Moving on
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Are you moving on?
Is she moving on?
Is he moving on?
Because life is moving on no matter what is happening it will keep moving on, Nigeria is celebrating 62 years of independence which means it started from 1 year to 62 years life will definitely keep moving so don't stay back in your past move on as well because it will never wait for you or come back again what you will see is another new era and not what has passed
I could remember when we were little we use to buy one season called vendan and the taste is so great, it's very cheap but now we use so many seasoning and they are very expensive all in the name of moving on still we can't hold it back because it has to move for sure.
I remember those days when we use to pay cheap school fees but now even school fees can build a whole house because life keeps moving and we are moving with it, when baby food used to be for every mother but now here in Nigeria baby food is optional because some can't afford it.
And yet our leaders are moving it higher without considering what citizen is going through with the expensive future they are building still we have to move with it because anyone who fails to move is definitely in the past.
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Talking about house rent that one is nothing to write home about here in Nigeria because house that has been built for over 20 years are been rented with thousands of naira, I remember one house in Lagos that was cracking because of vibration and people living in it planned to move out but when they went to look for another house but they couldn't afford a house rent because it is too expensive so they went back to their house and continue to live it.
Later it was said in the news that the house collapsed and many people lost their lives including children still our leaders are aiming for an expensive future where citizens can't afford 3 square meals per day but still we are trying our best to move on and survive with it.
I just pray that anyone that is going to win the election should favor everyone because it is becoming unbearable for some people, just like one small girl I saw at the market selling onions and the beauty of that girl draws my attention so I asked why she's not in school and she said her mom can't afford it that's why she helping her to sell at the market.
Imagine children that are supposed to be the future are not getting proper training no education background and the old ones who are supposed to train them can't afford anything in life what are the leaders now planning for in the future? Well, I just pray that as life is moving on God should help us to move on because it is not easy to move on in this country still our leaders are not seeing the struggle but I believe with God we will all survive.
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This article was drafted on the 1st of October to celebrate the independent day but I couldn't complete it because I was busy at work, I hope it's not too late to greet my brothers and sisters happy Independent day.
Blood is thicker than water
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Blood is thicker than water is what I heard when I was little but my knowledge back then about it means nothing because I don't even understand what it means.
My mom has a set of twins I am one of them, she lost one of us immediately after she gave birth to us so we are just 3 now instead of 4 Taiwo, Kehinde, Idowu, and Alaba but Kehinde is no more so we are just 3.
The 3 of us are like triplets in everything we do, we eat together go to school together even in the same class even though Taiwo is older than me and my sister but he prefers to be on the same level with us since his brother is not there so he doesn't want to be alone.
But when we started to grow up like around 7 to 10 years we began to separate little by little though we are still in the same house all we do is fight each other and sometimes my mom is always scared to leave the 3 of us alone at home because she thought she might come back and meet our dead body she thought that we must have fight death before she's back which I don't know why it was like that.
One day my mom had no choice but to leave us alone because she needs to go to work she use to be a native nurse back then and we were left all alone along with our last born who use to have convulsions so we started our fight as usual because no one wants to wash the dirty plates unknown to us that our little brother has had the convulsions attack.
So I was angry and I left the room to seat outside only to find my little brother fighting for his life on the ground, I couldn't carry him because he has strength more than I do so I rush back to call my Taiwo and Alaba so that the 3 of us can carry him which we did and we took him to the hospital before we called our mom.
When our mom came the first thing she asked was what are we doing before the boy had an attack? None one of us could answer the question because we knew that day might be our last day on earth so we all lied that we were watching a movie inside and I wanted to toilet that was why I went outside only to find him struggling for his life on the ground.
It was that day I realized the quote"blood is thicker than water" because I couldn't stop myself from crying when I saw my little brother struggling to survive on the ground and I couldn't help myself to protect the rest from getting the worse beaten of their life from mom though we later argue about it when she went to the doctor the 3 of us cried so bitterly that day because we thought the boy had died by the time we got to the hospital.
Later the doctor told us that assuming we spent 1minute before we get to the hospital the boy will give us his life which means he had the attack for a very long time which is unknown to us because we were busy fighting for who will wash plate and clean the house, ever since then we stopped fighting because the scene never fades away from our memories.
We are on a date with nature
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Good morning my beautiful people how have you been? Well, I wasn't online all through yesterday if not I should have posted this article yesterday but I guess it's not too late anyways.
So during the weekend, I was at home preparing for work after I finish preparing I took my phone to call my fiance just like I always do in the morning before leaving the house and he told me he was going out and I was like where? He said he's going on a date with someone, I couldn't take that off my mind because I felt bothered about him going out with someone else while am working my ass off in the shop so I changed my plan.
Changing my plan is like sending money away for that day but I don't mind because I don't want some tiny girls to take my man lol 🤣 funny right but that's what was ringing in my head that day so instead of going to shop I went straight to him, he was surprised to see me all of a sudden but he knew I wanted to know the girl who he's hanging out with so we went out together.
Only to land inside Lagos State Polytechnic to take some shot of nature and when we get down from the vehicle I asked where is your date and he said am here with her already, I was angry but I acted cool so we went into the school he started capturing some beautiful places and I asked again isn't she coming, he replied again she's here can't you see am having a date with nature? Hmmmm what I said that in my mind and don't mind me I was only protecting my long-time love because such love is rare now so I don't want to lose mine to anyone 🤣
You can say that am jealous 😁 but am not because sometimes it's good to act that way so that he won't think that am too cool for him because I have seen a guy that says his girlfriend is too cool for him because she doesn't get jealous of whatever he does meanwhile she's only doing that to make him happy and that caused them a lot in their relationship so I don't want that for myself.
While walking all around the school to take shots I remember we use to be a student of that school but we haven't walked around play and run after each other like that this date with nature made us do that and it brought back some sweet memories of how the relationship started especially the tree we sat under to relax before the rain told us to leave.
That tree use to be George's girlfriend back then before I came into the picture anytime I see him under the tree he's always eating popcorn and I will smile and pass that what a lonely guy but when we started dating I followed him under the tree then my perspective of him been lonely changed because the cool breeze under the tree is so refreshing and the view is worth taking a shot of it.
And that was how my weekend went don't mind me 😁am not jealous am just taking care of my man 🤷 lol 😁 I wish we can be doing this date of a thing often but am always busy lately.
What does nature gives you?
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Nature is good and sweet without it we all can not survive mother nature has taken nothing from us and yet she keeps providing for us, for our needs, and for everything we need we all get it from nature.
Is there anyone who hasn't gotten anything from nature? Am not sure there is a such person because right from what we wear is from nature, what we eat is from nature where we live is from nature even we all are from nature because the Bible makes us understand that we all came from sand so automatically we all are from nature as well.
Let's talk about what nature gives us like
Food: mother nature automatically provide all the food we are eating because they all grow from sand, even if you don't plant it on the ground am sure you make use of sand to plant it in your now so it is still from nature because sand is also from mother nature.
Clothes: well according to what we were thought in school, it is said the clothes are been cultivated on the farm so it is from nature as well
Shelter: if not for nature there can't be a house because there won't be land and even the materials for the building we can't get so nature shelters us with a roof over our heads.
Work: well we all are not farmers to say it provides job for everyone but in our offices, there is something nature provides there which is our chair that is cultivated from the farm and so many things like water in our dispenser the fresh breeze from our windows, etc.
Health: all our medicine is gotten from a natural source according to what we were thought in school, our teacher makes us know that all the medicine we are using as tablets is gotten from leaves and herbs so nature provides it as well to give us good health and if you can't take tablet then you can as well go with herbs.
People: since the Bible says we are all from sand that makes us all nature so what is your relationship with nature because people are also nature, are you treating people around you well and are then treating you well too?
Human, generally are nature because they are the one that makes everything perfect for nature so by taking care of people you are also taking care of nature
Your family is what nature has given you, your friends are what you get from nature so you should treat them well including your neighbors they are all gifts from nature to you.
The air we breathe is also from nature and come to think of it if there is no air how can someone survive? Or is it water that we should talk about? Nature is just so good to us by providing everything we want and giving us a life to live because there is nowhere to live aside from nature even if you move into space you are still getting from nature because everything you are seeing in life is from nature.
The night has come
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I hope it's not too late to say happy Sunday because it's night over here already, I wasn't chance to stay online for two days now because I was busy with work but I know you all will understand my situation because I have been dreaming to have a shop and have good customers too which is happening gradually.
So this is how my Sunday went before the night came, I woke up in the morning get on my knees to thank God for another beautiful day, another beautiful week, and another chance to live which we all should do anytime we wake up to see another beautiful day, after that I went to the kitchen to clean up the dirty dishes of last night because I was too tired by the time I came back from work on Saturday I just took my dinner bath and went straight to my bed and this morning I have to clean everywhere including the ground since it's weekend I need to do deep cleaning.
After cleaning I cooked my breakfast, I love cooking something different every weekend because am always in a rush during the week so Sundays is always a good day for me to cook special delicious food for myself since I don't go to shop except if there is the customer because I have dedicated Sunday to God and myself but if urgent work comes up I don't have a choice than to attend to it because customer is always right.
Speaking of urgent work, that was what happened to me after I finish eating and planning to go to church, my phone rang and she said she wants to make her hair so immediately I just transferred my title and offering to the church account and went to work because I mustn't disappoint the first customer.
