels. There's no need to don so much jewelry or expensive accessories to prove you're well to do..or worse, to look like you are. Casual events such as mailing, outings and picnics deserve equally casual attires such as pants, tees and sandals. And you would look best engaging in your favorite sports donning sports outfits.
**You don't need to have many clothes or substantial allowance to be dressed well. Those who have both still cry out " I don't have anything to wear! " All you need is know..how and a good sense of what's right.**
start clean, stay in shape,shop wisely,save special clothes for special occasions,and spend time to plan.
*A few minutes a night for the next day's attire. Decide what to wear and lay them all out. You'll start the day right knowing you have to fret with deciding what to wear.
*A few minutes for an upcoming special event. Don't wait until the last minute to buy an outfit for a long awaited party. You may not find something you really like and end up setting for second best.
*A few minutes for trips, At least one week before the trip, plan your wardrobe. Make a checklist of what you're bringing. Check the combination of your outfits. You may find out you don't have to bring so many pants if a few will match several tops. It also helps to stick to one color scheme.
When you plan for your trips, you should avoid.. Mis-matched outfits, bringing too many things,rush and panic,clothes and things that need to be cleaned and repaired, forgetting things.
That's all thanks for reading.
Start matching your clothes now. It's really fun and entertaining. Enjoy ❤️
Love lots ❤️
The Right Model
Every Developing individual needs someone to look up to. Someone upon whom he or she can pattern his or her life. Sadly positive role models are few. Tv and movie personalities, often idolized by young people, more often than not, do not provide good examples to follow. We are therefore challenged to look for the right role models in our society, and follow their example.
Usually young generation now a days, when it comes to qualities they admired, they choose traits according to looks, personality and skills.
**LOOKS would mean that the model is admired because of his/her physical traits or characteristics.**
**PERSONALITY would mean that the model is admired because of his/her character or behavior.**
**Skills would mean that the model is admired because of his/her talents or abilities.**
Consciously or unconsciously, we pick people whom we "idolize" and copy. This is why there are children young people and even adults who are able to copy the way their "idols" talk,walk,dress or behave. Sometimes, the model we choose are admirable in one way yet have certain characteristics that are not worth emulating. And sometimes, we idolize people for the wrong reasons. For example....
. Would you admire a guy who is so macho and who has box office appeal yet carries a bad boy image because of his foul language and rough behavior?
. Would you admire a lady who courageously flaunts her sexiness, sheds her clothes without embarrassment and loves it when men drool ove her?
. Would you admire a man who is a legend on the basketball court, shows good leadership and skills and knows all the right moves yet has a foul temper, bad mouths the referee and doesn't show good sportsmanship?
There are actually some young people who admire characteristics like these. And here's where the danger lies. It is dangerous to have the wrong model. Since you admire them, more often than not, you would copy their ways. Their bad example can influence you to do evil.
We pick not only real people for role models but also cartoon characters, TV personalities and comic book super heroes. 😂 Harmless? Not as you might think. Even Matt Groening, creator of Simpsons agrees that Bart's the main character is a bad role model even for his own kids. In fact, Matt has apologized to his shows fans for this.
As we look for in a good role model, there are qualities we need to know, to check, to copy, to idolize..
A person character must be the first consideration. This means we have to know the person deeply. The first thing we admire in a person is usually his/her looks. If he is ruggedly handsome, if she looks real sweet and pretty, we immediately take a liking for him/her. And that admiration sticks. However looks alone do not make a man ( or a woman). We have to consider the inner qualities of the person.
A person must be down to earth. Choose someone you can identify with. It would be hard to pattern our life after a superhero because he has certain qualities that we would find hard to emulates.
We must consider godliness rather than perfection. No, we won't find a role model who is perfect in every way. Flaws are certain to come out somewhere. But a truly good role model is someone who is godly, someone who loves God and keeps His commandments. This person may have faults and weaknesses, yet he or she would surely be honest about himself.
A person closeness to the role model is recommended. A person who is close to us would be a better influence and an inspiration to us than someone who is far away or who does not know us at all. A parent,an elder brother or sister, an uncle or aunt, or a grandparent would be fine choices. Reason why my parents,my sisters and my brother in law's are my role model because aside that I know them better, they are good and have a compassionate heart to people. And I admire them so much doing this thing. I'll show you some pictures of their advocacy of helping needy people in our area/place. We are not rich but that is not a reason for us not to help others. We can do a lot just find the love of God in our hearts and everything will be easy.
