We die once but live everyday
Everything that have life must die at it's own appointed time. Both humans, animal and the plants. Nothing will ever live forever. It is just like a saying which says that everything that have the beginning must have an end. Death is involve as we know in the characteristics of living things. But the only fact is that we have only a seconds to die but we spend enough of time to live.
We stop living once and we have an opportunity to live everyday on earth. Some people do say normally that a man has only two days which is the day he born and the day he died. But what keeps bothering me is if a man has two days which is the day he born and the he died, what about the day he lives on earth? With my thought I would add another one day to it. That is to say that a man has three days rather than two, the one day is the day a man spend on earth. So that is making it complete three days. Not that I'm arguing but this is my suggestion but if we keep saying that a man has two days then we are not including a man's life time. And what he has done, if we take out a man's life time on earth then what will explain a true color of a man.
Living is very important thing to humans, It might be easy to born, and also easy to die but most difficult thing is to live. This is what makes us a man. Live isn't just easy. If we die once and we live everyday what does that really means? That really means a lot to me friends. I'm not saying that the day we born isn't important but the most important thing is the everyday life that we are living. It is not just easy to face life. Life isn't something that we can live only one day but we can die in a day. The day we die is the day we stopping live which is only one day, But they are many days for humans to live, we don't live only one day, one week or one month. But we live for some years.
We die once but we live everyday and each day comes with its own problem. It would be that if we are able to survive to days problem we keep thinking how the next day will be. It is easy to die but I'm seeing every day's life as the most challenging thing. The moment we keep living life we have a lot of battles and issues to solve. Every day's life is a race. Sometimes we don't know what will happen next to us. This is why life isn't just easy but yet still we are still surviving. The most saddest think that will happen is when a man's suffers and he doesn't enjoy what he suffered for this really become sad. Living life everyday, facing those trials and difficulties without making no profit in the end is the worst part of it.
We die once but we live everyday. If we die once and the rest days we live isn't profitable to us and to those looking up to us, that will always be a pains to them. Living everyday without nothing to show is loss. Though the life we live everyday is loss and gain we do not gain it everyday, and we don't also loss it everyday but Losing and gaining is part of live. Some people would say that live is like a business. Which in business we don't only expect profit alone but we also expect loss but the profit should be more than the loss. Most times living life everyday needs patience because without us having patience in life they are most thinks that will happen to us and we become discourage. It's really needs patience and much plans or else we loss it.
We need much patience and courage in other to live life. It is easy to die once but hard to live everyday. Living everyday is never a zero sum game. Life comes with ups and downs. We might become excited today and thing happen tomorrow that would take away the same happiness we had. In every day's life there is how a moment would change is either in our favor or it's change against us. We don't know what would normally happen in the next seconds or minutes but our believe is that we can face what ever tomorrow would bring since we are still existing. The death people don't experience much problems like those who is alive. Once people dies their story in life ends there, and such person do not pass through problems that those who are alive pass through.
We die once but live everyday. There are things that will always happen to us in our every day's life. Many will give up while many will still stand strong. Living life is not a one day journey. It is a journey of thousand days and it is begins with a mile. A thousand days isn't just easy but it's needs people who will know their why and stand strong on it.
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How do you feel when you are sick?
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Since at my tender age I never wanted anything called sickness to come close to me. I was very careful when it comes to anything that would bring sickness to me because I Know I am good at it. Prevention is better than cure they say, I would always look for the preventive way to make sure that sickness doesn't take me unaware. I would find all means to make sure that sickness doesn't bring me down instead let me send it packing out from my life. During my childhood once I notice a sign of sickness I will always look for traditional herbs in other to prevent myself from the sickness. I was normally use to some traditional herbs at some point English medicine wasn't really reacting fast in my system. I don't know how it happens that way. Though they said it is what you believe that works out for you.
I wouldn't know if traditional worked for me then because I was really used to it when I was still in the village. It was only when travel out to city that I stop taking traditional herbs because those herbs wasn't so easy to find in the city. That is when I switch to taking English medicine and now I think it is working in my system when ever I meet with a physician and explain how I'm feeling and they will prescribe a medicine for me and it works. Back then I was just seeing English drugs as their thing because I wasn't use to it. If I had even try in taking solid drugs but when it comes to injection I hated it then with passion. I became an enemy to injection since the day I felt sick and I was giving an injection. It was instead of the injection reducing the pains it was even adding salt to an injury.
How do you always feel when ever you are sick?
I don't know for everyone but base on what I know is that there is no body that will be so exited when he or she is been down with sickness. When a person is seriously sick he or she will experience weakness in the system and most times everything will become disorganise in the body. I would believe that people do not always desire for it because been hold down with sickness isn't a good things. Once a person is down with one sickness or the other such person can't be active as he or she suppose be active when being alright. There are things that a person normal can do, and they are things which a sick person can't try. Someone who is seriously sick will be seeing by people through his or her appearance.
Unlike me I always feel discomfort and sad when ever I'm sick. I don't like sickness at all because it wouldn't keep me in a good place. Each time I'm sick I can be very angry about why I'm sick. Sometimes I will feel like the sickness should stop instantly especially when I'm suppose to be doing something important and I find out that my health would disturbs me. Once I'm sick I will look for all means in other to get back my hearth to normal order. Like I have said that a sick person is never a happy person. Though I know that sickness is something that every human living on earth will pass through, it is compulsory that everyone will face sickness at some point. I'm seeing this as nature.
What thought always comes to your mind when ever you are seriously sick?,
So many thought will always come to our minds when ever we are been sick. The thought of a sick person is that if he or she will survive the next day or if he she will pass away. This are mostly some thought that always disturbs the mind of the sick a person. There is how a sick person will not die because of the pains that the sickness have cause to him, rather he will die because of the negative thoughts that he has allow to rule over his heart.
Closing thought
I'm not seeing sickness as a good thing because once a person is been hold down with sickness he or she will feel abnormal and sometimes they are sickness that can always disfigure our structure. I would prefer that sickness shouldn't exist anymore but I don't have my way to stop it because this is what existed since time began. The only thing we should do is taking prevention in other to stop sickness from been coming close to us.
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What is the solution?
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Problem keeps knocking our door everyday by day and we are never get tire of seeking for solution to solve it. Not that we always pray for them to come but I am seeing this as reality. Most problems and challenges that we face everyday is what keeps us busy, most it's happens that we can't run away from it and if we try to run away from it today we leave to fight it tomorrow. So that is why most times people always prefer to have the solution to the problems the have. Problem keeps coming our way every time and we never get tired of seeking for the way out. Which is the solution and once we get the solution to a particular problem that is when we will have peace of mind. But in my observation I am seeing problem as continuous process where by if we can get a solution to one today another one will show up again the tomorrow.
Most people when they are facing problems they will not get relax until they get the solution to it. They are some level of problems we face that always trouble out minds in such a way that even to sleep in the night is a big problem. Having problem without be a able to get a solution is just like being sick without finding no cure, this will always disturbs our thought always and its will always drives out happiness away from our life. If at all we will strengthen or encourage ourselves to be happy it's will be at some point. Who will something happen to that he or she will not cry? Most times that people cry their cry always stops in the heart. If it is everyone that always cries out we will always get tire of pitying them.
No one is without a problems. We always face it. This is like examination in life to everyone that we most past through it before we can get or become what we want. The adult and the young ones always face it. But these are in some levels. Once a child is born he or she must face challenges, he or she must face the challenges of crawling, from crawling to walking and from walking to speaking fluently . And they are some certain sickness that will come which mostly the parent will take care of them adding with hunger which is when they are hungry they will always look up to the parents and the parent would solve their problems.
But for the adult facing some challenges isn't a course those are vital necessity that we have to go through if we must grow. We keep growing once we solve each problem that we have and if we run away from it we will meet it us again in the future. I find out that this is reality but not magic. It is good to be late than never they say. It will be a better thing to solve our problems than running away from it because it's might be two late for us. Each time we solve our problems we are moving forward but when we try to escape from it we are going backward. We won't escape from it for it's always waiting for us.
What is the solution? This is a problem that most people usually ask. It will be when people are facing with problem that they haven't face before they will start looking for a way out. It is good that we look for a solution and solve our problems than sitting down. If we always sit down when we have any challenges our problems might not easily get solve, but when we start looking for solution that is where we will get our problems solved. When we are able to solve a certain problem we are giving an answer to a difficulty that has not be resolved. Once we settle each problem we will always get relieve and also come out of discomfort, both our thought will be settle down.
The solution is that each time we face with challenges we shouldn't try to run away from it. The solution is to look for a way and solve it knowing that problems will not solve itself, we are the ones that have problems and there is no way we will shift it to some other people. Each person has his or her problem to solve. So I always believe that solving problems is really the way out. I am seeing these as the way we could use to leverage some of our problems.
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Most people do not love the truth
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Our people will say that the truth is like a goat head in the soup which we can't shallow with our balls. The truth is big enough for us to hide it. When we try to hide the truth it must definitely shows out itself. We all know what the truth is and how important it is, yet most people do not love it. While I'm saying this is that a lot of people would prefer the lies the people tell them than the truth. It's said that the truth is bitter, yes this is really truth. The truth is always bitter to a lot of people's ear that is while a lot of people love the lies more than the truth. The truth stands on itself no matter what and how people may twist it.
But permit me to say this because the truth must be told, most people that usually prefer the lies than the truth are the girls. I'm not saying this in other to provoke the ladies, please ladies don't take it hard on me because this is reality. It could be a guy sees a ladies he loves but may be he is not that financially stable but in his heart he is willing to get into a relationship with the lady. If he goes ahead telling the lady the whole truth that he is not all that financial stable the lady might not accept him because he has open up everything to her. She might feel that the guy isn't ready for the relationship. We know that it is not every ladies that will just accept such a guy so easily she will things other wise.
A lot of thought will come to her mind instantly. Thought like if I accept him now that he doesn't have money will he be able to take good care of me? Or if I accept him will this relationship even function without no money to fund the relationship?. I know as human we must always think ahead and also sees things ahead. It is not every lady that will accept such friendship. It is not every lady that will accept such a relationship. If a guy love a lady and open up to her that he doesn't have enough that he loves the the lady. The guy might go ahead telling her that he believe that he is having a plan which he believe that it will work out for him. Most lady might not give a listening ear to him because they don't like the truth.
But if a guy comes out pretending to be something while he is not telling a lady that he is this he is that and he wants to get into a relationship with her. They might easily accept because most times ladies act to what the sees and to what they also hear. Most times everyone is after the outer appearance of a person. Some ladies will easily accept a guy who pretend to be rich when he is not. They will just accept it because of the sweet words that they have heard from people. That's is while I'm seeing that a lot of people prefer lies to truth. Once you tell a lot of people what they are ready to hear they will always believe you, but when you tell them the real truth that sounds strange to them, they might even see you as a bloody liar that has nothing to offer.
