The Letter
*When you were no longer by my side, I had to learn to be alone. The first thing I have to do is accept the fact that you are gone forever. Even though it's difficult, I have to forgive myself and let go of regrets for the things I didn't get to say or do when you were still around.*
*I also had to learn not to depend on other people. All this time, you have always been there for me whenever I needed. Now, I have to try to solve my own problems without anyone's help.*
*Life without you will be full of difficulties and challenges, but I am confident that I can get through it. With support from family and friends, I will find the strength and courage to keep moving forward. Even though you are no longer with me. you will always live in my heart. You have taught me many things and I will always remember you.*
The Clever Deer
One day, Deer felt very hungry. He walked here and there, but found no food. When it was afternoon, Deer saw Monkey busy eating bananas on a tree. It looks really delicious.
Deer really wanted to enjoy the banana. However, how do you get the banana? Climbing a tree, he couldn't. “Ask the Monkey, he certainly won't give. That monkey is stingy." Deer looks for reason. Deer also found his wits.
He threw small stones at Monkey. At first Monkey didn't care. Deer did not give up. Mouse Deer continued to throw at Monkey. He tried to make Monkey angry. Over time, Monkey became annoyed and angry. He threw Deer back at him. At first Monkey threw banana peels. After the banana skins were finished, the monkey threw bananas at Deer.
Deer pretended to be in pain. The monkey became more and more enthusiastic about throwing until all the bananas were thrown at Deer. The monkey felt satisfied then left the tree.
Deer's wits worked. After Monkey left, Deer started collecting the scattered bananas. He ate the bananas casually.
“Hmmm… really delicious”
The end....
Life Lessons Without You
When you were no longer by my side, I had to learn to be alone. The first thing I have to do is accept the fact that you are gone forever. Even though it's difficult, I have to forgive myself and let go of regrets for the things I didn't get to say or do when you were still around.
I also had to learn not to depend on other people. All this time, you have always been there for me whenever I needed. Now, I have to try to solve my own problems without anyone's help.
Life without you will be full of difficulties and challenges, but I am confident that I can get through it. With support from family and friends, I will find the strength and courage to keep moving forward. Even though you are no longer with me. you will always live in my heart. You have taught me many things and I will always remember you.
3 Reasons Why Bitcoin Cash Can Be Reliable by All People
Even though it is a topic of conversation that is often discussed lately, in fact there are still many people who don't know about Bitcoin Cash. The term Bitcoin Cash itself refers to a type of digital money technology that provides financial services to its users, including innovations such as blockchain, digital money, wallets, funds and online payments.
Currently, the development of Bitcoin Cash has reached all groups and makes it easier for users to get and use it as a financial option as a means of payment. As one of the advances in digital technology that we have felt together, it is indeed a good influence for all groups. The existing service process, made very easy and fast, from ordering food, reading news to fast funding services, has adapted to technological advances.
To what extent is Bitcoin Cash useful in everyday life? Here are 3 reasons why Bitcoin Cash is reliable for all people.
**1. THE EASE OF FINANCIAL SERVICES**
With Bitcoin Cash, the process of financial services can be done faster, easier and safer. You can process financial services such as payments, capital raising, and even investments. Everyone who wants to have financial services no longer needs to come to a bank or financial institution just to get financial services, you can access these services directly from your cellphone, laptop, or personal computer wherever you are. And you also don't need to prepare a lot of documents to get financial products, just register with one of the current wallet or exchange services that offer services using Bitcoin Cash.
**2. FASTER ALTERNATIVE OPTIONS FOR FINANCIAL TRANSACTIONS**
With Bitcoin Cash, all financial transactions can be carried out practically and safely from anywhere. Simply using electronic equipment such as cellphones, laptops, or personal computers, we can carry out all financial transactions in real time and know no time limits. That way, people who previously had difficulty reaching financial services such as shop sellers or employees can use Bitcoin Cash. This will have an impact on people's purchasing power for financial products, and improve the financial ecosystem in the world in general.
**3. IMPROVING THE WELL-BEING OF ALL**
So far, conventional banks or institutions have often only served people with middle to upper income. Meanwhile, low-income people find it difficult to get financial services like the middle and upper class people in general. Where a deposit is required that has been determined by the existing regulations on a Bank service and also an administrative fee to open an account with the Bank.
Now thanks to Bitcoin Cash, people of all groups can easily access financial services by simply having an offline or online wallet. Bitcoin Cash can also reach people who previously could not be reached by various financial services. Especially with the presence of a large Bitcoin Cash Community, making socialization and application of Bitcoin Cash to various groups easier.
With the existence of technology in the financial sector, it is hoped that the development of the world economy will increase faster. Bitcoin Cash's ability to reach all people and provide ease of transaction, makes this digital money one of the cryptos that can be a reliable choice. So Bitcoin Cash provides a complete solution for all needs.
And don't forget that below are services that you can use to get to know, use and get Bitcoin Cash at this time:
**Official website:**
- bitcoincash.org
- whybitcoincash.com
**Exchange :**
- Binance
- Bitfinex
- Poloniex
- Kraken
- Indodax
- The door
- My account
- Yobit
- Coinbase
- etc
**Earning site:**
- read.cash
- noise.cash
- memo.cash
- member.cash
- lazyfox.io
- faucetpay.io
**Wallet**
- Bitcoin.com
- Electron Cash
- Badger wallet
- Coinomi
- Zapit
"you are the answer to my prayer"
part 1
"you are the answer to my prayer"
the Billar version
suddenly your name sounded in my ear, lots of people mention your name and pair it with me. At first I thought everything was normal. there have been many like this before. I've been used to matchmaking with my co-stars before, but it's different, we're in different segments, in different environments. Soap opera player and dangdut singer. which if you think about it will not be as frequent. At first I thought everything was normal. I consider it as entertainment for them. Even I had time to avoid my meeting with you that day. But who knows what happened, finally I agreed to attend the talk show to my manager.
"Hi, Rizky. Ciee who left the marriage." I greeted my introduction to you that day, just before the event began.
"Ahhh, you're also left married." you taunted me back, I smiled. it feels like normal
then the show started. because the concept of the show was a talk show at that time I didn't prepare anything. I just let it all spontaneously displace.
"So what are you called? Rizky or Billar?" asked the host.
"Leslar, uncle" I replied
"Leslar?" said the emcee
"Yes, Lesti Billar," I said, blushing. then people laughed. I see you laugh too. really, at that time i was just kidding too Everything came out spontaneously right then and there. Everything still feels normal.
Until chat after chat continues. My jokes, you reply nicely. At that time I felt we had known for a long time. You are what I thought was a calm and quiet girl. it turns out that you are that classic.
"looking at you, although always ...." you said while singing. At that time I was really shocked. Your voice entered into me. Made me realize you deserve to be admired. Ahhh but I don't want to get too far. we'd only known a few hours at that time.
In fact, the meeting which was only for a few hours suddenly became the conversation of millions of people. Am I expecting? of course not. Everything that happened that night was so natural. Yes, just like that. At first I thought it wouldn't be special, at first it felt normal. But I realized when you sang the song "Look at you ....." it kept ringing in my ears, I knew there was something unusual that made me want to know more and more about you.
but take it easy, I'm not the type of person who falls in love easily. For me to fall in love it takes time, there is no term falling in love at first sight in my dictionary. So let it be, let it all just flow. I consider our first meeting as an ordinary meeting, just like my meeting with other women. it's just a professional work !!!
Until the next day we meet again, but this meeting was not accidental, but we planned it. At that time, during our first meeting, you invited me to collaborate to create youtobe content. I of course said yes. My intention at that time was simple, to make people happy with the content we created.
In fact, I was the happier first. I am the first who is filled with admiration for you. I am the one who first felt comfortable in your house. I am the one who is much more curious about you. I am the one who feels calm when around you. Even though our introductions are still very brief.
Seeing you cooking, listening to you hum, looking into your eyes, joking with you and your family, I felt like I met something I was looking for. "Ahh ..... no no." I just got to know you. What a thought. I brushed my own thoughts at that time.
Continued..........
"Beef Rendang Recipes"
Indonesia is a country with various ethnicities and cultures. consists of various regions from Sabang to Meroke. not only from the language and culture, even Indonesia is also known for its richness in the specialties of their respective regions. there is even one typical Indonesian food that has been worldwide. This food comes from the island of Sumatra, the western part of Indonesia, namely the province of West Sumatra, or better known as the city of Padang. this food name is "Rendang". basically this food is processed from beef mixed with a variety of typical Indonesian spices.
very much like this food. in Indonesia, this food is a side dish for eating rice. because the staple food in Indonesia is rice, so this rendang is a side dish. actually rendang can use chicken meat, but its specialty of this food is processed from beef. OK, I'll just give you this very delicious rendang recipe.
*ingredient
Beef 500 grams
thick coconut milk 400 grams
medium coconut milk 400 grams
*ground spices
dry chilis 70 grams
cayenne pepper 30 grams especially for those who like spicy (opsional)
onion 10 clove
garlic 8 clove
ginger 2 cm
turmeric 2 cm
galangal 5 cm
coriander 5 grams
candlenut 2 -3 pcs
*complementary seasonings
turmeric leaves 1 sheet
lime leaves 3 sheet
bay leaves 5 sheet
lamongrass 1 pcs
ground nutmeg 1/2 teaspoon
salt 1 1/2 tablespoon
clove 6 pcs
cinnamon 5 - 8 cm
cardamom 6 - 8 pcs
illicium verum 1 - 2 pcs
ground beef broth sufficiently
suger sufficiently
*procedure
cut and wash the beef.
puree the spices that must be mashet.
