Marriage rituals
Culture is all about our ways of living, language, dress, education, religion, and rituals. Festivals and occasions held great importance in the culture of every country. Everyone possesses different rituals and customs according to their own tradition. Actually they help to form the foundation of society, and provide meaning to our lives. It's very important to keep our culture alive because it maintains our identity and provide us satisfaction.
Culture passes from one generation to the other through social learning. I live in Pakistan, so we follow the Islamic traditions which holds great importance in our hearts. If I talk about the marriage rituals in Pakistan, then these are mostly traditional arranged marriages, in which groom's family ask the bride's hand in marriage. It's not only the union of couple but alliance of their families too. The age for marriage is 16 for girls and 18 for boys with their commitment.
Pakistani wedding consists of Dolki, Mehndi, Nikaah, Baraat, and Walima, in which Nikaah is the most important event because it's the religious legal contract to make this relationship.
Dolki:
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Dolki is the most enjoyable part of marriage ceremony. Almost one week before the marriage ceremony, ladies of the both families sit together to sing different songs with Dolki every day, and it ends before Mehndi night. Sometimes they divided into two sectors, one for boys and one for girls, and a competition is held between both sides, in which winner is awarded with prize from both sides. After dolki, special kinds of sweets are served to the guests.
Mehndi:
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This is actual start of marriage ceremony, and a most colorful night in which all the ladies put mehndi on their hands and also lift the beautifully decorated plates with colorful bangles in their arms. Couple is also served with a lot of sweets by the whole family...lol. The most enjoyable part of the Mehndi night is the "bhangra". All the males took part in this special dance on Dhol beat. This function usually start at 9:00 PM, and stays for three to four hours.
Barat:
This is the final and biggest event in which the nikah ritual is performed and all the guests are served with the splendid meal. The whole family wears glorious and splendid dresses, and bride wears her special wedding dress in red color which is called "Lehnga". The red color symbolizes love and affection of newly-wed couple. On the arrival of Groom the girls from the bride side are standing in the doorway to welcome him with flowers, and to take money from the groom.
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At the stage, different amusing rituals are performed by the sisters of bride as "Juta chupai rasam." This is simply the hiding the shoes of groom to demand money...lol There is also another ritual in which sisters and cousins of bride sit on the stage with bride to demand money and never let groom to sit with bride until he never pays money...lol 😂
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Vidaai is the most emotional part of the whole marriage ceremony in which the family of bride is gathered for farewell to bride for groom's house with best wishes.
Walima:
This is the reception ceremony by the side of groom to officially make the marriage public, in which the whole families of bride and groom are invited at the bride's new home with splendid meal. Groom wears traditional dress and bride wears beautiful dress with gold jewelry. A lot of photographs and videos are recorded to kept as a memory.
So in this way we arrange the whole marriage ceremony with different functions which are great source of pleasure.
So Let me know about the wedding rituals in your area?
I hope you enjoyed reading.
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High-school...Enticing period
High school was a perfect time to have fun with group of friends, without any worries and life was full of enjoyment. There are some friends who stay very close to our heart specially the ones with whom we met in high school. I remember the way I used to have a lot of fun together with my friends. Our school was not so far from the house, so during recess time we all friends were used to visit the house of each friend, for which we got punished by our teachers many times.
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I am sure the time we spent in high school would be close to everyone's heart, even sometimes I get emotional to remember the pleasurable moments I spent with my friends. I was a good student, so I never got punished for being absent in class or due to homework because my mother was strict in matter of studies, so she never let me miss any single homework..Lol
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My heart is filled with so many memories and I want to let you know about my life as a high school student. There was a group of my friends which were involved in every crime with me...😂😂 but the one who was my best crime partner was my childhood friend. I am truly blessed to have that one friend...😍😍😍 Our childhood spent together having silly talks and jokes, and not only in high school, but we also studied in college and university together. Not only that, we are still friends or better to say for life..😍 Actually she lives near my house, so we used to going school together.
When we took admission in high school there were different sections, our teacher announced the names of students according to their sections. It was a great shock for us to know that my name came in section "A" and she was in section "C".😂 Our first mission was to be in the same section...😂 We were really sad, and my friend almost started crying hardly... I also did the same.😜 Our teacher tried to make us calm but all her efforts were useless due to our negligence. 😂 So finally she decided to transfer us in the same section, Our happiness was undescribable at that time. Because we were together again to create havoc with our blunders...😜. Our high school life was a totally fun, and we enjoyed a lot. Whenever I remember the silliness we committed, a smile comes to my face.😂
**Funniest thing that happened in high school....😂**😂
One day we friends decided to have some party in our school. As it was our best friend's birthday, so we wanted to surprise her with something big. But at this age we were not allowed to go outside after school, so we decided to celebrate it in school during recess time but as we had to make some decorations, so it was impossible for us to make the arrangements in half an hour.
There was small room at the back of our classroom, So we started to decorate it before the recess time. One of our friend bring colorful lights, and we also bought some balloons to decorate the room. We all were in hurry, but suddenly we heard the sound of someone heading towards the classroom. One of our classmate run to inform us that our class teacher is arriving. We all were scared, and ran to sit on our chairs, but one of our friend stumbled and fell. When she gets up her face was invisible because it was filled with cake... 😂
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Our teacher entered the classroom and screamed to see her plight...our whole class burst into laugh....😂😂 Our friend looked in anger towards us, and hastily run out of the classroom..😜😂😂 How we calmed her down it's another story to told.😄
High school life was full of good and bad memories. No matter what they were, but they always brought smile on my face whenever I think about it. There was also another incident which brought us punishment...😂
One day after having our lunch at the recess time my friend and I decided to have some rounds in the classrooms and library. First we walked in the ground for some time and after started searching all the rooms aimlessly. Suddenly we heard the bell that was rung to announce that the recess time has over. But we didn't pay any attention to it and decided to go into the library, 😂😂 as it was the most pleasurable thing, but we were only allowed to visit library for once in week. So we decided to have a round to get our favorite stories books.
While we were looking for interesting books to read, suddenly we heard someone heading towards library with tippy-toes. It was our principal who was at round after the recess to check the discipline so she found us in the library and punished us to stand still for two hours...😭 I can't explain the pain I felt in my legs that day. It was awful day for me in which I got punished for the first time in my life...😭 But still this incident holds something to make me happy in most desperate moments because it was a life free from worries and troubles.
So these are some incidents which happened to me in high school and are still close to my heart. Share with me your favorite incident in high school.