I'm not saying that it's only ladies that mostly prefer the lies to the truth. But I was only using them as an illustration because most time they are the ones who quickly fall a victim. And the guys sees it as a point of duty. Nowadays it is not every guys that will open up to a lady when asking out. No body wants to lose at all. It will not be when a guy sees a lady that he loves and he easily open up to her. He might feel that he will lose her if she finds out his background. This is why when rich guys needs a true love they will pretend as if they have nothing just to see if they can find it. But this doesn't really work again in today's world if at all it works before. I once discus this with a lady and she said if a man wants to date her he shouldn't come in such way because it isn't going to accept a person who will not be able to provide what she needs to her.
Most people do not love the truth nowadays in most society. If you tell people the real truth they will hate you. But when they finally knows that you said the truth that is when they will look for you. In today's life people that really tell people the truth to their face are not many. It will be when they sees the truth the will hide it in order to still sustain the relationship or what ever they have in common. A lot of people are afraid to tell the truth because people do not love those who says the truth. If they finds out that you are such person who do not hide the truth they will always separate you out from most things because they know that you will always say out the truth.
I had that it is the truth that always set people free, but nowadays even with your truth you won't have the freedom. I come a cross a story where a man who was innocent about a particular crime but he said the truth and they didn't believe him just because the other opponent had lawyers who could defend him with false witness. The other person was declare to serve in prison for some years. It was after serving for like seven years that the truth finally came out and he was bail out. In today's life you can even die with your truth. If you are a type that always says the truth people will always get jealous of you. At times they might want to set you up in other to see that they silence you.
Most people do not love the truth and so when they see someone who is truthful they began to envy him or her. People that always stand with their truth are not many nowadays. Imagine how people will sees black color instead of saying what they saw and once they ask them they will say that the saw white color instead of saying the right thing. A lot of people are telling lies in other to be love by other people. Truth is really scars in our society today.
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What a great loss to humanity
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Every seconds people are coming to the world, while other people are passing out. The new born babies are giving birth to while the old adult are passing out. And I don't think if it doesn't happen like this if there will be enough space for people to live. If some people do not die off this is were we would experience over population in the world. But sometimes death take us unprepared and once it's knocks on your door it's doesn't needs your opinion, it will take you whether you accept it or not. Once it's knocks on your door you don't have a choice. Most time when we lost our closest ones it's become a great loss and pains to us.
They are people that we lost and the vacuum they create can't be fill up anymore. There are people that we loss and we finds it difficult not to forget them anymore. Especially it could be when we remember how good and kind there were while alive. There are people we loss and their memories can't still depart from our heart. Their memories will always remain in our heart once we see or remember their good deeds that they did to us. There are categories of people that will die and when people hear about it they are not even move by it because they know that that person didn't have something good to offer them. Once a person died and when the story of his death gets to people's ear, someone said his death doesn't even concern me because while he was alive there was no need of him and even when he is death there is still no need.
This statement was made against the death person because he didn't contribute anything positive to humanity while he was alive. He was so selfish and stingy he was only looking after his own interest. This really shows that what ever we are doing that people are watching us. Our good works are recorded for us and our bad works are also recorded for us once you die your recorded is what will speak for you. If we were nice to people they will always feel our absence, and if we were bad to them our absence will just sounds like something that isn't important to their ear because we were of no used to them and because of that nobody will react about the absence of a bad person.
What I'm really seeing as a great lost to humanity is when those people who was so skillful died off with their skill without showing it other people. There are most talented people that didn't fulfil their purpose and they die with their talent and skill without passing it to the next person. The grave is the richest place, the grave is very rich in the sense that all the richest and talented people have died and they are in the grave. That is why the grave becomes a very rich place because it's contains great men who couldn't accomplished their vision before they died. The grave contains those great professors, great scientist, great doctors great musicians, great psychologist and others. I wouldn't have time to mention those great men by name that the grave contains but many of us knows about it.
What a great lose to humanity when those heroes who suppose to be alive to defend other people are in the grave. Most times it's become a painful thing to me when i think about such loss to humanity. I wouldn't know if other people do feel about these but to me I always have the feelings. I sometimes feel that they won't have died off but I would believe that the nature is doing it's work. I would suggest that we should count those things we know, all the skills that we have and also show it to some other people. We shouldn't hide the skills we have because we might not know what tomorrow will bring. So its will be better we do the necessary things today.
Let's see skills and knowledge as transferable process where by the parent can transfer to the children. The master also transfer to the servant. We shouldn't hold some of the skills because it's will never profit us if we die with it. It will be good if we always give out all our skills to those that are close to us. Let's just believe that everything we know or have is by grace we didn't buy it. If it was by money we wouldn't be able to avoid all. So let's always feel free to release them to other people.
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They will always provoke you
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It might be very easy to solve mathematics and get the correct answer but people's ways are really hard to solve and get the correct answer. Someone you really trust can do something differently and that is why the wise people do say if you want to live long don't ever trust on anyone. It's better you trust yourself than other people because if at some point you fail yourself you know that it is you who create the failure to your own self. A man once said if I had trusted anyone I wouldn't live up till this day. Which in his statement he means that people you so much put your trust on will fail you. They can lead you to your early grave. It is not people who do not come close to you that will lure you. It's those friends whom you trusted so much.
People will always get you provoke if you are not careful with them. They are people that will purposely want to tempt you in other to see the kind of person you are. While other in the other way round they are not trying to see the kind of person you are. They are some human being that are looking for others down fall. Meanwhile we know how people are behaving in the world today. If you are living without being financially stable people will always mock you that you don't have money, and if you have the money they also envy you and some will get jealous saying that you are so proud of yourself. This is reality about some humans behaviour, though it's not everyone that is behaving that's way. There is still some reasonable human in the society while there are those that will always get other people provoke.
People will always make you to get angry when you do not even want to be angry. I have being seeing this in some part of countries even in my own as well. You will see how some people will provoke other people through some words that comes out from their mouth. It could be the issue wouldn't have gotten to that extent but because of some bad words that people say that adds salt to an injury. In my country they are people who are talented in releasing bad words and once they make a statement there's no how you will not get angry and at some point if you are not able to control your heart you will allow anger to control your emotions.
We have to learn how to controls our heart in other not to go extra mile when we get provoke by people. They are some certain things that people will do to you that if you are not a kind of person that controls your anger you will even destroy thing or waste life if care isn't taken. Parent can provoke the children and the children also can provoke the parent it's both side. I have a story of how the daughter got provoke by her parents. She was very submissive to the parent, she was a good example to others in the family. She was the one the whole family look up to and because of her humility the parent sponsor her in school and she came out as a nurse. She went for some other training and after that she was very lucky to be picked to work in a popular private hospital.
As life was going on and she was growing old going close to a level of getting married, two men came out to marry her one was her choice while she didn't like the other man. Though the other one she didn't like was so wealthy which I will believe that's what made the parent to chose him. The parent had to decide on whom she will get marry to and since it wasn't the daughter's decision she had to argue with the parent that she has her own choice that the parent doesn't suppose to be choosing who she should spent her life with. When the parent saw that she was serious about what she said they said is either she marry the particular man they chose for her or she cease to be their daughter. To the parent they were trying to threaten the daughter but they never knew that they have hurt her.
Depending on what the parent did to her she got provoke by taking unnecessary actions that she doesn't suppose to take. Since the pleasure was so much on her and she think other wise, since she was so submissive to the parent she never wanted anything that will make her to have issues with the parent and because of that she sees committing suicide as the best things that will settle her issues with both the parent and with the men that wanted to marry her. When she saw that the date was close where the man that the parent chose for her will come do all the requirement and take her home. The night to that day she drank poison and die. The parent were thinking if she has gone to work since they didn't see her and her room was locked. They tried everything possible to hear from her but to no avail. It was until they destroy the door to her room that they saw their daughter's corpse with a letter telling them that she is sorry for taking such decision that that's the best way she thinks she can stop the whole problem.
The parent went into tears. Our people would called that kind of tears a crocodile tears. Such tears doesn't have any meaning it's just like doing campaign after election. I think the parent have provoke the girl badly and as if that wasn't enough they went ahead and threaten her life. Though we are living in the world that is full with humans that will never stop provoking us in one way or the other we should try and control our actions despite how the case may be.
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We all made it
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The kind of challenges that life bring to us, at time it will seems we wouldn't see the following day. There are some situation that would make people to lose hope in life but before we know things turn into our favor. What we didn't believe that it will happen. At some point there are times that bad condition will meet us and we feel like giving up but in the end it turns from failure to fortune. Like it's said everything that happen to us happen for a reason. It is either it's will affect us negatively or positively. But its must affect us at least in one way out of the two. People do not pray for bad situation to happen to them but it's just that challenges come to make us stand strong.
Bad situation and challenges come not to destroy us but to bring out the good person in us. It comes to mold us and sharpen us for the future. Our people would say that the sweetness of the orange emerges when it is been squeeze. Everything that carries sweetness in it comes with challenge. There is nothing good that will always come easy. Most people struggle in life before they stand tall. And standing tall isn't just easy, it's not a one day struggling it's require determination and more effort.
Starting from January to September it's not just a small journey, this is a journey that so many people have ended theirs on the way. It is said when the going gets tough the tough keeps going. It's those who are tough that keep moving forward even when the vicissitude of life meet them on the way they still have reason to keep moving. We all survive through those temptations and trials even though it was like we were not going to see the following day. But we survive it. We come through it. We manage it. Now we are in an ember month which before we know we will round up the year. There is no how life will treat us that we will not still survive it. It comes good today and tomorrow bad. It is positive and negative.
We all made it to the ember month. This is a month that before we know we will celebrate Christmas and a new year. We will always survive it till we accomplish each goals that we came to planet earth for. People have different goal to achieve in life so there will be no any temptation that will appear to us that we will give up instantly. What is coming in the future is far better than what we are seeing today. Our future is too bright. If we could sometimes figure out how our future will be we may sometimes want to turn a magician in other to command it close to us.
The storm will always be over. In each month in the year comes with its own issues. Some people when seeing that a particular month doesn't favor them, they will pray for the month to go fast. If I actually want to calculate days and weeks and that we have passed so far, it will amount to something that we should be grateful for because many started the year the same with us and yet they couldn't survive it to this day. But for the reason that we survive it, it's shows how awesome our God is. It is not by our power or by our strength that we survive it but it, it has always been God mercies and his grace.