Heat the skillet on the stove with a little cooking oil, then add the ground spices and complementary seasonings, saute the spices while stirring constantly, don't let it burn until it dries a little. do it until the color of the spices is slightly darkened and fragrant.
Enter the chopped and washed meat pieces into the spices, stir until the meat changes color and brings out the broth.
add medium coconut milk, add salt, sugar, meat broth, stir well, let it boil and the water content shrinks and the meat is tender.
then add the thick coconut milk, cook until it boils, stirring constantly, reduce the heat, keep stirring until the sauce shrinks and releases oil, and the spices turn brown. Check the taste and turn off the heat.
beef rendang ready to be served.
A Healthy Diet
How to Healthy Diet is an important point to know for those of you who are overweight. A healthy diet is doing a healthy diet or weight loss without torturing yourself. Many people just want to lose weight and forget whether their diet is healthy or not.
Some Ways to a Healthy Diet Properly
**Do not let the body starve**
One way of a healthy diet is not to let the body starve, aka eat regularly. Diets with excessive hunger will actually make you get revenge by overeating. Leaving your stomach hungry will make it more difficult for you to hold your appetite when you eat. As a result, you even forget about a healthy diet.
**Nutritional Intake of Food**
The next way to have a healthy diet is to pay attention to the nutritional intake of the food and drink that will be consumed. Every day, the body needs 5 servings of fruits and vegetables to meet the body's needs. Choose fruits and vegetables that are suitable for your diet and can be consumed every day.
**Reducing Salt Consumption**
Reducing salt consumption is also able to help you lose weight. This diet method is not only healthy and easy but also known to be effective. Excessive sodium consumption can make it difficult for the body to process fat metabolism. Usually to consume vegetables, chicken, eggs without added salt.
**Set a Food Schedule**
The right diet is to set a regular food schedule. Although eating a healthy diet, you also have to eat as usual. You only need to pay attention to the portion and menu of food that will be consumed.
Daily Catering can be the answer to controlling the intake of nutrients in your body. By choosing a caterer that provides various attractive packages that you can choose from, one of which is a healthy diet package. We offer a variety of attractive foods for your diet according to your needs.
You need to know how to have a healthy diet so you don't have to torture yourself to lose weight that is actually unhealthy. To be the right choice for your solution to consume healthy foods regularly and regularly. Because we also provide various package options on a regular basis according to the desired schedule.
Rain is a Blessing, But beware of Blood Fever
Rain, is undeniably a blessing from God for us and also the creatures on earth. Even though this is a blessing that many people and many other creatures of God have been waiting for, but when the rainy season comes we need to be more alert. The reason is, rain sometimes can cause disaster or increase the risk of disease. Like floods to dengue fever, for example.
But here I will not discuss about flooding but rather, dengue that needs to be watched out for. Both by ourselves as adults and by family members, especially children. Why?
Unlike adults who are more understanding and more able to protect themselves and take precautions, children tend not to care about anything that could potentially cause them pain or endanger their lives. This is where our role as parents is required to actively protect them from the various dangers that lurk, especially the danger of dengue fever in the rainy season. There have been many experiences that require me to be aware of DHF in the rainy season.
Starting from the experience when he was in Kalimantan first. Where, our neighbors' children who are still under five had to be let go because they were late in getting treatment due to dengue fever. So, the experience with his own family, where his parents (Bapak) have also been hospitalized for weeks due to a disease carried by the aides aegypti mosquito.
So, Moms, to be aware of this disease, we need to do a number of things that can prevent or at least reduce the reproduction of the female mosquito Aedes aegypti, which carries the dengue virus. The trick is to understand the cycle of transmission and must provide drugs that can be used to relieve symptoms, such as Termorex for example.
Beware of dengue fever in the rainy season and know how it is transmitted
Recognizing the mode of transmission of the dengue virus by mosquitoes is the best way to prevent the virus from infecting humans, especially family members. In order to be aware of and prevent children from getting dengue fever, here is a brief review of the cycle of dengue fever transmission that you should know.
**1. Causes of dengue fever**
The female Aedes aegypti mosquito is the one to watch out for. Because, only female Aedes aegypti mosquitoes carry the dengue virus and suck blood. Why? Female mosquitoes need blood to ripen (produce) eggs. Get to know the characteristics of the DHF mosquito called Aedes aegypti so you can increase your alertness. The characteristics include:
His body is striped (black and white)
Small body size
Can roam as far as 400 meters
Loves to be in clean puddles
Active prey in the morning and evening. Namely, 2 hours after sunrise and 2 hours before sunset
**2. Where do female Aedes aegypti mosquitoes get the dengue virus?**
The dengue virus will enter the body of female Aedes aegypti mosquitoes along with human blood that has been infected with the virus. By sucking the blood of a person with dengue fever, the virus will automatically enter and infect the female mosquito's body.
Once inside the mosquito's body, the virus will infect the mosquito's middle stomach, then spread to the salivary glands. If within 8-12 days the mosquito that has been infected with the dengue virus bites another healthy person, the virus contained in the mosquito will be transmitted through the mosquito's salivary glands to the healthy person.
So, if a neighbor is diagnosed with dengue fever, then your alertness needs to be increased. Keep reading this article until it's finished so you can find out how to prevent your child or family member from contracting DHF.
**3. Dengue cycle**
The cycle of dengue fever transmission generally goes through four stages, namely:
Mosquitoes breed in standing water
After adult female mosquitoes will bite humans who have been infected with the dengue virus
The virus will infect the mosquito, then the mosquito will bite other people and transmit the virus it carries
The mosquitoes that have received the blood will ripen their eggs to maturity and breed in puddles
Where do the Aedes aegypti mosquitoes breed?
Female mosquitoes breed in clean, clean standing water, not running water or dirty, cloudy water. Because of that, we need to be aware of puddles that usually appear a lot in the rainy season. For example in trenches, objects that can hold water, to water reservoirs at home such as bathtubs and reservoirs. Before the rainy season arrives, try to take the time to clean and smooth the gutters. If possible, carry out mutual cooperation activities with neighbors or villagers.
Water reservoirs at home should be regularly drained and cleaned twice a week or at least once a week. So that mosquito breeding does not occur in water reservoirs, you can close the barrel until the reservoir is tight or use ABT medicine.
In addition, keeping fish in flooded places like ponds to gutters is the best way to get rid of larvae naturally. All objects that have the potential to hold water should be buried if not needed, or stored in a warehouse if they are still needed.
Solutions to prevent the transmission of dengue fever to children and families
So that children are not easily infected with dengue fever, we need to take precautions. It can be in the following ways.
1. Mosquitoes are usually active in hunting between 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. and 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. At this time, prevent the children from playing in the garden. Or, if they still want to play outside, protect their bodies using:
Mosquito repellent
By wearing closed clothes
Wear clothes on children because brightly colored clothes are usually avoided by mosquitoes. In contrast, mosquitoes like and tend to be attracted to people who are dressed in black or dark colors
2. Apply 3M, namely:
Routinely drain water reservoirs such as bathtubs, barrels, jars, or open reservoirs
Closing water reservoirs
Bury any unused items that have the potential to collect water
3. Do not use floral fragrances as they can attract mosquitoes
Plant plants that can repel insects and mosquitoes such as lemongrass, lavender, rosemary, basil, kecombrang, to papermint
4. Do not get in the habit of hanging dirty clothes behind the door. Whenever possible, hang clothes in a closed closet if they are clean. If the clothes are dirty, it's best to place them in a basket or a closed container and avoid hanging them behind doors or beside closets. Because places that are humid and warm are often used as nests by mosquitoes
5. Paint the house using light colors. A house that is painted dark is more preferred by mosquitoes as a place to live than a house that is painted a bright color, such as yellow or white
Always provide fever-reducing drugs such as Termorex
Termorex is an example of fever medicine which should always be available at home, especially in the rainy season. This fever-reducing medicine for children will be very helpful if we cannot immediately take the child to the hospital or to the doctor for examination and treatment.
Why do we need to provide fever medicine?
Fever is one of the symptoms of DHF. Mild fever without certain symptoms or high fever up to 400 Celsius should still be watched out because it could be caused by dengue fever. Apart from fever, here are some other symptoms of dengue fever.
**Dizziness or headache**
Pain throughout the body, especially bones and muscles and joints. These symptoms will usually appear between 4 - 7 days after being bitten by an Aedes aegypti mosquito infected with the dengue virus
**Nausea and vomiting**
Some children may experience symptoms of a rash or red spots on the skin, which can be found all over the body. These symptoms usually appear after being bitten between 3-4 days and will reduce after 1-2 days later
Bleeding on the gums or bruising, purplish in color
Nosebleeds or bleeding in the nose
Blood pressure dropped dramatically
Whenever your child has symptoms of dengue fever, make sure you immediately take him to the nearest hospital for examination and so that they get proper treatment. If the fever occurs at night and does not allow you to take it to the nearest hospital or health care center, make sure you try to reduce the child's fever by using drugs such as Termorex or drugs containing paracetamol.
