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@JEN11 12 October 2021

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@JEN11 11 October 2021

Giving birth is not easy Good evening to all I may not able to write here lately. This article is just saved to drafts for almost a week so I better to finished it this evening. I know it's kinda late to write this but "it's better too late than never"😁this article is inspired by miss@Khing14 about Random questions for parents I'd like to make my version too. ***Who takes care of your budget?*** Me of course, Since I'm a full housewife I'm the one who managed our daily budget for food and the daily needs of our family, being a mother it's not easy to budget. My husband got only 300-400 pesos daily it's just exact to our daily needs my two-year-old baby needs milk and a diaper. For us to save and reduced consuming diapers I only put diapers on my baby every night when she is going to sleep. I trained my baby when she wants to pee or poop she should tell me immediately so that we can go to the restroom. Even though we don't pay rent because this is our own house(not fully finished) budgeting our daily needs are so hard not like before that I have a job we can have extra money. But I have no regrets about my decision to resign from my last job because I can take care of my kids and I can give them more time. ***Are you and your partner married?*** Yes! were been married for 10 years now. Before we got married we've been 8 years as boyfriend and girlfriend. We already know both sides of our family because we are just neighbors. `We are neighbors but I just saw him when I just graduated from high school I'm the type of girl who is just a school to house and house to school as my daily routine. One of my neighbors introduced him to me and that's the first time we know each other. We become friends and after how my months become lovers😍` After 8 years of we've been together I've got pregnant at the age of 24 (we're both at the same age). My husband's family got "Pamanhikan" (Filipino tradition where both sides of the family planned the wedding date). We're not yet ready to get married at that time but we should face our new responsibilities for the future of our family. ***Civil wedding or church wedding?*** I prefer church weddings because they said marriage needs blessings from church. Our wedding is just simple but very memorable to us. We just finished all the requirements and preparations in two months ***How many children do you want?*** I want only three kids I think that's enough I already have 1 boy and 1 girl. If ever God gave us another blessing I would be happy for whatever gender will be given to me. I want to give them a good future for my kids so I want only a small family ***Normal delivery or cesarean?*** Of course, I want a normal delivery rather than a cesarean. When I was pregnant with my second baby I've been exposed to a cold environment every day. As I was saying in my introduction here I'm still working up to my 8 months of pregnancy. A day in my labor day around 6 pm that time I don't feel any pain in my tummy when I was able to take a rest in my bed I feel that there is something in my undies when check It I thought it's just a normal and I just want to pee only a few minutes later my water is broke already. I immediately call my husband for us to go to the hospital even if I still don't feel any pain my concern is my water broke too early. After we arrived at the public hospital around 8 p.m. still no pain in my tummy after a minute my water is still continually broken. They admitted me and put me in the delivery room at almost 10 p.m. After 2 hours still, I don't feel any pain and my baby is only 2cm. I remember one mother shouting and calling her "mama".Three hours later I start to feel pain the doctor checked me and I'm still in 3cm. The doctor said my baby's heartbeat is getting too low if there is no improvement they me schedule for cesarean operation. After I heard that I talk to my baby "***Please baby don't be too long there in my tummy I want you to be safe and I love you"*** I got out of my bed and took a walk carrying my dextrose even if I feel so much of pain the nurse told me to go back to my bed with the angry face I don't know why is she angry. After a minute I can't help it anymore I feel my baby is going out but the nurse and doctor just ignore me they said they already scheduled me in an operation. I just tell the doctor "***Please doc I think my baby is going out please check my baby"*** then she found out my baby is 9cm already and ready to go out they immediately bring me to the delivery room. After a minute my baby is out and safe. ***How old are you when you have your firstborn?*** I'm already 24 at that time ***What do you prefer? Breastmilk or formula milk?*** My firstborn is formula milk it's so hard and so expensive so in my second born I promise to myself that I exclusively gave her breastmilk. Thank God, I have a milk supply I eat a lot of veggies soup but after six months my milk supply went gone after I suffer postpartum depressions no choice but to give formula milk to my baby. I will always be thankful to my lovely sponsors below Thank you for your time to read my post I am happy to read more comments below Lead image from Unsplash JEN11 Date: October 11, 2021 Time: 11:57 pm

