Hi everyone
Good morning/ evening to everyone and some other friends from another part of the world, How was your night/day? I believe everything is find with you guys.
Today I came up with a good wishes to everyone, I know my topic might looks somehow but this is what i find comfortable to write on. It is my pleasure to wish everyone present here a happy new day for some of those friends who are from this part of the world and good evening to some other friends in the other part of the world. Some years ago someone whom I didn't not know just sent me a compliment without no reason and I was thinking some how and I had to know the person who was sending me greetings and fortunately I realise that he is someone who I never get in touch with before.
When I asked him who he is, the only reply he gave me was is it until you know who is sending you greetings before you replied? I was getting confused with his question and I had to reply him his greetings first before we could get into a new discussion. And before we finished the discussion I was able to make him a very good though he is not from my country but with are both friends now. He is right from Philippines while I'm a Nigerian. I find out that the distance could not be a barrier of having friends from a far distance.
I believe by using the same method he used I have been able to make friends with so many people because each time someone sees my greetings he or will get confused and they will be eager to know who is sending greetings and from there when they meet with you in most cases they admire the person you are and they can easily become a friend with you. People have easily get in contact with other people through this strategy and it's really work for them.
You can also send your compliment to someone with no reason, this is how you can easily get in contact with someone. Greetings most times can pave way for someone to become your friend from nowhere . Most times people do see this as scam and a lot of people do use it and I think this is why a lot of people become scared each time someone whom they don't know send them a compliment. They will likely think otherwise that the compliment is a way they could have access to scam them.
But replying to people's greeting really helps at time. When we send compliment to a right person or the right people send compliment to us, that will be an opportunity to get in touch with someone and it will bring out good result in the end. The mistake I made was that I first of all needed to know the person who sent me a compliment meanwhile I would have first reply the compliment before getting to know the person who sent it.
But I wouldn't like you to do what I did, you can first reply the compliment before asking what you did to deserve such compliment. This alone can drive people away from us. It will be good that we first of all reply compliment before we get into discussion to know if those we are talking with are genuine people or scammers.
Send compliment to two or five people here and compliment with no reason, if they reply don't be in a rush, tell them how excited you are meeting them in the first place. Tell them why you sent them the compliment. Become friends to each other if possible the discussion ends well.
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Today's service was awesome
Happy Sunday to all the Christians, I am using this medium to wish everyone a lovely Sunday. I want to be sure that all of us have attended service apart from those friends who are not Christians. Like some of the Muslims neighbors do attend their own on Fridays.
Today I really had a great moment with God. Today's service was really great and I mean it. Right from the prayer section to the praise and worship section even the message which is second to the last in the church program. Those moments was really awesome. The atmosphere got changed in the moment of worship and everywhere was under the control of the holy ghost.
No wonder the bible says I will enter into his court with thanks giving. In the presence of God there is fullness of joy, and miracles always happen in his presence. When praises goes up God's presence come down, it is true that prayer moves mountain but praises moves God. Little wonder did the praises that the children of Israel made to God fallen down the wall of Jericho. Even the one recorded for Paul and Silas how their praises delivered them form the prison.
Being that I am a new member in the church I am not really familiar with some faces though a lot of people have welcome me to the church, I am new only to the people in the church but not new to God. God knew me before now. I was invited to the church by a friend since they have a child dedication I don't like staying away from my church, but when I attended this particular church that a friend invited me, to be honest I really enjoyed the church.
I am a type that doesn't play with music, I am a music lover and I also like dancing to God. Some of my friends sometimes will called me David meaning that I am like king David who's the scripture recorded for him as the best dancer and praiser. Even if I am new in the church I couldn't hold myself when praise was going on. I danced a lot and I don't know how people will see it but to me I know how God has been blessing me through dance.
The praise and worship section was really great, everyone was praising God base on their abilities. Even the message section wow I really admire the preacher that preached today. Everything he said was reality. I said to myself that God has been so good by depositing such gift into men. If you see how this man preached without even looking into the bible, all the scripture he read he read them off hand and it was corresponded to the one they projected on the screen.
I really enjoyed today's service and to make it more awesome so many people came up for Thanksgiving about the good things that God has done for them. Some came up with testimony appreciating God for promoting them, for the gift of life and jobs opportunity.
I am in love with the church and I have promise myself to be committed in the church both in weekly activities and in some other area that needs my contribution. Even those friends of mine went out for their dedication and everyone who came behind his back was asked to come out which I also join them in their celebration.
After the service was over we turn up with our friends place for reception, when I arrived I notice that a lot food and drinks was really prepared for us. Though I didn't know that the child reception was going to take such shape but all same I always believe that God is always by our side.
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My faith has work out for me
I know my believe and whom I believe on. King David speaking in Psalm saying some trust in horses and chariot but he trust in God that nothing can move him. I feel so honored seeing the king of the whole universe to come and died for me so that I can called unto the father and he will answer me. It is true that God answers prayer. I have tested of his power an I am not talking out of experience but i am saying it with experience. If my faith has worked out for me it's therefore means that God is still God. He will never change or disappoint at all.
There is a prayer I was praying believing that one day God will answer me and behold he has answered me. There's this one thing that the believers should Know, God is working according to his time and season. Mostly at times all our prayers request will not come to us immediately as we pray. Some prayers will take time before we could get the answers but all what I know is that though our prayers will take time before it's manifest but it will truly come to pass. The scripture says though the vision tarries but it will definitely come to pass.
Not that I am writing this article out of pride but I am writing to encourage some of those people who are trusting God on one thing or the other. I am writing in other to tell you that God still answers prayers. Sometimes I like coming up with songs just to testify of his Goodness. Just believe and strengthen your faith and those things you've been waited for will come to pass. All the prayers you have been prayed will yield out good result.
Like we all know what faith is all about in Christianity. Faith become the most important thing in the life of every christian, it is through your little faith that your prayers will be answered. It will be through the level of faith that we exercise during when we pray that we will be able to get back a reply. The scripture says anyone that have faith like the small mustard seed he can say to the mountain move from here to another place and the mountain obeys his voice. I have come to realize that all things are not magic because when I heard about it I was thinking others wise.
There are some of my friend that even pitied me when they had about the challenge that I am going through recently and they will really feel worried about me. The other day a friend was asking me how I'm going to pay off my bills that's including my house rent, I told him that I will pay meanwhile my rent had expired already and the landlady was on my neck. Though I expected money that a friend borrowed from me to add up and settle my bills but been that things doesn't work out the Way we expect it to work.
The said friend who promise to pay me my debt turned me down to the extent that he stopped picking my calls. At this point I felt disappointed been as human I felt frustrated but I didn't lose my faith in God. One of my friend visited me again and keep asking me how I will manage to settle my bills, I told him I am going to pay that i trust God and in the miracle he can perform, my friend didn't say anything but I saw God of a few seconds turning things around for me.
My faith worked out for me and I believe that was God's appointed time to visit me. I received a call from someone that I didn't expect anything from, asking if am so so person and I said yes and he said send me your account details, been that I had faith in God and I immediately sent my details to him he weird some amount of money worth $200 to my account and i was able to settle my bills and when my friend heard about the miracle he was shocked about where I got such amount to settle my bills. He said no wonder you were so bold the other day when you said you are going to pay off your bills.
Even my friend confess that such isn't the hand work of man but it is God that can do such. They only thing I told him was that God has never fail me before and he will not. God has been doing it again and again and I believe more blessings are still coming my way. It's just depends on the the angle you believe him. But as for me I believe that he will always supply us all our needs. Just hold on to your faith and believe in God don't mind waiting because God knows you my your name. He says he knew you even before creation and I believe since he knew you before creation he has good plans for you.
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What next?
Good morning and happy weekend to all my wonderful friends. I believe we will have an enjoyable weekend this week. I wish everyone good luck.
Few days past the weather climate is really favorable to us here in some part of my country. I was discussing with a friend of mine and I told him that it could be dry season is starting in earnest and he said that he doesn't believe that such has been happening before. He said there are times that the rain will just cease and the sun comes up for some days and before we know it returns back to it's normal place.
There are some things that people will do and they will feel that the are doing it right but in the others way round a lot of people are not happy with them. I think the world will be a better place for everyone to enjoy if only we will take things easy. I know that no one is wise enough and no one is so smart to remember everything at the point.
Today people are behaving so wicked and heartless, no one even remember the commandments that was given to the christians. They are things that pained me most. Today the church is being mixed up with the worldly people and those characters of Christ that the christians should adapt is no more in the church today.
The love of money and other worldly material has taken men's heart from the lord. People are no more giving jobs to other simple people nowadays. I think most of my fellow Niger9ian will really understand this, today it is not the righteous people that controls the riches. It is only those who belong to a certain group that handle must offices and position and once there's any opportunity they will see how they can fix in their members.
There is this language that they will use or some strange question that they will ask you, they will ask you if you belong. And if you don't understand the terms you will get confuse. I am not getting jealous about what is going on but I believe despite everything the righteous people will still survive it. Now my question is what next. If we gain the whole world and lose our life in hell what profit do we gain.
What will be next when we channel all the slot to those who belong in the same group with us, don't we think about other people. I have a lot of people who resigned from their jobs because of joining a particular group. They're some conditions that they will likely give you and if you refuse they will sack you or if you insist you can lose your life on it.
I8 saying that there nothing we will take back when we die, we will die and leave everything we could ever achieve, the only think that we will take to our destination is the good life we had while on earth. The death of our popular queen is what humble me still this day if I was even a proud type. With all the wealth and the achievement that our wonderful queen Elizabeth of England had, none was added for her to take home when she died
It will be those she left behind that will enjoy those things. there's nothing next that we should think when we succeed in killing our friends we will take them. what next will we achieve.