Condition the house so that it can be a good place to rest for the child. Besides being given fever medicine, children can also be compressed to reduce their body heat. Apart from providing fever-reducing drugs (such as Termorex for example), I also highly recommend that mothers want to provide a (digital) thermometer at home.
If possible, buy a good thermometer, one that can give you a quick temperature reading. Although they are a bit expensive compared to lower quality thermometers, the speed at which they produce results will be very helpful. Moreover, if the child is fussy. Based on experience, the thermometer really helps me in monitoring the child's body temperature and can also give me a feeling of calm. Why?
When a child has a fever, we must always control his body temperature. Armed with a thermometer, we can tell if their body temperature is too high. If the child's body temperature is near the maximum limit (400 C). We must immediately give them Termorex or PE medicine
When a child has a fever, we must always control his body temperature. Armed with a thermometer, we can tell if their body temperature is too high. If the child's body temperature is near the maximum limit (400 C). We must immediately give them Termorex or other fever-reducing medicine.
A thermometer can also be used to determine a child's body temperature drop. Knowing that your baby's body temperature has dropped can give us a feeling of calm. That way, anxiety that makes it difficult for us to rest can be eliminated. We really need to remember, when a child is sick, we as parents often feel very worried, so we don't get enough rest and fall sick.
Increase knowledge about DHF
To make it easier to anticipate and prevent unwanted things due to dengue fever, mothers need to read a lot and increase knowledge about how to prevent dengue fever and how to treat it.
Sign Someone Loving You
What do you feel, what is stirring your heart ...?
is there anything that deserves to make you smile again, after this ... after his honesty and words ...
After what you did, after sacrifice ... after all this time and you only got this sentence? !!
" I love you..."
1. A person who loves you can never give a reason why he loves you that he knows in his eyes only you
2. If you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend he doesn't care, make him the most important thing you are happy and you are still his dream.
3. People who love you always accept you for who you are, in their eyes you are always the prettiest, even though you may feel you are overweight or you feel overweight.
4. People who love you always want to know about what you've been through all day, they want to know what you are doing.
5. People who love you will send text messages such as “goodmorning”, “happy sunday”, “good night” even if you don't reply to their messages.
6. If it's your birthday and you don't invite him at least he will call to congratulate you or send a message.
7. People who love you will always remember every incident that they go through with you, maybe even events that you yourself have forgotten every detail because, that moment was something precious to him.
8. People who love you always remember every word you say, maybe even words that you forgot to say.
9. People who love you will learn to like your favorite songs, maybe even borrow your CD / cassette, because they want to know what you like, your favorite too.
10. If the last time you met you were sick, maybe a cold, sprained, or had a toothache, a few days later he would send a text and ask about your condition because he was worried about you.
11. If you say you are going to face an exam he will ask you when the exam is, and when the day comes he will send you a text “good luck” to cheer you on.
12. A person who loves you will give something that belongs to you which may be something ordinary for you, but it is something that is special to him.
13. People who love you will be silent for a moment, while talking on the phone with you, so that you become confused, at that time he feels very nervous because you have shaken his world.
14. People who love you always want to be near you and want to spend their days with you.
15. If one day you have to move to another city for another time he will give advice so that you are aware of the environment that can have a bad influence on you.
16.People who love you act more like brothers than like people lover.
17. People who love you often do silly things like call you 100 times a day, or wake you up in the middle of the night, because they text or call you. Because he was thinking about you at that time.
18.People who love you sometimes miss you and do things that make you annoyed or crazy, when you say their actions disturbed you they will apologize and will not do it again.
19. If you ask him to teach you something then he will teach you patiently even though you may be the stupidest person in the world!
20. If you look at his cellphone then your name will decorate most of his “INBOX”. Yes, he still keeps messages from you even though you have sent them since months or even years ago.
21. And if you avoid it or react with resistance, he will notice it and disappear from your life, even if it kills his heart.
22. If one day you miss him and want to give him a chance he will be there waiting for you because he never looked for other people. Yes ... he is always waiting for you.
Is there anyone who treats you in the ways above? If so, do you know that you are very lucky?
Unimpressive togetherness
Many things are other causes besides lack of communication and attention, one of which is gadgets.
Surely we have experienced the crunchiness of an atmosphere in which everyone is busy with gadgets that they hold individually. As if they don't see other people around them, and they don't care for others in the end. In fact, if we wanted to just pay attention to the surroundings by briefly putting down the gadgets and then talking to them, surely the crunchiness wouldn't exist. At least, we don't become individual humans, the goal of getting together is to be able to share with one another, if everyone uses gadgets the goal won't be achieved: D.
Some time ago, I saw my Facebook timeline filled with funny content in my opinion. So the story is that a husband and wife and their children are going somewhere. Since they were waiting, there was time for the two of them to chat directly with each other while waiting. Well .. because I know, this couple rarely meets at home because the husband's daily life is at work from morning to night without any days off.
So the funny thing is, in the same place maybe even sitting next to each other, they use Facebook for communication. They comment on each other's social media. I thought, why should I comment on each other, just say it right away. It was there that made togetherness but didn't give the slightest impression even though it was together.
Even though it could be that while waiting with not much time, he can listen to his child's story or his wife's complaints and even vice versa. Togetherness that is hindered by their respective gadgets. One more thing, household matters are not for your public consumption, this must also be kept in mind.
**Use the Gadgets in place**
Most people nowadays, buy gadgets not out of necessity, but because of environmental demands. Which person doesn't have a touch screen gadget now, everyone, especially young people, must hold this touch screen cellphone. Sometimes the use of this gadget sometimes doesn't know the place and time. There are times when we have to put our gadgets when we are with someone.
Well .. don't come to it because the togetherness gadget we have with others becomes bad or leaves a bad impression. Hopefully we can put ourselves in place .. Because the togetherness we have with the closest people cannot be repeated with the same situation.
World Traveling?
Traveling around the world is one of the wish lists that many people around the world have. Maybe we are one of them too, right? For me hahaha.
Traveling around the world in a sustainable manner is often cheaper than breaking it up into multiple traveling sessions. The secret is careful planning and buying the best good deals tickets as preparation. The cost that we spend is guaranteed to be more than worthy to get the experience of seeing many places in a short time. We can remember memories of things we experienced along the way. Exciting yes! So, here are tips to guide us in the best way to travel around the world.
**# 1 Value your trip as a ticket around the world**
It would be cheaper if we came to the agency and bought a dozen tickets instead of one by one, we might get the privilege and big discount for making quite a number of purchases at one time.
**# 2 Check the flight miles facility of the airline which is part of the credit card facility**
If you have a credit card that facilitates discounts or redemption of usage points with flight miles cards, then use it. It's really not bad for reducing the allocation of traveling costs.
**# 3 Transportation equipment and document completeness**
For example, where we currently live close to the next country, maybe we don't need a plane to reach it. Before traveling around the world, of course, taking into account the contents of our wallets, then as a start, we prioritize several countries that are close to the country we live in sequentially. Although it is still important for us to determine the means of transportation that we want to use. Maybe a plane or a boat and are there any further means of transportation to get to the destination, such as cars, bicycles and so on?
Also, make sure we have prepared documents to enter and travel to a country, don't let this become a matter that later makes it difficult for us because of the documents we didn't bring. Don't forget to also bring important insurance cards such as overseas travel insurance for a safer and more comfortable trip. If we are confused about choosing this overseas travel insurance product, how come you can do some research and search first at Futuready. Futuready is the online supermarket for insurance, researching insurance companies and their products that are the most suitable for us.
**# 4 Find suitable hotels and inns**
If we have friends or family who live in the country where we are visiting, it will be easier for us to solve housing problems. We can contact them and in addition to getting a ride to stay while we will also get a good tour guide if they have time to accompany us, if not then at least we can ask for advice, directions and what transportation we can use to get to our tourist destinations.
If you don't have one, the earlier it is to research which hotel or inn we will stay in, the better. Hotels and inns can be cheap but don't forget to check visitor testimonials, it would be better to choose safe lodging for newcomers like us.
**# 5 Packing only necessary items**
This may be a difficult thing for women to do, to pack the items as needed and not be complicated with lots of luggage. Why? Because everything feels important. It is very important to make sure the list we have many times before determining whether something should be brought or not. Overseas travel insurance cards, cellphones, other gadgets and cameras, for example, can be categorized as absolutely mandatory to carry. And don't forget to bring an international charger so you can still charge it wherever you are without plugs.
**# 6 Live Cheap**
At the destination, it does not mean that we are going to be happy when we arrive. Remember, we buy the experience not just to over-shop when we get there. The important thing is that as long as it is quite comfortable and friendly on our tongues for a place to live in food, right? This is also Plan B if, for example, suddenly we have sudden expenses that cannot be postponed on the trip.
Let's plan first about wishlist traveling around the world, if you have a really tight budget for the Asian region first.
