Don't settle for less
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's quickly have a recap of yesterday's article.
Everyone has one habit or the other. But then, there are good habits and then there are bad habits. Habits are routines that we fall into as a result of repetition and as a result, it automatically becomes part of us, but the profitability of those routines depends on whether they're good or bad. It takes time for something to turn into a habit, so the best for us to do is to avoid bad habits because they're not profitable to us an others. Bad habits will only cause us to regret later in life. Therefore, it's advisable to avoid them.
It's easy to get post in the activities of the day and forget that the decisions and choices we make, will have a lasting impact on our lives. Habits, both good and bad, are major game changers in our lives and it's important to be sensitive of the ones that can enslave us.
Majority of the things that cause us to regret later in life are because of bad habits. They hinder us from achieving our goals and aspiration. That's why it's very important for us to avoid them in every way.
On the other hand, good habits are profitable and will help us achieve our goals and ambition. They make our lives easier and makes success easier yo achieve.
It is now left for us to decide which of the two habits we want to have in our lives. One of our aims is to develop good habits that will aid us to achieve our dreams, and also avoid the bad ones that will prevent us from achieving success.
Bad habits will enslave you and prevent you from attaining your full potential. Because they take time to form, we must avoid them and put that time in cultivating good habits.
Bad habits will make you to regret later in life, therefore, stay away from them.
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You are worth more. You can achieve more if you believe in yourself more. Don't settle for less from anybody. You deserve to be celebrated. You can be successful and great. You just need to believe and work towards it.
You are worth more than you think. You can achieve more than you believe. Don't let anybody tell you that you are not good enough. You can be successful and great if you just believe and work for it.
You are worth more than you think. You can achieve more than you believe. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not good enough. You can be successful and great, but it starts with believing in yourself. Work towards your goals and don't settle for less. You are worth celebrating.
This article is just to remind you of not setting for less.
This is it for today. Have a great day.
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Avoid habits that enslave you
Good day guys, how are you doing? I trust that you're having a great day? How's work also going?
Let's quickly do a recap of yesterday's article.
There is great power in words spoken. We can either use our words to lift someone emotionally, motivate them, or encourage them whenever they're feeling down. But also, with words, we can have very dangerous impact on people. We can dampen someone's courage with our words and we can also make someone lose faith by the words w speak. This is why it's very important for us to learn how to speak words that heal and encourage people everytime. Words hold so much power, they can change lives for the better. Therefore, let's use them the good way.
There are so many things that we can do with our words. We can do good to someone with our words and we can send someone into a sea of self-doubt with the words we speak.
Our words are very powerful, and we should use them to build people up, not tear them down.
If we ensure to use our words positively, we can make a huge impact on the people around us and the world at large. Let us all choose to speak words of healing and encouragement to everyone that meets us.
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There are habits and then there are bad habits. Habits are routines that we fall into automatically, but the profitability of those routines depends on whether they're good or bad. It takes time for us to turn something into a habit, so it's best to avoid bad habits because they're not profitable. Bad habits will cause us to regret later. So it's good to avoid them.
It's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and forget that the decisions we make have a lasting impact. Habits, both good and bad, play a big role in our lives and it's important to be aware of the ones that can enslave us.
Bad habits are often the cause of regret later on in life. They can keep us from achieving our goals and reaching our full potential. That's why it's so important to avoid them at all costs.
Good habits, on the other hand, are profitable and help us move closer towards our goals. They make our lives easier and more fulfilling.
It's up to each of us to decide which habits we want to cultivate in our lives. We should aim to develop good habits that will help us achieve our dreams, while avoiding the bad ones that will only hold us back.
Bad habits can enslave you and prevent you from achieving your goals. They take time to form, so it's important to avoid them altogether. They'll cause you to regret later on, so it's best to stay away from them.
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Speak healing and encouraging words
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're doing very great. Happy Sunday to you.
Let's do a fast recap of yesterday's article.
Stubbornness or hardness to correction from leaders and mentors cause so many things like loss of favour, rejection, regrets, pain. We need to learn to be humble enough to learn and correct ourselves from any wrongs that we're being corrected from by our leaders.
Although it's not everytime we have to accept correction and advice right away. But we are meant to take time, be open-minded, reflect on the reason we're being corrected and how we'll benefit from the corrections.
It's hard to learn if you have an attitude of resisting correction. I gave an example of a friend I once had that insisted that he was right about a particular subject despite the many errors I showed to him. I also showed him other concrete facts that proved that he was wrong. He denied all. This went on for some time until he could not longer deny that he was wrong. When we are able to learn and correct ourselves when corrected, It is a very good attribute of maturity.
In our journey to becoming better persons and leaders, it is important and wise of us to seek immediate correction from our leaders and mentors whenever we're wrong or make a mistake. We should make it a lifestyle to correct ourselves because growth begins with self-correction followed by determination, cooperation and dedication.
Whenever we're corrected by our leaders, it shows that we're not perfect which is a fact for everyone and that there are other ways to do things better. Successful people admitted that one of the reasons they made it was because some other people helped them to realise their mistakes and to correct themselves and they corrected themselves instead of being stubborn. Not everyone is fortunate enough to have mentors or leaders that will inspire them to change or to correct the wrong things in their lives, therefore we should ensure to make good use of our mentor's correction.
If you're stubborn and being corrected by others, don't immediately reject their corrections nor ignore them.
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There's power in words. We can use our words to uplift someone, to motivate them, to encourage them when they're feeling down. But, with words, we can also do very dangerous things to people. We can demoralize someone with our words. We can make someone lose faith with our words. That's why it's so important for us to learn to speak words that will heal and encourage people at all times. Words have the power to change lives for the better - let's use them for good.
There are so many things that we can do with our words. We can motivate someone with our words, we can encourage someone with our words, and we can make someone feel good about themselves with our words. But, we can also do some very dangerous things with our words. We can demoralize someone with our words, we can make someone lose faith with our words, and we can send someone into a spiral of self-doubt with our words.
At all times, we should learn to speak words that will heal and encourage people. Our words are very powerful, and we should use them to build people up, not tear them down.
Speak words that heal and encourage - Our words are very powerful. By words we can motivate someone, we can use it to encourage someone that's feeling down. But, with words, we can do very dangerous things to people. We can demoralize someone with our words. We can make someone lose faith with our words. We should learn to speak words that will heal and encourage people at all times.
When we use our words positively, we can make a huge impact on the world around us. Let's choose to speak words of healing and encouragement to those who need it most.
Thanks for reading through. Happy Sunday to you. Have a great day.
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Correct yourself when corrected
Good day guys. How are you doing today? How's your weekend going? I hope you're enjoying your weekend.
Let's have a recap of your yesterday's article. Yesterday I wrote that we do not need to have just a good self esteem but a healthy one. Having a healthy self-esteem is one of the keys to a prosperous and peaceful life. If you are able to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you're awesome and you really believe what you said about yourself, then you've just taken a very big step in taking control of your life. It is very important that you have a good and the right perspective of yourself. You must at all times think of yourself in the right way. Have a good and positive confession about yourself regardless of the situation. This is the way you'll be able to have a healthy life and as well, you'll not be disturbed by wrong opinions of others about you. You should learn how to love yourself unconditionally regardless of people's opinions and accept yourself for who you are first and then make some improvements where necessary. What others think of you is not much of your business. The best thing to do is just do the best that you can do in this life and leave the rest to God.
You don't have to feel ashamed of yourself. You're the best version of yourself, God could have created. You're special and great. These are the kind of perspective of yourself you need to have of yourself. You must always think of yourself the right way. Also, you should have a good and positive confession about yourself. This is the way you can have a healthy life and not be disturbed by wrong opinions of others about you.
You should be proud of yourself regardless of how you feel you look like. You must love yourself just the way you are. You should believe that you're a beautiful woman or a handsome man. You should have a thought process that affirms that you're wise and intelligent. One funny thing is that there are many people that admire you. Life is a gift to you, and your life is full of wonders, love, success and happiness. This should be your mind and belief concerning yourself.
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Stubbornness to correction from leaders and mentors leads to loss of favour, rejection, regrets, pain. We should be humble enough to learn and correct ourselves from any wrongs that we're being corrected from.
We don't always have to accept correction and advice right away. But we should take time, be open-minded, reflect on why we're being corrected and the impact it'll have on us and those around us.
It's hard to learn if you have an attitude to correction. I once had a friend that insisted that he was right about a particular subject despite the many errors I pointed out, and showed him concrete facts proved otherwise. This went on for weeks until he could not longer deny what he was wrong about. Stubbornness to correction from leaders and mentors leads to loss of favour, rejection and regrets. We should learn from our mistakes and be humble enough to correct ourselves from any wrongs that we're being corrected from. It's an attribute of maturity.
In our quest to become better persons and leaders, we should seek immediate correction from our leaders and mentors when we get it wrong or make a mistake. We should make it a habit to self-correct because growth begins with self-correction followed by determination, cooperation and dedication.
When you're corrected by others, it shows that you're not perfect and there are many ways to do things better. Many successful people admitted that the reason why they made it was because some other people helped them to realise their mistakes and to correct themselves. Not everyone is fortunate enough to have mentors or leaders who will inspire them to change or to correct themselves. It's easy to be stubborn, but as the wise saying goes "It's harder than it looks", that is what makes it precious.
If you're stubborn and being corrected by others, don't immediately reject their corrections nor ignore them.
Healthy self-esteem
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust you're having a great day. Welcome to the last weekend in the month of January.
Let's quickly move to the summary of yesterday's article.
