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The 1% crazy *It is good to be listening to the 1% right people than listening to the 99% wrong people.* *Be consistent in what so ever you are doing don't listen to people's opinion by stop doing what would really help you in the future.* *The future belongs to the 1% classes of people, it's said that nothing just happen but thinking makes it so.* Most people that change the world to what we have today are the classes of 1% set of people, there are the types of people that were asked by the group of friends if they are crazy. It's not every body that would appreciate what you are doing right now, already you know and have the understanding that you can't be loved by everyone and you can't also be hated by everyone one at least one person would appreciate what you have or what you are doing. There's always crisis at the curve of change, at the curve of change where new things will happen doesn't always comes easy, but then we need to put in all our skills and also encourage ourselves, since we have the night next would be the morning. People that change the whole world doesn't really makes sense at the beginning but they letter make sense when they are able to produce a good result, examples of the 1% people that didn't really make sense at the beginning are people like Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and person like Thomas Edison. From their story if you really want to deeply into it you will see that when this people came up with their ideas the were discourage by their friends and people around them, someone like Bill Gates were asked by his friends if he is crazy but that didn't stop him from doing what was more important to him. Learn to be crazy We learn to be crazy sometimes let our kind vision and ideas be seeing by our friends as if we are crazy, because if we come up with what they don't understand they will start thinking if we are insane because what is unknown to a man looks to him like magic. Crazy people always makes things happen, they causes unquestionable things to take place, it's said what a mad man sees and start running after doesn't seeing or notice by the normal set of people. Some keys to become part of the 1% crazy Who are you listening to? What are you thinking about? And what are you doing? Who are you listening to? The small lion will also behaves like the lion because it's listening to the lion and it's will also be a wild animal like the mother, a lion can not behave like a goat and a goat can not behave like a lion they both have their own way of living. It is very good to listen to the 1% right people than listening to 99% wrong people, if we must truly succeed we have to screen the people that we are taking advice from and the people we learn from because it's who we hear from will eventually determine our future. What are you thinking about? Our thoughts and feelings about ourselves and what we are able to do, become the sum total result of a lifetime of experience and it's also have a little contribution to what is possible for us. Are we thinking about possibilities or impossibilities, what we downloaded inside is what we will give out, if we learn to think big we will also have it big, and if we always think small we also have it small, it is garbage in garbage out. What are you doing? I read about the story of an eaglets where the eagle and the hen laid eggs together in one place though the eagle's egg was only one, when it was time to hatch both the eaglets and the hen chicks emerge, and when it was about some weeks the eaglets discover that it could fly more than the chicks, it then realized that that is not where it is coming from, it discover itself and when back to the mother. The same thing with humans it's good to discover who you really are, and where you belong to because the future belongs to those who knows where they belong. Do what you want to do and don't take any permission from any circumstances because they do not take permission from you. Conclusion Don't listen to what people are saying only watch them and don't stop doing what you suppose to do do. You may listen to every advice but don't take all of them into practice, leave the bad once and take the good ones into actions. And I would once again advice you to listen to the 1% right people instead of wasting your time and resources on the other 99% wrong people whom you wouldn't benefit from. Thanks for reading. ***Lead image from source***

You will rise again *It is not how many times you fall down that matters, it's how many times you rise up again.* *If you fall down today you rise again tomorrow, that you fall down doesn't determine the end of your life.* For the fact that you are down doesn't mean you should lose hope in life, still keep your hope strong knowing that if it doesn't works today for you it will definitely work out for you tomorrow. You can never be down forever, the night that looks so boring and dark would definitely comes the day, and when the sun goes down the stars and moon would shine. The down fall of a man is never the end of his life they say, if a man experience with hardships and struggling today, that doesn't mean he will continue to stay in suffering for the rest of his life. Background doesn't mean your back should be on the ground forever, that you're not from a good background doesn't mean when you fall down that you can rise again, who said you can't rise again? Can you proof a point to them that you can rise again and stands strong. We all know that no one wants to be born into suffering and also die in suffering, that's would be so painful and unprofitable, we also need the best out of life but life doesn't really give us what we need or desire at the time, we need to strive harder at this juncture in other to bring out the best in us. No one also wants to be poor in life because poverty is really a sin, everyone are afraid of being a poor person we all want to be rich so that we can be of help to our parents, siblings, love ones and also to people in our society. Most people prayer is that God should bless them at their young age, and I am seeing this as a very good prayer points because if God blesses us early in life, not in our old age we would really enjoy it more than the old age time. In as much as there's life there's hope also for the living it's only the death that hope has gone, there is always a possibility for the dry bone to rise again, there are many opportunities for the living and that is for sure and no body can change it. You will definitely rise again from the fall and when failing learn to fall forward and don't fall backward because it will be very difficult to get up when failing backward, but if you can fall forward it will be a little simple for you to rise up again There would be a day A day can not finish with only one day, there are many days and many chances. Night only falls for the eyes and not for the stomach, because stomy is an innocent it's doesn't know what is happening except the eyes that would be able to detect the darkness. There would definitely be a day that you will rise up from your fall and people would congratulate you, people would likely come to celebrate with you and you will testify of what God has really gone for you. A day would come where people who never wanted to hear from you will come seeking for help from you and you will be happy helping them out. You will bounce back For sure ups and downs in life are real people gain and also loss in business, so the same with life lessons and in business it doesn't mean when people witness losses the quit from it, no most business tycoon knows the law that if they witness losses today they might gain profit tomorrow. So in life you might be you where on top yesterday and today you see yourself going down ay things begin happening to you the way you didn't expect it to be, all I can say is that you will bounce back again. Conclusion Life is like trading coins it might rise up in market today and goes down in market tomorrow, here if you witness losses do you kill yourself? no you won't kill yourself you will move on knowing you can also have gain tomorrow. What really encourage me to write on this particular topic is when I met with a friend of mind yesterday and he started complaining to me how life had treated him badly, that he doesn't know if his sins is more worser than that of other people. He told me that his business that used to keep food on his table is no more working at all, that everything thing has turned up side down even most of his friends that suppose to render help to him has abandon him. And all he laids his hands on is not working out for him that he has so much suffered in this that he came, that he doesn't know the crime he has committed. I then encourage him that there's a possibility for him to rise again that he should not lose his hope in life. I told him that if he is talking about going through hardship that he has not seen half of suffering that people are undergoing and still rise at the end. And also to some people reading this article you might be going through hardship and disappointment and think that your own has finally locked up, I still want to let you know that you will be surely rise up again. Thanks for reading.. ***Lead Image source from Unsplach***

The finger that pulled the trigger *It doesn't matter the person that holds the gun, but what really matters most is the finger that pulled the trigger.* *And it's not that the knife is not sharp enough to cut, but it's the person that holds the knife that matters.* There are people that makes impact and there are people that makes noises without creating any history or making things to manifest, while people making impact will just make things happen without shouting or alarming. The people that would eventually cause things to happen are like the finger that pull the trigger, we know the finger that pulled the trigger plays the most important part, though others part of the body would also contribute to it but the most important person here that does the great job is the finger. The mouth can be making some noises like I will shoot while the eyes would be on focus and the mind would be passing information to the hand but the last man to do the final finishing is the finger, it's the finger that will pull out the trigger and that's where things would happen. There are people that are just making noises without creating impact, they are other parts like the eyes which is just focusing and the mind is passing information, though we know that everything is coming out from the mind which is the inner, but the outer reaction is been taking place by the finger so those without performance are like that, and those making impact are classified into the finger. There are most people that can handle a gun and without knowing what to do with the gun or how to operate it, some might even die with their gun with them without making the use their good weapon. Most people can simply handle a good sharpen knife and still die with it, not that they don't know the used of the knife but they don't have what it takes to used the knife. They are most people that can create impact with the little opportunity given to them, and they are some that can abuse the privilege and take it as a contact point of causes violence and insulting others through the opportunity given to them. Learn to create impact than making noises Learn to create impact rather making noises or causing violence among others, it's doesn't matter the person that handle the gun, what matters most is the finger that pull the trigger for the bullet to come out. I would say that most people sometimes have the huge and the desire to shoot but the finger becomes stiff and hard to carried out the operation correctly, at this point some motivational speaker would say if you have tried your best and your best doesn't bring out success then know that your best is not enough. Learn to be a helping hand, become the finger that pull the trigger and defend others from been harm, that one bullet that your gun would have release could be so important and would have be of help to so many people around you. The Gun The meaning of a gun from the English dictionary defines gun as a device for projecting a hard object very forcefully. It can also be seen as a device operated by a trigger and acting in a manner similar to a firearm. Here we can clearly understand the meaning of what gun simply means, it's a firearm that kill through projecting a hard object which can fastly kills, and they are people that if a gun is pointed on them they will like become scared and would want to confess all their crime. Gun can be seen as a little weapon that carries influence, it can easily kill from a distance. Bullet The bullet is use in the gun, it's the entire round unfire ammunition It's include the cartridge casing, the projectile and the propellant charge and the bullet is what normally kills when is been release out to penetrate in the part of the human body. Trigger This is a part that plays a vital role in a gun, the trigger helps the gun to release out a bullet with force. Trigger in a gun is a finger operated lever used to fire a gun. The bullet and the trigger are all in the gun, the finger comes in as the human power knowing the gun won't just fix up its self and shoot, and plays a good part at the same time by pulling the trigger to fire out the bullet. Conclusion So we might have the gun well prepared fix with a bullet and kept without having the finger to pull the trigger, here the gun will remain useless. Sir Isaac Newton stated in his law of motion that the object will continue to be in it's point of rest until it's acted by an external force. It is not about who handle the gun that matters, it's the finger that pull the trigger that matters, the finger is where the action is been taking place why the eyes focusing is just a contribution and suggestions to the the finger. Have a very good vital role to play in people's lives be a solution to people's problem, be the finger that pull the trigger. Thanks for reading. ***Lead Image from credited source***