@JEN11 4 October 2021

Lesson Learned to parents Date: October 04, 2021 Time: 8:40 pm Good day everyone I'm not active the other day because I've been so busy, now I have time to write this article that serves as a lesson to all parents out there. Until now I can't even move on from what happened. Yesterday Sunday, October 03, 2021, my husband's cousin celebrated the first birthday and Christianity of their baby. The baptism was around 10:00 in the morning and the venue was held in the private resorts(newly opened resort). We're not able to attend the baptism ceremony because my family went to the beach at that time but we were just back around 1:00 in the afternoon and the afternoon my husband just finished his work for us that we can go to the venue of the celebration. In the second picture, this was taken around 5:00 in the afternoon my husband's cousin took this picture. As you can see the adult pool and kiddie pool are just side by side. So the kids must have adult supervision for safety. We arrived at the venue around 6:30 in the evening, they are all enjoyed singing videoke while the kids are also enjoyed swimming in the kiddie pool. We just eat first and then my two kids are very excited to go swimming so I just accompanied them to the children's pool. Now and then I didn't take out of my sight to my two kids while the other kids are also guarded by the teenagers. A few minutes after we were swimming with my two-year-old daughter, a woman shouted that there was a kid who drowned and needs immediate help. They immediately ran towards the pool. When they got it out in the pool, the child is starting to turn black. His mother was crying and almost fainted. Thank goodness that there is someone who knows how to do first aid. What first aid do they apply? First, they lay the child on the flat surface and tell the others to keep away so that there is still air. They first check if the child is still breathing and if it still responds. Second, they rescue the breathing of the child then they start the chest compression after a second they saw that the child is fighting for his life. Third, they do the mouth-to-mouth resuscitation after a minute the child revives and starts to cry. Fourth, they immediately bring the child to the nearest hospital for further examination. After the incident, they start blaming each other ***why that they don't noticed the kid? Who is the Guardian of the kid?*** Nobody likes what's happened but it's already happened now all we can do is to pray for the fast recovery of the child. After taking the child to the hospital we found out that he had slipped on the floor so he fell into the adult pool. The child develops a lump on the head and his face due to his fall. ***Is there any lifeguard in the pool?*** No, there is no lifeguard. They said this is a private resort, not a public resort and the pool is just too small so it doesn't need a lifeguard. ***But why did he go to the adult pool?*** That's the question we couldn't answer for now, you know kids when they are so happy they don't know what they are doing and at the age of five years old parents should be the one who is responsible for their children. Lesson Learned to parents ***Don't just be comfortable with your kids especially when swimming in the pool or beach you should keep an eye on them because we don't know what's gonna happen next. We are the no. 1 responsible for our children.*** Until here I have to wash our dishes first I'll be back later😊 Lead image from Unsplash Jen11 Many many thanks to my lovely SPONSORS below THANK YOU FOR READING!

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@JEN11 2 October 2021

Thank you sis @yhanne sa sponsorship nakakataba ng puso ang supporta na ibinibigay niyo guys more more blessings to come po sa inyo

