You are incompetent!!!
★ You can't talk freely with everyone, can't mix easily, are you incompetent?
★You can't articulate, are you incompetent?
★You don't smoke, your friends laugh at it, are you unfit to be their friend?
No, never, ever.
Because everyone has some merit. Everyone is good at something.
When someone questions your worth, think your passion is your worth. This is your greatest asset. Because people can achieve the impossible from the seat of emotion.
Friends who make fun of your dreams, prove how special you are with your merits. If you stick to it, you will always earn their respect.
You can't be jealous of others because you have your own merit. Because every person has some merit, it is not right to neglect anyone.
You can walk well. Few people know how to walk. Does that mean other persons are ineligible? And you are eligible? no...
How qualified you are will be proven in your work.
According to Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Merits are nothing more than patience, plain clothes, old shoes, an eye for nature, laughter, great curiosity, silence."
You are good at one thing, the other may not be able to do that, so there is no need to insult him. There are many things he is good at and you can't.
So don't let someone else's qualifications make you feel small. Likewise, don't look down on someone else's incompetence. A positive attitude sets you up for positive experiences.
Believe in yourself, trust in your own abilities and respect the abilities of others.
Stay happy, stay safe and give respect to achieve respect..
Am I the burden of the world??
Since birth, I have received a lot of love from everyone. When I started to grow little by little, from then on my life started one accident after another. And I became the world's poor.
The time was 2005.
I just joined the school.
One afternoon I was fascinated by the leaves of the blackberry tree next door and wanted to tear them. If I had known that this desire would haunt me for the rest of my life, I might not have climbed the tree. As a result of climbing the tree, I did not get the leaves, the elbow of the left hand was broken in the fall.
Parents' sleep became forbidden. Later I came to know that the bone was broken in three places. As a result, my left arm is still bent.
The time is 2011.
Just passed primary school.
I had a disease called polypus in the nose due to which I could not breathe through the nose.
The doctor said that if the operation is not done soon, it cannot be saved. This time also the sleep of the parents became forbidden. The operation was done. Alhamdulillah I am fine now.
I spent a few years happily like this. But I couldn't bear the happiness anymore.
The time is 2021,
I went to the first football game of the year.
I never thought that this would be the last football game of my life. However, at the end of the game as a goalkeeper, while saving a goal for the team, i fell and tore a ligament in my left knee and bent another. As a result, it was painful to walk.
The time is 2022, June 21st.
When I joined the job after finishing my studies, I could not bear the knee pain and underwent surgery. This time, not only the parents, but also the elder brother's sleep became forbidden.
Almost a month and a half lying in bed today.
I am slowly recovering. I don't know how long it will take to fully recover. I don't even know what happens next.
Sadness is only one, how much more money spend my parents for me, how much trouble my family will endure for me? How much more???
You are ugly!!
★A man looks black, is he ugly?
★A person from birth is deaf/dumb/unbalanced or squinty eyes, but is he ugly?
★Can you tell by looking at the physical structure that he is beautiful?
No, Never, Ever....
You can say, "Why not?"
Because everything is God's creation. And God's creation can never be ugly.
You look fair, nose, face, body structure is also good, that does not mean you are beautiful.
Again you are black, physical structure is not that good. That doesn't mean you're ugly.Your mindset is what makes you beautiful and ugly to others.
And appearance is not the achievement of man, it is the gift of God alone. It is beyond human will and control. As he is happy when someone praises his looks, he suffers a lot mentally when someone criticizes him.
And hurting people is definitely not the job of beautiful people.To be beautiful, you have to have a beautiful mind. And beautiful people judge people based on their ethics and integrity. Not in outward appearance.
So it can be said, "An ugly face is better than an ugly mind."
Be happy with the beauty God has given you, ignore who said what. Your mental beauty is the real beauty.
The creation of God is always beautiful..