I have had some series of problems that happen to people and I read about their own story its always shock me, it's shock me in the sense that people are really facing problems here and there but most of them are still coming out of it. There are good times that will will bring happiness to us and there are also bad times that will bring tears to us. The most worst part of it is when the bad situation struck us when we never even expected it. This can always terminate our good plans, its can draw us backward and make us feel bad.
But despite the challenges that we all passed through in the beginning of the year and if we still survive up to this time its mean that nothing would stop our humble journey. Let's just say that the storm is over now. Since we have make it to this day happy new month friends and welcome to ember month.
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Goodbye to August, I survive it
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I'm really excited to see this last day in the month of August. Though the month was so challenging but I'm happy that I have seen the last day still with good health. This is really the month that I don't joke with because a lot has happened to me in the month so once is August I'm not really friendly with it. When I remember what happen in the past years still in the month, it's makes me feel so sad and discourage. The most terrible thing that happen to was in the month of August. I don't really know why the month always treat me so badly.
Things that always happen to me mostly in the month doesn't happen to me in other month. The month of August is the month I always face temptation but my endless prayer is that God will intervene for me. I don't just know if I'm the one offending the month because some challenges that I always face in the month is always terrible. This is something I have been asking questions from my mother and mostly form some of my eldest brothers. And the reason I ask some of the questions is to seek the solution to my problem. When something really bothers you you will seek for the solution but mine I have tried all my best yet to no avail.
Bad things always happen to me when getting close to the month of August. If temptation doesn't come towards the beginning of the month it's will come in the middle or probably the ending of the month. If not financial issues it will be health issues and the worst is losing life. I believe that God is changing things for my good because all my hope is on him. Towards the beginning of August its started with me so badly, this time around was loses of properties, bad health and financial issues. A lot has happen to me this month but thanks to God that grand me victory.
Towards the beginning of the month I lose my phone which affected all my connections which through this I was really broke and stranded. Through the lost of the device I have lost funds both the once I have been getting from read.cash platform and other site. Though we should expect anything to happen any time but I never believe that I could lost my device. All my password and to my wallet and my seed phrase were saved in my device I didn't remember to write them out since I never expected such bad thing.
I became helpless and hopeless without anything thing on me even until now I can't still meet up my target. I became tired of living life but I was still encouraging myself even up till now. All my plans for the year have scattered but I believe there is always another chance. Since I have seen the last day in the month of August it's therefore means that I will face the month of September. Many terrible things happened to me this month that could give me all reasons to give up but I won't give up I still have a long way to go.
The ending of this month treat me so badly. I was really down with sickness. I mean sickness that has never come close to me the past years. But I am happy because I survive through it. If I want to list out most things that always happen to me in the month of August it will give me reason to be so angry with the month. It was still in the month that I lost my precious gold. My father died on August in 2008 and in the same year I had an accident that one of my leg was to be cutoff but thank God I survive it, I am still walking with my both legs.
August has always been a month that brings sadness to me and I don't know why it's always happen this way. But in all I always come out of it. Though sorrows may last in the night but joy comes in the morning. There is always a way out of everything temptation that is always my believe, though the bad thing that happen to you will affect you at the spot but in times come we will always come through and stand as an hero.
Good bye to the month of August and to those pains and disappointment its had cause me. Good bye to the sad month and good bye to my sorrows you are not welcome here. I am always strong despite the lost and the pains you have always cause me. That doesn't stop me from moving forward.
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Is turn by turn
Greetings to all my handsome and beautiful friends. Happy new week to all my read.cash friends. I wish you all a successful new week ahead.
We know in everything there's a time. We are working according to time and season and mostly we know that season come and go. Season doesn't last forever. It's work on how it's been programme by the creator. What ever we are going through in life at the moment we need to know that that's working according to the time. Even in life that we are living, we are living base on our time. Once our time expired we will all leave for other people to occupy the space. People died and leave the space for us so as same we are going to leave for other people.
Though many see death as the worst thing. But to me death become a worst thing when we die without fulfilling our purpose here on planet earth. I know everyone have his or her duty to complete, we all came to achieve aim here on earth. So the worst that will happen is our light been quench without us achieving what we came for. Life is sweet but then we have to find out our purpose that we came for. We all came for a reason and it's will be a lose to us and other people if we fail to succeed our purpose.
Life is turn by turn so when it is our turn we should handle it with care. We should know that if we occupy a particular position today that other person will also take it from us tomorrow. We won't just occupy a giving position forever if not there would be no new birth again. People born into the world every seconds and people also are departing from the world also every seconds. People are queuing to take over from other people. So when it's our turn we should use it wisely knowing that our time will also expire and once it's expire other people will take up from us.
Even if we become a leader we won't rule forever. We will lead and also leave the throne for some other person to lead. A leader doesn't rule forever. Leader come and go. It is turn by turn so it will be better that we rule well when it is our turn. It will be good if we create a good legacy. It will be good that we use our opportunity wisely. Knowing that it's turn by turn. If we rule other people badly other person will also rule us tomorrow, if not you in person your coming generation.
Life is turn by turn and we know about it. if it is Mr A turn today it will be Mr B turn tomorrow. The rain can't just fall on one person's roof only. It will fall on other people roof also. So it will be good if we become nice to people when our own turn favors us. I would believe that if your turn isn't favoring you today it will favors you tomorrow, it is not all about rushing. If we rush it too much we might miss it on the way. So it is better we follow the procedure in other for our own turn to come. If we can remember, there were times we were aspiring for a particular thing and we couldn't get it because it's wasn't our turn but today that is our turn other people are also aspiring to get the same thing.
It is turn by turn and then it's require patience while waiting. We won't just force our turn to come rather it's come at appropriate time. Once is our time we do not struggle much for it. All we need to do in the process is patiently waiting for our time to come. Most people sometimes get tired in waiting but I believe if we can always wait till the end we have a lot of testimony to tell people. We will always be happy to tell people how we fought the battle and over come in the end.
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It's all started like play
Greetings to all my amazing friends on read.cash platform. Happy weekend to all of my amazing friends. All I wish you guys is a successful weekend. Stay safe and remain bless.
Life is really tough in some part of the world, at times when I go through some news about what is happening in some part of the country I will abandon my own and pity other people. Life is really tough yet all my endless hope is that God will guide us and strengthen us to fight this battle to the end. They are some certain things that will happen to some people in other part of the world and it's baffles me if truly they will surely come out of the problem but before we know they survive it.
Things are happening here and there to people. They are even other part of the world that are seeking for peace but they can't. My pray everyday is that God will surely go through for them. God will use some of our prayers to heal those sick countries by making things become easy for everyone. I know each country and individual has his own problem, my believe is always that everything is possible for the Almighty God to do.
It's all started like play is the topic I came up today with, but I had an unction to pray. Even everything that we want to start, we start it in a very humble and jovial way. We start it in such a way that when people see us from afar they will just say that we are joking. It's not good that we despise the day of a little beginning. Most beginning of everything doesn't really make sense at times but it makes faith. It is only the person who have the vision that would love to pursue it to the end. But those who do not understand it will always despise the a little beginning.
It is good that when we want to start a particular thing, we focus on it than listening to distraction. When we know where exactly we are heading to. Our focus and passion will always be on it. But when we don't know our way about that is where we will give hear to distraction. Everything that exist in today's world, people that made it all started like pray while others were seeing them like useless people. It's all started like pray until it's turn to seriousness. It was like pray like pray before people start seeing the good result that shocked them.
I read about the story of a very popular musician who started his music journey just like pray, but before we know he was so special that people were going after him some even struggle to host him in an occasion. But this is the same person in years back that people were looking down on. But he didn't let the definition that people defined him as to effect him, rather he was still preparing for the future. When people defined us wrongly that shouldn't be the reason enough we give up on our dreams. A lot of people who are on top today didn't just fly up there. Some started somewhere and it was just like a joke. And some if we want to find out the secret it could be our own starting point is far better than theirs.
It's not all the starting that is always very serious. It is not everything that is always serious in the beginning that will last to the end. Couples were celebrating their sixty five years marriage anniversary some days ago. One of them make a speech, and in her speech she said that their marriage journey all started like a joke until it's become reality. She was like advising the young coming that whatever they are doing in life today, they should do it with passion not listening to what some mouth will say. She said not that people will not try to discourage you. Not that people will not try to condemn you. Not that people will not try to see if you really mean exactly what you are doing.
Most times in life. It's not everything that we will take so serious in the starting. We have to follow some certain things with wisdom and understanding and then give it some times to see how it will go.
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Life is a battle field
I extend my humble greetings to everyone present here on read.cash platform. I would believe that everyone is doing well. Stay safe and remain bless friends.
Today's weather seems it will not allow people to go out for their different jobs. It started raining since last night which I thought it will be a little reduce in the morning but what I'm seeing this morning isn't exactly what I expected. People are struggling even with the bad weather to catch up. Some are going to their various offices and business places. This is what exactly life could offer. It will not just give us exactly our plans but at the same time we need to sort out our ways or if not you remain in a level that is not suitable for you.
The world is a battle field. Once you grow up to a certain level you have to choose your weapon and focus on your responsibility. And if you fail to accept your responsibility you will rather become a liability to some other people. People will always ready to help you, but that will be to some certain extent. There are those ones that you will help yourself. Even when the parent wants to help their children they are some stage they will like to help their children to. Some when they sees that a child is up to an age they will settle them by giving them their own share be it a kind of property or other things. But they will make sure they settle the child.
Most things that the parent does. And some assistance we all receive from our friends they are trying to help us to see the other side of life. And so once they assist us to some certain level they will leave us to do it on ourselves. We all have responsibility to take in life. It is face by face and stage by stage. If you are lucky enough to see someone who assist you just be happy and also have in mind that the assistance will not last forever. People are always ready to show us the way and it will be our own responsibility to go through it and take our journey to the very end. I have grow up to realise that the word life doesn't just finish with the spelling, it has a lot to do in it.
Living life isn't just an easy task, it takes those who have great minds and reasons to live it. They say life is good. Life is sweet. Life become sweet once your are able to sacrifice to what life needs. A lot of people can testify about this. Living everyday there is a sacrifice that you have to sacrifice. Having encounter with challenges everyday is something we suppose to give up at some point but we refuse to give up knowing exactly what we want. Life is really good yes. It is good but it's come with what seems bitter in the beginning and sweet in the end. In every battle with face there must be a testimony to give in the end.
Life is really a baffle field. We fight it all until we see that we have victory over it. We live life with plans. We always plan ahead what we will do in the next minutes. Life is really a battle field in which if we run away from fighting the battle we stand to lose many things. Life is just like learning, learning never stop they say. Struggling and challenges never ends as long as we keep living life.
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What's the best time?
Greetings to all my wonderful friends on read.cash platform. I'm really excited meeting you once again. I hope life is treating you guys well? Stay safe and remain bless friends.