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How I made with a professional beggar
People are with different colors and with different styles. Different countries with different culture. Not that I am really happy about our country's economy but since it turns out this way nobody can really help. Since the corruption begin from the top so there's no how the bottom will help it out. One comedian rack a joke that sounds so funny. He said that a lot of people become Nigerian citizen by birth and some by choice that he is a citizen of Nigeria by mistake.
I will not judge those who are begging to survive because I don't have any power to judge anyone. But I am not advising people to be begging on the street. The money that someone struggle for it is far better than the one that people give. Begging isn't really a good idea, what if people just decide not to be giving out their money to people on the street what will happen to those who are professional beggars.
I had an experience with a beggar been that I have been meeting them time without number but this time around it's really surprised me. I didn't know that some lazy guys have gang up themselves and form beggars association. When once you see them they don't even behave like beggars. There's how they package up themselves and if you're not a kind of person that understand tricks you will easily fall into their trap and they will use you as they like.
This beggars have come up with different strategy and skills. They have their terms, I think they have attended lessons base on some terms that they are using. It could be when they look through your appearance and they know how much you could offer them at a time. Those people are so smart in a way that if you are not sensible enough they can easily play on your intelligence. They are a kind of people who sees hustling as time wasted and being that they understand the meaning of leverage and that is why they try leveraging on other people.
Though I have been meeting them but they're those on the street who are unable to work due to their inability. And they're those who have everything in them and they just decide to go into begging. I have been hearing stories about the professional beggars and I didn't believe until I met with one and confirm it. They have all the logic they can use to get something from people's hand and I think this is why they are titled as professional beggars.
They have their own dressing code. They are dressing like those who are working in the office and they always handle a big office file in their hands. Some will say that they were invited for an interview but unfortunately they haven't been able to locate the venue and lastly they will end with please do you have any money on you, they will say any amount is okay at least it will take me back to my place. Some will say that they came to meet their relative and unfortunately they can't see them and that they have even lost their connection.
Some will even come directly to you with a certain amount of money and tell you that they are very hungry and they have some certain amount with them and they will show you the amount they have and in the end they will tell you that what they have can not avoid them food, they will ask you to add the little you have for them. The one that really surprised me some days back, a guy came to my shop and showed me a certain amount of money and told me that the wife is in labor that she can't deliver successfully that the doctor suggested she will go under operation and she only have 21 hours to live.
After he had finished I asked him if he has an account number he said yes, I said alright I asked him to sit down and I did as if I am making call but meanwhile I was making fake call. I told my friend to come over with his car that I want to visit my closet person in the hospital that she is in labor and I need to go and meet her and I explained everything on the fake call I made. When I hang off the call the guy who came to beg me for money asked me if I have any body in the hospital I said no that I want to come and visit his wife who is in the labor. When he saw my seriousness he started coming up with excuse that the distance is far and so on.
He told me that he wants to get calling card some where that I should give him some minutes, up till that time till now he hasn't return back from buying recharge card. I knew what exactly he came for being that I didn't what to disgrace him that is why I turn the other way round. I have been meeting with a lot of them who are professional and they always come with lies.
This is the kind of a experience I had which I also believe that some other people have gone through the same. You can also share your own experience here so that we learn from your experience.
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They grow together in love
Hello my wonderful friends how's everything going with you, I hope you are doing great?.
Tuesday is over here in my side and we are moving into another new day which is Wednesday, I always believe in the new day because I know that each new day will bring another new surprise and new look as well. I am trusting God on a particular thing which I believe that he will do it for me, I am still counting days I know he has been doing it and he will do it again this time around.
I really came with a story about one of my very good friend, I know I am not really good in narrating story but I am sure I will try my very own best. Most times everything that happen happens with reason, most times we might want to kill ourselves on other people's matter. It could be the person who is even going through the problem doesn't feel the way other people are feeling. Our people would say why taking Panadol on someone's headache? People like showing concern even on something that they doesn't suppose to get into.
I have a male friend that we grow up together. He was a little bit advance than me in age, base on what I was told he is only older than me with one years and some months. Being that during our childhood they are some peer group that we mixed up ourselves with and sometimes when people from outside sees us playing with each other. It could be a male was playing with a female and those looking at them will just declare them as husband and wife. In most cases a lot of people do like to take it as joke while some will take it serious.
When we hear people saying such word we will like trying to separate ourselves so that people will not came against us with false words. But been as it may most of my mate didn't give ear to them when they try to separate them with bad words. I don't think that we had something like feeling then because we were very young in age. We didn't know anything about love or other wise. The only thing we know was to play together with one another.
But this friend of mine that I am about to narrate his story was acting some how strange. They was also a little female friend of our age that if this male friend doesn't see her in a day he will not relax his mind. They like playing together and people were calling them husband and wife because both of them were very close to each other and they always feel excited each time they meet together. They started like that from their childhood to their youthful age.
At their youthful age the parent were trying to separate them from each other but when they remember that the relationship started since when they were small. The parent knows that there's nothing they could do to separate them from each other. People from outside were also advising the parent that had it been they wanted to separate them from each other they would have done it earlier before now.
They told them that if they are trying to separate them, they will only waste their time on something they will not succeed. So as they were growing they both grow together in love and harmony no one really wanted to miss each other in a day. They both understand each other since they started their journey right from their tender age. Sometimes I will regret why I did not start my own journey as earlier like they started. But I realize that people's destiny are different and more over people are not the same.
But people would say that love is scam. Some will say that love is blind and others will say some abusive words that will tarnish the image of the genuine love. When I here people saying that love is a scam I will tell them that it is not all love that is a scam and it is not all that is blind. Love become blind when those people you love doesn't appreciate it. That is when we start seeing it as blind.
There's still true love in today's world. I have seen see it before and I have a proof from this very good friend of mine, there both grow up together, live in love they share love in equal and today love has made them to become husband and wife in reality not the one that people were calling. They have both wedded together in holy matrimony. I am really happy for them that finally they haven't betrayed each other.
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All that I ever dreamed
Happy Monday to everyone, how are you guys enjoying the day? I thank God for the new week so far and since today is the beginning of the new week I believe things will be much better this week than the past week. The day is running so fast and before we know we say goodbye to October.
Everyone has his or her own dream but the only issues is that people's dream is always delayed to manifest. Being that people's destiny are different, there are some that their dreams can come quickly without taking time and they're are some that their dreams will take time. People are different most time that is the reason that we are advice not to compare ourselves with other people because our destiny is different and most times we lack knowledge about what others know.
We all have visions, I notice that if a man lives without a dream such person doesn't deserve to become a living being. There are some that have the dreams and achieve it successful on time and they're some that have it and they keep on struggling unfortunately they died through the process without achieving their dreams. I think this is the painful part of it.
Everyday people are pressing forward in other to accomplish their dreams but life is also offering them different things. Like it is said that life isn't easy to predict, we can become excited today and before we know it brings tears to us. Life is just like the weather climate which can change at anytime and once it's changes we don't have choice to stops it. All our prayers will be on how the weather can change into our favor.
Life is nothing and this is the same thing I like telling people. We can end our journey on earth today or tomorrow we don't know what will happen tomorrow like we are. There is nothing we should struggle for, once we die we will leave everything and go. We will leave all of our gold and diamond and it will be other people that will be enjoying it.
There's no single person that lacks dreams even the blinds we can't argue with them that they doesn't have dreams. They have dreams just like others do. A woman who was barren for fourteen years and unfortunately got conceived and deliver triplet yesterday and they were much joy in her house and people were so excited through the amazing miracle that God does.
The woman was so glad by seeing the precious gift that God has given her. She turn around with tears of joy in her eye and began telling people what God is able to do. She said that she has been trusting God for such miracle and this blessed day God has surprised her. Being that in our culture once someone delivered triplet or twin people will visit them with gift, so people were going with different gift. She was still thankful to God that all the dreams she ever dreamed has come true.
The same miracle can also happen to us if only we believe in God. He said that God has turn things around in our favor. If we trust on God he can cause our dreams to come true in due season.
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When there's money friends will come
When there is money friends will come because money is the strongest thing that can attract friends so easily. If there's no money they will be no friends. True friends are those friends that will stand by you even in the hardest time but those who's their mission was to make you squander your money will run away when they sees that the money has finish. Money is sweet, my uncle use to say that if you want to know the real character of a man give him money and power then wait aside and see his reaction. Someone who was so humble can change within a twinkle of an eye. People will always become loyal when they have nothing on them.
Money is good, money has power, money also has influence. People who controls money can control a crowd of people because they have money and that is what a lot people are going for. There are some small guys that can controls the adult just because of money. The same money can cause a man to misbehave if he doesn't take time. Someone can become a slave to money or money can become a slave to someone, it's all depends on the angle we view it.
My uncle said that money attract friends both the wrongs and the right friends. The right friend are those who can stay when there's no money but the wrongs ones will leave after the money finishes. There is nobody that doesn't love good things. No one came to the world to suffer. It will be because of this, people will rush to where there are good things.
There's this advice that my uncle told me he said, if you go for money girls will come but if you go for girls money will go. I was shocked when I had this from my uncle but looking deeply to his statement this is true. He advised me when I started having some female friends and he saw that if he allow me to continue the same way that I will lose it all.
I had so many female and male friends then and been that I had a little money and more friends were coming to me. There were friends that I couldn't even believe that they will want to be my friends but they came because I had something in hand and I was so free to spend it on them without thinking the second time. There's no amount of things that you can do to a wrong female friend that will she see or either remember. It will be if you have issues she will tell you that you haven't done anything for her before.
And since I had the advice from my uncle, I took in the advice and stay focus on my goals. I change from spending unnecessarily andi I began to behave as if I don't have money again and I noticed friends were turning away from me and through their reaction I believe in my uncle's advice and with the saying that when there is money friends will come but when there's no money friends will not come.
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Common sense isn't just common
Sometimes I will get confused when people is telling other people to use common sense. There are things that people will believe that we should know before time but coming to realize they get disappointed through our response. When I had people using words like you don't have a common sense I was thinking that it's really common but coming to know I finds out that common sense isn't just common.
