Could You Forgive Your Parent Sins?
I listened to this radio drama last Friday afternoon at my grandparent home, it was an Iloco-based dialogue drama common in Filipino households. It’s a story about a mother and daughter who own a loving cup that was empty, It meant that the little girl when she was so young, asked the question of where was her mother's attention. Where was she when she needed the most? This a redundant story of most OFWs facing. Somehow it's not new to us to listen to those kinds of stories, where poor families aimed nothing but to become good in life, going overseas was the solution they think the most and proper; but let's focus on another side, the feeling of the child who left alone.
Imagine your mother or father will leave as soon as possible, being so young, admit that it's not easy to understand that you will sleep at night and all the family members are busy. Your mother is counting the bags she will have, and you don’t have any idea what is happening. She will just say “Just sleep, don’t mind us” then the next day, you were looking for your mother; but there was none, they explained that she goes to another country; she will work as a nanny. It's all for your future and study.
Somehow we looked at it, that yeah its fine its for the good future of the child, we loved to says that this will be a happy story, they could have all the things they want when their mother will have some dollars, they could the food they loved the most. That thing comes to us while watching the child as they want their parent not to leave them behind.
The story we had not seen and are not aware to look upon is, how the night of the child missing his mother, or how jealous they are that some have their mother.
The question will always be, could you forgive them for leaving them behind? Some might have the answer of yes, I could say it's all for my future, and others who have experienced this will have another answer to say. Maybe it was so painful for the part of child, to be left behind. It's so easy and we judge them over acting in their doings, which I think never be that way.
Could you forgive your parent for doing so?
The first part of the blog focused on the child's point of view now let's dive into the parent's perspective. Parents, mostly those elders that have been accused by their own children of sin that they have no idea made them devastated. Though parents have done this thing with healthy motives, they were misinterpreted by the child.
As parents they aimed nothing but goodness and good fortune for the child's future so they are working hard to achieve this goal, thinking that the small child they left behind will soon understand that what they did was for both future of the family and their child.
***“Sometimes harsh decision to one child had seen by another as disciplined.”***
Imagine a child that doesn’t want their parent to go, what they will do? Forced the kid to stop hugging his mother. Imagine how broken both child and parent are in that position. Only a few could understand.
Depending on what my parents did.
No one is a perfect parent, that is for sure. Our parents and even us as soon parents will commit a sin that could trigger the child's thinking. Well, who among us had never experienced times of hating our parents?
***“Rule: treat your parent as you would like to be treated by your children”.***
It’s history that repeats itself. In the question could you forgive your parent's sins?
We cannot just say to others you must forgive her for they were your parent, there are some stories in real life that are not worthy of forgiving, or hard to find the courage of doing so, but as you want to start a new life it may start by forgiving your parent.
At the end of the drama, of course, forgiveness had happened, but to the real story of years of hardship. Sometimes we cannot deny admiring them.
Forgiving is a natural process, reconciliation, and everything. Also, note that your child has his feeling too even thou they were so young, somehow they cannot just easily forget when it badly hurt too. And for the child, they are still your parent no matter what happened. Finding the comfort to forgive somehow could result in the best chances of a happy life.
How about you, could you forgive your parents?
My Private Library: New Books Added
Reading is a tiring job for ordinary people like us. We have so many excuses why we don't read, including personal life, household chores and even the annoying environment of our surroundings. This makes us have more time scrolling on to phones instead, excused to read our lessons and even review for some upcoming event; who's guilty? I am honestly admitted that there was a time in my life when reading one page of a book made me exhausted. It's like I cannot do it anymore to the other one. Maybe because English it retains, it's not my native tongue to lessen upon.
But as I grew older and older, my mindset and thinking also changed, like my forte of reading. As a teenager, I loved reading some stories, more science fiction and some romance. The first science fiction book I read the whole is "The Man In The Maze" it's an old story of an astronaut studying the planet Mars, yet errors happened, and he was the only survivor. Years after, someone landed again, and a communication error came again. They think it was planned, and they were left behind on Mars. Due to their long time and adaptation, they survived and waited for the right moment to get home to earth.
But here comes the challenge, the maze representing the division of inhabitants on Mars is changing its position.
I also love borrowing books. Well, my life in the young version wasn't that comfortable. I am thinking more of my allowance instead of buying books. So I borrow some from my classmates. And when I return it, another book will again come; just the give-and-take mood.
But now, as maturity kicks me to life, I think I am not in a fantasy-based booklet. It's been years of not reading books. Busyness in engaging platforms gives me no time to read printed material. But I think now that I have already built my account on two platforms, it's time to learn new things and review something I need in the upcoming exams and entrance submissions.
The last time I read a PDF file of "Psychology of Learning", I tried to organize and learn myself from the given information. Some of them I am familiar with, others not. So it's given me a new challenge to explore, like studying independently. I do research some terms I am familiar with yet, trying to enter myself in the off-topic I have been in my field of interest.
Then I realized I had this book, "Human Development and Learning", which was more advanced for it included everything I needed to cope.
But today something marvelous happened. Another collection of books had been added.
I loved to see 900 pages of the book added to my library. It's all about plants and remedies. (More about it in my Hive Blog). Also, some magazine focuses on features article from a professional writer. Unlike standard magazines that we knew highlighted other people's lives and some advertisements. The magazine wasn't that way. It's more in writers' thoughts and some research series.
It gives me more, for I have an edition of 2016-2021. It's not the latest, but it gives me an advantage for my soon article and blogs. Reading their stories and how they made their works well inspired me to blog and write articles likely they have.
What is best is that it's all accessible to me, unlike buying it is never cheap.
Also, I am eyeing some agriculture relayed magazines in the Philippines. But it seems like I cannot afford still. But as the edition becomes old, surely it will drop the price. So what I did is sign them in the carts for now.
I am not a compulsive buyer. I am on the trend. I am happy to wait for the day it will lessen the original price. Not all people want to buy an outdated book, but I was.
I need those new technology inventions and farmers' life stories to base from and learn from their skills.
Yeah, my books right now are outdated; it's given me more financial comfort. There will come a time when I can afford the date edition. For now, I am more on saving over wasting.
Learning to read is a blessing. Having some words to update your mind every day has a huge impact. I could share more ideas for future blogs, especially the "Plant Remedies" for what I read the whole. I could share some knowledge I gained, plants that I know, and surprisingly, they have this healing power with the science behind them.
This is just an ordinary blog for now, as the spirit of thoughts visits me in the case of reading books. Are you fond of reading? Or not? Sometimes practice gives us a hobby.
Thanks for reading.
I seen this book in 'BookSale' I think 2021, but woah it's sale and bargain but it cost ₱700 so I didn't take any glimpse. Then now I got it free, uwu. Someone gave it to me, for they think I am more appropriate for it focus on plants...
Not All 3:00 AM Dreams Are Nightmares; Sometimes Angels Sight.
Dreaming at 3 AM sharp becomes a mystery, I suppose. We always find it weird that 3:00 was the time for the devil. They were on the way to test us or play with our consciousness. Whatever it was, I still chose it as a sight of fantasies, whether it was good or evil. But there was part of me wishing my last 3:00 AM dreams come back.
I didn't publish my article yesterday, so I officially failed the 30 articles per month goal. Well, I am doing more stuff and am still productive yesterday. My plan to study 50 pages was successful. It's not easy as just reading, and I never do that. I take down notes and terminologies that I find confusing and alien and do my self-research. Well, I locked between two choices to finish 50 pages in two days of the weekend or the 30 articles per month. I choose the review for now. Also, I cannot stop myself but studying; it feels like my studious body comes back to life, doesn't mind Facebook or Twitter and any other, just the discord with whom I get to hang along rest a bit.