My today's topic is all about our children. My question is does our children worth investing on? If yes what's the best time we can invest on them and what's the best time we should also expect profit from them?
In everything there is always a season and an appointed time, if not people wouldn't follow those step from childhood stage to adulthood. Some many things has its own time and season as we all know. We wouldn't expect a day born baby to stand up and start walking if this happen it will be a miraculous thing. Everything have their time even the plant we can't just plant it today and expect to eat the fruit produced from the tree tomorrow. It must grow from stage to stage.
Same like humans. They are times that people expect to reap fruit from their child they brought up. They are times that people are hoping to achieve what they invested in in returns. That is known as return in investment so in what ever an investors invest in he also expect something in returns, he is expecting something worth more than the capital he put in. That's simply to say he needs a profit in it. So in most cases a man also has his own time of bearing fruit.
Most people values investing in their children rather than investing in every other thing. They believe mostly in the children and they say that the children are the best investment ever that they could invest their money on. To me I really agree with them having seeing the benefit that is in investing in the children. The gain in return and every other profit that the parent will achieve right from the children they invested on.
Just like investment, it is not every investment that will yield out profit like we all expected. The same happen to us while investing on our children, they are some bad eggs and they are some good eggs and all though we might not know which one will be profitable to us except we see it in the end. My question here is when exactly should we expect those gains in mostly from our male child. At what age do we thing that our male child can start producing those profit that the parent invested on them?
They are some parents that are afraid on investing their money on a child once they sees that the particular child will not listen to them in any form. It would be instead of them wasting their money invested on that particular child they waste it on other people children outside. They are some that invested on their children but before they know they die without benefiting from those children they invested on. But in this cases I know if the child were the good types of children, they will always remember the parent, they will always say a good word about them.
The earlier the better they say. It is will be a good thing if we start our investment earlier so as we can gain profit also in our early days. It will be good that we invest what worth investing so as to gain a huge profit in due season.
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What does everyone need?
My humble greetings to everyone present here on read.cash platform. It's been quite some days since I posted here. But all the same I'm really happy to be back again. If I say I was absence because of my busy schedule that's not the main reason of being inactive. Even with some of my busy time, I always create time to be active here. But when it's come to health issues there is no how some one can fight over it. I'm really excited that I'm back again with joy and happiness which I believe I will be stable this time around. I missed a lot and many post here from friends. Though I visited some post but that is not the quite number of post I normally visit when I become physically strong and buoyant.
In today's topic I want to emphasis on what people really need. They are basically things that people are going after in life despite anything. And this things are seeing as very important in the life of every human being so long as you are living life. It is the vital necessity that people can't do without. People are struggling day and night after those things and they are not ready to give up on it because that's the only thing that is keeping them here on planet earth. This are the things that people are struggling for themselves and also for other people who wouldn't be able to join the queue at the spot.
These are the things that the older ones are struggling for the younger ones, while both the parents are struggling for the family and those who are up to the age are struggling for themselves. In most cases and in some part of the world people are not joking with it. This is one thing that if the government fail to put them in place, or make it available for the citizens to be able to avoid them such government are not doing the right thing. Let's look at what everyone's need in some part of the world.
Everyone's need food and shelter
Food and shelter is the most important thing in our daily life. If anyone draw out a plan and exclude the two those two things the person is making mistake because that is where the body system gain strength from. Once you give to your system what it's require from you it will also free you to do what ever plan you are after but once you are not able to satisfy your body system it will still disturbs you. Remember we gain strength from what we eat to do the require things.
Everyone's need shelter for coverage even the animal themselves they need this and how much more the humans. If we lack where to hide ourselves during the rain, wind, storms or after our busy schedule this isn't making sense. So everyone's need it. This is really really important.
Everyone's need good life
Every day to day struggling that people are struggling is as a result of achieving good life for themselves and for their family. No one wants to be broke in today's life. Everyone is looking for a better life, a lot are struggling for their coming generation and some are even looking up to government to provide them with a better life. There is no how a citizen will enjoy his or her country when the government are not able to provide them with good things to live life properly.
Life is good when you have all it takes to live life with, the only thing that make life look as if people are tire of it is because people don't see what to enjoy in life. A lot of people are looking for a better life outside their own state because there is nothing to benefit from their place.
Everyone's need good health/ security
Good health is everyone's desire. People feel excited when seeing themselves or their family members with good health. Even during when the pandemic struck the world, people were looking for where they could be safe and secure and this is just to show that people really needs good health. A lot of people were praying endlessly for the deadly disease to be end but I thank God that we are no more suffering from the virus again. People need good things no body needs bad thing or pray for bad thing to happen to them or their country. This is why in most countries like my own when the politicians seek for an office to occupy they will come up with sweet words that will convince the citizens to give them vote.
They know that people desire for food and shelter. They know that the citizen desire for good life. They also know that the citizen desire for good health and security and with that this is where they will start keying in their words in other to get the people's mind. I think when the citizen listen to someone speaking their mind they will be happy that God has finally send them the messiah.
Conclusion
In conclusion what do you know, or think that people really need aside from those ones that I have made mention?. Though I know that people's want and their choice would never get satisfy so long as people are different and their need are different too. But they should be those major things that the masses are looking after.
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Say good about me while I'm still alive
Great greeting to my wonderful and amazing friends on read.cash platform. I hope everyone is doing good. Happy weekend and do enjoy your day ahead. I wish everyone success through out the weekend.
Today's weather is very bad here in my country. The rain started since yesterday and it's still raining up till now. People are so worried concerning the plans they had for the weekend. I know when it's raining, it's almost disturb everyone but the most special people that are complaining about the rain are the traders and the famers. They are the most people that rain really disturbs. How is the weather today in your own place? do you have a good and favorable weather or is it raining?
People are really good in telling about the good things that people did when that particular person is no more. When the person is still alive you wouldn't hear of people praising him. It will be when the person is death that is when you will start hearing people saying oh why him. Why is he the one that died. It's doesn't suppose to be the one that died. Once I was working in my workshop and a lady came to meet with her friend. When they met each other they started gisting like some other friends would do. In their gisting they were talking about the death of someone and how the person was so good to them and both to the society. And I couldn't just keep quiet when I heard what they were saying.
I asked the other lady if it is not the man that suppose to died is it you that suppose to die and it would be nice? And they say no God forbid it can't be me that suppose to die. Then I asked them is it only when a person dies that his good did would be heard in the society. When would someone's good did would be heard when the person is still alive? I think one of them reply that even when someone's good did is said when the person is still alive that people will not carry it around just like they will carry that of the death person around. They said that most people do say good things about other while those people are still alive but it will be very hard before the good words which people talk about people go close to them.
This is very rampart in my country. When someone's burial is conducting people would be inviting to come out and say one or two words concerning the death person. And most people would come out and form words that doesn't really resemble the lying corps. A lot would just come out to entice the belief family and some other relatives. They would be praising the death person even when what they are saying isn't the truth they will still say it. If the person wasn't good they will say that it was good. To me I think that people suppose to be praising those who are still alive rather than praising the death. If we keep saying good words about the death people even when they were not good what profit do we gain.
They are still people in the world that do not take no for an answer. They are still people who will say the truth even when you are alive or death. I would prefer that people should say good thing about me when I'm still alive. Most people will always donate gift during the funeral and if you want to look deeply into it, it could be they didn't give out to the death person while he was alive. They are just giving just for eye service. Most people give base on eye service than ordinary gift. People will give people may be a car or a piece of land and before you know they will take out photographs and posted it on social media just for people to see that they are the one who give you those items. An elderly man once told the children that if they can't say good words about him while he is alive. Then they should forget saying it when he is death.
He said if people can't offer him gift now that he is alive that the children shouldn't accept any gift on his behalf that the person isn't giving to him but to those who are alive. I would also like people to say good about me while I'm alive not when I'm no more that people will start telling people about how I was good and nice to them.
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What made you change your mind?
I extend my humble greetings to all my amazing and wonderful friend right here on read.cash platform. I hope everyone is doing good?. Because that alone has always been my endless joy . Stay safe friends.
I would simply believe that most people do change their mind on certain things. Sometimes it could be it's because of some challenges that they are facing at the moment that make them to change their mind. Changing of mind is not something that would take much time. People can always change their mind within a second. They can change from what they said they will do. And this is really how humans are, I sometimes use to tell people that if they trust other people much more than themselves. They might lose everything in life. In saying someone that really put their trust on someone might not really live long. People would always give them hard attack and unnecessary headache. People would always disappoint them. It could be they promise you A and before you know they change it to B. And at this point you won't do anything than just to keep quiet.
They are some challenges that people would meet on the way and this will cause them to change their mind. I don't really think that changing of mind is giving up on something. Rather it's a way that people change their thoughts. People like changing of mind to some other things in life than giving up on it. A lot of professionals today if they want to tell you what they are passed through It will shock you. People grew up with their different good programming. But at some point they change their mind to something else. If I want to say the whole truth about myself, where I'm and my professional today is not what I really plan. But where I'm today is as a result of what happened and i changed my mind over my first choice.
They are things that would make someone to change his or plans and go for second choice. Meanwhile they are still people who would say they can't go for the second choice if not the first choice and they strive harder and achieved it. The only secret about going for the first choice is that it would take much time and energy. But what made a lot of people to change their mind is time wasted. It could be they have check their age and when they calculate it with the time that they are going to spend they change their mind. Most people change their minds due to the saying which says that time doesn't wait for no one. That it's only human that can wait for time. Some people would always change their mind to avoid time wasted. Or so that they can also catch up with time.
I meet with most friends whom we sat together and planned life ahead. But most of them have changed their minds from the dream they had. Though I behave as a novice to them when asking them what made them to changed their minds. I got some responses from different of them. Some would say that it doesn't really happened the way they thought it would be. Some would say that life would not always offer us what we demand from it. Most friends told me that they wanted to become doctor, they wanted to become nurses and some lawyers but at some point life didn't really offer them what exactly they expected. This is through some challenges and everyday life experience that people are facing. I have received many advice both from my parents and form my elder brothers which I think if it is today that I have stand strong as a man no amount of advice would make me to change my mind from my first choice.
Though I know everything is possible. I can still go for my choice. It's will only take me much time. They are some certain things that would make you to change your mind from a particular plan you had. In most cases the family sometimes do cause it. It could be in choosing a course. Or in choosing a wife. A lot of family would always decide for their child a type of course to read in higher institution. And some would choose for their child a kind of wife or husband they want their child to marry. Most of this things really contributes to changing of minds that most people change.
What really made you to change your mind? Is it some challenges you go through ,or is it because of those who give you advice that made you to change your mind. If you have a good reason of pursing your first choice you can still go for it. If you change your mind because of one problem or the other you can still add your own little experience so that we can learn form it.