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A day out with friend
Hello!! How are you guys? I hope everyone is doing well. I haven't any serious topic to touch today, So I thought it was a good time to tell you about my yesterday adventure...lol, anything spent out with friends is like a pleasurable adventure. After reading my whole post you would be aware about the adventure I am talking about... 😍
How good it feels to spend a whole day with your best friend after a long time, having your favorite gossips and to laugh wholeheartedly. Friends are the most important part of our life, in the company of those we always feel better even in the darkest days of our life. They are as important in our life as salt in any food.
Yesterday my friend also came to visit me after a long time. We haven't met each other for past six months due to the conditions of Covid_19. A few days ago we had a video call and I asked her to have a get together, but she refused due to her busy schedule, but she was laying and wanted to surprise me in this way.
In the morning after having my breakfast and house chores I went into my garden to see new flowers as the previous week was so busy for me, so I didn't get a chance to examine it deeply. I was looking at the beautiful and fresh flowers which has sprouted newly in my garden, and my mom was also happy to see their beauty. A little breeze was blowing, so it seemed that flowers are dancing with it. I tried to capture these beauties as perfectly as I can but believe they were looking more beautiful as compared to photographs.
Suddenly a bell rung, and my mom went to open the door, I was busy flowers, but suddenly she exclaims my name and I was surprised to see her in front of my eyes. BTW I took her into my room, and we began to talk constantly. My mother brings some snacks and drink for her. After having some gossips, we planned to go outside to have our lunch and enjoyment.
We took a taxi and arrived in our favorite restaurant, after booking an empty table for us, we ordered our favorite pizza and some snacks.
It was really yummy and we enjoyed a lot. Then we left for the nearby park, where we used to go in our childhood with our parents. The park is made for kids, but elders can also enjoy with children.
We wanted to go somewhere else, but it was the last option because my mom doesn't allow us to go far away...😄 BTW we enjoyed a lot because the thing that matters was our togetherness.
After that we ordered our favorite ice cream which we were used to eating whenever we were gone outside in our college life.
On our way back to home we also captured these beautiful flowers which were hanging on the wall of house, I was mesmerized to see their beauty. As how it's possible for person like me who is born lover of nature, to ignore such beauties.
We also buy some goalguppas(It's the common street food in my country and also called pani puri)which remind us the time when one of our friend used to make goalguppas for us at every weekend, she was actually expert in cooking.
Anyway, I was happy to spend time with her and after so many days her presence made me to think about the good time we spent together in college life. It was a memorable period of my life, and I am blessed to have her.
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How to make someone feel special
Although there is a no specific day for showing love or care, but birthday of someone is the best day to show your love for the person, on the other hand such celebrations are also used to bring the people together in peace, harmony and unity. Many of us celebrate their birthdays, but there are few around us, like our parents sisters, brothers or friends who are so busy in their routine work, they don't even remember about their day.
Let them know, they are important too, they also have a right to celebrate their day. Go and tell them that how much you love them, no matter if u have a money or not to give something, just make a little wish it would be enough to give them the feel that they are important too. Ask them to spend just 20 minutes for themselves, ask them to do something they love as a celebration, eat your favorite food, laugh out loud, give yourself a gift of time, spend time with someone you love, make a memory or set new goals.
I'm not asking for all the ideas, I know it wouldn't be possible to do all these things in just twenty minutes. You can pick one that seems right to you and add it to your celebration, because it's your day after all. It's not only about birthday, suggest everyone to spend just 20 minutes for yourself every day. These twenty minutes will renew and refresh us, and help us to make a batter person.
Yesterday was my **friend's birthday**, she is very close to my heart. We spent our childhood together and every day was filled with our silly jokes, and teasing each other was our favorite hobby....lol. To make her happy is my first priority.💕 So I decided to surprise her on her birthday. She's a very honest and true friend of mine, who has supported me in every difficult time. It's the favor of Almighty to have an honest friend like her.
I was already planning for her birthday and also bought a special gift for her, but I pretend to forget her birthday, So I didn't wish her at 12:00 AM... Lol. I knew she would be angry 😂 but I was sure that she would be happy to see her surprise. Yesterday morning, I get up early and after having my breakfast I ordered a 4 pond cake from my favorite bakery. I ordered a pineapple cake because it was her favorite.
Then I pressed my dress and after being ready I left for her home with my mom. On the way I buy some birthday balloons and cards for her and also picked a cake I ordered in the morning. Upon reaching at her place my mom dropped me and went to market. I knocked the door, but it was her sister who came to open the door, it was also good for me lol.
Her sister welcome me and took me to her room, when I entered she was busy with her phone. I wished her loudly.... She was surprised, happy, and mixed of emotions... Lollz
She only spoke,
**"Ohhhhh....such a pleasant surprise. "**
And She began to dance, and I gave her a warm hug.
After that her sister and me made all these decorations and her mom also prepared delicious foods for us. She is very kind lady who always try to cook something new at my arrival.
After the birthday celebrations we also took so many photographs as a memory. Although it was very little, because I can't describe how much I wanted to do for her, but I was glad to see her happiness, it was flowing from her eyes.💞
I stayed at her home for three hours, but time flies so fast, but we really had a great fun, taking random pictures and hearing our favorite songs. But after that I left for my home, and she also came to drop me so far.
In short it was a wonderful surprise and I succeed to make her happy on her special day. Did you ever surprise someone?
Thanks for reading.
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My favorite sport
Childhood was a period full of enjoyments and exploring new things. To think back to our childhood always makes us happy as there was pleasure in that carefree life. During my childhood, when I was growing up slightly and was inquisitive about everything, I took part in many sports and games...Lol it's not only me but everyone played so many games with friends, cousins and schoolmates.
Even now, I am sure everyone of us would be a great lover of one or other sport. If we ourselves hadn't played ever but at least we loved to see the sports and enjoy watching our team winning. There are different types of games that are played on international level like cricket, hockey, football and tennis etc.But my very first and favorite sport was cricket. Cricket was started in British Empire and then spread all over the world. A test cricket match takes five days and there are also one day and T20 matches.
In my childhood I used to play cricket with my cousins at every weekend. Our days passed playing cricket and damaging the things in the home, even sometimes my mother would annoy to see the loss. We used to made two teams and played matches at weekends. Sometimes we even won out of dishonesty....😂😂 Once we were playing cricket in my home, suddenly the ball hit the glass of window, and it broke down, I can't explain the wrath of my mom at the loss...😂
Once, in secondary school we played a match at the invitation of other school. We reached there, and their team shook hands with us. I was feeling exciting but nervous at the same time. Our captain loss the toss, however the match started at 10:00 AM. Their openers came in to bat, but after playing for few minutes we succeed to down the first wicket because our fielding was superb. It was exciting for us, but after they were played firmly and made 170 runs at the loss of 5 wickets.