How about you? Who is your role model, tell us how you came to know the person, how long you've known them. What your relationship to them and why do you choose them..
Thank you for reading again hope you like it.
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@Kris2310
Courage under Fire 🔥
Hello Everyone its me once again @Kris2310 . Good morning and have a good day ahead. May our God Almighty Bless us all today.
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you". **( Deuteronomy 31:6)**
There are lots of things that can frighten us. But you don't need to be controlled by fear. You can be courageous. You can have what Webster defines as " that quality of mind which meets dangers or opposition with calmness and firmness ". You may also adopt God's charge and promise to Joshua " Do not be afraid.....Be strong and courageous....God will never leave you nor forsake you **( Joshua 1:9).**
Since Webster defines courage as a quality of mind, not emotions, it follows that we can feed our mind with positive thoughts and biblical principles to eventually master fear in our lives.
How do we do it? Let's use the acrostic **B O L D .**
**Ban negative thoughts and Concentrate on the Positive.**
Remember the last time you became frightened? You allowed negative and frightful thoughts to control your mind.
To master fear, you need to resist negative thoughts before they drown you in worry or depression. The best way to do this is to fill your minds with positive and encouraging thoughts.
Reading God's Word regularly, especially in times of anxiety and fear, is the best way to do this. ( **Romans 15:4** ) is clear: .. " For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope."
**Occupy yourself with the Loving and Powerful Presence of God's Spirit.**
We are most affected by fear whenever we feel that we are alone in fighting our battles. Having someone who is affectionate, available and able to help us in every situation is truly courage boosting.
After all, God promised "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you. So say with confidence; " The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.
Indeed, there is no limit as to what can do when he is fully trusting God's presence.
**Live a righteous life.**
You read it right. Honest, fair and righteous living equals a courageous heart.
Isn't that true in most of our experiences, for instance, whenever we commit sin of any form, we become guilty because we fear might be discovered. In contrast, whenever we feel we are right, we have the boldness to stand by our convictions.
This means we must strive to avoid doing wrong. Keeping ourselves on the right side of God's and man's law will give us inner peace. This inner peace, in turn, fuels courage in our hearts.
**Do what you need to do now.**
For you to eventually overcome fear, you must do something about it., not just to merely think it over. The best strategy is to face your fears and fight it.
Psychologist and Sociologist call this **EXPOSURE THERAPY.** It is clinically proven to be the most effective method of dealing with fear, even among the deeply phobic people. In this method, the patients are repeatedly exposed to the feared situation or object to make them see that no harm befalls them with these situations and objects. As they are repeatedly exposed to them, their fear gradually dies.
So are you afraid of taking on bigger responsibilities? Of admitting your mistake? Of standing by your convictions? Of pressing on toward your personal goals because of the threats of difficulties and dangers?
Just do it! In due time, you will realize that you are no longer afraid and that you have finally conquered your fears.
Remember, true courage enables you to admit your own mistakes and failures. Accept sad and grim realities and go on with your life. Rise up you from past failures and focus on the challenges ahead. Withstand pressures and stand by the truth. Fulfill your personal convictions and goals despite oppositions and difficulties.
#Bebrave
Thanks for reading 📖 📖
Keep safe and Stay safe Everyone!
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Over a glass of Coke
There are a bunch of things I like about a good conversation. It doesn't matter if you share it with a lover, a friend, a close relative, a new acquaintance, or even a stranger you get to bump with some parking lot or inside a grocery store. You see one of life's real joy is a pleasant passionate verbal exchange unless it turns out to be an ugly encounter.
My friends say I have a Motor Mouth👄. Simply because I would like to talk and talk and talk...and when I start talking, like a machine with a broken "Off Button" I would hardly stop.
I can't help but admire those who with their voluntary hearts really set aside time to drop, dip their brows in the school's library. Not for anything. But seldom you can find people who take "research works" seriously. A lot would if not just snatch their seatmates photo copies would either allow themselves to be marked absent, get a zero score recitation, would sneak out of the classroom or resort to an easy way whenever there are quizzes or periodical exams. Did I hear somebody cheating at the back? See...stupidity does not pay.
Expand thinking wouldn't that be unfair for women, when they actually find it hard voicing what they feel inside. Don't you think it's to break the long silence..and liberate our women.
