Make Hay Now The Sun Is Shining
As far as the earth remains, seed time and harvest would never seize, day and night would never stop inter changing, light and darkness would never stop opposing each other, neither would the rain and sun stop coming in seasons, it's now our sole responsibility to know the times we are in so that we can be better productive, a farmer can choose to farm anytime he wishes but he knows there is a best season to farming. During the summer, he most likely would go through more stress trying to wet the beds, with close supervision and afterwards still expect the crops won't be that great anyways.
To that same farmer the workload is reduced and the produces are more abundantly supplied, he expects the season to bring him at least a good crop, he knows his season has come and also know the right thing to do in the season so that he would gain from the season. Seasons are not people, their attention cannot be returned, once it is gone, all you can do is to await the next time it would be returning, to this no one can speak the exact date, we can only predict from experience but sometimes we get it wrong, more reason why we can't afford to waste opportunities.
There is always something to do per time per season, back then while we were very young, the best thing to do was to focus on school. Exams were forthcoming, it was only wise that we dedicate our time into critical study, that was the best time for that, as much as we still had financial needs, we couldn't focus on getting money, money was good then as it is now but it would be wrong to look for how to start making money, that season was a time for gaining knowledge, so we read and read and read, it was the time for it, we were only the right thing for the time.
Now we are grown and responsibilities has multiplied, we have entered into another season, a season of survival, a season were we are taking up the challenges we face by ourselves, we face it head on and battle it till we win. A season that other season has been preparing us for, a season to cater for your needs and the need of others, if we had perfectly understood the different time and season we experienced we could have done better by now. This times are now segmented in forms of age, it's a personal knowing.
You can guess or advice someone on what to do per time per season, you'll only be talking from your own perspective and opinion, doesn't mean you're right. Some people are so not programmed for somethings, one young man back then couldn't comprehend in a classroom, he appeared he wasn't understanding by books so well, but this young man was good when it comes to workshops practicals, it wasn't long from then he was taken to a technical school where they dwell more on practical and he also second as an apprentice, now he is doing fine.
The decision was not his to make as at that time, it was his parents, then we could sense the frustration, why must it be their kid performance worst among a full class, I knew they should have tried their best in helping in learn, maybe it wasn't his fault too, yes he was playful but we were all playful, so that isn't evidence enough. However the parents were smart enough to know that time is going and season would change, should they leave their boy like that, when the time would come for him to take responsibilities, would he be capable, so they had to think fast and act fast.
The children of issachar understood the times and seasons and so the people of Israel do go to them for help. There is so much we can achieve, probably lesser efforts yielding greater returns, all because things were do in it's right time. Its crazy to see how laziness can also be an hindrance, because sometimes we know what to do but we are so lazy to do them, eventually the result are out and can only imagine how better it would have been if not for laziness. Do it as at when needed, there would be other times for leisure.
Right before the D-day are always time of preparation, like the 5 P's says "Proper Preparation Prevent Poor Performance " and that just explains it more, you can never be ready for the harvest if you didn't prepare for it, then whose charity do you hope to harvest from. To be rich one must first learn and work. To show yourself worthy one must firstly Study, to reap that harvest one most first Sow, and doing all this at the right time, not when there would be inevitable factors preventing it. So make Hay while the Sun is still Shinning.
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Environmental Assessment
Among the numbers of things you can control, one thing you can never control are the people coming around you. For example a man once said you can control who your kids makes friends with, especially at that teenage age when they are so stubborn, however you can try to be safe by being in a good location or environment. A good environment is a seiver to a good extent, already you know there are places around you that the influence of thuggery or rough lifestyle is much and since that is the dominant culture its normal that the people around are duely corrupted, so why not go to a place with a better dominance culture.
Association is one of the smartest choice a man can make, but we can never tell the future if our circles are worth it or not, we can only follow the laid down principles of others and hope it works out too for us. Without a doubt, there is a place you get to and you know you're surrounded by people who are capable of assisting you and there are other places you get to and you are in trouble, well some others are in between, money is a factor however, other times luck. Carefully assessing the area would save a lot of future stress, especially for your kids, as you're some percentage sure they are in a safe zone.