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You choose it
I extend my humble greetings to my wonderful and amazing friends here on read.cash platform. I hope everything is going well with guys. Stay safe and do enjoy the new week. I wish you with good things and success over the week.
Today is Monday here in my country, all the public workers are busy to catch up early in to their perspective offices. Except the teachers which the third term section have closed in mostly government and private secondary/ primary schools. There are now preparing for the next term. While some students in private and polytechnic and universities are still in schools except those in government universities who's their strike isn't yet settle.
My endless prayer is that they will soon call up for most students to resume their studies because students are really tired of staying at home. Students are complaining bitterly everyday and it's a kind of time wasted. Most students are even regretting that had it been they know that this is what would happen to education system, that they wouldn't have prefer going to school. Some are saying that they would have used their time spent in school to learn trade or other things. This is not exactly what i have concerning today's topic but I feel this what most of our youths are passing through.
Today's topic is concerning our choice, we all have our choice despite the fact that most people do force other people to choose wrongly what they do not suppose to choose, on their right choice but due to how they were forced they decide to make some wrong choice. Everything on planet earth goes down to our different choice. The choice we made some past years ago is a result of where we are today. Our choice be it a wrong or a right choice that we made in the past, it must definitely reflects in our today's life that we are living.
We all have our different choice. We all choose it. But I notice that no one would really go for the wrong choice when he or she knows that that is a wrong choice that they are choosing. No wants to be a poor person, everyone wants to be rich and wealthy in life. Everyone wants to make name but they issue is that it is not everyone that is ready to paid the price. They are some challenges that people who's their choose was to make wealth but they give up on the way due to different kinds of challenges that they have seen with their eye. They give up due to their 'why' wasn't strong enough.
If am poor it is my choice because that is what I choose. A white man once said that everything is possible. It's all depend on the eyes we look it into every challenges that shows up. If I become a failure in life today, there's nobody to be blame than myself because I choose to be a failure I would only blame myself for becoming a failure. Most people do blame their parent for being the reason of their failure and other people do blame the government for not bringing up a good structure. But to me I think the parent have done their best. There's no need of relaxing my mind waiting for parent or government to fixed everything right before I move on.
Things now have changed it's not like it was in the past. There are still more opportunity to strive on rather than waiting for anybody. I noticed that most people who are popular today didn't even have a platform to start. Or have a good starting. But they become what they are just because they choose it. Once you choose it rightly and determine to stand firm you will definitely finish it strong. It is all our choice if you we want to become a beggar on the street it's our choice. If we want to be rich it is also our choice. If we choose to be under other people control for the rest of our lives, we choose it. If we want to be a master it's also our choice. Any how we want our life to be it's all our choice. We have the right to make our choice.
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There's someone behind
My humble greetings to all my good and wonderful friends on read.cash platform. How are you guys enjoying the weekend? I hope everything is going well. Stay safe and always remain bless friends.
Writing here on the platform is always an opportunity. I'm seeing it as a great privilege that I can't even take it for granted. Read.cash is the best blogging site that users gain profit without even paying anything in returns. So I'm really excited about reed.cash platform. All I can wish read.cash is long life and more success.
Let me move straight to what I have to discuss today. In every success, either in a successful relationship or anything that we achieve success. There must be someone behind it. Most people knows about this. Through anyone's success journey there must be someone who in one way or the other contribute to the success. Though in most cases people would not always remember those who was behind their success. Someone who lacks appreciation would act as if they achieved their success alone not minding those who was behind.
There's someone behind. It could be he or she didn't contribute to the success financially, but they did it through word of advice or word of encouragement. Be it financial support or through words of advice it is a support. But the fact is that most people prefer the financial support aspects. Because to them they see financial support as the best. But they are some advice that is more important than money. If you can see it with me if someone give you money today. It might finish tomorrow if perhaps you don't use it wisely. But if a wise person is giving word of advice he might use it through out his life time.
Our people who say that when you see a masquerade dancing on the road know that there's someone inside the bush that is beating drums for him. That's to say in each reaction there must be an action. There most be someone behind to motivate a warrior or an hero. A warrior doesn't just gets into the ring and start fighting without people encouraging him. Like I have said before no one makes it alone. A tree must needs other trees to form a forest. I had a story where two married men were fighting each other and the wives were there watching how they are fighting.
Unfortunately one man beat up his fellow and fell him on the ground. The wife who's was standing behind encourage her husband. She said the fight doesn't just end by falling down someone on the ground. She encourage the husband to stand up and continue fighting. She told the husband look up to the sky and look the ground that you're lying on. How do you think that God created the both things. Don't you think you can stand up and still have success? The man hearing his wife motivation he stood up and start fight afresh. And before he knew he defeated the man. And become the winner.
What this teaches me is that there's must be a person behind anyone's success. There must be someone behind to tell you that you can still make it even when you feel discourage or when you're ready to give up. There must be someone behind to strengthen you when ever you feel weak or get tired. I find out that a warrior doesn't win the title all alone by himself. He gets victory through some encouragement that the fans outside will give him. So there's someone behind your success.
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Why at forty?
My humble greetings to everyone on read.cash platform. How is everyone doing? I hope everything is really going well with you guys. Stay safe and always remain bless friends.
For some days now I haven't attend to so many post that I suppose to have gone through. That's to say that I wasn't active on the site due to our power supply that is not steady in our area. Though I really enjoy staying in the place but lack of power supply isn't making the place looks lively. It's not everyone that can do without light, where there is power supply it's makes life more easier for people. Like I have said already if I haven't gone through your post, pardon me I will make sure that I try my very own best to go through some post as much as I can.
Let's look at today's topic. There is a saying that our people normally use to say. I would believe that a lot of people might of heard of the phrase right in some other part of the world. They likely use to say that a fool at forty is a fool forever. How do you understand the phrase if perhaps you might have heard about it. Or if you're just hearing the word. My question was, what is really the meaning of the phrase and why do elders mostly use to say it. When I didn't have a clear understanding about it, I was thinking the other way round that if people call you a fool up to forty times or if people that sees you as a fool are up to forty people then such person is a fool in totality.
It was until when I grow up a little and start asking questions that I have a clear knowledge about the phrase 'a fool at forty is a fool forever'. This implies that if a certain person becomes a fool right from his or her youthful age, which in my place a person's youthful age start from 18years and ends at 40years. So if you become a fool right from your childhood, youthful age and to your adult age. It therefore means that you will be a fool forever. This is because you have stayed right from your year one on planet earth and getting to your year forty and you are still the same without changing. With their sense and through their experience that they have gone through, they really understand what exactly they are saying. It would be very possible for a man of 40 year old to do most things that a man of 20 to 25 years old suppose be doing.
Why a fool at forty is said to be a fool forever. Our people would say that it's good to dry the herbs when there's sun shine. Another one they say is look for the black goat when it is day time not when it night time. What are they simply talking about? They are saying that there is a time for everything under the sun, and must use it right. We can't expect that a forty years man can be running a speed that a 25 years man would be running. Age matters a lot so once you're left behind that is your own. Before they use to say that life is not all about competition. I doubt the saying the very day that someone who always took first position in my class was pushed back to fourth position. I asked myself does it mean that he wasn't reading? Even me in question I was weighing him to know his weak point. So people are coming after you once you miss a step you would would be even watching their backs overtaking you.
Why would a fool at forty become a fool forever? Forty years is when a man youthful age ends, it's therefore means that if he couldn't achieve what he was ought to achieved while he was a young person. The adult age wouldn't be a proper time for him to get all those achievements. Seasons come and go, we do not expect a season to last forever else time would be meaningless. Since no one can stop time even if you can stop the one in your house. That's the clock you're are stopping not the time once it's the right time for the day the sun would come and everything would be in it's place. We have the sowing season and the harvesting season. While the say that a fool at fort is a fool forever is that if a man didn't sow seed at his youthful age there's nothing he will stand to harvest in his adult age which is his harvesting time.
Why at forty? A fool at forty will continue to be a fool. His present age is never a time he will like to listen to other people. It will just see it as an injury time in the soccer game, I think those who are use to football will understand the terms. This is just like someone who keeps making the same mistake over and over. We know that the past mistake can not be corrected. It's just that we learn lessons from it. But when mistake is excess it's become a disease to the person who is making it. A person who takes advice is wise, but a person who hate correction and advice doesn't know anything. The fool do not always takes advice from the wise. The always full with pride like they know all, but they are left with nothing in the end.
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Shut up! You're not God
I extend my humble greetings to my wonderful friends present here on read.cash platform. How are you guys doing. I hope everything is working good? I salute everyone who always find time to visit my blog page. You are so important to me. I want to say that I cherish everyone. Being the fact that we haven't seen each other but I am really excited to come around people with golden heart. I wouldn't believe such could happen seeing people accepting other people from different tribes with love and humility. But to me this is a wonderful and an amazing thing ever.
How was your weekend going? I hope you guys celebrated your weekends successful? As for me I do enjoy it. To those who normally specialize in public sector I wish you safety back to office. Stay safe and do enjoy your jobs. To those who are in school I wish you all the same more wisdom and understand to come out with a good grades. To those who are still seeking for jobs I pray that you will find a better one of your choice. I sounded as if I want to form a prayer. Never mind I was overloaded in Sunday's service yesterday and I feel like giving some out.
The way people are behaving nowadays they're are behaving as if God doesn't exist. People are ruling the earth as if the earth belongs to them. The worst part of it is that if they are opportune to occupy a certain position or rule some group of people. Like becoming the head. You will see people acting as if they are God. They will say a thing like after all I'm the head. And I have the final say. People are acting as if God doesn't exist. imagine how some rulers would ceases an opportunity of his kingship to oppressed the poor. Most of them are even taking bribe from the rich people.
If you don't have anyone in today's life, without money if you want to fight for your right. You will die even with your innocence. Once you have a case with those who have money, who have people to support them such case is death even they're the one who's guilty. They will pay in lawyers with heavy amount of money. All what their lawyer would asked them is the truth but once they get in the court they would turn everything upside down just because of the bribe they took. They will turn the case against the poor just because the poor doesn't have money to bribe a lawyer or do otherwise.
Most times I asked myself if people do not have conscience anymore. Because if we are still living life with our conscience there are most things we shouldn't do at most times. People are so full of pride despite the gospel and the teaching that is going on everywhere people still decides to live life with wicked activities. Some people have already determine in their minds not to change from doing evil. There are some that will tell you boldly that they wouldn't change. They would tell you that God should keep a place of the wicked people for them. Some would say that they are not even ready to die. If death comes at all that they do not have chance for it.