Sometimes we can't help but get a bit sentimental. It's an understanding that we are human beings and we are susceptible to mistakes and shortcomings. But it does not necessarily mean that we will use vulnerability as our brittle scapegoat....from responsibility. Others if not all take it as an excuse to cheat, to corrupt,to take advantage of others weaknesses. Shall we adapt the same orientation and allow society to rot? Then prove that you are different.
To be fooled that I chanced to experience. Tho least the last person above the earth. I expected to do that to me, is my best friend. Yes she did and now, we've parted ways. Whatever the reason was. I choose to forget that part for now. Take this from me. True friends are jewels. Like diamonds they last forever. So, if you think you've got one cherish him/her, keep him/her within your power. For you will only learn the value of a thing once you've lost it.
Good day to all. Good Morning ☀
Thank you for reading..
Thank you @TheRandomRewarder
Love lots 😍 😘
Think Creatively
Our brain is given the capacity to think, to innovate, to analyze, to synthesize, to invent, to formulate, to imagine to create ... yet we seldom do so.
Try making use of your creativity. Remember the clay you played with in Kindergarten? The clay became anything your mind and your hands wanted it to be ... a ball, a snake, a basket, a turtle, a planet, a dinausor, a car, a doll, a gun, a spaceship, a house, a plate, a bottle, a box and many more. The possibilities were endless. God has given us something more than clay. God has given us the capacity to think and the whole world to mold, to sculpt, to paint, to develop and use for our own good. We are supposed to use what God has provided us to improve our lives. The problem is, we sometimes just wait for the guava to fall "instead of aiming to get it ourselves.
Thinking is the hardest work of all and that's why so few of us do it! Think of where our world would be if no one took the time to think, to invent, to discover,to improve, or to innovate.
Let's start our mind to do the creative process; Here are some suggestions:
**THINK BIG**
Don't be satisfied with simple, ordinary things. If you can make a mountain, why make an anthill ? No one is pleased with mediocre work. You always have to give your best.
**THINK NEW**
It has been proven that it really is hard to change old ways, old patterns of thinking, old procedures. But if you want to improve, if you want to know how to do things better, then you must not be afraid to try out new ideas. However, don't just think of changing for the benefit of change. Ask yourself too if the change will be an improvement to you or beneficial.
**THINK POSITIVE**
Whether you believe you can, or whether you believe you can't, you're absolutely right (by: Henry Ford) Don't be a loser. As the saying goes, "If there's a will, there's a way." Persistence pays.
**THINK DARING**
Some people fail because they never tried. They were afraid to do so. Be willing then to take calculated risks. "Behold the turtle" ( James Conan Bryant observed. " he makes progress only when he sticks hes neck out".
We will do an experiment let us test our Creativity. Let's say we will do a product like clothes, what thinking enters your mind?
**What will we do or think first?**
First we will choose a catchy name for the product, one that is easy to remember and pronounce. Those name who just can't forget. Then let's describe the product using stylish adjective, the easy way to offer to buyers. We will have the best dialogue we can think of to sell the product. We will also make the setting best suited for the commercial. Then jingle of course may use common, catchy tunes with original lyrics. and lastly we will choose the appropriate type of clothing / costumes. And we are Done, Ready to present our product.
The Judges or Promotions will Evaluate each based on the following Criteria;
**Creativity - 30℅**
**(for clothes, stage design,print ad and over all presentation.)**
**Originality - 30%**
**( for script, jingle)**
**Ingenuity - 20℅**
**( for making use of raw existing, cheap materials/props)**
**Expression - 20%**
**( for acting ability, stage presence, facial expressions, gestures, pacing, delivery of lines, blocking, etc.)**
As presented above, are you willing now to use your Creativity?
Did you learn and improved your Creativity?
Do you think is it important to use your mind and be Creative?
( Michaelangelo, a sculpture, painter and poet, was once said to be walking by a construction site when he saw na rough slab of marble on the ground. Asking about it, he learned that the builders had thrown it away because its size and shape did not make it fit to be used in the buildings construction. Michelangelo took the slab home. Sure enough, through careful Chiseling, out of the piece of marble that the builders had rejected, there emerged an exquisite angel.... **A MARVELOUS WORK OF ART ).**
End...
Thank you for reading hope you enjoy ❤️
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@Kris2310
What You Sow, You Reap
We make decisions everyday. In some situation, we have to decide on the spot. In other situations, we have a few hours, days, or even weeks to decide.
"Oh, wow!" This is how we react when a happy surprise comes our way. Sometimes though, we ask "Why"? When things don't turn out the way we expected, or when our lives take a bad turn. We should realize that much of what happens to us is the result of either a good action or a foolish decision we made in the recent or distant past.