Some kind of things that happen in life can shake your faith. Some of those things can even make you almost or lose your faith. Despite the things that might happen, it is important to never lose faith. Losing faith is like losing hope. It is like losing the center of what constitutes who you are. When you lose hope, it makes you feel helpless and weak.
A lot of people have lost their faith in God because of the things that happened in their lives. We can lose our faith if we do not count the blessings of God in our lives. It is normal to be disappointed if something you wished for to happen didn't happen in your life. When you lose something, or were unable to achieve something in life, this is not the time that you lose your faith.
If you are really a believer, nothing should be able to shake your faith. Nothing will be able to make you lose your faith so fast, regardless of the tenacity. Whether it is if you lose your job, or you become sick, or you lost a big contract, that is not the time or you to lose your faith. Even if all things happen to might want to make you lose your faith, never you lose your faith. You should always maintain a strong and unwavering faith in God because he's dependable and can come through for you.
The best way to maintain your faith is to have a culture of prayer. You should always pray to God and ask Him for guidance and help at every time, not only the painful times.
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A healthy self-esteem is one of the keys to a prosperous life. If you can look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you're awesome and believe it, then it is a big step to take control of your life. You need to have a good perspective of yourself. You must think of yourself the right way. Have good and positive confession about yourself. This is the way you'll be have a healthy life and not be disturbed by wrong opinions about you. You must learn how to love yourself unconditionally or accept yourself for who you are and make some improvements where necessary. What others may think of you is really none of your business. Just do the best that you can do in this life and leave the rest to God.
Do not feel ashamed of yourself. You're the best version God could have created of yourself. You're unique and great. You need to have a good perspective of yourself. You must think of yourself the right way. Have good and positive confession about yourself. This is the way you'll be have a healthy life and not be disturbed by wrong opinions about you.
You should be proud of yourself. You should love yourself just the way you are. You should think of yourself as a beautiful woman or a handsome man. You should believe that you are courageous, wise and intelligent. There are many people that admire you. Life is a gift to you, and your life is full of wonders, love, success and happiness.
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Never lose faith
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's have a quick recap of yesterday's article.
There's no one that does not want security. People are always at rest when they know that someone is watching over their personal belongings and properties. And good enough is that, technology has even improved to a level that it can watch over and secure your properties. In spit of these, improvement in technology with the high level of security, it cannot still be compared to God's security. No other kind of security can be compared to God's security. God knows all things and sees all things. If you think that the police or technology can give you this kind of assurance, then you're making a big mistake.
One thing we have to realize is that, God is greater than any of our worries. He can take care of us and provide for us anything we want beyond that we could imagine. Our trust should be in Him, not in the protection of ourselves because He can do so much more than you think He can do. One way to receive God's protection is by prayer. Prayer is key to receive God's protection in our lives. It's a way for us to connect with Him and to recieve assurance of protection from Him.
There are a lot of threats to our security in this life. Different things happen everyday like robbery etc, still we need to be careful in our every day things, but, no matter how much technology offers to secure us, it still cannot be compared to the most perfect security in the world which is God's security.
People have a lot of concerns about security. They want to be secured, for all their properties and money, because of this,they invest in dogs, fences or even guards in their houses. However, no matter how strong those security systems are, they are just a temporal relief to the danger that is just everywhere.
God's security remains the best. Man or machine cannot measure up to God's security. It's His security that everyone should crave for. Man cannot produce a security that can secirw your property better than God. All things work well for those who depend on God's security. It is His security that is the most dependable.
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There are things that happen in life that can shake your faith. Some things that happen can even make you lose your faith. Nevertheless, it is important to never lose faith. Losing faith is like losing hope. It is like losing the core of what makes you who you are. It will make you feel helpless and weak.
A lot of people have lost their faith in God because of what happened in their lives. We can lose our faith if we are not blessed a lot by God. It is normal to be disappointed if you lost something that you wanted to happen in your life. So, when you lose something that you wanted to happen in your life, this is the time that you lose your faith.
If you are really a believer, nothing will be able do shake your faith. Nothing will be able to lose your faith so easily. Even if you lose your job, or if you become sick, or if you lost the chance of having a good family then your faith will never be shaken. Even if all things happen to make you lose your faith, never let that happen to you. You should always maintain a strong and unwavering faith in God.
The best way to maintain your faith is to pray to God and ask Him for guidance and help.
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God's security is the best
Good day guys. How are you doing today? How's your day going? I trust that it is going well.
Let's quickly do a review of yesterday's article.
One of the amazing parts of humanity is the privilege and ability to help people. It's sure that you cannot say that everything you've done and achieved is because of only your efforts. You've been helped by someone at one point of your journey in life. Therefore, it is like you're indebted to help people in whatever capacity you have because you've been helped before. So the cycle looks like you've been helped so that you'll help others you meet.
You have been helped to help. One of the purpose of your creation or existence is to help other people. I'm sharing with you, the concept of helping others, so that you'll be motivated to help more people.
When you know who created you, it provides foundational support that allows you to face and get through whatever challenge you're facing.
God didn't create us just to exist, He also created us to excel and prosper in life, we must then remember who gave us the privilege of life and acknowledge Him because only Him can really help us.
Also, God wants for us to focus on things from above, so that we can fully fulfill in our present moment all that we need to fulfill, we must focus on what God called us for in this time and season.
You've been helped so that you'll help others you meet.
It's a circle of human existence.
I hope that as you read this article again, you're rememeber the people who have helped you in life. Whether people who have helped you find a job, or get a promotion, or a new house. I also hope that you'll remember that people helped you when you needed it most, therefore make yourself available to help as many that you can help. The people who's hand you were able to hold to when you were going through hardships and the people who've held your hand while you were walking through tough times. Therefore, be available for people to rest on during times of struggle and pain.
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Everyone wants security. People like when they're confident that their personal belongings and properties are under watch by someone. Technology has even improved such that it can watch over and secure your properties. Nevertheless, with the high level of security, it cannot be compared to God's security. God's security is the most dependable of all security. For example, God knows where your children are at all times. If you think that the police or technology can give you an assurance like this, you're clearly mistaken.
What we have to realize is this-God is greater than any of our worries or fears. He can take care of us and provide for us beyond anything that we could imagine. Our trust should be in Him, not in the protection of ourselves because He can do so much more than any of us can imagine. Prayer is the key to receiving God's protection in our lives. It's a way to connect with Him and to understand His plans for us and our families.
In this life, there are a lot of threats to our security. From robbery to accidents and even betrayal, everyone is afraid of losing their security. We need to be very careful in every step we take. But, no matter how much security technology offers us, it simply cannot be compared to the most perfect security in the world: God's.
You know, people have a lot of concerns about security. They need to be secured for their properties and money so they invest in dogs, fences or even guards. However, no matter how fancy those security systems are, they only represent a temporal relief to the danger that lurks around us.
God's security is the best. Man or machine cannot match God's security. It's His security that everyone needs. Man cannot make a security that can secure your properties better than the one made by God. All things turn for the better for those who depend on God's security. It is His security that is most dependable.
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You're helped to help
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article.
There are times when things don't go the way we want in our lives. The times when we experience hardships and pain that we hope, will end very fast. But the actual thing is that, it's how you face those hardships and test that matters. It all starts by looking to know what the purpose of the pain might be? What lessons is this pain trying to teach me? Instead of you, waiting for the time when the pain will subside by itself, why not find a way of using the pain to your advantage and learning vital lessons from the pain. Wen you do this, you'll be surprised at how many lessons you can learn from your pain and hardship. And that alone would make you value the entire process.
Giving the example of exams, if you had ever done any test or exam in your life, you will agree with me that exams are sometimes hard and it takes that you put effort to pass them. No matter whether the exam was in primary school or in university, the goal was always the same. You would want to pass the exam.
The pain or hardship you might be going through now might be a test for you. And if it is a test, that means that you are expected to either pass or fail it. That's life for you.
People say that we shouldn't waste our pains or hardships. And this is true because there are so many lessons to be learnt despite the pain. So, as much as you hope and wish for the pain or hardship to go away, also try to learn as many lessons that is available for you to learn through that hardship and pain. Also make sure that you do not fail the test, so that you'll come out a better person.
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The beauty of humanity is the privilege to help people. You can't say everything you've done is because of only your efforts. You've been helped by someone at one point of your journey in life, so because of this, it feels like you're indebted to help people in whatever capacity you have. Therefore, you've been helped so that you'll help others you meet.
You have been helped to help. The whole purpose of your creation is to help other people. Today, I want to share with you the concept of helping others, so that you'll be able to help more people.
When you're in need of help, you can help yourself by knowing Who created you. Knowing who created you provides foundational support that allows you to get through whatever challenge you're facing.
The same way God didn't create us just to exist, but He created us to excel and prosper in life, we must remember who gave us the privilege of life.
And the same way God wants for us to focus on things above, so that we can be fully invested in our present moment, we must focus on what God called us for in this time and season.
You've been helped so that you'll help others you meet.
It's a circle of human existence.
I hope that when you are reading this blog post you're reminded of the people who have helped you in life. People who have helped you find a job, or get a promotion, or even find a great new friend. I also hope that you'll remember the people who helped you when you needed it most. The people who's hand you were able to hold onto when you were going through hardships and the people who've held your hand while walking through tough times.
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Learn from it
Good morning guys, how are you doing? I trust that you're having a great day. Welcome to a new week. Let's quickly go through yesterday's article.
One of the popular statements we've heard from time to time is that contentment is a great gain.