What happened in the 3 AM dreams?
It happened on the first Sunday of October 2022, just a regular night after. Hang along with my friends in the virtual world, Facebook messenger. That happened most of the time on Sunday night, for that was the free time of my pals. I was in a good mood, knowing I had just chatted with my brothers.
Do the same routine, browsing the internet after watching random videos, and I don't mind the other people who try to chat with me in messenger. Well, I replied if I have free time and am in the mood to talk. Still, when the time I am not in the air, nothing will happen, just me, who doesn't care about who they are, lol. But I will reply to them back anyways.
Maybe it was 11:30 when I decided to stop the world around me. I choose to close the lights of my phone and try to dwell on my dreams. The last thing I remembered was that I saw an angel.
He was smiling at me, and I am familiar with that hair. A hair that wasn't trimly cut for a month's yets seems still elegant, a long hair that reached and covered the ears. He was smiling the whole time. We were in the old house of my family. Maybe that was the look-a-like year 2010. I just watched him smiling while arranging the house for us, and then he spotted something different. He tried to support it with his bare hands, and there was a strict mind that helped him in what he was doing.
Then he smiled at me, holding the wall with our hands. It feels like it will collapse soon enough, so we must much need to take care of the degrading concrete walls.
His lips are moving like he is trying to talk about something, but I cannot hear it. I signaled. I could not hear anything. He just smiled. He touches my head.
As he touches my head, I cannot stop crying. That made me wake up from that dream, and I checked the time. It was 3:12; I cannot explain the feeling that I have mixed emotions. Maybe one of the reasons is that I saw him again, even in a dream.
The family I have was so close to each other, and we cannot deny that we favor one another. We lost one member of the family last march 2022, and that was something we cannot explain what that burdens and cries were.
A two-month battle with cancer is not a good scene for you to see. I can tell, for I somehow recorded a voice on my phone, how he dwelled the entire day battling in pain. With just one simple movement of his finger, he feels all in his body, the nerves and joints.
I never share this with my mother, for I know what she will do next. She will just again waste money. Instead, I narrated this to my aunt, who was his wife. I awake for we have the same timeslot of dreams, but she mentioned differently.
Maybe we just missed my uncle, or perhaps because it will be his Bakas or the celebration of the 7th month is the following Sunday to be done. With all the excuses and reasoning, are there mysteries of life and dreams? Somehow that was the perks.
I wanted to repeat the cycle of 3 AM dreams, knowing I had met the person I loved even though they were not physically present.
Thanks for reading…
Why I Am Enjoying 'Friends With Benefits' At The Moment?
A friends with benefit, that is what I have been looking for, to find friends that not just become a friend but somehow will favor some usefulness. Well, I am more of a connection guy. I try to be friend people whom I know will give me a connection later on, that is what life was designed for. I could be a connection to them too soon. I never thought in my entire life that I would meet a friend who is honest and helps me to grow. This is what I liked: friends I could help and who returned the favor.
Let's get on what happened this Saturday; 15th day of October 2022, which meant just a few days to come. We will again say goodbye to October and say hi to the coming new months. Like days was so close to going through.
I am in review and in the mood to read and take notes in some fields. I started my study at 8 AM, and the weather was fine and cloudy. Another typhoon is coming after the typhoon May-may is typical this day. At 1 PM, my mother noticed that I was still on the monitor and writing. She suggested that I might want to rest a little bit and also take my lunch.
I said I didn't feel tired and hungry yet, but she said I must rest for a while. I told her that using anti-radiation eyeglasses would help me stay longer on the screen, I also sent this rant to my friends, and Jiji said it's just a scheme about eyeglasses. I don't know if that was a controversial theory or hypothesis.
Speaking of friends, I have this virtual friend that I cannot believe has become one of the members of ReadHive Troops. We are bloggers and rant writers; at the same time, we share insight and rant about life. After the conversation with me and the professor who will help me with my 18-unit course of education, she was the first one to come to a head. Maybe CGuro will help me as she was a former student in the field of expertise in education. I approached her and asked if there was a module of hers in the subjects that would cover the units. It also prepared me for the following study and the preparation of re-examing in PRC or Professional Board Exams.
She was friendly and gave modules like she was this teacher who gave a scoop for me to learn something as I browse and researches the terminology that I was not familiar with. I was surprised because I thought it was a virtual content text that had been given to them, but no. she was scanning the module and sending it to me in the private message of discord.
I felt so much as I felt wow, she did that just for me. Do I deserve this?
That is the start of my thinking about those people who offer knowledge and educational upgrade within their fields. Well, I am collecting friends I know soon enough to have some experience to lean on. Jiji was, in some numbers, dennmarc in data and programming, with Ayane, who is now inspiring to be one of the developer programmers and Hanzel (bananzel) as a chemist. They are just a few people who offer some meaningful knowledge environment to me.
One thing about chatting with these people is that there will be this serious moment when we talk about something like investment, finance and career. Not everyone has the same circle; not all of us are gifted enough with this kind of creator in the virtual world.
I can attest right now that they are the best version of modern friends with benefits or a good example of peer pressure. We met the end point of having the same goal, to achieve something in their blogging, so maybe we all have this excellent combination to be part of each time.
This is one of the reasons I am enjoying my stay in blogging, to meet new friends where we just read their work at first, their thoughts and reasoning, not yet what kind of people they are. Then comes the time to listen to their life stories in private chats. Then here comes the bonds.
I am not particular about the circle of friends I want to have, but sometimes I come to enjoy people who come in and out after knowing the person they have virtualy.
I just found it interesting to share that virtual people also offer genuine smiles and friendships even though we have to meet differently from the side of the world. I want more to meet people, some I know will have some issues, and others will be nothing but support.
But having a friend with benefits is something that expands your cycle of thoughts and lights in ranting life.
Start your journey by spotting good and real virtual friends, and indeed you will also find what I am saying "pals with benefits of the new good side of peer pressure". For that, thanks for reading…
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Had you feels like 2023 is coming, days and weeks will be changing uwu, that me futuristic too much. So right now I made some arrangement so next year I won't be pressured to make one, for I will start another journey hehe
Full story here:
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The Blue Record Book: Collection of 2023 Blogs and Articles.
Somehow you will see me insane that I am writing a blog for the next year, but thinking about the future and my writing will be the future, I shall be done this time. 2023 will be a year of a remarkable journey; I can feel it. Days and weeks seem so close to each other, don't be surprised that the next thing happens. We will be going face another year.
One thing that we could feel the same is that hours seems so close to each other; we began to worry about what should be the next blog or article we would write again before the date ended. This is happening to me right now. Looking for time on my phone tells me what I should write next to fulfill my 30 articles per month.
I will share with you my Blue record book. It's five hundred pages of notebooks that I brought with $3. These books hold the future of 2023, and I am ensuring that I can at least write down thoughts and topics, even just four pages. Also, I want this to become my daily practice.
The writing was an expression of thoughts and ideas, as they said. But for us, writing is also a source of something. We write blogs and articles to sustain some of our needs, which might not be now, for we have a stable fund, but future as we think about what will happen in the near future. After years of doing this, I could picture myself as I engaged with this activity for the rest of my life. Leaving writing will never be, even though I expect life will never be easy as yesterday and today for tomorrow.
I will be writing my thoughts and ideas. Somehow I read an article before saying goodbyes in writing, but I didn't know the next day, this writer would come back to write an article again. I know they have reasons for that. But for me, I will write until the day of my last breath.