Don't Fully Trust Robots
Robots have long been an important part of technology. Its continuous development has made robots infiltrate many fields. Robots are always synonymous with independent systems, in the sense that robots can replace humans to operate certain machines using their own "sense". Until now, this standalone system appears to be running well and does not cause much harm to humans, even more convenience for humans. However, is it safe enough for humans to fully believe in decisions made by robots or their independent systems?
Take an example of the autopilot system on an airplane. This autopilot system is very helpful for pilots to fly their aircraft without requiring control. While useful, the autopilot isn't completely automatic. Human labor is still needed to arrange and change the route. There is actually a standalone system that is more sophisticated than the autopilot. The real robot uses this. Many of these robots have the ability to recognize human emotions, movements and faces. Even though the robot is man-made, is there no possibility for the robot to "betray" and turn around to oppress humans?
Such risk is not impossible, for that a means has been developed to deal with unwanted events. Researchers are trying to increase the complexity of robotic thinking using "formal verification". In this way, the researcher can understand how effective the decisions the robot makes are.
The method above is considered important to be applied to medical robots as well as police. Medical robots in the future may change their minds and turn around to harm their patients. Police robots can make the wrong decision to shoot targets that should not be harmed.
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Whisper
When I start to like myself, that's what I have to avoid, a selfishness that starts to creep into my veins, every heartbeat and every blood flows, I've always thought that I could, I could, I didn't need people, and I know that's wrong, This life is not alone, this life is two, three, with the crowd, but the edge of my fortune rejects it, selfishness that always wins, and I hate this !!
Perfect, the thing I've always wanted. In fact, everything in this world is not always perfect, the second thing that always makes me frantically run away from it, I don't know, everything is so fast passing, life is progressing, there will be no time to repeat it.
Life is not always straight, going through zigzagging paths, sometimes going down, uphill, turning, turning and running, even stopping for a while. How can I get through without a courage, faith, and intention? Really I will not be able.
I will not be able to do it, I will not be able to get through it this big, a meaning in life I still seek, togetherness, loss, presence, pain, joy, high and maybe low. Honestly, I never blame my life too much, what I know, I have to be better than this day, that I know, I will live this day with all my genius, that I know, I must always dream, and what I know, I must have everything to achieve all my dreams !!
Not enough with all that, once again I say "time flies too fast". I haven't had the chance to think about what I am like and my life, everything feels so easy for me, is this what is called sincere? It is considered heavy by others, but light when I live it, or I never make it difficult, I don't know.
One...
Two...
Three…
Like a song, three days that will lead me to maturity, responsibility, courage, and the trials of life that are getting real before my eyes, half whispering I will say to myself "I'm an adult" and I have to realize it, try to change everything and bring my heart back. Myself, that life is not always easy, unlike what was in my brain all this time.
And if "my heart" doesn't want to hear it, I'll scream once again, "I'm an adult, and I have to know it."
What do we really need in this world?
As humans, especially we, I really should always introspect ourselves every second, minute, hour when that time continues. At least, how can we not return to evil even just a little. A dark past and full of something that is not good and the worst of it we do not know - even though there is no law for ignorance - at least, we always want to learn to be better all the time.
In my household I don't have any experience at all, but in my growth phase as I get older and in the journey of life I feel a lot of changes that have brought me to something called -consciousness-. It's not something I realize myself, but there have been other people who have been engaging me in it since the first time my status changed. Somehow the story, what is clear, I will make all the bad things in the past as learning that I should make a reference for the better.
Do not stop at the same knowledge, and are not proud of the state of the self just like that. It's not just about possessions. Even though in fact I really want wealth myself and maybe people will call me -arrogant not want treasure-. But after thinking hard and getting used to simplicity, treasure is only the order of the umpteenth time in life that deserves attention. For the most important thing is,
Where did the treasure come from?
In what way was the treasure obtained?
And with what means is the treasure there?
All of that, these simple questions have rarely come to my mind for a long time. I, who used to go to Middle School, still likes to climb up and down mango trees on the way home from school. Honestly, the mango on the incline to the house is really cute, if I'm not mistaken its honey mango, I realized, what I was wearing at that time with a long skirt, long sleeves - was just a garment. Even though the clothes require to be carried along the path parallel to it, namely good morals. But what to use without knowing its purpose is just a fake and a lie.
As an adult, and with many changes, I returned to using what I used in school for self-awareness. But what, it turns out I still don't know what my clothes mean. As a cover or just as a wrap. I don't know what is clear, jeans still stick to my body, and the mini t-shirts are still happy for me to wear. And it turns out to be true, it's not a cover, it's just a wrap.
But there is one thing that I should always be grateful for the will of God, (Good). When I came to Bali in 2018, it turned out to be able to fix everything. The environmental circle that I still miss until now brings me to the consciousness that is buried in the brain. And I started to learn to understand, what exactly do I mean by the clothes I wear, they are not just a wrap but must be a curtain. Although gradually getting better and changing for the better. What a change. And now people who turned out to be far more educated me on the ins and outs of goodness itself how, and finally I gave up on goodness.
What is in, what clings, is used, that is and is with us. Those who overshadow in a life must be examined again. It must be traced where it came from and whether it is good or not. And don't ever want to be invited back to badness, even if it's just a little. And that invitation is none other than within ourselves, no one else. Keep introspection, what do we really need in this world?
Bali, The Romantic Tourist Places
Everyone must have known that Bali is one of the most famous and most popular tourist destinations in Indonesia. The island of Bali also has a lot of cultural and natural charm.
Several years ago when I lived in Bali, besides visiting the famous beaches there, I also thank God the opportunity to visit several places that have interesting natural scenery.
One of the place in Bedugul, with a very beautiful and cool view
I think these places have extraordinary natural charm.
The first, Ubud.
All tourists who have visited Bali, would agree that Ubud is the most beautiful place in Bali that offers beautiful, green, calm and peaceful natural views with super cozy accommodation.
However, that is not the only attraction of Ubud. The existence of an art market where we can find high quality handicrafts is also another side of the attraction of this place.
So, it can be said that tourism in Ubud Bali is no less fun and no less exciting than other tourist attractions such as Kuta.
Second, Bedugul
The Bedugul area is a natural tourist destination which in my opinion is also very interesting.
The first impression when I visited there, the place is because it is at an altitude, so it feels a bit cool.
Because it is located at an altitude, it is only natural that this area has a green natural landscape with trees that thrive everywhere.
In Bedugul, interesting places that give me a deep impression include Lake Bratan, on which there is Pura Ulun Danu.
It looks really cool especially when the water is high. This temple looks as if it is floating on water.
But if we want to explore, actually the scenery around the lake is no less beautiful.
The third place is:
The third place to enjoy beautiful natural attractions in Bali is the mangrove forest which is located close to Ngurah Rai Airport.
This place is really fun especially if we visit in the afternoon.
The atmosphere is pleasant, cool, shady and there are many interesting spots that we can use as a place to take photos with beautiful mangrove views.
Actually, apart from the three places above, one thing for sure, in Bali there are still many interesting natural attractions that we can visit.
But because in the past I wasn't that diligent #blusukan, so yeah ... that's all.
In fact, I also often hear that other places such as Nusa Dua, Nusa Penida, and several other areas have exotic natural scenery.
Bali has a romantic side that is truly extraordinary, it's no wonder that all tourist attractions in Bali are always crowded with new people. In addition, many things support the beauty of this island. Yes ... even though I myself have never found the romantic side of Bali with someone special, but you won't regret coming to Bali to enjoy your happy times.
These tourist spots are actually normal, but somehow, everything is different because he is Bali.
Almost all corners of Bali, are beaches. From end to end you will find incredible beaches. Besides that, the scenery is indeed typical of the beach, which differs from one place to another. What I feel, in Tanah Lot, in Kuta, Sanur, Nusa Dua etc., they have a different atmosphere. Anyway .. Bali is everyone's dream destination. Magnificent hotels, malls that are different from the usual and the freedom that exists in Bali is one of the characteristics of the beach too.
Hopefully, someday all read.cash family and I can go on an adventure to visit other beautiful tourist spots in Bali.
How to keep long friendships in college
Human beings are social beings. We need to interact, meet new faces, create new friendships, share our experiences, and grow. University is a perfect environment to develop new friends and grow socially
You need friends to cope up with university / college life. College / university life is so demanding with a lot of activities tasks to accomplish. An extra hand from a good friend is what you need to leverage on the most. We can never be self-sufficient. Studying calls for group work. Borrowing is a must in school. It signifies what a good friend can offer.
The formation of friendship can be easy. But the essential thing is nurturing and maintaining a long friendship in college or university. Human beings are dynamic. How then can we maintain an association with the ever-changing human beings? We shall be sharing some tips of Thesishelpers.com experts here. But before we look at how to keep a friendship, let us first understand why we need college / university friendship.
**For better academic performance**
Students with friends in university perform well in their studies. You need to understand that human beings are social beings. They need somebody to walk within their social life. During hard times they need somebody to empathize with them. On good days they need a person to celebrate together. Friendship makes students emotionally stable and performs well in their academies.
**Socialization skills development.**
Friends help you in socialization. As you socialize, you build on your personality and interaction skills. Fiends will help you grow your knowledge as you exchange ideas. As you teamwork with them, you build on your interpersonal skills. Friendship is very key in helping you grow in all dimensions.