Why it is important to carefully think things before making decision or going into action?. Always bear in mind that in every decision we make, it has a good outcomes or bad results, that we have to face whatever the consequences of our actions is.
Here are some pointers on how to make a wise decisions: Think the Causes and the Effects in our Life, in our Body, and in our Future.
If Someone who overeats at meals and snacks heavily four times a day. Do you think it is good? No! We will most likely end up Overweight.
If a person who crosses a busy street without first looking to the right and to the left what do you think will happen? Yes! You think it right, he or she might probably get hit by a car.
If a student who spends her entire weekly allowance on the day it was given, what will happen the next day? Right the next day He or She will have no money for needs he/she might have during the week.
If a sick person who refuses to take his medicine will surely get worse.
If a person who exercises and eats wisely, probably will have a healthy body.
But if a gymnast who refuses to practice regularly, will probably lose in any completions he/she joins.
These are just simple situations that we make and decide that sometimes we still make mistakes, how come if we face heavy, deep, difficult, things to be decided we can overcome it!
The results of our actions and decisions are never easily undone. Sometimes we do things and later regret. Reason why; Before making decisions that could change your life, ask yourself first what you are getting into, what risks you might face with your decision about to make, what are the possible results of what will you do, will this bring you any good or will you benefits it or you will regret doing it tomorrow, next week,next year.
Weigh the benefits and disadvantages of your actions. Consider all options. A choice that, at first glance, may seem disagreeable, may actually be the best. Never take action when you're angry. We all know that anger blinds people, it makes them do things they would never have done if they were in a pleasant state of mind.
Think of the people, aside from yourself, who will be affected by your decision, maybe your partner be hurt or your family will suffer. Better to Seek advice, just be careful who you go to. Choose someone you respect; someone who can be trusted; someone who can help you make a wise decision.
And lastly Pray. Ask God for wisdom to make the right kind of decision.
#Bewise
Blessed Sunday morning my Read.Cash family😇
Thank you for reading 📖
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@Kris2310
Proudly God Made
It would be good for us to settle once and for all the question of where we came from. Our beliefs would dictate to us how we would treat ourselves, how we would interact with other people, how we would view our world and how we would relate with God. In short, what we believe in concerning our origin would affect all our other values and beliefs in life.
The theory that the earth and everything in it, including us humans, came into being by chance already been accepted as fact by many.
There are two opposing words which are both used to explain how we came into being: One is "**CREATION**" and the other is "**EVOLUTION**".
**Creation** states that the earth and everything in it was created by a great and wise and powerful being called **GOD** . That we were created by a direct will of **GOD.** That all living things reproduce reproduce only after their own kind.
**While**;
**Evolution** states that the earth and everything in it developed in stages from simple to more complex forms. That we came into being by accident. That non living matter changed into a very tiny living organism, over thousands of millions of years gradually changed and has become every living thing that has ever lived. It is impossible to believe that the earth with all its balance, intricacy, precision and volume came into being by pure accident.
Evolution believe that things have evolved from simple to complex; from chaos to organization.
Science cannot accept Evolution as widely accepted as it may seem, there are several loopholes to the evolution theory. And if you are an honest scientist, dedicated to truth and careful investigation of facts, then you would also reject evolution. Why?
Evolution is just a guess, it is only "hypothesis", and it remains such. No one claim up to now, even the scientists who adhere to it, that they have come up with enough evidence to prove that evolution may already be accepted as scientific fact. It is impossible to believe that the earth with all its balance, intricacy, precision and volume came into being by pure accident.
Evolutionists also believe that things have evolved from simple complex; from chaos to organization.
Non living things are still non living Spontaneous generation, or the idea that life came from non living matter, was scientifically disproved by **LOUIS PASTEUR** in **1860.**
Missing links are still missing, the missing links supposed to prove that complex man evolved from a simple animal, are still missing. A search has been made to fill in the gaps in the transition of animal to man, and there have been said to be certain "discoveries" made, but as time passed these discoveries were proven to be either mistakes or just a hoaxes.
**EVEN CHRISTIANS CANNOT ACCEPT EVOLUTION**
Those who know God and believe Him cannot in the same breath say that they also believe in evolution.
It denies the existence of God. Evolution believe that things came into existence by chance. But We believe that there is a SOMEONE who caused us to come into being....GOD. We further believe that there can never be a created being without a creator.