No matter how much or how little we have contentment is not all about what we have. Contentment should not come out from how much we are able to have or not have. We should be contented regardless of whatever we have.
Contentment again is great gain. Whenever we lose the ability to be content with whatever we have, we become covetous and this can lead us to do many unimaginable things we would not believe that we would have done.
But there should be a balance. I am not saying that we should be stagnant and be okay with being where we are because we're contented. We should strive to ensure that our lives improve. And even in this we must be content still.
The fact that we must also be content with our present condition is what makes it difficult to content and not stagnant at the same time. Sometimes, for reasons beyond our control, our lives will not improve in the way we want to. And this can make it uneasy for us to accept whatever is at the moment and be content.
But something you should never forget is that everything happens the way it is supposed to happen. A good life is relative. Everyone's gold life is defined by the situation they find themselves.
To live a good life, we should constantly remind ourselves of this fact.
Contentment is great gain. Being content means to be happy with whatever you have without being jealous or covetous of another man's own. We need to be content with whatever we have. Whenever we lose the ability to be content, we become covetous and this can lead us to do many unimaginable things.
The problem with being discontent is that it limits our capacity for living well, it makes you feel like what you have is not enough and that you're not good enough. We cannot be happy if we are constantly envying what others have or if we're comparing ourselves to others.
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There are times when things go wrong in our lives. We experience great hardships and pain that we hope, will come to an end. Again, it's how you face those hardships and test that matters a lot. It all starts by asking yourself what purpose does it serve? What lessons is it teaching me? Instead of waiting for the pain to subside by itself, why not find a way of using the pain to your advantage.
You will be surprised how many lessons you can learn from your pain and hardship. And that alone would make the entire process worthwhile.
If you have ever been through a test in your life, you will agree with me when I say exams are hard and it takes a lot of effort to pass them. It doesn't matter whether the exam is in primary school or in university, the essence is always the same. You want to pass the exam.
Learning from your hardship and pain
That pain or hardship you might be going through might be a test. If it is a test that means you are expected to either pass or fail it. That's life.
I've heard people say that we shouldn't waste our pains. There are lessons to be learnt despite the pain. Therefore, as much as you hope for the pain or hardship to do, learn as many lessons that is available for you to learn through that hardship. So make sure you do not fail the test, so you'll come out a better person.
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Be content not stagnant
Good afternoon guys and a happy Sunday to you. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article.
Have you ever thought of what people say of you in your absence? Do you ever wonder and ask yourself of what other people think about you? Do you ever ask yourself the question of how others see you?
A person's reputation is simply his or her legacy. The way others will address you is just a representation of the good or bad things that they've heard others speak about you. Your reputation is the result of everything that you have done, both good and bad, all of your actions.
You're never fully absent. People will always talk about you when you're absent. They will talk about whatever they think know of you and have seen you act, and this is very dependent on your behavior when you were present. What matters in your absence, is what people say of you.
Good words are always said about someone that has behaved himself well. They are automatically respected by others because of the attitude they had when they were present. The choice to be positive in every way is yours to make. You should know that Plpeople will talk positively about you or negatively about you based on your attitude when you're not around.
I know you've heard this quote “Never judge a book by it’s cover”, well never judge anyone by the way they look but also they say first impression is always last and this is very true. Who you are when you're absent is determined by what people say and this determines how others will address you. When someone asks about you from others, what will those people say about you? What they'll say is dependent on your behavior when you were present. Always make sure you leave a good remark of yourself so that people will remember you for good at all times.
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Contentment is a great gain!
What makes contentment great is that it is a gift, not an achievement. No matter how much or how little we have, contentment will always be there. It's not about having more. Contentment does not come from how much we are able to do in this life and even less from how much we are able to accumulate.
Contentment is great gain. Whenever we lose the ability to be content, we become covetous and this can lead us to do many unimaginable things.
I am not saying that we should be stagnant and be okay with being where we are in the next year. We should strive to make sure our lives improve. And in this we must be content still.
The fact that we must also be content with our present condition is what makes it so difficult to achieve this stage. Because sometimes, for reasons beyond out control, our lives will not improve in the way we want to. And this can make it harder for us to accept what is and be content with it.
But never forget that everything happens precisely the way it is supposed to happen. A good life just means that you are living at the precise time and place where you are supposed to be.
To live a good life, we should constantly remind ourselves of this fact.
Contentment is great gain. Being content means to be happy with whatever you have without being jealous or covetous of another man's own. We need to be content with whatever we have. Whenever we lose the ability to be content, we become covetous and this can lead us to do many unimaginable things.
The problem with being discontent is that it limits our capacity for living well. We cannot be happy if we are constantly vying for things we don't have or if we're comparing ourselves to others.
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What will people say
Good afternoon guys, how are you doing today? I hope your weekend is going well. Mine is going well.
Let me quickly do a review of yesterday's article quickly.
Reading is one of the best habit to get in life. It's can be likened to warm water in your mind. It helps to keep you up and running in life. Reading also fills you with hope for more in life. Reading can also give you an idea of situations at hand and also you can discover a new way of doing the things you use to do before . Reading helps to broaden your range of thinking.
One of the habits that makes you successful in life is reading. Successful people are known to be people that have created the habit of reading to be informed and get the latest information they need to be ahead Iife. Also books are not the only places to find relevant information, also reading newspapers and articles on the internet is also a very good way to get information.
If you want to be a successful leader, you must have the habit of reading. Reading keeps you informed and information is needed to take right actions in life and at the right time. Without reading, you can't get information and you can't make good decisions, so you will go nowhere in life. One thing I didn't talk about yesterday was about getting information at the right time. This is also key to your success in life. Some of the benefits of reading are;
1. You are able to learn from others' mistakes and from their successes when you read.
2. You get to learn new skills, such as writing and speaking or even improve on the skills you already have.
3. It helps you to improve on your vocabulary, grammar and pronunciation
4. You get have access to and understand the values that are important for success in your life
5. You helps to increase your intellectual ability.
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Today, I'll be writing on something important. So journey with me.
What do people say of you?
Do you ever wonder what other people think about you? Do you ever ask yourself how others see you? Do you ever try to change your way in order to make others view you better?
A person's reputation is his or her legacy. The way that others address you is a representation of the good or bad things that others speak about you. Your reputation is the result of everything that's happened to you, both good and bad.
You're never truly absent. People always talk about you when you're not around. They will talk about whatever they know of you, which is dependent on your behavior when you're present. Why? Because in the absence of what you do, only what people say of you matters.
Good words are always said about someone who is confident, kind, and humble. They get their respect from others because their attitude is positive and they can leave a good remark too because they don't fear. You can be positive in any way you want to be because the choice is yours to make and yours alone. People will talk positively about you or negatively about you based on your attitude when you're not around.
You might have heard this quote “Never judge a book by it’s cover”, well never judge anyone by the way they look. They say first impression is always last and that’s true. What people think of you is because of how you act when you're around. Who you are when you're absent determines a lot about how you'll be addressed. When someone asks about you from others, what will those people say about you. What they'll say is dependent on your behavior when you were present. Leave a good remark of yourself so that people will remember you for good.
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Learn to read
Good afternoon guys. How's today going for you?. Welcome to the weekend. I hope you've had a great week.
Let's quickly do a run through of yesterday's article. I wrote about the need to evaluate yourself and your progress.
Really it's not about doing whatever you do a lot of times, the main thing is about producing good results that will people to you and what you do. For you to get to this level of success, you need a coach or a mentor that'll guide and tell you what is lacking as you progress. You need someone to tell you what you do is either good or not. That person will be someone who won't massage your ego or comfort you, but he's only interested in you being the best version of yourself you can be
Whatever it is that you're doing, you need a mentor or coach. It is true that we can learn most things through study and training. But there are certain things that can't be taught, they have to be understood by experience. I gave an example of a bike, it's not that you can't teach someone how to ride a bike, it's just that riding a bike requires a special kind of co-ordination that is best understood by the preson learning. With mentoring, you'll have a guide that'll take you through the process of learning these things that can't be learnt from videos.
You really don't have to be a professional mentor or mentoree, but if you want to succeed in life, it's advisable for you to have a mentor. It can be a boss, coach, parent, friend, just anyone who has certain skills that you want to learn and grow into and is experienced in your aspect of expertise
The important thing is finding someone you know. Tell them about your goals and get their feedback about what you're currently doing, as in where you feel stuck, what's holding you back and you'll see a big shift when you get a mentor
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Reading is the best habit to get. It's like warm water, a shower or a massage in your mind. It gets you up and running. Reading fills you with hope. It gives you an idea of situations or a new way of doing things. Reading broadens your horizon
Reading is a good habit that makes you successful in life. Successful people are those that create the habit of reading to be informed and get the latest information needed. Books are not the only places to find information. Reading newspapers and articles through the internet is also a good way to get information
If you want to be a successful leader, you must have a reading mindset. Successful people are those that have the habit or lifestyle of reading. Reading keeps you informed and information is needed to take right actions in life. Without reading, you can't get information and you can't make good decisions, so you will go nowhere in life
There are many benefits of reading
1. You can learn from others' mistakes and from their successe
2. You can be in touch with the world news, events and discoverie
3. You can learn new skills, such as writing and speaking
4. You can improve your vocabulary, grammar and pronunciatio
5. You can understand your values and what is important for your lif
6. You can grow intellectuall
7. You can become more enlightened about different thing
8. You can get free knowledge from the books out ther
If you want to succeed in life, you need to develop the reading habit
Thanks for reading through. Have a great weekend
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Evaluate yourself
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. Another weekend is almost here. I hope you're having a productive week. Also I hope you're still working with your resolutions for this year or you've forgotten about it.