Planning includes what happened in a busy life, thinking about how you would think of a topic to write when you have pending things to deal with, or how to add those thoughts when you were that mentally tired. So from this moment why not make plans what shall I write for the next year?.
In the last company I worked for, I joined a seminar on how to make our monthly activity plans. We need to make plans for what should be accomplished. This way, we cannot lose track of our activities. So I did adopt this kind of mindset now that I need planning in my writing.
Title.
I am more into writing titles first in my construction of articles and blogs. Thinking what will be the title of my content will give me more specific ideas about what shall I need to write. To me, having the title of the content is very important to contract ideas and wording.
So I am writing the title of a possible topic I need to look upon or a topic that I am interested in today. One page holds one title and story, and this will be a guide as I also randomly select the topic that suits my mood. A blank of pages meant I skipped it, but when I am in the mood to write, I shall visit those pages to print my thoughts.
Body.
I only have one page per body, so it meant I had the freedom to bring something. One page could at least hold 300 words. A freedom wall of writing, what comes into my head shall be there, not minding the errors and everything in a way that I won't be distracted. The idea is that as it will pause for months, maybe and maybe not, there is some thought I could add within the span of thinking on the next moment.
I hate myself sometimes because of penmanship, there was a time when I could write in good condition, and the subsequent signature seemed to wonder what it was. Maybe I do write too fast, and the listed words seem abstract but manageable for sure.
The pages with at least 300 words were written in essay type, with an introduction, body and ending. Ending somehow gives a clue to one of two questions or gives me a chance to make it longer for the next time I will bring to digital typings.
Does writing next year's draft has an effect?
Writing drafts in the notebook is multi-tasking. It happened in front of the TV while watching the news or at the kitchen table while having my coffee. Whenever I am comfortable, I try to write a draft for myself to help myself not so much hassle making and thinking about it. Also, having a marites chit-chat with my friends, somehow I will be away from the keyboard for minutes of 10. That time I wrote one draft.
There were no impossible things when we planned it well, so next year even though I am busy in life or love, I could still be active, and the time that I am writing or brainstorming will allot to the time needed to interact in the comments or share thoughts.
I made this blog, so somehow even just one person found it interesting to do the same as mine. Though some weren't sure if they would still do blogs next year, but certainly sure that I will still stand and make one per day in the years to come. Well, the blue record blue will helps me with that for sure.
Thanks for reading...
And yeah it's seen like dalayed isn't? Haha I read some people's rant about the 'not rewarding' mode of noise.app and woah I was surprised that some Satoshi had been added, or someone donated that amount. Uwu anyways. Just a normal morning...
Love Standard: What Type Of Girl Am I Looking For?
For some days now, it feels like I am more comfortable being single at the moment. Been years now, but it seems like it's more fun to be alone, maybe because I have these goals and dreams for myself and my family at the moment and having a partner not yet suits my moods, perhaps because I want to explore more, and in days to come, this is somehow the best things to do. But it also comes to my head, asking myself what I am looking for in a girl to become my partner. Does my old love standard changes even a bit?
Last night I was scrolling through my phone and saw a video of a lady. I admit she was this beautiful girl. But in the videos, it was posted September, so I am a bit late in the trend. In the video, she explains that beautiful girls like her are also looking for a handsome guys at least. That was a natural law, as she said, for they will look for the classic beauty they won't be left behind. She also claimed that boys do the same when a handsome-looking man looks for beautiful girls.
I am not handsome but triggering the question of what I am looking for. Is this the physical appearance, intelligence, way of life, career, and anything more that will interest me to court her, something that still not every ordinary woman-owned, something that she will be called mine? That was the question I asked myself, and this shall be just the main idea that came to my head.
I will be honest that I have a standard for girls. Not everyone interested shall be called a chance. I also accept that some girls don't suit me by their means, but that's fine. There were no hard feelings about that one.
But the standard I am looking for is not about race or beauty. But I am more intelligent and side of career-oriented. Though a man should provide everything for the family, the generation is changing. I have seen a lot of families that only depend on the man that becomes something else. Later, I saw a family of two get broke when the man did all the job, not because it was the man's fault, but somehow the pressure was.
I am looking for someone who could help me grow. I don't want to be in a very toxic and childish relationship anymore, for 23 is not the age of playing teenage life, but somehow planning for what will happen in our 30s.
Being educated and not doesn't mean boys or girls doesn't complete education doesn't mean they must be disregarded, and that wasn't the thing. Goal-driven is the one that I am looking for, the one that will somehow understand that there will be times and days I will be a busy man facing the challenge of work. I am more on the reality side of things, and I am more in the chances who what life will be like in the next year to come; a girlfriend or wife that could understand me is somehow a great joy, someone that I will be proud to say mine.
Someone with whom I could talk about everything, from finances, savings, and investments. I wanted security for both of us, that's why. Especially that way of life is changing abruptly, and we cannot argue that life is becoming harder every day. The idea of survival of the fittest is somehow in the hype in the following years to come.
Well, in today's generation, we are somehow not just looking for a partner. Some plan life after. That was me. That was the real side of me. I do look at the idea of a comfortable life.
Back to the video I first mentioned, people hate the standard of the girl she presented. That beautiful girl wanted a handsome man. I agree with her, for that was her standard in looking for someone. Maybe her goal is to have a supermodel child of her own, so she must look for handsome faces, or perhaps she wants and loves a more good-looking man. Still, that was her choice.
You should not limit our standards or judge someone who gives insight that she has a high standard. We also planned nothing but the best for us.
I am not weakening other lads and myself, but girls should have that kind of standardization, not because you will love him or him, for you have no choice—It's freedom to love and look for someone to love.
My standard doesn't mean it's required; if I meet someone, maybe this will change the moment too. How about you? What was your standard in looking for partners?
Does I looked like too much serious? Uwu people calling me 'sir' like I am not teacher uwu, or people think I am? Haha
The Myth Of Sierra Madre: Again Luzon Under Attacked By Typhoon May-may
I have been ranting about typhoons at the start of Ber-month, there are countless typhoons this year's end of the quarter, and now we are again under not-so-good circumstances. Another typhoon had been listed, and we had good weather two days ago. Yet Yesterday and today, the weather was sickening. It's cold outside, and the winds are still in blow. Internet connection was poor, and every people just wanted to stay home for security. Animals are hibernating, and my dogs and rabbits seem to enjoy a good and natural nap the whole day.
You might question the scene where all of these typhoons ranged in Luzon, the North and central part of Luzon Island. Most of my virtual friends here were from Mindanao and might not know what Myth behind it was. Of course, this was just a myth taught us in school. I heard this story in Elementary where the subject is all the "Anyong Lupa" or the topics about landforms.
Ilokano's widespread Myth was the 'Biag ni Lam-Ang or Life of Lam-Ang', a brave man who favoured God and goddesses. Lam-Ang's story evolved with revenge, for his father went to some places, yet some tribe had captured him. The moment Lam-Ang comes out from his Mothers belly, one of the first questions he asks that, 'where is his father '.
The story evolves from a newborn child who talks about the moment he was born, and he was given unbeatable strength to duel other tribes that kill his father.
The one Myth of Ilokano-Tagalog is the Sierra Madre, a horror belief that the mountain alone has mystery. The mountain radios the shape of a sleeping woman. That's the sign it's seen everywhere, as there will be said fairies and goddesses were trying to protect the mountain from people.
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Sierra is a dedicated mother of two children; it's Iloko at tagalo, (a colourful presentation of Tagalog who resides in Central and Southern Luzon, and Iloko or Ilokano who lives in the North and upper part of Luzon). She promised to protect her kids no matter what. The threat was from Lusong.