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People have have abandoned their creator and choose to go the evil ways. I have heard about the story of King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon who takes himself to be God But God reduced him to nothing. It was until he realized his mistake and return back to God that God had mercy open him. Even the rich man in the scripture who enjoys and become satisfied and says my soul enjoy in thy riches but his life was taken away from him because he wasn't God he was still a human being.
So before you do whatever you are doing remember the life you're living isn't yours. We're just a visitor here on the planet earth in which one day we will return to our creator. And we will also make an account of what we did while here on earth. So if you see anyone making boast of him or herself tell him to keep quiet that he or she isn't God. When you rule rule as If you are a servant still to the Almighty one who is the overall ruler.
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Why is giving so hard?
Hello my wonderful friends on read.cash platform. How are you guys doing? I hope everyone is doing great. It is has always been my joy and my endless happiness to hear from you people. Stay safe and do enjoy yourself. Have a good moment and a nice time.
There are many things that always come to our minds most especially when we are sitting alone. If you realize, the best time to remember most things. And the beet time to have a good thought or assuming you want to discover a particular thing. The best moments to think well is when you're alone. Most people like staying alone because they know about this secret. Staying alone will give you motivation that if you stay with people you might not have it. People would always distract you from having the best thought. The best time to have a clear thought is when you keep silence and listen to your inner mind. This mind sometimes will remind you most things that you might have forgotten for the past years.
People are always ready to receive from other people than giving. Someone once said that giving is very hard. He said that those who give out to others really tried a lot. I find it out that this is really true. Giving is really hard. There are those who wouldn't give out because they think that they are not up to the standard of giving to others people. Meanwhile they find it very difficult to give out even when they have it enough. Just enough can't be enough the rich wants to get richer and the poor also wants to get rich. Most people sees giving as a thing of pride but i think giving isn't a thing of pride. I have seen some people who doesn't have enough but they are giving to the beggars on the street. But those who have so much are even wasting it.
I live close to a rich man's house but it's very hard before those neighbors who lives close to his compound benefit from him. Most people used to say a phrase that ' If you call yourself a rich man and you are not able to raise up another rich person like you or assist others you are still a poor man'. If you're rich at least your riches shouldn't be within you alone. Your riches should go across your fence to those of your neighbors living around you. Being rich is a blessing. It could be God blesses you for a purpose and when you're not able to fulfill that purpose. He might take it away from you.
Why is giving so hard. A lot of people would not give even the left over of the food that they have in their house, they prefer wasting it than giving it out to the needy. Those things you think that it's doesn't worth giving do you know if people are looking for such? We wouldn't know people's problem until we go close to them. There's no body without a problem. If God has place you in a good position look for someone's problem and soft. A lot of people would always forget to assist others when they are in a good condition. But when they are facing with challenges they would look for help from other people.
I always pray that people would remember me when they are in good position. Not when they are with nothing. I'm saying this because a lot has happened to me. It's would be when people are done enjoying their goods days, the bad days is when they would remember me. They would say a thing like where were you when I had this or when I did that. And this particular word usually pains me a lot. I hate people telling their past glory. I'm ready to hear something present not the past. Leave the past at the door -step of the past.
Why do people find it so hard to give. Instead of giving to the humans, they would prefer giving it to their pets. The house of this rich man that I'm talking about, I was shocked when one of his maid servant told me how much he spent in a day to feed his dogs. But those working for him are struggling to even have a one time meal in a day. I asked the servant a question that sounds so funny, I asked him what shall it profit a man if he spend his money on feeding his dogs than feeding human like him? Though the guy find it so funny to him. But I have said my mind. If assuming it gets broke today is it the dogs that would assist him. Or is it those dogs that would help him to start up right.
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This is some of the problems that we are facing in today's life. People find it difficult to give to other people. Instead they prefer wasting it. We should try to give out what we have to people. Just think how you would feel if you stay hunger for a day. A little you give is still a give. Our people use to say that what ever the hand folds is a package. Don't think that people would always reject it from you. People are ready to appreciate that your little offer.
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Before now
Greetings to everyone here on read.cash platform. Happy weekend end to everyone I hope all is going well with you guys. I have really missed you people because for some days now I've not been able to visit read.cash platform and also go through most post that I suppose to go through. This is because I travel to my village to assist my family in during some certain things. To my greatest surprise since I came in this is making three days now and there's no power supply. Unless you power on your generator that's the only way to survive. But to me I was thinking that I will see light to enjoy like before I never knew that things have changed totally.
My today's discussion would be on those things that has been happening back then and now we can't see some of them happening again. Though the world is changing everyday but to me i think such thing shouldn't change. During my short staying in the village I have observe so many things that is missing. What I mean is that most of this things didn't fail to occur before but not there are no way to be found. Most of this things that I'm talking about are things I have been observing right in the city that I was, but coming to the village I find out those things are still the same.
Before now in the south south region of Nigeria there's a season we used to observe in the raining season. But we realise that it's no longer happening in it's normal time that it's suppose to happen. Rather instead of moving forward it's moving backward, This started some years ago and we thought that it will come back to it's normal time but we didn't know that it's changing for life. The season I'm talking about is the August break season which the sun would shine for the whole two weeks. It is either in the second or in third week of the month but now such isn't happening again. We only see it happening in the fourth week in the month of July instead in the month of August.
And it's wouldn't just shine for complete two weeks. The sun sometimes shines for a week and some days. This has really cause problems to those specializing on Agricultural sector here in my State. The August break period is mostly the time that most of the farmers used to cultivate their crops. They do call it late planting in their Agricultural terms, I think the absence of this sun shine for two weeks have really affected them in so many ways.
Before now there's this fly with called butterfly but for quite some years now butterfly is really scares which I don't really know the cause of it. Butterflies are really helpful mostly to the farmers and to the gardeners, as they are attracted to bright flowers and need to feed on nectar. Through this process their bodies collect pollen and carry it to other plants. This is what really helps fruits, vegetables and flowers to produce new seeds. Most majority of plants need pollinators like bees and butterflies to reproduce. I think in the absent of this fly the Agricultural sector would suffer a lot and even in our environment we need it too and this is what is missing now.
What are those things that happen before now that you haven't seen them happening in nowadays? Things have really changed in which I wouldn't want to go into most of them. I think I would end up my suggestion here why I would also listen to your own point of view
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The journey is enjoyable but the road has stopped
Greetings to everyone and to my wonderful friends on read.cash platform. It's really my happiness and through Joy that I'm writing this piece. I hope everyone is doing well? Stay safe and remain bless. What ever you are doing or any circumstances that you're facing now be hopeful that it wouldn't last forever. No condition is ever permanent they say. If it's doesn't work out today have faith that tomorrow would be far better than today. Success is everyone's prayer, but it's seems it is not every prayer that is answered instantly just the way we want it to be. But all the same we have to give it sometimes. All of our prayers is processing. We might get our answers in sooner and our answers might take long. But I am seeing the whole aspect like God has his reasons of doing things they way he wants.
Let me move straight to discuss on today's topic. The journey is enjoyable but the road has stopped. Has anyone experienced such before? If yes you can drop your own experience in the end of this writing. The journey is enjoyable but the road has stopped, is like a proverbs that our people usually say. In most cases they don't really mean that the are enjoying the journey but the road has stopped. This particular words means a lot to them. This can be seen has proverbs that has different meanings. Of course most of the proverbs are like that. It might be said once but it's has many meaning to those that understands it.
Let me try to throw in more light about it. The journey is enjoyable but the road has stopped. Means to people that used it in other way around it's means that they really enjoy a particular thing but the thing they were enjoying has finished. Or this can also means that people desire to move beyond their level were the are in life, but despite their struggling they can't achieve it. Like I have said that the saying has many meaning I wouldn't have much time to explain all, but at least the a little that I have said would make people to move together with me. The journey is enjoyable but the road has stopped is also something that mostly happen to a lot of people. If we were carried out on a journey that really we really enjoyed and having a very good plans against the journey and latter you ended up having no road to move ahead how would you feel?
I have witness such if I want to say my experience it would take quite some times. But let me say a particular one that pained me. During my childhood we were invited to end of the year party in other school far from our village. So I was really excited to attend such a program since I haven't attend before. Then the exact time was kept for the children to arrive in our own school so we could move from there to the occasion venue. So when I arrived at the time I couldn't find any body in the school that we were suppose to kick start our journey to the school that invited us to their occasion.
Being that I stayed there for another extra 20 minutes and none of our pupils showed up. So with my childhood sense i thought that they have gone already that it could be the a little time I used to trek from the house down to school is where I'm late. I start moving without waiting again. But I never knew that there's something like African time that if an occasion or any movement were kept at 8:00am people would add another extra 30 minutes to 1 hour to it. I didn't know that they were still at home preparing, but here I'm thinking that I'm late already and decided to take a risk which I ended up in a total mess.
See me moving with joy and happiness in me to the occasion that our school were invited to. But I never knew the direction to the venue. I was busy working with enjoyment in my heart to meet with my pupils until when I ended up my journey in someone's house and at this point I felt so tired but I could realize and due to the time I spent walking. The occasion is about to end up already. And to go back again was a problem. If not for the woman I met at where my enjoyable journey stop was so kind that he gave me food and paid a bike to take me back to my parents. So I ended up stopping my journey on the way and I didn't achieved what I expected. This was still an experience that teaches me a lot in life.
The road is enjoyable but the road has stopped. This is what really hindered a lot of people. People have the desire to still live life but their road stops when death knocks at their door. Death can be seen in the other way round as most thing that stopped the enjoyable journey of most humans on earth.
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If it's me
Happy new week to everyone present here on the platform. I wouldn't fail to extend my humble greetings to my wonderful friends and my amazing sponsors for seeing the zeal in me to sponsor my writing carrier. I thank everyone, and all my wishes for everyone is success ahead.
I'm still enjoying the weather through out the pass week. I'm also expecting to have such kind of the weather this week also. Though man propose but the almighty God dispose. I know that God has the final say. I am not trying to tell him on what to do. God knows the best to do. He knows more than every other man. It could be he has his reasons for giving us the good weather he gave for the past one week ago.
Today we are going to discuss about this particular words that people use to make. And through this particular words a lot of people have mislead from their ways. The sentence is a simple words to say. But it's can scattered people's family, relationship and other things. people normally lure other people into problems that they do not suppose to have, but they go ahead having the problem just because they have open up their minds to other people's opinions.
People have pushed other people using this words as a good advice but in the other way around they are advising wrongly. This would be when people are in a bad situation and they're looking for a way to solve those challenges that they are into. Then the wrong types of friends would come using if it is me, this is what I have done. This is how I would have done it. Whereas they're saying nothing but lies. They're are just saying it in other that if you can't control your heart you take yourself into a mess that you would find it so difficult to come out.