I haven't seen her before and she said she copied my number from my shop entrance where I pasted it so that if am not around my customers can still reach me, I rushed down to the shop to make sales and after finishing up the hair it was around 6pm already and am so tired because I couldn't eat lunch.
On getting home I just prepare my dinner and while eating my dinner I thought of writing how my day went with the image I snapped when coming back home today, looking at the sun getting set makes me feel relaxed and want to capture it more but this is all u could get before I got home.
How did your day go? As you can see how stressful mine has been.
Happy Sunday once again and goodnight fam❤️ may we live to see another chance tomorrow.
Romance in a movie vs Romance In reality
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Hello everyone and how are you enjoying your new month? I pray that this new month brings new things to us all I hope it's not too late to say happy new month everyone and thank God it's Friday.
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Sometimes I wonder what some people think and how they think because something we watch in a movie is not actually real or it can never be real because a movie is just like an expression, I mean what we think and not what we are really experiencing though some movies were based on true life story but truth me most romantic movie were just fiction, something some thought it should be and not what they have seen.
I use to have a friend back then when I was working in a factory shes a very beautiful girl and she has a very good behavior too but what she doesn't have is a mind to face reality because whatever she sees in a movie do trigger her to misbehave towards her boyfriend back then.
She once told me that she want to be acting a movie but as a true friend, I told her the truth about acting because in my sister's house then some actors do live there and they always come there to shoot movies so this make me know more about acting, so I told my friend that she's beautiful and that beauty will make some make actor wants to get down with her and she replied me that: she loves the way those actors act romantic scene that she will be so glad to have one of them because she believes they will be romantic in real life.
So she quit her job at the factory to pursue her acting career and her movie romance since then I couldn't get in touch with her because she's not anywhere close but one day around two years ago she messaged me on Facebook and I replied so we exchanged contact again which make us have WhatsApp contact that was when she began to narrate how worse the movie industry looks like, she even said what we are seeing is very far from those actors lifestyle because what they are acting is just a fiction.
She told me countless heartbreak she has gotten all in the name of she wants a romantic relationship the way it is been act but I wasn't surprised because I knew that all along that romance in a movie can never be %100 sure there must be some fiction in it.
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Romance in a movie is just based on acting and I don't think there should be someone expecting such in reality while reality romance is what you feel because when you love someone you will definitely be romantic to that person so there is a big difference between the movie romance and reality romance which we can never compare together, though some romantic movies are based on true life story but still I believe there is some part in it which is not true.
Romance in a movie should never be compared to romance in reality because in a movie there will always be fiction at some point while in reality, you will just be romantic according to how you feel and what you feel.
Thanks for reading.
The killer cleaned it thoroughly
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Hello everyone it's a brand new day with very cold weather saying don't get out of bed but you know money must be made so I have to get up and get out
How was your night? Mine was great I slept all through the night.
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When you are choosing a friend be mindful of who you want to choose because some people are not truly what you think they are.
Sam chooses the wrong friend and his friend happens to be his worse enemy at the end of everything, Sam works in a company that produced slippers, and in such a place there are lots of machines that is been used to process work meanwhile those machines can actually kill or hurt someone if care is not taking.
Sam was just a contract staff and he is very hard working so his hard work took him to the next level at his working place, his boss made his shift manager of the factory in case if there is any emergency work or something he didn't see for him Sam will definitely see it since he knows every cover of the factory.
There is Gabriel who happens to be Sam's co-worker on the production floor so he noticed that Sam is been promoted and he got angry about it because he felt that he should be the one taking that position and not Sam, so this makes him hate Sam but he pretends to be his friend so that he could get rid of him.
One day Gabriel went to the CCTV camera room to distract the person in charge so that he could turn it off which he succeeded but he didn't turn everything off because he was so in haste before the person in charge got back, then he went back to the factory and invite Sam to where he believes is secure to carry out his mission.
It was a night shift which makes people feel relaxed so Gabriel took Sam to one machine that is been used to press and told him that the machine just stopped working and they want to use it, normally it is not Sam's work to fix the machine but been a shift manager and on a night duty he just wanted to check it out then Gabriel pushed him into the machine then ran off back to the production floor to continue his work.
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In the morning people were looking for Sam to give him a report but they couldn't find him so they called the main boss and when he arrived at the factory he went straight to the CCTV camera room to see what went wrong then found out that all the camera switched off including the incident area camera.
But there was one that wasn't and that is just a passage camera so he checked but he couldn't find it because that is where everyone passed but Sam didn't pass there out since he came in last night.
The killer cleaned it up thoroughly but you know there is no how something like that will go just like that so after 3 days the machine where Sam was pushed into started bringing some bad odors which called people's attention to it.
And when they checked the machine they saw dried blood under it and they called an engineer to check maybe someone got injured during the work but they found Sam's dead body inside the machine and no one could place a finger at what happened to him.
It was reported to the police as an accident and still, the position never goes to Gabriel after all he did to Sam he never got the position of the shift manager because that wasn't meant for him but he cleaned up the mess thoroughly.
Though later after some years the truth came out and he was arrested and charged for murder but the deed is done already.
Thanks for reading.
Givers never lack while beggars will always ask
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Hello my beautiful people all over the world how are you all doing today? Let's thank God it's Friday first and thank God for life as well.
My Friday is going on smoothly because right now am at the party which I was invited by one of my customers so I must attend it if not you know how ladies can keep such unnecessary mood towards each other so I don't want that, that why am here at the part.
But it looks boring because am not a party type so I will just make use of the opportunity to write an article which is titled "**givers never lack while beggars always ask**"
**Who are the givers**?
Givers to me are people who love to share what they have with someone else even though they don't have much and some have, giving doesn't have to be money it could be advice or listening ears because I could remember one day when my neighbor came to ask me what she should do about her husband spending her money unnecessarily and she's broke at the moment so I told her if I should give her money the man will end up collecting it from her and spend as usual but instead I advised her to open a bank accountant with the little I can afford inside the bank account.
Because I don't believe some people don't have a bank account in this kind of era we are now so that was my advice which she did and she never takes an ATM card so that the man won't suspect anything about her money. Though I don't give her much money at least I was able to save her from her husband spending all her savings.
**Beggars always ask**
Who are beggars? To me I believe beggars should be less-privileged people, people that don't have at all so there is no crime if they beg but do you know there are some people who stylishly turned themselves into a beggar because they are so selfish and self-centered just like a lady beside my shop, she sells snack and yet she will starve herself for a whole day all in the name of I want to make profit from the snacks, I thought they say it is when you are alive you can run any race what if the hunger kills her will she still be able to make profit in heaven? That's the question I always ask her anytime she asked me for food.
Currently at the party so I was given rice and salad to eat with Coca-Cola to drink and when she arrives at the party the first thing she did was to collect food which is still normal to me but guess what happened after collecting food? She said the meat that is on the food is too small so won't eat the food, I was surprised that even at the party she was still behaving like a beggar so I gave her my meat so that she could have the rest of mind.
What some people don't understand is that once you count yourself as a beggar nothing can change that even if you get rich the spirit of begging will never leave you, so she took mine and after eating she stood up and say she must collect the gift from the person doing party because she bought clothes from her, funny right?
Once a beggar will always be a beggar no matter how hard you tried to hide it the truth about it will definitely comes out because at first, I don't count it as anything until today that we attend a party together, now I know she is a complete beggar pretending to be a giver.
If you ask her for something in her shop she will give you but be expecting her to come to take something big from you in return before I always thought it is only people that stays beside the road to beg that can be called a beggar but today I realized that some people can never be satisfied and that makes them beg and become a beggar.
Am currently at the party now but what happened just some hours ago make me know what to write about my topic I believe that has been her life which no one can correct. Make yourself a giver and not someone who always asks because once you are used to such behavior nothing else can change it just like this lady that am talking about, she's even planning to eat more than one plate of food at the party I haven't seen such human before I guess it's good to go out so that you can meet a different kind of human being just like her.
And that's how my day is going now what about yours?
Thanks for reading.
Privacy builds crack in relationship
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Sometimes, the thing that are been dragged on the social media is not what is happening in reality and a lot of people just dish out their opinion because they aren't feeling the heat of what privacy problems can cause in a relationship but as long as it is been dragged then it is indeed an important issue that should be tackled.
First privacy in a relationship is not a good idea because a relationship is meant for two people to know each other and share some things you can't even tell your friends and family, so why do we have to keep privacy with such person?
*What is the essence of a relationship when there is privacy?*
I don't support any privacy in a relationship except if it is family issues that you can't be allowed to handle because some families don't like their partner to contribute to their families matter so you can keep such privacy but anything outside that should be completely open.
When your partner began to keep away his phones or gadget from you to check then I sense Infidelity in such a relationship because there shouldn't be anything to hide from each other, don't get me wrong some things are better kept a secret but not to the extent of securing your phones for your partner not to see some things means you have something else you are keeping.
Keeping phones from each other in a relationship is not a good idea because it's not safe out there so nothing must be kept secret, your partner should know whatever you are doing your partner should know in case of an emergency.
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For instance, a guy working in a factory where there are electricity cables everywhere meanwhile he has a lady disturbing him at work for a date but instead of sharing the issue with his partner he decided to keep it to himself because he thought he could handle the situation of the lady.
One day he was on break and where he was sitting to have his lunch the lady came to meet him there and started touching him sexually, the guy doesn't have a choice but to push her off from his body then he mistakingly pushed her to the wall where there are naked wires, the lady got shocked by the electricity till death.