Let's quickly do a recap of yesterday's article. Yesterday I wrote about the disadvantages of having rifts with people and the advantage of learning to forgive people.
Forgiveness is one of the virtues and characters that enables people to succeed in life. It is a process of deleting things, memories and situations that will not allow a person reach their desired goal. Forgiveness also means giving up the resentments, bitterness and anger you have towards another person or group that has hurt you or caused you pain in the past. Forgiveness requires your will, it involves you making the decision to move forward, and enjoy your life instead of focusing on the things that happened in the past that hurts you. Sometimes, forgiveness is communicated by showing love toward one's offender.
Yesterday's article on how to avoid rifts is very important because sometimes those pains and unforgiveness can hold you back and make it hard for you to move on with life. I've heard of people that have not forgiven someone and because of that the unforgiveness have held them back.
When you want i forgive someone, the first thing to do is that you need to know why it was wrong not to forgive in the first place. You will get a lot of ideas from others who may share your same point of view.
Rifts has the ability to keep you separated from people who have been good to you. If you have some kind of issues with someone, it could lead to a very big problem that you would not be able to handle. Rifts are usually caused by more than one reason, and it in turn leads to more than one end product. To avoid rifts, you'll need to learn to forgive. Forgiving would definitely make your relationship with the every other person better and would make you enjoy being around people. Also when the person is worth it, especially if that person is your best friend and it is looking like it is becoming rifts, you should work them out as soon as possible so that you'll avoid any quarrels that may arise later on. Resentment grows into bitterness and finally into a rift that is full of animosity and malice. Resentment has never been and will not be a solution for any problem. Therefore learn to forgive as much as you eat.
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Today, I'll be writing about evaluating yourself.
It's not just about doing whatever you do a lot of times, but about producing good results that people will love and respond to. To get there you need a coach or a mentor that'll tell you what is lacking. You need someone to tell you when your work is good, and when it's not. Someone who won't massage your ego or comfort you, but who is interested in you being the best version of yourself.
Be it an art, a skill or an ability. We can learn most things through study and training. But there are certain things that can't be taught; they have to be understood. For example, it's not that you can't teach someone how to ride a bike – it's just that riding a bike requires a special kind of co-ordination that is best understood. With mentoring, you'll have a guide who'll take you through the process of learning these things that need to be understood.
Now, you don't have to be a professional mentor or mentoree, but if you want to succeed in life, you should have a mentor. It can be a boss, coach, parent, friend - anyone who has certain skills that you want to learn and grow into.
The important thing is finding someone you know, or even friend of a friend whose a writer. Tell them about your goals and get their feedback about what you're currently doing, as in where you feel stuck, what's holding you back etc.
Thanks for reading through. Have a great day.
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Avoid rifts
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. I also hope you've been having a great week.
Let's quickly do a review of yesterday's article before moving to today's article.
I wrote about how you should not allow the fear of criticism hold you back from achieving the success you should achieve.
Anytime you attempt or even do something that can be considered as a little out of the normal that everyone is used to, it is certain that you will get criticisms from people. That is one of the facts in life you have to embrace. From when you were a kid, you can recount at least one person that would criticize you for something you did every time. It really didn't matter whether it was bad or good, one certain thing was that criticisms would come.
In our world today, where everyone has a voice through platforms such as social media, it is easy to see criticism from different people at the sane time. With this, many people are using it to dish out criticisms on every aspects of people's lives. Some of us have had our own share of these criticisms and we've accepted that they would surely come, while others have decided to personalize it.
I've believe that criticism is not in every way a bad thing, how you react to it determines whether it had a one on you or not.
There should be a balmce, there are some people that criticize you out of jealousy or their meanness for the sake of being mean. Also there are people who give constructive criticism in a way that can help you improve yourself, business or move forward.
I've heard this phrase time and time again about critics which is, "don't listen to them." However, if what you're looking for is for that you do not want anyone to criticize you, you won't achieve anything. You'll remain stagnant. The truth is that for everything meaningful or impactful you do, there will be criticisms from people. If you because of criticism, choose not to do something meaningful and impactful, then you will realize when you're old that you've cheated yourself. Because you've denied yourself the opportunity to something achieving that is life changing because of people.
Also, know that the best way to take criticism is the constructive ways instead of just criticizing right back in a bid to defend yourself.
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Today, I'll be written on avoiding rifts.
Forgiveness is a virtue that allows people to succeed in life. It is a process of elimination that allows a person to reach their desired goal. The word forgiveness means giving up resentments, bitterness and anger towards another person or group that has caused you pain. Forgiveness is an act of will, making the decision to move forward, and enjoy your life instead of concentrating on the things that hurt you in the past. In some cases, forgiveness is an expression of love toward one's offender.
I'm writing this article on how to avoid rifts because sometimes hard feelings can hold you back and make it hard to move on. I've been many places where people have not forgiven someone and they have held them back.
The first thing to do when you want to forgive someone is that you need to know why it was wrong in the first place. You will get a lot of ideas from others who may share your same point of view.
Rifts keep you separated from people who have been good to you. If you have some beef with someone, it could be the cause of a very big trouble that you can't handle. Rifts are caused by more than one reason, which leads to more than one effect. To avoid rifts, you'll need to forgive. Forgiving would make your relationship with the other persons better and would make you enjoy being around that person. That person is worth it, especially if that person is your best friend.
When it comes to rifts, you should work them out as soon as possible to avoid any quarrels that may arise later on. Resentment grows into bitterness and finally into a rift that is full of animosity and malice. Resentment isn't a solution for any problem. When resentment has developed for a long period, it becomes the basis for malice, which is the source of "you" and "me".
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Don't allow it get you
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. How's the week going for you? I'm having a great day.
Let's quickly run through yesterday's article before we look at today's topic.
I wrote about the imperfections of man and inability to find a perfect person out there.
Nobody is perfect. Everybody has his own shortcomings and weaknesses. We must embrace and learn to live with this truth. Nevertheless, we must all strive to improve on ourselves, because we cannot ignore our weaknesses or look for ways to cover them up all the time all in the name of nobody is perfect.
We need to realize that the search for a perfect person is a futile one that is impossible. The only perfect one is God. Every man has his own flaws, weakness and shortcomings. Nobody can boldy come out to say that he is perfect. So because no one is perfect, we must learn to live and manage with people and enjoy their strengths instead of complaining or cutting off people because of their weaknesses. Nevertheless, we must all look for ways to improve on ourselves.
But there's a balance to it because there are some people who have this wrong belief that being perfect is a crime. It’s not! On the contrary, I believe that your imperfections actually make you perfect, because you are being realistic. We should understand that life is not easy and also know that no one is perfect and there are things that needs to be changed in us.
Realizing this will teach us to be humble and learn how to be more tolerant of others as you also know how it feels like when others criticize you for your weaknesses. You also know how it feels when others are intolerant of your own shortcomings and weaknesses.
Every human born has weaknesses and these weaknesses are sometimes very visible, but instead of focusing on their weaknesses, we should be focused on their strengths. If you focus on the weakness of another person, there's possibility of you loosing that person especially if you're friends with that person. That people have weaknesses does not necessarily make them useless.
The lack of perfection in every person validates their perfection. When look at everyone's weaknesses, we realize that no one is perfect but some are very near to being perfect. If you are looking for a perfect person, you will never find one because you know in yourself that you're also not perfect, so why look for who you're not.
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Today I'll be writing on the necessity of ignoring useless criticisms.
Whenever you do something that may be considered as a little out of the ordinary, you will meet with criticisms from people. That is just a fact of life that you have to face. My mother tells me that when I was a kid, at least one person would criticize me for something every time I did something. It did not matter if it was bad or good; the criticism would come.
Today we live in a global village where everyone has a voice through platforms such as social media. And with this many people using it, you can expect criticisms on most aspects of our lives. Some of us face these criticisms and accept that they come with the territory while others decide to hide from life if they don't like what they see.
I've always believed that criticism is not a bad thing unless you react to it in a way that makes you feel like crap. Now, I'm not talking about people who criticize you out of jealousy or being mean for the sake of being mean. I'm talking about people who give constructive criticism in a way that can help you improve your product or move forward.
I've heard the phrase time and time again about critics, "don't listen to them." However, if you do not want anyone to criticize you, you won't achieve anything. You'll remain stagnant. The truth is that for everything meaningful or impactful you do, there will be criticisms from people. If you choose to because of criticism choose not to do something meaningful and impactful, then you might have grown old before you realize that you've cheated yourself out of achieving something life changing because of people.
Know that there are more constructive ways to take criticism than just criticizing right back.
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No one is perfect
Good morning guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you had a great weekend. Welcome to a new week. I wish you a very productive week ahead.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article. I wrote about putting your trust in God. God us the only one to be trusted. Man should not be entirely trusted because man can fail.
One of the reasons why you should not place your trust in man is because man is known to fail. It doesn't matter how well they are able to perform their tasks and deliver at the right time, they can still fail you. Another reason why it's wiser and better for you to place your trust in God is because He is known to be trustworthy. He can be trusted by all. Even, He can be trusted when everything seems to be going wrong. He can be trusted when it doesn't feel alright to trust Him.
The importance of trusting God comes from a quote from the Bible, where it says that we should trust in the Lord with all our hearts and not lean on our own understanding. The author clearly tells us how that God can be trusted for all things. People can be trusted for some things, but even in trusting them, there's always a chance of them of them letting you down at some point. Yesterday's article was to show us that God can be trusted an all issues of our lives because He has never failed anyone and will not start by failing you.