Lusong was in-loved with Sierra in their younger days, but Sierra happened to love someone else, not Lusong. It was Busong who was the great warrior of all time. Busong and Sierra loved each other and became a great family.
Lusong is jealous, and one of their promises is that he will get revenge for the heartbreak he got from the two, Sierra and Busong. And that would be painful if he tried to hurt the children.
So often, he will blow a challenging wind to punish all of the traitors of his love. But Sierra will do anything to protect her children. She always offers herself to get first before her children.
A year of protecting her children never ends. But now, in the modern world, Sierra is losing its power. Lusong is becoming more dominant in this new age. Sierra is now losing some part of herself due to mining and illegal deforestation.
They said that Myth is just a myth, but the story is still in process. We expect the ending to be hurtful as Sierra falls, and Lusong's goal to hurt Iloko at tagalo will come to life. Just a myth, but it happened now in real life.
Lusong knows Sierra is losing its power, so Ber months, Lusong's Power increased due to Habagat and Amihan. He tries to get revenge because he was hurt too much for loving Sierra.
There was no ending to the Myth, and maybe they want that the Ilokano and Tagalog will see the results in our eyes.
Ilokano's stories were all about revenge as still coming to those times when tribes and tribes were still fighting for power and lands. Luzon has diverse stories of people of different tribes.
That's the creative story of why typhoons are always in Luzon. But it's all Myth.
At the moment, we were preparing for the best and worse, for Luzon was just attacked just a few weeks back, and most of our co Filipino are still grieving their loss. Some farmers lose their crops, other animals by floods, and even the life of their loved ones. Now another chapter of the challenge will begin.
On the other hand, some farmers saw its benefits as they prepared for the next cropping season. They were preparing the land for the upcoming planting season.
We were safe as a lot of typhoons happened in our place, as we were living in the upper land part of Cagayan Valley, but we still hoped for the best for all the people who would get affected.
Prayers and a lot of prayers. Thanks for reading.
Achievement: My Hive Vote Value Reached $0.02
One of the wishes I have been through is that reach at least a vote value of $0.02. That's a dream, as I just dived into the platform and knew how the thing was going through. Somehow I appreciate those people who upvote me with that amount, and then I will always get curious about who they are. I will visit their names and look and find out what user type they are.
I clicked on their profile, and a user who was a member from 2017 now has a vote value of 0.16. Some are higher, and then comes the user of 2021 with a vote value of $0.02 to $0.05. I have come to the point where I also wish for myself. Someday I will have that too. I might not now but soon, maybe next year. As I looked at those organic users with that value that took a long time to complete, I also wanted that to happen to me, as I wish the same.
So What Is Vote Value?
Vote value varies from the Power you have. The higher Power you stake will give you more resource credits and vote value. From the start, you will be noticed that your vote value will come to $0.001. They called it a dust vote, and it would be high after someone delegated you some power or received a payout of Power after days.
Until you reach a power of 500HP, your vote value increases to 0.01. This meant that you were progressing. Then later comes double for 0.02 when you get your 1000 HP in the blockchain. I found this complicated at the beginning of my journey, but as the days bypassed, I suddenly understood some of the behind-the-technology features offered.
Dust votes meant your vote don't notifies the author in PeakD, thou in some front-end, it still notifies even if you upvote a dust one, but in the front-end like peakd where the mist of users uses it's somehow filtered. This also depends on your reputation in the platform, goes that you have higher points to some users that you upvote, and they receive notification from that.
Start Aiming For Higher Vote Value?
Though you could still have that with the use of delegations of others, some contest every first day of the month after power-up have some prices of delegations, but it's not forever. There will be somehow expirations. So I want to have my own, not worrying that my delegatee with withdrawing or deleting their support, I could still stand on my foot.
Starting aiming for higher vote value was a challenge and temptation. You will choose whether you will power up a young backup dollar or just use it as money. Of course, we also have some necessities and a lot of bills to pay, there are more than a hundred reasons why some people don't want to have higher ones, but it's okay. You have that choice.
But if you are starting to aim the same way, you shall begin planning, plan what you have in mind, and look for some exciting things you could share with the platform. It also makes interesting things. Also, some tricks you could use in it. For at least one blog article, use 100% HivePower instead of 50-50.
Also, do not power down your HP, somehow there will be a time that you need something, and Power-down is the only thing; thinking that time will come, you will wait until the price is low, but what if there is no chance that price will blow down, it will continuously go up? What happens is that you will lose your HP, and somehow you will regain it longer than expected. Power down as you need to might not be a good choice, especially when starting your journey on the platform. This will mess things out.
Another that I am proud of is that my friends haven't left. We were moving up together. Dennmarc and I joined the platform just the same time. He moved faster than me because I was not that focused, and he was talented. I am not comparing myself to him, for I know we were significantly different from each other.
One of my inspirations is that Dennmarc moves, and I am following. It gives me more comfort to stay as I know someone is there. Also, Jiji, Ayane, Ruffa, and Lhes are moving up and evolving. I am proud to have them as we blend the time between blogging and life. We don't know each other in our personal lives, but it goes behind that.
Also, Ms Jane was our inspiration, and I remember the first day of our stay on the platform; Ms Jane was one of the people who helped, sharing her experience and tricks on how our progress account will have, constantly reminding us what we shall do and don't.
Progress is progress, small or significant. As every day comes and we aim for something more every day, there must be something we work on and have some faith in, and the very important one is that we don't stop dreaming. Also, as you grew your HP, it grew your investment. Who knows what the future will be, so, from this moment, we shall prepare for what will happen.
Thanks for reading...
My Uncle Gave Me a Gift: A bag, Wallet, and Anti-Rad Eyeglasses, For What?
Do you guys believe that nothing is free? There will always be a paycheck in everything. Well, that was reality. Sometimes, when you do good, you will have the best; when you do wrong, you will get worse, and it's a kind of karma in all things. When I said there was a payment in everything, I told people would pay for their time and service. They will be the ones that will give you money as payment for your work.
I do share last time that I worked in the gasoline station as a substitute for my uncle, I was called this morning. I was annoyed because he said he wanted some rest. He will sleep all day, and I will be the one would be in charge yet in the gasoline station. He called me early in the morning, and of course, my bad attitude of not receiving the calls, so he called my parent instead. My mother woke me up while they talked on the phone, letting me prepare for my arrival.
I have no choice but to get up, have my coffee and feed the animals of my own, rabbits and dogs. I prepared myself and went to my uncle, and he said I had to buy some food for our breakfast, so I stopped at the local eatery nearby, where the place I knew was doing some cleaning. I am not fond of just eating anymore to avoid some unnecessary things in my stomach.
We had our breakfast, and he went to bed, and I was the one who was staying.
I looked around his room, looking for something I might eat or anything, and then I asked him if he could buy me a laptop bag for my bag felt not in excellent condition already, he looked at me with glaring eyes, and then he remembered something.
He brought one for me, and he said he just forgot to give me. I said, "what.. where?" he was still a lazy man, and he said I needed to look out there. He sleeps while I am messing with his staff, and I found what he mentioned. A brand new bag, a colour of brown leather, was brought from the boardwalk. He said it cost him 2,000 pesos for the bag.
I grab the bag as if I don't like it. Then he remembered he had also brought his wallet, but he didn't feel the best about wearing it. I asked again, "where?" he said. I just had to look out again, and I disarranged his closet, looking for the wallet and whala. It was a terno or twin look with my new laptop bags, and I could bring my ID and some of the papers such as vaccine cards and everything.
It suits my style for next year as I will start my schooling, I joked. He just looked at me again. Well, it's part that he will spare some of my allowances next year, lol.