After some rest our team came on the ground, but our start was not well as we losses 2 wickets at 10 runs. We were quite tense but after our captain and other batsman could make a stand and made 120 runs. Now it was my turn, I started hitting and took the score to 150, but soon I was run out at 25 runs. Our next player played a splendid game, and we won the match at the loss of 7 wickets. We all were happy at the success and after a trophy was given to our captain by chief guest.
I really enjoyed this sport in my childhood, and it was my most favorite and first sport ever. Although I never played it in my adulthood, but I like to watch cricket on TV screen with my family making noise and enjoying popcorn...😜
But now it's long run that I haven't played it, but I always loved to watch it on National or international level. As I am Pakistani, so my favorite team is Pakistani team and from all kinds of series I like most T20 because it's of short duration and players are in hurry to accumulate more score. I also love to see the world cup series that comes after every three years. Pakistani team had won a world cup in 1992 and its also achiever of T20 cup.
Once there was a match between Pakistan and Australia. Pakistan won the toss and decided to bat first and scored 196 in 20 overs which was a good average.I was hopeful that my team would be able to win the match. But in return Australia also played well and succeed to score the runs. It was a last moment their player hit a shot and they won. I was on my bed, seeing this I fell down from the bad with heavy heart, and started to crying...😂😂😂😂😂 How mad I was for cricket. My whole family was laughing and mocking me. This was the extent of my passion to watch cricket...lol😂😂 which has not lowered yet.
So that's all for today, let me know which was your favorite sport you played most in your childhood?
Thanks for reading.
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Death is unpredictable
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Although the world is wide, but the life short, so never waste it in holding grudges.🍁
Learn to forgive, open your heart, expose yourself and send them sorry.
Breathe deep, count your blessings, have hope, help others and do your best.
Say goodbye to wrong people, spend time with those who loves you and want to see you laugh.❤
Don't look up for good opportunity, take it and make it right.👍
Life is precious, be grateful for every second that gives you a new chance to spend it in a good way.
This life is really unpredictable and nothing could be judged before the time. The most bitter reality of this life is that we all are destined to die one day. Death is made for every living being, and it can arrive at anytime without letting us know about it and this thing is really painful to loss our beloved ones suddenly.
Our eyes and heart can't accept their sudden demise, but we can do nothing without having patience. Today I am very sad to hear the sudden demise of our neighbor who slept well in the night but couldn't awake in the morning and his family found him dead...💔 this was really heartbreaking news for everyone specially for his family who never expected this so suddenly. But what could be done before the Almighty's will. May his soul rest in peace.
We can't bear the tears in the eyes of our loved ones and thought of any harm coming to them. But seeing them die is the most difficult thing, it's heartbreaking moment. We always want to see them happy and alive before us. Just imagine the thought of losing them will make you cry and if by chance you lose them you would feel a hole in your heart which no one can heal.
I witnessed a lady who lives near my house, lost her son a year ago. He was on his way back to home while he saw some robbers were snatching the bag of lady. He was on bike and chased the robbers to get her bag, but they started to fire on him, and he was shot dead. I witnessed his mother mourning at his grave and how a single second took the life of her son. Sometimes I even get amazed to see that how heartless people have become, that they don't even think for a moment to take someone's life. Parents sacrifices their while life to raise their children, but these people took their lives immediately.
Anyway, my motive here is to make everyone realize about the shortness of life, we are unaware that which day will be the last day of our life. If we are aware about the mortality of life, then why not to put fantastic efforts to achieve the things you want? Why not to use your abilities in fantastic ways to do good of others? Why not to make fantastic efforts to turn this world into peaceful place? Why not to prepare yourself for the day of judgment and hereafter? Why not to train yourself to face the death at anytime?
**Closing thoughts**
Live your life in a way that your hard work spoke for you, let your success make you fly, and live it in a way that people remember you even after your death. We can see the names of our heroes, who are no longer in this world but still lives in our hearts because of their Nobel deeds. So never let anything for tomorrow, if you want to do anything start from today because there is a no guarantee of tomorrow. So choose to live Today.
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Memorable day 💖
When I woke up this morning, there was something heavy on my heart.I was not feeling well, so I ate a light breakfast as compared to the one we eat every day as my Mom always want me to eat something healthy every morning because she says, that good breakfast is necessary after staying hungry for whole night. But today she gave me some snacks when I told her about my condition.
After having some rest, I felt better and started to scroll down my gallery. Suddenly I happened to see the pictures of my birthday celebration last year. It was a fun day and I enjoyed a lot. Usually, I celebrate my birthday at home but last year I decided to have some shopping with my mum.
At 12:00 AM my family wished me a happy birthday and my phone was filled with warm wishes. Birthdays may come and go, but love we receive always stays in our heart. I felt really blessed to have such caring family and friends who always try to do something new to make me special. Here is the poem which my friend wrote for me,
**If dark clouds will surround you,**
**I will be there to support you!**
**If tears comes into your eyes,**
**I will be there to clean!**
**If challenges comes to test you,**
**I will be there to stand with you!**
**If ups and downs will make you fall,**
**I will be there to pick up you!**
**If hardships comes to frail you,**
**I will be there to charged you!**
In the morning I woke up and after having my breakfast and doing some house chores, my mum and I left for market to have some shopping. I wanted to gift myself a beautiful dress, so first we went to some boutiques and after searching for an hour I chose this dress according to my culture.
I know it was not for normal wear, but I wanted to have something fancy to wear at my cousin's wedding next month. I paid 7000 PKR from my pocket money which I was saving from past two months to make my birthday special.I also buy some jewelery and sandals in same color.
**As birthday is the best way to make us realize that how much we love ourself..😂**
After shopping, 🛍 we decided to have some lunch, so we went to the nearby restaurant and ordered Pizza and Samosa Chat. The pizza was delicious, and this Samosa chat is the most famous food in Pakistan. We can easily prepare it at home, I will share its recipe someday.
It was already too late so we decided to go back, but I was surprised to see what my family and friends planned behind me.I don't know when they came at my home to make all these decorations with my family. But I was surprised to see this all.
My siblings are so caring as they always stood by me through thick and thin, and never let me fall. Although sometimes we argue on some matters, as siblings usually do...lol but that day they truly made me feel special...😍💕💕❤
And who could be more blessed than me to have such humble and kind friends. They are so supportive, specially my childhood friend who lives near my house. She is the one who taught me to stand and move ahead when I was about to fall. We played and studied together, and it was a great fun to spend all these years of my life with her. She gifted me this beautiful dress.