Some things are certain when you put your trust in man?
You end up disappointed, you can also remember now the times that you trusted man and ended up being disappointed. It is easier to always want to trust your instincts when it comes to doing things inlife. So, if you decide you want to trust person, it's more or less like taking a risk. And even if you will trust a man, at least make sure that person is not a liability. Man has the nature of failing. But what about God? He doesn't lie and cannot fail, therefore He can be trusted. But man easily trusts his fellow men because he thinks he knows their true intentions. God is trustworthy because there are no motives in what he does or says He'll do, everything He does is good because He's good.
That's all for yesterday's article.
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We move to today's article now. Today, I'll be written on the imperfections of man and the ability to live with people.
No person is perfect. Every person has his own lackings and problems. We must learn to live with this fact. We must all strive to improve, but we cannot ignore our weaknesses or seek to cover them up all the time.
No one is perfect – the search for a perfect person is a futile one. No one is perfect. Everyone has his own flaws, weakness and shortcomings. No one can come out to say he is perfect. So because no one is perfect, we must learn to live with people and amplify their strengths instead of their weaknesses. Nevertheless, we must all stive to improve.
There are many who have this erroneous belief that being perfect is a crime. It’s not! On the contrary, I believe that by being imperfect, you are actually the best person. Why? Because you are realistic. You understand life is not easy and you know that no one is perfect and there are things that need to be changed in you.
This realization will teach you humility and make you much more tolerant of others as you know how it feels when others criticize you. You will also know how it feels when others are intolerant of your own shortcomings.
All people have weaknesses and these weaknesses are sometimes very visible, but we must stay focused on their strengths. If you focus on the weakness of another person, there and then you also become weak. All people have weaknesses but that does not make them useless or superfluous.
The lack of perfection in every person makes every person perfect to me. When I put all these together, no one is perfect but some are very near to being perfect. If you are looking for a perfect person, you will never find one because life is not static; rather it is dynamic and progressive.
Thanks for reading through. Have a great day.
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Trust God
Good morning guys, how are you doing today? I trust you're doing great today. Happy Sunday. Make sure you go to church today to worship with other Christians.
Let's run through yesterday's writeup fast. I wrote about the dangers of ignoring good advices.
It is dangerous to believe that you know enough. In this case, you will find yourself taking wrong decisions and even worse and the funny thing is that you may find it difficult to recover from the results of those decisions. Although, people will start to realize that they have been ignoring good advices and this will make them, although not all take corrective measures. Even if they start taking correct decisions, there is no assurance that they will not repeat the same mistakes.
When you ignore good advice, you do not only put yourself in danger of taking wrong decisions but also of doing things in the improper way and this may cause problems for you later.
When you are required to make a decision, it is vital that you seek for good advice from people who you trust. Unfortunately, many people end up ignoring good advice because they feel they know enough already. The problems caused by ignoring problems sometimes are hard to solve, therefore it's not advisable to ignore good advices.
It's best to accept every piece of good advice that you receive. When making decisions about your finances, your relationship, your health and other important aspects of your life, you'll need good advice from people you trust. Good advice can help you put this important decisions into perspective and remove guesswork.
While making a decision, the state of mind you find yourself is called rational thinking. If you are not in a rational state of mind, then you will make irrational decisions and this is because you are influenced by emotions and this in turn affects the way you think.
Later, when the emotion are gone, you realize how irrational your decision had been and that is why people regret their decisions or feel unhappy about themselves after making certain decisions.
Even if you are not influenced by emotions, it is still possible to make bad decisions because you might not get all the facts correctly or even, you fail to understand the facts correctly due to poor understanding of the subject.
Therefore, it's best to follow good advice. That's all about yesterday's article.
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Today is Sunday, so I'll sharing a short sermon with you.
One reason why trust should not be placed in man is because people are known to fail. Regardless of how well they may be able to perform their duties, they still have the potential to fail. Another reason why it's wiser to place your trust in God is because He is never known to fail. He can be trusted by all, trusted even when everything seems to be going wrong.
An article about the importance of being grateful for what you have and trusting God comes from a quote from the Bible. The author clearly shows how God can be trusted for all things. People can be trusted for some things, but there's always a chance of them letting you down at some point. This article shows that God can be trusted unequivocally because He has never failed anyone and never will.
Permit me to use a story to illustrate my point. It's a story about a man who was on a long journey. The man discovered that he was running short on food. He prayed, "God, please make it so that I meet someone who will give me food." God answered his prayer within moments by arranging for a stranger to give him a loaf of bread. The man thanked God and traveled on.
The man kept on traveling, but he soon became aware that he was running out of water. He prayed, "God, please make it so that I meet someone who will give me some water." God answered his prayer within moments by arranging for a stranger to give him some water. The man thanked God and traveled on.
Trust God, not man. Man is known for his ability to have flaws. One of his flaws is the ability to let people down. The only person that cannot fail is God, therefore it's wisest that you put your trust in God only.
What will happen if you put your trust in man?
You end up disappointed. You always want to trust your instincts and be a go-getter when it comes to life. So, if you decide you want to take a risk by trusting a person, at least make sure that person is not a liability. Man was made for lying and for entertainment, it's in his nature to do so. But what about God? He doesn't lie, therefore he can be trusted. But man can be trusted by his peers because they know his true intentions. God is trustworthy because there are no motives in what he does or says, everything he does, he says and says all he does is good.
Thanks for reading through. Happy Sunday.
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If you don't follow good advice..
Good afternoon guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day and weekend. I hope you had a great week at work.
Yesterday, I wrote about the need to follow good advice. So I'll quickly run through it before moving to today's article.
Advice is important in life. There are some decisions we can't make without the role of advice. There are times when the information we have is not enough to help us make the right decisions. There are times when we need to get a second opinion from someone who knows better. But when we seek for advice, we must take into account the person we go to for advice.
When someone offers advice, we should consider why they suggested that we do those things in that particular way. Regardless of the reason the person gives us, we should make ensure that the person offering us advice has our best interests in mind and is a trusted person. Sometimes, there will be many people offering advice on what you should do and shouldn't do. And also, you should remember that not everyone has your best interest at heart, some will have a bias in their advice.
When making our own decisions, we must take recieve advice from people we believe that they don't have a bias that's they're trusted. This doesn't mean you only take advice from people who like you or your idea. It simply means you should only trust those who are only out for your good, that's people who want the best for you.
Advice is needed in our daily lives. Everyday we're faced with the need to make decisions that are right for us. We might need to rely on the advice given to us by our family, friends and people we trust and whenever they give us advice we should always follow it.
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Today, I'll be writing on the dangers of ignoring good advices.
There is a danger in believing you know enough. You will find yourself taking wrong decisions and even worse, you may find it difficult to recover from those decisions. Sooner or later, people are bound to realize that they have been ignoring good advices and this will make them take corrective measures. Even if they start taking correct decisions, there is no guarantee that they will not repeat the same mistakes.
By ignoring good advice, you not only put yourself in danger of taking wrong decisions but also in danger of doing things in an improper way and this may cause problem for you.
When you are required to make a decision, it is vital that you take into account the good advice. However, many people end up ignoring good advice because they feel they know enough already. There are those who suggest that ignoring good advice is not good for the health. They are correct because it may cause you problems that are hard to solve.
You should accept every piece of good advice that you receive. You need to realize that making decisions about your finances, your relationship, your health and other important aspects of your life require serious consideration. Good advice can help you put this consideration into perspective and remove the guesswork from important decisions.
The state of mind that any decision maker is in while making a decision is called rational thinking. If you are not in a rational state of mind, then you will make irrational decisions. This is because you are influenced by emotions and this affects the way you think.
Later, when the emotion wears off, you realize the irrationality of your decision and that is why people regret their decisions or feel unhappy about themselves after making certain decisions.
Even if you are not influenced by emotions, it is still possible to make bad decisions because you might not get all the facts or even fail to understand the facts correctly due to poor understanding of the subject.
Therefore, it's best to follow good advice.
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Follow advice
Good afternoon guys. How are you doing today. I'm already few hours behind my time of posting articles. Nevertheless, you're not late.
Let me quickly run through what i wrote on yesterday. Yesterday I wrote on the necessity of service to humanity.
These days people are now more concerned about how and what they'll benefit from others instead how they will impact other people's lives.
One of the goals that we should all have in life is the one of being able to serve humanity. I know it's not a popular goal among people nevertheless, we try to put in our to-do-list. We should try within our capacity to help humanity in any way we can.
You might begin to have questions on what kind of ways you can choose to follow in helping humanity. There are many ways to contribute to our community. If you look around the environment, you'll see that there are so many people to be helped. If you als9 look, you can get ideas and ways on how you could be of help to your fellow people. Our lifetime is too short to not help others along the way. You only live once. Why not make it a very impactful one. A life where people would miss your presence whenever you're not around because they know that the outcome would have been different if you were available.
Whether it is by volunteering or assisting someone with a random act of kindness, every day presents a chance to help someone . What is left is for you to make use of those plans.
I am so sure that if you look around, you can come up with some great ideas to improve the lives of our fellow humans. And at the end, you'll be proud of yourself.
Every day, when we wake up, we should have a mindset of looking out to help humanity in any capacity you can. It'll go a long way in encouraging and motivating another person.
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Today, I'll be writing on the importance of listening to advice.
