@Jabs 30 October 2020

True Love

***How can you say that you already find your true love?*** A very complicated questions, right? Because it is I think indescribable. The explaination maybe vague, that you can't put it into words. But here are some things we need to know about true love. ****True love isn't about finding yourself to someone.**** To receive and give love, we must understand and know ourselves first. Things like knowing your likes and dislikes. Discover ourselves. We must stop thinking that we need someone to make our life complete. We must not force ourselves to like something we don't for the sake of the person we love. We are all different. ****Self love is the best way to find true love.**** Loving ourselves first before anyone. How can someone loved us if we don't love ourselves. We must be comfortable with ourselves. Admitting that some days aren't good. Being in love with ourselves are self - satisfying. **True love is never demanding**. We're not perfect. We have flaws and weakness. We make mistakes. Someone should accept that as who they are. We must be considerate. We should stop saying "if you love we, change yourself." Yes, there are things that need to be change, but we must remember if the person change, he/she is not the same person who we fall in love with. ****True love allows us to be ourselves.**** We can also show our flaws and imperfection to someone we love. That's makes us realize and see if that someone accept us for who we are. Good things and bad things makes the relationshio stronger. Understanding each other and accepting each other is a great thing in every relationship. ****To get love, you must give love****. If we give love we will absolutely receive love. We must love all the time. Love always a give and take relationship. We must alway say "I love you" and not only when the person we love does good and giving a cold shoulders if he/she does bad. Remember, true love is unconditional. ****True love is committed****. Without a doubt we always tend to look for attractive things, it's a nature human. We admire what is beautiful. When we truly inlove, whatever beautiful things we see, we can't be swayed easily. We don't want to be with anyone else. We can't imagine our day without seeing the person we love. We are committed to the person whom we truly love. ****True love lasts****. In every relationship, there is always a bumpy road that needs to cross. That's a trial to test how strong love is. True love is overcoming the challenges together. Being in love is one of the greatest thing that God have given to us, ***giving and receiving love***. It makes us a whole person or a complete person. It gives us an overwhelming emotions that hard to explain and describe. And above all, finding the true love we want is one of the most satisfying moment in our life. **Thanks for reading!**