Should I say that they are just using the word in other to makes it looks simpler because that sense isn't just common. Most times the sense that we are describing as common have really help us out from problems everyday. This is what has been preserving us, sustain us in time of trouble. We can really imagine the kind of frustration we would have landed ourselves if not because of this sense that seems to be common.
Common is mostly important, this is the wisdom that one came to the world with without acquiring from anyone. It is like carry come products and when a products is seems to be carry come people would always valued it. Some of the product that is known as carry come products are always an original product because it's comes directly from the manufacturer.
The same is with common sense. This is the knowledge that comes directly from God our maker. And it's really important to us and if anyone lacks this sense the person is absolutely incomplete. This is the sense that makes people who they are. This is the sense that helps a lot of people to escape from danger. This the sense that helps people to have their own choice and also decide for themselves.
Most times people always sees it as common sense but it doesn't seems very common to me because it always skip from our minds most times. There are times that this sense will disappear from us. There are times that we will want to make use of this sense but with finds out that the sense that is been title as common sense isn't just common. This sense is really great and it needs another title that is much better than common sense.
This word have once bring confusion in between the son and the father. There's an examination that we have in my country that is compulsory for every pupils before they can cross to secondary level. This exams is title as common entrance, because of the first word "common" and most parents would see it as it is really common since they didn't have the same exams during their time.
So unfortunately the son failed the common entrance and the father was very furious hearing that the son have fail the common entrance. He summoned the son and asked him why he failed such simple exams. He said that the son is going to face his rod. After everything he decided to go through those exams questions that the son failed. When he reads the number one question he was confused, he jumped to another number two and he didn't still know the answer to those questions.
He went through to like four questions and he didn't have ideas of attempting to anyone he got disappointed and shucked his head saying that common entrance isn't just common they are things inside. The common sense that we see as if is common isn't just common.
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Girls wish to be boys, boys also wish to be girls
Greetings to everyone, I want use this opportunity to celebrate with the girls, though I am this late but would believe he i am to late.
People like using the slang "the world is not balance" and it's seems they are saying nothing but the truth. People are not satisfy with what they have or with who they are. I can remember when I was a child I was aspiring to be a man but now that I have grow up to meet with some challenges I regret coming through the process of becoming a man.
Today's mark another day of the international girls child. I am happy to celebrate all the girls across the whole world. I Pray may all our girls child find a good reason to remain a girls child and also enjoy who they are. I remember my earliest time in school when I was asked a question by my teacher he called me by name promise and I replied sir, he said what do you want to become when you grow up and I said I want to become a man, people where laughing at me.
My teacher asked me to sit down and he called me some different names that got me upset. I asked him sir what do you think I will become in future when I grow up? He said I was expecting you to reply me with good answers like, I want to become a doctor or an engineer, I asked him even if I become a doctor in the future will the profession change me from a boy to a woman? And my teacher said know and he was looking confusing with those questions and he ask why I am asking him those questions. I told him that I am happy to be a male child.
On a several times I have been hearing people saying how I wish I was a boy or some boys would say how I wish I was a girl. I see no reason of aspiring for different sex. If you are a male or a female child just be satisfy with who you are. Knowing that our nature is for a purpose. We have a future and a world to reach. If we want to run away from our sex who will we leave it for?
Being a male that I am, I am excited and satisfy with who I am. And I will want people to see it the same angle with me. I have been hearing some people saying how I wish I was this or that. This is what I would have done by now. Some ladies would say if I was a guy I would have established myself by now. I want to emphasis that sex does stops anyone from becoming what he or she wants to become.
Before in my country most especially in my state, female child weren't valued. Female education wasn't value also because the parent thoughts that when they sent their female child to school that it would become waste of resources because in the end a man will come out and marry out those female child. They feel that it is the husband that would benefit the good of those female child.
But today i think such mentality is no more. Things have changed and the parent have started seeing the good of sending the female child to school and today in our country and in my state female are occupying high position. Before female didn't have voice or bring in any acceptable contribution but today female are carried along. I think this is what made a lot of female to wish if they were male.
Happy girls day to all the beautiful girls in the world. I am excited that we have you all in the world without you guys the world wouldn't be a nice place to live. Without the female they will be no reproduction and population in the world. I cease this opportunity to celebrate all the girls that are present here on read.cash.
Happy international girls day!
Cheers to the girls!
Long life to the girls.!
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You have the capability in you
Greetings to my amazing friends here on read.cash. I am exited to come your way once again. How is everything going with you guys? I pray that the week would be success to you all.
There are a lot of people that are looking outward instead of looking inward, there are people that have what it takes to achieve what they want without anyone's help. There is always the capability in us that is left for us to recover and use them. Everyone is gifted and talented but the most reason is that people don't develop out their gift or talent, this is as a result of doubts. People become so doubtful when it becomes to discovering who they are. There are only few people who discovered what they have in them earlier and they're some who discover it in their old age and when they look at their age they become discourage that their time have passed already.
It is better we learn to look on ourselves rather than looking on people. People would always disappoint, discourage and fail us but when we look on ourselves we become the one taking the responsibility for ourselves. This means the more we engage ourselves the more we advance in life. There's no how we will grow fast without having experience. If we are the type that doesn't like to try something or to try a new thing this means we lack experience. Experience teaches more than any teacher and once you have a new experience you have stand to gain a new knowledge.
We have the capability and the strength to pursue our goals without being rely on anyone. We have the power that we are even looking outside instead of developing it out from us. Most times we go out to borrow what we have already but the problem is that we don't know that what exactly we are looking for is in us. But the problem is that we don't know what we have on our inside. This becomes a problem to so many people because once with lack the knowledge we perish. When we don't value what is in us it's become useless.
We have the potential and capability in us. I was someone who was looking up to some other person in other to assist me not knowing that I have all what it takes to help out myself. I realize that I can help myself the moment the person I was looking up to kept me longer and I felt he has abandoned me. I began to fight for myself because I knew that if I always wait for people they might what to finish all the achievement they have before looking back to me.
It is just like being in the exams hall. If y6don't have what to write and you signal your closet person to help you out. Probably if you're lucky to sit close to a selfish type of person it would be when he's done writing all the answers that he will turn back to you, if he will even respond. So many will tell you that they haven't written anything but looking on their script something is written on it. That is the same thing that is happening in today's present world.
I was someone who was relying on someone some years back but I later discover that if i still wait for someone I might arm myself because I don't know when that person that I am waiting for will finish his own. It could be before he he finishes his own it is late for me to start my own. Looking to the illustration I used in writing examination. If one depends on other people it could be before you know the exams is over and you will summit a blank paper.
I wouldn't encourage anyone to reply on other people rather than looking up on ourselves. We have the capability and all it takes to arrive to our different destination that we desire to go. We can also get to the top of the mountain that we aspire for if only we would believe on our capability.
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What do you do with your free time or day?
Hello beautiful friends, how are you all doing? I hope everyone is doing fine. Happy Sunday to all the Christians across the world.
I recently notice that most people do not have free time for themselves due to some busy schedule that they have involve themselves. People will always find it very difficult to have a free time for themselves and I don't think this makes any sense. Our body isn't a machine it needs rest in other to function well. Even some of the machine needs rest two because they're functioning depends on the strength they carry. We as humans we need free time in such that it is through those free time that we will relax our mind. It is through the free time that we can have rest.
I once asked a friend if she have a free time so we can meet with one another and she said that she doesn't have free time and I was thinking she is just joking little did I know that she was saying the truth after she had explain the schedule she always have in a day and when she finished with her explanation I realize that if there wasn't no night that a lot of people would have kill themselves with heavy load. Too much work becomes a problem to our system. It can weaken our system when isn't time for our system to weak.
During my early stage when I was searching for jobs I found a job that is done over the night that's 24hours instead of 12hours. I told them that I can't betray myself with money. If I'm working 24hours everyday where is the time to take rest. Where is the time to attain to some other things or will my focus be only on this particular job? I asked myself a lot of questions when I saw such jobs. But thank God that we all have a choice.
So I have taken my own decisions since I wouldn't want to suffer myself for other person to be gaining and I will be left with a little peanut money. I have figure out that there's no amount of money that they will pay me to cover up all of my stress and struggling that is why I step aside. I know that some people will partake in such jobs because we have different choice entirely. It could be there are people that really love such partner of jobs but I don't think I admire such Jobs.
I like been working for myself than been hiring by someone to pay me by the end of the month and they called it salary. We all know what salary is, working for an individual the person must make sure that he or she pressurize you to make money for them because they know that if you're not making money for them they will not get money from elsewhere to sort out their bills and also pay you your own salary.
During my time of doing jobs for people I have worked in three different places without achieving payment. In case they will pay me some part of the money while telling me that let them see how tomorrow or next week will look like and before I know the month is over and they're still adding dept upon dept without paying me. So and as such I will take my step when I see that the people that I am engaging my time working for aren't appreciating me I will take my leave than to be working for them without collecting money to solve some issues.
There are a lot of jobs I engaged in and it seems that I haven't work for money at all. The last job that I did before taking a decision not to be working for anybody again was terrible to the extent that I was owing much bills and those people that I was owing would think that I have the money and I don't want to settle them. I wouldn't blame anybody because my time and effort I invested on the job was due for much payment but guess what they I wasn't paid.
It could be if the month ends on the 1st they will pay you on the 20th and to the point that I couldn't even predict when i will receive my salary because the issue was getting out of hand till months pass and they couldn't pay me. That is where I blew my final whistle and ends suffering for jobs hiring apart from free lancing which I can do that alone and other online business that is legit.
What really brought the topic is that I met a long time friend in an occasion I attended yesterday and we discussed together and I asked her what she normally does in her free time so that we could meet then I she replied me that she doesn't have free time and I thought that she is just playing some tricks little did I know that she is serious about what she said.