Advice is vital. We can't make any decision without it. Even with the information we have, there are times when it is not enough. There are times when we need to get a second opinion. When we do, we must take into account the person who offers advice.
When someone offers advice, we must consider why they suggest we do something in a particular way. Regardless of the reason, we should make sure the person offering advice has our best interests in mind. Most of the time, there will be many people offering advice on what you should and shouldn't do. If so, you should remember that most of them will have a bias in their advice.
When making our own decisions, we must take into account advice from people who don't have a bias. This doesn't mean you only take advice from people who don't like you or your idea. It simply means you should only trust those who don't have a stake in the outcome.
Advice is essential in our daily lives. There are occasions when we want to make decisions that are right for us. We need to rely on the advice given to us by our family, friends and partners. When they give us advice we should always follow it.
That's all for today. Thanks for reading.
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Serving humanity
Good afternoon guys, how are you doing today? How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's quickly do a recap of yesterday's article.
Yesterday I talked about doing the right things regardless of the pressure to do the wrong things.
There are just so many things that are wrong on all levels, but somehow, the wrong things have now become acceptable by most people.
Sometimes you're forced to why you should be right because everyone is doing the wrong things. Another question to ask is that whether you do need to make such an effort to do the right thing? Funny thing is, the people who do the right thing feel alienated because doing the right thing is not popular. Although sometimes you'll be right and sometimes be wrong.
It has unfortunately become popular and correct to say and do anything you want to say and do, no matter how much it damages another person. It has become correct to lie, especially if the lies will selfishly help the liar The lies are not even only being told and tolerated, but they are being celebrated by people as being smart or wise.
We should always try to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves and to do what is right even when people try to do the wrong things so that it'll be accepted as the normal thing. One of the things that is wrong in this country and all over the world is the emergence of homosexuals who are demanding that everyone recognize their lifestyle as normal and good, but whether they like it or not, homosexuality is not normal or good and therefore wrong.
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LOne of the goals of life we should all have is to serve humanity. In this year, we should put in our to-do-list, that'll we'll try to help humanity in any capacity we have.
There are many ways to contribute to our community and it'll be great if you look around to get ideas and ways on how you can help our fellow people. Our lifetime is too short to not help others along the way.
Whether it's volunteering or assisting someone with a random act of kindness, every person has a chance to help someone else.
I know that if you look around, you can come up with some great ideas to improve the lives of our fellow man.
Every day we should have a mindset of looking to help humanity in any capacity you can. It'll go a long way in encouraging another person.
That's all for today. Thanks for reading through. Have a nice day
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Doing the right thing
Good day guys. How are you doing? I trust that you had a great night.
A quick recap of yesterday's article.
Yesterday, I wrote about how important having the right relationship with people.
Friendship is one of the important in life, there are so many things you can share with your friends. If you have good relationship with someone, you will be able to get his support when you're down and need his support in your life. Life is a very long journey, it is best for you to be friendly with everyone you meet always. If you try to be nice to people and always keep a very good relationship with them, you will be able to get something from them when you need it.
If you always try to have the right relationship with people, it makes your life better and better and have access to help from them when needed. We should relate with people in a good way, we should always be kind and friendly with people because one day you'll need the help of people.
Relationship is an essential part of life. Either good or bad, relationships will always be a part of our lives regardless of the circumstances. Some people have good relationships with people and even colleagues while others have bad relationship with them. Having a good relationship with people helps you have a healthy and happy life. A bad relationship on the other hand doesn't make life more stress free but instea more stressful.
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There are just so many things that are wrong. Somehow, we have made doing what is wrong, acceptable.
I often wonder why I should be right. Why do I make such an effort to do the right thing? Funny thing is, I often feel alienated because being right is not always popular. Nevertheless, sometimes I am right and sometimes I am wrong.
It has become popular and politically correct to say anything you want to say no matter how it damages another person. It is politically correct to lie, especially if the lies will help people think a certain way by claiming they are being treated unfairly. The lies are not only being told and tolerated, but they are being celebrated.
I have always tried to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves and to do what is right even when the wrong creeps in and is accepted as normal and natural. One of the things that is wrong in this country and all over the world is the prominence of homosexuals who are demanding that everyone recognize their lifestyle as normal and good, but homosexuality is not normal or good.
Thanks for reading through. Have a nice day.
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Having right relationship with people
Good day friends. How are you doing today. I trust that you're having a great day.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article.
Yesterday, I wrote about the importance of being yourself instead of acting in a way you do not act normally.
People always say that first impressions matter and are always lasting. When I was much younger, I didn't really understand the meaning of that statement but now as I've grown up a little, I now understand the importance of being yourself.
Because of the negativity that goes around our world daily, other people are biased about us being us. It is very wrong for us o decieve people by being who we are not in the public. It is best to be real than being fake because whether you like it or not, one day people will discover and when they do, the result won't be good.
I gave an example of a person who was a down to earth person until when he got promoted, then suddenly, he became a fake person, smiling at everyone and saying hi to everyone. When he saw me, he would say "hello" with a fake smile, without acknowledging his friend that he saw in the middle of his walk.
Whenever you are in the public space, you will meet many people that won't know you. Among those people you met, there are some of them that would want to get to know you more and become friends with you. People that meet you in public might think that you are a person who is outgoing and self-confident because of how you behaved in the public.
If you are a shy person, then I totally understand why you might want to be another kind of person when meeting other people for the first time. There's a feeling that people would like you more if you were a different kind of person than your real self.
Therefore, I encourage you not to ignore how you really are just because you tbink some people might not like who you really are. You should be yourself at all times and not pretend to be someone else that you aren't. Be yourself by learning to be friendly, outgoing and most of all don't be afraid of who you really are.
The summary of everything is that we should try to be real and be yourself.
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Having the right relationship with people is very important for your life. That is why I'm writing what I did today.
Friendship is very important in life, you can share many things with your best friend. If you have good relationship with someone, you may need his support when you're down in your life. Life is a long journey, don't forget to be friendly with people always. If you are nice to people and always keep a good relationship with them, you can surely get something from them in return if you need it.
If you always try to have the right relationship with people, it makes your life better and better and have the right relationship with people. We should relate with people, be kind and friendly with people because one day you'll need the help of people.
Relationship is a part of life. Good or bad - relationships will always be a part of our lives whether we like it or not. Some people have good relationships with their partners, family, friends and even colleagues while others have bad relationship with them. Having a good relationship with your partner helps you have a healthy and happy life. A bad relationship on the other hand doesn't make life more stress free but more stressful.
Thanks for reading through. Have a nice day.
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Be yourself
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. Welcome to a new working week, the second in the year 2022.
Let's quickly have a recap of yesterday's article.
Now what does being successful really mean? It means that you're being brave and courageous enough to take actions and do the things that needs to be done so that you'll get to where you want to be and you also had the courage to not allow fear stop you from doing the necessary things required.
You need to have the courage to take chances when they present themselves to you and also the boldness to decline opportunities that are not in your best interest as regards your success. You need to have the ability to accept failure and that as many times it comes with loosing faith and hope, if you truly want to succeed. You have to be willing to put yourself out and not hide, because that's where you'll find visibility. Even when everything around you is working against you, you must have the courage to continue moving forward like nothing happened.
Courage is essential to achieving success. You need courage to achieve success, courage to look at failure in the face and never give up still. You also need courage to be able to withstand rejections, disappointments and criticism as many times as it comes. There are so many people out there who have a lot of great ideas, but they lack enough to execute their ideas and in turn achieve success. Success is not easy to achieve, it requires a lot of hard work and persistence.
It is not just about dreaming and having good ideas, it is about doing something with it. You must action. Ideas without action is not potent enough to get you to where you want to be. I read different articles on the net most of them are just rants by frustrated people who have a lot of great ideas, but lack the courage or the perseverance to act and do what needs to be done to achieve success. Whenever we talk about achieving success, we should not forget that there are different ways to achieving success.
But the overall summary is that without courage you won't achieve anything.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today, I'll be writing on being yourself.
"First impressions are always lasting," this is what people used to say. When I was younger I didn't understand the meaning of it. until now when i am a grown up, have my own family, and have my own company, I understand that being yourself will do no harm with nobody.
"Others" are biased about us being us because of the negativity that goes around our world daily. We should not decieve people by being who we are not in the public. it is best to be real than being fake because one day people will discover one day and the result won't be good.
I knew a person who was a down to earth person until he got promoted, then he became a fake person, smiling at everyone and saying hi to everyone. When he saw me, he would say "hello" with a fake smile, without acknowledging his friend that he saw in the middle of his walk. When you are in public, you will meet many people that won't know you. Among those people, there are some that will want to get to know you more and make friends with you. People that meet you in public might think that you are a person who is outgoing and self-confident.
If you are one of those shy people, then I can understand why you might want to be somebody else when meeting people for the first time. You might think that people would like you more if you were a different kind of person than yourself.
Therefore, I recommend you not to ignore how you really are just because some people might not like who you really are because of what I have said above. You should be yourself at all times and don't pretend to be someone who you aren't. Be yourself by being friendly, outgoing and most of all don't be afraid of who you really are.
The summary of everything is that we should endeavour to be real and be yourself.
Thanks for reading through.
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Courage to succeed
Good morning friends. Happy Sunday to you. Welcome to a new week. I woke ylup this morning to see the sponsorship renewal by @Farmgirl. and @Greatwolfman I'm so grateful for the renewal.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article.
Sometimes the toughest challenges you will have to face will be life's challenges. But whenever you're faced with life's challenges, it is expected that you should always take the right steps towards the life's challenges.
