My Parents Abused Me When I Was A Child
Before starting the topic, I want you to know that I am not speaking in the first person, I want to speak about the subject because today child aggression is still experienced and it is a great social problem that I cannot let go of.
In my land, Venezuela, more than 20 years ago it was something very normal to see a father / mother mistreating a child, something that was common for society and accepted by the oldest ones, but nevertheless there were still grandparents who got into the fight because they could not tolerate seeing their grandson cry.
My grandmother Sara was one of those grandmothers who if she saw my father's intention to hit me, she would mistreat him first because within her maturity she had understood that child violence would not lead to anything good. Little by little, many families realized that they were raising rebellious children, children who were no longer afraid of beatings, children who did not care to miss school because they knew they would or they would not be punished and no one could get involved in that roll.
For my part, my mother always treated me with a lot of love just like my father but there was a detail, my father was very explosive with anger, everything bothered him, we felt unhappy to the point that we came to think that he did not love my brother anymore my. It turns out that we were too young to realize what was happening around us but we suffered the psychological abuse of seeing how I verbally abused my mother just because she served her cold food after a long routine.
As we were growing up, the dark spots became clearer, since the abuse was not physical with us but, it was psychological, my father had a wife outside of his marriage and that broke our souls but we could not do anything else, we felt free when he left home and we realized that without him life would become easier for us, my mother would cook less, wash less, work less and of course we would give him much more love.
Currently my father lives with the same woman who is now his wife and we, despite everything that happened, visit them, share and laugh together because we are still family. My mother assimilated everything and stopped suffering unnecessarily for a man who did not know how to value his love but that is what life is about, falling and getting up again.
***This topic leads us to analyze certain points:***
1. Do not allow child abuse
2. Do not practice child abuse
3. We must report child abuse
4. The panorama is not the same seeing it as a child as it is as an adult 5. Love that person who has been with you through thick and thin
6. Apprecate the effort your spouse makes to treat you well, take care of you and that you do not lack anything.
7. Let's practice love and not hate or evil 8. A child is not guilty of having come to this world to suffer, we must make life comfortable for him, with an environment full of love and prosperity.
9. Think that they will take care of us when we are old 10. They will want to do the same as we did with them
11. If you educate your child with respect and love, he will treat the people around him likewise.
12. Hate is fought with a lot of love
13. Teach your children to value the little we have because there will always be people who have less than we do.
14. Children are the future of our planet
15. Children have the right to love, loving parents, an education, and a life worthy of a child.
And here we could spend all day talking about good customs and the upbringing that a child should receive, but the most important thing is that we internalize that our children are not an instrument that has a user manual, no, they are a human being who will be ours. reflection of adults, that everything you teach him will mark his future for life, that if you taught him good, he will do good.
With this I do not want to get into their lives nor do I want them to believe that I am forming a pattern of how you raise their children, I just want us to value our children with all the right they deserve, fill it with love and never want to be separated from their Parents, that when they get married treat their husband or wife as their parents treated each other, as they treated their children, that's life.
***Tip of the day:***
Treat your children as you want to be treated as an old man.
***Observations:*** The content of my writing is totally written in my mind with the best intentions to make this world a better place, a livable place for our children and future grandchildren.
***PTTE. PEREZ SOLORZANO H.***
Do you love that person without knowing them and you don't know why?
***This is the reason why you feel so much love for that person that you do not know but feel that you knew them from somewhere:***
In one of the past publications that I have written I spoke about a book called "Many Lives, Many Teachers", and it specifies the closeness that we have had in other past lives with a person.
Katherin was a very beautiful young woman who, like every woman, had her personal problems; problems that any young man could have but had a very special quality and that is that he could travel through his past lives through the therapy applied by Dr. Brian Weiss of hypnotic regression. Between one of her trips to the past she discovered that on certain occasions she was a man and mostly a woman
***And this leads us to ask ourselves certain questions:***
***1- In another life could I have been a Woman?***
***2- In another life could I have been a man?***
***3- In another life I was rich***
***4- In another life I was poor***
***5- In another life I was white, black, Indian?***
And many more questions and I will give you the answer: Yes, in other lives we could have been all of the above, although one of the teachers said:
Paraphrasing: You will live as many times as possible until you learn what you must learn and repair in your other life what you have to repair.
