Sex Workers Reveal What Their Partners Think Of Their Career 1. Escort here. My boyfriend of 6 years knows and he is the one who corresponds with the guys and sets everything up. He thinks it’s hot. 2. I dated a sex worker before. I would drive her to her appointments sometimes so she felt safer and had an escape if needed. One of the times I literally just chilled under a tree near the guy’s apartment reading a book. 3. I used to do cam shows in my last relationship, I just…
@Choline in September 2020
Cliche Pieces Of Advice That We Need To Retire Once And For All Have you ever gotten some advice that, well-meaning though it may be, is not always helpful? Not only is it not helpful, but often it’s just plain incorrect as it pertains to your life. Today, I want to include a few of those cliched pearls of wisdom that, as far as I’m concerned, we can retire once and for all. If you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life. Once upon a time, I believed this. I…
Through Love Of Two cat I Never Asked For, I Got Everything I Needed One Sunday afternoon at the end of last summer, my husband and I were sitting on the couch watching television when I got the distinct feeling we were being watched. I looked to my left to see a black cat with a tiny strip of white down its nose gazing back at me through the back door. It narrowed its eyes at me as if it were inspecting me, sizing me up. We continued this stare down for a few moments before…
The Things We Do In The Night I’m working my last night shift soon. It is a self-destructive behavior that I have only participated in begrudgingly at best for the last four years. I am writing this in the spirit of nostalgia and because I know I don’t have to do it much longer. Usually, I like to tell people what a shitty experience it is and that you tend to smell really bad at the end of it. I remember my first night shift well because I spent it miserably and mildly…
The Truth About This Year Time has stopped for all of us this year. It has created this parallel world where all that mattered no longer does, and in a collective unit we all began to experience our lives in uncomfortable ways. We had no place to run and hide. It seemed as if the world had taken a deep breath and we were all waiting for the exhale. In that gap is where life began again. Many of us had to confront the things we were running from. Where do you go to escape…
Writing A Book Taught Me About Life About a month ago, I accomplished a lifelong goal of mine. I completed my first novel. As I trudged my way through the writing process, I couldn’t help but think about the ways that writing a book is a lot like life. We make a plan—an outline, if you will—of what we want to happen. We think we have all the answers figured out, but sometimes the story just needs to tell itself. Sometimes the characters have minds of their own and you wind…
My Happily Never After At first, it felt like a dream come true. Finally, a storybook ending that I’d been praying all these years for. A fairytale. I thought maybe all the heartbreaks and pain in the past were worth it because they brought me to you. I guess my head was in the clouds. Just like Icarus, I was flying too close to the sun. And as it turns out, what comes up really must come down. You’re my happily never after. A dream not meant to come true. A wound that will…
Answers to what went wrong in your previous relationship We are certain that you get envious and your heart pinches every time you find on your feed a picture of any couple celebrating their x years of being together. It makes you question whether there is something wrong with you that none of your relationships last more than a couple of months. First of all, you have to stop blaming yourself right this minute. It takes effort and dedication from both the partners to keep a…
Love Complications MISUNDERSTOOD STONEWALLING Your dear one may have stonewalled you due to unforeseen cropping up of troubles in their family or for any other reason, which they may not be comfortable sharing with you. Do not pester them to reply to every text of yours or lose your cool if they choose to remain quiet. POLICING Freedom, equality, liberty, and respect, are demanded by people of today’s age. No one can tolerate being told what to do, what to wear when to go…
What happens to your body when you kiss? Kissing is obviously pretty awesome and most of us enjoy the process. It makes us feel good and generally, the idea of kissing or being kissed by a person you like is pretty appealing. But do you know what actually happens to your body when you kiss? What chemical reactions take place, how does kissing affect you on a physical and on a psychological level? Did you know that kissing can actually be beneficial to your health? Well,…
Life Wouldn’t Be The Same Without A Great Sister To Share It With I cannot remember a time in my life that did not have you in it. From the time my brain started creating memories, up until the present, you are the only one that’s constant. I remember how I used to want to be an only child. It would have been great not to share anything with anyone. But looking back, I know, my childhood wouldn’t be as fun if I did not have you. And contrary to my desire to have everything…