So this is how I celebrated my birthday last year with my family and friends. It was a wonderful day of my life, which holds special place in my heart.
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Beauty to me
**Beauty to me is sky..!!**
Whenever I look towards the sky and the peace I feel can't be put into words.
We all are watching the world being slowly transformed into wilderness, we are watching the suffering of millions,we are witnessing the pain of the world.
And yet when I look up at the sky I feel somehow better, everything will be changed, the peace and happiness of the world shall return one day.❤
We can see the sparkling of moon and stars at night, which are a symbol of hope in desolation.
We can see the rising sun, which shines brightly after a dark and scary night, which brings a day full of opportunities.
Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky,our ears can still hear the voice of several Birds souring high in the sky.❤
The ones who are hopeless and wanted to end their life can find peace to feel its blue dreams. Sometimes we just need to give a peace to our soul by finding something marvelous, so what can be more beautiful than this.
**O sky,O sky...**
**You are the one and only...**
**Who is so close to my heart.❤**
**I often share my joys with you,**
**And the grief that stays in my heart.❤**
**I saw your changing colors,**
**And you witnessed my movements,**
**The bond is so pure and lovely.💕**
**O sky,O beautiful sky,**
**You are my forever friend,**
**Your love will stay forever in my heart.💕**
**I want to touch you with my hands,**
**If I could reach up and touch your surface,**
**The entire sky would be in my hands.**
**O sky O beautiful sky,**
**I understand there are boundaries or how large they are,**
**But all my life I would be in love with you,**
**When everything was falling apart,**
**You were there to stand,**
**The moon that glows on you,**
**And how beautiful the stars are..!**
**O Sky O beautiful Sky,**
**I know the best things are always free,**
**So I can see you whenever I feel depart,**
**I envy of clouds that are so near to you,**
**And I stay always apart..💔**
**Beauty to me are flowers**
Flowers are most precious asset of nature, they enhance the environment and make it worthwhile. Everyone can be captivated by their beauty. They are symbol of love,hope,strength, beauty,purity and innocence . They are unmistakable expression of passionate love. In marriage ceremony as a bouquet they are considered as a Blissful, and every imaginable sentiment can be expressed by these flowers.
They are always beautiful no matter we praise them or not.They don't need our appreciation because they hold immortal beauty.Their color, fragrance,shape and soft texture everything is beautiful and majestic, and they holds a power or magic to relieve us from stress.
Jules Renard rightly said,
**"On the earth there's no heaven, but there are pieces of it."💕**
**Beauty to me is air**
I feel relief when cold and pure wind touches my face, I feel pleasure when it passes from plants and trees to move their branches.Reading about the nature is alright but if person walks through it and listen carefully,the earth,the sky, the fields,mountains,rivers and sea, he can learn better than books.I often think how lucky and blessed we are to find all this around us.❤💞
**Beauty to me is sea, beauty to me are plants, beauty to me are trees, beauty to me are birds, beauty to me are clouds, beauty to me is rain,**
In short everything in this universe is representing the beauty, and that's the real beauty which needs our appreciation.I am Thankful to Almighty that he has created this beautiful universe for us to cherish us.
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I felt their pain 💔
Ask the ones who living are without their parents, the ones who want to be loved by someone and to cuddle in their mother's arms and the ones who want their father to be around.Their several wishes are crushed under the agony and distress, they were filled with life but now their eyes are mourning at the loss of something.
I know, I know its possible to live without mother, to walk forever without father's hand to support,but there is always something missing in their life.There is something which always make them feel sad and despite of having everything, their world seems empty.
I can't control myself to utter these words because of pain I felt in the eyes of kids I met today.To make their pain understand,I will tell you the whole story.
A girl lived near my area which was mentally unwell. Her mother was already dead, and her siblings were also married and living their lives happily. She was used to going outside without letting anyone know.(What we could expect from a mentally unwell person)So her family decided to marry her to lower their burden of taking care of her.
They started to find a person, with great difficulty they managed to find a limp person, who agreed to marry her.There we're so many who tried to restrict her family from doing so but what could they do before her family's decision.So they both get married soon.
After the one year of their marriage they were being blessed with a baby boy.It was challenging for that girl to bring up a child while she herself was mentally unwell.How could her family and husband expect her to raise a child in her illness?But nobody care for her and newborn and they left her alone to take care of the child.But what happened next was unexpected.
Her husband was a labor,so he was at work and she raised the child alone.Slowly the child was being unwell but nobody cared and one day he died.It was really painful for everyone but still they were not ready to learn the lesson from what has happened.They still wanted to have a newborn.So she conceived again and gave a birth to girl, after that continuously she gave birth to 3 children.Now she was raising 4 despite of being unwell but this time her husband was also supporting her in upbringing of his children.
Days were passing and kids were living a better life than the one who died at first.Their father was taking care of them, but there was something other in their destiny. Their father, who was only hope left for their better future died with a sudden heart attack few months ago.
When I heard this news, I was shattered. The only thought that I had at that time in my mind was about the children. I felt their pain and our whole community supported them by supplying food and shelter, to at least provide them a good life.
But their grief has not ended yet, and they have to passed through a hard time yet because their mother is missing from few days. Anyone has no idea that where is she gone or someone kidnapped her, anything could be expected. They informed the police and also shared her photograph on social media platforms but all in vain.
Her children are left alone....💔💔💔. People are still helping them by providing food and basic necessities but what's about the parents???? No one can bring them back, no matter how much care they receive from others but it can't be related to the one their parents can give them, no matter if she was mentally unwell, but to her kids she was their mother and they still miss her.
Today I happened to met her kids on the way, I was just heartbroken 💔💔💔.Their pain could be seen in their eyes.They have not their parents around at this age when kids are in utmost need of them...😔. Their age ranges from 4 to 10 years. Just think about it and you would understand the phase they are passing through.
At the end I only want to ask her family, is that was necessary to marry her???? Everything was clear but still they think it better to load her with the problems, which she was not able to carry. The death of her husband was Almighty's will and we are no one to question. But if they had a mother, they could still live a happy life. But we can't blame their mother because it was not her fault but of her family.
They might be able to survive but the hole which has left in their life would never be filled. I pray Almighty keep them save and under his protected.Amen
Thanks for reading.