***Impressive right?***
In short, the main reason why you feel so much love for a person that perhaps you feel that you do not know him is because in another life he could have been the love of your life, it was that person for whom you suffered for love or were so happy with she who simply took love to another plane and still do not know it. This is the main reason.
I remember that a friend "3" very close to me once told me that she felt that she knew me from another place but we had never seen each other and it was thanks to her that I immersed myself in the world of reincarnation that is nothing more than starting from new life after death, perhaps in another body, perhaps in an animal, in a bird, who knows?
The truth is that thanks to my friend I have learned so many things that every day I fall in love with the subject more and I do a little more research to share my experience with you. So when they feel that you know someone from somewhere but you don't know where they are from, you should think about what I'm talking about and you shouldn't feel afraid about it, on the contrary, you should feel excited to investigate a little more about that person, get closer, talk to them. because even tastes can be the same, that happened to me with my friend "3" who never got to know a person like me and who shared so many similar tastes to hers.
Soon I will continue with more mystical stories of my life, if you like me, just give me a like and if you want to give continuity to my songs then, follow me and do not miss anything of what I publish.
***Tip of the day:***
If you feel down because you had a loss, fill yourself with strength and shout to life that you will continue and that it will not be able to fight your strength because the universe is with you and no matter how strong the pain is, you will not decay and you will move on.
***Note:*** Nothing I have written is plagiarism, everything comes out of my mind and nothing is exaggerated.
***Ptte. Pérez Solórzano H.***
Hello, I introduce myself
My name is Heiven Pérez, I am a Venezuelan military officer who wants to dedicate his free time to writing quality articles of collective interest. In advance I want you to know that I am a human being like everyone else, the fact of being Venezuelan does not imply that they exclude me from the groups or do not interest my publications.
I want to share with you many experiences, anecdotes and experiences of my life. Beyond all this I specialize in emotional leadership, I like to help people overcome difficult moments, I can help strengthen the mind and overcome moments of pain.
Count on me for anything that is of collective good, I like the mystery, I am curious and I like so much to learn how to teach.
I want to have friends, not spam, I always comment on all the publications that I read and that interest me because it is a way to help the writer. Again I implore you not to see me as an enemy, on the contrary, see me as a friend. I want to help "I repeat."
I am the father of two beautiful children, my wife is with them at the moment and I have many things to tell. There are so many strange, good, not so good and painful things that I have been through that they would not believe everything I can get to know at my young age. You can do the math just by knowing that I was a premature father, at 15 years of age and from that age I opened a free path to my life.
That is why I help people to overcome difficult moments because I know what it is to go through them, I have slept on the floor, in the water, in the mountains, I have eaten until the ground but I would not want anyone to live what I lived in that sense. Let me participate that I will know how to compensate your support.
Observations: I do not speak English, I must use a translator for writing, I apologize if I do not explain myself but I do my best.
Thank you!
Ptte. Pérez Solórzano H.
A Strange Journey Into the Unknown
Human beings by nature fear the unknown, and it is natural not to want to expose themselves to the magnitude of the power of the discovery of a new world, primitive and ready to be explored. I recently talked about a book called “Many Lives, Many Teachers,” and that is one of the takes that many people fear to know, fear to read, and fear it will be true.
**Let's give some examples:**
- People fear death
- They fear that there is another life after death
- They fear there is life in outer space
- When we were children we were afraid of other children, school, sports, but in reality the fear was to discover the unknown.
- When we are adults we fear our new job, but in reality the fear is of not doing things well and not being accepted with our defects.
- We fear the supernatural and we are not interested in investigating it
These are a few examples of what our mind can block simply out of fear of exploring unknown places but I do not blame humanity because it is part of our nature.
When I was 19 years old I was on my way to the city of Caracas Venezuela and on the way I saw a UFO that my wife, being incredulous of the subject, was left with her mouth open because of the natural expression that I had because I know that in this life and in the others they exist mysteries that will be discovered by themselves. I dare to say that I have seen death pass through my eyes on different occasions and it is a theme that I would like to tell on another occasion.