There are quite a number of things I can change and there are some things I can't change, I can try but I really can't effect a change as quick as possible, environments are that way, you want some things to change but what can you do, I'm not the only one living here, moreover there would be people doing what I dislike already, that would be the likely reason why I seek changes. But the change has got to be a collective effort, it's better when more hands are pushing together for a single goal, but the question is, how do I get to talk them in.
If you live in an environment where everyone is friends with everyone and everyone behaves their selves, there is calm at most times. If one neighbor comes to another to talk, they both behave maturely and see to it that a common ground is met, if you happen to find yourself in this kind of environment, Then you're lucky, a typical environment in my locality is a war zone. Lol, but no jokes, you'd better watch your back. It gets worst when things starts going well for you, you could be driving into your compound, in your head, everyone you're passing on the road is smiling at you and admiring you, but reality is far from that, in reality they are hissing and making jest, well you'll get used to it.
I understand the need to dwell where like minds are, be around people who are doing great also, people who can comfortably back you up, should you be having a down time. This is a great survival tip and it has influence quite a number of decisions all around the world. People are moving to where they are likely to gain good associations, however it seems as though some we can't bear to live with this so called people who are "Capable ". Its one thing to be rich or wealthy enough to help your neighbor, should need arise and he or she needs assistance and its another to be bearable. Your character doesn't change off wealth, it changes when you choose to.
Have you seen them make decisions in a street meeting and expect that their verdict is accepted and honoured, have you heard their tone as though it was a teacher talking to his student and demands full attention. What about when opposition rises, then you just stepped on a lions toe, all those who are loyal to him or her immediately seizes the opportunity to gain favour and so they take up the matter and come at the opposition. To this I'm always pissed, i live here as you do. The size of house or numbers of cars doesn't make anyone's opinion matter less. Well tell that to the people in my environment.
In areas like this, the kids are mostly friends while the parents aren't, and so overtime the kids stop being friends too, maybe not enemies but dont mingle as they once do. Remember how you could come out to the street and really have fun, crazy times you mean. In the evening, you'd hear voices calling out your name to come out to play, that moment if your mom refuse you joining them to play, you could hate her, oh all hell would break lose as we would cry and cry, well my mom still wouldn't. But all this helped us, we did it as kid only having fun, now we all have grown into differs areas of life, and are doing well for ourselves, now we help each other, that previous street fun is a current connection for the grown ups now. But what's going on in this environment now?
The playgrounds are slowly being converted into a structure of whatsoever building they want to erect, the kids don't find it so much fun anymore to play. Even if they want to, where would they do that. So days turns to weeks are the kids are still indoor, no mingling, just hi adding up to the parents accusing words about the other residents, which of course should be parents to the friend of this kid. It'll be a matter of time before that friendship is terminated. No talk, no play, and constantly hearing how bad they are, that kid is prone to shifting away, unaware that he might be losing a future profitable association.
What's the crime rate in the environment, what's the level of immortality. Yes, I know the turn is generally going crazy and the fashion sense, now demands us to take off more clothing but that notwithstanding some environment has it hotter than others, some places you get to and you already see the kids behaving as thugs, already dipping hands into some bad acts, you'll know the norms over here might not be favourable to grow your kid or stay for yourself too. Oh it matters, prevention is always better than cure, it's better to avoid such areas than trying to stay not influenced by them. With you constantly exposed to such activities, and having the attributes of adaptation, its normal you change a bit too. So why not avoid rather.
I care a great deal for my environment, I really wish it'll be well and conducive. Conducive to stay and have peace as I can sleep with my two eyes closed, as I can grow my kids and not be scared he might be bringing a gun home one day, or dealing with drugs. A loving place too, not one where people are oppressing one another and its fun to them, or where they don't want to see their neighbors be better as though it would affect them.
I hope it'll be fun too, having a nice place for kids to mingle, having a nice spot for older people to catch up. I really hope for a great environment, but environment it's not just my street or surrounding houses, I mean the full area, with people I see almost every day.