Everyone has had their own share of encounters and hardships in their lives. You may be struggling with a life challenge now. It could be a health scare, financial difficulties or a personal loss.
The what should you do when you're faced with life's challenges?
Seek support - You can try to talk to your friends and family members. Ensure that you let them know how you're feeling. Seek support from people that you trust and care about you.
Ask for help - Sometimes there are challenges we face that we do not know how to handle by ourselves. But it is good that we realize that it is better to ask for help than try to do it all by ourselves. You can't solve all your problems yourself. Know that when you have someone's support and help, it's gives you great relief especially when you have other things that you need to attend to.
Make the right steps - Whenever we get faced with life challenges, it becomes easy to lose focus and hope. if we don't know what to do. We think in our minds that we are tackling a very big problem which makes everything else look difficult to handle.
Any moment you decide to make a change in life, it is a big step, know that you're not alone in that journey, there are people who have walked through that same journey you're about to walk. Ask for help from people who love you and you trust, be able to accept support from your close friends and family and the most important thing is to have a positive mindset and be confident with your decision. Even if you later fail, you will know in yourself that you gave it your all.
When you're facing life challenges, the actions mentioned above are actions that you can take to overcome them.
Also another way that can help may be by posting it on social media, it could also help. Aside from reaching out to someone you know, social media platforms are also great places where you can get the help that you need. By simply posting something on your social media page, it is a good way to show whatever that you're going through and ask for help. A lot of people will surely see it and luckily you might the answer to your current challenge there.
That is all for yesterday's article.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today, I'll be writing about the need for courage to achieve success.
Success is a cowardly word.
What a ridiculous sounding word it is, isn't it? I'm serious. It is. When you first hear it, you think, "Huh?" But when you think about it, it makes sense.
What does it mean to be successful? It means that you've been brave enough to do the things that need to be done to get you where you want to be and that you've had the courage to not let fear stop you from doing those things.
You have to have the courage to take chances and to say no to all types of opportunities. You have to be willing to fail, and fail often, in order to truly succeed. You have to willingly put yourself out there and not hide from the spotlight. You have to continue moving forward when everything around you is working against you.
You need courage to achieve success. You need courage to achieve success, courage to stare failure in the face and never give up. Courage to be able to withstand rejections, disappointments and criticism. There are many people out there who have a lot of great ideas, but they don't have the courage to achieve success. Success is by no means easy and requires a lot of hard work.
It is not just about dreaming and having good ideas, it is about doing something with it as well. I read a lot of articles on the net every day, most of them rants by frustrated people who have a lot of great ideas, but lack the courage or the perseverance to achieve success.
When we talk about achieving success, we should not forget that there are many different ways of achieving it.
But the overall summary is that without courage you won't achieve anything.
Thanks for reading through. Happy Sunday
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How to overcome life's challenges
Good morning guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great weekend. It's time to rest and reenergize for the next week.
Let's quickly go through yesterday's article for those that didn't read it.
I wrote about looking at the brighter side of life even in the midst of life challenges.
Everybody has been through one thing or the other in life. All the pains that you wished could go away. All the wounds that you wished would heal so fast. Those times that you just want to forget everything that has ever happened. The times that you regretted ever allowing to happen.
If you're in a hard moment in your life and you feel like there's no way out of it, take a look at the times that proved that when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade instead of staying on thinking of the sour times.
We all need to understand that life always has a price tag, nothing is free except the air we breathe but it's left to you to decide whether you want to pay the price or not. If you're always looking for a life that is perfect, you'll still receive your own share of pain and suffering because no man can successfully escape and have a completely perfect life.
Life is a gift from God. We should only be happy that we are alive, but we should also learn to appreciate life. When we start by counting all the blessings in our life, it will make us feel better, more contented and it will give us more reasons to have hope. Here’re some of the things to be grateful for-
1. Eyes – the ability to see the beautiful sunrise, the sunset, our loved ones and every other thing in life.
2. Ears – the ability to listen to music and hearing our loved ones when they talk to us.
3. Mouth – the ability to taste food, and also speak to those we love and care for.
4. Nose – the ability to sense smells and feel the fresh air.
5. Hands – the ability to use it to give hugs and even write down your thoughts or your next article.
Life is not easy and it's just to you but you have to always be optimistic of the fact that things will get better because the sun will rise again after the darkness of night and brightness will come again. If someone has offended you, then try your best to forget about it and move on with your life. Be joyful. Smile because until God says its over, nothing is over. Try your best to make your tomorrow a better one.
Let go of all your worries, pain, hardships and go to sleep.
That's all for yesterday's article.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today, I'll be writing about how to overcome life's challenges.
Life challenges are sometimes the toughest ones you will have to face, but when faced with it, you should always take the right steps. For example, ask for help, accept support, have a positive mind set and know you're not alone. also find ways to serve others.
Everyone encounters hardships in their lives. You may be struggling with a life challenge now. It could be a health scare, financial difficulties or a personal loss.
What should you do when faced with life's challenges?
Seek support - Talk to your friends and family members. Let them know how you feel. Seek support from people who love you and care about you.
Ask for help - Sometimes we have challenges that we don't know how to handle on our own. But then we realize that it is better to ask for help than try to do it all by ourselves. Remember, having someone's support and help can be a great relief even when you have other things that you need to attend to.
Make the right steps - When we're faced with life challenges, it is easy to lose hope and focus if we don't know what to do. We think that we are tackling a big problem which makes everything else difficult to handle.
The moment you decide to make a change in life is a big step, knowing that you're not alone in the journey, ask for help from people who care about you, accept support from your close friends and family and most importantly have a positive mindset and be confident in your decision. even if you fail, you will know that you've given it your all.
When you're facing life challenges there are actions that you can take to overcome them.
Even if you're on your own, it could be an issue that's too big or simply requires some assistance and support. It's always best to ask for help when you're in need of it. in fact, there are a lot of people out there who can help when life challenges arise.
Posting something on social media could also help, aside from reaching out to someone you know, social media websites are also great places where you can get the help that you need. simply posting something on your social media page is a good way to show everything that you're going through and ask for help. A lot of people would surely read your post and would also have something to say about it.
This is all for today. Thanks for reading through.
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Looking at the brighter side
Good day guys, how are feeling today? Welcome to the first weekend in January and in 2022. It's a time to rest and prepare against the coming week.
Let's quickly go on to having a recap of yesterday's article.
There's something popular now that is everywhere and to me it is not a very wrong one because it's a selfish mentality. It is that you should only be friends or close with people that you can benefit from. It is also common for people to now only want to invest in people just because they have things to benefit from them. There's a problem with this kind of mentality and it is that you unconsciously hinder yourself from being a blessing to other people.
This mindset should be allowed to thrive on because it is a very bad one. You only live one and everyday should be an opportunity to help people and bless as much lives you can. We should always live with the mentality and readiness to help everyone that comes across you without necessarily expecting to recieve back from those you rendered help to.
It's not everyone that will be able to repay whatever good you've done to them. Is it now best to stop helping people because of they cannot repay you. Personally, I believe that you should always be ready to use every opportunity we get to help people. It's such a beautiful thing to help people in their everyday activities, it gives joy and fulfilment.
The mindset of looking for people that you'll benefit from to help them will just make you loose opportunity to have great relationship with people that have the potential to be great in life.
Even though they cannot impact you now doesn't mean they will not be able to later in life help you. No one knows tomorrow. The person that you helped today might be the stepping stone to your success tomorrow.
The summary of everything is that you should try to impact every one you come across.
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Everyone has been through it. Those pains that you wish would go away. Those wounds that you wish would heal. Those moments where you just want to forget everything.
if you're having a hard time in your life and you feel like there's no way out, take a look at these 20 photos that prove that when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade instead of just saying to the lemon "what about those sour times?"
Lemon is sour but it can also be sweet when we look at it from another perspective. We should learn to avoid being bitter about the bad things that happen in life and just embrace and look at the brighter side of life.
You have to understand that life always comes with a price tag but it's up to you whether you want to pay the price or not. If you're always trying to be perfect and live perfectly, then in return, you'll receive a lot of pain and suffering in your life.
Life is a gift of God. We should not just be happy that we are alive, but we should also appreciate life. Counting the blessings in life will make us feel better, more contented and gives us reasons to have hope. Here’re things to be grateful for-
1. Eyes – being able to see the beautiful sunrise, the sunset and our loved ones
2. 2. Ears – listening to music and hearing our loved ones
3. 3. Mouth – tasting food, and also sharing it with someone you love
4. 4. Nose – sensing smells and feeling the crisp air
5. 5. Hands – using it to give hugs or even nails to write down your thoughts or your next blog post
6. 6. Arms – wrapping them around someone you love
7. 7. Legs – running, walking or even dancing
8. 8. Heart – loving, accepting other people and forgiving them
9. 9. Tongue – tasting foods, candies, ice cream or even using it to say “I Love You”
Life is not easy but you have to always be optimistic that things will get better because the sun will rise again after the darkness of night. If someone has done you wrong then forget about it and move on with your life. Be joyful. Smile because nothing is over until God says its over. Try your best to make it a better tomorrow.
Letting go of all your worries, pain, hardships and going to sleep saying, I had a good day, might be the best way to end your day.
Thanks for reading through.
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Being used?
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. The first week in January is coming to end. The year has started out already and there's no time to wait anymore. Actions are essential now. That's what my article yesterday was about. So I'll quickly do a run through of yesterday's article.