The guy couldn't do anything to save her because he wasn't expecting such a bad incident to occur all he wanted was to get her off his body before he fell into the temptation, the guy got arrested and charge with murder since he was the one that pushed her.
When his partner got there he tried to explain to her but it was too late to believe him since he kept it all away right from the beginning, assuming this guy had told his partner maybe she might have reported her to the police in case if anything bad happens to anyone of them just like this bad accident.
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Going through your partner's phone is not a good idea I guess but still, I don't see anything wrong with it because is just a phone and if you don't have any skeleton in your wardrobe, you wouldn't feel uncomfortable if your partner goes through your phone.
So keeping phones away from your partner is a sign of infidelity and the relationship should never have anything call privacy no matter what because you guys came together to become one so why keep some part of yourself a secret?
I was inspired to write this after reading @George_Dee post yesterday thanks for reading.
If you are to spend 7hundred million dollars how will you spend it?
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This article was drafted by me 3 weeks ago when someone suddenly asked me what I need money for, come to think of it even the richest person in the whole world is still looking for money so who am I not to have something to do with money.
This lady came to make nails from my shop and she came with her two friends one of them was chatting with a guy on her phone while the rest were talking the one on the phone just said: is like this guy is rich, he should just give me 7 hundred million dollars now she will fly to Dubai to get all her latest hair, shoes, bags, etc and then she turned to me and said: aunty what do you think? Who am I to judge her after all that's what she wanted and as for me, if I have 7 hundred million dollars to spend, what will be my first move is to buy my mother a brand new phone because her phone fell inside water for two weeks now and I couldn't buy her a new one so that should be my first move.
Secondly, I will help her to roof her house because I could remember when she complained about how old the roof of her house is and anytime it rains the house is nothing to write home about so as a good daughter that I am my mother is my priority to take good care of and when all that is settled I will take care of me like this: firstly for myself I will pay all my debt I know you all will be thinking how I get myself into a such thing, well for a girl that comes from a poor family I have to do what I have to do to pay my bills though we are not the poorest family but still we are not rich, so I found myself dipping my hands into stuff like that so I will pay all of it then have a free mind that I deserve.
I will buy myself a house, let me ask who doesn't like to have a house of her own? I guess no one because having a house will be a very great thing for anyone I guess so am going to buy a very beautiful house that is well furnished for myself since I must spend the money because I have suffered too much not to enjoy the such huge amount of money.
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Secondly, I will get my dream car you know what I mean, I remember every morning on my way out seeing a lot of beautiful cars which I know one day I will have one or two for myself but as I am now I don't think that what I should be thinking of but if this such opportunity of spending 7 hundred million dollars comes in then I will just jump into the market and buy myself some of this cars have been dreaming of.
Next on my mind is to sort my siblings you know as a family that we are I can't spend all the money alone because we all have been through a lot so that time has come to enjoy together as we have suffered together, I will give them each the money that I know will solve their problems, flex and remain to do something meaningful for themselves, because I know every one of my siblings has one or two things they want so I will just say yes to all their needs.
Then vacation is on my mind yuppy come to think of it is there anyone who doesn't like to flex, go on vacation, and relax their muscle while wearing a bikini on the beach? I guess no because I have been through more than enough so I must stretch my muscles by going on vacation.
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As for the vacation am not planning to do that here in Nigeria because I have stayed all my life here in Nigeria so it has to be in another country that I have been dreaming of like the UK, US, etc I have a friend who can help me with a passport so since I have the money I will just give it to him and get my passport to see all around the world, do what I have never done before.
I guess by the time I am back in Nigeria I can now get back on my business which I would have stocked my shop with different kinds of hair. After all, that's where am coming back after my long time beautiful vacation and less I forget there is one friend of mine I will give her some money too because she's just like me going through a lot but she remains good to herself and that's how I will spend my money if such opportunity shows up.
Thanks for reading.
If you don't buy lies you can't buy the truth II
Here is the beginning of the story if you have seen it yet 👉 click https://read.cash/@Esthery97/if-you-dont-buy-lies-you-cant-buy-the-truth-afbe380f
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Racheal got back to Lagos and settle for the remaining pieces of her heart left in her body since the heartbreak was too deep she couldn't think of anything else than to just focus on her work but did Mike let her be? Let's find out.
On Monday morning Mike resume back to the office he called a meeting and after the meeting, he asked Racheal to stay back as if they have unfinished business together Racheal did because he is her boss so she wouldn't dare to disobey him at work unless she's tired of the job, everyone left and then Mike began to beg Racheal for all that he has caused her Rachel couldn't say a word because she doesn't believe Mike can actually be a married man and yet he's promising her Heaven and Earth.
When Mike is done talking Racheal just smiled and left him without saying a word about all that he said and this kept Mike's heart raising because he doesn't know what Racheal is capable of doing since she doesn't get angry or say anything about what happened at Benin
Two days after Mike decided to frustrate Racheal at work so that she could at least say what was on her mind but instead of Racheal retaliating for all that he was doing to her she decided to quit her job because she couldn't stand his face and what he's doing to her at the office so she dropped her resignation letter on her table before she left that day.
To me, I don't think that's a great idea but I can't understand because she's the one that knows how deep the hurt is so I believe she did what she thought was best for her to move on, the next morning Mike came to work as usual planning on how to choke Racheal with work so that she could stay beside him but on getting to her office he noticed that she's not even at work yet then he went back without even checking her table.
After some hour he sent someone to call her from her office that was when he discovered that Racheal wasn't at work and the person that went to call her came back with the resignation letter that Racheal dropped before going home yesterday and inside the envelope, she dropped a note for Mike to which says: "Anything you sow you shall reap" Mike's mind pound so heavy and he began to sweat from inside even though the AC at his office is working so perfectly but he couldn't get the note off his mind throughout that day.
Racheal starts all over again by getting a small shop to sell drinks and some other things then she never has time to date any man but when God wants to answer your prayers He will put you into some situations that will make you think that's the end then He will take you back to where you belong and that's what happened to Racheal when a young man of her age came to buy stuff in her shop and he asked her out.
But this time around Racheal took her time to do her findings before she go for him because "once bitten is twice shy" but this time the love is real they got married and live happily ever after.
Though some are not lucky to find love at the end of everything they went through my customer said before she resigned as her maid she was pregnant with her second child and they planned on moving abroad which was why she left her house. Sometimes if you don't meet fake people you can't meet the real ones.
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If you don't buy lies you can't buy the truth
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Sometimes we found ourselves in some situations and then we will keep blaming ourselves or some other people for it meanwhile that situation is just a process way to go before we get to where we were supposed to be.
This makes me remember what my mom does say: **if you don't buy lies you can't buy the truth" if you don't meet the fake you can't meet the real" and if you haven't fallen then you are not yet on your feet"** because when you fall once you will know how to rearrange your ways to get ready for the next thing that is coming to your ways.
This article was drafted on Salah day while I finish working with a customer who shared some stories that gave me the inspiration to write but before I could write anything on it someone came in so I paused it there.
This was the storyline......
According to the woman she said this lady works in a bank while she was a maid in her house her work is to cook and take care of her only son which a guy abandoned for her all in the name of am not ready to be a father yet, her name is Rachel aunty Rachel has a soft heart which makes her fall in love easily so one day at her working place there was a transfer of another branch manager and the person they brought to her branch was a young handsome guy so when he got there everyone introduced themselves to him including aunty Rachel as a staff that will be working with him.
After two weeks of working together he began to show interest to aunty Rachel and been a soft-minded person she fell in love with him thinking that she knows everything about him and they are compatible together, they dated for like two months and one day he said he wants to travel to see his family which aunty Rachel assume to be his parents so he went for like two weeks without calling her. Aunty Rachel missed him so much so she decided to call his number but his number wasn't reachable so she took her time to find his address from the office and then take sick leave so that she can spend some time with him.
She traveled from Lagos to Benin just to see the love of her life while she leave her son for a maid to care for, when she got to the address given to her at the office she met a lady heavily pregnant and she asked for Mike then the lady turn to call Mike and she said: babe you have a visitor from your place of work, Mike couldn't place a finger on who could that be and still he is so sure that Rachel will never find out his house.
But when he got to the door he was shocked to see Rachel life and direct at his door he couldn't say a sentence straight he keeps struggling to pull it together and then his wife asked who's she Mike couldn't talk but Rachel answered and said: am his co-workers I came to check on him because I was in the neighborhood, his wife invited Rachel in but Mike was mute because he's still shocked. After all, Rachel shows up.
Rachel and Mike's wife talked for about 30 minutes and Rachel told her that she will be leaving because she still have some other stuff to check on Mike's wife walked her to the door thinking Rachel is just a co-worker as she said, after she left Mike felt relieved a little bit but his wife noticed that he wasn't comfortable with the lady around but she never thought that they could be something more than just a co-worker.
Rachel has seen it all so there is nothing Mike wants to explain to her meanwhile Mike is her boss at work which means she can't escape seeing him every day of her life.
If you are Rachel what will you do to him?
If you are Mike what will be your next action?
If you are Mike's wife what will you do?
Because as a woman if your man cheats he will look suspicious to you and as a man if you are caught cheating you will want to defend yourself.
Let's find out what they all did in tomorrow's article thanks for reading.
Social life vs real life is not easy to combine for some people
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Hello everyone how have you been? Well, I know some people must have thought that I quit writing already but I haven't is just that am the kind of person that has not handled two life at a time before so having a business to attend to daily is a very much time taking, likewise writing takes a lot of time to and you need to give in everything you have to combine whatever you want to write.