We all need a shoulder to climb on *Show me the most successful man on the planet earth and I will tell you the amount of contributions in terms of advice and help he has gotten from others.* *A tree can not just form a forest ,a forest is made up of some different trees, and other plants.* *And moreover no matter how big a finger is, it can't remove a lice from the hair it takes the help of two fingers to do such.* *Even a blocks can't form a house the house is made up different mixtures like water sand and humans knowledge for a building to be produced.* Everyone in the world succeed through the help of other people, people succeeded while helping others to succeed too, and nobody in today's world does need help in this world even the most richly person all needs advice from others. No one just make it on his own knowledge without getting support from anyone, we all needs help from people if truly we must succeed in life You need me and I also need you to survive, we all have our area of duties and our purpose in life, we have others handling some offices and some professions like the teachers, doctors, nurses, engineers seamstress, the tailors the carpenter, and others occupation they all have a part to play just to rescue others from suffering. We all need shoulder to climb on, we all need the support of others and there shouldn't be any needs of despising others, knowing everyone matters in the society and if they fail to play their part or their own responsibility they would be lapse in some areas. We can truly see that if the teachers fail to carry out their own duty by stopping teaching our young coming ones, image how the world would looks like without learning everyday and discovering new things every day, and discovering new things comes as a result of everyday's learning, the world wouldn't be a better place for me and you to leave all these new technologies are been manufactured through learning. The sick people really needs the help of the doctors and nurses to survive, we can't count many times people handling this profession have delivered people from death and preventing many from deathly diseases, just like when the Corona virus struck the world the kind of help those people have rendered to the world. We need a shoulder to climb on, people like engineers they have really play a vital role our daily lives we only have many types like civil engineers, mechanical engineers, marine engineers and others profession, they have really helped us and make life easier for everyone. The civil engineers have really help us by giving us where to live and the roads we are driving freely. The tailors and the seamstress have really help to reduce the amount of nakedness all over the the world, they have really helped both in sowing clothes to cover our nakedness and providing for the needs of people in the winter and both in the summer. The same happens with the carpentry works there have really being of more help to us in the society, they have been of more help by producing a relaxing stuff like producing the furniture chairs, doors, beds and others. And so as others occupations have done. We all need a shoulder to climb on in other to see the vision clearly We all need a shoulder to climb on to see the future afar and to see the vision clearly and having a right understanding to pursue life in a straight direction. It would be so difficult if we begin a journey we do not know or have any knowledge about the destination, we will always end up being lost, It is just like someone going to the school without knowing the proper aim of him going to school such fellow would always be confused and become stranded because he doesn't know what he truly wants from school and why he is in school. Climbing others shoulder can still be interpret as acquiring wisdom and skills from those who have gone ahead of you in the same area you are targeting, it is easily to be successful when getting support by people. Life is just like football game where it's played by a team where most goals score by some players are score through taking passing from one other to another until they score a goal, so life is just like that it is through contribution and co- operation. Conclusion I have read some many stories about people who helped others to achieve success by showing them the way forward, it's not an easy task for someone accepting to create a space on his or her shoulder in other for another person to climb and become successful. When we meet with such people of such minds we shouldn't fail to appreciate their efforts. We should never forget those who saw the seal in us and gave us a helping hand in life. Thanks for reading ***Image source from Unsplach***

Ability in disability *There's ability in every disability, disability shouldn't be enough reasons for us to end up as a failure.* *There's always a way out in every challenge, real difficulties can be also overcome so as ability can be found in disability.* There's ability in disability there most be a way, even if going through the process might be a little difficult, but difficulties can also be overcome by the strong men and those who knows what they really wants. There are some people who wouldn't want to know if impossibility is still in existence all they know is that everything is truly possible, their believe is once they have the secret they're ever good to go. There's ability in disability but it takes the understanding mind to go in search for such secret, anyone that doubt there's no ability in disability you will sit and watch others succeeding while you are still relaxing your mind with pessimistic thoughts. Fears sometimes can cause someone not to have reason of seeing the possibility in every impossibility, if there no ability in disability that means the air plane wouldn't fly on the air, the speed boat wouldn't flow on top of the river, the car wouldn't move from one place to another transporting people from different places to another with spead and even carrying load adding load on it. We can truly see that there's always an ability in every disability, Wilbur and Orville Wright saw that there's ability in disability and only what they needed was the formula and finally when they got the formula they came out with some tangible and interesting to show to the world whole that there is always possiblity. And we can see that if Wright brothers didn't come up with the understanding that there's always a way out, and that real difficulties can be overcome, and it is only the imaginary ones that can be unconquerable and move towards the direction of their dreams without sitting down to imagine it. And the same thing with Gottlieb Daimler and Friedick Lurssen and others who saw the possibility of making a boat to flow on top of the water without giving an excuses that even a small stone can easily sink in the water talk a lot of making of a boat that is much heavier than the stone to flow on top on of the water. They saw ability rather than disability, they saw possibility rather than impossibility, they saw success instead of failure and then going through the process they really new that if they fail that they will still keep trying. Karl Benz saw the possibility and ability of making an object to move from one place to another been control by a person called driver and having the possibility of taking people like passenger to and fro in other to make means of transportation easier for travellers so as a man of optimistic he decided to turn things the other way round by invented a car. And all this things mentioning here as really been of help to everyone in today's life and it's really makes life easier and faster for everyone, and I really like people who don't take any opportunity for granted. Meaning of Ability Everything comes from the mind so the word ability comes from the mind it's the unique power that lies in the mind it's the capability of seeing the possibilities, it's can also be seeing as the power to able to do the necessary things successful without looking back, you can do whatever you desire or you want in life when the ability is there, when the mind desire for a particular thing the ability would be available. Meaning of Disability This can be seen as absent of competent, having no means or lacking what it takes to do what you you really aspire for. Disability is just like unable disable not being able to do things due to lack of strength or lack of understanding. In most cases disability can be seen as those without legs to walk or eyes to see they all classified to handicap but they can also survive and still make names of course I have seen so many handicap artist and some handling others positions. There's ability in disability and every disability can be turn to ability There's always an ability in every disability and it's possible to turn the impossibilities to possibilities it's all from the mind set, it is the mind that controls your thoughts so there's always a way to survive in the desert, dry land can produce water by the power of possibilities. Everything is possible There's ability in disability, it's all depend on what you want in life Inability can be turn to ability From incapacity to capacity. From incompetence to competence. From impotence to potence. From disqualification to qualification. From weakness to strength. Conclusion When others sees disability other are seeing ability, disability is not seeing by everyone, but it is those that knowy what they really want for themselves. A blind man and a lame man can still survive, what marvels me to write with this topic is when I saw a lame man leading a blind man, and thery I heard of their story I learnt that they are all living successfully through contributing to each other what this one could not do then the other would help each out. From what I saw and the story I heard I know that there's ability in disability. Thanks for reading. **Lead Image source Unplash**

