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Jealous
A feeling that is not comfortable at all. A feeling that might seem sweet to other people but can be really traumatic to some. It is cute sometimes, but when the jealousy is so extreme, it can be really toxic to both sides. Especially to those who just started their relationship or those who are still on the dating phase. This may find it cute when the other person is jealous. It gives them the feeling that they are important and the fear of the jealous person boosts their ego. These are also some of the reasons why other people intentionally make their partner jealous. I'm talking about jealousy in a romantic relationship here... Jealous is so overwhelming at some point and it's the result of our insecurities. And because of that, we become very possessive towards the person that causes them so much pressure. Which may result in a huge fight and worst, break-up. It isn't something other people find very pleasing. It makes others feel imprisoned and manipulated by their partner. A relationship full of jealousy is unhealthy. It can cause mental illness without even realizing it. Where you always need to explain, where you always need to be conscious who you talk to or whatnot. Especially when you need to keep a distance with your friends because of absurd jealousy. Lack of trust is also one factor why people get jealous. They don't trust their partner and worst is they don't trust themselves. They underestimate themselves and it builds insecurities and doubts. When you get jealous, you begin to question your worth. You start to negatively think that others are better than you. You start to have feelings of bitterness towards other individuals. And you start to become very irritable. To avoid this, always think that we are all different. We all have unique strengths and weaknesses. Embrace and accept who you are and what you can give. Be willing to improve your capabilities. Love yourself and focus on your growth, not on someone else's journey. Remember, no one can be good at everything. There will always be someone good at something but not so good at other things.
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Thanks for sharing. Jealous is also an envious emotional attitude primarily directed by an individual toward someone perceived as a rival for the affections of a loved one or for something one desires, such as a job, promotion, or award.
yes jealous has huge definition but boils down to one's insecurities.. We all experience this at some point actually.. 😊
Jealousy can destruct our ego sometimes it's good but sometimes bad
Before, when I'm still in highschool, when someone ask me If anong katangian amg gusto ko sa isang lalaki, I always answer them "Seloso, sweet, mapagmahal" something like that, yan ang pangunahin. Tapos nong nagkaroon na ako ng karelasyon, nong una okay lang I find it really appealing coz that's what I really want. In my mind I always say, "Ganyan kasi talaga pag mahal ka" tapos nong tumagal na, Ang iba na, nakakaasar na din, tapos yon pa ang naging rason kung bakit nakipag hiwalay ako. 😅 Over na, naging toxic na nga, lagi nalang yun ang pinaguusapan, kaya ayaw ko na talaga 😅
oo nga eh cute siya pag pacute kang ang pagseselos pero naging oa na at bisyo na nita magselos.. ay nakakaasar na ahahah
Kaya nga, ayaw ko na nyan, basta faithful, yon nalang, wag nayang seloso haha
Jealousy is dangerous. Like what the song says, "too much love will kill you". There are various cases of murder because of jealousy. It's when emotions take over and morality is left behind. 💔
yes it can literally kill. people sometimes commit criminal acts because of this
depende naman kasi yan,pag gwapo daw nagseselos cute daw,tas pag panget daw mukhang adik HAHHAHAHA joke lang po.Pero true, jealousy can lead to break up,tas madadamay pa yung pinagseselosan na walang kaalam alam.
hahhaa totoo.. pag may itsurs nakakakilig.. pag wala.. nakakaasar ahahahaha
HHAHAHA pag wala mababadtrip ka na lang talaga e no haha joke.Inactive ka ata ateee?namiss ko mga articles mo hehe
Well, what I really want to say here is, jealousy is the root of hatred and people who jealous are those who don't have confidence on themselves, because it is only when you trust yourself then you can trust others . Let's lern to have confidence on the one we say we love, I think it will help us overcome jealousy thanks
exactly.. that's why jealousy is result of insecurities. and should be avoided if possible.. 😊