**Maintain consistency in your personality**
People get attracted by personality. You attract a group of individuals who like your character. Strive to be yourself as you keep on interacting with your friends. People like learning their friends and understanding their behavior. That they like a person can predict his / her behavior at an hour of need. To initiate trust and maintain a friendship, have a predictable personality.
**Be jovial**
Have something unique that will keep you stick to your crowd. Be jovial. Friends remembering you and yearning to be in your company. Frequent interactions will cement your friendship together for a long time.
**Be knowledgeable**
Most people love hanging with resourceful people. A person who can challenge their wits and contribute to their knowledge. Having diverse information on a different subject will give you an advantage in building friends. It will help you initiate a conversation that will maintain your socialization. Again different people have different interests and hobbies. Knowing much on a subject will help you blend with many friends regardless of diverse interests. This will glue your friendship on the campus for an extended time.
**Eat together**
People have bonded over food since immemorial. It is not an opposite scenario in university. Sit down with your friends as a family and enjoy meals together. If you cultivate this culture once in a while, you will make campus friendship stick for long.
**Invite your friends for a normal solitary activity**
Stop doing the activities you're considering private alone. For instance, you can invite friends for a fitness walk or run. Create fun in the activity and let everyone enjoy participating in it. Be good.
**Care of your friends**
Be nice to all your friends. Check on them frequently and try to understand and reach out when in need. Maintaining goodness will keep growing your friendship after university.
**Conclusion.**
We all need friends throughout our life. University / college is the best environment to make and grow healthy friendships. To take advantage of the social environment, learn to keep the friendship, and build it past university / college.
Only for Girl - Men shouldn't read it 👼
If only there was a question who would you like to be here, aside from the princesses who will be present in the life to be present, seeing her full of joy and full of pride, "This is my world, and I am the cast of the Queen in it" The kingdom I will build as a household. Beautiful ... # imagine #.
Have you ever thought about who your soul mate will be? Who will be the father of your children, who will be your priest, or who will be a part of your rib. It's interesting not if you think about it all, you / I who live in the village get a match with city people, those of you who live far away meet your soul mate here. It's really not impossible, all is the will of Allah with whom we will match.
The only answer is to know what your ribs look like, how the fragments will come together in one special vessel, **Love**.
*The sweet voices of birds humiliate everything ..*
*Magnificent booths with shining lights ..*
*Sparkling .. so majestic and luxurious ..*
*Everything seemed to disappear .. Swallowed up by time .. Swallowed up the night. Swallowed everything that made the silence ..*
*I own it .. I lean for a taste ..*
*I hope the leaves wave their hands at me without a burden ..*
*As if I want to pay attention ..*
*Through the wind he called me ..*
*Through the water he surprised me ..*
*Through the voices he made me throw myself in a long daydream ..*
*Daydream that brought me to him ..*
*Only to him .. And about him I was able to relate ..*
*I can't move ..*
*I watched him ..*
*Every twinkle of the eye that makes me happy ..*
*today, that day, the day you and I are together ..*
*The day when everything will return to the way it was before ..*
*the day between us .. Farewell .. For a joy ..*
*Stop loving anyone who doesn't love Allah, don't try, don't even try to try to do it. Don't try .. But do whatever makes you comfortable .. Your heart is comfortable .. Your life and for yourself.*
*Allah opens you in His light .. Where else will you ask, of Whom?*
*And under Him, you will find what you have been looking for, a love. And tell him, You're Prince in My Castle.*
Is our way of thinking free?
Narrow thinking is one reason people do not want to make themselves progress. Life experiences and a person's perspective on life will lead to where someone should be. Where there is an opportunity, there should be potentials to be explored, live!
Sample case,
One day, Hera came out of the house, after she knew everything in the house, she now knew what was outside the house. In Hera's house, she only finds things that are commonplace and should be in the house such as TV, cupboards, chairs, tables, beds, salons, as well as paintings that may be attached to empty walls that begin to enliven her home life. The house is alive because of the usual "contents" there.
Meanwhile, when Hera is outside the house, she doesn't even find a chair in the yard, a table in the yard, a painting in an open garden, a bed or a television outside the room. Hera didn't get it all when she was in the room.
A person's way of thinking affects where we are. If we are only in the house, we will know 'only' what is in the house. However, if we are outside the room, we can even see how vast the world is without the boundaries of a 'wall' that is often blind. So free is nature in a life if we are willing to seek and study it.
We don't even realize, so many 'walls' that have handcuffed our thoughts well, do we realize it? Not! We only know what is in front of us, we cannot even see how vast life is outside. We only know table chairs, we don't know gulls flying so freely. We only know television that displays one to 10 leaf colors, but we never know how many millions or even thousands of millions of green leaf colors are on the outside. Are we aware of it?
So many problems in life will arise. If not only the existence of the "table and chair" the parable applies in all aspects of our lives. Career, Job, Love, Match all apply in this law.
Really two different places right, from any side this place is completely different. When we are in the room, whether it's home and so on. We suppose that our life is in a refuge (home). Circumstances in which we feel very good and safe will make us feel good and comfortable, away from harm. Without us knowing it, we only know the shape of that one chair, the chair in the house. Yes … That's it. And if we weren't just in a house that was bordered by a wall, we would find a chair and other types of chairs. Better seats, bad seats, we will all know.
Conclusion
- Whatever problems we currently have, we should be able to survive and little by little to come out and overcome them. If we only know one person whom we know well, there are many other people who might be much better. That's who we are. He will only be an object surrounded by walls that will paralyze our thinking about the wide world. For anything … Trying to make ourselves feel good, we are capable, and we are able to know more of this world.
A self-reflection that takes a lot of time to dare to reveal it. Whatever I thought was good, it turned out to be just a wall that I had to break down immediately, For a better life. Learning how to be yourself is much more difficult than understanding other people. Being honest with yourself is much more difficult than being honest with other people. And now ask ourselves, Is our way of thinking free?
Little Poetry of Love
Lately, hm .. Maybe to be precise in the last few weeks I started to often dwell in front of the laptop. And of course, every time I come back to the laptop the first thing I tell you is just the insignificant remarks about the reason why I'm writing or something. And it seems, my fingers are really stiff when I start typing on this flat from post page.
Yes, a little confiding in my heart about the beginning and finally becoming a habit that is good in my opinion. But there is a little different because obviously I really like poetry, because poetry can represent a mood with words that are raging at that time. It feels like after how long I was here I didn't make or enter the poetry that I had made, maybe this is a good time I want to include my poetry in my writing this time, even though the meaning doesn't mean much to other people but has released a piece of heartache for today.
WHAT'S WITH MY HEART?
*Saturday, December 26, 2020*
*Sometimes...*
*This heart is still often overgrown with jealousy qualities ...*
*Want to be happy for the fun of others ..*
*But he denied it ...*
*Want to smile with the smiles of others ...*
*But jealousy rejects it ...*
*Sometimes...*
*This thought still doesn't accept ...*
*Seeing the success of others ...*
*Enjoy his happiness ...*
*What is wrong with me...*
*What's with my heart ...*
*And what's with my faith ...*
*Should I still be jealous?*
*To those who smile because of the world*
*Should I still be jealous?*
*To those who are happy because of the world ...*
*What is wrong with me...*
*What's with my heart ...*
Don't laugh at it please, because right now, I am in a jealous mood. Yes, jealous of the word love for someone I love but I have not and will not be able to express that I love him. PS: For someone. - **I love you** -
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Tips how to reject someone
This is love, the suffering is endless
That's when someone interprets love, is it true that love is a pain that never ends? What if you reject that love from someone? It must be different from how someone feels.
Love is complicated, what is silent is sinking further, and what is expressed is even messy. Did you experience something in between, silent or expressed? There are only two choices, reject or accept when you start expressing it. Meanwhile, if you choose the silent path, get ready to become food for your own heart and feelings. Get ready to keep peeking at the statuses of Saturday night on his Facebook, get ready to play hide-and-seek, puzzles and something that is not important. The point is it's just lying to yourself.
Then what if it is expressed with the consequences of rejection. This is generally for boys, because girls are a bit shy and shy to reveal their love first. Not like me who is a little shameless.
But if you girls, here I can make something, you don't want to go out, right? Or you don't feel comfortable with someone who loves you # so he said #. Or you still want to enjoy me which is even more beautiful. But it seems that for those of you who have a beautiful face and have good behavior, are already good at saying sweet words how to properly reject someone's love and not hurt at all.
OK, let's just get on with it
The way to refuse someone's first love is: Shut up while blushing, that is ... don't take his words seriously or be as casual as possible. With reason :
*"I'm sorry, It's not that I don't respect you, or reject your love for me. But I'm more comfortable being your best friend than being your boyfriend. Later, I'm reluctant to ask you for anything, I can't share it like now, So it's better now that we are friends. I love you, but not for anything more."*
Or ..
*"Give me time to think, ok?"*
Usually that is what girls say when they refuse love, not the experience, only ever . Who did like you? It doesn't matter.
By asking permission to ask for time, he was unwittingly stalling for time until he completely forgot that he had ever been shot. And maybe someone who says love you already has another. Regretting right ... poor you. But it's patient someone who loves you will not forget their feelings.