Someone asked me last month that have I quit writing. And I said no but I find it difficult to combine the two lives and that was my answer to her then she said why not write once in a while or won't you lose all the inspiration for writing? I never stop writing in fact the notepad on my phone is almost full of topics and some abandoned articles I couldn't publish and I couldn't even finish up some so I just left everything in there till I can balance to jump back into my social life.
Sometimes I do open my readcash to read people's posts but before I finish one paragraph I would have slept off, and when am at work I can't operate the phone so I don't really have much time to check what was going on over here and even noisecash as well, and this prompts me to ask some people here how they cope with two platforms, social life, and real life I wonder how sis @Jane cope with work, and so many platforms same thing goes to sis @Princessbusayo she goes to school and still catching up with her social life @George_Dee doing fish pond and still able to write even @Olasquare I wonder if they don't get tired or sleep for them to still keep up with normal life and social life.
I guess am being lazy because I have so many articles that I have written already but I didn't finish them, just like last two months I wrote one article about some marriage experience that someone shared in my shop, while I was writing customer came in so I abandoned it that I will write it later but after finishing up my work I couldn't remember all that I have in mind to write so I pend it there and look for something else to write while writing in the night I slept off and it was a customer call that woke me up in the morning around 8:30am all I do is to bath and jump out of the house ever since I resume fully to my shop I don't even have time for WhatsApp as well I only post my work for the day and off I go again.
Though I don't work every day but anytime I took my phone to finish up some of my articles that's when I get busy like there is no tomorrow though and happy that am busy working but I also missed my social life so from now I will be trying my best to get it together though I know it won't be as easy as it sounds but probably once in a while, I will be posting and that is to tell people that think I have quit that am still very much here is just that it's difficult to be here and there.
To randomrewarder darling, your baby girl is sorry for not being here life is busy out there than I thought but I will try to do my best to make it up to both lives "social life and real life"
Thanks for reading.
The most annoying moment
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In this life, some people will make you angry and you will also make some angry, knowingly or unknowingly we will offend each other in one way or the other. Even in your family you will offend each other, your friends too might make you angry as well but the most important thing is that we should learn how to forgive each other because life goes on and if you don't forgive today you can't continue the relationship between you and the person tomorrow.
And there is always the most annoying moment in everyone's life, reason, why I said in everyone, is that as a human there must be something that will make someone angry because when God wanted to create humans He make both angry and peace inside human even animals has it, so if you see someone that doesn't get angry then move away from such person because they have bad intentions towards you.
Even the Bible says: "Be angry but never let the sun set with your anger" and my grandma too always says: "it is only a bad person that doesn't get angry" so there must be something that will make someone angry. Someone once told me that her fiance never gets angry with her and I told her that she doesn't know the kind of future husband she's going to have, as a woman we have this character that will surely make a man angry so how come he never gets angry with her he could be keeping everything in him just to get her and when they get married he will change to worse.
Just like the story of my friend she and her boyfriend never get issues in fact they don't have misunderstandings for once in their relationship but when they get married the guy turned out to be a beast in the human flesh, there is nothing my friend does that pleased him and when she sat him down to talk about the issue be told her that he has been hiding all his hanger so that she could end up with him so now that she's with him he can show all his real self to her. I couldn't believe that because I only watched that in a movie and I had never known someone close to me was going through such.
The most annoying moment in my life was the day a friend of mine who has traveled out of Nigeria to Ghana told me never to advise her again. She came back to Nigeria to settle down and I have a male friend who is looking for a wife so I told her to get to know him maybe they could get along, immediately when the guy saw her he fell in love with her but she's not ready for a serious relationship yet she just looking for a guy that will pay her bills which I never knew.
They both get along but after 2 months she changed towards the guy and he came back to tell me so that I can talk to her which I think is the right thing to do since am the one that matches them together but when I talk to the girl the just said ok which she went back to blast the guy for asking me to talk to her, then she made a statement that makes me so angry she said: even if someone wants to advise her the person should be in a marriage for at least 10years" the guy came back to tell me all that she said because he recorded everything she said to him.
And he came back to play all that she said for me then he said she's not someone I should call a friend because she doesn't like me and all I wanted for her is a happy life but she mocks me in return, that was the day I felt the real anger in me for like 3 days I couldn't forget about that statement because it was someone I like so much that said it but as time goes on my anger melt but I never forget what she said. This girl in question never gets angry ever since we were friends but I didn't count it as anything serious the moment I heard what she said I discovered that she's never been my friend and that is why she's never angry in our relationship.
Humans are born to be happy, get angry when it's necessary then forget as time passes so if there is anyone around who never gets angry I guess such person has another thing in mind for you.
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Which one do you prefer
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Sometimes what you prefer is not what you really want but because you are used to that thing then you will choose it over what you want, just like a friend of mine who works in a hotel and there, they can't put on anything long so she has to be on a short skirt to look sexy for the customer. The girl got used to the shorts but in their house, they don't allow shorts so she couldn't cope with the rule and she left home.
One day I asked her why did she leave her parent's house because of her dressing then she said the hotel pay her very much and she can't afford to lose the job but her parents won't understand that though she prefers the long skirt but with the kind of work she's doing doesn't give her a choice than to abide by the rules of the hotel.
I totally understand her because the work is important but our appearance as a lady matters too, in Nigeria, what matters most now is the means of surviving and not appearance and that is why we keep seeing a little girl who suppose to be in the University selling her body for money because they don't care about what people say or think anymore all they want is the money. Enough of my blabbing let's see what I prefer down there.
**Your country or abroad**
My country? Well, my country is good but not as good as living abroad starting from the weather, people, work and so on I can't compare abroad to my country at all though living in my country I have rest of mind even though I haven't been in abroad before I don't know what it looks like but am very sure living abroad will be very cool for me because I will be able to work and make enough money than my country.
**Living alone or with a friend**
I love the fact that am living alone even though it's boring sometimes but I love it because I have my privacy no one is disturbing my life, I could remember when I was living with my sister and her friend, her friend always brings her boyfriend to the house, I and my sister don't have a choice than to excuse them the same thing goes to my sister when her boyfriend is around. I don't have anyone so it was very annoying that am the one that always suffer it, but now am all by myself no one is making me feel that way so I prefer living alone.
**Long hair or short hair**
Awww I love long hair because it will make me look good elegant and beautiful though my hair is not that long but I don't mind it getting longer, I don't like short hair for anything maybe because am a woman but seriously I can't keep short hair for any reason.
**Long skirt or short skirt**
Before I use to like a long skirt but along the line I got fat so I don't like anything long anymore though I don't wear something too long before but now it should at least reach my knees I guess that's not too short because it makes me look smart and good ✌️don't mind me I just love it
**Going out or staying indoor**
Hmmm aside from going to work I don't like going out I prefer staying indoors enjoying my cool self but if my fiance wants to take me out I can't say no but I thank God that he's just like me indoor boo-boo 😜 so I prefer staying
**Vacation or working**
Who doesn't like to enjoy a vacation relax their body and have a good shot of mother nature but vacation can't be possible without money which means we have to work before we can make money so I prefer working even though the vacation sound so sweet but money must be made you know.
Sleeping or exercise
Hmmm, a lazy girl like me loves to sleep when am not working. I am a little bit fat but I think I love it because I don't think I can do exercise, am too lazy and I don't even remember when last I thought of exercise. Today I wasn't able to go to work because of rain, it didn't stop all through the day till now and the worse part was that the network was down since morning. Guess what have been doing at home all day? Nothing than sleeping, that's how lazy I can be when am not at work so I prefer sleeping even though the exercise might help me but nah I don't want it.
Lemme know the one you prefer in the comment section 😁
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Money is important but it's not everything
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As human money is very important in our lives because without money there is absolutely nothing you can do, the world now runs a system where everything you do requires money, and as important as money is it is not everything in life, simply because there are lots of rich people who are not as happy as poor people do.
I use to think whoever has money had the world when I was younger but I discovered the truth when I was growing and the fact that my dad died even when he has money to take care of himself but money failed to stop my dad from death and it makes me realize that there are things that you can't purchase no matter how rich you are.
Wealth is something we misunderstand, some think once you are rich the world is yours, some poor people think that when they eventually get the money nothing else matters which is not true if you ask the rich what makes them cry and unhappy am sure they will have something to say but still people don't understand that money is not everything all they want is just the money.
Another thing I want you all to know is that money is one thing that can make us lose focus in life It might sound weird because it sounds the opposite of what we expect money to make us do, the reason why I said so is that people go at any length to be successful in life.
Here in my country, you will see small boys driving the latest car and spending lavishly at the club, especially in my area every little boy here has turned to an internet fraudster(Yahoo) all in the name of money must be made. I saw some many of them on the social media making some other people cry while the are lavishing money on material things.
They get this money illegal and also lavish it on worthless things, I don't blame them though because you can't expect someone who didn't work for money to spend wisely or know the value of what they have as my mom use to tell me and my siblings that (if you work for money before you get it, you will value it and spend it wisely).
Some people will say after money is money, yes they are so right but am sure we all know that there are some certain things this useful and important money can not buy.
Such as:
Good health
Life
Love
Character
Humanity
And Heaven
****Good health****: If money can really buy good health then those people that die of cancer shouldn't have died at all, imagine how much the family must have spent on the chemotherapy treatment before their brother/sister later died of cancer, assuming money can buy the good health back for that person don't you think they would have purchased it no matter how much it would cost.