Dreams
My siblings call me dreamy girl,not because I have so many dreams to achieve in my life as they are only few,but because whatever I say or do during whole day,it comes into my dream at night....Lolzzzz
I don't know the reason but I dream alot everyday, and have a habit to utter at night...I know its bad habit because everyone can know my secrets easily...but this seems funny as well.But I really want to get rid of it,Plzz suggest me some something.
If I start to tell you about my dreams than I am sure they will never end but I will share with you my two dreams,one is funny and one is scary...lol
My scary dream
Once I was preparing for my intermediate exams and I was really stressed.As I was position holder so it was also challenging for me to get good grades.A day before exams I studied late at night and then decided to have some nap to get energy for exam day.When I sleep I had a dream in which, I wake-up early in the morning and take shower.After having my breakfast I get ready for exam.
There was an hour left to reach the examination hall so I was in hurry because it was far from my house.I stood for 30 minutes but no taxi arrived,I was panic.Finally I saw my cousin who was going to market.I asked him and he dropped me to the examination hall.
I entered the hall and sit on my chair and after five minutes exam started.When I received the question paper I was happy because it was not as difficult as I was expecting.So I started to write my first question,but what happened next was painful for me because I was unable to write anything.I tried hard and hard but my answer sheet was all empty.
I was writing but nothing was on my sheet,it was all empty.The time was passing fastly and my classmates were almost going to wind up.I started crying and everyone was looking at me but I was crying continuously.Finally our tutor came to collect the papers and I left helpless.
Suddenly my mom came to wake me up because she heard me sobbing in sleep.When I wake up,I thank God that it was dream...Lol.Only students can understand my pain in my dream...Lol
My funny dream
Lol....Oneday I had a dream that I was getting ready to attend the birthday party of my friend,who was turning 21.We organised this party in restaurant because it was comfortable for us than any other place.I choosed a beautiful dress for me with matching heels and jewellery.I wanted to look beautiful than all the others.I done my makeup and look at myself in mirror.I utter to myself,
Aww....I am looking like Cinderella...LOLzzz
Finally I reached in the restaurant and all the other guests were already there.I stepped on the stang and walking slowly because of my high heels.Everyone was looking at me and I felt proudy..Lol.I heard someone saying that look at this beautiful girl who is looking majestic.
Suddenly two girls come to me and asked for selfie,I couldn't refused and allow them to have selfie.Even the birthday girl was not looking as beautiful as me...Lol
But what happened next,was hilarious...😂😂😂
When I moved ahead,one of my heels broke and I fell on the floor....😥😅
The ones who were appreciating me,started to laugh at me...😑
Suddenly I woke up and nothing was there, I was on my bed and save...Lol
Plzzzz Don't laugh at me,after all it was a dream.
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No matter success be a big or small but the thing that really matters is your consistency because it has a power to turn your little success into a huge achievement one day.So be grateful.
How I spent my Sunday
Before I share that how I spend my Sunday,I want to be thankful to Almighty for all his blessings he showered upon me.Don't let your fears and disappointments to distract you from the path which can leads towards your goals and always seek help from your Lord.
I woke up early to offer my prayers,as prayers strengthen our bond with our creator and reduce our stress and worries,help us to be more humble and washes our sins away.I offer my prayers five time a day and start my day with Allah in my mind.
After that I ate my breakfast which my mum prepared for me.She is the best cook and always try to cook something delicious to make me happy.She always want me to start my day with healthy breakfast because its gives me energy I need to do my work and to focus on my studies.She is not in the favour of having brunch,because she thinks that sooner we eat breakfast after we wake up will be good for health.So she prepared "Paratha" fried with oil and ghee,along with curry.Believe me it was delicious.
After that I get busy in the cleaning of my house.Every Sunday I try to do some extra cleaning because throughout the whole week I can't find enough time for it.So I mixed this cleaning solution in water for floor.This cleaner is very effective for germs and also good to avoid bugs and insects.I mixed one cup of this cleaner in tub and it was enough.
When I done up with cleaning,I decided to do laundry because there were already too many unwashed clothes.So I spend one to two hours in laundry and after that I was already tired and hungry but it was not the time of lunch yet so I decided to prepare some milk shake for me to get rid of my hunger.So I prepared this strawberry shake for me and my mom.
After that I had some rest and helped my Mom in preparing lunch.So together we prepared this delicious lunch and enjoyed it together.The fried chicken is my favourite and this mint sauce can add more taste to it.Mostly we prepare this kind food at weekends when we are together to help each other.
After having some rest, me and my Mom decided to have long walks through our fields because its the best to get relief from the stress and strain of this world. On the way I saw this tree which I am watching since my childhood and its still so green and healthy.Once my uncle cut off its branches and it losed its beauty for few months but after it regained its previous beauty again.
On our way back to home my Mom met her best friend and they both started talking for a while.I could see the pleasure on their faces because they met after so many days.Their happiness remind me of my friends...Lol.No matter how old we are but the happiness we get to meet our friends is unbeatable.It was already too late so we come back home.
Although I was busy throughout the whole day but it spent well and it was a pleasure in doing these housechores and along I also shared so many stories with my mom and now I am on my bed and made up my mind to write this article.I hope you enjoyed reading.
Thanks for reading.
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This or That?
I was reading my mates were answering to the questions about "what if"so I also thought to participate in it because its the best way to know each others preferences.But instead of what ifs I choosed this or that.
So let's start,
**1: Cat or Dog?**
I will definitely go for cat,because I naturally feard of dogs and after chasing by dog,while I was on my way to school,this fear has increased.
**2: YouTube or Netflix?**
YouTube, because I don't like to watch too much Movies or TV shows,So I seldom feel need of it or perhaps I never used Netflix even for once before.
**3:Text or video call?**
I will prefer text because its easy for and I always get irritates to see while my phone ringing....even my sisters always scolds me for not picking up their phones...Lol
**4:Weights or Cardio workouts?**
I am already too slim so I can't go for weights Lol.Cardia workouts are best for me.
**5:Normal eggs or toast?**
Toast,because it's my favourite.
**6: Facebook or Instagram?**
Definitely Instagram,because its easy to share and find best photos and videos and we can create shopping experience too.On the other hand most of my friends also use Instagram so it feels so good to have long talks with them.
**7:Snowcone or Ice cream?**
Snowcone was my favourite in my childhood but now I will choose ice cream because snow cones are mostly sugar and water.But Ice-cream have different flavours which all are my favourite.
**8:Podcasts or music while walking?**
Music!Because I am very fond of listening music.Even before I start cleaning my house I search for best songs to play on...Lolz
**9:Console games or physical games?**
Console games,because its easy to switch while playing and there so many others benefits of console games.