Then if you haven't succeeded by rejecting that love because the love is already big for you. Just calm down. There is still a way to Rome. But before that, let me write something about the feeling that: Love exists without a cause, or rather. One does not want to mention why, if she is cute, if she is beautiful and in other cases. Just made "I love you for no reason, I love you with exception, and I love you also without a reason". Mostly, yes. So that it seems romantic and dramatic. Even though, it's not clear !!
And one of the other truest way is to be honest. Someone will really appreciate an honesty. With someone's honesty it will be far from understanding, in fact someone who shoots you and then your refuse can be even more affectionate with you. Say what it is in good, polite, non-offensive and as smooth language as possible.
You must know how to talk to him in good language. So I don't need to explain here, because each individual describes something good differently. It's a different head, it's a different way of thinking, and it's true.
So, those are the tips for rejecting someone's love from me. It's not as easy as making funny and hilarious poetry or funny words, because someone's feelings are not to be played with or made funny, that's not appreciating what he feels. Try to be him, how does that feel. Say what you really feel and be honest in your own language, in a subtle way and try not to offend.
And hopefully, the kindhearted person doesn't have great selfishness. Because according to experience when something is not aligned with what we want, it is a rejection. Love will turn into hatred, that's for those who have high selfishness. Unlike someone who has love with sincerity, move away from it slowly and find a more suitable replacement than him, you know it?
Yes, that's the right way for me when maybe I fell in love with someone then he used the tips on how to reject love that I wrote and then immediately practiced, yes, true friends, I was rejected, * cried blood *. This is only a human feeling, the rest. We can only ask someone who is good to God.
This Friendly Will Never Stop
It's raining hard again ...
The wind blew the raindrops so scattered like flying dust, I can't imagine if I'm out there without a roof, without any protection over my head, and where will I take myself, thank God ... I'm still in a comfortable place, and I'm not there are more reasons for me to complain about my life :).
Earlier before it rained, Lia and I bought a real hodgepodge hihihi, yesterday the post was like a hodgepodge, today we enjoyed it, great chili, that's Lia's request to the seller, we are the type of girl who likes spicy taste, that's what makes Lia , me, and Fuji continue to be single, Maybe. But what is the connection? !, haha.
The unique thing in our friendship is, we are always busy,;)), not on the bus, on the road, at the market, on the net, in supermarkets, at the health center - even where people are sick, they can still be crowded, it was just right when eating hodgepodge I just grabbed the chips, I wanted to eat it with the test , then I grabbed and it fell, before Lia took it, I didn't shy it with the spoon in the middle of the spices, then Lia tried to stop me by staring at my spoon at my spoon, you can imagine what the ramen looks like, If you can't, next time I don't invite you here, but just see, haha.
But after the hodgepodge was finished, the atmosphere became quiet, Ms. Fuji, who lost her mother yesterday, started to open her mouth that had an image, said that tomorrow she can't be like this anymore, can't hang out with the three of us, and can't fight like a child Again with Lia and me, she has to look after her father who lives in his own house, and doesn't return to Jakarta.
Jakarta is where we met, where I, Lia, and Him know each other, talk together, eat meatballs together, have narcissus together, and join together. Now we're going to separate, and this makes me sad. I can't see him in my every day, she sometimes annoys him, because of his stubbornness and sensitive attitude, but I'm glad to see him smiling, narcissistic, and acting in front of me.
I'm sure, he will definitely feel the way Lia and I feel, but I don't want to look sad in front of him, he just needs support, doesn't need to be whining, and I will do that, this is the best, no matter what, old man is the most important person in life, when else we will take care of him, while we can.
Hopefully someday I won't come to tears in front of him on the 3rd, huh .. Just write like this I've already dripped his tears, it's hard to be a crybaby, I can at least get in the way of feelings, I will end up crying.
Rest assured, this friendship still continues, won't stop just because of physical separation, this friendship won't stop, remember that.
*"Friendship never ends just because of a physical separation"*
I like this word, how can I write it like this, [confused]: D? !!
Be wise to choose words as a human being
We, consciously or not, seem to have laughed at someone's physical shortcomings every so often by saying whatever we want. Comparing him with something inappropriate. And things like this are very common especially those that appear on TV entertainment shows, all of which are topics of ridicule and making people foolish.
Moreover, there are a lot of gossip shows, if you happen to watch it, all of them just slander other people. That's why I decided not to watch real local TV shows, especially gossip shows.
Actually, not only on TV, now there are also many artists in it who create YouTube channels whose contents are not much different from something that is made fun of just because their physical form and appearance are not as good as they are when seen with the naked eye. And ironically ... things like this have become viral and well-known. It's very confusing for me, really there are no positive lessons that can be taken from such content.
**Make fun of other people in my opinion**
In the past, I often talked to people without thinking long and wide, I immediately slipped over what was on my mind. It's different from now, if I want to say, think about it for a long, long time.
In the past, with my ignorance, I liked to do body shaming, labeling people with titles they might not like. Hopefully they will forgive me. However, after I grew up I no longer do this. There is wisdom of heart and mind that always breaks my words, There is little religious knowledge that always reminds me not to make fun of Allah's creation, which is so perfect.
My mother always told me, don't let us become ungrateful people and belittle Allah's creation. All humans are created perfect and have their own strengths and weaknesses. By labeling someone with bad things, we are indirectly making fun of His creation.
**Choose a joke that doesn't make fun of his creation**
Surely my friends also often see lots of Instagram accounts whose content is jokes. And their followers are millions. Yes ... for example those who like to make jokes like this Em * n Star, surely know even though I am a censor. At first, I was impressed by his shrewdness in talking about the duration of a minute but it really hit him. I had time to stalk his IG he made through his short video.
However, in one video, if I'm not mistaken about hoaxes, he said that the human who made the hoax was created from soil mixed with chicken droppings. So actually the content is a good topic, but is it not possible if it does not relate to Allah's creation, which is definitely perfect. Think again, are words like this justified? For this I should not say jealous? Tell boss! Yes..
At first, I didn't realize it either, again my mother reminded me of this. I don't know if there are other videos or not. In my opinion, it's a shame, if the creator's content is good, it would be better if the choice of words is not arbitrary. Moreover, it concerns our creator Allah SWT.
**Choose words wisely**
From there, I learned that being a content creator is not easy. Apart from having to spread things that are good and beneficial to others, we are also required to be smart in choosing words when we are going to make something. Because, there will be lots of people watching over us in the future, and above all, of course all of our actions will be held accountable when we have faced Allah.
Not only a content creator, but all of us … no exception. Hopefully we can choose good words when going to write or start something with words.
Death Dream
I was 17 years old when my grandmother, the person closest to me even more than my own parents, passed away. I still remember the calm and shady expression on his face, even though he looked pale, even looked happy.
My grandmother died not because of a serious illness, and that's exactly what she wanted.
My grandmother once said that when it was time to die later, she wanted to die in a condition that didn't bother all her children. Not because of illness and other things that would burden them.
When I heard what he said, I was very young, so I was still naive to judge the meaning of death. Maybe because in the past death had never touched my closest circle of family.
My grandmother and grandfather looked fine, so I felt they would live a long life. More or less an estimate until I was quite old myself. Like my grandmother's aunt, who may have been how old it was, but did not experience serious health problems like other parents her age.
I thought my grandparents used to be like that, live long and live long.
Until then beyond anyone's expectations, the end of my grandmother's age came.
At that time, when I looked at my grandmother's face that seemed calm between the sobs of my mother and my aunt, I understood a little part of the essence of death. Death comes at a time when we least expect it, at a time we cannot expect and predict.
My aunt was crying hard, feeling that my grandmother was so quick and easy to leave them. My aunt complained and regretted many things. Over time spent busy working and taking care of his small family so that he did not have many opportunities to care for his parents. Grandfather who reminded everyone that there should not be tears that dripped down to the body of the grandmother and weighed her away, as well as the mother who was amazed at my reaction.
I stared at my grandmother's body expressionlessly, still having trouble digesting the reality. Without tears, without complaining. Realizing how much I hoped that my grandmother would still be around when I graduated from college and worked. Comfort me with a small massage on the tiny bed where my childhood slept with him before it was too small to accommodate my long legs. Massaging or applying balm on my back whenever I can't sleep because I am too tired or because I think too much.
On quiet rainy nights due to the scarcity of neighbors, my grandmother told me stories from generation to generation and sometimes her own stories. Sometimes the theme is horror because several times he met scary figures, or about his childhood when he was about to marry young when he was about 10 years old and the marriage was quite excited because during his celebration he cried because he was hungry.
I remember quite a lot of things because they were so closely a part of my childhood.
The aunt who ordered me to be close to the body because she thought I was the grandchild of my grandmother who loved me the most. Remembering that I spent the most of my childhood and elementary school with him. I also always took the time after I was a teenager even after college outside the city to visit my grandparents instead of other grandchildren.
I remember what my mother asked when she saw my expression, "Why don't you cry?"
At that time I didn't answer anything and didn't know what to do. Feeling still busy digesting what is going on.
I think there is nothing I should be sad about when I saw how it looked like my grandmother's body, died in good condition and good intentions too, was about to take ablution for prayer. InsyaAllah my grandmother Husnul Khotimah. I have nothing to grieve other than his absence in the future, and that is certainly a form of my selfishness.