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When God Steps In
Its a different ball game entirely when God steps into the picture, it doesn't become an issue anymore when we introduce God into our affairs, for by strength shall no man prevail, its only via the grace and goodness of God that we can achieve all there is to achieve. Moreover we can dedicate our time to critical planning only for something to stop the plan all of a sudden. For by strength shall no man prevail, if we don't introduce God into our lives, making all decisions and findings without calling God into the start and the end then we are bound into making the wrong choices.
Sometime when we call on our heavenly father into a situation, it may seem as though it isn't working but then with patience we are soon to realize that it all works to our favour at last. Sometimes we understand at the end the reasons for the disappointments we got, it makes no sense in the beginning, no not until later, more reason why patience is a virtue, if we can't be patient with God then we've not learnt anything yet. It's so true to say he love us more than we do ourselves. Way more than we do ourselves.
If he could cloth the grasses of the field and feed continuously the birds of the air, how much would he not cater for we that are more important to him, it's a wrong thinking to say your earthly would not feed his little kings, that Is the every day thinking of a man, he is occupied with the responsibility of catering for his family, if it's in his capacity then be sure he would do it, however a man is limited and has limited resources so there are limits to what we can do per time per seasons, but God on the other hand is not limited, he has it all, he can do it all.
If only we can trust and relax, we would see it done and done so awesomely. Allowing time and season to take it's due course, doing our best and leaving the rest to God, not just cause he asked us to but cause we believe and know he never fails. As humans we must try and learn to remember, remembering is never our strong point, we know how to forget, only few who choses to remember would keep on remembering, but it should firstly be an intentional act. Reason for remembering is that we all have at a point in time see God come through for us.
From the richest to the poorest of men, from the finest to the ugliest of men, from the shortest to the tallest of men, whoever, however and whatever they are, they have all seen the goodness of God someway or the other, they only forget so soon. It's not unusual that we are swift to forget, remember how the children of israelite of old were shown tremendous miracles, the crossing of the red sea, the 12 plagues to their favour, the moses rod turning to snake and swallowing up all others, who could have thought anyone would forget after such amazing miracle.
Yes they got excited and praising the lord, one would think from then henceforth they found the light and never to leave but nahhh... so not the case, as soon as a trail came and they were hunger and thirst they forgot and asked moses if he brought them there to die, how quick we are to forget when we are tested and tried, it's in our nature to forget and worry, that's why he keeps telling us to trust and be anxious for nothing, that's why the bible is filled with his promise to mankind, he loves us first and he always will. No matter the situation, lets believe in the one who created us and sent us into this world, he would perfect his works in us.
I would have loved to say this words are for someone, but that would somewhat be incorrect, this words are for us all, including me writing at the moment, it's a call for me to remember too, I forget and worry to at times, especially when I try and try, I'd expect it to be done and settled at once, then I'll know that yes God is at work, so when it takes so much I feel he isn't aware or I'm left alone to do this all by myself, ofcourse I'm wrong, even time when my expected results comes fast, I'm so excited I don't remember to thank God for coming through swiftly for me.
Anyways he understands us more than we do ourselves, he is still ready to keep working on us and for us, hopefully we learn to worry less and watch him perfect his awesome will in our lives, one passage says "I have never seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread", many may want to argue but then ask them how they kept feeding, if their powers could sustain the feeding alone, talk less of the shelter and clothing, for everyone there is always a huge significant place of Gods help in our lives, can we just TRUST AND RELAX.
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Intentionally Selecting My Relationship
Recently I've been trying the study the successes of people, was it via hardwork alone, was it base on luck, or was it a combination of one or two things, no matter what it is, I'll really like to know so I can work on it for myself. No long thence I realize the were all closely arranged together. The wealthy people of a certain environment or location are most likely to know each other, infact prior to their wealth is a long history you may never know if you weren't told, men are the ladders for other men to climb, we may be doing it all wrong if we are trying to achieve it all by our strengths and powers, we need more than our strengths can offer, we need support.
