← The Insanity Of Bringing Home The Bacon (A Breadwinner's Message) July 31, 2021 Until… by @Jane
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There are too many things that made me a strong, smart, independent and capable woman. Whatever you want to do you can do. There is nothing that a woman sets herself to do and does not achieve it. Only her power of mind drives her to do the impossible.
Everyone in the family should be a bread winner. It doesn't matter if you are just working part time or selling stuff, the thing is at least you can provide for your own and share some to your family. Winning the bread should not be left on one person alone. We must all help each other. Breathe, Ms. Jane and hugs to you💛
Tama. Sana soon makapagpahinga na ako
I was in this stage before that I really wanted to give up. But then I realized giving up would being me nothing. After all they're my family so sacrifices would all be worth it. What I need is just a little break.
How about now?
Well, the situation is better now because I already voiced out my hinanakit to them and we're okay na po. 😁
"We are only human and we feel tired, we get sick, and we are vulnerable. So don't be so demanding and strenuous, instead, give a helping hand. " True 👌 I have a cousin who is working hard under the sun as a labour in Dubai and his family members are enjoying sitting in Air Conditioner. They don't bother how hard he works.
Many are like that because they can't see how hard our work is just to suffice their needs
hindi talaga kahit anong gawin mong pagmamatigas 😁
Randam ko yung pagod mo, alam mo kahit may anak na ako mas doble nga burden ko, iniisip future nang anak ko tapos yung matulungan si mama kasi mga kapatid ko di nag iisip maghanap nang paraan para makatulong kumita maliit pera, kahit malalaki na sila. Pero di ko nman kaya matiis na pabayaan na lang si mama. Haaay alam mo yung, may mga pangarap din akong mag enjoy mag travel goals etc, pero di mo magawa lahat kasi kailangan mag tipid tapos yung jowa ko bread winner din jusko bat ganon hahahaha kapagooooooooooooood!
Ang hirap kpg both ay breadwinner. . habang buhay na ata tayo magiging ganito 😅
Kainis gusto ko nmn guminhawa yung sarili lang muna iisipin 🤣
Alam mo ganito ako before saka lang maalala nang mga kapatid ko mag text pag need pera kahit di ako abroad haha. Pati sa mama ko ganon sila kaya naawa ako sa mama ko haay. Nasa manila si mama nagtatrabaho.
Ay kung ako nun.. Magpa japan ako. 🤣
So you are one of us. . Someday, we will be truly free from burdens.
I believe that, happy new month to you.
Hopefully sis.. Btw, how's your baby? 🥰
Thank you
Stay strong. I know the feeling that we might sometimes wanna give up , pero tuloy lang po. Wala namang ibang aasahan kundi tayo din. Dalawa po kami ni ate na naghehelp sa bahy, pero bigay ko pa din ang korona sa ate ko na sobrang sipag magtrabaho para sa amin. may God always bless us with strength and will to live on despite life's tough trials. ♥️
I hope my comment is not misinterpreted or offended by someone but sometimes there are such toxic families, so badly grateful, so inhumane that they only look after their own interests, they have no empathy, they don't put themselves in the place of that individual who is there helping him, giving him a helping hand, I read to you and I feel a lot of courage, disappointed because they don't deserve you as a daughter, sister, cousin, niece, granddaughter, you are an incredible girl, that has grown, that has matured, who knows what he wants, who has his feet on the ground but still exploit you, still they don't value you, they don't give you that love you deserve, that value you deserve. And that same situation that you live, many people are living it, it's so easy to be home, lying down, enjoying a good television show, while the other person is working hard, putting aside his plans, to please others, my respects dear Jane, it's not easy, but they say things happen for something, this is influencing you, molding your character however if I tell you, sometimes you have to set limits in life, in life, we cannot overcome plans, weaknesses, and aspirations of others for ours, life passes very fast, time does not forgive, find your path, your way, fight for what you want, then it could be too late, many beautiful woman forces, I send you a big hug.
Sorry for the late notice. And thank you for the message 😭
That's just it, when you work, you look like a money sign to others. :)
Haha.. Kala nla lage pumapasok ang pera lol
hahah akala nila hindi lumalabas ang pera. hahahaa
May mga oras talaga sa buhay natin na napapagod tayu...its okay to tell them about it.
I just got the chance to read your article ate :) > We are only human and we feel tired, we get sick, and we are vulnerable. So don't be so demanding and strenuous, instead, give a helping hand. Honestly, I feel you too ate. I always wanted someone to lend me a hand. And, > Hear our weeps and cries, mind our aching bodies. We also need someone beside us towards completing our journey. We also want real happiness and freedom! Hear me, look inside of me, and understand how much I feel today. It's so hard lang talaga na someone was depending on you already. Tapus they would say, "Hingi ka doon ng pera kay kuya mo, madaming pera yun." At somehow these words as my life continues was no longer yung tinatawag nating "motivation" but has become a torture already. Yung feeling na you were forced kasi they're depending on you na. Pero like you said ate, hopefully. We'll get through this at KAKAYANIN.
Tama..kakayanin natn to.. Btw, you are not so active here anymore. Mas mgda na system..so mabuti araw arawin mo
Kahit nga sa noise ate kasi medyo busy pa... Hanggang ngayon kasi yung distribution namin ng relief goods is ongoing tapus kami din nagrerepack.. tatlong volunteers lang para minimize yung tao dahil ecq padin kami until now. During night, para wala na akong energy to write or anything man. Kaya medyo hindi active. Pero tuwing lunch, minsan nakaka visit din or umaga before pumunta sa church
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