@JEN11 1 October 2021

My experience with customers Hello everyone, how's your day? Today is the first day of October a new beginning to start a new journey here in reading. cash. Lately, I had a hard time thinking of another topic to post here but after I read and comment on some random articles I've suddenly remembered my experience when I was worked as a ticket seller in a Cinema. It's all about the saying "Customer is always right" do you agree with this? It all started when my supervisor assigned me to the Cinema Department as a new ticket seller because one of them is decided to resign because of her health problem so I'm the replacement of her job. They teach me all about Cinema policies and how to interview the customers when they want to watch the movie that needs a required age that suitable to watch the movie. ***MTRCB (MOVIE AND TELEVISION REVIEW AND CLASSIFICATION BOARD)*** They are the ones who are responsible for supervising and regulating the public exhibition of movies. But before I proceed I want to explain first what's about the ratings. Here are some ratings that should be followed: **Rated G or General audience** In this rating, there is no age limit for this movie from baby to adult all ages are allowed to see the movie even if the child is all alone with or without a guardian as long as he/she can handle it by herself. **Rated PG or Parental Guardian** In this rating, all ages are still allowed to watch a movie but with the guidance of an adult and the adult, it should be 18 years old and above. **R13 or Rated 13** In this rating, all audience or viewers must be 13 years old and above. Even if they have adult supervision strictly 13 years old and above only. In some cases, If we are in doubt about the age of the viewer we interview them or ask for an id as proof because we are the ones responsible in case we allowed them to watch a movie that is not suitable for their age. **R16 or Rated 16** In this rating, 16 years old and above are only allowed to watch the movie. Some scenes are more bloody and violent so we better be careful when giving tickets because some of our customers are mostly teenagers and lying about their age for them to watch the movie. **R18 or Rated 18** In this rating, Strictly Only 18 years old and above are allowed to watch the movie because some scenes contain bloody, violence, nudity, horror, drugs, and sexy scenes. ***So back to our topic about "Customer is always right"*** Way back year 2018, It was Wednesday that time, First day of all movies the most awaited horror movie is finally showing that time, titled "The nun"a horror movie with the main horror character named " Valak". It is classified as R13 by the MTRCB because it contains violence, bloody scene, and scary images that are not suitable for 13 years old below, and here's what happened. There are a group of people buying a ticket for five people since the movie is rated 13 I ask them first who are five-person that are going to watch the movie but I only saw 4 people and I asked again who's the 5th person. They said that ***Customer: He just buy some food, don't worry miss we don't bring kids with us.*** When they are about to enter to watch the movie I've noticed that they had a child with them. I immediately told the porter assigned to hold the child because I hadn't interviewed him yet. After a few minutes the porter and the child back to the ticket booth, I interviewed the child at first he said that he is already 13 years old so I ask his birthdate and the birth year but he can't answer my questions so I asked him again ***Me: Is it true that you are already 13 years old?*** A few minutes before he replied ***Child: I am just 11 years old ate because my mama told me to say I'm 13 years old"*** That time his mother angry approached us ***Mother: Why you don't believe me? I'm the parent I'm the one who knows how old my child is! can you please hurry up we're late for the movie!*** ***Me: I'm so sorry ma'am but I can't give a ticket to your son because he is only 11 years old he said that to me earlier.*** ***Mother: I want to talk to your manager now! He said that he is 11 because you scared him. Don't you know me? I'm a city counselor! I want you to be fired immediately!*** That time I can't help myself to cry It was a very embarrassing moment many people are already looking at us. My co-workers said I just take a break for a moment. They settle it in the office but in the end, the mother and her son end up watching another movie that is suitable for her child. *"For me, the customer is always right but not all the time"* I think that's all I can share now.. Thank you for reading my post I am happy to read more comments. Special thanks to my lovely sponsors below Date: October 01 2021 Time: 5:30 pm

@JEN11 30 September 2021

What a beautiful first day of October! A big thanks to my two new sponsors @bloghound and @winx1988 marami pong salamat! God bless po sa inyo.

@JEN11 29 September 2021

A big THANK YOU to my first sponsor here in read.cash @khing14, thank you sis for trusting me and encouraging me. Thank you for sharing your blessing !

@JEN11 29 September 2021

My kind of Sunday Happy Wednesday to all I know it's kinda late to publish this post it just happened last Sunday I am not able to post it last Sunday because we have a problem with our internet connection again. I am using mobile data and I need to go outside and find a stable and strong signal. Anyways here is my photoblog last Sunday; In the first photo, I could see the excitement on their faces the kids are so happy, for how many months they can now go to the beach again. On this day we celebrated also the "45th wedding anniversary" of my Papa Lando(my father's brother) and Mama Linda. Last day, my mother and father celebrated also their "35th wedding anniversary" it was just like a double celebration on that day. In the second photo, we just pass this beautiful view, there are a lot of bananas that make the surrounding very relaxing to anyone could see this view. Banana is the main source of income for many people who live here. Finally, we arrived at our destination they call it "white beach" we arrived at exactly 9:00 In the morning. We are so hungry at that time because I just eat a biscuit and coffee earlier that day. We just ate breakfast first but the kids are too excited to swim. These three little cute girls are busy making sand Castle they do not care about the very hot weather at that time. That is Abby, wearing a black jacket and bebe wearing a blue t-shirt, and the last girl wearing an orange rush guard that is their new friend. As you can see there is a "Coconut Wine" or "Red Wine" on the table that is their all-time favorite wine because this is not an alcoholic drink. It is delicious, especially when freshly taken from coconut because it tastes so sweet. The view on the other side of the beach has many big rocks it looks like they are still beautifying this beach there is also a lot of construction going on on this site that is not yet fully completed. In the last photo, I took that day the weather is starting to become gloomy and at that moment whiLe I took a picture it is starting to rain so I immediately go to our cottage. Around 3:00 in the afternoon we decided to go home before the heavy rains comes. Closing thoughts As long as we still have plenty of time to be with and bond with our loved ones let's make the most of every moment because it strengthens our relationship with each other. All PHOTOS I USED ARE MINE Thank you for reading my article happy to read more comments below.