****Life****: if money can buy life then nobody should die when they are sick because before any sick people die they must have treated them and still they will eventually die, at least if money can buy life my dad won't give up a ghost back then, because we have the money but we can't buy his life when his time is up.
****Love****: If money can buy love then there shouldn't be heartbreak at all or haven't you seen where a guy will buy a lady big house and cars but yet that lady will keep chasing one poor guy around their street corners, but here in my country they believe if a lady should do that she's not content with what they guy gives her forgetting that there is something call love which money can not buy.
****Character****: If money can buy characters am sure there won't be bad people on earth yes there won't simply because some rich men and women children behave like an animal that suppose to be in the zoo if money can buy characters they should have purchased it for their kids so that everyone will see the good character with them.
****Humanity****: If money can buy humanity am so sure that those people that are making some other people cry and they are laughing won't exist, am sure nobody will step on anyone's toes just to make it in life but money can't buy it.
****Heaven****: If money can buy Heaven then all those bad rich people in governorship have automatically got the tickets to heaven because they would have booked their generation ticket to heaven down before they die but God is not what you can bribe or purchase even though He is the one that gives.
So don't kill yourself because of money, money is important and necessary but it is not everything in life if you die in the process of getting money life won't stop and money won't follow you to your grave.
So why did you want to die all in the name of money? Just do your best work and earn what will sustain you and your family then leave the rest for God to handle for you.
Thanks for reading.
Don't hold it back it's in the past mow
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Happy weekend to you all my beautiful people all over the world how are you all doing? I couldn't post yesterday because the network was down due to the heavy rain that we had yesterday I pray such doesn't happen again because it was so scary.
We all have had a past we don't want to remember, something that breaks our hearts when we look back at it. Those heartbroken moments weren't there to break us down, they were part of our life journey. They were there for us to understand the value of things in the future.
These individual past of ours are personal teachers but we look at them from a different perspective. Many hold it tight, some fix their eyes, knowledge, and heart on it and it prevented them from seeing what is ahead.
I am not fond of calling the past failure but I would rather refer to it as a lesson because it must have taught us one or two things. Holding on to the past has made so many remain at that spot they have been meanwhile they thought that's the best for them forgetting that if you don't let go of the past you can't get hold of the future.
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Imagine a man who invested wrongly and lost almost everything he had, he was too quick to invest and he never cared to make his findings before putting his money. He lost everything, does that mean he shouldn't engage in any investment again? No...
It means he has to make more findings about things he is to invest on in the future.
A man whose marriage doesn't work out because he wasn't lucky to have a good woman shouldn't give up on marriage it means he has to do his findings and know the lady well before jumping into another marriage.
A student who failed an exam will understand that he/she needs to read more and prepare very well to rewrite the exam in the future.
These pasts are teachers but they try to make us understand things the hard way when we fail to learn easily. Allowing the past to have a terrible effect on the future is something we shouldn't allow just like I said before you should learn how to let it go so that you can go to the next level in life but it doesn't mean you will forget but don't hold it back just let it go so that is won't affect your future.
Look at the examples I stated above, even every great inventor has several past which should have made them stop but they kept on pressing and working hard to make their dreams become reality if they give up then they have failed.
Because you had a bad relationship in the past does not mean you won't have another in the future but it means you have to be wise about it this time around.
That's is exactly the purpose of the past, it helps you to know that you have made a wrong choice a wrong move, or a wrong decision the past is also an experience which they say is the best teacher. It helps you become a better decision-maker, it makes you a leader who guides with his/her experience.
All this will only be possible if you don't live in the guilt of the past, your future will be bright if you let go of your bad experience and if you make use of what you learn wisely your past mustn't be an excuse in the future. It should be an inspiration not to you alone but to everyone who cares to listen as well.
Don't let the past hold you down because it's in the past and it will never repeat itself unless you don't learn from it, the future is what you should be thinking of not what has passed.
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Women are the sauce of life
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Before God made a woman, he made a man, and he pondered that man can't live all alone in a world as large as this?
He wasn't simply discussing her presence in Adam's life, he contemplated the world before it even worked out. He realized the earth would require women so he made one and it became billions today, being a woman is deep and that causes me to see the value in them as a great deal. The job of women on the planet can't be measured, they have developed from just being the indoor being our progenitors made them into having such a lot of effect on the planet.
There is nowhere in the world you won't find women just because they serve as the sauce to life, you will see women in Governmental issues, clinical areas, finance, amusement, business, and innovation, they are all over the place and they're in any event, doing perfect, better than certain men in a similar field.
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Have you at any point imagined a world without women? It would be an unusual one right, that ought to cause you to comprehend how exceptional they were made yet very few of them are not utilizing that uniqueness to impact their general surroundings. Very much like each dependable man out there, each woman in the life plays a part and they always have an impact anywhere they are that is why women are called the sauce of life.
Being a woman can be stressful sometimes because it accompanies by a lot of things and that is the reason I encourage them to be cautious the young ones to be mindful of who they want to choose for their life partners and to be careful of the kind of person they want to be friends with because some guys are just coming into their lives to make damage and take advantage of them as a woman.
Is it safe to say that you are genuinely a woman?
"Women" to me has taken the female orientation to the following stage and it accompanies bunches of characteristics. I have seen a young lady under 20 been addressed as a woman due to her maturity and the effect she is having in life as of now so I don't think it has to do with age, being a woman doesn't end in the kitchen or as a childbearing machine, it comes with so many things and I will explain some of them.
Influence on herself: Impacting yourself as a woman implies improving or upgrading yourself, life is about learning and it doesn't exclude each lady in life because no knowledge is wasted.
You can cook, and finish tasks, you might at any point step into your man's shoes with respect when his business is down in some way?
Might you at any point assist your children with schoolwork? Upgrading yourself gives you the strength and voice to remain against anything disagreeable to you or despite your desire for your personal life.
It doesn't need to be a very stressful job, you can learn some skills, or go for courses that would push you forward throughout every day in life. So you don't live your whole life as just a woman in the house you should have an impact on yourself as well. This is issue was what our old mothers went through, they didn't have a choice but to just obey anything their husbands say to them including the husband's family because back then they believe women don't have to do anything than stay at home and take care of children. the life we live now is very different from the life they lived so women must learn how to be independent now because anything can happen at any given time.
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My mom told me that when she first got married to my dad he doesn't want her to work and she thought he was trying to show love to her and she sat at home giving birth every 3years but when life took another turn for the both of them she ran outside to look for work and along the line my dad died and she was able to stand on her feet with the work she was doing back then.
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Influence on the family: Women are the strength of the family, disregard how much a man offers that might be of some value. I'm not saying men are no trying their best but if only men can become a woman for just a day they will have understood that being a woman is not an easy task and it is not as simple as they describe it, so if you are still the type who thinks that your woman is not working because she only takes care of the children then you should give it a try one day.
Women's influence on the family should be valued and each female who needs to be known as a woman some time or another should be prepared to have an impact on the family positively because in every good family there is always a good and hard-working woman behind it.
Influence on society: It feels perfect to see women participating in society, they are doing great work because it is not easy to be a mother, worker, and a leader at the same time and I feel that they can become great if only they are granted the opportunity to, it will have a good impact on the society because everyone out there was trained by a woman. There are various ways of having an effect in the public eye, not so much for acknowledgment but rather you may be influencing someone's life positively because as a woman people believe that you can do better
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What inspires you to keep moving?
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What inspires you to do things in life?
What inspired you to move on whenever you are down?
What inspires you to keep moving?
A lot of things about life is inspiration, we derive inspiration from different things, from different events and situation.
Sometimes it is difficult to carry on in life when you don't have anything that inspires you to do so, it could be your family, kids, parent, dreams. It could be anything and they motivate us to keep pushing even in our darkest time.
A businessman that started his own company and it seems like things are not going the way he planned but he doesn't want to give up on his company so he seeks the help of people that have been there and he learned that business can't be predicted you might start and be successful at once, you might end up folding up at the same time so you can't predict business but if you don't give up it might end up well.
This man went back home and calculated the money he spent to start the business and he said to himself that he will never give up because he have spent a lot so he must get it back in multiple, I guess what makes him continue is that he was inspired by the money he spent and he knows that if he doesn't give up he will end up making it so there must be something you a looking up to before you make up your mind never to give up.
When I first started my shop around February 14th I felt good and happy within that week but by the time the month ended I don't feel good anymore because I thought once I open the shop customer will start coming in and I also thought that people that am making hair for at home will definitely come to patronize me but I was totally wrong.
After some weeks I realized that people already have where they are making their hair so they can't just come to my side and I will still be the one to have enough patience for them to come as for the home services people are used to it so they don't like going out to make hair again except I go to them I guess am just getting to understand the fact that some people will always want home service while I have to wait for new ones to come to the shop.
But now am having some customers which I don't even know but before they started coming I got tired and sat at home for like one week but when I took my calculator to check how much I spent in the shop I couldn't hold myself back at home. I just have to go out to open the shop and wait for the customer to come I guess I was inspired by the big expenses and am looking forward to work more and gain more from the shop.
I remembered when my boss came to pray for me there she said am lucky because when she opened her own shop she didn't work for good 3months all she's doing in the shop is sleeping but mine wasn't like that so I guess am truly lucky as she said.
