@Itsfarah
What girls needs to impress their in-laws?
This matter really needs to be discussed,because marriage is a life long commitment and it is more than a physical union.The important thing is emotional union to make this relation longlasting.
Today I was just thinking about the married couples and suddenly a thought came into my mind and after thinking for hours I couldn't find the correct answer...So I decided to ask from you guys to help me to find the answer....hehehhehe **What's the most important thing which girls need to impress their In-laws?**
Sounds funny, but its actually a major issue in some families...!No matter it be a arranged marriage or love marriage the families of boys are always curious about certain things to choose the best daughter in-law for their family.So there is always a pre-marriage meeting between the families of couples in which they investigate about the different things,but most important is the abilities or appearance of the girls.
As some families prefer outer appearance and some prefer her talent in households.So now help me to find out the most important thing which every girl should possess to impress her In-laws. **1)External beauty**
Researchers suspect, is that men place great value on beauty, whereas women are more interested in having a supportive husband but I don't think that external beauty really means to find a perfect life partner.Companionship and commitment are the most important things which everyone should try to concentrate on to make their relationship longlasting.So does beauty really matters for in-laws? **2)Best in cooking**
Although its important for both boys and girls to be good in cooking but in some cultures women are tend to cook for their husband's family.So many people prefer to find a girl who is good in cooking.But is that really matters? **3 )Educated**
Education is important to shows us the difference between good and bad.Personally I think it helps us to grow and develop so its important for both boys and girls.But it's not important to love someone because in love we accept the person with his/ her all shortcomings.Do in- laws prefer education in finding daughter in law? **4)clever**
To go through in life everyone needs to be smart and clever but we should not forget our spiritual values.So what are the expectations of in-laws in this matter? **5)Good height**
Every human being is different from other and they are unique in their own and I don't think height difference really matters for couples.As I have example of my sister and brother in-law who is taller than her but they are living a happy life.Alhumdullaih.But at the same time once my friend was rejected due to her low height and it was really painful for her.Its not something which is in person's hands so we should not discriminate others for their appearance because they are beautiful respectable they are. **6)Financially independent**
Being a financially independent increase our self-value and boost our confidence.Specially in this era,its important for both boys and girls to be financially independent instead of depending on others.Its actually help us to be prepare for future and to decrease the burden of family.But is that thing really matters as compare to other things? So let me know what do you think is the most important thing according to your own point of view or which thing you will prefer to see in your wife....? Thanks for reading.
4 comments
Your attitude play the major role as a woman. If you have good character, your in-law will love you and take u as their own child
I am agree with you positive attitude is also necessary to hold any relationship
It's realistic nowadays that in-laws will make your financial independence a huge factor. Life is so hard now, in laws wouldn't want it id you'll depend on them specially when you're husband isn't making that much money. Two salaries are better. You being educated is also a huge factor. Some based your personality there, like you're honorable and must have good character. They'll base here if you're good for their son. However, despite all of this, your personality and you being a capable wife and mother are the most important
Actually you point out all the things which are really important to be in this relationship.Thank you for feedback.