@Caj
Happy Friday!!! Kumusta kayo ka-breadwinners?
@Caj
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Good evening guys. How's Friday? ..
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Marrying YourSelf There was a time that I heard this line from someone and I thought that person is weird. Of course, who would have thought that this is possible? This may sound so ridiculous if you will not dig deeper into what this ideology means. I was lucky enough because the boredom I am in right now led me to one of the motivational speakers and a relationship coach who tackled this not so usual thing called marrying one's self. Who would have thought a woman who had three failed marriages will have an impact on how I will see myself. She definitely gave me the courage to reinvent myself. A woman who you might think of, as plain as she appears whenever she gives a speech in front of the crowd has a sturdy, big heart. Of course, I think she has. Because she won't be able to move forward and remarry again and again if she's not a superwoman in this generation. As I look back on my childhood I thought before that I belong to the unlucky one's category. While listening to her life story, It opened my eyes that I can still consider myself lucky. Why would I think that way when I did not finish my degree (yet) and I'm 34 now? I don't have a stable job and I'm a widow. Well If you will be able to listen to her speech, then you will know what I am talking about. That, I need to be thankful enough with where I am right now. Going back to why would someone needs to marry herself or himself... It's about acceptance. It's an ability to live by the fact and fully-abled to accept your own flaws. For that, you will be able to move forward, grow, and develop yourself the way you wanted to be. That no matter what happens during the process, you will still love and respect yourself. No self-pity and no negativity will break you.
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Anyone who's still up? What's your plan on how to spend your Thursday?.. 🤔
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Hirap matulog.. Anyone who's still up? How do you plan to spend your Thur$day?🤔
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Pescatarian When it comes to diet, I am one of those people who has but a restricted diet. Not because it's my choice, but my health requires. I am not a pescatarian, obviously but I would like to tackle this kind of diet. Maybe because I tend to envy people who can have this kind of diet choice. I was browsing my feed on Facebook and then I saw this interview with Andi Eigenmann with Korina. She mentioned that she and her boyfriend are Pescatarian. I got curious and so here I am now. This kind of diet has a lot in common with vegetarians. They eat fruits, veggies, nuts, seeds, whole grains, beans, eggs, and dairy, and stay away from meat and poultry. If you think you love fish and seafood more than meat, this might suit you. It adds the lean protein offered by seafood to the health benefits of vegetables. A pescatarian diet is full of nutrient dense, high fiber, lower calorie foods, so it could help users who want to lose weight as well. Whatever diet you chose to, try to consult your Dietitian first. It's always better to consult professional first before diving into an adventure of a diet plan. Always remember, "Health is Wealth".
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How's your Wednesday? fun?, blessed?, feeling tortured?, or boring?..Care to share your thoughts?... Feel free!
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Hello! Ask lang ako ng feedback. Mga mga PLDT user ba dito? Gaano ba matagal bago na-install Net nyo? How about si Globe postpaid? Ok ba upload speed niya?
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Good evening! How's your Monday?...
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Self Pity or Pride? "How are you today?" this is the usual line my close friend asks whenever she messages me on Facebook. She is one of my best friends. It's been 18 years after high school graduation. That was the last time we saw each other. I'm a bit confused now if I really want to see her in person. I'm afraid that changes will happen the way we talk virtually. If you call someone a friend, is it necessary to see each other often? Or is it okay not to make an effort to see each other? Confusing, yes. Since I feel that I will not be comfy enough to see her now. I don't know maybe because I'm afraid to confirm that everything has been changed. Well, every time we chat, seems like nothing has been changed and I want that to stay the same. I don't know really what this emotion of mine is coming from. Maybe because life has been tough on me lately, and I don't want anyone close to me to see it how rough I am going through right now. Enough that she knows everything I am experiencing nowadays but I can't allow her to see it with her own eyes.
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Small Opportunity of Getting a Fat Chance in Love Nowadays I am running out of meaningful things to do. So, I decided to watch a movie. It's an Indi film. It's a love story of two opposite person. They're different in a way you could never guess. Well, this movie is somewhat realistic. Actually it was based from a true to life story. From a hopeless romantic point of view like me, this kind of love story might be happening maybe can happen with 5 percent chance. Lucky for you if you will be among that 5 percent. I wish I am too! The story evolved with a young lady with a big heart but having some issue with her body image and a young man who is technically with a boy next door image. Since they have different circle of friends, you can never imagine how their lives came across. After watching this movie I came to realize that love really moves in mysterious ways. So if you are still single and you think that the man of your dream will never come,think again. Don't lose hope. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
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Sinong gising pa dyan?.. Happy Sunday guys!😊
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Happy Sunday!♥️ Feel free to share your thoughts here...
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Friends Are you a friendly person? How many friends can you make on the first day of your job? Ten, twenty, or more? Lucky for you. I myself struggle a bit making friends. But don't you dare judge me, I have friends not just as many as you have so-called "friends". I am an introvert so it's challenging for me to start a friendship. I make friends just for somebody that I can feel a connection with. Someone that I feel I can be myself with. It is somewhat important for me that I can feel the genuineness of that person. It's kinda weird, but you can feel that something is off if that person is really meant to be a good friend for keeps. I can say that I am a shallow person when it comes to choosing friends, easy to please. I still have my childhood friends. And I have a few friends whom I meet during elementary and my highschool days. I was lucky enough to get to know some as well during college days. And a few people from my previous work. Not as many as others have, but I'm sure that they are for keeps! I don't make friends with anyone whom I can feel she might use you in any way she can. Dependable is way different from being usable. If you really want real friends, you should ask first yourself if you deserve one.