You grow best when you're placed in an environment of growth, same way the plants grow when they are being planted in a good soil, the environment is great and so it affluence the seedlings to grow better than others planted in less suitable soil. Similarly so many people have experienced real growth just cause of their placement to the right environment, not just financially, they also have grown in other areas such as mentally, some spiritually, some physically especially when they meet others who regularly visit the gym, the right placement does a lot in a human life.
The environment doesn't gain influence because it's a fine location, rather the occupants determine the respect and attention given to the place. Already we have seen environments that are not palatable for living, frequently flooded or smelling having higher value in price compared to better living conditions places all because of the calibers of people that have chosen to stay there and what they have done to the place in recent things, things they have brought to the place that cannot be found in anywhere else, so the people are the main determinate.
With all these I'm gradually beginning to careful become intentional about my association and relationships, however it wouldn't be easy too, but it's worth the try. I guess the main issues are in getting the good ones, entering into a relationship or friendship with the sole aim of financial increase would often prove fruitless and it's a trap, a trap to catch the greedy. It's more like getting to know a farmer so he could always be giving you food, instead of trying to know how he got to be such a farmer so you too can. Something made them great, that's worth knowing, not going in to be a pest, no one like pest.
You also don't like people that come to take, take and keep taking, even if you're so religious and you feel like keeping quiet would make God happy, you'll soon realize it too much and try to stop it. No matter how in need we are, let's ensure we are trying not to push help as our basis factor, if people sense that you constantly in need, they tend to withdraw, so set priorities right especially when dealing with people and most especially when dealing with the high standers in the society, those guys have seen enough and are gradually losing conscience to draw people near, they can cut off anyone and not feel a thing, even an old friend.
Intentional about my relationship, not just marital relationships, friendship, just casual pals, infact my relationship with everyone, cause truthfully we as humans are all blinded to the future except you were specially reveal to by God, but judging from our intellectual perspective we can never tell who would be rising and taking up great positions, we can only try by following our hearts and following smartly. One of the best ways to go by is what the bible says, and I quote "Follow peace with all men" these is good as much as safe, just incase so you don't shut the door on yourself tomorrow.
We need the right niche to survive better, the better niche is that environment filled with the right people and personalities, no matter how much of an introvert you are, there would always be people that know you and like you, even when you don't go people, there are possibilities of people coming to meet you, so at least be in the right place filled with what you want so by that the possibilities of attracting what you need is higher and may most likely come. Growth is always an intentional process, our actions determine our growth level, association is one sure way to growth.
Nevertheless it's worth to note that some persons would bring nothing but decrease to you, follow peace with all men doesnt mean draw all men close, we would be in trouble if we smile with everyone, some people are better off as strangers however you are at peace with them, ensure there's no trouble between you both but still not friendship, they bring trouble cause of their lifestyle and mindset. All these are no reasons to fight with someone, should there be a fight, try to settle it afterwards stay as strangers, you know it's the best thing to do. Discerning what a person brings to the table would help us a great deal, so that in our quest for useful association, we don't end associating with those who would make us lose the few we had.
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Cash Devourers
There are quite a lot of things that eats up our money, overtime we see that we have made more spendings than we have made savings. When expenditures outweighs income we know there's a problem, indeed it's a problem. Most people plan before the income comes so it all looks fine, but then after it comes we just don't know how we spend it all untill its remaining little or nothing. Well until we seat down to critically think, what could this pest be, what are those things devouring our earnings leaving us with nothing and they weren't in our budget, we don't necessarily plan for them.
I've learnt and I'm pouring out what I learnt into writing, hopefully some other person learns too. These devourers can be so little, So the crazy things why I called it little is cause they are not really noticeable, there would be other big reasons why someone would stay poor, but today I'm trying to dwell on those small reasons, reasons you really don't know are not helping your financial growth, you don't know because you spend on it in bit, but when accumulated over time, you'll see the need to curb it.
