@Ching13
One of the injustices of life is being judge by others, when those judges might be guilty too. Don't scrutinize people with a microscope instead view them from a comfortable distance. And allow some room of compassion and mistakes. We are human and we're not perfect.
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I wonder what people see as judging. If it comes to criticism, advises people easily talk about judging but is it? Or is it we only like to hear how great we are? Judges judge, in some countries communities with elder and witnesses judge. Do teachers judge? What about employers if they tell you you are sacked because you stole from them? Do parents judge? 🤔
We are not perfect and we tend to judge others accidentally. But human as we are should widen and open our mind to those people that being judged. Like for example, those students that do not listen and distract other learners. They might be doing it because they need attention that they dont earn from their house, or there must be other reasons for that. So, as teacher you must need to know that and do something about it.
Sorry, but I find this a bad example of judgment. It's impossible to ask yourself if those students or bullies or the nasty, mean teacher have a shitty time at home. It's clear they want to be noticed 24/7 but so do those silent, introverted children no one cares about or judges because they are labeled as "good kids".
I lived this for many years. I'm 58 years old, and I cannot stand people who judge, any more. Better alone, and happy. Those people, do not stand to be judged, by you, for a minute.
I'm sorry for hearing that you lived for it years. And you are strong man. I wish you happiness, despite of being alone.
I wonder how come people judge(d) you or if it's more the culture or society you live in. Those who judge, to me these are the same people who gossip will always gossip no matter where you live or hide. It's just it infects you not as much because you don't hear it. 💕