Stop and start again *When you feel tired stop and start again, the word stop is not the same meaning with quit, quitting is the language of the losers but stop and start again is a little tactics of the winners.* *When it looks as if you would lose in the battle relax and come up again with another ideals and strategy.* Stop and start again is a skill we have to bring in when facing with challenges and vicissitude of life, is just a little way of relaxing and gaining strength and understanding where to start when rising up again. Stop and start again gather momentum and go with speed estimate where to put in force and more energy in other to succeed rather than failing, estimate the distance to where your target would cover. There are sometimes in life that we the humans have to resit back and plan further, it might be the first plan and how we plotted our life graph failed us at the point we don't need to quit all we need to do is to resit back and rethink again to see where the mistake comes in. We might really think that we are so good in planning but unknowingly to us there were still lapse in the plan we carried over before, two good heads are far better than one they say, in most cases I would say that in stopping and starting again don't just keep only you as a person but it's needs more sensible people's contributions. In the aspect of stopping and starting we need people to gain knowledge from, that's to say people that has gone ahead of us in the system, People like coaches and mentors to ask questions from. Stop and start again don't see it as if you're burning your time, even in the game of soccer ball we have what we called half time and this is when the players would relax by taking some water and preparing themselves to go the next half which is second half, this is something we should also learn to do, This is also a kind of skills because normally they know that if the players plays the whole ninty minutes without relaxing that some of them would get tired no matter how strong they are, human beings are humans beings they are not machine or robot even if the machines stop functioning well when they require servicing. And I personally learn that each time these players return back after relaxing the power hand would change totally just because their different coaches have been able to give them some strategy and all it takes to win the composition. Or should we still talk about the skills of stopping and starting again in wrestling, where the boxers would get relax after a given round and you will see that some of the boxers do received skills from their coaches on where to target and how to be successful in the game, there's no much about these it just a matter of operating life with sense. Meaning of stop With my little understanding stop can be seeing as a process of where by someone stay, or spend a short time by relaxing or to reside temporarily. Stop is really to take break and and resume again; taking break and resume to a particular work would give you more energy and skills to deliver the work rather than quitting when been tired To stop to be continued from there here losers minds would not think about starting again they wouldn't focus on stop to be continued, when it's pause it's pause there's nothing like starting again. Meaning of start The word start is simply the beginning of something after taking a break is to be continue from where you discontinued, starting from where you pause ro relax, starting is where you gain strength to be continue. And this is normally a beginning point of any race or any composition Stop and start again doing a good thing at the right time is not time wasted Any in thing you are doing it's very advisable to stop and start again, to stop and start again is not a wasting of time rather it's a skill of gaining strength to strive harder and get a good result. Here I have a short story about the power that lies in the process of stopping and starting again, there's one wood company that normally specializes on exporting of fire wood and charcoal to some difference countries, So it happens they were using one wood sawyer who used to bring down firewoods for the company and pieces the whole wood and also seperate them using his wood saw to some difference categories, that's the ones to be used for firewood and the once for charcoal. Unfortunate this man by name Mr Oscar has worked with the company for a long time and and he was so valued and loved by the company, because he was a hard-working type. He used to cut down fifty stand of trees in a day nothing added and nothing subtracted from the number, so a particular day the company decide to take another decision by adding another wood sawyer since they latter had more costumers than before and him alone could no meet up to the company's target. So when the new employee by name Mr. Albert resume work the first day, mean while the company were expecting at least forty- forty five stand of trees from him since he was a person, but to their greatest surprise Mr. Albert started with ninty stands the first day and cut hundred the second day he continues like that for the first week he was still adding in numbers and the company were so amazed and to appreciate him they promoted him and place his salary on top. Here when Mr. Oscar saw what happened, as a person he picked an offense against himself by questioning the company why they would do a thing like that mean while he has worked for them for many years and they have not promoted him or even talk alot of adding his salary. Now the company told him every reason Mr. Albert neeyd to be promoted than him and he saw it right and clearly with his eyes and decided to resign from the company because he's getting tired of the whole thing, on the day that he wanted to summit his resignation letter, he decided to meet with the new wood sawyer and to see the magic saw he uses to bring down the trees. When he met with Mr. Albert he greeted him rightly and then he saw that he wasn't using any magic or anything other thing, here he let go of his pride by asking Mr. Albert the strategy he uses to bring down up to one hundred and fifty trees and more per day without getting tired. And Mr. Albert sat him down and told him the whole secret that he normally use to stop and start again, he told him that once he cut down like twenty to thirty trees he will stop and sharpen his saw and start again, mean while Mr. Oscar didn't have such skills and from there when has gotten the skills from Mr. Albert he when back to his work and put the skills into practice and there it works for him, he started competing with the new person back to back. Now the company saw his new development they now promoted him and also top up his salary and they pleaded with him not to go again, and at this stage he was so so happy about his new development and return back to his work with much joy and happiness. Resit back and plan again Resit back and plan again even in examination there's resit back, resit back and plan again when you see that the first plan has hook you on the neck quitting is not the best, resitting is the best. Try to get right information when you're resitting back, life is full of ups and downs it's not every plan that people's plan that normally works out exactly where they planned it, and if plans were to work accordingly I don't think by now you would be in that position that you are now, even me. In conclusion in any thing you are doing be it the old ones you did before, there's no need of withdrawing back take it as your responsibility and your cross to carry don't quit while the match is not yet over. Be as a winner look beyond don't look into the battle, it is only the losers that looks into the battle but the winners look beyond it. Thanks for reading.. ***Lead lmage from Unsplach***

Love in 21st Century *Love is really a beautiful thing but it becomes abuse when it get to the wrong hands that cannot handle it with care and admiration, it becomes scam when people refuse to appreciate it.* *lf you seek for true love you will definitely find it keep searching what worthwhile takes time to find, and when you finally finds it don't take it for granted just think back and remember the sacrifice you made.* True love is something very Important it's the main key that everyone desire for, every human beings both the animals desire for love because those four letter words are very very important in today's 21st century age. I have notice things through my little experience and what love simply is, for example I have notice that in a given group, if someone does not shown love to, admired or is been celebrated bet me it will be very difficult for such person to stay longer in the group. lt is said that what worthwhile takes time love is a costly thing there are some hidden treasure that is inside of love which I'm going to show you as you keep on reading, true love is so precious that is why it looks some how difficult to find. It's just like diamond and gold those are hidden treasures which is not easy to find so fast before one can get these treasures you must undergo some protocol, procedures and some researching on how to be successful in getting them. You don't just wake up and get it, you work for it and that is how I can describe true love as you undergo the skill and strategies.. Some people see it as luck but I don't see it that's way for instance if you believe in luck I will ask you a simple question and if you can quote me wrong by giving the correct answers then I will start believing in luck rather than destiny. can you be a gardener planting flowers or planting farm growing other crops and you leave it for luck without weeding without taking any activity and you expect to have good harvest at the harvest season?, A crop that is cultivated where weed are surrounded can not produce like the one that is probably cultivated and weeding is done probably, likewise driving a fuel car and you expect to drive the car without fuel just because of luck, I tell you no matter how beautiful and smart the car looks like it will not move without you fuelling it. Meaning of true love True love is a kind of love that's beyond imaginations, like the level of caring, commitment, loving and being there for one another despise the heavy rain fall there serves as umbrella to one. *No matter how wider or how deeper the river is, when true love is involve the two lovers wouldn't mind crossing the river with a plack just to be with each other.* True love is having deep feelings about someone , it is a way of having an intense affectionate towards someone like they are people who are really in love with one another which nothing or nobody can separate them from each other and this types of people can't stay without seeing or hearing from each other. This is a type of love that the two party would be so madly in love with each other and sometimes when people sees them together they know that there's something stronger that binds them together. They are some certain things that defines true love; True love is really addressing problems and solving challenges together not by avoiding. People who truly love each other easily forgives and move on their lives. They like respecting each other. They listen to themselves. True love values one another. True love comes with patience. True love brings in happiness between the both parties. **Guys/ladies attitude in today's 21st century love** The same thing happen here to the true love of 21st century there are most female and male desiring or searching for true love without having what it takes to sponsor the affairs I tell you nothing but the truth not that they don't exist is just that the rules have changed because we are now in the instant noodles generation where humans mentality are no longer in dull moment. This people need something sharp sharp they don't have time to wait gone are those days of endurance and the most funiest fact is that when a girl meet with a guy and along the way she notices that the guy is not ready to spend on her she will backslide in the sense that she'll start behaving somehow by telling herself that the guy doesn't love her not knowing that the guy in the order where round is using the proverbs the birds uses with the hunter saying "since men are shutting without missing we are also flyng without piercing" how did you quickly know that he doesn't love you why not wait to see the outcome?. Research has reveal that guy's of nowadays spend for those who deserves it they spend with one reason or the order, they spend for those who wait, smart guys will not spend much on what they don't benefit from, they don't spend for spending sake they spend with target they hardly spend on those they don't gain from they easily detect those that comes for money. I once asked a guy how do you know those that comes for money and he quickly replied me that a master was once a disaster that a smart guy was once a dull guy that a smart guy choose to be smart by learning a lesson from his dullness. That means the mistakes he made during his dull time he told me be wise and he remind me of the saying that says". By their fruit you shall know them" some girls of nowadays is when they ask for money or any material thing the smart guys will tell them they don't have that is when you hear you are not serious, they will tell you that you are not a serious person at this point the smart guys will say but babe you know I love you. Girls will reply that they are aware from there the relationship will start sinking down slowly and the wise guys would say "gone are those days we use to plead girls to stay those that would stay would stay and those that will leave will leave".. Soldier comes soldier goes, and the worst that is happening right now is once a guy ask a girl out and you don't reply them back or one way or the other you want to think about it, they will leave you to think very well they will not approach you the second time and girl will say after all you are not the only guy and this is why true love is very very scary in today's 21st century and it is the smart technology that changes the mentality of dull guys and girls to smart ones. And at this juncture this is where we started having girls grouping their selves and guys grouping their selves also giving titles to themselves and this two parties play a rule of trying to scam each other because they are not ready for true love anymore what they are after is money and material thing not love anymore. When everything exposes that this is what is going on between the both parties, the two parties would now switch the girls will go for sugar Daddies while the guys will go for sugar mummies.. And finally the girls now some would turn to lesbian since they were tire of false promises from different guys and sugar daddy, likewise with guys they will turn into hormosexual and this is where the true love slumber and suffered. Is love a scam? If love was truly scam I don't think the name love would truly be in existence till today, though most people have concluded that love is scam but I don't really see it like scam because anything that is scam cannot be practicalise in today's world, and has also been practiced in the past decade by many and it still exist till date. They are prices to be payed They are prices to be payed before achieving what is truly good for you, nothing good comes easy and in very successful life there's a story behind, they have all paid the price in one way or the order. True is all about sacrifice there are something you need to be let go sometimes for peace to reign, it's not everything you will need your right at everytime, the price to be paid might not be money only but it can be a time sacrifice where by one needs to sacrifice a whole night just to be with one another. Price can be payed through sacrificing your time, your effort and discomforts yourself by keeping away your high ranking, by taking off all the clothes of pride and come down as a little boy just to be equal with one another. Price can be payed through coming out of your comfort zone and begins life by taking responsibility rather than being a liability, here both of the party would face temptation together and be able overcome it. What type of guys would ladies love to marry? I like asking questions, I once asked a beautiful lady this question and immediately she heard the question she flashed a little smile on her face and she didn't answered my question, being the kind of person I am I quickly notice that she's a shy type I then change to objective questions like, what type of a guy would you like to marry is it one that has money, someone that loves you or a guy you love most?. She replied that most girls doesn't really go for the guys that have money in terms of marriage, that they rather go for those that loves them being romantic to them, and being caring So I asked her what about money don't you know that money is everything? She said that she doesn't look at money first that money would come later, and she asked me what if he has money and lacks attitude? And I couldn't answer her anymore so we ended the discussion since I was able to get some few words from her, I don't really know if what she said if is really the truth about the type of guys that ladies what to marry you can also contribute your own knowledge at the comments box for others to also learn from it. What type of ladies would guys love to marry? Having being able to reach out to so many guys and get in touch with their feelings about what they really want in ladies. The type of ladies that guys would really want to marry is also ladies that are romantic, humble, being caring and being respectful to them and to people in the society. In conclusion we can really see that true love really still exist because must people are hoping to get married and spend the rest of their lives with people that are romantic, loving and caring types which simply everyone desire true love. True love do exist and love is not really a scam it's just that most people have abused love and some fail to appreciate it. When the value of a thing is unknown abuse is inevitable they say, which means most people abuse love because they don't know it's value. Thanks for reading.. *Lead image source from Unsplach*