Let's continue with the topic and I could put as another example the adoption or acceptance of the new world economy with the cryptocurrency trade. Currently adoption is more controlled, 30% of the world is using them but in 2011 when I first heard the term Bitcoin, it was not the same 30% who had accepted it. The BTC was only used in the Dark Network and the transactions were executed only for the purchase of organs, weapons, erotic videos and massacres, a real madness.
Anyway, we have now overcome the fear of investing in cryptocurrencies because we see that people worldwide are using them. In short, the fear of the unknown is collective, we do not move in masses and our instinct tells us that the unknown is dangerous.
**As always I will leave a tip:**
Explore, Have Fun, Learn and Overcome your fears because that is what makes us stronger and we eliminate ignorance from our lives.
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***Ptte. Pérez Solórzano Heiven***
**Observation: Everything I write is from my own words, nothing is plagiarism.**
Do you feel that everything goes wrong? There is something you are not doing right.
If the answer is yes, come that I help you, that I will guide you because life is to be lived and you should not let them live it for you. Human beings have a complex of judging people by how they are, how they dress, how they act, how they do things and we never ask:
What happens?
Many times the person just needs someone to talk to, with whom they simply express their deepest feelings and want them to listen to them, who understand the situation they are going through. As a human being I feel that my duty is to help you, to guide you because helping is good and it does not cost anything, on the contrary you will earn a lot. You will simply win a friend with whom to share those difficult moments when you cannot go out and perhaps that person can be your savior. Let's listen more and judge less.
**What do I get by helping that stranger?**
Do not think that you are going to win, my parents when I was a child always told me to help and not to expect anything in return because we never know the situation that each person in this world goes through, however we can change their life with a word, with a fact, with an action and that is what matters. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing how a person progresses with some of your help and although in his life he comes to appreciate it, your mind will say that you did the good thing and discarded the bad thing.
**Do good and don't look at who:**
Many times we are blinded by negative feelings but we never appreciate the value we have for our neighbors, so you understand that I will explain it to you. The fact that you do not like a person does not mean that that person is bad, it is just that you have not taken the moment to meet them, to create a bond of friendship with which you can appreciate that person. Remember this, we are not all the same, we all have something different that characterizes us both physically and mentally but there is a trait that we cannot escape "We are Human Beings" and we usually have our faults as a person.
**What is normal and what is not?**
Look, it is normal as human beings that we fall and get up, as when we were children we had to learn to crawl and then walk, before walking we fell many times until we mastered the technique to avoid falling.
What is not normal? It is not normal to fall and be thrown like a dish towel. That is not normal and this is where we have to act and as a parent help him up, not let him die on the ground. It is not normal for us as human beings to see our brothers suffer and do nothing, it is not normal.
**What do you recommend me?**
A personal recommendation is, help without expecting anything in return, if you helped someone forget that you helped but always remember who helped you because we will never know the effort that person made or is making to help you. It is my good advice.
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Greetings and many successes!
**Ptte. Pérez Solórzano H.**
¿Sientes que todo va mal? Hay algo que no estás haciendo bien.
Si la respuesta es sí, ven que te ayudo, que te guiaré porque la vida es para vivirla y no debes dejar que ellos la vivan por ti. Los seres humanos tenemos un complejo de juzgar a las personas por cómo son, cómo visten, cómo actúan, cómo hacen las cosas y nunca preguntamos:
**¿Qué pasa?**
Muchas veces la persona solo necesita alguien con quien hablar, con quien simplemente expresa sus sentimientos más profundos y quiere que lo escuche, que comprenda la situación por la que está atravesando. Como ser humano siento que mi deber es ayudarte, guiarte porque ayudar es bueno y no cuesta nada, al contrario ganarás mucho. Simplemente ganarás un amigo con quien compartir esos momentos difíciles en los que no puedes salir y quizás esa persona pueda ser tu salvadora. Escuchemos más y juzguemos menos.
**¿Qué gano al ayudar a ese extraño?**
No creas que vas a ganar, mis padres cuando yo era niño siempre me decían que ayudara y que no esperara nada a cambio porque nunca sabemos la situación por la que atraviesa cada persona en este mundo, sin embargo podemos cambiar su vida con una palabra, con un hecho, con una acción y eso es lo que importa. No hay nada más bonito que ver cómo progresa una persona con algo de tu ayuda y aunque en su vida llega a apreciarlo, tu mente dirá que hiciste lo bueno y descartaste lo malo.