At this age, I think that's probably the best. It is true that people who are old, physically and physically weakened memory will make it difficult to move, while there is no longer much desire and hope for achievement in this life. Moreover, my grandmother died according to the conditions she had been talking about. Died quietly without inconveniencing her children.
At this point I finally understood. Whereas people say that it is best to grow old and have a lot of acts of worship rather than die young, the longer we are allowed to live, the more good things we do, but of course there are many bad things that we live consciously or not. For example, surfing in cyberspace for just a moment leads us to read a confused issue about someone we don't know. It could be just slander although it could also be true.
The longer our lives not only increase our chances of increasing our reward, but also increase the opportunities for us to do things that God does not like. Don't forget that the things that Allah doesn't like or doesn't like are lighter and even more interesting to live with than the other way around.
The older we are, the more we will be able to reflect and begin to realize that. The number of things that one by one I understand makes me feel that I too want the same death that my grandmother used to want.
Yes, in the end we live to die and to prepare for death itself.
Immigrants
Lately, I have noticed some changes in myself.
Apart from the gray hair growing ("*hahahaha I'm not that old, just a strand to beautify the writing"*), myopic eyes are increasingly short-sighted and lazy to clean the house let alone cook, there are other changes that I think are due to age factors as well.
Nowadays there is less interest in reading novels, but I prefer reading books that are more serious in tone. And so on is very serious like that. Because the book you are reading is supposedly serious, it is getting harder and slower to finish reading it. Reasonable and acceptable reason right ....
I bought this book in the form of an e-book. It is said that I want to practice the current lifestyle, I want the house not to be overwhelmed by objects, so I try to read through e-books.
Overall, this book is the best. You can read the best reviews here as well. The story of humanity that I think applies to anywhere involving immigrants or immigrants.
The book makes its main object, students from the immigrant community at South High School in Denver. Its author, a well-known journalist, Helen Thorpe, has traced the lives of these 22 immigrant students for a year in and out of their classrooms, at home.
There were moments when reading it, I questioned my way of thinking and my eyes on the immigrants who migrated for the sake of trying to escape the turmoil of living in their own country of origin.
There is one thing that caught my attention when reading this book. This has to do with the education system there.
One of them is the flexibility of the system to meet the needs of these immigrant students. These students need to attend English classes in full for the first few months so that they can adapt to the atmosphere at school. Once the class teacher is satisfied with the student's ability, they will be absorbed into the advanced class.
Another interesting thing is that the flow of information between different ministries is happening quickly and effectively. In the case of The Newcomers, one of these immigrant students had a serious accident. After some time in the hospital, the doctor who treated him thought, healing would happen faster, if this student returned to school and socialized with his friends.
The best thing is, the first day the student arrives at school, the staff at the school have already been informed by the hospital about the condition of the student and his counseling teacher is ready with the student health record that has been received from the hospital. Not even received from parents. Because the mother of this student is an immigrant who finds it difficult to communicate with the locals.
The smoothness of this information sharing business is very difficult to see in our country.
Meanwhile, when healthy students move to school, there are co-curricular marks dropouts for various reasons. While it is in one ministry. Not to mention, if the health problems involving two different ministries.
The end of the pen ......... I rarely use the last word of the pen, try reading this book, a little difference may be in the reading genre of all my friends.
Happy writing and making a useful article.
Maybe someone is stuck in traffic jams right now. I pray that God will make it easy.
This is not a Recycle Bin
The virtual world is not much different from the real world. Even though it's only a virtual world, not a few people use it as a place to complain, get angry and even cheat. Indeed, since I got to know the virtual world, I saw a lot of good things, but also the negative things were more than the positives.
It is true that we as humans also need something called food, now to meet our food needs, of course, money is needed. And in conditions like today, where everything is very much affected by the impact of Covid-19 which has taken many lives and takes our place to make a living. Where there are many bankruptcies and slumps for economic problems. Yes, we are facing difficult problems today due to the impact of Covid-19.
But those are not our reasons for being uncivilized and humane. Why do I say uncivilized and human, because an act that harms other people can also be categorized as uncivilized action? Where only selfish.
Returning to the first point, cyberspace is not much different from the real world, do you spammers like to be harmed in your real life? Yes, of course you will answer the same, not that no one wants to be harmed.
If you don't want to be harmed, then you should be aware (spammers) to try to be more real and kind and civilized. This is where the trash cans are where you make articles from various places, then put them here, this is where you can give comments as you please. And here is not a synonym to accommodate all your actions that are considered trash in a community.
Act like many civilized humans, if you realize whether you are getting the result of all your uncivilized actions. Are you proud to give yourself from the results that are not good and civilized? That is the same as you subject yourself to the misfortune and dissatisfaction of the problem of God's promised gift.
Remember that cyberspace is not a place where we bring out our vices, crimes, and negativity here just because no one really knows who we are. But remember one important thing and foremost God always knows what we do. Good, bad, good, hidden or bright. God knows everything and we will account for it someday.
The problem of dissatisfaction with the results or income from the business that we do is not us who judge it, but effectiveness and honesty are the main values, don't overly raise the problem of jealousy for the success of others. But make it a motivation for how we can succeed and exceed the people who have earned success from their efforts.
Hopefully this article can open our insights and our hearts to be aware, improve ourselves and provide positive things from a technological advancement.
Running away from the problem?
**Hello, dears! 😀**
I didn't feel it, this main house was starting to get dusty, I was so absorbed in playing in the new house, which was full of charm, excitement and the new opportunities it offered. Which house, All?
This one, ok! The new home on the read.cash planet! Have you ever heard of it? Eits, it's not that I don't love the house that has carved my name beautifully on the grandmother's yard, but because I'm really excited about learning about this new house. What is unnoticed, on day 7 opening a stall here, has given quite a good deal. Thank's God. Hopefully the BCH dollar stream will flow smoothly in the future, from post to post. Aameeen.
**Run away from trouble, should you?**
However, today, I don't want to talk about that new house, anyway. But want to tell about the title above. Yes. Sometimes, many of us, accidentally do it. Run away from Troubles, because they can not face him. What is even sadder is that many of us actually harbor problems, because they feel that it is better than being expelled and finding a solution.
**You can't imagine what the case is?**
This one, you know! It so happened that a friend had just confided in, telling the attitude of a friend who had suddenly changed. Stay away from it without explanation. Hm, is there anything like that, Al?
Hayyah, why are you still asking? Try to look inside yourself, lest we have been like that ourselves. Because I feel bad if I come clean. Fear of offending the friend, so we choose to retreat without explanation. Even though something like this, the pain is even more painful than being honest with your friend. Even though it will make him sick, however, he will know what to do with it, and the possibility to improvise, the possibility to improve his attitude is wide open, so we don't have to sacrifice a friendship, right?
Unfortunately, in this world, there are still many who choose to run away from problems, don't want to reveal them, let alone solve them bravely. Yep, it's really unfortunate isn't it? Imagine, time will drag on, wasted. Horizons was wide open. The friend who is shunned will think the things. Couldn't help but became sad, but I didn't know what was wrong. It's not really good if we experience something like this?
**Don't Run from Problems, But Face it Bravely**.
Yes, I am one of those who will immediately pursue the parties to solve problems. For example, I have 3 close friends, who are usually always compact and support each other. However, at one time, called life, we had a dispute. Shut up and walk away. Now then, I'm the most uncomfortable with situations like this, sobs!
Then I'll try to seat all sides. Inviting everyone to have a cool head, discuss. The story of sitting down is the case with a clean and spacious heart, and then, when the grievances have been released, the heart becomes calmer, the head has both cooled down, then the way out will usually be seen more clearly. Yes or not, sobs?
But yes that was it, all. Humans are different. There are those who do settle the problem first, then sometime, if you are cool, just talk about it, if you remember. !
Or worse, all. Some pretended there was no problem. Trying to forget, and time passes out of control. The hearts are suspicious of each other, emotions compete with each other in the endless cold war. It's sad like this. Hhahaha.
What about you? What solution do you do if your friendship is constrained like this? Run away from problems and pretend everything is ok? Or sit it all down, brainstorm and find a solution?
Share in the comments column please!
Karma Will Apply
Have you never heard the word 'Karma Will Apply'? Or have you experienced it yourself? If this happens, surely everyone will be more careful in saying and behaving inappropriately. Is not it?
The term karma itself comes from the beliefs of the people who adhere to the Hindu - Buddhist religion, which means that all bad actions that have been done will have consequences for the perpetrator in the future. The term karma itself is the original language from Sanskrit called karma phala.
It can be concluded that the Law of Karma Phala means: A rule or punishment from the results of an action.
One of the Panca Srada (Six Hindu Religions) is the law of karma phala where the law of karma phala is a philosophy that contains ethics which means that Hindus believe in results in an act.
Karma is often associated with the world's laws of cause and effect. Then the question is whether later everyone will get karma or a reward that is worth what they have done in the past? In fact, everyone who has done something wrong will be rewarded.
But it depends on how you respond to it, because everyone has their own opinion. Regarding that, if you believe in karma, and don't want to feel pain because of it. You have to see the 5 following reviews.
