Dream Guy
Hi everyone! Ice8 here!
This is going to be a short one and it's not about firsts. This is in connection with my previous post about my first crush. If you haven't read that yet, you can choose to either read it before or after this post. I've been thinking about this for quite some time and I just thought that maybe I can share this with you guys since I've already shared my first crush. This is about my dream guy/ ideal guy.
Have you ever dreamed of your dream guy? Well, me? I've always dreamed about my dream guy. Yes, funny. I'm dreaming of my dream guy. It could be daydreaming or when I'm literally asleep. When I'm daydreaming, I think of the most perfect guy with the most perfect face (in my standards). I imagine him walking towards me, smiling. Then he would ask for my name and I would reply shyly while blushing. However, whenever I dream of him while I'm asleep, his face was blurry or maybe I just couldn't remember his face every time I wake up. But in my dreams, he was so caring and I get butterflies in my stomach all the time. I couldn't really remember the details of my dreams with my dream guy but every time I wake up, I feel really happy and in good mood. Am I weird? I don't think so. I think there are a lot of people like me out there. One of them could be reading this post of mine...hehe.. 😁
Back when we were kids until high school years, we have our ideal guy. We have our standards, a prince charming type of guy. But guess what? I've realized that for some, it's only in fairytale and not in the real world. When I got to college, I realized that my ideal guy is not.........realistic and practical.
Now, I have a different ideal guy. My ideal guy, when it comes to character, is someone who is responsible, doesn't cheat, caring, hardworking, and fatherly. Someone who listens to me and doesn't underestimate women. Someone who could give me good advices. If I'm being practical, I like someone who has a stable job so that both of us could provide for our family. To sum it up, I like and want someone who is good to me and my family.
But I know that there is a possibility that my future boyfriend/ husband may not have the quality of my ideal guy. I believe that when you like someone, you can't easily or immediately say why you like that person. It'll take you time to ponder and realize why. All the standards you have will be thrown out the window once you like or love someone. You'll end up liking the qualities that he has. In the end, the qualities that he has will become your new standard. Which is why I can't really say what my ideal guy is when it comes to facial or physical features because I think our standards change overtime or once we meet him/her.
So.....yeah. I guess that's it for now. As you can see from the title of this post, it's Part 1. I may add something in the future. It could be another realization about this matter. We'll wait for the future to come.
What about you guys? You can share your thoughts in the comment section below. I'm still new here but I'll try harder.
Until next time!
XOXO, Ice8
Dream Guy
Hi everyone! Ice8 here!
This is going to be a short one and it's not about firsts. This is in connection with my previous post about my first crush. If you haven't read that yet, you can choose to either read it before or after this post. I've been thinking about this for quite some time and I just thought that maybe I can share this with you guys since I've already shared my first crush. This is about my dream guy/ ideal guy.
Have you ever dreamed of your dream guy? Well, me? I've always dreamed about my dream guy. Yes, funny. I'm dreaming of my dream guy. It could be daydreaming or when I'm literally asleep. When I'm daydreaming, I think of the most perfect guy with the most perfect face (in my standards). I imagine him walking towards me, smiling. Then he would ask for my name and I would reply shyly while blushing. However, whenever I dream of him while I'm asleep, his face was blurry or maybe I just couldn't remember his face every time I wake up. But in my dreams, he was so caring and I get butterflies in my stomach all the time. I couldn't really remember the details of my dreams with my dream guy but every time I wake up, I feel really happy and in good mood. Am I weird? I don't think so. I think there are a lot of people like me out there. One of them could be reading this post of mine...hehe.. 😁
Back when we were kids until high school years, we have our ideal guy. We have our standards, a prince charming type of guy. But guess what? I've realized that for some, it's only in fairytale and not in the real world. When I got to college, I realized that my ideal guy is not.........realistic and practical.
Now, I have a different ideal guy. My ideal guy, when it comes to character, is someone who is responsible, doesn't cheat, caring, hardworking, and fatherly. Someone who listens to me and doesn't underestimate women. Someone who could give me good advices. If I'm being practical, I like someone who has a stable job so that both of us could provide for our family. To sum it up, I like and want someone who is good to me and my family.
But I know that there is a possibility that my future boyfriend/ husband may not have the quality of my ideal guy. I believe that when you like someone, you can't easily or immediately say why you like that person. It'll take you time to ponder and realize why. All the standards you have will be thrown out the window once you like or love someone. You'll end up liking the qualities that he has. In the end, the qualities that he has will become your new standard. Which is why I can't really say what my ideal guy is when it comes to facial or physical features because I think our standards change overtime or once we meet him/her.
So.....yeah. I guess that's it for now. As you can see from the title of this post, it's Part 1. I may add something in the future. It could be another realization about this matter. We'll wait for the future to come.
What about you guys? You can share your thoughts in the comment section below. I'm still new here but I'll try harder.
Until next time!
XOXO, Ice8
First Crush
Hi guys, I'm back!
It's pretty easy to tell what this is all about since you've already read the title of this article. Yes, I will share to you guys my first crush ☺. This is one of the first things that came to my mind when I thought of sharing my FIRSTs with you guys. I think almost everyone here had their first crush right?
I've had my first crush when I was in grade 2. I was 7 years old that time. My crush was my classmate but, of course, he didn't know he was my crush (for me).