**Haz el bien y no mires a quién:**
Muchas veces nos dejamos cegar por sentimientos negativos pero nunca apreciamos el valor que tenemos para nuestro prójimo, así que entiendes que te lo explicaré. El hecho de que no te guste una persona no significa que esa persona sea mala, es solo que no te has tomado el momento de conocerla, de crear un vínculo de amistad con el que puedas apreciar a esa persona. Recuerda esto, no todos somos iguales, todos tenemos algo diferente que nos caracteriza tanto física como mentalmente pero hay un rasgo del que no podemos escapar "Somos Seres Humanos" y normalmente tenemos nuestras fallas como persona.
**¿Qué es normal y qué no lo es?**
Mira, es normal como seres humanos que nos caigamos y nos levantemos, como cuando éramos niños teníamos que aprender a gatear y luego a caminar, antes de caminar nos caíamos muchas veces hasta que dominamos la técnica para no caer.
¿Qué no es normal? No es normal caerse y ser arrojado como un paño de cocina. Eso no es normal y aquí es donde tenemos que actuar y como padre ayudarlo a levantarse, no dejarlo morir en el suelo. No es normal para nosotros como seres humanos ver a nuestros hermanos sufrir y no hacer nada, no es normal.
**¿Qué me recomiendas?**
Una recomendación personal es, ayuda sin esperar nada a cambio, si ayudaste a alguien olvida que ayudaste pero recuerda siempre quién te ayudó porque nunca sabremos el esfuerzo que esa persona hizo o está haciendo para ayudarte. Es mi buen consejo.
Si quieres seguir leyendo un poco más sobre mi publicación, sígueme, charlemos un rato, hagamos amigos y compartamos un momento de diversión.
Saludos y muchos aciertos!
***Ptte. Pérez Solórzano H.***
Have you ever wondered if you have lived another life?
This Book Completely Changed My Life
Many Lives, Many Teachers, is a book written by Dr. Psychiatrist Brian Weiss, who has taught me to see life from another point of view, to value much more who I am as a person and to know that I have another opportunity in life. life is priceless. Now I enjoy my family, my wife, my children, my parents and friends much more.
More or less I will tell you about what happens in this beautiful story: Katherine was a very unstable young woman mentally, she was afraid of the dark, when she slept she felt like she was drowning, when she was on a high surface she felt panic, she did not like to be alone in confined places, he felt that he had been in other parts of the world without having been able to leave his country. In short, she was a woman in need of professional help and decided to attend a consultation with Dr. Weiss.
Dr. Weiss was a man of science with little belief in the mystique of life and never came to think that young Katherine would change his life completely. It turns out that I apply a therapy called Hypnotic Regression on her and take the young woman to walk through many past lives "something she never thought existed", but with so many times she did it she had to give in to the facts.
In conclusion, Katherine had lived in eighty-eight (88) past lives and thanks to the hypnotic regression therapy by Dr. Weiss science had to put down its instruments and make room to study things beyond life. I hope you liked my article, if you want to know more about the book, let us know in the comments.
They are loved.
Ptte. Perez Solorzano H.
Have you ever wondered if you have lived another life?
This Book Completely Changed My Life
Many Lives, Many Teachers, is a book written by Dr. Psychiatrist Brian Weiss, who has taught me to see life from another point of view, to value much more who I am as a person and to know that I have another opportunity in life. life is priceless. Now I enjoy my family, my wife, my children, my parents and friends much more.
More or less I will tell you about what happens in this beautiful story: Katherine was a very unstable young woman mentally, she was afraid of the dark, when she slept she felt like she was drowning, when she was on a high surface she felt panic, she did not like to be alone in confined places, he felt that he had been in other parts of the world without having been able to leave his country. In short, she was a woman in need of professional help and decided to attend a consultation with Dr. Weiss.