**1. Heart and mind**
Every human being who lives in this world has been given 2 mindsets, namely heart and mind. Every behavior that you will do is created from a mindset that is connected to your heart and mind. If you have bad thoughts then everything you will do will be bad and in the future you will get the reward.
**2. Attitudes and behavior**
Furthermore, what you have to watch is your attitude and behavior. After you have succeeded in overcoming your mindset, then you have to take care of your attitudes and behavior so you don't get hit by karma. If you have bad attitudes and behavior and do something bad too, then be prepared for yourself to be rewarded.
**3. Eyes or sight**
The eye is one of the sense organs that is very vulnerable to being used for something that is not supposed to be. Sometimes the eyes are used to see something that is not good to see and usually the habit of seeing something bad will happen to you because too often you see what you are not supposed to see and over time it becomes your attitude and behavior.
**4. Ears or hearing**
Like eyes, ears are also vulnerable to something. Moreover, it concerns something that you shouldn't hear, such as gossip or stories that have no connection and benefit to you.
**5. Mouth or speech**
Taking care of the mouth or what is commonly called guarding speech is as important as the first and fourth points, especially the mouth is a very important sensory tool in social life. Sometimes someone who cannot keep his words, usually will spread false or fake news, spread slander to the more fatal ones can cause the loss of someone's life.
Maybe these 5 things you should know, but don't just know, at least you also have to remember them, and you also have to apply them to your daily life. Because we live in a world where technological developments are very fast and information dissemination is also fast, especially the issue of HOAX we often hear.
So that in the future maybe we can avoid karma or something that we don't want, hopefully it is useful and thank you.
The Most Stunning Waterfalls In The World
The waterfall is indeed famous as one of the spectacular natural beauty. Enjoying the beauty of the waterfall can make us feel refreshed and calm. Like heaven on earth, the beauty of waterfalls in the world is indeed very interesting for us to visit. Therefore, I have compiled a list of the 5 most stunning waterfalls in the world. Let's see together!
**Sekumpul Waterfall, Indonesia**
Hidden behind the mountains and steep cliffs of Buleleng, Sekumpul waterfall is the next waterfall in the world that has a stunning view. Standing majestically at an altitude of 80 meters from the bottom of the cliff, the Sekumpul waterfall is one of the waterfall destinations that you shouldn't miss. Not only is the waterfall formation stunning, the Sekumpul waterfall is also shaded by green and fresh tropical forest. Surely a sight that you cannot find anywhere else.
The journey that you have to take to reach the Sekumpul waterfall is not easy. If you depart from Denpasar, you have to drive approximately 2.5 to 3 hours to Buleleng. However, don't worry, along the way you will be spoiled with beautiful views. You can see everything from plantations, rice fields, to the enchanting Lake Bratan on your way to Sekumpul waterfall. Your journey is not finished until you reach the waterfall entrance. When you get there, you have to descend hundreds of steps that continue along the edge of the cliff. While descending hundreds of steps, you will be treated to a beautiful view of a tropical forest that is very refreshing, you know.
**Baatara Gorge Falls, Lebanon**
Baatara Gorge Waterfall is one of the waterfalls in the world with the most amazing views. The waterfall, which was first discovered by Henri Coiffait in 1952, was formed from the erosion of limestone for millions of years. The beauty of Baatara Gorge waterfall is perfect because of the natural stone bridge formations and the millions of years old cliff and cave formations coupled with the vegetation around this nature reserve site. Not only rock formations, the waterfall itself is a natural masterpiece where water flowing from the top of the cliff immediately falls into a natural sinkhole with a height of 255 meters.
The trip to Baatara Gorge waterfall is not easy, you have to drive 76km which is approximately 2 hours drive from the capital city of Lebanon, Beirut. You can rent a vehicle, but it is preferable to take a taxi or ask a local guide who knows more about the terrain there.
**Yosemite Falls, United States**
Also known as the “Yosemite FireFall”, Yoesmite Waterfall is one of the most beautiful and majestic waterfalls in the world. This waterfall, located in California, United States, has a height of more than 400 meters from the base of the cliff. One of the uniqueness of this waterfall is that its flow is divided into three, namely: Upper Yosemite Falls (425m), middle cascades (206m), and Lower Yosemite Falls (98m). As one of the highest waterfalls in the world, Yosemite Falls is a natural wonder with unquestionable beauty.
If you are curious about the Yosemite fire waterfall phenomenon, you must come to this nature reserve site at the right time. You can only see Yosemite Fire Falls, or Yosemite FireFall in mid to late February. This is because at that time the position of the setting sun will shine right on the flow of the waterfall, making it feel like fire.
To reach Yosemite Falls you have to go through a hiking trail that starts at Camp 4 and crosses the Valley Loop Trail. You will follow a winding path in the middle of a forest of oak trees, until you finally find the majestic Yosemite waterfall.
**Victoria, Zambia & Zimbabwe Falls**
Victoria Falls is one of the largest waterfalls in the world. Located on the Zambesi river that forms the border between Zambia and Zimbabwe, Victoria Falls is like a majestic stretch of water curtain. This waterfall is also referred to as "The Smoke that Thunders" by the Kololo tribe. The Kaolo tribe is an indigenous tribe that lives in the area. Victoria Falls stretches majestically 1,688 meters wide with a height of 108m from the base of the cliff. The current is very fast causing this waterfall to be seen from tens of kilometers away. But the beauty of Victoria Falls doesn't stop there. This waterfall is also surrounded by a stretch of green forest that is so beautiful and refreshing.
To reach Victoria Falls you can drive from the town of Livingstone which is to the north of this waterfall. From there you can start driving south, along the 11km Mosi-oa-Tunya road. Before meeting the border with Zimbabwe, you will find a parking lot where you can park your vehicle and continue your journey on foot to and around Victoria Falls.
**McWay Falls, United States**
The next waterfall is very unique because this waterfall is also the mouth of a river that ends in the ocean. McWay Waterfall, located in California, United States, flows directly onto the sand of the beach that borders the Pacific Ocean. The beauty of this McWay waterfall is very unique because it is combined with the beautiful views of white sand beaches and rocky cliffs which are immediately greeted by waves from the blue ocean.
To reach McWay waterfall, you just have to go to Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park to drop your vehicle there. Then you can walk through the tunnel under the Pacific Coast toll road. From there you can continue the journey by climbing the stairs to the top of the cliff. Arriving at the top of the cliff, you will find a waterfall in this very unique world.
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Fortune Will Not Go Anywhere
Once upon a time, there was doubt in Imam Zahid's heart about the truth of the teaching which said that all fortune came from God the Most Rich, not from the rulers who governed the country, nor did it come from businessmen who pay the salaries of all their employees every month.
Imam Zahid's doubts stem from his observations of the people around him. He saw that there were people who worked casually, but not too long ago they were already rich. On the other hand, there are many people who work hard day and night but always live in poverty.
Imam Zahid actually thought that that was the greatness of God. That is clear evidence that every item of his fortune is the one who governs and determines it. That means, no matter how hard people work, if He doesn't pour out his fortune then everything will be in vain. That person will never be rich. On the other hand, no matter how lazy a person is, it is possible to suddenly become rich if God pours out a mountain of fortune on him through unexpected means.
However, Imam Zahid then thought that if that was the case, then God was unjust. The period of pouring out so much luck to lazy people, and otherwise only shedding a little fortune on those who have worked hard. In fact, he firmly believed that God is Just and Most Wise!
Intrigued, Imam Zahid retreated into a cave at the top of a mountain that has never been touched by humans. He deliberately didn't bring any provisions. “I want to know how God will feed me in a place that no one knows. I wanted to know how good luck God poured out when there was only me in that place, "he said to himself, lying on the cold floor of the cave and soon he fell asleep.
As narrated by Ahmad Najieh in his book entitled "50 True Stories", soon a group of lost trading caravans appeared. At the same time it rained heavily, so the caravan took shelter into the cave and of course they saw Imam Zahid sleeping soundly alone. The Faith himself actually knew that many people were coming, but he did not open his eyes and pretended to be asleep.
Several people from the caravan then tried to wake him up, but Imam Zahid did not open his eyes nor make a sound. So the wealthy merchants thought that the man who lived alone was very tired because of hunger. They then thrust food and drink into his mouth, but Imam Zahid remained silent. The traders' suspicions were getting stronger, it was believed that the person was dying so that his nose was no longer able to smell the smell of the food being handed out.
They then agreed to force open his mouth and put a piece of bread plus a few drops of drink. Treated in such a way, even Imam Zahid could no longer hold back his laughter. “I'm actually fine, not starving like you think. I just want to know how God will give fortune to each of His servants wherever they are, "he said.
That is, the fortune from God the Most Rich is always bestowed on anyone and in a way that cannot be predicted or even engineered. Fortune can be in the form of rewards from work, it can also just appear without us knowing why.
That the fortunes of each person are not the same is a real sign that God Almighty Determines Everything. Fortune is not always compatible with hard work or laziness. The problem is, wealth or poverty is not just a matter of how much or less fortune God bestows, but also as a test to those concerned: can the rich stay normal and share their wealth with those who have none? And, can the poor be grateful for their poor existence by still remembering the greatness of God Almighty?
@Greating