She told me her departure time to work and her closing time and I find out that the only time she has for rest is some few hours in the night. I was really shocked by her statement, and I didn't want to argue with her because I know a lot of people are going through such challenge in life. There are people who do not have free time in all their schedule and the little time they have is just for sleep in the night may be for just three to four hours. Like I had someone saying that the rich men do not have free time at all and I want to be sure that this was simply true.
My question now is do you guys always have a free time out of your busy schedule and what do you do with it?
Or do you have a free day and what do you always do with it?
Unlike me I have free time and free as well but the only free day I have is probably on Sundays but from Monday to Saturday I always engage in one thing or the other. I'm sure that a lot of people would have free day starting from Friday to Sunday. Especially those who are working in public sector and sometimes they have free days when ever it's holidays.
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The secret of one's rising
*He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap; he seats them with princes and has them inherit a throne of honor. “For the foundations of the earth are the Lord’s; on them he has set the world.*
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I have come to realize that before a man become what so ever he is that it is only the lord that makes him what he is. There is no need to boast. It is not anyone that makes himself what he is in life. It is the lord that teaches a man how to prosper. It is the lord that ordered all the steps of the righteous. He lift he who is down and set he above for the world to see. That is what the lord is capable of doing. He always change people's plans over our lives. He picks one from ashes to beauty and from zero to hero, from graze to grace. I believe in his miraculous work.
It is God who makes a man what a doesn't even deserves. And when he wants to change a man's story he doesn't take permission from anyone. He does his own deal. He never fails nor lie or forsake his promises upon our lives. I love the part that says ' eye have not seen, ear have heard neither has it enter into the heart of man what God has prepared for those who loves him. That's is why he always make his goodness to look good on us and we wear his glory like a garment.
The lord is the one that we should build all our hope on. Without God one is nothing. He makes a way where there's seems to be no way and open doors where every way was locked. I depend on God the author and the finisher of our faith. He makes perfect way for a man and even when we ask him for one thing he keeps surprising us we amazing answers. The scripture says that God can do exceedingly abundantly far above all we could asked or imagine. This means that God can do far beyond our imaginations, beyond our expectations and beyond all our plans.
God is the life that we live and he is the breath that we breath, he is the lifter of all men. The lord is the one who can change the generation. He is the giver of life and a destiny changer. I call him the way maker, my redeemer, my provider, my comforter, my strong tower, my helper, my defender, my source and sustainer, my God whom I put my trust,my shelter and my fortress. The alpha and the Omega, The reigning king. The Chosen king. The lions of the tribe of Judah. Elohim, Elyon. Adonai, Elshadai, Jeshua, Jahweh. The l am that I am. Jehovah is his name. Jehovah shalom. Jehovah Nesis. Jehovah Shama.
The mighty man of battle. The mighty man of war. The Champion of the universe. The chief cornerstone. Creator that was never created. The one that has never been dethroned. The undefeated one. The father to the fatherless. The husband to the widow. The self existence God. The seed of David. The one that paid our random with his blood. The one that the demons tremble at his presence. The all sufficient God. The savior of the whole world. The living water. The rock of ages. The everlasting one. The light of the world. The one who was in the beginning, who is and who is to come.
All the name I called him is because of what he can do. It is because of the God that he is. He can't share his glory with any other man and that is why he will remain God forever and ever.
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I was left alone
Hello lovely friends, how are you all doing?.I hope everyone is doing great. Stay safe and enjoy the moment.
I wasn't really sounding well for the past four days back and because of that I was inactive here on the platform. I didn't know the month of October will start with me that's way. I was really fine on the first day of the month. It was on the second day that I felt really weak and tired. The kind of sickness that tight me down was as if I wouldn't come out of it. The one that pained me most is that it's not two long since I took treatment for both malaria and typhoid yet I am still suffering from it. Though people have complain about the inactive of drugs in people's system, some will say that today's medicine isn't making sense that people will take in medicine and it will look as they have never taken anything like medicine.
In my own case I received some positive sign of malaria and I careless about it since I had already taken treatment for malaria and typhoid and I was thinking that it is because of the weather. Here in my place it is raining almost everyday if not in the morning it would be in the evening. So it's looks confusing when a person is been infected by the malaria. Sometimes we will feel like we are alright when we aren't. Unlike myself I always become afraid of taking medicine because most thought that always comes to my mind is that if I take medicine too much it will weaken my cells and because of that each time I start having those symptoms i will get to have a test to make sure it truly a malaria or to Know if it's another sicknesses other than malaria and typhoid. Because I feel that is the best way to cure it faster.
I return from work on Saturday's evening, I walked very well and it was a little sneezing that disturbed me and I was thinking it could be because of the weather that I am sneezing or it keeps disturbs me the next day I will run a test. I didn't know that it is malaria symptoms that is coming up. After i had done taking my dinner I went to sleep little did I know I will not wake up normal again in the morning. When it was morning time I could not wake up anymore because of malaria, all of my joints was weak and I couldn't even go out to get some items for myself or talk a lot of going to get medicine for myself. I couldn't make any calls because my phone power was down. I tried all my best to get up and I couldn't. I was left alone inside the room for some days no one came to look for me because I usually go out early and return back late in the night, so some times if my neighbors don't see me around they would think that I have gone out.
I was left alone and i began to think is this how people died. Imagine how someone will just sleep soundly and before you know you just find yourself in other strange land. I have had all series of dreams during my bad health which made me to become so scared. I am still struggling to regain strength and I believe I will be strong very soon so that I get back to my business.
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Safety arrival to another new month
Hello friends, happy weekend and happy new month of October to you all. I am so exited about the new month and I wish you all for success ahead.
It's another new month and I will believe that everyone is feeling happy and excited. Even if we can't achieve all the plans we had for the month but for the fact that we have witness another month not in pains or in shame we should be grateful to the lord almighty. There's a saying that says when there's life there's hope. If we couldn't made it last month we are rest assure that the next month would be alright.
If we don't have any thing to be happy for we should be happy for the safety arrival to the new month of October. There are so many reasons we should be grateful without anyone reminding us. Most people always sees the beginning of new month as the same like the beginning of a new year. Every beginning of a new year a lot of people will always prepare for it. People will come up with a good goals about the year. So the same things as is pertaining to the new month.
When it is a new month so many people will draft out all their plans for the month, they will think about what they will do in each week in other to accomplish their target for the month. There are so many things that comes with each new month. It is just like a new born baby in which all of them comes to the world with their stars.
New month comes with new look and new blessings,
There are different blessing that is attached to every month. Each month comes with blessings in the sense that when once it's the particular months we don't pray much without receiving the blessing s. There are months that shines brighter and brighter in which we don't really struggle for answers.
They are month that always attract favor and testimony
There are so many months that will carries favor and testimonies to people's life. Every month has been planned by the good planner which is the most high God. Once people start receiving favor he or she wouldn't be feeling free to with hold testimony rather than saying it out.
New month comes with surprises
The kind of surprise I mean is a good surprise in which someone is being giving a new car, a surprising of a new house and a lot to mention. This is the type of surprises that I am talking about. Most people will see surprises as a normal thing that should happen not knowing that it always depends in the kind of months we enter into.
We are so lucky to arrive to the new month of October. I wish everyone with all the good things. May our plans works out in this month in Jesus name.
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Learn more and earn more
Hello my beautiful and amazing friends on read.cash. Hope you all are doing fine?
Everything that we do today in order to earn a living is something we learn from other people, or if not we learn it through people we waste our time to practice it. A lot of people have learned it from school some from an individual . We don't see learning as something that will ever end because people are ready to know more and earn more. People will want to even know more than those who have gone ahead of them. Because of much earning that we can achieve through learning, a lot of people are never tired when it's come to learning.
The more things we learn the more doors of earning that will open to us. When we keep gathering good ideas everyday believe me our life can't remain in the same level that we were when we didn't have any new ideas. Learning is very important and that's why they said learning never stop. Learning is a continuous process in which it's mandatory for everyone to learn. It's will be very easy for a learned person to make profit because he or she might have had a required skills through learning.
I was told that a man keeps learning every day. The day that a man will stops learning is the day he died. The same thing will happen with making profit. A man ends all his story once he is dead. There's much earning when we open up ourselves for learning. There are category that lies in learning. We have the professors and the lecturers which we know that the professors have spent time to learn in other that they can prove their title when ever they are needed. And their earning can't never be the same like that of the lecturers.
Learning more is the only simplest way to earn more. I have a friend who is holder that me in few years. I met him few years ago in my church when he was invited to come and set sound system for our church. We have our own sound engineer but sometimes we will always invite other people to come and contribute their knowledge since there's no body that is an island, no one knows it all. Though a good number of them have been coming to set the same sound still with the same equipment that is in our church.
But when this guy who is my very good friend today came to our church his own way of setting sound was different from some other people and this is what made me to go close to him. I tried all i could to make him stay in my church he refused to accept my request, he when ahead and tell me the amount of money he will collect from our church if he must stay. Looking at the amount of money he mentioned was something he didn't wanted to do. It's like someone knowing that he will not accept your request then he will by all means come with a condition and excuse that will even kept you silent.
The amount of money he mentioned was so much that if such amount is taken from the church's pocket it's will really run down the church account. But all what I could do with my little sense was to make friend with him and because of my closeness he started coming to my church from time to time and take care of the sound. Why do the church valued him that much? I believe someone will like to asked such question. The Bible says bless is a man who is diligence in his work for he will stand before kings and queens.
I later find out this person doesn't have time to waste all he does is learning new things about sound from online and he has subscribe to so many lessons online and both offline. He sees that profession as the only thing that he earned from and he takes it very serious. I can see that his seriousness has really announce him to so many people and people always valued him when ever he is been called for jobs.
