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Cheating.. its a choice
June 29, 2021 Let's talk about @JonicaBradley prompt for the week and this time it is ***Cheating.*** There are so many kinds of cheating, and so many people are doing it too. Let's talk about the one that usually becomes the problem in every relationship. informal. : to break a promise made to (**someone**, such as one's wife or husband) by having sex with **someone** else He **cheated** on his wife/girlfriend. - Merriam Webster ***Cheating is a choice not a mistake*** That is what I say when someone cheated with me or when my friends tells me that their partner is cheating on them. For me it's a lie when they say ***sorry they didn't know what they have done.*** Do you believe them when they said that? I don't. Because if you really love the person and if you really don't want to hurt the person you love you will think a thousand times before you do something that you know will hurt them. It's because they choose to do it that's why it happened. It's because they are not content with the love that you give that's why they cheat. There are people who do it for fun not thinking of what the consequences will be and still it's a ***choice***. Cheating is also not an ***accident*** that just happened without the person knowing it. It happened because your girlfriend/boyfriend allow it to happen. There is no such thing as accident if the person allows it, and allowing it means they also choose to do it. Establishing a relationship is not easy, as well as earning trust. Wooing over the person you like is not an easy task too, sometimes it will took you weeks or months just to win the attention of that person. Will you just let that hard work be put into waste? Will you just let go of that trust without thinking of the consequences? If you really truly in love with someone you will not be able to kiss someone else because you know that it will hurt the one you love, other girls or boys will not be appealing to you because your eyes are fixed with the person you love. All that you will be able to think is what's good for your love. That's what a person truly in love is doing. I may sound naive for believing this because they say nowadays having more than one partner is already a thing. But I'm good with just one person to love and I don't want to share it with anyone else. I also don't allow cheating with consent. Why will you be in a relationship where you allow cheating? Doesn't it hurt your pride? your ego? your self respect? And love is also not a test so why do you have to cheat?
Everyone deserves to be love wholeheartedly, to be their one and only, to be their only world, to be the one who can shout to the whole world that you are loved sincerely so why settle with someone who cannot give you the world where only you two exist? Don't let anyone cheat on you not because of pride or ego but because you deserve to be loved, you deserve to be respected, you deserve someone who is loyal to you. And it's ok to give chances just be sure that to whom you are giving it is the right person and that he/she really deserves it. Will leave you with this quote for you to ponder on. **People don't cheat by chance, they cheat by choice. It's never an accident because they've played it out in their mind before it happened. Be very careful if you stay with someone who has cheated on you** *****without reason*******. What you accept is all you'll ever get. - Tony A. Gaskins Jr.** And this is my entry to this week prompt: cheating To participate, you should follow these rules which are mandatory; Write anything about similarities Write 100% original content Write at least 600 words Tag @JonicaBradley https://read.cash/@JonicaBradley
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Yes it's a choice not a mistake because we know that cheating is wrong but we still did it.. without rationalizing the consequences.
Yep... Everyone who did it forgets about the consequences.. they thought they can always get away with it
This is very true. People who cheat do so because they want to do it. At this moment, they do not consider the other party if he or she is hurt or not, they have chosen to betray their partner or friends with that.
Yep... And it's just sad because they know what they are doing and yet still do it
Very true. A good article for self-check and reflection. There's always a choice. I'm reminded of people saying, "if there is a God, why doesn't He shows Himself or why doesn't He make me believe in Him?" See, that's the thing. It's called Free Will. Free Will enables us to make choices. And choices are expressions of love or lack thereof.
I guess the ones who are doing it are those who lack
Yes and unable to stick to commitments.
The latter is a sad fact
Yes. See, love is a feeling but a commitment is a decision. Feelings can be affected by circumstances but commitment is forever. But you know, humans are fallen creatures. Not perfect and oftentimes rebellious and stubborn. This is a bit too deep. My mind is going overdrive. lol.
Think i like to write about that love is a feeling and commitment is a decision because that is really true. You can say you feel love to a few people but commitment is a different thing
Go for it. I look forward to reading that.
I'll try later.. my brother says he has an extra laptop that i can use for the meantime 😍
Great news!
Agree to this. I am once a cheater kaya alam ko iyan but I'm a change person now hehe.