Sometimes we need something to inspire us so that we won't look back because the life we are living now is not funny and it is not inspiring at all, imagine someone collecting #20,000 ($40)as a salary and he has a wife and 2 kids to feed will the money sustained them for the month but looking at his children he gets inspired to keep moving forward because he knows that those kids have bright future.
Even the future is not certain but we all are just trying our best to be inspired by something to keep moving.
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Three questions you should ask yourself
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Three questions we should always ask ourselves when things go wrong are why? where? And how? These are the questions you should ask yourself when you missed your way in life.
It is not that we can't make mistakes, we are humans and we can make mistakes at any time. No human is above mistakes as long as you are living, mistakes will make things go a wrong way if care is not taken and that's where these questions come in why, where, and how?.
****Learn from the story below.****
A lady was happily married to a very young man and they were so happy together until she met her first love back in the days when she was in secondary school, they both exchanged numbers based on friendship but along the line, the ex-boyfriend fell in love with her again. He began to disturb her but instead of her telling her loving husband, she took it to her friends of which one of them has been crushing on her husband but she had no idea about it. They advised her to give him a chance because they have been In love before and she foolishly followed their advice.
In the end, her husband got to know about it and he threw her out of his house. Ahe didn't feel bad about it because she thought she will end up with her ex-lover but on getting to his house, she met his wife and he made her understand that he can't marry two wives neither can he leave his wife for her. Her friends couldn't take her in so she began to ask herself why she did that in the very first place?.
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How? This question is a good one to ask yourself anytime you want to take a step because once you miss your way in life it might be very difficult to find the right way agado and even if you find the right way on time, it will be very hard to go through it. Just like this woman in the story, assuming she has told her husband what was going on she might not lose her home, and assuming she never asked her friends for advice she might not lose her home but she was so carried away by her ex and she forgot her present home.
Where? Hmmm, when everything goes wrong where do you think you will go? or let me just say where do you want to start from? Because once you press the wrong button in life, it might be difficult to get back on track. The woman in the story asked her friends where they want her to start from and the one that was crushing on her husband before told her to start from somewhere because she was coming from somewhere you can imagine someone you call a friend telling such a thing.
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We should stop blaming people for our mistakes, especially ladies, stop blaming your friends for your mistake and wrong advice sometimes what they told you to do is in you already they just helped you to get to your destination with their advice, my grandma used to say that anyone that was told to do evil and she did it, the evil is in her already and she is just looking for someone to tell her to do so.
If this lady truly loved her husband, she wouldn't have exchanged numbers with her ex-boyfriend because once a lover will always be a lover no matter how long they keep their distance or how far they are from each other the day. After all, when they meet each other again they will remember everything they both shared.
And asking her friends for advice on what to do simply means that she wants to do it she just doesn't know how to start and they helped her so I don't blame them even though what they did was wrong but if she doesn't have the mind of cheating on her husband she wouldn't have asked her friends for any advise.
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What can you do without God
A happy new month to you all my beautiful people all over the world and I want to thank all my beautiful sponsors as well for always supporting me you all inspired me to keep writing and I appreciate that a lot.
**What can someone possibly do without God**? There is nothing anyone can do without God because He created the world and He knows where we are all heading too so if there is someone that still believes he's doing fine without God then such person is ignorance and God said it in His holy book that forgives them for they don't know what they are doing if you are still living fine and you don't trust God am sure God is just looking at you as ignorance and He keeps forgiving you for that.
**What can you do without the help of God**? I guess no because God is the only one that can help without expecting anything in return.
**In everything we are doing we should put God first**: my grandma says that something good needs prayer and something that looks bad too needs prayer so why are we not calling Him first before things got bad? Though He knows what to do about our bad situation He just wants us to learn from the situation and that is why He didn't answer the prayer yet but trust me He's listening to all that we are asking Him.
**When you wake up call God first**: hmmm sometimes we put our work over God and it makes us forget to call Him in the morning. Our mind is full of what we want to do as soon as we are awake Forget that He looks after us when we are asleep because the Bible says: "**He that looks after you doesn't sleep or slumber**" and instead of us appreciate Him for that we jump up from bed and ran off to work while He's looking at us, we forgot that when we put Him first our day will go smoothly without no stress because He doesn't want His children to be stressed out.
**When you are going out tell Him first**: yesterday when I was going to the market to buy an attachment for my shop I couldn't find a bike to carry me so I trekked for about an hour before I got to the market but on my way, I saw an accident, a trailer full of plastic drinks lust control over the break and the driver hit one shop which I don't know what was in the shop but at the back of the trailer there is a tricycle running after the trailer to take over the road and when the trailer hit the shop the tricycle followed him because he has over speed so he couldn't control the break anymore according to how people explained when I got to the spot where it happens.
What was I driving at with this accident if they have prayed for God to secure their going out such a thing might not happen don't get me wrong some do pray and still they will face such bad things in their way but at least put God first and allow Him to take control, it was said that people died in the accident but I don't know exactly how many because I was in a hurry to get to the market then I realized that I didn't pray too before leaving the house and I started praying with my mind while trekking, God won't let bad thing happen to His children but as we all claim to be His children are we putting Him first?
**When you want to sleep call God first**: this part is very good because we all are humans we don't see things or hear things aside from people talking meanwhile as we are humans spirits are moving and living among us even when we are asleep and God stood beside us while we are asleep to keep us safe from harm, while some sleep and died in their dreams am not righteous too because I don't pray often but I do try my best as I can though I know the best is not enough but what can I say than to thank God for not looking at the lapses.
Now we are in the new month meanwhile some just died a minute to the new month, all am saying is that God is first over everything we do, learn how to put Him first.
Happy new month everyone and thanks for reading.
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Life is all about risk
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Did I say take a risk to get rich? Yeah because the rich also take the risk to become what they are today so what are you afraid of? Failure? Well if you don't fail you can't win so just take the risk.
Is there anything in life that is not risky? Can someone do it without taking a risk?
Life is all about risk and the moment a child is born, he or she is exposed to risk. This is not a decision the child has to make and these things just happen naturally. Some risks are natural, they are bound to happen and the other kind of risk happens because we are trying to press forward in life.
As a lady you want to be pregnant and have a baby as well, did you even know that getting pregnant too is also a risk? Because some have gone through the process but they couldn't get out of it while some came out without the baby meanwhile some sacrifice their life for the baby to stay can you now see that it is also a risk but I guess it's all worth it because the happiness of becoming a mother is very deep and nothing can be compared to it.
Growing up in the world is a risk because as a child you don't know what is ahead of you, yeah life is sweet and sore at the same time just like what my grandma use to say: "life is like two sides of a coin if it faces you it will back another person" so as a child you are growing up and you are happy because you want to be an adult meanwhile it is not everyone that was born the same day with you survived while some died in the process of growing, can you now see that growing up in life is also a risk.
Life generally is all about risk for instance a child that was born we all know he or she will grow and become an adult and becoming an adult there is a lot attached to it like responsibility and this also means that you have to work meanwhile working is also a risk. After all, you don't know which work that will make you successful, forget about the huge salary some people have been there before and at the end of everything and money they end up being poor because that might not be their way to be successful in life.
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A man who can't take a risk can never be successful in anything, a man who fails to take a risk doesn't know his way yet in life because if you don't take a risk you can't know which way to go meanwhile you might even fail to take the risk and if you don't fail you can't win, such is life.
A trader who is planning on investing in a new business is about to take a risk he or she might not know the end of the risk but with a positive mind he will invest luckily he might get what he wanted and if the business is not meant to be he will lose everything but that's not the end of life because if you can't you must rise, you can't just lay on the ground for people to see that you have fallen so you must get back on your feet and keep running the race of life.
Even to die is also a risk simply because you don't know where you are going afterlife and you can't even say what is awaiting you up there but do you have a choice of not dying? I guess not because every one of us has to die but the date might just be different because we all don't come into the world at the same time so we can't leave at the same time, everything is all about risk-taking.
Take the risk and get rich that's life's principle and if you can't take a risk you can't be rich simply because doing business is also a risk.
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The enemy you know II
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Flora and Nathaniel talked for like an hour because the feeling they have for each other right from childhood is still very much there and Nathaniel explained how long he has been waiting to come back to the city just because of Flora.
In the morning Florence and Flora were preparing for work because they work in a bank as a cashier, they both set to leave when Florence discovered that her car is faulty then she asked Flora to borrow the car she was supposed to use Flora didn't think twice before handing over her car keys to Florence and she book taxi for herself Florence smiled and said that's why I love you.
They both went out that day but when Florence get to the halfway to her workplace place the car develop fault all of a sudden and she packed to check what was wrong again, while she was checking the car one young tall handsome guy asked from her back any problem young lady.
Florence turn to reply to the voice and she was carried away by the guy's cuteness and then she manage to answer him, while the guy is helping her to check what went wrong with the car Florence was busy looking at his muscles and after he fixed the car be said: the car was short of oil when he was about to leave Florence said: am Florence may I know your name please, then he answered Nathaniel.
Florence couldn't take her eyes off Nathaniel's body because she fell in love at first sight and she asked him for his number with the scope of thanking him later and Nathaniel as the gentle caring guy that he is gave her the number then left.
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When Florence got to work she didn't think of the fact that she was late but she was busy thinking of the guy's body and imagining that she hugged him just to feel his muscles, while her boss is in front of her watching how she's smiling without no control and then he bangs the door then Florence regain her senses, everything went well at work till closing time.