Evolution takes away the credibility of the Bible. The Bible starts with this statement " In the beginning God created " If we cannot believe the first statement of the Bible then we would find it hard to accept the rest of the things written in it.
Evolution degrades humankind and relegates us to the level of animals. The Bible says we are special creations because God Himself formed us. We are not animals, not even the highest form of animal. Even we ourselves think it's a disgrace to be called a monkey, a pig or an elephant.
Evolution takes away moral responsibility. Evolution gives man a license to live and act like an animal. One teacher of evolution stated; "As long as I believe I am nothing but an animal, I can live any way I choose. But as soon as I admit there is a Creator, then I become morally responsible to that Creator, and frankly, I don't want to be morally responsible to anyone! (Fast Facts on False Teachings)
We are created in God's image. This means that God has given us certain qualities and characteristics that belong to Him. Thus, to understand ourselves better, and to have a healthier concept of who we are, we should get to know the God who created us, understand His nature and discover more of the characteristics that He has given us.
**I am Proudly God Made and not just freak accidents or products of chance. Im a reflection of God's Image and Proud to be One.**
Thank you for reading 📖
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@Kris2310
Study Now or Pay Later
Hello there dear Students, Online class is already started last August 24,2020. Some may start this coming October.
But the question is are you ready or let's say how are you as a Student?
The average Filipino studies formally for at least 14 years. As a high school freshman, you will still have a minimum of eight more years of education left. That's about 80 more months, or 2,400 days of online/classroom lectures, discussions,reporting,assignment and examinations. Can you handle it?
You are still to meet about 50 more teachers of various personalities, beliefs and style that is if you still have a normal class. But because of the pandemic, I'm pretty sure there aren't that many teachers anymore. But from what I see of my children who are also studying online class like yours, they are still to go through loads of research works and tons of activities to do the whole week. What do you think about this as students more challenging and exciting? Lol I doubt if you feel that way 😂
The point is that you need to develop an effective set of study habits right now. Studying hard today is the key to a productive life later on. Otherwise, you will have to pay for the consequences and suffer long term for your educational complacency.
Studying effectively is also a hefty gain for yourself. Through it, you will have stronger self confidence, deeper learning, higher grades, a better reputation and a Brighter future.
Always acknowledge the importance of studying hard. It is a clear proof of your gratitude to your parents who are spending so much for your studies.
**PRACTICE THE PRINCIPLES OF STUDYING EFFECTIVELY.**
**STUDY MEANS;**
**S - chedule your study program.**
Excellent students have regular study periods. This is the time they spend daily for answering assignments, reviving difficult parts of the lesson and doing advance reading.
**T - ake a good study notes.**
This enables a student to cover the lessons and research materials comprehensively.
**U - se shorter periods profitably**
You will be able to maximize your time if you will use short periods wisely.
**D - o some memorizing.**
Memorizing key principles, definitions,formulas, and other vital information saves you a lot of time and trouble. Tips: repetitious readings and writings, worry association, verbalization and focus help a lot.
**Y - ield your study to God.**
Dedicating your academic life to God is an advantage. Pray before your personal study period. Make God your partner in your studies and in all your endeavors.
That's all dear Students, be more hardworking and effective students. Its up to you to have a good future someday. Goodluck......
(As "Fred meyers said " believe that there are no poor students, only unmotivated one's.)
