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Reminders for the Hard Days January 13, 2022 It is a sad day for my co-Army and to myself too because today is the release of the Artist-made by Suga of BTS. It is a black notepad and guitar pick necklace. Despite of the expensive amount, Army are willing to have it for it always remind them of Suga. Personally, this is the best Artist-made for me as far as the showcase of products but still on Jhope, Jimin and JK it is about to unfold the next days. The artist-made items of Suga really describe who he is. The black notepad is really Suga as the singer-composer-producer loves to scribble. He write his thoughts on his notebook. Most of his great works came from his notebooks. The guitar pick necklace on the other hand is so Suga too, because Suga loves to play guitar. The guitar pick has the logo of Army and BTS, and you can use it as a guitar pick itself. For me both of the items are very useful. Regardless of the price I want to have too but I am unlucky together with the rest of the fandom because it is out of stock in a minute. Poor us, I hope Weverse made a restock or else we will feel rejected forever.

I feel sad. I feel sad for myself and for the rest of the unluckiest. I even felt bad for a good friend that is a Suga bias because she is already prepared for this but then there are people who are fast as lighting bolt that able to purchased it. During this time, I already prepared some thoughts to ponder to divert my bad feelings. I got this from random Inspirational quotes online and I look at it every time I feel this. Let me share this to you.

A hard day does not equal a bad life A hard day could be something that you lose something, you are reprimanded by something you did, you hate someone or someone hated you, you are late to work, you are not feeling good about something, and everything that you become unease. Remember, your bad feeling at the moment does not equivalent your whole life. You have your share of happy times. To balance everything, you need to have a bad times or bad days, but that doesn't equal to bad life. Good or bad, your life is good for it has a lesson to learn and share. It is always a meaningful life. Not all thoughts are true When you have bad days, you started to think and over think. Includes in overthinking are the feeling of stress and worries. Not all thoughts are true. Sometimes you just prepare yourself for a scenarios but until it is not happening, it is not true. Refrain from thinking and be at the moment now. Decide when you are there, do not overwork your brain too much.

Feelings are not facts But your feelings are valid, real and allowed. Every time you feel bad about your situation, it is valid. It is right to feel bad. You are allowed to feel that way if you didn't get what you want. On the other side, your feelings doesn't define the facts. Sometimes you will not get what you want. Instead of sticking to the bad feelings you just need to accept it and move on. Your worth is not contingent on circumstances There are times in your life that your wrong choices could make you feel less valuable as a person but the fact is, nothing in your wrong choices and wrong decision makes you less a valuable person. It doesn't mean if you are wrong now, you will be wronged forever. You are valuable today as you were yesterday and you are even more valuable as the day comes.

Nothing stays the same Life guarantees this,nothing stays the same. We are all subject to change, the question is, if it is for the better? If something to change, you should absorb the learning from your experience and adjustment. Change is the only thing permanent so you need to accept that is everyone's real story. You can't be everything to everyone Not all people will treat you valuable. Some will makes you feel trash and some are giving you all of their time because you matters. For those who doesn't treat you right as you expect them to be, accept that you can't be everything to everyone, as well as you can treat them as your everything in your life. You might treat someone as your everything but you cannot be like that for long. Again, nothing stays the same. Be gentle with yourself, trust your inner voice, strength and resiliency When something bad happens, don't put all your blame to yourself. There are things that is out of your control. Just learn from it and always remember your mistakes. The next time, trust your inner voice. Problems gives us strength and make us resilient. Be that person always.

You are not alone , its okay to ask help If you need help, ask for it. It is important that you have a contingency list. This is a list of people you assured that can help you in times of trouble. You cannot do everything on your own, you can ask help. Always ask help. Focus on the things you can control. Let go of the rest The only thing that you can control is your feelings. You can control your decisions as well. When we are doing something, there are uncontrolled forces that surrounds us that will truly wreck everything we plan. You will feel bad when it happens as it happens all the time. What you can only do is to adjust yourself and always accept that there are things we can't control. Let go of it. Let your inner voice works for the things you can control. ***I will just focus on the people who supported and trust me in this platform, my wonderful sponsor. You can check their amazing article on their profile and know how amazing they are!*** Images are from Unsplash