This Is The Beauty In Finding Your Chosen Family Whether or not you have been fortunate enough to experience the charm of unconditional love, security and acceptance in traditional family dynamics, the opportunity to choose and create those spaces with people outside of your bloodline is abundant. Queer this shit up! Love fiercely and plenty. Embrace the gift of community. Never force a connection. What is meant to be will always flourish with time. It is a blessing to have…
This Is Why You Need Your OWN Community, Even In A Relationship I recently had a deep realization that will forever change the way I cultivate and value relationships. And, with every earth-shattering self-discovery comes a backstory. So let’s kick it off with a chapter from the tragic tale entitled Mistakes I Have Repeatedly Made in Relationships. Sounds fun, right? I did this twice, once for most of my teenage years, and then again for all of my twenties so far. For the…
Ways To Stop Overthinking And Start Taking Action We humans have a complex way of interpreting the world around us. Our consciousness is certainly unique in the animal kingdom, as it allows us to accomplish great feats. But it’s not without its drawbacks. Along with our capacity to reason and process intricate thoughts comes the possibility of being consumed by them. Overthinking can leave us feeling lost and befuddled, but we’re by no means helpless in the battle to reclaim…
When Life Gets Hard, Be Your Own Best Friend Recently I found myself going through a tough time in my life. Like anyone else, I think I’m so much harder on myself and less forgiving than if it were someone else. Why are we so good at making others feel seen and heard? Why are we so good at comforting them and making them feel better? You know you have a good therapist when she asks you point blank, “Would you talk this way or be this hard on a friend?” The image of my…
I Don’t Need To Be Your Whole World, But I Want To Be Part Of It It should go without saying but this is my promise to you, so long as you’re with me, your life will remain yours and yours alone. I have never thought of true love as someone being there at your side every moment of every day, but being free, and encouraged, to pursue your own passions and to share in the spoils of your triumphs together. If you need to get away, then pack your things and go, send me a…
I Still Keep You In My Heart These are the words Taylor Swift has described as Sad Beautiful Tragic, in one of the best breakup songs she wrote this decade. And I couldn’t agree more. Because somehow, there’s truth in it. Somehow, these are the words that pushed us away and eventually, we grew apart from each other. If it wasn’t because of the distance, do you think you would’ve stayed? If the timing was right, do you think our love will remain? These are the questions that…
Your wife is your wife Don't allow your friends or your family to get between you and your spouse. Don’t associate with anyone who hates, disrespects and dishonors your spouse. Make them clearly understand that you and your spouse are one. There is no competition between your wife and your friends.
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Even broke guys will be calling girls gold diggers,bro which gold can she dig in you when you’re an ordinary aluminum.
Most of the silent sacrifices done in the family were done by dad but we never care to appreciate their effort because we hardly spend enough time to discuss such with them until it's too late or we are in position they are before then we learn to appreciate it.
A lost Friend A long lost Friend is a love story that almost goes south. He is the one who disappeared before you. He is the closest person to you, but fate has not brought you together. The one who wakes up your demon and drives you crazy. He's the person you want to keep in your life, but some things cannot be. He's the person you meet at your friend's meeting, and even if you haven't spoken for many years, the situation remains the same. He's the one who ultimately makes…
The perfect girl for you The perfect girl ;a girl you know within yourself. She's the one who knows that you always exist. The one that make you feel at home. Someone who is like many of your good qualities. She's the person you are proud of. A girl who understands you more than you do. A girl seeking love, not dreams
Who is a brother? The person who you are, tagging, categorizing, persecuting and rejecting. The people who treat you the way you deserve when you are rude. This is the simplest person, whether you are staying at home, cooking or walking. He's the person you communicate with because you want it, not because you want it. He is the person you are talking about when you travel. The person in an ongoing relationship that never ends.
Who is a sister? Sister is a family that welcomes you. She's someone who has no clear idea of who you are and who you should be. She's the one who wishes you well and does not envy your achievements. She is the person you want to be happy and live your best life. She's the who is connected to you by blood, and more than that her souls are connected to you.
godmother A godmother is your friend in your darkest moments. She is like a friend who is left without everyone. She is like the friend you call when you are in deep ignorance. She is like a friends who make the world beautiful and kind. She is like the friend who says what you will hear, not what you will hear. She is like the friends you will always see in your life.