Good morning and have a good day a head
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@Kris2310
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Elements of a Short Story
*We all know that* ***Short story****, is a brief fictional prose narrative that is shorter than a* ***novel*** *and that usually deals with only a few characters.*
*But some maybe don't know that the short story has integrated elements to make it complete. Let's explore these elements that can help us how to make a beautiful and pleasant short story.*
*They are;*
**Plot** - ***This is the sequence of events in the story .***
*It begins with an idea of a problem or an unresolved situation. The middle shows us the events that arise from this problem and The end of the story brings a resolution to this problem.*
***Conflict - This is the problem or dilemma that is presented in the story.***
*Do you know that a conflict, there is no story. An internal conflict is one that the character struggles with by himself. His dilemma arises from his own set of limitations or difficulties. But, on the other hand, an external conflict is one that puts two or more characters against one another. It may also be a struggle between a character and the forces of nature.*
***Setting - This is the period of time when the story happens and the place where it happens.***
*Usually, the setting in a short story is limited only to a particular time and place .*
***Characters - These are the people involved in the development of the story.***
*However, they don't always have to be people. Some short stories that involve fantasy may include plants, animals, or non living things as characters. A* ***protagonist*** *is a character who represents the forces of good while the* ***antagonist*** *is one who causes or presents a difficulty as the story develop .*
***Theme - a short story reveals some kind of truth about the way the world is.***
*It points out a part of reality in the way human beings live. All other elements of the story may contribute toward the development of the theme.*
***Language or Style - this elements show how the author uses or manipulate the Language he/she uses.***
*I mean this part is for you, how you make your story well, good, nice and how you make it beautiful, how you make it more catchy, its all yours.*
***This All Elements gives voice to the one telling the story. It may be limited or omniscient. The limited point of view, such as the first person or third person limited omniscient, does not allow the readers to see everything that the characters think and feel. Like the first person of view, the readers depend only on what the narrator. On the contrary, the omniscient point of view is all knowing, thus it gives the readers the opportunity to see through the characters "thoughts and feelings".***
*Hope this helps especially those aspiring to write a story.*
***Good morning and God bless us All.***
***Love lots***
@Kris2310
They Call Me.....
I hear my name everyday, it is probably the most familiar sounds to me 😂.
**They Call Me Be, Bibi, Bebe, Kris, Nhe, Ten, Sis, Nay, Dear, Mam, Mader, etc**..
But the question is, do I like it?
For me, whatever they call me is ok. the important thing is that they respect me.
But;
There are some people who don't like their given names. Some just want to be called by their nickname rather than their real name. Why so much fuss about such a simple matter? Maybe It's ok with us but with them it's not that simple. A name does not make a lot of difference. It is the basic stamp of our identity and image to others and to the World. By our name we are known. And whether we like it or not, we have to accept the name given to us.
**How do you see yourself? And how do you feel about yourself?**
There's No problem with my name. They can call me whatever they want. Besides, I do not let what others say affect me. I just think those things that make me proud, it may not be a big thing, but my small deeds that make others happy are already a great achievements for me.
While for others they feel that the name given to them is not good. so they suffer low, poor or negative self concept. Reason why they get frustrated and they lose self-confidence.
**How can we enhance ourself if we are suffering this kind of self concept?**
Always acknowledge your achievement whether it is big or small thing.
Always focus on what you can do, be realistic. Do not set goals that are impossible to achieve.
Always avoid becoming over critical of yourself, as human being like us we are reliable to make mistakes. We have limitations. But it doesn't mean that because we make mistake or we have limitations we cannot achieve.
Always throw away the "**Garbage**" they told about you, some people have given bad feedback about us, some of these are unkind and untrue. Why mind them If there's nothing good to do with you and to yourself. you are just wasting time with them. Don't waste your time thinking that useless thing.
Always remember that we are created in **God's** image, and He loves us and considers us important and He died for us. These facts alone make you proud about yourself.
Always Be proud of yourself.
That's all, thanks for reading 📖
**By the way they call me Baby** 😂
**How about you? How they call you?**
Love lots ❤️
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified, for the Lord your God goes with you ; He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Deuteronomy 31:6
Tagalog:
Maging matatag at magpa katapang. Huwag kang matakot o masindak: sapagka't ang Panginoon mong Dios ay sumasaiyo; Hindi ka Niya iiwan o tatalikuran .
THOSE WHO JOYFULLY LEAVE EVERYTHING IN GOD'S HAND WILL EVENTUALLY SEE GOD'S HAND IN EVERYTHING.
GOOD MORNING ☀ 🌕
Our Life.....
Whether we like it or not, we encounter situations in our lives that are beyond our control.
Might be a broken heart, a tragic loss, a death in the family, an incurable disease, and a lot more.
Life is a maze. There are hurdles. There are tight spots. There are unexpected turns. Sometimes, you bump into something. Sometimes, you slip. Sometimes, you fall or Maybe you get hurt.
Hurdles are the situations in life which you have to overcome for you to fulfill your dreams. Or a big task to accomplish. Lack of confidence of your abilities is one of the biggest factor in hurdles.
While tight spots are the situations in our life, which we might not have any control over. Broken home, separated parents, a parent who has to be away most of the time to earn a living for the family are part of tight spots.
How about the unexpected turns? What is this?
The events in your life that make an impact or create a deep depression is called Unexpected Turns. Sometimes it change the course of your life forever. Death in the Family for example or a big disappointment.