**10: Android or IOS?**
Android,because I can't afford IOS yet...Lol and the other reason is that Android is more open and good in organising apps.
**11:Cake or pie?**
Although both are my favourite but I will choose cake,because it's my cousin's birthday today,so I want to give her...Lolz
**12: Extra height or extra weight?**
I know,no one will want an extra height or extra weight, but If I have to choose I will go for extra weight because I am tall and slim so gaining some weight would be a good option.
**13:Indie or hip-hop?**
Hip-hop,because l like the way its sung and very easy to dance.
**14:Loyal friends or rich friends?**
Loyal friends are my first priority and I am truly blessed in this sense because I found them standing by my side,no matter what circumstances.On the other hand rich friends can be proudly,so choose the ones who are good at heart.
**15: New phone or new clothes each year?**
Definitely new clothes,as a girl what could you expect from me...Lol, I am not in the favour of buying a new phone every year.I run my phone as long as it can.Last time I changed my phone after 3 years when it had some problem.
**16: Low technology or high tech?**
High tech,because now it's essential for human life and play an important part in our lives.
**17:Small gathering or a huge party?**
Small gathering with my friends,that's all I wish because I feel myself comfortable in small gatherings.
**18:Do laundry all year long or wash dishes?**
Washing dishes is easy for me as I always find it difficult to do laundry so I barely made my mind to do it atleast for once in two weeks when I feel lack of my clothes...lol
**19:Play football or basketball?**
I will definitely choose to play football because I played it alot in my high school.But I never played basket ball even for once,so it seems me a difficult sport.
**20:Be excellent in jogging or bike riding?**
I am excellent in jogging because I can't forget the day when I fell down while riding a bike..Loll.Even my cousin's were there and laughing hardly at me.After this bad experience,I never go for it.
Lol....That's all for today.I hope you enjoyed reading.It was really a great fun to answer such questions.
Thanks for reading.
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The problems of wearing glasses
I am well aware of the problems of wearing glasses as one of my friend has a weak eyesight,so she used to wear glasses since our high school as she is my childhood friend.I also saw my grandma,the trouble she faced at this age whenever she forget her glasses anywhere.So before I slip to the problems which they face I must want everyone to thank Almighty if they are enjoying a good eyesight because its not an easy thing,sometimes you even get frustrated due to continous use of it.
**Problem during playtime**
One of the major problem they face is that they can't play well due to glasses because everytime they run,glasses are supposed to fell on the ground.In school during the break, we used to play different games like football,racing and badminton,but my friend always kept her away from such games because everytime she participated,her glasses were on the ground. So she thought it better to distract her from such games.Oneday I forced her to play with us but she refused,but finally I convinced her to play with us.While running,her glasses were going to fall on the ground,she tried to hold but stumbled and herself fell on the ground while saving her glasses.That day I understood, why she was refusing to play with us.
**Bullying**
They rude behaviour which they received from others is really painful and who can know this better than me as everytime I witnessed my friend when she was in trauma after hearing such remarks.The students were used to call her "chismish"
and "cozzy".I wanted to save her from this bullying and I did my best to defend her whenever I was with her but I was unable to stay all the time with her and so many time she was disheart to bear such behaviour.She always keep me asking that what's my fault if my eyesight is week?
**They become stick to it**
As the ones who uses glasses become accustomed to it so they can't go without even for a single day.Once we were on way and suddenly my friend's glasses fell down and broke.We were on way to school so she have to stay without her glasses for whole day.I can't explain the hurdles she faced that day as she was unable to read and write accurately.I helped her alot but later she had a headache and principle informed her parents to take her off from school.
They also want to be like us,they also want to enjoy everything without being frustrated and without any worries. If they have a week eyesight, its not their fault,even anyone can have this problem in future so think before you call their names.
**The reasons of week eyesight**
I am used to hear since my childhood thst alot of use of mobile phones can effect our eyesight.Its actually a major cause of it, as nowadays internet has took a serious part in our life,children even prefer to play different games on phones instead of playing in streets with friends.I remembered how we were enthusiastic to play out with friends inspite of scolding by our parents because at that time it was the most pleasurable thing for us.
Another reason which can effect eyesight is excess of books reading,while having strain in dim light.I am not sure about it but once I heard my elders saying this to my sister who was book worm.Even I also love book reading but sometimes I also feard of the side effects it can have on me...lol
**Closing thought**
All I wanna say that,only the ones who are using glasses can tell us about the importance of having a good eyesight and the pain they felt when they receive such behaviour.So keep your kids away from using too much mobile phones and if you have someone around you who has a weak eyesight,treat them like normal beings.
So these were my thoughts about the users of glasses.I saw my mates sharing their thoughts about the problems of wearing glasses so I also made my mind to share my own.
Thanks for reading.
BBQ Night
Friday is a meetup day for my siblings, as every Friday they come to meet me and we try to spend some quality time together.They always want me to welcome them with tasty foods but I can't, because I am not good in cooking.My sisters are so caring,they know their sister is not a able to serve them delicious foods....😂😂So everytime they cook something new to give me a good food atleast for once in week...😂
So,yesterday I wake-up early in the morning to clean the mess I created this whole week because of my project because I don't want to let my sisters know about it,because my elder sister always scolds me for being too lazy..She want me as a perfect girl and I am also trying to fulfil her dream...Lol
In the afternoon they were here,so we decided to have a BBQ party...😋as they were going to stay with me till the evening.Me and my elder sister went to market to buy the meet and some other spices that were needed for it.It was very hot today so we were fully sweated,I asked my sister to have some drinks because I was already thirsty and the scorching heat of sun was unbearable.
On the way we also met two or three beggars who were asking for money,my sister gave some money to them but I was not in the favour of this because they were physically well and I think this should be for ones who are disabled.I always wonder to see them asking from others,while they can earn themselves by working hard but actually they don't want to do hardwork as begging is easy for them.
Anyway,after an hour we came back safely and having some rest we decided to start the process of BBQ party,because it was already too late as they have to go back after having dinner. First of all we marinate the meet for 3 to 4 hours.We also added sirka in the spice which is used to marinate it because it can make it easy to cook.
Then we burned the coal and prepared it to make a BBQ.🔥This was my brother's duty as he is used to do this while having parties with his friends, so we think it better to give him this responsibility...Lol.Anyway he did his job well.
