@DanLawan 20 December 2021 edited

My attractions, repulsions and what keeps me around. **What attracts me is not what keeps me** Yesterday has been such a long and busy day . I couldn't even get a chance to think of something good to write here...because my mind is so exhausted. The day is finally over and I was sitting in front of the house with a friend gisting about relationships. Then he was talking about what attracts him to a lady, his likes and dislikes. He gave his own interesting points on why he prefer a lady with some certain qualities and so and so. And I also shared my own opinions serious ones and sarcastic ones. It was a funny conversation.

*But the thing about me is I'm kinda diverse and dynamic when it comes to relationships. What attracts me is not always what keeps me.* **Now allow me to share with you some of my view points regarding my attractions, repulsions and what will keep me.**

**Attractions:** 1. As you must have guessed and generally what attracts a man at first sight to a lady is **her beauty, her physical attraction.** The beauty in her face and body, i don't care about her complexion as long as she's pretty. Then her body structure(moderate body, not too slim, not too chubby)Hight; preferably tall but not talker than me, I'm about 6.5 feet...so if she's taller than me...hah! then she's too tall. 2. Second one is **her maturity.** Not just by age but by her attitude, character and behavior. I hardly tolerate ladies who act silly and too childish. I get so captivated by those maturedly well behaved girls. 3. **Intelligence, common sense and Sense of responsibility.** Lots of people have great intelligence but few among them are capable of using common sense. A girl with both intelligence,common sense and sense of responsibility is like the **most precious gem to me. She knows things and always take responsibilities for her actions.** 4. **Respectful**. Respect is very vital organ in a person and the lost of it is very crucial to a relationship. Therefore a respectful lady is a perfect gift. **Repulsions** *This things always win in pushing me out of a relationship. I just can't tolerate them, probably because of my sensitivity. Yeah I get a bit sensitive at times.*

1. **Talkative and Lying.** Some girls are kin to telling lies because they talk too much. And don't get me wrong I like girls who talk alot, who always have something to say. But if what they will open their mouth to say is a lie then I'll definitely pass on that. And if they do it constantly I get bored,tired and annoyed. 2. **Unclassy and unreserved.** Have you ever had a girl that you're in a relationship with became friends with guys, total strangers right in front of you? And welcomes every guy that opens teeth and smile at her. That is very annoying and a major turn off. **What keeps me** The beauty of a girl may attract me but what will keep me stuck with her is her **good character, Good manners, intelligence, sense of responsibility and ethics**. My humble appreciation to my upvoters@Ling01, @Greatwolfman @HappyBoy @Maryjacy @George_Dee @Bilqees @Miika @FarmGirl Thank you so much for your contributions. So that's it, thank you for reading my read.cash people. What's your opinion?