I don't know why he forgets everything.
He always scolded me that I need to control looking at my phones and computer for its not good for the eyes. I reply I had to. Now he also brought anti-radiation eyeglasses, so it much not to force me from the lights. He hates to see me writing on the laptop with no lights, just the light of the computer screen and black surroundings, I don't know but feels so calm that way, yet I am also aware of the possible eye problem, and head dizziness could give.
I tried the glass, but I am not that comfortable wearing it. Even if he gave me wrist watch, I just said NO, for I am not comfortable wearing something on my body as it feels so irritated; rings, bracelet, watch, and even earnings are not really for me, of course, exempt when I am getting married.
This was the reason why what he said I had to stand and obey. It's now normal in my life from my childhood that he is a giver of materials and money. He used that way upon us, not only me, for he wasn't biased, but most of his niece and nephew, but honestly, he was more to me, haha.
He was strict and always angry about everything, just same like me, we have ordinary looks and attitudes, and people see us as father and son. That's what they called us when we went out together.
I am a hypocrite, but I did joke that it would be much more reasonable if he gave it as monetary, and I will buy it. Lol, no, just kidding. The gift was a gift, and I am just happy to receive it today even though we constantly quarrel every time.
How about you, do you have some family members like mine? The Santa Uncle?
Thanks for reading…
My uncle said, I must control time looking at my computer and phone, I said I have too. Uwu concerned uncle brought me my anti-rad emerut eye glass. Who want to brought it nalang? Haha
My Relatives Shows No Respect: Shame For Same.
I was suddenly woken up at 3:00 PM from my nap. I looked at the people to see if there were any but seems none, and they were still in my uncle's house for sure. I have been tired since early morning we have been working in the preparation of food. Saturday afternoon, we are all that busy. Why? It's my uncle's 7th month of months, but it seems like our relatives are showing their faces.
My aunt, who's the wife of my deceased uncle, was so furious yesterday. She has been trying to call our relatives to come. Is that it been months since our uncle? The sad thing is that no one even confirmed any calls. They seemed busy, and even hours later, they might see the missed calls, but they never dared to call back. So we did all the work, that's not a problem, but I was annoyed that one of my feeling-rich cousins opted to come and visit, so my aunt expected them to go for my uncle.
But rich dudes don't have time for inferior beings. They were just there in their homes and did not even show up just a little bit, and it seems like we cannot reach their standard anymore. I hate that their parent depends on them; they just come for their child's haircut and go to the grocery, and they will need to come back right away.
What a lame excuse. Where was the respect?
And I discovered what they are going through and why their selfless indecent attitude returns. They have been expecting marriage proposals next October 23, and wow, what the guts to tell that. So they will expect that we should also go there home? Hell, that. I am sure my aunt knows what is happening. Next year January, they wish their sons to fly to Japan for some work, the will follows their last born in Taiwan. I am just smiling but deep inside, who cares about that? They come and do not show respect or help.
Sometimes relatives are just relatives, they are not part of the family, and better be just that.
But honestly, I am tired. Luckily, I back up some of my essays for October. I don't mind the rant and attitude of my feeling wealthy relatives. For now, it's for the essays.
**[ESSAY 09] Cheating Help Students to Learn?**
Cheating is one of the things that people have seen so much as an absurd process, and there are times that when you visit a child cheats, one of the things you will suspect is that they have nothing in their head; that's why they did the action, but does this happen?
I remember a post on social media about the child's cheats, and it was quoted as if the education sectors weren't looking so much at students' grades, they won't have to cheat. I understand the matter, I also cheated on my studies, Código, and everything, and I wasn't caught. That was the most exciting part.
There were chances because children cheated; sometimes, it's because of the pressure. Pressures between the learner and parents, or chances in that pressure of teacher and student, some teacher are quite a terror when it comes to exam the scheme of erasure means wrong, wrong spelling wrong, modified schemes and what so ever, pressure happened and that made student prepare, prepare to fail or prepare to cheats?
The answer to the question, "Cheating help student learn", is no, never. Our students will learn nothing, but being a ninja creates an alibi and all the passive things to excuse. Somehow cheating happened, as to my observation, because of pressure.
If we have the chance to let them take the exams without pressure and think about what happened in their studies when they fail, somehow the learning will happen.
They are sometimes, grading and standardization cause one student to cheat.
**[ESSAY 10] Less Homework Will Make Students Better Rounded?**
I was still a student in High school when they implemented the "weekend no assignments" where the student shall not be given an assignment at weekends, and weekends will be part of the enjoyment, as they said. But not when the pandemic comes, I think this idea was gone, especially since the start of modular learning. Some needs still to work on their module anytime and even still weekends. Due to the deadline being close, they must finally present all their modules in time.
Now that some are practicing face-to-face, we cannot still remove the weekend loads. Projects, assignments, and some self-learning on the weekdays, even working until dawn to finish the activity.
Less homework helps, especially for those years under the pressure book manual, who have something more to do, but sometimes we cannot change the system. When I met graduating students, most had the proper time to work overtime and over weekends for their thesis and research.
It's acceptable that the more you delay, the more it's getting hard.
Still, we are not only battling the virus but the new standard system, not only students but the burden more to the teacher who was presently needed to check and have some work even at weekends also to finish their reports.
The student will be better rounded, but sometimes a student needs to be responsible too. If they don't want to have the overload on weekdays and be free for what leisure they want, then do their projects and work ahead of weekdays. Still, the battle against the virus doesn't yet finish.
Thanks for reading...
Learned And Share Your Lessons And Earned Bitcoincash.
One of the things that I am admired is those people who are studying while blogging. Suppose I will turn back times. Maybe I am also one of those teenagers who were looking for studies and yet writing blogs. The past is past, and now time to face the future. Education costs you money, that's for sure, although some are proud that they won't have to pay their tuition for education in tertiary and are now accessible under the governance. But allowances and expenses are still a hindrance to some, so for those who were blogging thinking to help their allowance, I am praising you for doing that.
One of the things that come to our mind is that we were busy with school. So some of our blogger's friends had to choose between the two, do their assignments, make their lessons, or blogging. Some had choices, which was also a significant part I idolized. There was so much to think about, so why not do both? For example, you learned your lessons and made a blog out of it and have some earnings in doing so, which will have some changes later on.
That's my idea when the time I will start to resume my class.
I mentioned last time in my previous blog that I met one of a teacher. I talked to him about my plans, and he offered more different. He said, why not have my "education unit" before my master's? For thinking my masterly, if I will choose, will be the second semester already, which meant I was left behind the first subjects that part of the deal. If I will have my Education unit in the second semester, he said just one semester and I could finish that. January will be the enrollment, and I was somehow thinking about it. The reason is that I miss attending school.
What happened is that I will plan to take another "Professional License Exam again" last November 2019 was my exam for PRC, and luckily I slay the three days of exams. If I continue to have my teaching needing course, I will again review for upcoming exams for the Teacher, which will be the second batch of 2023. Sound so much easy, but it's not the best; it's complicated.
One thing is that I will get the 18 units in one semester, which means it's an overload teaching style for it's only Saturday school. I could sense that it felt like self-study will happening.
So what I did plan is that, though I have not decided if I have 18 units or masteries I should enter next year, what will happen is that what lessons come, I will make it to blogs. There were perks to doing it.
You could have more time to research.
This was one of the perks, if ever. For example, you have one assignment to work on and need to have research, and one is that you could make your assignment in some blogging style, informative and inclusive thoughts, you could hit two birds in one writing.
You will force yourself to understand the lesson.