If it is me. I've recently find out that a lot of people are using this words to adds more salt into an injury. It would be instead of giving you medicine to relief the pains. They're adding more pains into it. A lot of people would say if it's me this what I have done. But to be surprise if the same problem happen to me, they would not do anything contrary to what they said that the would have done if they were the one that are in the shoe.
Let me bring in a long story in a short form. Recently a woman by name loveth had two daughters only and she also had a family friend by name Stella who also have still the same number of children like hers. They both children grew up together and study together as both friends. They were all living like one family in love and in harmony. But the only difference was that loveth's daughters was a little older than those of Stella's own. Loveth's daughters were also higher in class than those of the Stella's children since they were the seniors.
So unfortunately loveth's first daughter mistakenly got pregnant at senor secondary three. And the mother who's name was Loveth got mad at the daughter why she should disgrace the family with such shame. She went ahead seeking for advice from people on what to do. So Stella who was a very close friend to the family advice the mother to push her daughter out from the house, that she is a shameful thing to the family. Loveth the mother who was so angry took her friend's advice and pushed the daughter out from the house.
After two years from the incident. Stella's daughter also get into the senior secondary three and also did the same mistake that Loveth's first daughter did that made her to leave the house which the leaving of the house was through her mother's advice. When Stella's daughter got pregnant, the mother hid her inside and she didn't pushed out the daughter which she told her friend ' if she is the one. But when her turn came she didn't react like she said. Even when her friend had about what happened she went to Stella and asked her why she is not pushing out the out from the house like she advised her to do her first daughter.
And she replied her friend that she can't do such to her daughter. She told her friend that she love the daughter. She said Loveth it was your choice to pushed out your daughter from the house that that's not her choice. That she has her choice. And this alone have teach a lot of people a good lesson.
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Bitcoincash to the world!
Greetings to all my read.cash friends. I am grateful to meet you once again. Even though we haven't seen face to face, but being able to interact with you guys is an amazing thing. Thank you everyone who always visit my blog page with words of encouragement or giving me support In one way or the other. Without you guys I wouldn't feel comfortable here in the platform. A tree doesn't form a forest they say. It would be very impossible for a finger to remove lice from the head. It's through contribution of more hands that the heavy load is being taken from one place to another. A good king doesn't rule alone. He needs advice from his cabinet too to rule the kingdom properly.
Please pardon me if you can't really understand my proverbs. A child who sees the father is never a little child. He isn't a little child for the fact that he had known the father. If a child is little he or she can never recognize the father. So to finalize this particular proverbs means that I have sat with my father and even with my grandfather so I know part of their proverbs. I even know those that can be used to confused people who doesn't understand those proverbs.
A tree can't form a forest. A tree needs more trees before a certain bush can become a forest. Unlike in read.cash platform we need people to build up ourselves. We need people to improve our writing skills. We need people whom we also learn from. So if we think we can become who we truly want to become without learning from people, we are saying nothing but lies. In what ever we are doing or whatever we want to achieve, we need people to achieve them. If we wants to achieve only by ourselves. It will really takes us time to get it right.
A finger can't remove lice from the head. Is similar to A tree cannot form a forest. All the proverbs I used are all similar to each other in meaning. So I wouldn't want you to get confuse on each of the proverbs. That's the way my fathers usually used before they start saying anything that they wants to say.
I really appreciate this humble platform for such an opportunity given to each and everyone here. I know a lot of people have benefited from this source in one way or the other. I'm grateful for this platform. I know words wouldn't express my happiness, but what's due appreciation deserves it. My humble appreciation goes to Mr Marc for his golden heart he has, for the opportunity giving to everyone across the globe to benefit from this great platform call read.cash platform. I'm ever grateful for this kind of opportunity and I wouldn't take it for granted. I thank each and everyone who in one way or the other contribute to the success of this platform.
I have been in this platform for one month now. And I want to testify what and what I have benefited from this platform it's would be so amazing. I am exited for I'm one of the beneficial here on read.cash. I have been able to go into the crypto world through read.cash platform. Read.cash has introduce me to more investment on cryptocurrencies which I was a novice until when I came across read.cash platform one month ago. Read.cash has torchlight a pathway for me to become an investor which I didn't had in plan that such could happen.
This is my first article I'm writing just to appreciate the existence of read.cash and bitcoincash. I would be so ungrateful if I fail to appreciate this platform. This is a platform that you don't pay any fee to register. This is a platform that everything is free of charge. But the only thing to invest in is your time only. Bitcoincash to the world. This has always been my endless prayer but now that my eyes have seen this platform. It's seems that God has answered my prayer. I never knew that this platform existed since the past two years ago. Though I wasn't aware about it. But all the same I'm still grateful on my arrival. How I wish this would last forever. Let me not use longer because I'm convicted in my heart that it would last for years.
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What's your suggestion about weekend?
Happy weekend to everyone on this platform. How is everything going? I hope everyone is enjoying the weekend. All my wonderful wishes for everyone is success ahead.
What's your weekend experience/ your suggestion?
Do you really enjoy your weekend or should we suggest seven days working straight without taking any breaks? I know that a lot of people have different experience on how they spent their weekends. They are also people who think that there shouldn't be weekends, best on the type of business that they are engaged in.
I know it's those that engage in government work that normally observe the weekends. But those in private sector do don't normally enjoy the weekend due to some types of work they engage with. Some private sector like private schools would also enjoy the weekends a little but those in private sector like industries do not normally have chance expect on Sundays which is set aside for church that they would have time. So most of their weekends starts on Sunday and before Monday early in morning they have all arrive at the office. This types of people normally have heart break once is Monday morning because they know arriving at the office what is involve.
To me I don't observe weekends until is Sunday. There are Sundays evenings that I would even go out, especially when those of my best customers who do not have time on weekends call me for home services. Here in country it's every weekends that they do observe weeding and other things like burial because they know that people would be more available by the weekend to attend some events. If you fix your program on working days like from Monday to Friday, people would always have an excuses to give. But once is weekend they would be no much excuses. That's why a lot of people find weekend as the best time to go out. Some people would travel by the weekends. Some would fix a meeting by the weekend and a lot of friends would pay visit to those friends they missed for quite some times.
So when people hear about the weekend they would be some how exited. I have being hearing people saying a thing like thank God it's Friday. And this particular song has being sang by our popular artist. But I haven't been hearing people saying a thing like thank God it's Monday. That's to show that people's hearts beat increase on every Monday morning and decrease on Friday evening for those who are engaged in government sector who normally enjoy weekends.
What do you normally do during the weekends.?
During the weekends every family have their schedules. Especially the mothers I would love to shoot out to the mothers who are present here on the platform. The fathers shouldn't get jealous because the mothers truly deserves the best appreciation which is more than words. Unlike me like I have said already. I only observe weekend on Sundays but on a normal working days if I am engage in an occasion I will try to fix in myself. But I don't really stay at home on Saturdays and Sundays. If I have some other things to go once I find out my schedules and realise that I would be free. I would try to visit my friends and those of my family friends.
What's your opinion about weekends?
To me since weekend was observe right before my time I think the same should be continued because those people who suggested we have the weekends have their own reasons. So I think weekend is a nice thing that helps a lot of government workers to at least have time for their families and for themselves.
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Failure builds character
I extend my humble greetings to everyone on this platform. Happy weekend to everyone across the globe. I wish you all a successful day ahead. Here is where I always enjoy myself, yes I so much have that joy when interacting with my good friends here.
Today is Friday morning here in my place. Getting to the past one week now it is not raining. But we are now in raining period and I wonder why it is not raining. It is only on August that we do have August break. This is when we would have half short of sun shine for a period of one to two weeks. But I have noticed for some years now since everything have changed in both the calendar. The August break do use to start on the second week of August, but they are years that the August break would shift to July we would have instant sun shine through out the period of one to two weeks. I have asked my mother it if has happened this way before and she said yes, that there are some years that the it would shift like that.
Though to me I was thinking that those scientists who's handle the calendar aspect have made some mistakes. But was until I find out from my mum who have experience more than me that I relax my mind that it might be the fault isn't from them. This has really shows that things is really changing. Oh I wanted to use things is fallen apart and I quickly remember that a great author has already written on this.
Let's discuss a little on today's topic before we forget today's business. Failure builds character more than success. How do you understand this? I hope you're not getting confuse. Failure becomes the experiment that we need to carried out the practice before we can get the results. People have learned their lessons a lot from failure more than success. Success is the the final whistle in the game. This would come through after we might have gone through series of failure and discouragement. This isn't just easy we learn a lot in failure and that's is where we build character from. Much of our experience are from failure not in success.
Don't let any challenge to stop you. When you're facing with failure and disappointment, it's doesn't shows that you are not qualified. Rather it shows that you have taken a steps to achieve success. Failure is the only pathway that leads to success. No success without failure. If anyone wants to confirm what my statement means. You need to under go how Thomas Edison invented the electric bulb. No body would likely tell you the failure that you would experience in the process of trying to get the important thing that you need until you find it out by yourself.
How do failure builds character? It's just like comparing a person who struggle out on his own to achieve success to the one that just wake up and meet with success. They're people like that, this are the classes of people that wealth is already await them. While those struggling to get it are those who never have a platform to start or who didn't also have someone to lean on. The one who just wake with success wouldn't stand firm to faced with storms that would come the second time being that everything where made for him, so he doesn't know the secret because he hasn't gone through the test and challenges.
The one that has gone through failure and challenges on his own have the experience. And there's no storms that would come that he wouldn't stand to faced it. He will just see disappointment as a normal thing simply because he understands the process. He won't see it has punishment he would adapt what so ever situation that would come. meanwhile someone that doesn't have the experience about failure would see every disappointment as punishment.
Failure is the best experience ever. When we graduate from the school of failure, we would have mastered degree in success. But if we are seeking for success without failure that would be impossible because I haven't heard of such before. I have heard that failure give birth to success, so if we always become afraid of failure that's our success that we are joking with.
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Reasons why people force themselves into relationship
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Without much wasting of time let's move straight to what we have to discuss in today's writing. I think we would all derive some certain things as we keep on reading. Though people of the new age would see most of the things that happens now as if such is the first time that this has happened. Meanwhile like I was told by my late father, that everything that is happening in the world today has already happened. My late father would sometimes said that there's nothing new in his eyes apart from the new technology that wasn't so rampart in their time.
We are going to look on what exactly why some people would force themselves into a relationship. A relationship would be good and be successful, or last longer when the two parties agreed together. A relationship can never be successful and last long when one is forcing his or herself or another person into it. This act in particularly, always damage a relationship. In where I'm coming from , one person can take another person's effort and time for granted and just because it's wasn't a genuine love. One partner was either forcing him or herself to be in the relationship. So moreover in such relationship disappointment is guaranteed.