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@JEN11 24 September 2021

Buried Secret We have a saying that "walang sekreto na hindi nabubunyag" (there is no secret that will not be revealed). There are some secrets that should be kept and buried for the sake of the people around you. Do you believe that the secret can be buried? My answer is Yes! I was just 17 years old that time when I was worked as an cashier/assistant in a concrete products business. One of my neighbor introduced me to her friend and owner of the said business to become there assistant of their business. That was my first job after I graduated in high school. They said I can still continue my studies in college as a working student so I grab the opportunity that time. I enrolled in a university and choose the evening class session. My work time in is 7:00 o'clock to 4:30 in the afternoon. My class scheduled is 5:30 to 9:00 in the evening. At first I thought it would be easy to be a working student but I was wrong, it was really hard. I review my notes while working sometimes when I need to go to the bank to deposit money I always carry my review papers while waiting my turn. Our office is right in front of my employers house so if there are any problems about deliveries or something I can easily ask them. My employers are both senior citizen their four children are all graduated from school and they all have a good jobs. My bosses are kind, in fact, they even advised me to enroll all my subjects, even if I still have a morning schedule, they said I'll just go there for a while and then come back to the office right away after class, which is about two hours. There are times that my two boss are out of town for one week because they are both liders of the religious group. I feel so stressed that time because I can't focus on my review for my midterm exams because I'm the only one who manage their business that time because their children don't care about their parent's business. And the result I have a lot of wrong answers I feel so stressed that time and thanks to my teachers they never failed my subjects. As time goes by I learned how to managed my time in school and time for my work. One day I notice something strange from my boss(male boss) everytime I am the only one in the office he was sitting next to me and staring at me, there was a time that I asked him about deliveries he was too close to me while holding my legs I suddenly backed away maybe he didn't meant it, it was just accidentally happen I didn't even think any malicious for what happened knowing that he is one of the Pastor of a religious church group. One time I really need to C.A (cash advance) for my final exams. I ask my boss(female boss) that I really need a cash for my exam she said I just approached her husband for the said amount for my exam so I immediately tell my boss and he said: ***"I have important client to meet in a minutes. Meet me in front of the park after 30 minutes and I will give your cash advance there"*** ***"*** ***yes boss!( even if I was confused I just agreed.) "*** In a few minutes waiting in front of the park there was a familiar car in front of me slowly opened and said " ***kindly get in here first in the car before I give your C.A"*** I feel hesitant that time but I trust my boss so I get in the car after I get in he said "***come with me first I have something to tell you"*** I suddenly felt danger for myself I just look at him instead I don't know what to say and what to do. He started to asked too many questions if I have a boyfriend? if one of my workmate still courting me? I didn't answer all his questions I just be quiet thinking how to escape from him then suddenly he stopped the car in a dark place and I started to cry, he asked me why I am crying? He said he will give me everything I need especially in my school needs if I agreed to have a relationship with him still I don't answer him I just cry. Until he started driving again and finally I got home I've decided not to accept my Cash Advance. The next day I talked to her wife(my boss)I tell her that I want to resign she asked me why? I just tell her that I will be a working student at my school just like the other students. I really want to say the real reason and I don't know if she believes in me knowing that her husband is a pastor of their religious church group. I'm afraid the consequences that I may bring to them. So better I kept it a secret for the good of all people around me. I also don't want my parents to know because there will definitely a big trouble happen. Until now nobody knows about this secret except to those who read my article😁 it was a long time ago buried secret. Lead image from unsplash Thank you for reading my article happy to read comments below😊

