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Not being able to answer is answering it. You're admitting to it. So? Speak up. Don't let other people put words in your mouth. Speak and act, don't play dead. #takeItOrLeaveIt #NoOffense #UltimateCollabWithHappyColor
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Sometimes silence is an answer. Sometimes tears is an answer. Sometimes a huge sigh is an answer. There are all kinds of ways to communicate without words and you are speaking for yourself. When others try to say words for you, it's probably because your answer is not what they wanted to hear.
That's why pure hearted people are fooled because the bad guy says the right things and good guys stay silent. Honestly, tears and sigh is often misunderstood that's why I am not a fan of it. As for me who tend to overthink, it's usually the opposite of what you feel is what I think. #LetsAgreeToDisagree
I get you. I'm speaking from a personal experience. I'd stayed silent in a situation and managed to find my way out of it. Why did I stay silent? Because either they were going to dismiss what I said as if it didn't matter. Or worse ... they were going to use my words against me and say I said something that I did not say. So I stayed quiet and when I got the opportunity to leave, they heard the words "Bye bye!" as I walking out the door.
Wow. We're quite opposite. You're like my sister. She's like that. She doesn't waste her energy to argue while me, I love to argue and fight.
I like a spirited debate and conversation. But there are some folks you just can't reason with no matter how many reasonable arguments you present to them. LOL.
Ah yes. Of course. I do avoid people like that too 😂
Sometimes I prefer not to speak because we don't know how people may think
Kaya nga dapat ka magsalita para di sila mag isip ng hindi mo saloobin sa mga bagay-bagay.