Love is a beautiful thing, but it's just that most people refuse to appreciate it. Love become so beautiful when the two people who is involved understand each other and know what they really need in the process. A relationship would only suffered when love is much bigger in one side than the other. It would be much better than it's equal so that they would be no much problem.
Reasons why most people force themselves into a relationship
**Wealth**; This is mostly rampart nowadays that the world economy is very poor. And this is really cause through the level of poverty that most countries are facing with. It was before that people accept to marry one another because of love, but nowadays there's nobody that is ready to eat love if at all is eatable. Everyone is praying for a good and wealthy partner. I had a comedy some days ago where one sister who was seeking for a husband. When it's time for everyone to tender his or her request to God. The woman started his prayer. God I need a wealthy tall man, I don't need a poor man to come my way. And In front of her there was a short man standing.
When he heard the woman's prayer. He also prayed his own prayer saying God I know you created a short man and with a billionaire I'm. God give me a tall wife. And when the woman who was praying for a tall wealthy man heard it. She said God is that your voice? I know you're a miracle God yes you will do it for me. To cut short the story, both men and women of nowadays are looking for ready made. So when they see what's up to their taste they would do anything possible to get into a relationship with such a person.
**Beauty/Handsome;** This has really cause people to force themselves into a relationship. It would be when a woman sees a handsome man who's she love. But in the other hand the man doesn't give her an attention or ask her out. The woman would try everything to get into a relationship with the man. And the same has also happen to the men, when the men sees a very beautiful woman and they try all they could and if they can't get the woman, they would say no I can't loose such beautiful woman and that's alone can lead them to force themselves into a relationship.
**Marriage**; people do force themselves into a relationship just for them to get married and be among those who are call married people. In my country a lot of girls do not joke with marriage rings. So once they see their fellow friend getting married. They would get jealous that them too they suppose to be getting married. And this can always lead them to forcing themselves into a relationship with a man so far they got married.
**Some disadvantage that occurs in forcing people into a relationship**
When people are being forced into a relationship, if it leads to marriage such wouldn't last because they will each look for their own taste.
When forcing people into a relationship. They wouldn't be much respect. It would just be like begging people to stay. So they wouldn't regards one another as its supposed to be.
The would always be fault finding. The person that was forced into a relationship will be the one finding fault in other to break up from the relationship because she's no longer interested anymore.
A relationship that is forced into would be no forgiveness. This type of relationship would be full of complaints. They would always complain to their parents in other to be separated from each other and return back to where their minds belongs to.
Lastly a relationship that people are forced into, if it leads into marriage. There would always be a problem when it's comes to marital right on bed. I think a lot of us would understand what I'm talking about.
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Was it this way?
Hello wonderful friends on read.cash I extend my is humble greetings to everyone present here. Happy new day to you all. I wished everyone a lovely day ahead.
When I was a little child, I used to listen to how my late father would predict about how the world would look like in the future. To me I never knew it was going to be this way until when I grow up and things begin to change like it is now. There were times that I used to sit with my grand father and my real father and they will be telling me stories which I was so interested in hearing their stories. It's was because of their story that took me closer to them. Among all my siblings, I was the only one who like listening to stories.
Sometimes my siblings would tell me that I like sitting with elderly people more than sitting with the children. That at my age that i supposed to be sitting with children and play with them. But they didn't understand what I gained through listening to them. Even up till now I hardly make friend with my mate. I only make friend with those who are older than me, and more advanced than me in knowledge and with experience. Right from my childhood that has always been my policy. I noticed that if I make friend with those who are more advanced than me, I would gain a lot from them.
Meeting with elderly people I can say that I have known what those of my eldest brother do not know. I have known both things about tradition and others hidden things. Staying with my father and sometimes with my grandfather has been of good benefit to me because I know so many things. Even though I'm in town right now when My elderly brothers wants to do some certain things that they do not understand they will called my attention and I would be happy to assist them with a little I know. To me I never knew that those time I wasted sitting with them was never a waste.
I really like hearing from them those about those ancient stories and past memories. But in the other way around there were also telling something about the future about would happen. Now everything that is happening in the world today, both the world economy that is unstable is never a new thing to me. I'm not even surprise seeing this things happening because I have heard about it already that this is what and how the world would looks like in so so time. So when things just happen this way it's will only reminds me of those things they told me about.
During my childhood days, they are days that I would ask my father why things are being sold in such an amount. I was thinking that material things are so costly that it doesn't suppose to be that's way. And father replied me that things are even cheap now that in the next 15 -20 years that things would be so costly than the way it is now in their time. He said if time isn't taking that things would be 10 times increase in price much more than their time.
They mainly said so many things about the future and here it is. They talked concerning the school aspect concerning my country and now we're suffering a lot from strike for some months now which if care isn't taken the strike would last for years. Nigerian educational background isn't encouraging at all. One popular reggae musician call Lucky Dube has once sang a song saying that they will build no school anymore, all they will build would be prison. This is presently happening in my country today. I once heard that a popular pastor built a prison for the federal government and I am not move by that because I had it already.
I have once said if other on country have prayed like my own country. God will even go and build a place for himself there. But he won't dwell in my own country because of the corruption of our leaders. So many things that suppose to be done by the government we are praying to God add to the once that we suppose to tell him. So when we tender all our request both those once that belongs to the government, don't we think that we are disturbing Him.? Assuming if God was an ordinary man he would have sent our country a letter telling them not to disturb him anymore that he is tired of us. I never knew It was going to be this way. I was only listening to my grandfather and my father as well like a child that love knowing secret.
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Where do we go after here?
Hello lovely friends on read.cash platform. How are you all feeling? I hope everything is going well. It's always my pleasure to meet you guys. Discussing with you people is another thing that gives me happiness and joy. My greatest joy on the platform so far is that I am able to learn some certain things from this wonderful platform. Since when I saw this site, I was really in love with it. I don't know others view but I think a lot of people have really benefited from here through learning and gathering some important information.
Today I really want to discuss about our lives here on earth and where exactly we are going after here. This has been a very good question that people keep meditating on their minds. Though so many people wouldn't voice it out but this has been a good thought that keeps running in my mind. Have you been having such thought in your mind? When I was a little child there's this particular thought that keep disturbing my mind. Especially during my tender age of four to five years. Each night I would be afraid of sleeping because of some thoughts that disturbed my mind.
It's would be whenever I'm about to sleep I would think if at all I would wake up alive the following morning. And this thought particularly has been my greatest fear. Most times I would like to go and sleep close to my parents. And they will like asking me if I'm alright. And I would say yes even though I wasn't find at all. But I didn't wanted to tell them exactly what was my feelings. I like keeping secrets even when I was a little boy then, I never like opening up all my feelings. Sometimes I feel that that wasn't a good way to live life, sometimes I feel like that is how I was created.
I never remember such memories since I grow up. But someone made a comment today that's remind me of those past memories. He said what exactly look alike like that of my own past memories. And that's where I could remember that I was once in such shoes. But I thank God that such fear is not in my mind anymore. When we grow old we change our thoughts and we don't no longer think as we use to think while we were a little children.
Where do we go after here was that particular thought that brought fear to me during my childhood. I have the understanding when I grow up. During my childhood I was thinking that once a person is die that his soul and everything is death. Until when I came across some scriptures that give me the clear understanding about what l needed to understand. I never knew that there's another life after death until when I read about the terrestrial and celestial body. I would believe that so many christians knows about this particular words. I learned that the terrestrial body is the one that we have now while in the earth. And after death it's will transform into the celestial which will ascend up.
We the Christians that believe that heaven and hell is real. We know exactly where we would be when the rapture comes. But my endless desire is to be in heaven and that alone as always been a prayer of every believers.
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Don't worry
Hello my good and wonderful friends on read.cash platform. Happy Sunday to all the Christians. I'm really excited about today. Going to church would be a great thing to me. I hope everyone would attend service today? I always feel exited when ever I am in the present of the lord. It's always a beautiful thing to worship God with amazing and lovely people of God. I don't really know for others people. But this has always been my inspiration.
How did you enjoy the weekend end so far though the weekend is not yet over. This week wanted to be a very bad week to me, but those trials has really turned to triumph. I'm grateful because I have not allowed the bad situation and those challenges to bring down my faith. I'm really hoping for good things and miracles to happen this week. I believe in the spoken word, I have already declare a word into the week and I believe that God would honor those words.
Why so worrying about tomorrow. When God had promised us that we shouldn't worry about tomorrow of what we will eat or drink. For tomorrow would take of itself. He said even the birds on the air they neither sow nor harvest but they are all eating and be satisfied. Then why so worrying about tomorrow when we know our God is still keeping his words. God is always faithful and that has always been my greatest inspiration. To me and to every believers, God is ever faithful not to fail us, there are days that it's seems that we would not survive through. But God show forth his mercies towards us.
Why so worrying in life when you have the one that is capable of breaking down the laws of nature and every other laws. Why worrying about when you have the God that has the whole world in his hands. He is our source and sustainer, our provider and defender, our redeemer and and helper. All we need to do is to tender our request to him whenever we needs him to show up for us. And he will definitely show up for us. He never sleep nor slumber. He is ever ready to help us any time that we call on his name.
Don't worry about those situations that you are going through because God is always with us. This is not what I really wanted to write about but i feel like there's someone who wants to give up life. There's nothing to be worried about. Things would work out just fine. Fixed your eyes upon him that is able to do the impossible, he's the God of all possibilities. He is called the lifter of men. He lift him that is humble and brings down the pride.
Don't worry, be happy. Always find some reasons to always be grateful with every opportunity that you have. Always rely on God mercies. For his mercies never fail us. His mercies are new every morning, all we need to do is to believe in the lord. For it's written that there that believe in the name of the lord shall be like mountain that can't never be shaken. Don't ever look ugly or feel guilty at the same time. This is what would really give us some reasons to be worried about. Always feel good about who you're. Believe that the price have been paid and that there's someone who is interceding on our behave.
When things want to give you reasons to be worried about. Also have your own reasons to be happy just because you are still a living being. There are so many that are seeking for that position that you are but they're not privilege to have it. There's how I have be worried in the past years until when I have the understanding that good days would definitely come. You might be so worried asking yourself when would the good days come. That's exactly how I was like. Since I kept on worrying about the better days and noticed that there's no need to be doing such I have stopped it. Because if I keep worrying about life and it's doesn't work out the way I expected it. I wouldn't kill myself.
Don't always kill yourself on a matter. There's nothing in life to be so worried about. Life would not always give us the best that we require from it. So if we keep worrying we are definitely harming ourselves. Don't be so worried about tomorrow though we're are all hopeful about so many things. We have our plans ahead, and if we can't achieve all of them at the time we can still believe that it's not yet time to have all of those things. There's time for everything. We don't need to be so worried.
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