Same here... I guess kaya ko din nasulat yan but yep not doing it anymore.. masakit ang balik 😂
Naku totoo hahahaha. Yung gugustuhin mo nalang maging mabuting Tao after mo makarma 🙉
😂😂😂 sinabi mo pa
Definitely true!! May nagawa na din ako ng article tungkol sa pagiging cheater ko once, a week ago pa. Karma really does exist..
Oh yes it really does exist.. and karma is a real bitch 😅🙈
kaya nga eh, Hindi na talaga dapat maulit pa yun, natuto na ako..😁😁😁 i.subscribe po kita ha..☺️
Sure renren.. thanks! Will do the same 😉
Thank you so much too❤️
I'd say "absolutely true!" to the title itself. There's no such thing as cheating by accident hehe. We do certain things because we are aware and still choose to do them. Unfortunately, some people still justify themselves after committing any act of cheating.
And its funny how they defend themselves saying its just an accident 🤣🤣😅
Yep, just an excuse or trying to get around hehe.
The usual ways of cheaters
Truth hehe
"if you really truly in love with someone you will not be able to kiss someone else because you know that it will hurt the one you love, other girls or boys will not be appealing to you because your eyes are fixed with the person you love. " Pak.. Kht sino pang Maria na sobrang ganda sa harapan mo.. kung ikaw ay loyal sa mahal mo, hndi ka magpapatukso.. Deym those kabits..
😂😂😂 napatawa ako ng reply mo sis damang dama ko yung deym those kabits 🤣
Alam mo na yung past.. Bumabalik dahil sa prompt na to 🤣🤣
😂😂😂 true pasaway tong prompt na to eh
really true, if you really love your partner you'll never have the chance to set eyes on other people☺ God Bless!
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As the saying goes, ang chance isang beses lang binibigay. Kaya nga second chance, pag nag-third chance pa yan kasalanan mo na. People should consider self respect. If they've been cheated on, they should have the courage to throw away that love coz they've been disrespected already. True that cheating is by choice. Cheating by accident is a lame excuse.
Cheating by accident is just b-sh@t it's not a lame excuse its a stupid excuse
Hahaha that's a strong word, but true. They had a choice in the first place, but they still chose to cheat.
hahahaa di ba???
Hindi po ako makagawa ng article about sa cheater 🥺😫 nabablank utak ko di pa kasi nanyari sakin to at di ko pa nagawa. Pero eto lang masasabi cheater is always a cheater yan lagi ko naririnig hahaha
hahaha you don't have to push yourself kung wala ka pa masulat... mahaba pa naman ang week hahaha pero tama cheater is always a cheater
I have an article in mind about this already pero di ko nlang muna isusulat. hayaan ko muna kumalma ang nga cheating topics, at maghahanap ulit ng articles for flexing. yes, cheating is a choice. Dami nakakarelate sa prompt na to.
Oo nga eh.. blockbuster kaya sya 😂😂😂
Ay oo nga. daming nakakarelate, parang teleserye.
hahaha daming series eh LOL
I so agree, it's a choice. It's either hindi ka nakutento sa partner mo or malandin lang talaga. Sasabihing, "Sorry diko sinadya" kalokohan yan. Gising na gising nong ginawa nya kaya malamang sinadya talaga yan. Mani ba namang makipag hiwalay muna bago dumali ng landi diba. Kaasar 🙄
hahahaha bat ang lalim ng hugot? eh wala ka pa naman gaanong experience.. sa kakabasa mo yan sa mga pocket book noh? pero totoo naman landi lang talaga kaya nagkakaron ng panloloko
Wahahahaha, ako nga ang nag landi madams ee ahahaha. Pero di ako proud dun, bad bad girl ako nong kabataan ko. Subok lamg kasi ahahaha. Pano kasi, walang time yong isa, ee di hanap ng may mas maraming time, ang gag0 ko madams no ahahahahaha
ahahahaa ok lang yan kasi you are still young... sabi nga nila make mistakes and learn while you are young.. because you have the reason.
Well i agree to you its a choice. Its our choice if we are going to cheat or not but before committing cheating think about the consequences of your action and what you may going to lose. Too sad cheaters doesnt think this way,they are just stupid enough to let them break their lover's heart. If you truly love someone you will not going to cheat even though you're relationship encounters lot of challenges. Stay faithful.
Yep... That's true! They don't think at all