I wrote about the importance of action and the importance of the time that those actions are taken.
Timing and precision are very essential in everything we do in life. When you do something is very essential in life. You don't just do the anytime. There's a time you're meant to do something. And if you do not do it at that particular time, it won't count or at best it will count little as compared to if you had done it at the right time.
Time controls everything in life. Time is what separates morning from night. It differentiates the different weeks, months and years. There are seasons in life. Different things for different seasons and times.
Life is designed by God to move in phases and time is what differentiates phases from each other. If we use farming as an example to explain timing. There's a time to clear the farmland, there's a time to cultivate and plant, there's time to water and there's a harvest time. If you miss the timing of any of these seasons, it has affected every other part of the sequence of farming greatly because you'll be behind the schedule. And because you're behind the schedule doesn't mean the seasons will wait for you. It doesn't respect anyone. It does not wait for anyone.
Access to the right information at the right time is very key to how much ahead you'll be in life. It is essential to have the right information about things. And also having the right information is not enough, you also need to have access to the resources that'll help you to execute with the information you got.
To be ahead in life, you need to have access to information. Everyone that is ahead in life is there because they had the right information at the right time and also had access to the resources that enabled them to execute with the information the got.
If they had not taken the actions necessary with the information they got, they would not be where they are now.
Having information without acting is just a waste because you're doing nothing with the information gotten.
There's also another end to it. Acting on an information you got at the right time at the wrong time is also not good because you won't have be on par with someone that acted on the information at the right time.
I'll use of the example of Bitcoin. If you had gotten adequate information about Bitcoin at the right time and acted on it. You would be a millionaire of not a billionaire now. But unfortunately most of us did not get enough information about it till recently and we're paying for the ignorance.
The summary of everything is that we must ensure that we look for information and trust God for the resources needed for to execute using the information.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today, I'll be writing about impacting people regardless of whether you'll benefit from them or not.
There's a popular mindset that is everywhere and in my opinion it is not a good one at all. It is that you should only get around people tgat you'll benefit from. Also it is common now for people to only want to invest in people only because they'll benefit from them. Now the problem with this is that, you hinder yourself from impacting other people's lives.
This mindset should be kicked out because it is a toxic one. This life is once, and everyday is another opportunity to help people and impact lives. You should live everyday with the readiness to help everyone you meet without the expectations of necessarily recieving back from those you help.
Not everyone can and will repay whatever good you've done to people. So do you now because of that stop helping people. Personally, I believe that you should always anticipate the opportunities to help people. It's so beautiful to help people in their everyday activities, there's a kind of fulfilment and joy it brings to you.
The mindset of looking for people that will not just use you without impacting you in return makes you start looking for indicators that shows whether you'll benefit from them and most times you end up missing out on important relationship because you think they cannot impact you now.
That they cannot impact you now doesn't mean they will not be able to later in life. No one knows tomorrow, who you helped today might be the stepping stone to your success tomorrow.
The summary of everything is that you should be willing and ready to help everyone that asks for your help regardless of whether you'll benefit back or not.
Thanks for reading through. Have a great day.
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Action at the right time
Good morning guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. This week has been very busy for me. It's not been easy trying to balance my time accurately. I hope I find my balance as soon as possible.
Let me quickly run through yesterday's article for those that didn't get to read through.
There are different views and definitions for subject of love. Everyone has different perspective and expectations on what love should look like. But it is a common knowledge that so many things are involved when talking about love. They are many but some of them I can remember now is sacrifice, forgiveness etc. But one of them that is not popular maybe because of how it looks like is correction. Even though not everyone practices correction as part of the way they profess love, it is part of what shows and confirms your love for someone.
Loving someone without being able to correct the person is incomplete. You can't say you love someone without having instances of correcting the person especially when the person is doing the wrong thing. Your correction is part of what confirms your love for someone.
Let me give you the example of a parent that professes love for a child without correcting the child. The child will one day get angry with the parent for not correcting when necessary when he realizes the harm that has been caused because of his parents refused to correct him. When the child starts misbehaving and doing the wrong things, it is expected of a parent that loves the child to correct that child. That is a show how much you love the child and that you do not want the child to go into damage.
Correction is a part of love that must be neglected. Correction is not a sweet experience especially on the recieving end. Sometimes it feels like the person correcting you doesn't even love you but the actual fact is that the person loves you and it is that loves that will not allow the person watch you doing mistakes without correcting you.
If you love someone, you must have the courage needed to correct the person whenever the person is going on the wrong path as early as possible. It is very very necessary. You don't need to allow the person continue in the mistakes or wrongdoings for long. You need to correct them before they enter danger.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today I'll be writing on the acting fast and at the right time.
Everything in life is subject to time. Time is what differentiates morning from night, weeks, months and years.
Life moves in phases and time is what separates differentiates different phases. The ability to act fast and the right time is dependent on access to the right information and the privilege of having the resources needed to execute using the information gotten.
Information is very key to being ahead in life. Everyone that we see ahead in life is there because they had the right information at the right time and also the resources to execute with the information gotten.
Let's imagine they never took actions with the information they got, they would still be where they are. Information without action is a waste of information.
Also acting on an information at the wrong time is also wrong. I'll give the example of Bitcoin. If you had gotten information about Bitcoin at the right time and acted on it. You would be a millionaire of not a billionaire now.
I'll write extensively on this tomorrow because I'm very busy today.
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Correction in love
Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. Work resumed today. Everybody is trying to adapt back to the work life after the holidays. It's not easy but in all some days everyone will adapt fully.
A quick recap of yesterday's article. I wrote about having right mindset so that you'll have great success in this year.
Your mind is the engine room of your your life. It determines everything about your life. The output of your life is a product of what you think about and how you think. If you'll have a year filled with success. You'll have to condition the state of your mind so that it determines a good physical output for you. Your perspectives about a particular subject or thing will definitely determine your outcome. If you'll have a year full of success, you must start by thinking of success, and the possibility of achieving success.
As long as you think some things are not possible, then those things you think will continue to be impossible, because what you see is a total of how and what you think.
It's good to have a mentality of I can do it. This is what you need for you to achieve anything you want to do. As long as you think something is impossible, it'll remain impossible to execute it.
You should know that nothing is impossible as long as you believe it is possible. You must have a mindset that loves possibility. I gave the example of the camera and that if you were born in the days that camera had not been invented, you would think that camera won't come to existence. But now, camera is everywhere, and this is because someone thought that it is possible to invent camera.
The right mindset is essential if you'll achieve anything.
The summary of everything is that you should have a right mindset this year.
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Today I'll be writing on love in correction. Everyone has different definitions for love. And we already agree that so many things make up love some of which are sacrifice and so on. But one of them is correction. Although, not everyone has actually taken this into consideration, but it is part of what shows love.
Correction is an essential part of love. You can't say you love someone without correcting the person when the person is acting wrong. Your correction is actually a confirmation of your love for someone.
A parent cannot profess love for a child without correcting the child. When the child starts misbehaving, you must confirm your love by correcting that child.
Correction is part of the love. Correction is not always a palatable experience on the reciever end. Sometimes it feels like the person doesn't love you but the person actually loves you.
If you love someone, you must get the courage needed to correct the person when needed. It is very necessary. You don't need to allow the person continue in his mistakes for long. You need to correct them when necessary.
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Moving with the wrong mindset
Good day guys. How are you doing today? I trust that you're having a great day. Welcome to a new working week. Some of us are still on holiday although it's the last day of the holiday. I'm already prepared for the week.
I've so many things planned out for this year, I trust God to achieve all this year.
Let's quickly run through yesterday's article. I wrote about how necessary it is for you to guard your expectations.
It's normal for everyone to have expectations as regards people most especially people you know. Nevertheless, it is not advisable to put expect too much from people. Human will continue to be humans. And one of the undeniable character of human is the ability to disappoint people.
No man can can come out to say that he has not disappointed anyone before. Even if it's not intentional, the circumstances of life sometimes forces people to disappoint others. There are times and situations you cannot control, and you have no other options than disappointing another person.
We should be careful of how we make promises to people because in making promises, we must not go beyond our power putting into consideration that you can disappoint.
For you that is expecting too much from people, it is not good for your heart because you put yourself at risk of being pained and heartbroken. You should always have something at the back of your mind that will serve as an insurance to your heart. It should protect you from being pained everytime someone disappoints you. You should help yourself so that you won't end up pouring aggression and pain on another person.
The only person that cannot disappoint is God. So just trust Him. But if it is related to man, you can be disappointed. So don't expect too much to protect yourself.
Special thanks to my sponsors both old and the ones planning to, subscribers both old and those that will subscribe now, also thanks to those who thumbs up and comment on my post, I really appreciate all of you, I do not take it for granted.
Today, I'll be writing on having the right mindset for your journey through this year.
The state of your mind determines your physical output. What you think about, your perspectives will determine your outcome. If you'll have a year full of success, you must start by thinking of how successful things can be.
If you think that some things are not possible. Then those things you're think are not possible will remain impossible, because your results is a sum total of how you think.
You should learn to have a I can do it mentality. This is what you need for you to be able to do anything. Immediately, you think you cannot do something, you won't be able to do it.
Nothing is impossible. You must have a mindset that allows possibility. If you were born in the days that camera had not been invented, you would think that nothing like camera will come to existence. Lo and behold , camera is something that is seen everywhere, and this is because someone thought that it is possible to invent camera.
The right mindset is essential if you'll achieve anything. Learn to think the right way and you'll see how much you'll achieve this year.
Thanks for reading through. Have a great day.
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