@Jeaneth
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Hey guys, just a question. I was wondering if someone understands me here about my personality. For years, I have been studying my personality and I have discovered something as I went through a lot of experiences. I have this behavior where I can be at my most sociable state online (rarely happens in person) and just pour so much energy and enthusiasm in the conversation for a day. However, you should expect me to be distant after that because it's for me to recharge my social battery. The tendency is that, people whom I interacted with get emotionally attached and expects attention from me after (which I don't blame them because we have established great emotional bond already) and when I explain to them that I don't really mind interacting with them after a week or a month and just catch up things with no bad vibes at all, they get disappointed because I don't meet their expectations. It's like they want to stay in touch everyday but on my part, they're asking too much for me. And that's where the misunderstanding starts. I am serious when it comes to relationships but isn't it my right to have my personal space and be in my own world too? What makes me feel bad is that they feel like I am only treating them as an object for entertainment because of my patterns of communication when in fact it's not. It's just there are days when you don't feel like talking, right?
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People are different. Some may expect so much from you after they think you have connected/bonded somewhat, while others dont. You can't expect that all will be thesame. Maybe you should set the boundary right from the start, so that they won't expect from u?
The thing is, I have already said that to them. I told them that should manage their expectations about me and not demand time from me disappearing because that's when I go back to my cave and recharge. :( Thanks for commenting madam. I appreciate this .
maybe that is your true nature, you just have to embrace it! true friend will understand you no matter what
Where us that true friend then? 🥺😅
Hmm, I think so! Yeah! of course, if you remember we already had a conversation on Telegram
Right, we did. Haha. But, do you have some kind of personal, difficult issues with people too? 🤔😆
Ehe, some people are just like that. Feeling ko nmn eh ganun tlga personality mo ate.
I agree dee. I find them too needy in which I can't stand against. I have attachment issues. 😅
That's you being you, sis hehe. Okay lng yan, may pgkaganyan ako minsan, 😅 Madaldal sa chat pero pgpersonal natatameme maliban nlng kung super close ko tlga kaharap ko.
I can really see we have so much similarities sis. Hehe. And people usually misunderstands us no?
Ganun naman ata tayong lahat, may multiple personalities
I mean, major ones that either make or break the person madam. Hehe