Does real friendship exists
I never thought true friends ever existed until what i heard and saw today in service.
During today's church services, every activity, including the sermon, was oriented on friendship. We were instructed to bring at least two friends to church today; sadly, I was only able to bring one buddy. As a drummer, I just attend church to play the drums and listen to the other instrumentalists. I'm not one of those people that is bothered by preaching
Following the Pastor's sermon, the moderators of today's Friendship Sunday began playing Friendship games. At first, anyone would write a letter to their best friend and come forward to read it aloud to the congregation, and it would be even more entertaining if the best friend was also present. A lady came out to recite what I'd call an ode to her best friend, declaring her love for her through thick and thin. When she began, I had already deduced that her best friend would be none other than Jesus, because her epistle's contents were so mind-blowing that no one saw it coming when her best friend ran forward to hug her. I was so shocked because i never thought ***best friends*** still exist.
After she left, another woman took up the mic stand and began her recitation, which was more akin to a poetry about friendship. She provided numerous reasons for having a best buddy. She provided examples of how friends may help one another and bring out the best in one another. Her performance was incredible, and she drew the audience out of their chairs. She concluded by saying that you can only have one best buddy. ***"She said," she explained. There is only one thing you need to do to make being anyone's best friend easy for you. * *_*****You must be honest with yourself"*****_***
When she said that, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That is simply the truth of making a good buddy. The only best friend you can ever have is someone else, but being true to yourself is the best way to get a best friend. Make no attempt to blend in or adapt to someone else's reality.
Be honest to yourself, love yourself, believe in yourself, assist yourself, understand yourself, prioritize yourself over anything else, and don't pretend to be someone you aren't.... There are a lot of things that can be stated about being true to oneself. Nothing can make us change who we are. It's the finest method to find your closest friend if you stay loyal to yourself.
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Happy boxing day guys
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Hurray!!! The perfect Christmas gift
I HAVE FINALLY PURCHASED MY CHRISTMAS GIFT!!!!!!
Are you curious as to what it is? Please read on as I offer my personal experience.
WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS THIS?
This is what I had to go through when I went shopping to get Jesus a gift/present...
I wanted to get him a""SHOE,"" but what kind of shoe can you get for a man who's footstool is the earth?
I thought about getting him a""THREE PIECE SUIT,""but what kind of suit can I get a man whose wardrobe has filled the temple?
I considered purchasing him""DINNER,"" but this man fed 5000 with 2 fishes and 5 loaves of bread, so I decided to play him a ""ORCHESTRA,"" but what type of music can be compared to the host of Angels always singing his praise?
I wanted to get him a phone, but which network would I give a man who is constantly on the move?
I resolved for the"BEST WINE""but I remember he converted water into wine, Okay, I thought of "BINOCULARS OR CAMERA"'but he sees even in the inner core of Man with his bare eye's.
I wanted to gift him"MONEY," but he owns silver and gold; I could acquire a""DESIGNER PERFUME,"" but a lot more expensive one was used on his feet.
WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS THIS?
In my daze, I overheard a voice saying "GIVE HIM QUALITY ADORATION AND WORSHIP.
My fellow believers, I admonish you all that this season isn't just for fun, but for honest and real devotion to God in truth. The wise men set an example by falling down to worship God in truth even after bringing the gifts for the baby.
I guess you have learnt from my experience ☺️😊
I Remain my humble self Eddyblinks 💕
MERRY CHRISTMAS IN ADVANCE 🌲🌲🌲🎄 TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND WELL WISHERS AND EVERYONE IN GENERAL,
I LOVE YOU ALL AND MAY CHRIST LOVE DWELL IN OUR HEARTS RICHLY 💕😊
A listening hear:
If you don't have this1 thing called a "listening ear," you have failed miserably as a parent in guaranteeing the safe growth of your child's well-being.
Many childhood crises arise as a result of parents' incapacity to pay attention to their children's complaints.
The child becomes disheartened and apprehensive about a variety of things as a result of his or her feelings of rejection and despair.
Children require a listening ear as they develop.
Pay close attention to whatever they say.
You have no idea how much it means to them, how heavy the burden is, or how it impacts their mental health.
What we've outgrown is what they're going through right now.
You don't expect them to suddenly adjust and act as if nothing happened.
Do not laugh at a child's remarks; they mean so much more than you can realize.
A rape victim may have told his or her parents about how he or she was raped "They've been harassed privately by a Man or woman in the neighborhood, and all they've gotten in return is "common shut your dirty mouth!"
What kind of nonsense are you talking about?
How can you accuse your uncle in such a clumsy manner?"
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All of this is significant.
There was a lot that could have been prevented, but no one was listening.
Many traumatized people could have been spared if listening ears hadn't been preoccupied with anything else.
This piece was inspired by an experience with a small child, whose identity I shall not reveal.
I was able to extract this tiny lesson towards the end of our talk.
Your child should always come first, and you should always listen to them.
@Eddyblinks