@DM 3 January 2021

Being in love

Isn't is strange, how you had a very normal thought process with a routine lifestyle and you used to spend most of your time with friends and family but then, one day, a random person catches your attention and a strange mixture of hormones yield you confused, conscious and excited at the same time. Initially, people would always ask themselves : **Is it love or what?**. Soon, you find that a strange set of events is now added to your lifestyle and you can't deny it no matter how hard you try. This new curiosity about that one face eats you up most of your time and you do things to satisfy yourself. You want to know everything about that face, you want glimpses every now and then, there's a weird smile every time you come across each other, you are offended whenever someone jokes about this new friend whom you are strangely fond of and of course, you can't see them getting closer to anyone other than you..it is true in my case at least. How bewildering it is to become the greatest admirer of a face out of billions, having it all the times in your mind and trying to be as close to it, physically, as possible. This state may render even some really smart and mature minds restless. How to be sure of it though? It's mostly not that easy but if it's uncontrollable, then it's a sure thing, you are in love. When this feeling is new, mind remains in a very pious state about your dream face. These days, social media plays a big role and chit chat starts over there very soon. It's really pretty easy to contact almost everyone these days. 90s people be like : **we barely had letters, pigeons........you guys can chat even on payment app**....If both of you feel the same way, you chat from minima to maxima everyday and those innocent chats are the best. If you are not the comfortable flirty types before being together, you really will love your chats when you read them sometime in future given you are together now. Those chats can be your **topic of love** for a day over some great coffee. These chats often lead to conclusions and finally, one of them comes with proposal and its really amazing in case of true love. People speak their heart out while they try to earn their better half. The process before we decide to propose is really discomforting though. We don't know what's gonna happen and even if we have a intuition that it's gonna be a yes, out heart pumps more than normal and we really are on cloud nine if its a yes. It's something so satisfying as spring, sun soothing your souls, pleasant warm scented breeze bidding farewell to cruel winter, flora being awarded with a new life, birds chirping with a marvelous music of their own and harmony persists. Thankyou....<3