When I was taking pictures of every step my siblings were being irritated but I continued my work😄....as they were unaware that I am going to share it with my read.cash family...Lol
Anyway after that we started the final process and my mouth was already watered to see this.I couldn't wait to have a bite...😁
Here is a final look..we enjoyed it with Nan(bread) and sauce.😜It was really yummy and we decided to arrange another one next week..Lol
The time we spend with our siblings is worthless.I love my siblings to the core of my heart and I am very thankful to them for their precious time which they come to spend every week with me.Thank you Almighty for giving me such caring siblings.
After having our dinner they left for their homes. I am on my bed and enjoying the cookies which my sister brought for me Lol....My eyes are already closing so I think its enough for today.Thank you for bearing me...😁
Thanks for reading.
Tha BBQ images are taken from me while the other ones are from unsuplash.
What girls needs to impress their in-laws?
This matter really needs to be discussed,because marriage is a life long commitment and it is more than a physical union.The important thing is emotional union to make this relation longlasting.
Today I was just thinking about the married couples and suddenly a thought came into my mind and after thinking for hours I couldn't find the correct answer...So I decided to ask from you guys to help me to find the answer....hehehhehe
**What's the most important thing which girls need to impress their In-laws?**
Sounds funny, but its actually a major issue in some families...!No matter it be a arranged marriage or love marriage the families of boys are always curious about certain things to choose the best daughter in-law for their family.So there is always a pre-marriage meeting between the families of couples in which they investigate about the different things,but most important is the abilities or appearance of the girls.
As some families prefer outer appearance and some prefer her talent in households.So now help me to find out the most important thing which every girl should possess to impress her In-laws.
**1)External beauty**
Researchers suspect, is that men place great value on beauty, whereas women are more interested in having a supportive husband but I don't think that external beauty really means to find a perfect life partner.Companionship and commitment are the most important things which everyone should try to concentrate on to make their relationship longlasting.So does beauty really matters for in-laws?
**2)Best in cooking**
Although its important for both boys and girls to be good in cooking but in some cultures women are tend to cook for their husband's family.So many people prefer to find a girl who is good in cooking.But is that really matters?
**3 )Educated**
Education is important to shows us the difference between good and bad.Personally I think it helps us to grow and develop so its important for both boys and girls.But it's not important to love someone because in love we accept the person with his/ her all shortcomings.Do in- laws prefer education in finding daughter in law?
**4)clever**
To go through in life everyone needs to be smart and clever but we should not forget our spiritual values.So what are the expectations of in-laws in this matter?
**5)Good height**
Every human being is different from other and they are unique in their own and I don't think height difference really matters for couples.As I have example of my sister and brother in-law who is taller than her but they are living a happy life.Alhumdullaih.But at the same time once my friend was rejected due to her low height and it was really painful for her.Its not something which is in person's hands so we should not discriminate others for their appearance because they are beautiful respectable they are.
**6)Financially independent**
Being a financially independent increase our self-value and boost our confidence.Specially in this era,its important for both boys and girls to be financially independent instead of depending on others.Its actually help us to be prepare for future and to decrease the burden of family.But is that thing really matters as compare to other things?
So let me know what do you think is the most important thing according to your own point of view or which thing you will prefer to see in your wife....?
Thanks for reading.
A new beginning
It's always said that to start your day with a smile on your face can reduce your stress for a while,so why not to start the new month with gratitude and positive mindset.Today,when I wake up in the morning,I smiled to see the new month.I was grateful because Almighty has let me to reach this month with all his blessings by my side,my family,my friends, my home,my health and all these little things.
I can't thank enough Almighty for all the uncountable blessings.I feel myself more excited to start my day with new vigor and consistency to put my goals ahead.I also set my schedule or target for the month of September,on which I will work hard to accomplish.
So let me share my goals for September,
**To spend more time in Prayers**
Our connectivity with our Lord is most important thing to live a peaceful life.Although I offer my prayers five time a day but this month I am thinking to spend more time in his remembrance, to be thankful for all his bounties.
**To achieve 80 followers on read.cash**
As I am newbie here and trying to do my best.I have targeted to get 80 followers before this month end.I know its not an easy job but nothing is impossible if we are consistent.
**To earn 100$ on noise.cash**
On noise.cash I am near to complete my 600 followers so I am earning almost 1 to 2 dollars everyday but I am sure next I will try to achieve more to get my 100$ every month.
**To find a job**
As I have completed my masters degree recently,so I am looking for a job in some institution.This is my biggest target for this month and I am sure before this month end, I will be succeed to achieve it as you all are by my side to pray for me.
I have so many others things too which I want to do,as to buy myself a new phone,to pay my sister's second semester fee,to get a new room colour and to buy a new pet to befriended with my scooby.But I can't set it as my target as I have not this much money yet.But I am hopeful, that in coming months I would be able to set it as my target.
So that's all for today,I pray this new month bring happiness for everyone and this deadly virus end soon so we can go back to our normal routine.Ameen
Thanks for reading.
Know your potential
Everyday we complain for the one or two things and always mourn for the hardships that comes to us.Although nothing lasts forever and every situation, good or bad change after sometime.But at the moment everything seems useless and we start to blame destiny.
Don't hate yourself for the mistakes you made in past.They were meant to make you a better person.If you starts thinking about the past and regret about the wrongdoings,you would destroy your life.Nobody is perfect in this world, everyone committs mistakes but it doesn't mean we ruin our present and future to regret the past.
The knowledge of mistakes and faults is good thing but it should be taken in a way to learn something to never repeat the same mistake again because everything happened for a reason,in which there were several lessons to learn.If everything was perfect,we haven't learned to move ahead.In fact, when we go through a difficult situation, we are learning a lot to face it in different ways and nothing can be learn better than your own personal experience.
As today I saw my nephew while he was trying to get his toy from the table.He jumped again and again but he couldn't reached it.Finally he dragged the stool near the table and succeed to get it.I was happy to see him learning something new.
Actually the potential which is going to help you is inside you.Living your life blindly will not gonna help you to be a successful person.So try to know your true value and follow a particular niche which can help you to be successful person.
Some of us thinks that they are born to serve others, I mean their only purpose is to make others happy,no matter how bad life they pass.But apart from making others happy they also have a responsibility to take care of themself because their life matters too.
Some people also have a complex of what people will think and say?Is that matters?
No not at all,life is not about what other people thinks about you,Life is about what you think about yourself and your potential.Because when you feel it,you don't care about anybody's opinion and are motivated to reach your destination.So think of yourself instead of thinking about others because your thoughts matters.
Thanks for reading.
Terrible incident
Today was a busy day for me as my sister came to meet me after a long time,so I spent my whole day with her,having gossips and aimless laughing...Lol.I also prepared her favourite food and we captured so many photographs as a memory.About an hour ago she left with the promise that she will come again soon.