Turning failures into fortunes *Anything is possible and everything that is seeing as the most impossible thing can be made possible without excuses.* *Failures can be turn into fortunes through the power of our self-confidence, the most rewarding thing we achieve in life are mostly those things that often look like they cannot be achieved.* Any dream can truly be achieve no matter how big the dreams is, I normally say that the most biggest building in the world today was once a drawing on a paper before it's transfer to a structure for other people to see. Failure is not really a good words, if you don't like who you are you can also change, change is constant things keep changing and people keep changing their minds. Turning failures into fortunes is through understanding when you really understand what it takes to succeed in a given goals, where others who do not understand what it takes to succeed realize failures an expert would turn the failure into fortune because he knows the skills. Turning failures into fortunes can simply be known as changing what was seeing by people as impossibility to possibility, changing bad luck to good luck, changing hardship to softship, from losing to wining and changing bad news to goodnews. Ways on how failures can be turned into fortunes Turning failures into fortunes can be done through some following ways like; Taking risk Overcoming fear of the unknown Don't easily quit (learn to stay longer in a problem) Believe in yourself (self -confidence) Determination (Always come up with strong reasons) Taking risk Taking risk is really involve in turning failures into fortunes, if anyone in life wants to succeed and he or she is not ready to take or been scared of taking risk such person should stay back from trying to make things happen. If you can see it with me I have heard and know about some of the people who undergo the risky process that makes the world what it is and where we are today, should I mention someone like Thomas Edison (Electric bulb) Martin Cooper (Mobile phone) Charles Babbage (Computer) Bill Gates (Microsoft) Mark Zuckerberg (Facebook) and others numerous to mention this people have played a vital role for the successful of our world today they really undergo risk before discovering all this things. They are some risk we must take before we can turn failure to fortunes, just like Thomas Edison who never get tired of risky his life by run testing the test for so many times until he finally turned failures into fortunes and that's the electric bulb we are enjoying today. Overcoming fear of the unknown If one cannot overcome his or her fear of the unknown by destorying early, the fear would rather destory you. Fear is very dangerous it causes one to loss in any given challenge. I would say that it wi make you not to even try on something just to see if you will succeed, the only thing fear will do is to show the failure aspect of it and hide the success side in the order hand, but if we must know that everything we want or desire is hiden in the order hand side of fear and 90% of our fear doesn't exist the remaining 10% are overwhelming. Don't easily quit We shouldn't easily to quit from our challenges, we should rather learn to stay longer and challenge our challenge because if we decide to run away from our challenge today by quitting we will also meet with it tomorrow and it will be unexpectedly. It is said that failure is not the end you can still turned failures into fortunes by still trying, but the best sure way to fail is quitting and quitting is final. It's said the most successful people do not succeed because they are smart enough to succeed, they succeed because they have learned to stay longer in the problem. Believe in yourself Always believe in yourself that you can do it, you can make it there is so much power that lies in self confidence. If you fail to believe in yourself there's no boby that would believe in you more than how you do. When you truly believe in yourself there's no challenge that will befall you because of the amount of believe and the trust you have install inside you, it would be before the challenge arises you have already know where to fix in words and be out successfully. Believe in yourself, believe in yourself strength do not limit yourself and also we shouldn't be timid against some certain things that we have knowledge and understanding about. Determination Determination is from our mind and it's the inner mind that controls outer reaction that is taking place every seconds, minutes and hours of our lives. Make strong determination stand by your words take no for an answer don't be move or be shaken by what you hear or see until you achieve your target, strong determination is you having a desire for something where your focus and concentration is lies on, it is knowing what you really want and setting your target against it. Closing thought Failures can be turned into fortunes it does not matter the time prolongment, the time wasted and what it will definitely cause in the process. Turning failures into fortunes is real and it's possible, there's nothing the mind feels that is much possible for the hand to touch also. Thanks for reading.. ***Lead image source from Unsplach***

Your Good works are serve for a purpose *It's very good to be good because the good works you do today serves as a planted seed and that is what you will harvest tomorrow.* *Learn to help people without expecting them to pay you back in return because even if they might want to pay you, it wouldn't correspond to the harvest you will reap in the future.* A man that was title a good Samaritan was not known as a good samaritan before, they started calling him a good samaritan because of his good works, and he's story is been heard in many generations recorded for him as a good samaritan. If you can really do good continue with your work without looking back to see if people are doing the same, if you're doing good that is really great I appreciate such efforts, keep on the good and don't be discourage by what people would say about you. In life today if you are doing good people will still say things against you, all so doing bad they will still talk about it, so there's nothing on planet Earth as far as people and words is concern that you will not hear some words. Continue your good works by still moving on know that if people don't appreciate your good works God in heaven really do and he is the rewarder of every works. Free your mind from listening to some words of discouragement and encourage it with words of encouragement it's your choice to be good theirs. Had it been the good samaritan wanted to follow the foot steps of others people I don't think he would have had mercy for the man that was robe by the harm robbers by taking him to the hospital and decided to pay all the bills. It is good to be good It is really good to be good they say, I like telling some stories in my article but don't mind me I hope you will learn at least one or two things from it. There was a poor innocent boy that used to sell sachet water on the street, and that was the only source of his income, he was with no father or mother even siblings or love ones, the young boy had only himself in the world. He used to sell water after coming back from school and they are some weeks he will only attain school twice just to meet his target since he wasn't getting help from any way else. There was this one one woman who used to admire his hardword though the woman didn't also have want it takes to help the boy, the woman didn't also have any child while she was also praying to God for one, since time waited for no one unfortunately she got to menopause stage without any issue. So each time the boy visited her house after coming back from sales she would give the boy a class of milk to drink and relax, then the boy with her tiredness would finished the class of milk and sleep off. And it continues like that but to her she didn't know that she was sowing a seed. Some years later they boy decided to travel out from the area to face life in city and been a good visioner he accomplished his dream by going to school and through his had work he came out with a good grade as a medical doctor. He didn't even had a dream of working for anyone, he quickly established his own registered hospital, to take the story to the end so this same woman was sick to the point of her death and she was taken to the boy's hospital and though the woman couldn't recognise the boy again because he has grown-up to a responsible man. So when the boy saw her he quickly remember the women and embrace her with a kiss, he took all the responsibility upon himself and after the woman regain herself he explained everything to her and took the woman to his house and plead with the woman to adopt him as her son since he doesn't have any family and the woman also doesn't. Now the woman who had already given up her mind to end up as a barren woman didn't know that the little class of milk could help her and give her hope to live again, so they both became mother and son living a good life in fullness. Doing good is a choice Doing good is really a choice I may choose not to be doing good and I may choose to live a wayward or steward life all is about choice. Know that a seed that is not planted cannot germinate fruits, have a good heart of doing good, heart of showing compassion to people and good wishes to people as well. What you give is what you will receive You will reap what you sow that is just the law nature for everyone living on earth, harvest might not really takes place at the same time seed always takes time to grow up. Give and it shall be given unto you they say, this wasn't about money or in terms of material things, this was beyond money and material things. Closing thought If you give good to people you will also receive good back. If you point arguing finger on people's you will also receive it back it return. So it's not good to do bad to others, before taking any reaction in a given action think if it's good or bad just imagine your self being in the same shoe how you will feel. Learn to do good, when we learn to do good we will also live good, if we give out in good measurement we will also receive back in good measurement, and that's where the world would be a better place for us and our unborn generations to come. Thanks for reading **Lead image from unsplach**