@JEN11 14 September 2021

My highschool memories Hello everyone! This is my second article published here in read.cash. It's been 5 days since I published my first article because I don't have any idea what to write in my next article. Until I saw a post of ezy10 in noise.cash about "highschool life"suddenly I remember lots of memories in my highschool days I've got an idea now what to write in my next article. Before I start my story this is based on my own experience in my highschool life. First year highschool I can't really forget when I had a soft cough with sound(sorry for the wrong word I don't know what exactly to write hehe) , it's really embarrassing to cough especially when the class is very quiet, every time I want to stop my cough, it itches my throat even more, sometimes I can't stop it and it's really embarrassing because they will all look at you and laugh at the same time saying "ilabas mo yan nakaka kalbo yan"(spit it out it can make you bald) it's really embarrassing especially one of my classmates is my crush. There are times that I forgot to do my homework and then I'm shocked when I arrive in the classroom, my classmates are all busy doing there homework and only me don't have assignment. I can't forget my Science teacher Mrs. Suarez first time I experienced punishment for not doing homework. Me and my five classmates punished to do seating on the air while saying "I will not do it again" I also have a crush that belongs to special class. He is so smart and talented but I discovered that he is a gay. Sad life hehe😁 Second year high school In my second year in highschool I can't forget our classroom because almost every day it has a muddywater on the floor due to rain that makes us students can't concentrate our lessons. Juice and bananacue my always snack during breaktime because that is the only snack I can afford to buy, I only have 20 pesos allowance in a day and I should save for the tricycle fare when I go home. For us to have an extra money for our daily allowance and for the school projects. Every Saturday and Sunday I sell plastic cellophane in public market for only 1 peso per piece. I'm happy to have 10-20 pesos as my net income after selling cellophane in the market. Before I go home I'll buy barbeque for us to have a viand for dinner. There are times that I got late going to school because I leave the house at exactly 7am and then I travel for a few more minutes when I arrive at the school I'm already late and the gate is already closed too. Sometimes they let us to in but as punishment you will have to pull some grasses on the ground for us not to do it again. Unfortunately I do it again going late to school because of the heavy traffic due to rush hour. This time they not allowed us to in anymore, they just advice us to go home but if you don't follow there instructions the traffic enforcer that assigned that time in our school will beat you so we ran as far as we can do. I don't want to go home because I'm afraid of my mother so I just went to the back of our school and waited for the time for lunch break for me to go inside the school. Third year highschool In my third year in highschool I am now started to become matured person I don't get late anymore. I have a funny memories in my P.E subject that I can't forget. It was Friday P.E day and because I'm afraid to get late anymore I'm in a hurry to put on my rubber shoes I didn't even look what's inside my shoes. Then when I'm in school already I've noticed that there is something inside my shoes but I just ignore it because my teacher is currently discussing that time but I can't take it anymore because there is something tickling my foot I suddenly laughed out loud and the whole class is looking at me. I ran out of the classroom to take off my shoes and I saw the cockroach came out of my shoes and they all laughed it was really embarrassing to me😁. Fourth year highschool In my fourth year in highschool the final stage of my high school life. This is the time that I met bad Influence friends they taught me cutting classes, drink alcohol and even jump on the back fence of the school. Good thing that I still have a true friends that always be there for me and never stop reminding that my bad friends will destroy my future. I never saw again my bad friends I just heard that their parents were called by the school principal and they couldn't graduate that time. Thank you for reading my story by the way I'm sorry for my grammar guys I'm not that good in English but I really tried my best. I am happy reading comments about your highschool memories below. Lead image source: unsplash

@JEN11 8 September 2021

It's all about me (My Introduction) Hi everyone ! I'm JEN11 a full time mother of two kids ages 10 years old boy and 2 years old girl. We are happily married for almost 11 years with my husband. We live here in province of Davao Del norte a quite and a peaceful place. Before I gave birth to my 2nd child I'm a working mother, I worked as a cashier for almost 6 years at the big mall here in our place and luckily I've got the opportunity to become a regular Employee(but before this job I have a lot of work experiences) when I was got pregnant for my second child I still work for 8 hours a day or more when we need to extend one or two hours for OT. There are times that I feel so sleepy And not feeling well due to my pregnancy I just go to the comfort room and take a short nap for a minute just to make myself OK. Even though I'm pregnant I'm proudly to say that I did not absent all the time I just wait my restday to come because I need to save more money for my coming baby. My husband's earning is just exact to sustain our daily needs and we have many debts that we should pay on time. I still worked until 8 months of my pregnancy and every day I'm struggling going back to comfort room to have a pee and going up and down from the stairs going to the canteen. My husband keeps telling me to file maternity leave for me get more rest.But I insist to work for another week to complete my target savings for my coming baby. Finally I gave birth a healthy baby girl in normal delivery in a public hospital. I'm so happy that I survived the very painful part of my labor journey thanks God we're both safe. Since I have already two kids my mother could no longer can take care of my baby girl because she is always busy in here sari-sari store. Even if it's too difficult for me I choose my children over my work so I decided to file a resignation letter and become a full time house wife. Since I don't have work anymore struggles is real talaga. I decided to sell frozen products online to help my husband to sustain our family daily needs especially my baby. Who introduced me in read.cash? Before I joined noise.cash my cousin first introduced me this read.cash. At first I feel hesitant because I'm not good in writing articles especially writing in English. But my cousin inspired me to try and write an article here in read.cash even though I'm not really good in English but I'll try my very best. This is my account in noise.cash I've been here for 7 months. This platform help me a lot to have an extra income and gain a lot of friends even though we don't see each other personally. I've learned to appreciate things even if it is small or big but the most important of all we are happy. Thank you guys for reading my first ever article here in read.cash. I am happy to read comments about my first article and how to improve it. Hope you like it and keep safe always everyone!