I just sat after washing so many pots and read the article of Princessbusayo in which she met a terrible dog.So I also decided to share with you the incident which happened with me when I was in my high school.I think it as a scary incident but it was funny at the same time....Lol.Whenever I remember this incident a smile come into my face and I can't stop to laugh at myself.
Our school was not so far from my home so I was used to walk to school with my cousin having aimless stories. One day as usual I get up early in the morning and after having my breakfast I get ready to go to school.My mother gave me my lunch box and pocket money and despatch me for school.
I was used to go to my cousin's house to summon her but before I could reach her home I saw a terrible dog was behind me.I don't know where it come from, but it started to run behind me,seeing him I was scared and I also started to run to save myself.My senses kept going and I didn't care if anyone was watching me or not.
My gaun, which we girls wear in my country while going outside, was flying behind me like aeroplane....😂😂
But I never cared about anything,only a thought which was running inside me was how to save myself.I even imagined myself lying in hospital..😂After reaching the end of street I stopped and looked back and saw that dog was going back...Lol
Then I breathed a sigh of relief and looked back and forth to see if anyone was looking at me. It was my goodluck that no one was in the street at that time and I was saved.When I told my cousin about this incident she was laughing hardly but I was almost going to cry.After five minutes we left for our school.
Do you ever chased by dog?Share your story.
Thanks for reading.
Let's talk about fashion
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Fashion is a form of self expression and prevailing style in particular time.When we talk about fashion,there are many things that fall into this category, such as clothes, shoes, jewelry,bags and glasses.Everyone has their own preferences.That's why everyone likes to wear something that pleases their heart.
As I love shopping,so I keep searching the internet for new designs and always want to know more about latest fashion.Everytime I try to find something which has the widest acceptability.At first I was thinking that there are only ladies who are enthusiastic about fashion but after so many research I found out that boys are also not an exception...Lol
So let's discuss the fashion and the preferences of people according to their taste.
Shoes
If we talk about shoes, we all know that short people like to wear big heals while tall people mostly prefer flat shoes.But there are some girls who like to wear high heels despite being tall because they like it,I am one of them...Lol,even though my mother always keeps me away from it.But what I do because I really love to wear high heels.😉But mostly I prefer flat shoes for normal wear.Nike Air Max 270 is the most popular trend for boys in 2021 and for girls,elevator flip flops,fisherman and colourful sandals are mostly popular.
Bags
When it comes to bags, some people like to carry long strips bags, some people like to carry small pouches in their hands while some people like big bags.In wedding ceremonies, the pouch can be carried very easily and they are suitable for the occasion, but when traveling or going far away, bags with strips are very useful and can be easily lifted.Fluffy feathers and cunky chain straps are trending in 2021.
Clothes
If I talk about clothes then everyone have different choices to choose something comfortable for them.Mostly people like to wear jeans,paints and shirts and some wear their traditional dresses like kurta pajama.Everyone try to look perfect while going outside but at home people prefer casual wear.The most popular trend of 2021 is hoodies under blazers and color clashing.
Jewellery
A long ago it was a fashion to wear heavy Jewellery like necklace with matching earrings,bracelets,pendants and rings.But in 2021 chain link accessories include bracelets,rings and earrings are trending.Piaget and Graff are the most luxurious brand of jewelry in the world.
Fashion changes over time so we can't say that these are permanent trends,I hope next year something new will come to take their place.But important thing is that we should avoid temptation and buy something which is really comfortable for us.
I hope you enjoyed reading.
Thank you!
Things I can't live without
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There are alot of things which we use in our daily life,even some are most important as we can't imagine our life without them.Before today I never asked myself about it but after reading the articles of @CarlosAndJane and @princessbusayo I pondered on all these things and found so many things without which I can't imagine my life but I will share 10 of them.So let's start,
**1)My prayers**
The most important thing which always gives me spiritual support and strengthen my relation with my Creator are my prayers.I offer my prayers five time a day and praise my God for all his blessings he showered upon me and my family.Recitation of our Holy book is the most pleasurable and peaceful thing for me.Starting my day with my prayers provide me emotional and spiritual satisfaction.So its the most important thing without which I can't stay alive.
**2)My family**
Second thing is my family which is a great source of moral support.No matter what circumstances,they always stands by me to support in thick and thin.Everyday I wake-up to praise my Lord for giving me such caring and loving family.My life is incomplete with my beloved ones.
**3)Phone**
Lol..I think this thing we all have in common,as in this era we can't imagine our life without our mobile phones.If by chance it had some issues,we are going to get a mini heart attack😂so how we can imagine our life without it.In the morning, the first thing I check is mobile..lol,I hope everyone can understand my weakness.
**4)Diary**
Although mobile phones has replaced the importance of writing diaries but for me it will always be a pleasurable part of life as I love to write about my daily routine in diary.It holds my secrets and I am writing it since I entered in my high school. Since then I have wrote 6 diaries and will continue to do so.
**5)Snacks**
Lol...as I am foodie so I always keep something in my bag to eat no matter wherever I go.Off all the things Lays are my favourite appetite,specially at night...lol
Sometimes my sister gets irritates of my habit of eating so much snacks...lol but what could I do as I can't imagine my life without snacks.
**6)Scooby**
I have my pet dog whose name is scooby.I am so attached with him as he is staying in my home for three years.My Mom scolds me whenever he creates mess and asked me to give it to someone but my general affection for scooby always restrict me from doing so.He is now a part of my life.
**7)Makeup**
As you can understand the passion of girls for makeup, so I am also not an exception.Most of my money I spent in buying different and new products. I have collected two bags of makeup lol,although I used it only sometimes but I had a great obsession with it.
**8)WiFi**
This is the most important and beneficial thing of everyone's life as internet has provided us so many benefits if we use it in right way.I can't imagine even a single day without using WiFi.
**9)Noise.cash and Read.cash**
Sometimes I think what would happened to me if I had not found these two amazing platforms.I haven't only earned money from these platforms but they have also provided me moral support and I learnd so many new things here. So they will continue to be part of my life.
**10)My soulmate**
The last but not least thing is my best friend who is more than sister to me.She is my childhood friend and we have grown up together,playing and teasing eachother.She always come to support me whenever I need her.She is the best part of my life.
I have so many others things too which I held dear and for which I always praise my God because I can't imagine my life in their absence but I think for today it's enough.
I hope you enjoyed reading.
**Thank you!**
@Itsfarah