Dr. Weiss was a man of science with little belief in the mystique of life and never came to think that young Katherine would change his life completely. It turns out that I apply a therapy called Hypnotic Regression on her and take the young woman to walk through many past lives "something she never thought existed", but with so many times she did it she had to give in to the facts.
In conclusion, Katherine had lived in eighty-eight (88) past lives and thanks to the hypnotic regression therapy by Dr. Weiss science had to put down its instruments and make room to study things beyond life.
I hope you liked my article, if you want to know more about the book, let us know in the comments. They are loved.
Life as an Educator Without Contemplation
I have always considered life as a great teacher who, apart from our parents, teaches us how to live and will always put obstacles for us to overcome them and in turn grow personally to train us for future events, I call this life experience.
Even if life hits me, hurts me, I throw myself to the ground in one fell swoop, you always have to have the strength to get up because otherwise I will be one more of the bag called Failure. As I mentioned in a past post, you always have to be strong, insistent and constant, the fact that things turn out differently than we expected does not mean that it will always be bad, on the contrary, you have to think that it will be better because there is no progress without failures.
If we want to have that internal peace that we all want, we have to fall a few times to learn to bear the falls of life and even if they are more bad than good, we must always think that there is no evil that lasts 1000 years or body that resists it. Stand firm like oak and be strong like saman, nothing in life is eternal.
Ptte. Pérez Solórzano H.
Anecdote of an aspiring Venezuelan military cadet
When I was barely four (04) years old, I consciously remember that my father was a senior brigadier at the Military Aviation School of Venezuela, which was located at the entrance to a state called Aragua de Venezuela. Since I was little I felt a lot of attraction for weapons but I never came to believe that I was going to be part of the officers of the Bolivarian National Armed Forces, until a cousin inspired me to be one, but nevertheless I never wanted to. be because my father was a military man. This is a detail of my life that I have never told anyone before.
In September 2011 I decided to present the aptitude and attitude tests at the Military Academy of the Bolivarian National Guard, the alma mater of the officers of the aforementioned component. And next year (2012) through the information sent by the aforementioned Military Academy, they did not accept me because I did not have a general officer to support my admission, a situation that demoralized me to the point that I stopped believing in myself. The great effort that my wife, my parents and friends made to support me was in vain for my income, I felt unworthy of deserving their affection.
I was only 19 years old when my first failure as an aspiring cadet happened, not entering the National Guard Military Academy was a landslide for my mind, an emotional collapse because I was always an outstanding student, with sporting and psychological merits. I saw the bureaucratic system of the institute overcome many people and I was very indignant but within me I felt the need to try again, that was when I decided to apply again in September 2012 to start the recruitment tests but I was leaving with a letter On my sleeve, I already knew by heart all the questions and answers of all the selection tests and my physical conditions made me feel confident in my performance.
This time I wanted to be a little more astute and decided to present at the Army Military Academy, a military component with very different functions from the National Guard but highly military, backbone of the Armed Forces. To my surprise it is that although I passed all my knowledge tests, physical, medical and psychological, I was not suitable to enter the National Guard Academy, what do you think? Supposedly because during the introductory course I didn't see my best performance as a cadet. But this time I did not die like the first time because the Army Academy approved me and even offered me a place for sporting merits. My ignorance never let me see the opportunities I had in other institutes but I felt happy because in a way it was an act of personal improvement, the important thing about that is that I never gave up.
I do not know how difficult it is to enter a military academy in other parts of the world, but here in Venezuela, out of twenty thousand (20,000) applicants, only the most suitable eight hundred (800) were selected, but in the case of the military guards those with the greatest power and with parents who could pay the income package that currently exceeds 1000 USD, a value that not all natural persons in Venezuela can have in their pocket.
On August 8 (08) of the year 2013, Alma Mater of the officers of the Venezuelan Army entered the Military Academy of the Bolivarian Army for the first time, the house from which Commander Hugo Rafael Chávez Frías and the greatest military personnel graduated. of Venezuelan history. I didn't know if what I was doing was right because I wanted to be a military man, this was not my best option because deep down I was a carrubio, that is, a national guard. There were many experiences in my study at home, good times and bad times that I never wanted to have lived but the good times are the ones I always have in mind because happiness is priceless.
If you want to know what happens next, I will upload the next post soon.
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