**How do we cope all these?**
Hardship in life are truly difficult to handle if you don't know how to. Some tried to Drink until drunk, watch a movie, listen to music,sweat it out,read a good book,go out with pals,isolate Oneself,take drugs,call a friend or Gorge self with food.
Some of these solutions do help, Some don't solve the problem at all. The rest do more harm than good.
**How about if you've tried all and don't work anymore, what will you do?**
The best and wisest thing to do is to look up to God for help and guidance. No one else will be able to help you as much as He can. It would be wise to look up to Him for help no matter what situation you are in, whether good or bad.
Your faith in God will help you get through the most difficult situations. He will ease your burdens. He will give you the strength and courage to go on with your life.
Only God knows how to handle your pain and depression, Only God has the ability to change your life, remove your sorrow and heal your broken heart. And only God has the ability to understand you more than you can understand yourself.
**ONLY GOD CAN HELP !**
**BELIEVE HIM**
**STRENGTHEN YOUR FAITH IN HIM**
**TRUST HIM!**
The trials may be part of his plan to make us mature and better person.
But;
Always Remember God's plan for us are always beneficial and not intended to harm US.
Good day my Read cash family ❤️
Thank you for reading 📖 📖
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@Kris2310
Have you ever been in a situation where, you were trying very hard to listen to someone talking yet had difficulty figuring out what this person was trying to say? 😂
Sometimes it happens to me , I did nothing but say ok ok ok haha..
or maybe yes, yes,yes 😂
The Story of a Filipina Writer
Did you hear the story of a Filipina writer? If not yet let me share this wonderful story.
Let's Start;
When she was a child, she had a hyperactive imagination. She painted pictures and told stories, even before she could reach. In their house they spoke two languages, English and Cebuano. She grow up in the apart of the Philippines known as the Visayas. English was the language that shaped her World. She learned to read in it and to write, at age six. She used Cebuano to express the gut level sensations, like hunger or being tired.
She think that she speak and write English better than the average middle class Filipino. This one of the factors which determined her career path. She currently a writer who works as a newspaper editor to earn a living. She can attribute her English proficiency to her parent's careers which is both educators also. She believe that the average middle class Filipino from their part of the world express herself in Cebuano first, before English and then perhaps Tagalog. For the masses her point of view is those living below the poverty line......English is a totally alien language. And to her additional views 70 percent of Filipinos do fall below the Poverty line. She also said that Filipinos who write in English and learned the language through reading American books,are removed in terms of world view and culture from a large part of the populace. But she believes that we are as a Filipinos, in our supertitions and gut level values,as the farmers or fishfolk.
She write English not for political reasons, or to make a statement, but because this is the only language that she really good. She grew up in the Visayas,and her other language was Cebuano. However, because the central government in Luzon dictated that "Filipino". the national language, be based on Luzon's tagalog. " Filipino was always an alien language to her. She learned it to her grammar books in grade school but it was never a valid way to express the way she felt. She only learned Tagalog....conversational tagalog at age 22, when she moved to Manila. Up to now she cannot speak nor write a formal tagalog. She said that her educational system puts a premium on English, which was always a ready to fall back. And as for Cebuano, it is invisible, virtually expunged, from the educational system. She think it's quite unfair, since more Filipinos speak it than any other indigenous language. She can also speak it, but was never taught the formal rules of spelling, syntax, grammar...nor more exposed to exemplary writing in Cebuano while in school.
The end 🔚
What can you say about the Story?
Did you learn anything from the story?
Thank you for reading 📖
Lovelots ❤️😘
@Kris2310
Do you know?
That pregnancy starts when a sperm cell fertilizes an egg cell. When the fertilized ovum sets in the lining of the uterus, the woman will miss her menstrual period signalling the first sign of pregnancy. Breast changes, tiredness, weight gain,nausea and vomitting, and frequent urination are other symptoms of pregnancy. Pregnancy last for nice months.
Pagmamahal
Ang pag-ibig ay isang pagpapala
napakahirap ipaliwanag
galing ito sa puso
tulad ng isang lambak ng tagsibol
Mula sa pag-aalaga ng langit sa itaas
Umulan ito sa tao
Upang pagpalain
Ang nabaon na damdamin
maraming paraan
na maaring ibigay ng isang tao
ang pag-ibig na nilayon niya
sa mahal sa buhay
Sobrang pagmamahal
mula sa aming mga magulang, kapatid
para sa aming mga kamag-anak at kaibigan
at para sa lahat na laging nandiyan
dapat magbahagi at tumanggap
Ng mga taong nangangailangan
sapagkat ito ay hindi lamang isang regalo sa ngayon
ngunit ito ay isang panimulang punto ng kaligayahan
hanggang sa walang hanggan.