Her first letter after our fight Even if you look happy, you can be sensitive. I have a very big heart and I am always there when someone needs me. Even if you don't deserve my love or affection. You can kick me over and over, but trust me. Don't take advantage of my generosity. You can no longer travel alone. To be honest? I just want to live. Material things don't make life happy. Dear You are more than you can give me. Place it where you see it. Set as notification on…
My love concept I think I love her a little. With that in mind, I've never been against a good romantic relationship. I'm a simple person. You don't have to do much to please me. Rose red usually prefers orange, but? Just like you only need one some time with you, I really only need little time. Take my hand as you walk. Make me dream of kissing you in the rain. Little things will make me laugh. Laughter and love are two of the many philosophies in my life. You were…
Be Creative You must not hold back from creating what you have to create for fear of failure. If what you are doing represents what you are feeling or thinking, how could that be wrong? If that means something to you, it's more expensive than any price anyone can charge. What you make is yours and you determine its value. The world will never agree on what is perfect because perfection is a myth. Create what you want to do and always know that your art will be priceless
Perfection is just a myth Someone's unrealistic standard of perfection cannot determine the value of whatever you produce. The beauty of art is that no artist and no work of art will ever be the same. The tracks can be played and played, but what you create is unique to you. There may be days when you are not very happy with what you have created, but that doesn't mean what you are doing is useless. We spend so much time focusing on the quality of the content we produce that…
We can never understand pain The tip hurts in some form or shape. Sometimes we can't help but ask God why the things we love are being taken from us. We may never get all the answers. And maybe you shouldn't. All we have to do is say our peace to those who are lost, greet those who come, and wish the best to stay on the path.
Protect yourself You should continue to defend yourself against people who knock you down, hurt you, or make you feel bad enough. I hope you can always protect yourself from those who want to belittle everything they do. Occupation, talent, interests, or hobbies. Don't let their comments take up a lot of space in your head and don't let them see you in your mirror. Protect yourself from those who don't wear shoes daily. However, you have the right to say what to do and what…
Life is not always straight Even if your plans have changed, even if your schedule is different, even if this year doesn't go as you envisioned - you don't fall behind. Our life path does not depend on things happening exactly as we imagine them to. In fact, the unexpected often opens up opportunities that our radar doesn't miss, ideas about life and love and the world itself that we continue to see. When you know it's time to slow down, simplify, make it easier, enjoy your…
Learn to Forgive In the end, life goes on even if you're hurt Forgive yourself and move on! Learn from the experience and do BETTER from now on - but it applies to me and you. If you stop in the situation and / or apologize repeatedly, it will not affect you. Trust me, if chooses not to forgive someone , you are not ready to move on with your life. You won't hold anyone but you, darling.
Have vision Sometimes a lack of vision really means a lack of thought. You'd be surprised how useful it can be to remove - or at least silence - your ex from social media so they don't randomly appear at your events and ruin your day. It's much easier to work with someone if you aren't constantly reminded. While you may feel wrong about removing your ex from your life, the thing to remember is that you should do whatever is most comfortable for you. Do what helps you heal.…
Life is a mystery Life is mystery. It doesn't work following a certain rule. However, t until you get to know the best and worst that life has to offer that's when you will begin to understand life. Life sometimes gets better than you can imagine, and sometimes it ger undoubtedly easy. But it is often the other way around. Chances are, meetings today will ultimately affect you, your profession, hobbies, friends, and even other people. The number of days you spend doing…
Your ex You must be sane while in a friendship or relationship, don't be blind and become insane. Unfortunately,we cannot become friends with most our exes. So much history. Too much drama. There is too much unresolved suffering. However, if they want to be friends with you, you should make sure of the following : You are doing it for yourself You should not give them your all They can still hurt you again You should set boudaries They know too much about you You should not…
Must Read There is no fear of falling away from grace. This happens when we are so happy that we are afraid that something will collapse. This is the wrong connection between happiness and vulnerability. When we hear about a problem, it usually begins with the words "It's okay, bye ...". This makes us subconsciously believe that if things didn't go well, we will suffer the worst. First of all, this story is a product of projection. When you think about it, everything seems…
Reality is different from feeling I believe that everything you feel is real. Emotional thinking is all that seems to be true. You treats emotions like a fortune teller. You cannot separate your feelings about reality. If you have feelings, identify them or give reasons. Sometimes it works. When you are happy with someone, you can conclude that you like them. However, emotions are not always driven by reality. Emotions are caused by a number of factors: psychological,…
Being Strong When you are always strong, you usually suppress your desires, thoughts, and even emotions. If you are always strong, try to pass your problems on to others. You take it as a burden on those you need to serve. And you usually don't always ask for help because you are too busy taking care of others. But a strong person sometimes faces his own problems and reaches the limit. The truth is, we are the strongest and in the end we need someone the most. Now I know…
I'm tired Fatigue was not enough to explain the situation I was in. I'm tired. Yes, this fatigue goes beyond physiological fatigue. It is psychological and emotional. I'm tired of being strong. As a strong woman, I'm tired of getting a smile on my face every day and being a superwoman for everyone. Suddenly I am sitting here feeling depressed and lost and I don’t know where to look. I have denied my own feelings for so long and now I feel like a person who needs to be…