To earn more, we must really learn more. It is impossible to give out what you don't have but when you have it you will find it very possible to give out. It will be very difficult for someone who is an illiterate to become a professor. There's nothing he will be able to teach the students since he didn't pass through such track. Earning more needs our efforts and determination because we can't do without learning. Much of the earning that people earns today, their source is from learning. Learning become the secret source of earning. Once you devote yourself into learning the letter L that spell the word learning will be silent and you will dealing with more earning.
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How do you feel when it's raining in the morning?
Hello my wonderful friends on read.cash, how is everything going with you all? I hope things are going fine?
Our people would say that the worst thing that can happen to someone in the morning is early morning rain. Through their way of explanation it could be when they have had every plans towards the following day. But rain fall early in the morning and scatter all their plans. They are a lot of people that will be affected by the early morning rain and they are some that will be even happy about it.
Now that I become a grown up man which I'm the one taking care of myself, I always feel bad each time it's raining because I know it will really affect my plans. Early morning rain can caused some business not to move the way it's suppose to because a lot of customers can feel so reluctant to go out. I believe that everyone knows how movement always become slowly each time that it rains heavily.
Every raining days always comes with a lot of excuses and disappointment. It could be we had an appointment with someone and before you know you will have a phone call that they are not sure if the appointment will still be hold due to how it's raining. People would like to shift some appointments to some other day because of the rain. I am seeing rain as something that can scatter our plans, unlike two days a ago which was Sunday.
We had an occasion which few of our choir members were to minister in the occasion but due to the heavy rain fall that rain flood disturbs the car that was to picked us up to the venue, it couldn't come and picked us on time and because of that we missed to attain the occasion. Early morning rain has cause disappointment to a lot of people most especially to those who do not have means of transportation.
And at times they are days that it will rain so heavily and those that owns a car would not even be able to drive out with their vehicles because they will have different thought in their minds like what if they go out and their get challenges and break down on the road. Or what if they have serious accident on the road. I am sure that a lot of know the challenges that vehicle always have when driving on rain. The brakes might not really respond to friction when its raining and a lot of things can happen at the spot.
I can remember during my school days each time it's raining I will feel somehow bad and some times good. I always feel bad when it's rain early in the morning that I have important subject. And they are days I will feel excited when I know that they would be compound work or anything that isn't contrary to learning. I was schooling in government school and its wasn't a private school. Anything can happen in government school that's why I was happy about the early morning rain sometimes because it will disturbs some certain arrangements.
How do you always feel about the early morning rain. Does it disturbs your plans, movement and your target? Like I have explain already to me it disturbs me a lot now that I'm a business man which I believe it also affect others business activities. Business really move in the morning and a lot of business men values time and they are also working according to time. Once they can't make it up in the morning it will really affect them because business moves in the morning.
Early morning rain, some people would see it as a blessing while some will see as a disappointment. Meanwhile the two scenario are still good because it's depends on the area that one specialize on and the early morning rain becomes a problem and to some other people it's become a blessing.
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We all have our role to play
Hello friends how is everything going with you? I believe that things are working right we you all.
Happy new week of success to everyone present here on the platform. Like I have said earlier that I see Mondays as the new beginning of the week, though some people will see Sundays as the first day of the week. Anyway there's no more problem because we all have our different way of believe due to some teaching we both receive through.
I would will say that everyone living on planet earth has his or her rule to play. This is to say that everyone is important there is no one that doesn't have a part to play. I recently find out how some people will limit themselves due to some certain challenge that they pass through at a point. People have been using some abusive words over themselves just because they lack the understanding about the value they worth.
I believe that each person that God created has a destiny to fulfill and if the person doesn't fulfill what he was meant for, such person has really fail the humanity. I learnt that we were all created for a purpose so there's no need of us keep seeing ourselves as little. I believe that we all know the story of Joshua and caleb whom were sent to go and spies the land. Some number of people went back with bad report saying that they were like grasshopper before the children of Canaanite.
This was because they didn't see themselves as those that are important that's why they limited themselves to such level. But Joshua and caleb saw that they have a part role to play, they refused to little themselves. They saw themselves as those who have duty and they decided to achieve their target. They went back with a good report by telling the people that they can over the children of Canaanite and take over the land for inheritance. This two people really motivate me each time I go through their story.
We all have a duty so long as we are still living on the planet earth. A good person has his part to play and also the bad person too. This is what we should have in our minds that where ever we find ourselves that we have a duty to carry out. People do values us secretly. It could be through some areas that we perfect well and people admire us, some keep us in their minds or having a good plans over us. It is not everyone that will come out to appreciate us when ever we perfect each of our duty. People can always praise us at the back and they feel so reluctant to say it openly to us.
There's a lady that sings treble part in our choir and it's been some days and I haven't seen her through out the week and when I asked about her they said she isn't feeling fine. I had to put a call across to know how she is feeling and I thank God she believes her faith. When she picked up the call I called her by her name and asked her how are you? I had that you aren't feeling fine? She yes but that she is going to be better sooner that she is even missing the service already. And I was really excited to hear that from her.
I was surprise by the statement she made yesterday when we met in service, she came close to me and thank me for calling her the other day to find out what was going wrong. I told her that she doesn't need to thank me because I didn't do it well that's probably I suppose to visit her with gift or something. She said that it is not only about the visit that she felt exited the moment i called her. She said that she didn't even know that people could values her that's way that so many people called her asking why she isn't in church. And I told her that we all have a part to play even with those little things you do and feel as if it's nothing , that alone could be your duty.
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What a disgrace
Happy Sunday to all the christians over the world. I believe we will all attain today's service? Stay safe and remain bless.
A lot of people always bring disgrace to themselves. And at times I will asked myself what makes them to behave that's way. So many people are ever ready to disgrace you once you give them an opportunity. When an elderly man hang a mockery bag on his back the children are ever ready to mock him. When once you give an opportunity for people to disgrace you they will disgrace you to the point that you didn't believe they could do such.
I don't know how some people feel when people disgrace them through their mess up. I Know people will not just start doing something silly with another without them being offended. Unlike me I hate being disgrace by someone especially when I wrong someone. Being that I'm a type that hate disgrace I will always be careful not to enter into it. Being disgrace by people isn't a good thing. Most times people will disrespect and dishonor you through what you did.
People sometimes do disgrace people that are innocent, it could be another person did something wrong. I can remember during school time a fellow friend will steal something from his or her friend's bag, but being that they saw your movement close to the bag and they accuse you wrongly and before you know the fellow students will start disgracing you by calling you a thief or some different names that is not necessary. This particular disgrace seems to be very painful because you are innocent about it.
What a disgrace, and disrespect. Shame doesn't catch the mad man it's will only catch the brother to the mad person. What I saw baffles me how people are being disgrace through some different ways of addiction. The other day I saw people gathering around with noise as if there's a big issues but when I went close I had that a man when to play bet and his money got finished and he played on credit and still loses it. When he was asked to pay his balance they find out that he has exhausted all his money and when ahead betting on a credit that worth $8 and the bet assistance could not let him go until he pay all his debt.
The bet assistance held him down until he paid the last money. He did everything he knew to escape but to no avail until he put a call across that his family came and rescued him. They are some help that I will render to people, when I see such issues I don't like involving myself because I hate people with such attitude. People didn't even mind to help him because they know if they help him out today he might repeat it again the next day. So people let's him to face his shame all alone.
The one that happened two days back is very terrible. I saw a man when naked and I thought he is a mad man but I latter fine out that he played betting game on credit and his clothes were taken from him and he was let naked. I was really surprised how people will be so addicted to something to the point of disgracing themselves by going naked. I am not abusing betting but I think they should be a limit that people play it. It shouldn't be something that after betting one or two of your property are cease from you.
People have allowed so many things to weigh them down. Addition to a particular thing has opened a lot of people to disgrace and dishonor. People will go and drink alcoholic on credit and before you know the owner of the drink will shout on them to pay money. I wouldn't go on the food side because I know that is where a lot of people falls. The food on credit isn't something that is rampart everywhere once someone is torture by hunger if the person can not controls it. He or she can fall in doing something that people will dishonor them.
To me i see being disgrace as a bad thing, we shouldn't tarnish our image. A good name is better than a costly perfume. It is better we control ourselves from being failing into disgrace.
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Appreciation is an application for more
Hello my good friends on read.cash. How are you all doing? It's another Friday so let me wish everyone a lovely and successful weekend ahead stay focus and remain bless friends.
I haven't seen something that is really good and important than appreciation. This is an hidden secrets that most people do not know. And because of the ignorance people refuses to appreciate other people when they are help in one way or the other. A lot of people find it very difficult to appreciate people. People lacks appreciation whereby they don't see it as something important, but to those that knows what appreciation is know how to use and how to use it properly.
People who always lacks appreciation are those that people will denied them an opportunity because they see no need of offering them anything. Meanwhile people that knows how to appreciate people are those types of people who quickly wins others hearth, once you are able to tell someone thank you for that or thank you for this I have seen what you did. That's alone will trigger the person to do more beyond what he wanted to do, all this is because of the appreciation.
Most times people do see thank you I appreciate it as a common thing but this isn't common. Thank you is really important and people takes it more important. I can remember when I was a little kid and each time I'm giving something by my mother, she will ask me did you thank me? And I will immediately say thank you mum and I always got excited through her smile and she will reply me with thank God. Charity begins at home they say, home is where I learnt so many things about life on how to live a freely life in the society.
Expression for gratitude which is normally known as thank you can open up a close door for someone, but when we see it as a just common thing we will suffer a lot. I have had people saying a thing like, not that I wouldn't have help him out this time around but the last time I helped him he didn't said the last thing like thank you. Or I don't think I would help him because he couldn't even appreciate me with the a little I did for him talk a lot this big one.