It is said, "Hard work is the mother of good luck." Only through hard work and dedication can one reach the desired goal. You may even fail in the first attempt. That's why you should not give up. Only if you move forward with determination will you see that success is waiting for you. Hard work and dedication lies behind the success of all those who have become great sages in the world. So if we want to get something good, we have to work hard and have a diligent attitude and work accordingly.
Am I a murderer???
★Does he become a murderer only by killing people?
★If someone kills an animal, is he a murderer?
I don't know the answer to these questions, but this morning I saw a lot of mosquitoes in my mosquito net, which were sitting quietly drinking blood, some of them could not even fly properly. I don't understand how so many mosquitos get inside the mosquito net where the air from the fan can't penetrate well!
However, I woke up and saw that the mosquitoes were sitting there tiredly. I couldn't sleep all night because of the mosquitoes. When i go to sleep, mosquito bites me and wakes me up. A bad experience to say the least. But I was not less, I also got ready to take revenge and started killing mosquitoes.
I killed about 50 mosquitoes one by one. The picture is bellow :
Yet a mosquito escaped my hand somehow😡. I only caught a glimpse of him. So I could not kill him.😪
It is the blood that is supposed to be inside my body but is now in my hands.
Now I really go to the queue of the accused?
The flower that will spread your fascination!!
It was 13 June 2022.
Me and my elder brother went to buy some flowers and fruit trees at nearby HortiCulture. Original and quality seedlings and cuttings are usually available at Horticulture. I said original because there is very little match between words and actions in many nurseries around. And because of this difficulty, we have been going to HortiCulture to buy all the trees of our orchard before and till now. Along with getting the original tree here, the price is also very low i.e. cheap😌.
However, today I present to you a beautiful flower that I picked up from Horticulture. And it is widely known as Nayantara.
Picture bellows :
It blooms throughout the year and with good care this plant produces many blooms. Then its beauty increases. The flowers are white or pink in color, the entire flower is monochromatic, but the center of the flower is also of another color. For example, red between white, yellow between pink. The plant does not occupy much space. So if you have a little space in your yard, you can plant it. It will increase the beauty of the house.
We also purchased 3 trees. 2 of which were in bloom.
Its red between white. And this is only white in colour.
Although the tree was very small. Yet the flower did not let the tree spoil its beauty. Today I don't know the current condition of the trees due to my physical illness for about one and a half months. So sincerely sorry.
Playing football is a waste of life!!
The time is 1st June 2021.
Approximately 11:30.
I was leveling the low ground in front of the house with a spade. Our playground is not far from the house. Suddenly I heard the sound of football playing. I go closer to the field to confirm. See the game is really going on. I couldn't keep my mind on anything else.
Still forced to finish the work somehow I went to tell my mother that I was going to play. There were clouds in the sky. The sun peeked through the clouds occasionally. Me and mom assumed it would rain. And playing football in the rain has a different feeling and joy. So, unable to control myself, I disobeyed my mother and joined the game.
I usually play the role of goalkeeper in the game. I have quite a reputation in the area for this 😌.
However, the game remained a goalless draw as far back as possible at halftime. The draw remained until almost the end of the second half.At such time the opposition team gets an out. Which was thrown straight at me for a head. As I leaped to knock the ball away as I wasn't going to head anyone, my left leg went into the narrow hole below, tearing one ligament in my knee and twisting another.I was writhing in pain, everyone was helping me to stand up, but I couldn't do it at all. After some time my elder brother went and picked me up on his bike and brought me home.
When I arrived, I was thinking, "Esh! If only I had listened to mom..."
After almost 1 year, I did the operation. This is a photo taken just before the operation.
This is the immediate condition of the foot after the operation.
During this time I experienced lying motionless like a comatose patient.Worst experience in life.
This is a picture on the 7th day of the operation when my brother and the doctor were dressing my leg.
And this is 1 month and 8 days after the operation i mean the current condition of my feet.
Hopefully I can get well soon. Please pray for me.
@Fojla13