Not the literal version of force, but making excellent and informative blogs needed to be that you learned your lessons, you need to have the whole idea, you just knew the subject matters and focus you must be understood to define yourself. The reality is that somehow one or two people could question you in your blog, be prepared and not ignore that, sourcing your blog in the right and credible sites.
Review your lesson within your thoughts.
Do you feel that when you wrote your thoughts, they still this cannot be erased? I could feel that I could still remember the blog I did last 2021. It's meaningful. Doing the blog and making one within your thoughts means preservation in your head. Imagine one time in your exams you will have something that makes you familiar for you been made a blog out of it. Or one of your readers' questions has amazingly appeared in the exams, which could happen not all the time, but when it did, there was something to give.
You were earning.
I am also a student from the past, and I do understand that there will be a sudden that we need to pay contributions, exams, and everything. Even your projects require you to buy something or need to acquire things. One of the admiration is that when a student does not have to worry about anything, they have earnings they can withdraw to finance their projects and activities.
Doing such a thing was stressful. I get that. Thoughts and happenings in life are a bit more intense to write about; some see it's a challenge.
Let's have its to be planned. Think about those pointers, and I will prove that this will be possible to learn and earn simultaneously. Perks is that soon we will ripe things out, and unquestionably one of the times we will imagine our life that writing was part of ourselves and the success that was waiting for us.
Thanks for reading...
Uwu I am bit excited to have $0.02 vote value. It's meant that when I upvote others post might be my name will be flashed to your notifications hehe. Nothing, just that I imagined it will happened next year but seems like desire is designed. Good evening...
Dracarys...
Now I again heard the words from "Game of Thrones" to the "House of Dragons". Uwu well I think and I accepted that somehow I am always late in catching up what new haha but that's life, priority over thrend.
Photo from the series "House of Dragons".
[6/30]
I really thought that I will be zero points for my October Goal to publish atleast 30 articles, but seems like destiny is not in the mood to make a mess with me. October has 31 in the calendar so my absent last night in writing is null, and I am still in the position trying to complete my 30/ months goal uwu.
Full story here:
https://read.cash/@Eunoia/the-mans-crave-resulted-in-my-30-days-challenge-failed-3302d72d
The Mans Crave: Resulted in My 30 Days Challenge Failed?
I didn't post yesterday, which was a massive mess for, from the beginning, my October goal has been to publish at least 30 articles, not to think about the rewards and everything for my writing development practice, to complete the demands of my thoughts and make it to the finals of own plot. But I failed to write last night because of men's cravings. I also read last night's article on @Jijisaur thinking I forgot our couple goals (I meant buddy goals). I just read, and my phone battery died, and I have no left message in her post. But no, not yet field. My goal is to write 30 articles, one per day in a month, and happened that October 2022 has the 31st day in the calendar. I am still on the way to completing the challenge. Thanks to the calendar for bringing another one day before the month ends.
Going back to what happened last night, it's been so many weeks that I am not gotten to alcohol. One of the reasons was reserving my funds, ending some loss again, realizing I drank a couple of beers and opened up 600 pesos in just one sits. The kind of touch for one of my goals has been removed. I am kind of not dependent on free. I don't have any thoughts about tasting all the free things. I shall share some of my money, which also becomes a habit and friendly manner.
Last night October 8, 2022. It was my best friend's mother's birthday. I also considered her aunt, for they were cousins of my mother, so relatively not, so things to be called others. Anytime I could go to them having conversations, a cup of coffee in the morning and talks about lives. It's been so many years since my routine was like that. Since before we entered Kindergarten, we have been best friends, my cousin, and that has changed things until now.
Also, not so bad. I met one of the teachers, and I opened up about my plan for next year. We talk, and two of my neighbours, who are not so close to me, still smile. We have some interrogations, and most of those things need to be done anytime soon. Well, I am securing myself with connections. I repeatedly mentioned that I am trying to build my connections with people by being friendly and professional. I also talked to Denn about this last night.
The men crave Beers and everything in between.
Did I tell you that my best friend was a girl? I knew everything about her, so there was nothing to hide between us. She always mentioned her love life; I have no choice but to hear those stories. Then I replied "You already told me that" which was true, whatever happened she always chated me in the messenger. Annoying sometimes but not really, marites for goods to keep for she was my cources of informative gossip in our neighbourhood.
She has this Tiktok syndrome all the time, and she wants us both to have a Tiktok, ended just a profanity comes to my mouth even though her father was there with us. She just laughed at how the filter didn't suit her face and again redid the making of the videos.
A kind of something to hear again what happened to her. Well, I cannot disclose things. But given the consideration she was this teenager-like wild party attitude which has been gone for quite some time now, I prefer not to be in wildness again; maybe I overthink adult that, that even the cost of 600 pesos in the beer seems so waste of money, lol.
That was kind of accurate for my state right now. I won't hide that I am a cheap cake for this season. I am preparing for something that I know will cost me a lot soon, and I don't want to beg for money from other people. I shall be independent from now on when it comes to financials. Of course, I won't keep my pride to the highest level, but I also know how to speak up when nothing is left. That's the kind of mindset course to asked help at the time I need the most. Sometimes pride and an independent mindset were different.
Independent, I wanted not to beg but asked for help, for I also didn't want myself to be stressed.
I am assuming, indeed.
But the best part was I didn't have a hangover after six bottles of beer, started 7 PM to 10 PM. I woke up with nothing but good sleep, just my back pain, for I don't feel it, and I woke up to the fans pointed at my back. I shall ask mother for some massage tonight; surely she will not get mad, or maybe some portion of scolding again. It reminds me to turn off the fan when it feels cold.
At the end of the day [6/30] still here and the challenge wasn't yet to fail. But I used the one lifeline, and that's a pain. I should take seriousness now. I am not, of course, pressuring myself, for I know that somehow we also needed a rest but thinking it will help me practice the challenge and prepare myself for the things to come, also the fact that bitcoincash is cheap right now. My goal is to accumulate satoshi and just hold for the future market.
Thanks for reading…
Ow wow 0.124 BCH from Noise.app: No just kidding haha. I added my read.cash October fund for some holds, I also aimed to have atleast 1BCH in Noise.app for I have this feeling that somehow noise.app will have some facinating features in the future.
#BCHCommunity
1033 HP (Hive Power) And Counting For Only 3 Months: How I Did That?
We all know how complex the Hive Blockchain was at first time. Creating an account was hard to see if you were not in any blockchain first. This is the challenge where people think of giving up in the first place by making an account. Then comes the side where the first post we have already drained our Resource Credit or RC, then comes the next day still we cannot comments and gives replies to our introductory post for the replacement of RC still so low. That's when I wished that at the end of the year, 1000HP would be achieved. But the exciting part was it happened during my three months of stay. Here's the story.
On July 7, 2022, I started my Hive journey. This is the time that begins with something that I never imagined would happen to me. I created an account and made one. First, I was already curious about what Hive was and how it worked. But reviews and thoughts says it's a tricky space, and not everyone has the same privilege.
It's a challenge for you need to work have and push forward. Also, earnings were quite tricky, for there was a split. 50-50 as 50% goes to curators, 50% goes to you as the authorship rewards and another 50-50 for your authorship. 50% goes to your HP and 50% to your HBD.
So if you earned $100 as a reward, $50 would go to Curators or the one that rewards you. The other $50 will be yours, but again half only for $25 worth of HBD and another $25 worth of Hive but stake under HP or Hive power.
This is my account so far, and it's not a brag or anything. Blockchain is a public lager. Anyone, and anytime people have the chance to see your profile and account.