I learnt that appreciation is an application to receive more blessings or more gifts form people. Due to the type of work that I specialize on, I do go for home services for those big men who wouldn't have time to go out to barbing salons to barbs their hair. I was lucky today to meet with one of the prominent man who owns a very big hotel and have staffs working under him. Though I have been hearing stories about him that he is a stingy type of person, so when I met with him today I was shocked at what happened and with all the stories I have been hearing about him.
When the guard took me to him, I greeted him and he replied me with smile on his face. And he welcome me inside and gave me a sit and he asked me to give him some minutes and I waited for him to be done with what he was doing. Immediately he said that he is done I started barbing which it's took me up to 40 minutes before I finished. After he had paid me money for my service he sent for ripe banana for me. I remember I thanked him when I collected the banana and I still thank him after finishing the banana this time I didn't just say thank you, I told him thank you sir I appreciate this gift from you.
Guess what as if the banana wasn't enough he sent for another fruit for me which was pineapple and I ate it and thanked him. He said that next time I come back that he will keep something for me that he really love my life style. So all the staff was shocked to see their master sending gift for me and they were like Is this guy using magic to get those things from our boss? They said that he doesn't give out thing to people that he even prefer those things to spoiled than to give to people.
Appreciation is really the magic I used on him, because when he paid me for my services the first time I was so excited and I told him that I am really excited over the money before he sent for the first banana and followed by another pineapple. Appreciation is really the secret key that can open a man's heart and he favored you. Even God himself when we appreciate him for the little ones he does he sees that as a request for him to do more.
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Unfriendly friend
Hello to my fellow friends on read.cash. How are you all doing? I hope everything will works out just fine stay safe and be bless friends.
I would believe that a lot of people knows what I mean by the unfriendly friend. The world today has turn to what we don't understand anymore. And we can't even predict what will happen in the next second as we speak. Days come new things are still coming, new things is coming either in positive or negative way. Mostly the way people are taking things nowadays is like they see every minute as if that is their last chance on earth. Moreover there are still some people who takes life so simple knowing that there's nothing too much in it.
Today In our society true friends are really scares, people that claim to be true friends are the fake once. They don't get tire of assisting one another, They will respond to you but in their mind they have a second thought. The unfriendly friends are the type of friends that is rampart everywhere. Both male and female do act as unfriendly friends. This is why a wise man once said don't tell people all of your secret. Even if it is your real friend don't tell all because you may not know what tomorrow will bring and those whom tell your secret might use it against you
Unfriendly friends are those friends who acts as if they are truly friends but in the other way round they are all betrayers. They can say good against you in your presence but when you are not around they change their tongues. This type of friends are those who always gossip against others they can form lies against their friends in other to gain favor from the other party. The unfriendly friend are always with envy and jealousy in their heart. They always mind to harm one another without thinking twice. They can can destroy your life within a giving minute of a time. All this will happen because they knows all your secret and your way about.
There is a short story of how two ladies who's one was acting as a true friend but in the other way round she was an unfriendly friend. She was ever ready to frustrate her fellow friend from not achieving any good thing. Once she sees that good things will come to her friend she must make sure that she pursue those good things away mean while the other friend who is innocent who also believe in a good relationship was trying her best to help her and looking for a way to make her a successful person. Not knowing that she is busying pouring water on the duck's back. That's means there is no amount of love and sincerity that you will give to an unfriendly friends that will change their intentions.
Out of the two ladies who's one was fake, the other one was lucky to meet with a man who asked her out in marriage. And the guy was ever ready because she saw everything he needed from the lady, they when ahead in making some steps towards the marriage arrangements. He went to know the ladies parents according to our tradition and he did half of the things that he supposed to. When the other friend who was an unfriendly friend had that the marriage will work out she turned back and spoiled the man's heart with bad words.
She went and form lies against her friend to the man. She said that she is her best friend and that she knows her better than she even knows herself. She told the man that her friend belong to a cult group in which according to their rules and their covenant if the member of the particular cult get married to a man the man will die that it is only the ladies that always married themselves. She told the man that she wouldn't want him to die that she is sent as a messiah to him and is left for him to take his own decisions.
When the guy had about the fake story which isn't true he changed his mind from the other lady, this was because of what her best friend told him and to him he sees it as if the lady that told him the secret loves him and he turn his mind towards her. He stop calling the other lady whom he went to pay some prices to the parent, he abandoned her and go for the other unfriendly friend. Before the innocent lady knows they got married to the unfriendly and she was left stranded.
But in the end their marriage didn't work out because it wasn't through a good source. Everything was exposed after some years and their marriage scattered. The man was very angry when he latter know the truth part of the story. He laid his anger upon the unfriendly friend who told him fake stories that made him changed his mind from someone he dearly love.
Being an unfriendly friend to someone is not a good thing sometimes it might happen we betray the other person and put the through pains and some other things. The betrayers doesn't always goes free, they will always reap what ever they sow.
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Meet me in the mortuary
Hello my wonderful friends on read.cash, I hope everyone is doing great?
I always see Mondays as the first day of the week been that yesterday was Monday the new beginning of the week seems to be productive. Through the way I am seeing the first staring of the week I believe things would be better this week. How was your Monday like? Does it even give you a profitable sign or does it looks so slowly? Even at that still have in mind this week will be a productive week for us.
I was at somewhere some days ago and I had someone using this word " meet me in the mortuary and I was very curious about his sentence because I didn't understand his view and he latter explain by what he meant by meet me in mortuary. Like it is said that we shouldn't judge the book by its cover. People had already wanted to conclude it if not because of his explanation that clam them down. A lot of people's faces changed immediately they had the saying since they didn't really understand what the person said.
According to his explanation and how I understand it was that mortuary is a place that everyone will go. He said that people will still meet with people in the mortuary irrespective of the stature or the ranking. He said that be it in the same place or in some other environment, but so long the place is used in keeping corpses it is still known as the mortuary. Before people didn't give him an attention due to the word he used at the first place but he latter got people's attention when he came up with his meaning.
Mortuary here is just like death in which nobody will ever escape from it. Be it the most wealthiest person or be the most poorest person they will both meet in the mortuary. Mortuary is really a place where dead bodies are been kept in preparation for funeral. Where ever a person's death body is kept that's becomes his or her mortuary, it is not until the place is design only for dead bodies. Mortuary in totally is a place that I fear so much even when I have become a grown up guy, to enter into where the dead bodies are been kept is a problem because I wouldn't enter. I hate mortuary with passion. A friend told me that it's people that always take care of those dead corpse and I replied him that I know about that but I wouldn't try such.
One presenter was speaking in a seminar and he said that the most challenging place that when a person pass through he becomes a man enough are;
The mortuary
The sea
And the hospital (that is if you're a man and your wife is in labor)
Going to mortuary to meet the corpse someone who was really close to me is a problem. Always feel bad going in there but I can go close to it but I wouldn't get inside. To me mortuary is a place that I hate very much with passion. I said I will one day go through it. That will only take sometime, I will only give myself sometimes before passing such challenges.
What he meant was that a lot of people find it very difficult to travel on the sea. People would no I can't travel on the sea, this because of some accident that always occur on the sea and once such incident take place if God isn't by your side one wouldn't survive it. I know I have pass through this challenge because I brought in the sea area and I have mastered swimming skills so I don't always afraid of the sea.
Men always become so scared once their wife are into labor, some different thought will come into their mind at the moment but once their wife deliver freely they become alright. This is one of the challenges that I haven't gone through yet because I am not married. But i will have the experience as goes. I have gone through such challenges before? If you have let's hear your experience.
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The waiting time
Greetings to every on read.cash, I am excited coming to you way once again. I hope you all are doing good.
How was your Sunday like? Were you able to attain Sunday service? I attained Sunday service and I was really loaded, I feel very comfortable and relax thank God I didn't miss today's service. Right from the beginning to the end of today's service I was really encouraged. I enjoyed the preaching and everything that was going on in the service.
My today's discussion would be on the waiting time. I have been hearing about time and season, yes time is really important to humans. We all work according to time and once we miss it we will fail to catch it up because time doesn't wait for someone. It is good that we manage our time properly, because the moment we miss manage it its becomes a problem to us and it can affect us badly.
The waiting time in my own way of explanation is a period where a person undergo difficulties and trials. This is a time whereby someone pass through hardship and a lot in life. Waiting time can cause someone to look discourage and discomfort. This is a time that most people always use the word, God why me?, why do you allow such situation to come close to me.
But waiting time is really a reality in which everyone must go through. It is like bridge. Every successful person have a bridge to cross before he or she achieve what he want. Be it a small or a big bridge since our faces are different so as our problems are different. We have different bridges to come across before we get want we want in life.
Waiting time is a process time. It might be that there is something that we are desiring to achieve but we can't get it at the right time, this is a process of time. In the process of time you are waiting with an expectation for something which you are aspiring for to come. Some people will say give me sometime. It could be in the other way round we were owing someone and we can't pay them on time we will like ask them to give us sometime, where by through this period the person who borrowed us the money and we as the debtor this period is also seen as the waiting time because in this scenario the two parties are in expectant for something. I hope someone will not get confuse here.
Waiting time is a challenging time in someone's life because in waiting time that's when dryness will show up. That's when rejection will come. That is when people will despise you. Going through the process of time is really not an easy task because it is not everyone that always endures the period to the end. Some people usually loss their lives through this waiting time. Most will loss it through covetousness, and some will just fall into committing suicide in other just to end it once and for all.
I am seeing the waiting time as a time where life will always teaches someone a lesson. Life is a mystery it comes with the good and the bad side of it, which we have to pass through the both before we be crown the crown of glory.
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We will change the clock's hand
There is nothing seems to be difficult for us to change once we are able to come up with a good mindset. Teamwork and determination is the secret key of achieving whatever we might want to achieve in life. Everything is possible when we unite together, Things become possible to us the moment we don't betray people through the use of money.