It all started when we became seatmates. But it wasn't just me and my crush. There's also this other boy. The three of us were seated together. We three became close friends but it doesn't mean we didn't fight. Oh boy, we did. I mean, we were immature kids. We fight, then make up, and play together again. These two boys were very playful. They liked to tease me, and played pranks on me. And it just so happened that in the classroom, I was in between these boys. Imagine my everyday life back then. It was chaotic! But it was fun. I laughed and cried and laughed because of them.
Now back to my crush. He became my crush because I found him cute and funny. He had cute "chinito" eyes and thick brows which until now, for me, are some of the qualities I find attractive in a guy (there's still a chance it'll change later though). I think he was pretty tall too (back then). If I try to imagine what he looks like right now, I think he grew as a handsome guy. The kind of guy who walks inside the campus with all the girls staring at him. You know, the heartthrob type. But I don't know about his attitude or behavior though. Maybe he became mature enough but it would be nice if he still has the sense of humor he had back then. I think he had made a lot of girls fall in love with him. Who wouldn't fall for him? He's nice. Even though he used to tease me a lot (and sometimes I cried because of that), he was kind to me. He shared his food and toys with me. He made me laugh when I was sad. He was there when I needed help. He was a gentlemen.
I wonder where he is right now. He is probably 24 or 25 years old by now. I wonder if he's already married. Haha... 😁
We lost contact when I transferred school because my family had to move to another place. He sent me a letter on the first Christmas since we left. He asked how I was, if I already made new friends, and if I could go back so we could play again. My mom helped me write back to him. At that time, I was still clueless about letters that I didn't even asked mom about their address or other information about them. Oh! The other boy, our friend, also sent me a letter at that time too. I also wrote back to him.
I can't reach out to my first crush now since I only remember his first name. I can't remember his last name... So frustrating... 😥My mom doesn't remember too. She doesn't have the letters anymore.
So yeah. That's it for my first crush. I know it was a very simple throwback story. It was pretty ordinary. But it's still funny for me though whenever you remember some funny snippets. How about you? What was the story of your first crush? Was it funny or sad? Are you still in contact with him or her? You can leave comments below.
Until next time!
XOXO, Ice8
First Crush
Hi guys, I'm back!
It's pretty easy to tell what this is all about since you've already read the title of this article. Yes, I will share to you guys my first crush ☺. This is one of the first things that came to my mind when I thought of sharing my FIRSTs with you guys. I think almost everyone here had their first crush right?
I've had my first crush when I was in grade 2. I was 7 years old that time. My crush was my classmate but, of course, he didn't know he was my crush (for me).
It all started when we became seatmates. But it wasn't just me and my crush. There's also this other boy. The three of us were seated together. We three became close friends but it doesn't mean we didn't fight. Oh boy, we did. I mean, we were immature kids. We fight, then make up, and play together again. These two boys were very playful. They liked to tease me, and played pranks on me. And it just so happened that in the classroom, I was in between these boys. Imagine my everyday life back then. It was chaotic! But it was fun. I laughed and cried and laughed because of them.
Now back to my crush. He became my crush because I found him cute and funny. He had cute "chinito" eyes and thick brows which until now, for me, are some of the qualities I find attractive in a guy (there's still a chance it'll change later though). I think he was pretty tall too (back then). If I try to imagine what he looks like right now, I think he grew as a handsome guy. The kind of guy who walks inside the campus with all the girls staring at him. You know, the heartthrob type. But I don't know about his attitude or behavior though. Maybe he became mature enough but it would be nice if he still has the sense of humor he had back then. I think he had made a lot of girls fall in love with him. Who wouldn't fall for him? He's nice. Even though he used to tease me a lot (and sometimes I cried because of that), he was kind to me. He shared his food and toys with me. He made me laugh when I was sad. He was there when I needed help. He was a gentlemen.
I wonder where he is right now. He is probably 24 or 25 years old by now. I wonder if he's already married. Haha... 😁
We lost contact when I transferred school because my family had to move to another place. He sent me a letter on the first Christmas since we left. He asked how I was, if I already made new friends, and if I could go back so we could play again. My mom helped me write back to him. At that time, I was still clueless about letters that I didn't even asked mom about their address or other information about them. Oh! The other boy, our friend, also sent me a letter at that time too. I also wrote back to him.
I can't reach out to my first crush now since I only remember his first name. I can't remember his last name... So frustrating... 😥My mom doesn't remember too. She doesn't have the letters anymore.
So yeah. That's it for my first crush. I know it was a very simple throwback story. It was pretty ordinary. But it's still funny for me though whenever you remember some funny snippets. How about you? What was the story of your first crush? Was it funny or sad? Are you still in contact with him or her? You can leave comments below.
Until next time!
XOXO, Ice8
#First
Hi everyone! I'm new here. My friend told me about this last year but I was preoccupied with many things so now I'm just starting.
When I FIRST heard about this, I really thought it was cool. I can share my thoughts and feelings here. I can also write something that might help others.
This is my FIRST time writing here so please bear with me. I've always wanted to find avenue where I can share my ideas without being bashed, criticized, and without being afraid.
I rarely post on Facebook because I think it has become really toxic (just my opinion). Some people just love finding mistakes about you or your posts and that's what scares me. There are times when I really wanted to post something but end up not doing it because I was scared.
Now, I feel like I can finally do it. I feel like I can be myself. I feel like I can express "ME". I hope you guys can support me and help me overcome my fears.
Oh! And since the title of this article is about FIRST, I hope I can share my other firsts here and I'm also hoping that you share your firsts too.
Comment below if you want me to share one of my other firsts here.
Until next time!
XOXO, Ice8
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