Currently, I have 985HP and the remaining 49 HP that is waiting for payout for the coming days, and 149.588 HBD or dollar and 24.4 HBD in the payouts. Also, some 75 HBD were lent to a friend, and I converted some of my HBD into pesos, only 17HBD. For now, eunoia101 is worth $651.55 in 3 months; how was that possible? Here's the tip.
Go For Goals.
Having a goal was a significant one. My goal is to have 1000HP at the end of the year, resulting in my mindset that I need to work hard and become more active in the platform. Goals will make you think of a strategy to complete the cycle of your wants. Purposes will limit your desire to waste your time and funds.
As your goal is lined, you will never think to waste even one cent of your earnings. That is what I needed for the first two months of my stay. I focused on reaching my goals and involved staking my assets to HP instead of wasting it on just my wants.
It's a tempting process where you will choose to secure your real money or insert that power for your goal. What was my choice that I did select my goal for the first two months of my stay? I get my rewards to 100% goes to HP, not in HBD, for thinking to reached my goal anytime soon.
Everyone could do it, but somehow choosing depends on your needs
Go For Connections.
When I said connection, I meant the people around me. Having contacts and friends will secure things in your stay, the first thing you must have is connecting people, not just your friends but always be the person you think could benefit you benifits.
Connection is a friendly motion to the people with power on the platform.
This is a race of people, the only one that could help you always be only yours selves. Connection is vital in the platform. It also grows your reputation and names out of it.
Involved in reading their stories, feedback ideas, and things that will make them curious about who you are. That way, they will be the ones who will visit and follow you.
Go For Concepts.
Create your story, don't just have to look at others' storylines. Sometimes newbies have to copy others, as you saw so many travel blogs and you make yours, or cooking, you tried hard yourself. The ending is that it feels like they are only looking for others and don't want your story. This is because they have seen so many things about that, so it's so lazy to look for the same every day.
I never yet posted any travel or vacation blog, but still, I could accumulate HP. That's the thing we should think of. It's not that then you should have also been one of them.
Don't go for Jealous.
The last thing you need to take in is that don't get jealous; jealousy will never give you the benefits; it will make you more insecure and have doubts. Have some faith.
It's not about being lucky or intelligent. I choose to be wise. I do the four mentioned for I know sooner or later I will have my success soon, just that happened so soon.
Don't stop writing, and there will be a time that is zero. And it's okay. Just write again until people finally notice you.
It's not all about being on-boarders or having friends, for also having the dedication and hopes that one day you will also have 1000HP, the night not now but soon, as you will be writing no matter what.
Thanks for reading.
[OCT 4/30] Ranting Too Much Life In Social Media? Goes To Toxic.
Let's talk about one of the sources of toxicity on the internet, Facebook. Facebook seems to be one of the sites where people are uncontrolled, apps where we found nothing but posts of people having in the carriage of toxic behavior. Everything seems so messy.
I am not on Facebook. Well, the fact that I am busy writing and grinding gives me an excuse not to visit Facebook, but somehow there will always be a time when I should take a look, but the moment that goes, it's all regret that I did. Facebook seems for so much.
I could read a post that pertains to someone whom they hate, the position where posting the "bogus buyers" or fake customers, and many more. Even political issues that become memes and anything that pertains to the government's clash somehow become issues in bloggers. They are playing too much in the limitations that I saw.
Ranting about your life on Facebook has never been beneficial. One of the things is that people don't care. Some who care are using it for gossip purposes. Ranting on social media doesn't give you money. You have to wasn't money for your internet needs to good in posting.
Too many things become toxic. This is the real world that is happening right now.
Instead, Post your thought and rant in creative writing; you are free to talk about anything and write what will make your opinion complete. That's what I also learned in the last webinar that happened last first of October.
Write all your frustration, rants, and everything in words. Either you will share it with others or secretively. Join a platform that will pay your time in writing your thoughts, not the site where they need your watch times and reactions.
Come and write, don't wasn't your rants.
**O***n the other hand, this was day four of trying to complete a month of productivity, hence preparing essays about people's mental health and behavior. The continuation of my collective essays.*
**[ESSAY 7] Should We Treat Children as Adults?**
On the side where it feels like we need to talk in the manner of gesture, does it applicable that we threaten younger as adult ones? Somehow, I was also puzzled between the two. When I was young, I wished that I could talk like an adult, and now that I am an adult, it feels weirder that we give the sight of looking at the young same as us.
The thing that I will insert is that I don't want to pressure the young the way adult to thinks. I don't want to give them the idea that adult is hard. They must enjoy their days still in their youthful period. Treating them and talking at them as an adult give the temptation that being an adult is somehow a complex way or something that could be seen as presumable,
When we talk to children, the adult shall have to think to adjust that we convey information in their style of advantage, not the adult will have the advantage to explain.
An adult should be the one that will give up and feel like they were part of the children's innocent minds. Navigating the words and feelings that could expectedly harm the child's emotions over the verbal voices somehow, we cannot control as adults.
We should treat children as children, for it was their freedom to be one. We shall not lend them the thinking they were adults yet. Child minds are still innocent, and how we treat them in the same harsh environment as an adult never helps them; they bring more and more chaos as the days come.
**[ESSAY 8] Can Parents Still Motivation The Ambition in Their Children?**
On the other side, where we look up as parent sidelines nowadays, it feels that some parent doesn't know how to motivate their child, don't get it wrong, it is something new. Imagine that we were in a world where we don't understand the generation. I understand that sometimes a parent doesn't know to motivate their children.
I see some scenes in real life where the teenage boy who has been subjected to low grades feels unmotivated, then comes the parent doesn't know how to handle them. Why? People now are aggressive as their parent aren't have the same education label. They don't know what to say, for they never understand.
The way they want to motivate their children cannot happen as they don't know how.
So when one of their children spoke things such as they don't want to study anymore and they cannot insert stuff in their mind, somehow ordinary parents also don't know how to handle nod and accept that they were not in the mood to do the same, had you seen the same as mine?.
When parents don't know how to answer a question for the question alone, they cannot understand what that was, and they have no choice for motivation was for the sake of something.
So in the question, I believed the parent could understand their children's hardship to motivate. I don't say I am right or wrong on this side.
Thanks for reading...
Just flexing my 'AGIMAT PENDANT' lol, they said that most of the old Filipino they believe in Agimat, a pendant that could make them unstoppable and gained strength and vitality. But that's not a real one, it's a gift from my friend way back 2017 and yeah I still have it, lol.
[OCT 3/30]
Covid-19 teaches us a lot of things, including preparedness and somehow planning. In the Webinar last Oct 1 2022, where the speaker explained that most of people were embedded emotional issues as the pandemic starts. As its shown the results, somehow did you asked yourself if are we ready if another one comes?
Also 3rd day of my attempt to becoming active in writing...
ESSAY 5: How Does Praise Affect Children?
ESSAY 6: Does Considered Technology Affect a Person's Psychology?
Full story here: https://read.cash/@Eunoia/oct-330-are-you-ready-incase-there-was-again-another-pandemic-e996dc7a
[OCT 3/30] Are You Ready Incase There Was Again Another Pandemic?
Last October 1, 2022, we had this meaningful activity where participants, including me, learned a lot of things from the speakers. She was this intelligent and keen mind; Ish or the wounded healers claims her history that started the Pandemic 2019 she graduated in University and one of the things she did is t return a favor to everyone in the emotional battle.
I remembered that Psychological issues arose as the pandemic started. This was when people felt alone, where the days of stagnant jobs had posed, which meant that people waging in terms of absence meant no pay. They were the ones who were mentally affected—thinking about where and when they could get their family expenses and all over the things in their daily lives.
