Have you experienced hurt on a higher level caused by someone? If they ask for forgiveness, forgive them for your peace of mind but you do not have to reconnect with them. Not letting someone to reconnect with you after they hurt you does not mean you are holding grudges- it only means you respect and protect yourself from being hurt again. There are people who deserve second chances and there are people who do not. But at the end of the day, it is your decision whether you will let them in your life again or not. Just choose wisely whom you want to rebuild relationships with. Never allow yourself to be abused over and over again by the same person. Remember forgiveness does not require reconnection...
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Who doesn't have such an experience I wonder!?! I'm not sure about forgiveness, I know that these people stay for ever far away from me!
Well I guess everybody already experienced that and I respect your decision.