Today in our country there are much noise and argument going on in both the federal and the state level. I don't know in other countries, but this is the type of government that we adopt in Nigeria. They are a lot of argument and misunderstanding in our country right now. People are standing for different parties. And they are assuming which party will win in the coming election that is coming up from few months from now in our country. So many parties member have deviated to some other party when they sees that where they are wouldn't favored them.
For the past years our country have suffered a lot from poverty, insecurity and high level of corruption. I'm not saying that there's no corruption in some other countries but our own is getting to something else which we are only living because we do not know what will happen in the next moment. We are really confused through the way how our leaders are behaving. Today I was able to find out the amount of money that our country are generating from our natural resources every minute talk a lot every month but yet nothing to show.
The problem we are facing in our country is greediness and selfishness. People are not thinking about the life of other people. They feel relax and comfortable once they are able to take what belongs to everybody for themselves alone. This is really partiality because they are not doing it the right way. If they are managing our country's money properly there shouldn't be such amount of poverty here. Our country shouldn't be a place where we lack power supply. It shouldn't be a country where by there is a strike for over eight months in our educational system. There shouldn't be any high price in fuel and other things.
Because of the way things are turning upside down in our country today everyone isn't happy about it. The youth are saying that they will change the hand of the clock to another direction since the former direction isn't favorable to everyone. Things are really going wrong here, hunger is another issues that is affecting people here because people aren't paid well in jobs they are engaged with. Poverty have made people to work as an elephant and eat as an ant.
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A death dog question
Hello my fellow friends, how is everything with you? I you a successful weekend. Stay safe and remain bless.
There are some questions that people used to ask people when they know the answer already but they are just asking so that it wouldn't look as if they don't have any contribution to contribute. People will always come up with a question that they know already. I always see them as people who wants to waste people's time and energy. When I notice that you are such type of a person I will know how to behave with you. Some people sees a dog question as a question that people asked to have confirmation, but I think that it is not every question that we should ask. They are things we should just look with our eyes and know the answer rather than asking a question.
I have a friend who wouldn't give you a reply when he knows that you are asking him a death dog question. When ever a guy of his same age ask him a question that giving back the reply is a waste of time he will just keep silent at you without giving you a reply. He will only say that you know the answer already. He will only reply those who are older than him in age. But before he answer he will act as if it is a suggestion that he is making. When people always come up with a dog question he will always ask them what they think before he comes up with the answer.
A death dog question is a question where by someone have the knowledge about a particular thing but he is just asking for no reason. A death dog question is someone knowing probably that a dog is death already but he or she is just asking to waste people's energy and time. They some questions that can be seen as a death dog question. They are question like;
Is that a car?
This is an example of a death dog that most people really ask. This question are not asked by the young people but it is some matured people that always comes up with such questions. It would be when the see a car packing they will asked if what they are seeing is truly a car. Most people sees most of a death dog question as mockery question and that is why a lot of people do not always comes up with a reply quickly.
Is the dog death?
This is a question that people will ask you and you find out that giving them a reply is really a time wasted. Some of this death dog question can even make someone to be upset. A hot tempered person can really get upset when he knows that you are asking him a death dog question. Someone asking you if the dog is death after he or she might have seen a dog lying down breathless and lifeless and they will still ask if it is death. Most times some funny people like a friend I have will tell you that the dog isn't death that it is alive and it is barking.
Are you eating?
People will another person eating at the moment and they will still asked if the person is eating. This is after the person might have known the answer already but he is asking for asking sake let me put it that's way. There are questions we shouldn't ask most times but we keep asking it. How will someone sees that a person is eating and he is asking questions for nothing. Of course people do answered a death dog question in another way which is really funny.
There are a lot of a death dog question that most people really ask which most of us knows about it. I wouldn't have time to list all of them but you can still come up with yours. Most times a death dog question sounds so funny to people that quickly understands it. Once someone is throwing a death dog question on them they will only start with a smile first before they come up with a reply.
Have you been asking a death dog question before? Or did people normally use it on you? If you have any question that sounds like a death dog question you can drop it in the comments box so that we all know it.
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Do it to yourself
Hello friends on read.cash platform. How are you all doing, I hope everything is going fine with you people?
There are this word that people normally use to say. There will tell you to pinch yourself and if you can feel any pains then don't try to hurt other people because they will also feel it like you do. Some people usually says if you know that what you are doing to one another if another person does the same to you that you will not like it, do not do it to some other person. The world we are living is a nice place but we will just make it to become a nice place the moment we accept to live freely with one and other. There are people that can live close to someone for some years without having issues and they still those that can live close to you, you will be having issues everyday. There are a lot of people that behaves that's where. There are a lot of people that can not really control themselves once they get angry.
There is how we can enjoy the society we live. Even if we are living with troublesome class of people we can still live without having issues everyday. There is nothing so sweet like living peacefully with your neighbour. Having a good neighbour is really good most time that you have challenges or either face with circumstances, it is your neighbor that will give you a listening ear. If we are not living a life that is nice with them they will not give us a listening ear each time that we are face with challenges. A lot of us will just live close to people they will like seeing themselves as if they have arrived. Mostly pride usually take away a good life style away from us.
Before you do anything with someone first think in your mind how you will feel if you were in the same shoe with the person. They are most wicked activity that people does to other people which on a normally day they can't try it to themselves. Before you take any step towards dealing with one another just first imagine how it will be, or how you will feel if such thing happens to you. Most people will just carry out a wicked act without thinking twice what they are doing is good or bad. We suppose to ask ourselves a question like this particular thing that we are doing where will it take us to. Or what will be the outcome of it. We should always scale ourselves in so many thing before we react. We shouldn't just react so that people will see us as those who can make things happen or as people who have the mind in taking action.
Before we take any action we should always try it on ourselves. Let's always have the second thought before we do it. Let's not just take the stick and play the drums at once we should first focus on the beating and how the music goes. Because we shouldn't just play it the way we like without listening to the music we might spoil the whole thing. Life is personal there is nobody that live your life for you it will be better that we really take care about every activities we carry out today because those things will always stand against us in the future. What ever a man sow that is exactly what he will reap in the end. So it is better that we listen to our inner mind each time we want to take action so that it wouldn't hook us.
Something happen yesterday in my area that really shows me some people's character. I would believe most of you knows plantain plant. It was around the evening time that I had some noise and I decided to go and check what is happening. When I got close to the place what I saw with my two eye shocked me. An old person of forty to forty eight years stolen a plantain and unfortunately he was caught they beat him and do all sort of thing. When I even saw the size of plantain the man stole it didn't worth the beating and what they did to him. As if the beating wasn't enough they went and brought tier and fuel to burn him and I was surprise if they are really doing this to human being like them.
I could not watch them burning the man because I knew it was condition that caused him to do what he did. I asked them to stop it and thank God they listen to me. The first thing I wanted to know was what made him to steal the plantain. When I asked him he said that it was because of hunger that cause him to come and still, he said that not even him alone that the children are the most reason why he did what he did. When I asked him what he does for a living he told me that he is a truck pusher that he had an accident some month back and his truck got spoil then he didn't have money to repair it. To me I thought he was just lying just to be rescue from the death but I letter find out that he was is true.
I pleaded with the owners of the plantain not to kill him that I will pay off everything and they were even against me saying if I am supporting him. I told them that them killing the man will not solve the problem, I asked them to always think twice if unfortunately they fall into the same shoe how they will feel, and if people want to burn them to death because of plantain what what will they gain from it. When I ended my words they asked me to pay them a certain amount of money which I did. I pay them and I asked them to take their plantain back.
I went with the man to know more about him and I followed him to his house and I knew everything he said was nothing but the truth. The truck that he used to survive with the family was got spoiled and the two children he has are at home not going to school. I told him how much it will cost for the truck to get repair and he told me the amount and I assure him that I will fixed it for him by month end so that he can get back to his work. He was so grateful. Even though I am not expecting such amount of money but I am trusting God will help me to get it through my hustling this month.
There are some actions we should not take lets always think twice before we take any action. Let's just assume how we would feel if we were in same the shoe.
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Life is zero
Hello to everyone on read.cash. I am happy to meet with you guys once again. I would believe that everything is working fine with you guys.
A lot of people have come up with different definition of life. They have really tried to explain to us what life really means. They said that life is a period of time during something has existence. Some said it is a span of time which something live. There is no lies in all their meaning but I am seeing life as nothing. After all the struggling that we struggle in life where do we go to? Life is vanity upon vanity, there is nothing that one will gain in life if he didn't live a good life while he was on planet earth. We have been hearing series of fight and some level of wickedness that men does but they refuse to understand that there is nothing to struggle with in life. We will just will go back with nothing the day we close our eyes in death.
I am not saying that life isn't beautiful. I am not condemning life by saying that life is zero. I am trying to tell a lot of people who wants to carry everything on their head as if life is their property. There are a lot of people who are still oppressing the poor and thinks that there is much to gain in life. If we like we should own the whole country alone but the day we die we will not go with it. We will only go with only those good works and the good names we made during our life time on earth.
Life is nothing it's only the breath we have that makes us who we are? The moment we lose it we no longer become a living being. And the worst thing is that the moment a person is being declare death those living do not have something common with them. They will say that the death and the living do not have something in common that there is a separation between them. And once a person dies today that's marks the end of his story in life. No matter the wealth you acquired while on earth those things will never follow you.
Life is really zero, a thought came into my mind some days back and the thought was like why did death even falls into the characteristics of living things. I said to myself that we suppose to live forever on earth. But there is every reason for everything. Everything has it own expiring date. Once a particular thing meet up it's expiry date it becomes useless to people. No one will ever live forever so long as the law of nature is concern. I am not seeing anything that people should kill one another for. In some part of the state here in my country I'm hearing news about killing here and there.
Most times I even watch it on video how people will slaughter his fellow human just for nothing. I sometimes think where some people takes their own heart from because I really become scared when I even see them slaughtering their fellow humans as if they are slaughtering chicken. Even I to slaughter chicken is a problem because I always feel that it is painful to them talk a lot about slaughtering human being. Some month back there is a video that when viral on how some of people slaughter their people a live and cut off their private part. I had that some after getting those items they will sell for money while some are using for rituals.