Let go of the past *Learn to leave all the pains,sad and bitter past stories on the doorstep of the past, and step into the future with happiness and joy for there's no amount of tears that would bring a death man back to life.* *Forget about the past don't hurt yourself by thinking about the past they're just two words, past and present, as far as there's live there's also hope and that is the same thing here as far there's present you can still move on.* *Let go of the past for what tomorrow would carry would be far better than today, the past has gone and gone forever there's nothing a man could do to bring back yesterday again.* Let go of the past stories and see the present as another opportunity to move on in life, nothing is permanent in life that we are living. Life can never be drawn in a straight line, It comes to today's reality and tomorrow and illusion so it is both the two that makes what life is, so if we expect only reality it wouldn't work out like that. We know most people have been hurt and get disappointed by their trusted one that they could not believe such could happen, but since such has taken place there's nothing we can do about it, such is life and it takes our minds to work it out. Experience is the best teacher they say, but in my own view I would say experience is a teacher I wouldn't put the best simply because in the process of trying to go through the experience that happens in a given time you might not really survive out from it, eheheh never mind I might sometimes sound funny. A girlfriend once asked her boyfriend a question hoping to get a good response form him but she wasn't so excited with the reply, though I couldn't really read her mind but her face wasn't just ok. She asked her boyfriend two in one question at once and he was like getting confused, she said what and who do you really love most? And her boyfriend who was also a smart guy replied her by saying, did you know that you are asking me two questions at once? Ok let me start we the first question. What do I love most? I love myself most. Who do I love most? I also love myself most. His girlfriend asked him why not me you love most? He replied I love myself most so that if I disappoint my self I would know that it is me who create the disappoinment for myself not any body. And if I should love you most don't you think anything can happen one day and you decide to change your mind from me?. And moreover it's not advisable to put all trust on person than your own self? Not that I don't love you, I do love you but I can't love you more than myself, I would only love you as I love myself not more than myself so that if you hurt me I would be able to let it go. Train your mind on letting go of the past Our minds is what controls everything about us both our thoughts and feelings towards everything. So we as humans if we must learn to let go of certain things it will definitely begins from the mind, we must train our minds to the standard that we want it to be. Just as it's necessary to train our minds to be optimistic not to be pessimistic, we can also tran it to let go of the sad and bitter past stories that can serves as burdens in our hearts. After raining comes sun shine No matter how heavily the rain is it will definitely stop and the sun would shine, we should have this as a strong reasons to let go of the past knowing that if it's bad today tomorrow will be good with us. If people frustrate us and abandon us today other people would take us tommorow, if people don't recognise our present today other people would celebrate our present tomorrow. Irrespective of what people should do or how they hurt you try to forgive and forget in other to free yourself, learn to free your mind keep room for another new things to come in. After sorrowing comes joy and happiness After sorrowing comes joy and happiness, though sorrows may last in the night but joy comes in the morning they say, there's no how sorrows would last for ever . All this phrase is something we can take as references to know and believe that there's no need of keeping something in our minds, letting go and move on is the best. Closing thought Let it go and begin again it's never too late to achieve or gets to where you want to, it's all about you not about them, get up and move don't stop you are getting there. It's all about your mindset, don't you know that your mind should be occupied with happiness and successful thought, space shouldn't be for any bitter or sad past stories. *Thanks for reading.* Lead image from Unsplach

It is too late to giveup The finishing point doesn't really comes easily but it takes strong determination and courage to finish it, though I have been hearing people saying that the starting point looks too difficult and they definitely forget about the ending part, not minding the procedure and criteria that would fellow from the starting right to the ending if truly is due surviving. For example let's see in the game of foot ball a player can start tripping other players in the pitch but getting to where to score the goal he loses it through tiredness and others challenges he has passed through before reaching the goal area. It will only takes a player who have a conviction in his heart and knowing if he fails or giveup not to score the goal that it will be too late for him and would be a time wasted thing for him getting to the goal area and nothing is being done. It takes people who knows what they are really on earth for, I mean their purpose and dreams on earth, they are people who have learned not to give up in certain situations they see their selves in, they are living their lives with a saying that says forward ever and backward never. Why most people are likely to giveup? Most people really giveup when losing hope in life or things don't really works out the way they expected it to be, for instance most people might likely giveup through facing some challenges that are more than them. People lose hope in life when they face with condition that is quite beyond their control, the circumstances, trials, persecution from different angles in life. Hold on to your determination As a man thinks in his heart so it is they say, what you determine is what you will practice in a given condition. We have to train our minds in other to adapt the bad times and the good times not to give up on a certain challenge. Our minds is what controls our thoughts and the mind is everything about a man what you have downloaded inside your mind be it positive or negative is what it will manifest in the days of adversity. The tiredness point is where the success lies I would say that success always come at our point of giving up, I can vividly remember when I participate in school composition sport, that's athletics I was the one presenting my group so I fell into 800-meters run since I wasn't so good in running 100-meters. So the starting point was an easy task since I have been in the process for a long time so I know how to do it perfectly, just to shorten the story getting to the finishing point I was so tired to the extent of giving up and I said to my self never will I start a thing without taking it to the end, and by the way I have left people behind and I am to take the first position here in the composition so I moved on with all my strength and finished the race by taking the first position. And after finishing the whole composition I then realized that success really lies at our giving up point, i then explain to some of my friends what I passed through in the running composition and they said thank God you didn't give up. If we can really overcome challenges and vicissitude of life that comes our way by not being giving up the following story will become mystery. The choice is yours I can quickly recall a smart guy that participate in swimming composition and the composition was to cover a swimming distance of about 90-100-meters, so the smart guy started very comfortably but covering a distance of 70-meters he got tired and wanted to give up and he was asked if they could rescue him by bringing a boat to take him out. The guy looked how far he has gone and how many meters was remaining for him to complete, the reply that came out of his mouth was that how he manage to covered the other 70-meters that he will also manage to complete the remaining 30-meters that nobody should bring any boat to rescue him. What he did really thought me a good lesson, the man had to relax himself and start again and when he truly covered this distance people asked him, why didn't you stop when you got tired?. And he reply it was his choice not to stop. We all have different choice and different ways of thinking, it comes a time in everybody's life that you have to decide if to move or take a break from a particular thing. All choice is ours but before making a certain decisions with should look back to see how long we have gone before bringing the idea of giving up. Conclusion I will conclude that we have what it takes to overcome our challenges and circumstances, nothing will definitely disturb you when you're not starting a particular thing, crisis always occur at the end of every curve. Crisis will always occur near your success, temptation will come to see how strong you are. If you must succeed in life be ready to encouter so many things because nothing just happen, people what out their success, we should try to learn from people's mistakes and take correction from there. If you want to be a medical doctor is left for you to know what to study and you wouldn't study art subject and leave science subject to become a medical doctor, focus on what you need be consistent, we should live a life of a champion we shouldn't easily to giveup. *Thanks for reading..* *Lead image from Unsplach*