I don’t want again to battle in the same pandemic last 2020-2021 where restrictions are on guard, that times where we have to face cages at home, we overthink much as we don’t want yet to die.
But overall Covid-19 still brings a lesson in our life that we should be prepared for what could happen soon. Those days give us credit for getting ready. That time did have the opportunity to get prepared. For the last pandemic, indeed and honestly, I am not prepared for what happened, emotionally and financially.
Covid-19 reminds me that anytime soon, there will be significant changes in the world, anytime there will be something that we never imagine getting possible.
Looking at the past was a history lesson. Having the challenge was a big deal; for us, that was for sure.
What if another pandemic comes? Where it was more fatal, resulting in sadness and grief. Are we ready? Emotionally and financially. Not to wish that happened, but thinking about the last pandemic, emotional despairs, and financial scares gives me the dilemma that I should prepare for a surprise that will just come out.
***On the other hand, this was the third day of the month where I prepared essays for the entire comings, and who knows, for all my blogs, the topic of my essays is about mental health awareness and behavioral development.***
**ESSAY 5: How Does Praise Affect Children?**
Children nowadays have been affected by social embracement, in the question of how praising your child could affect their mentality and behavior. This must be an open ground for the parent. In my days as Youngs, I wasn't that praised or even congratulated on what I was doing. Most of the time, I am just in the corner. But somehow, I do imagine what if, in my younger days, people always cheered me up and encouraged me to do things in school maybe and maybe not, I could have the mentality of my younger self as cheerful as ever.
Praising a child and cheering them for just a simple thing they could do is somehow beneficial in the child's growth. This could be done by simply smiling and saying they did right according to what they made even though they did not win or have the price of the tops. This is an open gate where they could practice more and not fear to try something as they will know they will not be scolded by trying things themselves.
Sometimes the supportive and praising parents win the child's trust as they can develop a bond.
So when I am a parent, surely I will praise even just a simple moving up of my child, in that way I could win his trust that trying their best is something that always is to be praised no matter how small or what achievement they will have.
**ESSAY 6: Does considered technology affect a person's psychology?**
Days we face more and more children who are now looking at their phones and gadgets. This happened as they were always in the trend of what was new, from the mobile games, applications, and even just for what is viral. We must accept that this is a new era where technology is now affecting personal psychology.
The animated character greatly influenced children as they looked and found the position reflecting the movement and even how the character talked. For some points, it feels likely they were designed to have that, to influence the child's mind from toddlers until teenagers.
This somehow comes to my childhood, where cartoon characters were made for me to be impressed by them.
As the generation right now where technological advancement has become part of psychology, positive and negative are in the same position. We could attest that somehow people's behavior developed thru watching and listening to certain people. We saw the difference in people from the way they talked because, somehow, society is now accepting this kind of action.
From the profanity and even the unpleasant mannerism.
There was a good side, like some Filipino toddlers could quickly learn by watching cartons, the English words become famous in their ears, and the rhyme and action also in the same positive. As it goes from year to year, I believe that personal psychology has been affected, especially that generation exposed to technology in its early days.
In high school, I was exposed to the internet, the teenage boy who discovered things on social media. Also, I think it will affect my cognitive mindset in the society.
Thank you for reading...
Imagine rainy and I am alone, kind of depressing actually haha. Where moods was in the mood to displays nothing but emotions. Still I could handle that, eating lunch facing laptop watching 'Resident Evil'uwuu. Nah just some random thought, I am fine.
I started the 'Resident Evil' last night and now I am more getting curious maybe I shall finish the series at the end of the day, as I will be attending some watched dog sitting uwuu.
This was the 2022 series made possible by the Netflix, uwuu this is highly recommended if you want something to watch on.
[OCT 2/30]
Last night we have webinar about "The power of Writing" we learned a lot. One of which is the writing as magical, where thoughts and things in life under the spell of goodwill will come when we wrote down our thoughts.
Also the 3rd and 4th essay.
Essay 3: Are Our Cognitive Functions and Behaviors Determined at Birth?
Essay 4: Depression Is the Side Effect of Civilization?
Full story here: https://read.cash/@Eunoia/oct-230the-power-of-writing-by-wounded-healer-842ec6af
[OCT 2/30]The Power of Writing by Wounded Healer
Last night October 1, 2022, we had an activity on the discord channel. Some of my virtual friends, including Jiji, Denn, Ayane, Cthings, Jerome, Mc Ruiz, Kli4d, Ms. Jane, Laurencio, and many more, attended a webinar on the discord channel also that October as my essay topics about Mental health. The guest or the wounded healer somehow called herself Ish, a mental health advocator, where she spoke and explained to people how cognitive engagement was, and part of the topic she exclaimed about was "how to cope by writing."
Every one of us here wanted to write, and most significantly, we all wanted to engage in blogging. Some of us were honest. They were doing it for money; others claimed it was for the experience. We often write, but we somehow encounter difficulties; most of the time, it doesn't feel fascinating.
But in her explanations last October 1, 2022. She points out that writing alone is one of the best remedies. Writing your thoughts and feelings a day could have significant results in mental activities to cope with heartbreaks, and most of the time, we were in a dilemma.
Writing as what you wanted to say in your old self, what were you feel and wanted to give to yourself.
Alone, I am fond of doing it. I loved writing my thoughts back to those days when I was suffering from heartbreaks and many things I wanted to think about. As I went through my journey in the next following years to come, surely that writing will be part of me no matter what.
The power of writing is magical, where thoughts and things in life under the spell of goodwill will come.
On October 2, 2022, I will continue my series of essays focusing on men's mental and behavioral development.
**[ESSAY 3] Are Our Cognitive Functions and Behaviors Determined at Birth?**
Does the behavior that we have shown on the day of our birth? This is somehow another kind of topic. When they say the child cries a lot, they will be talkative as they grow, or when they were silent and never called, somehow people predict they will be quiet too in their life or anti-social. Does the behavior happen determined at birth?
For me, it's no, really, for I have seen my nephew and niece develop things as they grow older. The things that they usually do, mannerisms, and behavior was changed. I saw the development and the changes in their mental and capabilities.
In behaviorism as they were the stubborn type of person then comes that its changes naturally as the ages come forward, they are now straighter thinker, knew what was wrong and not even thou they were not that teaches as often, I did see that their environmental factors had changed the personal development as their birth.
As they said, I was a silent baby at birth but seemingly different from now.
So I won't be surprised at the time that I could see my child's behaviors change from what he showed at birth. I do believe that it will soon also change. Well, maybe the development of birth and the position of behaviors was irreversible and changeable depending on what you were feeding your child, especially the care and attention.
**[ESSAY 4] Depression Is the Side Effect of Civilization?**
Sometimes does, it feel like depression happened because of civilizations? I meant things are more and more we spoke as lots of things becomes suggestion for instruction. The issue sometimes about depression is that people are giving us this way. The question is if it is a side effect of civilization. Yeah, maybe it was.
Civilization as we discovered more and more, people at the time of no internet still could feel the vibe of having comfort. Still, with the society and creation of application media, more and more teenagers are depressed, for things are triggered, likely the way they see in the videos of other people's lives and somehow anything in between.
As the internet and social diving us more to the world of complication and give us the sight of what was the negatives of everything.
We cannot change the fact we were intake in social media, we cannot deny that we will be living in a technology society and civilizations, and more and more people find issues on the side, especially social media, bullying, harassment, and even placing in the position of things unsortable.
Well, side effects occurred when we were using it too much. As we place much on social media as people share things, quotes, and experiences, we cannot deny that more and more people who are engaged with the civilization of life media are honestly told they are depressed. The solution they look upon is deactivating and looking out in the internet medium.
Thanks for reading...
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