What shall it even profit a man if he does all those things and still die in end. Before we carry out this type of wicked activities we should think twice if we are going to die or if we are going to live on earth forever. But I think we will all die and leave the same earth for other people to occupy, there is nothing that should make us to kill our brother, sister, or friend. There is nothing much to gain after killing them. The life we are living is really zero.
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We can do it together.
Hello my good friends on the platform I really appreciate everyone of you. I would believe that everyone is doing good.
Wisdom is through contribution, it will be when you bring your own suggestion and I also bring mine once we both add it together it becomes something that other people can also admire. Most things that we have in today's world we have it as a result of contributing knowledge together and it works out. No one is wise enough we always need much wisdom no matter what. We need support from people and through people's support we grow fast. People that always struggle alone do not easily move fast like those that have support from many hands. Like I have said it already that we don't need animals to survive rather we need people to survive. We need people that will help us to get up from the ground when we fall to the extent that we can't stand up on our own.
Two good heads are better that one they said. When two head reasons together they will always be able to find solution to any problem. But sometimes people use to claim that they knows everything. But if we come to find out they knows nothing. But instead of allowing people to show them what they do not really understand in life they claim as if they knows all. There is nothing that is very difficult for two people to do once the agree together. There is a saying in the bible that saying says two can't work together except they agree together. Two are better than one because if two stays together they will warn each other. I am seeing God as a the wisest one the bible says he made them male and female in the beginning.
It is easy to make it together with someone who is also looking into the future and having a good target same with you. It is quit easy to succeed together with someone who have the same vision with you. Some one who thinks positive the same with you. I have a friend who always think positively, he is just on the same page with me. He sees everything just simple as I see. He doesn't have any problem in life. I decided to be his friend since the day I notice he is that kind of a person. I don't always become a friend to someone just like that. I will always take my time to see that you are a type of person that I should be with. Even if you are not the same age with me. Normally I don't make friend with people who I am older than in age rather i go to those who are more advance in everything than me because I always believe that is the best way I can grow fast.
When I first met him I didn't rush to become his friend rather i gave myself sometimes to study his life style and the kind of person he is, I went close to him and we both started have something in common. I never stop taking advice from him because he is more advance than I. Even when he knows that he is older than me he never raise up his shoulder but he is always humble himself. He always called me small boy while I also use to reply him back with the same name he call me.
It is good to walk with a partner who is also having the same vision with you because that is the easiest way we could achieve those plans we always have. When people who are having the same vision who are also on the same page with someone live together they will find it possible to get whatever they desire to get so easily.
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Why do we value money more that human?
Why do we always value money than people who are really kind to us? Why do we always forget those things and those help that people render to us so easily? Or is money more important than those people who always stand by us when ever we have problem? We always use the saying that business is business and we cease to consider people when we ought to consider. No wonder why they said that people ways seems to be so difficult to understand. You can be so close to someone but the moment that money is involve the person's mode will change at the moment. I know money is really important but the way people are taking is something else. A very good friend, brother or sister who were so in love can be separated because of money aspect. Out of 70 percent misunderstanding that people inhave today some come as a result of money aspect. It could be people borrowed from other people and they couldn't pay on time and those people they borrowed became angry and the important relationship they had with one an other stops.
Clothing and money is nothing but I think the only property that people should always value is human. I am seeing all the material thing that we may achieve now as nothing. If we refuse to value people we will always need to them in the end. If I may ask a question when we have a problem that we always unable to solve on our own do we always run to those property we have or do we always run to humans? They are much problems that money can't solve without the help of people. We can always have the money but lack Ideas on where to start from. So I think the way we value money we should always value humans because they also worth it. In the other way round they are problems that humans can help us while money can not. I have being seeing a lot of people who are wealthy enough still seeking for help from people.
A lot of people make it to be so funny once mony is involve. You will really see the true color of most people when money issue is involve. People's countenance will change immediately they need money. People would not listen to you especially when you owe them. They will react as if that is the last money they had and the only hope they had. Even when they have enough money to solve others problems they will still behave like that is the only hope they had. Most people fail to understand that money is a liquid assets it's can leave this person's hand and go to some other person. There is no much need of handling people so bad when it's come to money issue. We can always look to people's situation and give them a listening ear.
I was very sick last month though I have said that already and how the past month of August was treating very bad. I had all my plans on ground but the sickness that struck me scatter all my plans and bring me down. I spent a lots of money just to make sure that I'm fine which we know health is really important. I was left we nothing because I could not go out for work. It is this month of September that I started going out for work which during my sick period I have lost a lot of customers due to the type of business I'm into once they come to my shop without seeing me the will go to some other place and I'm losing some of them and because of this the business isn't flowing like it's suppose to be. And this is the only secret in business once you lose customers while you suppose to be getting more and you are losing more the business will not move.
And because of the ups and downs I faced I couldn't meet up to pay much of my bills. My rent was expire early this month being the kind of person that I am I don't really like to be embarrass. I went to her because she is a woman and told her everything that I will settle her by the month of October unfailing. And she didn't even listen to me immediately I told her that i will settle her by the month of October her countenance instantly change. She told me that she thought I was even bringing her money. She told me that business is business that I should pay off my bills that she don't need excuses i was very shock at her reaction. I couldn't believe that this women could react to me that's way just because of money.
I am not bragging of this, this is a women that I took as a mother since she is a old woman once I am back from work I must check on her to see how she is feeling. Though she has a lady that is assisting her but I never stop giving her my assistance on so many things I don't like telling people want and want I have done to people but I know that with my a little strength I have help her through many ways. But I was really scared through her reaction. I am surprise if she could be the one reacting that's way with me just because of a common amount of money. Her reaction has really made me feel bad and disappointed. I have decide that once I pay her off that I will be so careful with her since she is that type of a person.
I'm just seeing money as paper but the important thing is that we need people to survive. You need me to survive and I also need you to survive, it will be when you hold my hand and I hold yours and we both stand up. But when you are the only one holding my hand and I'm sitting we will never move on. It is good that we know, mostly we survive through people we shouldn't allowed the money aspect to push those who suppose to be helping us in one way or the other away.
If we keep pursuing people away because of the love of money who do we think that will assist us when we need help. The woman reaction was so strange to me. Moreover when I think about the money that people owe me and some are not able to refund them back. But I never treated them badly I believe in keeping the relationship because some thing can happen tomorrow that I will need help from them. So I don't see money or dept as something we should scatter the good relationship we had with people. Good people is the most greatest thing we could have.
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How do you see your throwback pics..?
Hello to my fellow friends on read.cash. How is life treating you guys over there? I wish everyone a happy weekend ahead. Stay safe and remain bless.
Some days ago I was listening to a particular programme on radio and on the programme the were playing some throwback music. I think the presenter title the programme throwback Wednesday because its was on Wednesday afternoon that they did it. On the programme they were playing songs that existed for about twenty years and there about. They were playing songs from different countries all over the world. It was once you call the radio you they will asked you to call the song title and the artiste that owns the song. And people were busy calling the radio with their songs title and I was lucky to here some songs that I haven't heard before. I must confess that I really enjoy the programme and since then I have been checking on the station from time to time every Wednesdays to hear if there will repeat the same programme, but unfortunately I haven't heard it since then.
There are most things that was done in the past that is when we listen or see them its make us feel good and happy. There are still things that when I see and I feel as if those things could come back again. There are a lot of things that if we want to compare with the present one it will be far better than the present, and there are still some things that we have now in the present that if we compare with the past it will better than the past. But mostly things that exist now are better than the past and new things are coming because of the new technologies that we have now in the world. And even with that we are still expecting more new things.
But what really brought this question is that I when to retrieve my sim some month ago since my device was stolen with the sim and I was left with no options than to retrieve the sim back. When I got to the office I was asked to give out my identity followed by other things in other for them to be sure that I'm the owner of the sim. It was a lady that attained to me and after she had finished taking what they needed from me she then refer to a guy who's the one that will retrieve back the sim. When the guy was going through my profile he saw my picture and looked at me again and I asked him why he is staring at me that's way. What he replied me was that I should really thank God, though I didn't understand his view.
I asked him if they wanted to block my sim or something and he said that there is nothing wrong with the sim. He said why he asked me to thank God is that my throw back picture that he is seeing doesn't looks like I'm the one. He said that I'm totally change both the face and status. I told him that he shouldn't expect someone who is eating everyday to remain with the same size he was some years back. He said that it is not the matter of size that at least my face should still shows. I stop arguing with him and I had to see my throwback picture myself. Wow I couldn't believe that everything in me could quickly changes within a period of six years and some month. The only thing I did was to laugh because it was just like a surprise to me seeing how my past years was.
I have been seeing some people's throwback picture and some time it will be so funny because when you see how they were looking like in the past and compare it to the the present it will be so funny. Most people do make it a post on social media, they will bring out their throwback picture which can be like four years and they will also bring out their present picture and they will subtile the post four years challenge. I really thank God because no body is ugly we are beautifully and wonderfully made. People keep growing and making change everyday and once we see that we are making difference than the past it's always makes us glad.
If I may ask those of my friends on read.cash.
***When last did you look at your throwback picture and how was it like?***
***How would people react with your throwback picture of your four to five years challenge?***
***What is that important things that always make you happy when seeing your throwback pics....***
Throwback picture is what we really use sometimes to tell people our past. If our past was better than the present they will also see and if the present is better than the past they will still know. Mean while most people use their throwback pictures as memories to show other people. Mostly the parent usually use to do that, they will take their children a photo when they are young and when the grow up to some certain age they will show them how they was. Most times throwback picture helps to see if there is a change in us or not. Even as we are now it is good that we take picture from time to time because it might turn to throwback in the next five to six years.
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