If you fail you have also fail others *Your life and my life serves as a shining light to so many people, it's like a frontage light that people are using to see their way, so if the light is switched off people would be somehow stranded in darkness.* *So before you take any action or even think of quitting from that particular thing, have you think about others that are looking up to you?* *Life is all about cooperation as we succeed others are also succeeding.* *Your success is an encouragement to others people.* I am seeing life as a game of relay race which if anyone fail to deliver the barton in time it's therefore means that particular person can definitely fail the whole team entirely. You can see it with me in today's games like soccer ball, athletics, boxing, wrestling, cricket,volleyball and others sport activities if people presenting the team fails, you know what that means the have fail their fans totally. Then compare this to early life that we are living don't you think that there are alot of people who is seeing you as their own role model, and they are expecting much from you, they are expecting the best out of you so if you fail you don't only fail yourself but you have fail others along side with you. A successful person will be loved by so many people because they want to achieve one thing or the another from him if not material things the knowledge and the secret about his success, but it's only the smart and the wise ones that would go for the secret, while others would go for material things that can't sustain them for longer time. I would rather prefer you to teach me how to catch the fish, the skill and the strategy from starting to finishing stop trying to please me by giving me the fish because you will not be there to give me every time I need it. No body would like to celebrate a failure, a failure doesn't have friends, and if he has it will be only few that sees a little seal in him and keep on encouraging him to push harder. In any given composition it's the wining team that would be first celebrated by people before telling the losing side to put more effort next time. Some strong reasons why people wouldn't want to fail Failure is not a good name to be called, I have not in my life heard of parents naming their child failure. But people like answer success, names like winner and so on. People wouldn't like to fail in life, people hate such name everyone having a successful huge no one would want to lose in the battle or lose in the game when knowing fully well the meaning of success. People wouldn't want to fail in life because they have the following reasons; Most people wouldn't want to fail because of the strong determination and promise they have promised their family People wants to succeed in other to give a better life to their love ones and people around him. People wants success in all manner especially when seeing their background. Most people are pursuing success in other to change their story from nobody to somebody. Happiness that lies in success If you ask the most successful person the happiness he does have sometimes I think I will explain to you that there's so much happiness that lies in success. There are happiness that would be given to you by your family members, friends, love ones and also the respect you will receive from people. A successful person attract so much beauty to himself, people would like to listen to him and he will be so much be invited to most occasions. The pains of failure There's much pains that lies in failure, the heart of a failure is easily to cultivate anger and hatred because you will see the effort you have put in a particular thing and yet it seems as if you didn't even do anything, or you didn't try it at all. Most pains in been a failure comes when your love ones or people that deserves help from you comes for the help or ask you for a particular thing and you can't provide or solve their problems at the time, this is when much pains will come. How can ones failure affect others people? If you are a leader and through your leadership you make some mistakes that can lead to failure in your time of leading I can tell you that your failure as affected your followers as much as people under your rulership. Talking about the family issue that we also know about if the parents fails in keeping the family with a good rule and regulations, or the father fails in providing needs to his family don't you think that such is a step of falling the children. Friends failure can easily affect another I once heard a story of how a good friend giving out a huge amount of money to another friend asking the friend to putin in a business that he will require for the money in the next three years to come, he further discuss with the friend saying that the money is his life savings, that he wants to use it and build his own personal house in the next three years. And be as it may the friend took the money and when into investment and due to the law of investment you can succeed or you also loss it, it's fity fity 50 -50 success doesn't really guarantee it's face with ups and downs. So at the end of three years he wasn't able to give back the money to the friend that lend him and this has really cause a very big failure to his friend for not achieving the plans he had in three years later. I will leave you by some thought from Gently that says; *"If you fail you have also fail others and if you succeed others will definitely benefit from your success, so is all left for us to work hard in order not to disappoint people that are looking up to us".* *"Success story is always narrates with excitement it is sweet to tell but failure story always comes with pains if at all people would even like to narrate it".* Lead image from source; Unsplach Thanks for reading.

Have a good burning desire *There's nothing on earth that one desire to achieve that can't be achieved, because if you feel it in your mind you can also have it in your hands.* *Everything is possible, nothing is impossible it's only depends on the eye you look into the problem.* *The problem that has caused you to fall down is still the same problem that has caused others to rise up.* Some people take most of the problem that arises as a leading steps to get to where they desire in life,while some see it as their final bus stop in life. People with a good burning desire are the set of people that with a strong and tangible determination, this set of people have a good definition about life the can define what life is with just a short sentence. Just because they don't have time to complain about life, they would rather become a problem solver than been a complainer, it is only the people who don't have what it takes to define what life is that full with complains. A good burning desire develop as a result of anger, people been insulted by others, everyday struggling, everyday suffering, everyday pains, challenges and purpose of living, and when this keeps disturbing them they will definitely have the burning desire to achieve success. A strong mind that develop a good burning desire can get or achieve anything beyond people imaginations, because whenever a man early discover who he is and what he's was meant for, he will feel it's demand. How to develop a good burning desire From creation we have both the good and the bad aspect, there are desire and there are desires it may rightly falls in the good desire or bad desire but most people wouldn't see it that's way, it's said all men on their own ways. But here I want to discuss about the good burning desire that can lead people to success in life, it's this good desire that would make one to stand out before kings and queens, it's the good desire that people would want to see you or even want to hear from you. Here with my little research and my understanding I think people can develop a good burning desire through; By learning to encircle yourself with people who think positively. Always have empowering information in your mind every day. Inhale courage and exhale fear. By learning to place positive thoughts in your mind rather than negative thought. By learning to take action in a given situation. Always put on a dress for success. Let your environment be fill with good burning desire boosters. What is your burning desire? We all have our own personal burning desire and people's burning desire are different so as our destinies are, Mr A may not be burning for what Mr B is burning for. Burning desire is simply the beginning point of all accomplishments, it's the income effort you put in that would determine the outcome result, no magic would cause a goat to give birth to a lion. An inactive desire can't produce active result. Commitment is the sure way of getting a good results the effort you put in, in commitment would determine the result you would have at the end. In conclusion a man who's carried out on a journey without any idea of his destination will end up been lost. Know what you really want in life and pursue it at the right time. Know the desire to burn for, don't burn ignorantly it's from hoping to knowing and from knowing to doing, when you can define the level of your burning desire for something you don't take no for an answer. Still with your burning desire failure is not the end of the game but quitting is the final whistle, so if your burning desire is not that so strong enough go for it so badly and don't see quitting as an excuses. Thanks for reading.. *Image from source*

Inhale courage and exhale fear *I would rather encourage myself than waiting for some other people to encourage me.* *Knowing too well that their kind courage may not last or take me to anywhere, moreover it will not sustain me longer.* *Let me summoned myself and go for the battle and if I lose or win, there are two words then I would know I went by myself not through anyone's courage.* Inhale courage and exhale fear, this word comes as a result of most people behaviours, people has really allow their mind to pre-occupied by fear rather than taking courage and overcome every challenge that might show up. Inhale courage and exhale fear, to life freely without having burdens all over yourself you have to let go of fear while taking in courage to live a good life that will be beneficial to you and to the people around you as well. How to inhale courage Inhale courage is simply to take in courage living a life of boldness every day of your life, not being intimidated by what people are saying or doing. If you have the spirit of boldness in you, you will only watch them while they are doing what ever they are doing and you can never be move by what they doing since you know the amount of courage you have inhale inside. You can personally inhale courage by the following ways; By not been timid. By been able to define who you're, and what you worth. By knowing your right. By been bold By knowing how and where to fix in words in a given situation. I believe with these little thought one can summoned his/her courage in any situation that might rise unexpectedly. How to exhale fear Exhale fear is simply to kill, destory and pursue the spirit of fear from your life. Fear mostly come as a result of lack knowing what to say or do at a given situation, so it's not good for any one to develop such kind of the spirit called fear. Fear can be exhale through the following ways; By opening your mind to much learning Self confidence Be ever ready to take responsibility Always believe in yourself (you know more than you think) No one is better than you (don't down look yourself) Be open to much learning and when you know something no will be able to convince you of what you really know, and don't like concluding yourself by saying people are far better of than you. Because if you do this you will find yourself in a very low class and this will make you to fear alot, with this little thought I believe fear can be taken away easily. What courage can cause Courage is having strong confidence in you, without letting fear of the unknown to weigh you down. Courage can make someone to become more successful in any business and be functional in anywhere. Courage is the body language of a champion person, he/she uses courage to defeat the opponents. What fear can cause Fear which is unpleasant emotions can easily lead to failure, it can kill more faster than a bullet, and anyone that cultivate the spirit of fear is totally a failure because a fearful type of person doesn't have any future at all. And any fearful person doesn't offer any position because with the spirit of fear in them there's nothing they can offer to people, so fear can easily destory destinies. If no one encourage you then encourage yourself If no one encourage you, you can encourage yourself learn a lesson from the story of a lizard, when it fall from the top of a tree it doesn't even wait to see if people would eventually encourage him, rather it will be the one to nod its head by saying I have tried. I can rightly remember when we were little kids, I and my brother we were not twins but we were so close to each other both in school and in house. It happens that people were so fun of looking for our trouble mostly in school because of our closeness, I should say that they were not happy seeing us together. So somedays that my brother decide to stay back from school I will also stay back knowing he has been the one that has been defending me, when ever I see him I would be so strong to fight who so ever that is looking for my trouble and him also will join hand to fight for me. So unfortunately one day my brother wasn't feeling fine, and he was taken to the near by hospital since the school wasn't equipped medically, so I had an intension to follow him to the hospital since he was my only hope. And the teacher didn't allow me to join him, case what happened?. Those that we use to fight with my brother came for revenge, I was like Awww God my own has finished, so this people were having me in mind all this while. I said to myself if I run away from this people today this nonsense will still repeat itself next time, is either it will happen to my brother or I myself so I summoned courage I said what would be would be I battle with them with my last strength still they all ran away. Imagine if I didn't encourage my self and fight them, the kind of rubbishing I would have collect from those fellows. How David summoned courage and go against Goliath David when to war against Goliath with all amount of courage, I don't see anything that could cause a little boy to declares war against a giant except courage. He took encourage upon himself through the incidence that happen in the bush between him and the lion, when he met with king Saul, he told him boldly not minding if he's the king. He said he has fought with a lion and preserve his father's sheep from being eaten by the lion so in this case David took a defensive and go against Goliath and won the battle. Imagine if fear has cause David to stay back from the battle and what would happen to them, or if fear has cause the stone to missed Goliath what would that be to David. I don't think David would have smell the throne either, or if he would have left alive by his opponent. Conclusion In conclusion the best way to be successful in life is to inhale courage and exhale fear out from your self, take in courage which will help you to take any responsibility in life. People would not appoint you to take any office or rule them when you can't even encourage your own self talk alot of encouraging others. People with fear doesn't really excel in life, they become stagnant because fear would not allow them to try new different things, so they become liability to others. Thanks for your time. `Lead image from source`