After work Florence quickly call Nathaniel and ask if he could meet her at a restaurant, Nathaniel the gentleman didn't argue he went there and Florence ask if they could become friends and he said yes so they did become friends but Nathaniel never had any feelings for her while Florence keeps dreaming for a relationship between the two of them, the friendship went on for like 2months and she never mentioned it to Flora at home meanwhile Flora do tell her about her guy because she and Nathaniel started dating already they couldn't hold it back just like then in school.
So one day Flora invited Nathaniel to their house to meet her beautiful friend and of course, Nathaniel came, he was sitting in the parlor when Florence came outside and she wasn't surprised to see Nathaniel, she thought her instinct was right about the relationship she thought Nathaniel figure it out and give her a surprise visit.
Florence: hey handsome
Nathaniel: oh hi what are you doing here (surprisingly)
Florence: I live here with my friend
Nathaniel: Oh I see, I came here to meet my fiancee
Florence: fiance! How but you didn't tell me you had one
Nathaniel: do I need to tell you? Because I don't remember having a relationship conversation with you.
They kept on arguing when Flora came in from where she went to get drinks for her fiance and asked the two of them what is going on with them, none of them could answer her because Florence felt like Flora cheated on her and Nathaniel doesn't want to ruin their long time relationship meanwhile Flora has already heard everything they are dragging when she wanted to enter.
If you are Flora what will you do to such a friend? Even though Florence didn't know them together.
And if you are Florence what will you do because what you feel for him is genuine.
And if you are Nathaniel what will you do? because you are now in between the two girls who love you.
The story continues.......
The enemy you know
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*My grandma used to say once you know your enemy he or she can't harm you again but if you don't know your enemy then your life is in danger*
*And the Bible even said it is good to keep your friend close but your enemy closer, though I don't know why but I guess to keep a close checking on them so that they won't harm you.*
A story of two friends was shared where I went to make hair yesterday they were so close to the extent that they wear the same design of clothes, I do tell people that it's good to know your enemy than your friend because your best friend might be your worse enemy.
The two friends were named Florence and Flora they are both more like a sister to each other but there is are things about Florence that Flora doesn't notice which is jealousy and hot temper, she thought that's her nature but I say anyone who has this two things together should be avoided because a jealousy person can actually out someone's life in danger and if someone is too hot temper her or she will do things without thinking of the outcome then they will regret later after creating problems for themselves and others.
The story continues.......
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Right from childhood Flora has always sacrificed for Florence because she loves her so much and when they grew up she is always like that Flora is used to sacrificing for Florence as usual but there is one thing Flora can't afford to sacrifice for Florence and the thing is her love.
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Nathaniel met Flora first way back in the secondary school and they both crushed on each other but they didn't get to date because Nathaniel's parents left the country for a business and they took him along with them and along the line, they both lost contact and ever since then Flora never fall in love with any man because her heart was sealed with Nathaniel's love and the same thing happened to Nathaniel too in oversea and he couldn't wait to meet her again but Flora didn't hope for him because she didn't know where to locate him even though he came back to the city.
On the other side, Florence is a very open girl who loves to mingle anytime she's single and Flora does warn her because one day she might end up falling in love and the love might hurt her so bad but she won't listen because she's adamant when it comes to the truth.
They are both 22 years of age but Flora is just 3months older, on her birthday Florence forcefully took her out to the club and Flora wasn't cool with the setting because she doesn't like going out but the outing was just like a miracle for her she doesn't take alcohol but her friend manipulate her to take a little which she did and she wasn't comfortable so she had to go to the restroom to ease herself and on her way, she coincidentally meets her first love Nathaniel and wow they both were surprised to meet each other again after a very long time.
She couldn't hold it back because of the alcohol in her body system she quickly hug him and he was so happy to have her in his arms because he has been dreaming to have it ever since his childhood but there was no chance to because he was too young to take her out and she was too young to go out as well but when something is meant for you then no matter how long it takes to have it or how far you are that same thing will find you and you will have it that's what happened to Flora and Nathaniel the day they found each other again at the club, it was as if they are both craving to hug each other for a very long time.
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There is time for everything
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Good morning my lovely people all over the world how was your weekend? Mine was great because I worked all through though am so tired this morning but am happy as long as am making money, don't mind me I like money and who doesn't? I guess no one because we are all working to make money.
I was inspired to write this post by one of my customers that came to make hair she was complaining of no sales in her shop area she is a fashion designer and she just opened the shop which is just 5month but any time she sees another fashion designer working she always feels bad because she was thinking that it could have been her working so hard like that.
Then I told her you can plant a tree one day and expect it to grow that day or the next day because grow of a tree takes a while and the same thing applies to humans, human life is a process it's a gradual process that needs a lot of patience as well as a success a child that was given birth to today can't stand to walk next tomorrow and he or she will start working for money the next upper day, he has to go through a growing process like opening eyes, opening mouth, learning how to walk, talk and so many more then when he is an adult he can start to think of working to have success.
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And if someone opens a shop he or she has to be patient and calm before people can start patronizing him or her because those people you want to sell market too has where they are buying it before so they can't just rush to you because are new there then the woman said she now understand because she was feeling tired and embarrassed already.
I could remember when I first opened my shop too February 14th I thought because I have opened it that's all then when I started going to the shop I became pissed because people won't come to ask of what am doing, I became tired just like this woman sometimes I won't go, it looks like a waste of time and waste of money because I do spend #500 ($1) daily and after a month of going that I didn't make sales I decided to stay back at home doing nothing, sleeping.
I spent like a week at home I didn't go to the shop, on Sunday someone called me that she wants to make hair and I was on my bed then I stood up dressed and went to the shop to make hair for her and guess what she like her hair then she brought almost 3 people to make hair from me and people that saw the hair on my status came to make the same hair from me.
Can I say this woman was sent to revive me back to work? I guess that's what happened because after that day I never for once stayed at home or get tired of my shop though it wasn't like as if I make hair every day but I just realized that the more people see the shop open the more they will want to know what am doing.
"**A Rome wasn't built in a day**," I said to myself when I resumed back to shop and that goes to work too a shop can't be built in a day nor can sales can't boom in a day it takes much more patient.
So in life, there is always time for everything, there was a time I was at home hoping to have a shop and there was a time I don't even have hope because I wasn't working and now that I have the shop am waiting for the time my sales will improve, even God said it in his word that there will be time for everything e.g time for birth, time to grow, time for work and time to sick even time to die. So don't push yourself too hard if your plan is not working yet I believe it's not yet time that's why you are going through those situations you are now.
Good morning once again and thanks for reading.
Put your children to the right path
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*As parents, your children are your life and you must make sure they are on the right path in life because as a parent you are just like your children's map in life.*
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This looks like just a sentence but it talks more about people who do unspeakable things in life, and some parents who destroy their children's lives based on what they have passed through in life because some parents are the reason why their children keep failing in life.
Yesterday I read a news about a guy who narrated his story and his family's story as well, he said his mom is very wicked and after maltreating his father and him she left them when he was just 6years old so his father sat him down at the age of 10years then began to lecture him never to trust any lady in life and never to love as well.
My question about this man is that what does he want to gain at the end of destroying his boy's life? Or did he want him to be single for the rest of his life just like him?
Will he be happy if the boy grows and he never has a happy life? Because your marriage with his mother doesn't work out that doesn't mean your children's life should go through the same process.
The boy grew well with an education and a good job but he never had a good woman to himself as said by him, he said he had girls when he was in the University and it never work and he even got married twice and the marriage collapsed without reaching any point so now he decided to do the unspeakable thing he decided to go against the will of God by getting married to his gender he married a man like him.
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My question to him is will his father allow that? Since there is no good woman out there again because here in Nigeria this is a shameful act for a man to marry his gender and the same thing goes to female as well.
How will he have children with a man like him? I guess he has children from the previous relationship if not how did d he intend to carry on his surname without children?
And then he said now that he has married the same gender as him, he lives a very good and happy life than before, how can someone be happy with the same gender in bed with you did he feel bad when touching him?
My own is that it is not what his father said that turned him into such a monster the act is in him already what his father lecture him about is just an escape root to do whatever he wanted to do
If God wants the same gender to settle with each he wouldn't have created different gender and it is written in the Bible that man shall marry a woman and not the other way around, what did he want to gain at the end of this rubbish he called marriage I guess he will be thinking of adopting a child for themselves and when the child grows what will he or she call the two of them? Daddy and Daddy or daddy and mummy.
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How did they intend to explain themselves to the child they adopted anyways it is their life and they can choose to live it anyhow they want but I strongly believe what they are doing is misleading some other youth out there because some youth must have been thinking of doing the same and the world will be full of man and man settling down with each other that sounds bad to hear that the same gender is going out with each other
I guess his father is happy now that he chooses to settle for the same gender with him because God gave him a child to train and lead him to the right path but he choose to lead him astray by himself.
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When grace found you
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My mom use to say it's better to rise from grass to grace than to fall from grace to grass and I pray we all won't fall from grace to grass but Deborah's matter is from grace to grace because everyone has looked down on her completely that she can never make it but at the end, she rise from grass to grace
From grass to grace is a story of a sister I use to know whom everyone in her house has thought she was the last person to make it but as God wants to do his wonder He remembers her for good.
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Her name is Deborah she never takes her education for granted since nothing is working for her except her education so she took it so seriously but in her hostel girls do abuse her for not having a boyfriend or any female friend and she never let that affect her studies at all because some people can push you to the wall and you will be affected but Deborah stood on her feet because her mother struggle to send her to school and she has made a promise to her that she will make her proud.