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May mga K-pop fan ba dito? Suggest nga kayo ng magandang kdrama series na pagkakaabalahan ko tonight. Hehe
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I'm hoping this day will be meaningful for everybody in your own little way.. ♥️
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Breadwinner Ka Ba? Paano mo masasabing isa kang mabuting breadwinner ng pamilya? Sapat ba ang naibibigay mo sa kanila? Pananagutan mo ba kung anong kinabukasan Ang naghihintay sa iyong pamilya? Malamang oo naman sagot,hindi ba? Ibang ang kultura ng Pinoy kumpara sa ibang lahi. Hindi natin maipagkakaila Ang katotohanan na ibang-iba ang pananaw natin sa pagsusuporta sa ating pamilya. Nariyan ang panganay na kapatid mo, nag-asawa na at nagkaanak, nakikitira pa rin sa magulang. Natural na eksena yan sa pamilyang Pinoy. Sabi ng iba may negatibong dulot ito sa imahe ng ating kultura, ng ating pagka Pilipino. Ikaw? Anong klaseng breadwinner ka? Isa ka bang single parent? Pinili man o nangyare na lang sa di mo inaasahang pagkakataon. O isa ka sa mga panganay na tumatayong magulang ng iyong mga kapatid? Anu't anuman ang nagdala sayo ng responsibilidad na iyan, kapit lang. Tuloy ang buhay. May umaga pang naghihintay.
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How Do You Calm Yourself? Whenever we are facing some difficulties we always want to be alone. Well, this may not apply to everybody but for a few, yes. We seek 'me time'. Somehow we need to breathe out. We need to release our emotions. For me, it gives me peace of mind to be alone. I just need space, to think, to clear my mind, and hopefully come up with a resolution for the things that bother me. I go for a walk, sit on the bench at the park and eat ice cream. There is something that nature gives, as the soothing effect of the birds chirping. The sound of the wind that makes the branches of trees sway. The unique calming sound of the leaves dancing with the rhythm of the wind. Truly everything has its purpose. God created everything with a purpose. So if you think, you are useless. Think again.
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Hello everyone 😊 Can you describe how's your day so far in one word?..
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Feeling of Emptiness It's been a few days that I am feeling strange? unusual?.. I don't know how to really describe it. Things have been tough for me. I lost my job. I have two kids. These two are my life. Maybe without them. I don't know where I am going. I've been trying my best to cope with the life is offering nowadays, but it's so hard to stay strong. It's difficult to say "I'm ok." when you are not. On top of that I have some health conditions to take into consideration as well. I am a very lucky woman indeed, right?But who I am to ask God what His plans are. I know He won't give all these trials just to make me weaker. I am still hopeful that one day, everything will be ok... Just keep moving.. keeping living.. at least try to live everyday. I know somehow, someday everything is gonna be all right.
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An Introverted Woman Hi! My name is Caj. I'm a newbie here in read.cash. I was introduced by a former colleague into this community, and I'm glad I did. 😊 Just like a few (if not the majority) this quarantine is giving me too much anxiety nowadays. I am an overthinker... so this kind of mentality makes it worse. I love to meet people even just simply knowing them thru their writings. So I'm so glad I am part of this platform. Looking forward to meeting more people here. And hey! I do have a community as well, try to check it out (breadwinner d7f5). Everyone, please join. I'm hoping the admin of this community won't mind! Let us be wings of each other! Thank you.
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What are the reasons that an article cannot be approved to be publish in this community? My two articles were not approved to be publish in this community.
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Good morning 😘🌞 Another day to conquer!
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Hi everyone! A newbie here!😊 Hoping to get some likes and comments on my submitted articles. 😉
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Hola! Buenos dias hermosas almas!♥️
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Uncertainty When we talk about happiness, it seems that this word is very simple. It connotes positivity. It feels like it is achievable with no effort at all. Well maybe if you are a seven-year-old child you can define this word without thinking. Because merely your emotion can define happiness as simple as a joyful feeling. That feeling when your Dad bought you a new toy. Feeling of being cuddled by your Mom. Happiness for a young child is so genuine, so pure. How I wish I can do the same as a woman in her midlife. Well, as everybody knows there is no perfect in this world full of chaos, a harsh world for some, a privileged one for others, and perfect for a few if anyone is existing in a perfect life. Inequality is so real even in emotions. It doesn't limit itself in the social aspect but this one harsh word exists in all aspects of our lives. How very unfortunate, isn't it?
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Let's learn something new everyday! "Que tengas buen dia!" It's a Spanish translation for "Have a good day!"
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Happiness I wish I could define this simple nine-letter-word without thinking... But it's kind of hard for me nowadays to express what happiness really means. It's kind of weird to think a person in her midlife is running out of reasons to live her life to the fullest. It's very selfish of her not considering her family especially her children as her whole definition of happiness, isn't she? So easy for us to judge a person sometimes without knowing the whole story. Well, maybe because we are human. We are not perfect. Whatever may be the person is experiencing, we should learn to respect, to be fair. Life is simple if we choose to live it that way. Well, what is happiness then? It depends on you, on how you live your life.
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Guys please check our modified Community Rule! Let's unite and earn! Stay positive!🥂
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Sometimes all you need is just one person to be on your side, and you'll feel strong enough.👌