Nobody can use your face to judge your future *It only takes God to hear the foot steps of an ant.* Which simply means that no man can easily hear the foot steps of ant, it takes only God to hear it. Don't ever try to judge people's future through their look, people's faces might be so ugly but to be surprise their future is not talking the same thing corresponding to thier face. No matter how ugly the face is, or how fine the face is you can never determine their future through their ugliness or finest, I have never heard of people saying it before. What ever someone's face carries the time would determine not through human imaginations, others scanning can be taking part in laboratory but it's not possible to scan out people's future, of course if that was possible to do I would have so much love taking part in it, so that I will quickly know the type of future I am with. Believe me nobody can judge your future correctly by your face, you are who you are and not what they think about you, faces always deceive more because it's the outward appearance while future is inward, future is time processing factor. In other words it's invisible it's only becomes visible at it's own appointed time, and I am seeing it as time wasted and no one is even permitted to do such. Is not even a matter of you judging people's by their faces, my question is why judging for?, If you try to judge someone you might really cause harm to yourself or the person you are judging. Do people judge faces? In today's world people are likely to judge people through faces and looks , this is really called physiognomy, this is said to be the art of pseudoscience of deducing the predominant temper and other Characteristics qualities of the mind from the outward appearance. That's the outward which is the face or countenance that I have said earlier that it's possible to judge or be detect by experts inspectors. Why judging people's future through their face is not possible? I would say doing this is not quite possibly because future can not be seen when it is not manifested, it is a thing yet to be manifested so how can one start judging? And what will he/she sees?. Though men may judge on how they know but that is not future, they are judging, it's the outward appearance that they are judging and that's the face not the future, and with this it's not really advisable to judge people on their faces. Meaning of future Future is the inward part it's something that will happen in times yet to come, future is what we are looking forward to, it's manifest at the set time that it was meant for. Even you in person you can't really know what the future may brings you only pray for a good one in times to come. Meaning of judging Judging here in my full understanding and meaning is the act where another person's determine, or decides the fate of something or someone that as been called to question, and it's also an opinion brings on. Meaning of face So in this cass face is the outward appearance, the face is suitated in the front part of the head containing the eyes, noise, and mouth. This front part of the body plays a very good vital role in humans body both in animals, and I don't really think one can survive without this part of the body. Most reasons why people judge others Tolerance; lack of tolerance can easily cause someone to judge one another, this would really come as a result that you wouldn't tolerate the same behavior or characteristics in yourself. Your judgement would be like they are showing up their own self. Envy; I am seeing this as the most important causes while people judge others, most people become envious about what others people have and they don't have, or seeing what they want in others. Closing thought Nobody can judge you by your face, because where you are right now is not as important as where you are going to. Even if people might try to judge you their feeling will definitely lead them to failure because what they are saying about you is not what God is thinking about you. Who is he that says a thing and it's come to pass when the Lord has not declares it. Thanks for reading..

Don't loss hope while still alive No matter how big the situation might look like still have in mind there's always a possibility to come out from it, it does not matter the prolonging and how disappointing it is, never lost your faith still keep it hope alive knowing since we have the night we will also have the day time. Your latter days shall be greater than the former days, if you live today have it means that you alive to face with what so ever the feature will brings tomorrow, and for sure tomorrow will be far better than today in this case I see no need of losing hope in life, though life doesn't really gives what we want at at a right time, that's just nature for everyone, there's nothing a man can do to stop tomorrow from being exiting. It is not yet over until it's over, nobody can use your today's position to determine your destination, for the fact that we are alive we still have hope for tomorrow, it might not really works out how you expected, it's really seems as if it doesn't worth it, still keep your hope alive, there's light at the end of the tunnel not at the starting you past through the starting before you get to the end. You will really become the one to encourage yourself because if you fail in the process of losing you hope it's you that create the failure for yourself, creating failure is all about your mind set, if you write a story about yourself ended by a fullstop mark that is how people would take it, and if you use comma sign it therefore means you are not yet to be concluded your story. You and your future If you loss hope on your dreams by allowing the present vicissitude of life to convince you and start doubting your dreams you will definitely see it manifesting in others people life. If you really see it in your own eyes then nothing could stop you to get it not even the challenges, you have your feature in your hand it's how you design it that it will work for you, your future lies in your hand just like pencil in the hand of a creator, the decision you took some years ago is the result of your today's life. I once asked someone a question saying what can i do have to have a brighter future? At this he was silent at me for a while, he then looked at me saying what do you think in your own understanding? My reply was it's just a matter of lightning a candle stick to brighten my future that's all. He then said brighter future doesn't come as a result of lightning a candle stick to the future, it comes as a result of good goal settings, he said always go after your dreams by keeping your hope alive, be consistent, be persistent and with strong determination towards your achievement. The thickest hour of the night is just a minute to morning Yes the very thickest and the darkest hour of the night is just a minute to morning, and the next step from failure leads to success. When you face with the thickest hour of the night the only hope that left behind was that the morning will soon show up its beautiful face so the ugly and boring night you had couldn't stop you or cause you to loss yoyu hope against the morning. So I normally use to say that no one graduates from the lessons of life except when you're no more living life anymore, same with losing hope don't lose hope when you're still alive it's only the people that are death that I would say it's possible for them to loss hope in life. The hardest part also leads to softest part. I would easy say that the hardest part of the soil is just two (2) to four (4) feet measurements, the other part are the soften part and that is what really makes people to dig the ground they are digging because they have in mind that in a certain time they will surely have the soften part where it won't be two hard to dig. Nobody will keep digging the ground with losing hope, they do it with keeping hope alive and with expectation that they will meet the softest part of it. Same with our everyday life opposition is truly real and every time we meet it then we expecting to be taking the next steps, because opposition comes with a position. In my conclusion I would likely suggest that keeping hope alive is the best way of getting good achievement in life, because the moment your hope is alive, your mind will be so active and easily to be responded to everyday positive thoughts. But if one lives without keeping hope alive it therefore means that the mind is not proactive because it is pre-occupied by the negative thoughts and this mind cannot easily attract good things, and the mind is actually corrupted. Your hope being alive also means that your are a truly type of an open minded person with this your mind is always open to new opportunities, which we know an open mindset easily lead to success. Thanks for reading;

