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Question Time...
Hello everyone, its Dangerous_Fly once again. Please subscribe if you haven't and leave a like or comment. Thank you. I intend on doing some things like asking your opinion about some situations. Please let's do well to drop our suggestions or views. Opinions are mostly different among individuals, groups, organizations and a whole lot of different "things" but looking at each is preferably the best. The question is, as a young person who is now getting into a relationship what will you look out for among these two . A person that will make you happy ; love you and make you feel at home but can't pay the bills in the house simply because he is **broke** **OR** A person who is really rich and can provide all that you want for you; is it the bills, shelter , extra money or what ? But he can't just make love to you since he is always at work. What to consider while choosing your point..(**checkpoints** ).. Love is necessary why we get into a relationship and it is really honourable to marry someone who loves you. Money again is of great essence in relationship since it of great value. Love is of essence of which money can't buy it(Money can't buy love) .Do you on not been happy at home but always idle no happiness simply because your partner is not always at home ? Of all that also, love can't pay the bills but money does . Do you intend on been "ejected" from your house because of love a d leave a poor life just because you love the person ? Please drop your views and why you will choose this or that. Please make sure your answers tally with or explain the above **checkpoints**. I will be at the comment section to ask more questions or reply to your comments . Thank you.
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it's not true that money cnt buy you happiness. you are happy if you travel, have new things, when your kids go to a good school,etc. and this can be done with money. But money alone is not as powerful as it is shared with someone you love.. dont settle for someone with money alone hence, settle for someone you truly love and loves you back and climb the ladder of success together and get rich together. Same goes with love alone. Love and money is essential to life. choose both in one person.. 😊
I would rather choose the person that makes me happy even that person cant pay the bills in the house and this is my explanation regarding your checkpoints. 1. Why do you marry a person? What is the essence of marriage? It all because of love. Nothing else. That's why there's a vow in the wedding that for richer or poorer, for sickness and in health, till death do us part. You will still love each other. 2. Money is great essence yes. Everyone wants money for living but for me its not totally important. Wanna know why? Because I can make money for myself. I earned with my own. 3. I preferred love over money. I choose love of family over everything. Why you choose to build a family? Is that because you want a comfortable life? or you want someone who can call a family that always there when you need them. 4. I'd rather choose a poor life and be with the man I love until the day I die :) Besides we can help each other to be better. As long as you live there is hope. It doesnt mean that you met him poor, he is poor forever. You can help each other, you can encourage each other.
Money can buy material kind of hapiness. When you buy something with money and give it to someone, they become happy. But love you can't buy with money. Regarding your question.. I choose the 1st one., i'm use to being poor but i have the capability to find a job or use my abilities in order to live so i don't need a rich man to give me money for an earthly hapiness.
If you Love and planned to have a family choose a man that can provide you all your needs, you can't say that you will love the person even he can't provide your need's for me as man before entering relationship make sure that you can earn money by your own way without the help of your parents you need to be an independent man before you enter and plan to have a relationship or a family rather. In real life i can't see relationship that last longer without money.
The optimum goal in any marriage is love and happiness... These two things is unquenchable.... One day money will finished if it's not wisely spent One day a man who doesn't get a job will get. So I will rather choose the first one and support it with Prayers. Although, am a lady and most times what we want is money, love, happiness, and fun But if we can't find love, happiness and fun we will soon get frustrated in the marriage and lastly, we will save alot of money, invest in something good and finally divorced the money making husband and go out to remarry to someone who can take care of us deeply....
Good guestion, if is just a relationship fine, but when it comes to marriage , you must wait on God for your right one . Do not be decieved by site, it only God who gift maketh rich and add no sorrow thanks.
well for me i think ill choose first one because with you beside ur man can encourage him to be successful and accompany him in the struggles he will face in becoming successful ..
I choose the first one or the letter a, being broke doesn't mean a lifetime n once u commit into a relationship, u became partners n partners helped each other n u will have everything together or even save some money too, it takes two to tango like the saying goes, so if u really love the person even if he's broke, u will find a way to help him or her to pass or overcome it
I go with the first. If he can't pay the bills, I should be able to do so.
The first one for me. Life is like a wheele . some up some down. If your partner is not able to do that .. You should have plan too to get paid for that. married is not about money its about how you communicate and understand each other up and down.
Yes i think I'll choose the love, thats why many women cheated to their husbands because they cant make love or give a small amount of time to their wife. But cheating is bad peeps, and yea also money can't buy happiness if we're talking about real and genuinely happiness.