@Esthery97 19 November 2021

Foundation Lead image https://unsplash.com/photos/Lzfxzip-pNI It is a beautiful Friday morning over here with a brand new hope a brand new vibe and a brand new start, though we must have seen lots of Fridays but am telling you that you haven't seen today's Friday before and that is why you must make use of it productively And one more thing I want to say a very big thanks to everyone that prayed for my twin sister a very big thanks to everyone that wish her a quick recovery because a little prayer also count that's my belief so that's why am saying thanks to you all, she getting better now.

Today am going to talk about the "**foundation**"

https://unsplash.com/photos/Lzfxzip-pNI Firstly what is a foundation? Foundation is the solid layer of a house in the building aspect but in the life aspect foundation is the way you plan your life from the beginning and the line you lay for your generation to follow (my own definition) Let's now put this foundation into the life of parents, a parent who fails to lay a good foundation for their children will end up in regret because as a parent it is your duty to lay a very strong and a good foundation for your children to follow in order to go the right part in life Another thing is a self foundation as a child your parents have laid a good foundation for you but as a person did you lay a good foundation for yourself? You gain admission into the university as a student but instead of you to read and pass your exams you are looking for the backdoor a shortcut to pass without reading You are the head of the department in your working place but you are the one that always goes against the rules of the organization you are the one that comes to work late is that a good foundation to lay for yourself? Is that a good foundation to lay for the rest of your team? I guess it's a no You are a boss of yourself but you don't lay a good example at your working place because what you told your staff not to do but you are still doing it yourself is that a good foundation from you as a boss? I guess no. **Meet my beautiful sponsors** 👆 ****Short story**** A story of a woman who gave birth to two girls and anytime she sent those two girls to the market she will always tell them to buy something from Hausa man at first people thought because Hausa sells their things cheap but one day someone asked this woman why she always sends her little girls to buy something from Hausa man and her excuse was that she wants her children to marry early and Hausa people always marry little children. Then she face those kids and said my children never marry Yoruba men because they don't take care of women but Hausa does so if you marry them as young as you are they will always give you plenty of things. Then I was like these kids are still small for this kind of lecture but this woman won't listen to what anyone has to say or any kind of advice from her neighbor. **My question now is that...** Is that a good foundation for a little girl child? Is married a good foundation for a little girl child? Is that what she was supposed to be teaching a little girl of that age? A child that is just writing her common entrance to secondary with such bad orient at that tender age. Did you think such a child will even be thinking of going to school? That is why I always said some parents are the reason why their children's life is not good, teach your children the right part to follow in life and lay a good foundation for them so that they won't fall when it's time for them to be alone in life. Thanks for reading....