Seeing the end from the beginning Before I start my article today I want to really take this opportunity to appreciate my new sponsorship by name Telacharm who choose to take the task upon herself, though words would not be enough to express my heart felt gratitude to you. But I really really appreciate it, thanks for all your cares, you deserves a million thanks from me. I must deeply confess that my heart is feel with happiness and joy to be here on read.cash platform to meet with people with golden heart and some types of open minded people, I must say that I feel bless and honored being here with such amazing people and forward thinkers. I have really seen the end from the beginning, love is a beautiful thing but it's only hurts when people abuse it without showing an appreciation. I have found where love is, not only where love lies because here is where love is been demonstrated by individuals, everyone and everything needs to be loved both the animals and the human beings they need to be loved. No human being would want to associate his/herself in where he his is not loved or appreciated, even the animals I don't think they would do so such a thing, so people normally love to stay where they are loved, cherish, celebrate and appreciates. My seven days staying in read.cash platform as a newbie has really proofs that here is where love is been practice, not for the earning aspect but I'm saying about supporting aspect in terms of people would give you some advice and tips on how to come up, things like do it this way, I think it will work out this way and so on. Within my few days of staying here I am proud to say that I have learned alot from people, I have heard so many people's opinions and contribution on some giving topics and comment and this has really open up my thinking intellectual. Knowing how the end would be from the beginning *"A man who's carried out on a journey without any idea of his destination will always end up being lost".* Starting a journey without any idea about where you are going to end is so risky because you can definitely end up your journey anywhere because you didn't have any destination. But when you start a journey with the destination of where you're going to ends your journey it makes it simply, because at this point they will be no longer much wasting of time on the road, at this juncture you have been able to see the end of your destination from your starting point. There's a sense of perception in us that we used as our personal detector and gauge to know something that will lead to success and something that will also resolve in failure, the spirit is just in side of us, it works mainly when you are able to listen to it. Secondly this has been the intelligence spirit helping us to know and understand what to do, where to go and where not to enter. First impression matters Why do I really want to point out our first impression matters alot in a given place, humans are still humans no matter what, first impression is the experience they have from the first day. Especially when starting a new thing or going to a new place that they have never been to before, the first impression is what will determined if they will continue thier staying or work out of the place. Is just like when I came to the read.cash platform seven days ago and the first impression I got was so fantastic and nicely and without that anybody telling me to stay or leave it was the first impression that encouraged me to stay, so it's very easily to see the beginning from the starting through the first impression you have in a given place. *"It's the ugly foundation inside the ground that is holding the beautiful building outside.* Seeing the end from the beginning is a matter of the mind, it's not all the starting point that looks so interesting and nicely, sometimes the beginning start some how slowly and discouraging but what would determine your staying is your mind and your good strong reasons that you have seen from the starting. We all have our own way of detecting the good and the outcome of it, sometimes we have the bad starting and ends up with the good finishing. *Thanks for your wonderful time;*

Why living just to impress others? Greetings to everyone, in today's article I really want to talk about why most people live just to impress others for no reason, having witnessed and gone through some pains that lies on it, hehehe I wouldn't in my life encourage or give as word of advice to someone in terms of impressing another fellow human. I am not saying one should not impress the one he/she is dating or the one he/she loves, but count me out of it, because change is constant, you will not be able to do it every day of your life so is better you leave the pretending aspect and bring out your real you. You can never tell about people's mind, some do not even care about your impression, so just imagine people who comes up with such strategy in their daily life, how wasted of time and effort it would be. Life as thought me so many lesson, to the extent it as become my greatest professor while I still remain a good student not yet to be graduated, I am still in the school of learning much from life except on less you want to give up, its said the day a man stops learning is the day he died. So as far as you're still living life, you keep learning one or two things every single day. Before coming up with this article I must confess that I was once a victim of impressing others people more than my own self, you gather experience from your past mistakes, though the past mistakes can not be corrected anymore but it's used in order to overcome the ones that are coming ahead in the future. Though it will sounds as past glory and past story but I believe someone will derive a lesson from this, i became the only one who was taking care of my father since those of my senior brothers has gone out some to their different homes also taking some responsibilities having their own family too. At this point I was the one controlling the home taking good care of dad and running others domestic chores, then I was financially stable though I didn't demands for money from my brothers but they were the one who came up with the idea of paying me to be more focus about dad, and I insisted not to collect but they said no that is just an appreciation. Let me just shorten the story, since I had money enough and I didn't have knowledge about investing and so on, I used it to impress others by making them not to feel bad, giving out money unnecessary and some of them when I borrowed them they will refuse to return back saying that I didn't give them any money, so to impress them and for peace to reign I will forget about the money after all I have more. But to my greatest surprise these same people that I used to impress with all I had, sometimes I will even abandon myself just to make them feel good and happy, are the same set of people that are calling me names like I am senseless that I am not using my money wisely, am not using my money to do any good thing at all. "You're either living life or life is living you it's your choice" Your life belongs to you and my life also belongs to me, who is owning who? Then why do you think I will deprived myself of my right just to impress others again?. People are so calm and humble, but for the fact that people are so calm and humble shouldn't let others to see them as worst fools. Humility is not timidity People been so respectfully and humble doesn't mean that they are trying to impress you in one way or the other, don't think that they are so stupid and naive, they are not just shy, they know their right and what to do at a given time. We need to value our own self why giving respect and be humble to others. "If someone wants to use my humility as timidity in order to impress himself then I am ready to change the music tune". Does people really deserves to be impressed? Like it is likely said change is constant so as impression is temporary, so the true secret is that people no longer care about others impressing them knowing it's just for sometimes that it would not be forever, some will even see it as if your are passing an entertaintment to them. So in my own view and my own past experience I feel that impressing people doesn't worth anything, because people are so likely to forget things, I would rather say that it is much wasting of time and energy. Finally in conclusion living in other to impress others doesn't really worthwhile because the people your are living to impress might not really see your effort, you can't tell people's mind they can likely harm you with words from thier mouth, and at the end you will be the one lamenting had I no. Secondly if you're living just to impress others the real fact is that; you are not truly living your life, you will be impressing others while having much pains inside your heart, some times you will be crying in secret while people you impress are enjoying openly This can really cause you much expenditure of high rate, because it might really involve much spending of funds on material things just to keep impressing the person. Thank for scrolling down;

Naked we all came, naked we shall all depart Before I start writing I want to extend my humble greetings to everyone here on read.cash platform i celebrate everyone's grace of writing, l would confess that here is the best place for people to get inspired by reading good and motivational article because during this few days that I have visited the place I have learnt alot, I have known so many things that is going on in other countries across the globe, I really thank the admin and everyone's contribution for the growth and success of the platform. Let me start by saying that no one on the planet earth will ever escape death as far as death is involve in the characteristics of living things, so long as we still remain human beings I don't think we will escape from death when it's finally knock on our door, we have experience the birth aspect so is only remaining the death aspect which me I do not wish to die now and likewise the same with you, you might not really think of it in hundred years to come because life is good and beautiful, at this juncture I ask myself a question what really happen to those young babies that die immediately they are just giving birth to? They just depart without having any experience about how life is. Sometimes some do not even open their eyes or open thier mouth in terms of crying, this question keeps running in my mind ever since or should it means that they do not like what they are seeing so far in the world, because like it is said they normally see things from afar. But it's really sad to know that naked we all came into the world and naked we shall also so depart, irrespective of the achievement we have achieved and names we have made, the position we are occupying now that we are alive, the firm and power that differentiate us from others people is all vanity upon vanity because there's nothing one will take back when he is death, I think in my own opinion that the best way is to share everything in common no matter how big it is or how small it is, people will always be greatful with the little we can offer to them. We shouldn't wait until we have enough because just enough wouldn't be enough, the little gift that we have given out can quench hunger though at times we really we might not understand what we have done but we have tried so far, though it's not just easy for everyone we all have our own bills to settle and others things to put in thier places but I definitely believe things like this can be done if it's really comes out from our hearts we can always create out time for it. The breath that we are breathing is what makes us what ever we are, the day that the breath just live us we are gone, we are no more a reasonable person, we become speechless and senseless because there's no breath in us and because we cannot response to people anymore. I think now that we still have breath and energy in us we should try and create legacies that will help the coming generation if we have the opportunity at all we shouldn't take it for granted, we shouldn't keep them only for our children but let's do it to both others people's children also we should see them also as ours. No one came to the world with mansions No one came to the world with cars No body came with firms No one came with expensive clothes or shoes No one came with a big portion of land. Empty handed we came and empty handed we shall also depart so none of these should cause us to develop hatred among friends or families since we didn't come with any of these properties rather we should face our own law and challenges that life brings to our way, we have both good and the bad side of life, sorrows and losses are still part of the law of life, birth and death also falls into the law no one can really escape them. Sorrows and losses It's said that life is not drawn in a straight line as is in graph it can be reality today and become an illusion tomorrow it's both that makes what life is, grief will always come to your were, you will equally lost your love ones this is also the law of life that one must pass through pains and sorrows, though sorrows may last in the night but joy will definitely comes in the morning. You will have losses in your business, we will be disappointed by people we trusted but there's no need to still think about the losses than moving forward to the rightful direction. Birth and death There is a time for everything under the earth everything has been planned accordingly if you can see it with me without a woman giving birth to babies they will be no people on planet earth so they keep borning some old people are also dieing so such is what makes birth and death part of the laws of life. Finally I am writing this to remind me and you that living in the world that we are for a purpose we shouldn't chase the purpose away and go for what we really see at hand because it seems that our purpose is very difficult, that your neighbor needs your help not until he voice it out, the poor beggar on the street needs our assistance and we own them alot in spite of what we might have or achieved we will not go with any of them. Jesus as shown us a very good example on how to be compassionate about others people by giving out his last to the needy and by eating with people others couldn't expect he can sit with, always have in mind empty handed we came, and empty handed we shall also return. A very big thanks for your time;

A lovely and warming greetings to everyone on read.cash platform, I was invited by a very good friend to this humble platform so been as a newbie I am, am still learning some certain things on how things is been done here on read.cash platform. I must confess that I am so so excited to be here, my name is Gently a person who love writing and reading of articles and I take everyone as somebody, I hope I am welcome to the platform?. I love you all.