@Kris2310
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I want to be Alone for a Moment
Have you ever experienced that you want to be alone once in a while? You do not want to talk too or bother by anyone?. You don't understand yourself what you really want? And You suddenly have a problem, for no reason?
You even remember your bad memories and your ups and downs in life?
Your frustrations haunt your mind even when you don't think about it?
Feeling unhappy,
What is wrong with you?
Are you still ok?
Sometimes in our lives we also need a break. We also need to regain our vigor. We need to refresh our minds again. We need to have a healthy outlook on life again And we can only do that if we are alone.
It is not bad to be alone. Perhaps being alone sometimes help to restore our vitality and positive outloook in life. Do you believe that being alone really helps?
For me yes!
Because when you are alone, you will have time to meditate, and think. You have more time for yourself. You can do anything you want. You can rest your mind . You own your time, etc..
Rest assured that being alone for a moment had a positive effect on our lives.
Good morning..
Love lots ❤️😘
@Kris2310
Goodnight Everyone, May God grant us a good night sleep tonight.
Thank you God for your presence in our lives.
Help us to find our joy in you.
Bless our Family and Friends.
In Jesus Name. Amen 🙏 🙏
Rebirth......
**Patay na ako**
**walang hangin sa paghinga**
**walang pusong maramdaman**
**walang isip isipin**
**walang kamay na hawakan**
**Talagang patay na ako.**
**Biglang may ningning na sumikat**
**Sa Buong katawan ko.,**
**Nagdudulot ito ng konting pagbabago**
**Ang mga halaman ay nagsisimulang maging berde**
**Ang mga ibon ay lumilipad na**
**Ang Halimaw ay gumala**
**At ako rin.**
**Ang lahat ng sugat na dulot ay humilon**
**Nagsisimula nang tumibok ang puso ko**
**Ang isip ko gumana ng muli**
**Ang aking mga kamay ay may pakiramdam na**
**Buhay ulit ako**
**Buhay ulit ako**
**At andito ako gumagawa ng tula para sa inyo.**
**#angmulingpagsilang**
**#angmulingpagkabuhay**
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
To the teenagers out there who did nothing but use their cell phones ,play games, and Sometimes did not follow their mother. Please meditate and be kind Children..Mothers are getting tired also.
Nothing to post haha,
I'm just going to do the laundry now..
NAG EMOTE LANG ANG PEG 😂😂
Good morning ☀
Woman Behind every Man's Success
*It is inevitable that every man's success, there is always a woman behind it, whether in business, sports or war, during the olden days. But oftentimes, women are taken for granted. Most people regard women as "second class" citizens or maybe interior compared to men. What most people didn't know ia that, what men can do, women can do also.*
*For quiet some time women have been neglected and were put in one corner of history. It was then, during the Renaissance age. But now that we are in the new age, almost if not all, regard women almost superior than man. I continue that some will disagree, after all, they are entitled to their own opinion. But probably, those that are not for this opinion are chauvinist or maybe weaklings if they happen to be men, or women in any case.*
*Women before are only left at home to do house chores, or plainly serve their family. It even came to the point in Philippine history that women are not entitled to vote, nor attend gatherings or meetings pertaining the country.*
*But who nurtured those soldiers in war who were wounded? Tandang Sora. And who succeeded Diego Silang in war when he was unfortunately killed? His loving wife, Gabriela Silang ( You students know this ) and what do you call them? WOMEN. That is only in scope of Philippine History.*
*However there are also some sectors in society that upholds the importance of women. These are the people that knew what women can do, and believe in their capacity. These are the people that acknowledge women as human beings just as equal as men. These are people that gives concen to the persons who bore them. And I for one, salute these people that thinks the same.*
***THANK YOU FOR READING!***
Everyday is a New day..
Each day is an opportunity for Hope
Each day is an opportunity for Peace
Each day is an opportunity for Love
Each day is an opportunity for Joy
Each day is an opportunity for Laughter
Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most.”
**There is something good in every day, it’s all about having gratitude and noticing the beauty around you. Even within a bad day, you can find something small to bring you JOY 😍**
Every day is a Brand New DAY.
Good Morning have a productive day to All.
Spread Love Always ❤️
@Kris2310