Deborah finished school and she couldn't get a job because she doesn't want to use what she has to get what she wants that's how things work now in Nigeria I don't know what those bosses intend to gain from such bad acts.
But instead of roaming about the street, she decided to sell roasted plantain with her mom beside the road and she was happy doing it since that's where her education fee comes from, am sure girls nowadays can't do that because they want to get rich quickly but Deborah is not a bad girl and she wants to keep to the promise she made to her mother.
One day someone came to buy roasted plantain and she mistakingly speaks to him then this man was forced to ask how coming Deborah speaks so well.
And she's selling plantain beside the road then she explained how hard it has been for her to get a job after she finished school this man felt her pain and then gave her his card to call him when she's less busy but Deborah was reluctant to collect the card because of what she has experienced when looking for a job but she collected it anyway.
Two weeks after she has collected the card and she never bothered to call since all the bosses want is to get down with her before giving her a job so she never call the man until when she and her mom was pursued away from where they are selling marking then she thought of giving it a try maybe that will be different from the others.
Thank God this one is different but he asked her to marry him and she said no to that because she thought he wants to date and dump her later when she got home she found her mother crying of hunger and this makes her change her mind towards the man's proposal you know when God is doing good we all will say it's bad because if they were not pursue from the market place Deborah wouldn't have thought about calling this man.
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She went back to say yes to him but in her mind, she was thinking the man just wants to have his way with her but as time goes on she fell in love with him and they get married automatically Deborah became rich she build a house for her mother as promised.
And the man opens a very big supermarket for her since that's what she asked him for this is how Deborah's dreams come true without no stress her life story is nothing but from grass to grace.
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It takes a lot to be a mother?
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What does it take to be a mother?
Is it by just giving birth?
Or by training children?
How does it feel to be a mother?
What does motherhood look like?
Am sure motherhood takes much more than just giving birth and these are the questions I keep asking myself each time I miss my mom because she's everything to me and I don't how to cope anytime something is wrong with her example if she's sick or if she needs anything.
You know as a lady I do feel like am a mother because someday I will become one but the fact that I haven't been there making me feel emotional anytime I miss my mom I know she will miss me more than I do but I have to work so I can't keep going home here and there.
I remembered some years back when I was little I got sick and my mom keeps going from one mountain to another just to pray for me because she doesn't want me to die and she couldn't afford hospital bills, I could still remember telling her to let me die because I always see my dad in my dream and I want to follow him the first time I told my mom to leave me to die she burst into tears and started praying because the hospital bills back then were too high for her and in the evening she called her pastor too to come and pray for me because of what I told her.
The sickness passed and I got back on my feet, the very first day I felt ok I told my mom that I want to eat which I never asked her before and she ran to the market to get foodstuffs just to satisfy me and I finished the food then she began to jump up that am feeling better after 30minutes I told her I want to go outside of our room because I spent almost 3months on my sick bed so she was happy to take me outside but I couldn't stand alone because I don't have the strength she gave me a chair outside and she went inside to clear the bed only to find all the medicine she has been given me at the back of the bed and then she came outside to ask me how I survive the sickness?
I told her that I don't know because I really do not know but the only thing I noticed was that my dad stopped showing up in my dreams, she took me back to school I started school and one morning like that I wanted to make pap for my junior sister and the water has already boiled then I pour the pap only for me to turn it on fire then the pot shifted and poured on my leg awww I couldn't hold myself from screaming, my mom ran inside again and said ha not again it shouldn't be you again.
She called the doctor and I got treated but I couldn't go to school again for like 3month because I can't walk, I can't stand and I can't even put on slippers so I have to stay at home all the day and watch everyone going out every day.
When my leg finally got healed my mom told me that I should never get hurt again because anytime anyone of her children gets sick or hurt she does feel like her world is about to crash and I have been thinking about that world ever since then but I still don't understand.
One day I went to my friend's house to make my hair and her son mistakenly fell in a pit in front of their house my friend jumped up and screamed Jesus! My spirit ran out of my body with the way she shouted and after she carried her son I asked her the same question I do ask my mom how does it feel to be a mother and she said that moment that the boy wanted to fall it was like as if her body was shocked with electric and she couldn't think of anything than saving her son from getting hurt.
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What a great creature God makes women because they know how to do it all and what to do at the right time am sure nothing can ever replace the space of a mother in a child's life because even the Bible says after God your mother next.
I love my mom more than anything though I don't stay close to her but she's right here in my heart.
Happy mother's day to my beautiful mother and to all the women all over the world including me because someday I will be celebrated as a mother too.
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What did you bring and what are you going with?
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Good evening my lovely people all over the world how have you all been? It's been 3 days now since I last posted or stay active online because I was very busy at work you know people will do Eid hair to look good after 30days of fasting so that's why I haven't been here.
I was inspired to write about this topic "what did you bring and what are you going with" by what happened at my shop on the second day of Eid at my shop area, this man is well known in my shop area as a caretaker which makes him so popular but he is a kind of person that doesn't joke with his money, of course, no one jokes with money but his matter is far different and aside from that he is very stingy but when it comes to someone's properties he can manipulate the person until he gets to share out of it.
On the day of Eid, his sons brought a big cow for him and his wife which is their mother so that they can celebrate with their neighbors and to share it for people in the area, so the cow was killed wash and fry after everything their mother told her house girl to pack all the meat inside and never to give it to anyone in the neighborhood, meanwhile people are happy that this man has kill big cow which means he wants to share food for them.
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*What do we bring into this world and what are you probably going with? Nothing we all came into the world empty-handed and whenever our time is up we are definitely going with the empty hands so why do some people think when they are going they will go with their houses, cars and the rest of their property?*
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The man came out and find people sitting outside of his house waiting for food to be served and he said: what are you all doing out here when you are supposed to be at home with your family celebrating Eid with them? One of them hail him and said: daddy we can't just stay at home since there is no food to celebrate and we saw you dragging a cow in which means you want to celebrate the Eid for everyone in the area.
The man told his security to wipe them with a cane and they should never come back to his house again, he said he only kill cow for him and his family, I was outside of my shop making hair while watching them, when one of them move closer to my shop my customer asked what happened and why did that man beat them up and he explained.
My customer is an elderly person so she knows everyone in that street very well so she said: ha my son you shouldn't have gone there because they will never give you even though you are dying of hunger, she continue to share more about what the man and his wife did to her and some other people in the street, they were invited to a party by this man and his wife and when they got there nobody attends to them she even said they didn't even give them a cup of water so ever since then she never passes her boundary to their side since she knew them.
Sometimes I wonder how some people get rich.
Sometimes I wonder what they think when people ask them for help.
Sometimes I wish some people never have money because of the way they behave towards the ones who don't have.
It seems like they don't understand why God gave them money and instead of helping people they will keep hurting them and mocking them just like this man and his wife meanwhile they have children who will still go outside they don't know that people that they mock today might be their helper tomorrow.
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5 things parents should avoid in the presence of their children
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Hello everyone how are you all doing today and how was your night over there? Mine was great because of the cold weather I slept like a baby till daybreak, I wish we can just have this kind of weather permanent here in Africa (Nigeria) but God knows why he shares it the way it is anyways let's get back to today's topic.
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"**5 things parents should never do in the presence of their children**" which are:
Lies
Bad talk about their father
Mocking people
Stealing
Fighting
****Lies****: never tell lies in the presence of your children because as a parent you should be the one to correct them never to tell lies and when they see you telling lies automatically you are sending a bad signal to them that it is good to lie and children are so funny at picking the bad side of their parents.
****Bad talk about their father****: women are fund of this especially the uneducated ones, anytime their husbands did something bad to them they will quickly call their children to tell them what their father did, while some love to talk back at their husbands in the presence of their children forgetting that those children are taking everything little thing they did as a lesson so when they go out that's what they will act on because their mother is doing it and they will never like their dad because of what their mother had told them or say in their presence.
****Mocking people****: once children get to know that you find it funny to mock people this will become their habit even when they are among their mates they can even talk to elders face to face about what they heard because they feel it is normal since their parents are doing it children are funny when it comes to mocking people they can tell the person you mock in their presence that their mother said so.
****Stealing****: hmmm this is a very bad habit which children should never see with their parents because it will take a long time before you can get it out of them once they get into it.
A short story about a woman who teaches her kids how to steal in my former house, that day I didn't go to work so I use that opportunity to rest and when am resting like that I don't like people to know am home so they won't disturb me, to them am not at home when I woke up I wanted to ease myself then I went to the bathroom only to find this little girl searching the house cleaner's bag for money but she didn't know I was at the backyard door and I just stood there watching her because I wanted to clear my doubt about what she's looking for in someone else's bag.
She brought out money and then put it on the top of her skirt and then ran away without knowing that anyone sees her so I went to the bathroom and go back inside after one hour the owner of the bag started looking for money and then began to swear(curse) for anyone that took the money, of course, no one knew I was inside so I came out to see if the girl will tell the truth but guess what she didn't she was even laughing the lady that was looking for the money.
I wonder what kind of future this girl will have because she doesn't see it as a bad thing, in the evening her mother was talking about how much her daughter has in her piggy bank and I was like oh really she does keep a lot and they don't know what I mean by that, parents should teach their kids the right thing to do to have the right future for themselves.
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****Fighting****: my grandma will say if you see any children that love to fight don't blame him or she just go and check her family he or she got it from her parents I never understood this when I was little until when I grow to know that what we all are doing is a reflection of what we got from our parents.
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