Remember back then when we were younger, for those of you lucky enough to be given money to take to school, mine was so low at first, later on I took nothing so I eat at home before and after. So as children we saw some items we would love to buy, but dad and mom wouldn't buy for us, so why not save off my school money. With that we take little every day and save up, and quite a number of you really were able to complete and buy what you aimed, unfortunately many don't. So this tells us how those little money spent from time to time were actually a huge money spent, we only didn't see the potentials cause we spent it in little quantity and frequently so it seems like no money at all.
A pack of cigarettes smoked is often not regarded as a financial defect, for a day some people can comfortably finish more than a pack of it, until they take a moment to calculate how much was spent in a day, down to a week and multiplied by 4, to make it a month, dont do annually, you might just get angry. I'm not dwelling on the health issues from it, I'm not talking about how it destroys the organs, oh did I just talk about it, but overtime this drugs we are addicted to, we spend so much on them, this spent expenses could and should be converted into useful purposes. Others have tried saving the money intended for a pack and monthly they smile cause they meet a huge amount waiting for them.
So goes with alcoholism. Indeed drinking isn't bad, just as I said dealing with drugs is bad, but drinking isn't, the issue is when you get drunk. So you can drink but do it responsibly. And you are more likely to get drunk when you drink in excess, so that also brings about the financial advice, spending a lot on drinks is no longer about the pleasure of the taste, it's now about diving into another phase were you're not conscious of your doings. Little by little we spend on the bottles, we really won't know when we spent a fortune on it by the end of a month and year.
Walking into a place to buy what you really need to buy, then you see another item that catches your fancy and you just decide to buy alongside. Of course you have enough to buy what you want and buy that too, but the attitude is the issue. It goes away from the laws of discipline. Discipline is one rule of success we should learn to follow. Go for what you intend on going for, add no more, add no less, it helps stay focus and your mind gradually builds to a level it understands you better and respects its owners decision. So many of us need to learn to take sentiments away from business, go with the plan always.
If you want to get wealthy, then you have to be alert to seize opportunities at any given time. Some times the opportunity needed could be allying with someone else, sometimes its your own idea that would bring about the change. To this we must be ready to pick it out and note it whenever it pops out. So many ideas have been lost overtime because it was not put down for remembrance sake. Yes it came and you thought deep about it, infact you believe it would work and you got excited, but you took a stroll outside, maybe you saw something that made you love, or you had a fun time with friends and now you can't remember that splendid idea anymore, now years has gone by and you still haven't remember that superb idea, what was wrong? You didn't note it down.
Pleasing people have gotten us to spend way past our budget most of the times, and this we know, buy we still want to prove that point however. The saying cut your cut according to your size never gets old, and the reason why we do not want our coat in our sizes most times are cause we wish we had the bigger size. In general, put your future first, plan for later, if you are not yet capable then care less about what they say, you are working to beat their expectations. So don't get poorer trying to fit in what doesn't match your resources yet. Someone once said, The rich stay richer while trying to live like the poor, while the poor gets poorer while trying to live like the rich. The time for the costly designers bad and cloth would come soon, firstly meet the future standards.
Oh let me put this little cash in order to win a bigger cash prize, in fact there is a big bonus there, I really hope to win, I believe I'll win and you keep testing on luck. Do you think businesses grow base on luck, no rather, there are concrete steps taken on a daily or weekly to see that the firm is till moving in the right direction. Its not bet, it ask you to put a little money which might mean nothing to you then, however when you accumulate all what you've spent on the long run, then you'll see it wasn't a small money. All these little things eats off us for real. No doubt luck is good, in fact we all pray for luck, however we can't move on expecting luck only, what's your plan to win the bet, the probability is low. So channel to another.
I'll stop here among many other small things that eats our big money. The striving has little to waste, so its unwise to waste the little on items that profits nothing, maybe the bet gambling promises to offer you bigger, yet the probability that any of those games would click is low. So protect your money better and avoid those little thief's stealing our money bit by bit until we see they are the big criminals we need to be mindful of. Make changes today!
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Good Health Is So Underrated
Have you ever had a headache, a cold, deep cough, maybe a running nose, boiling temperature or any of this usual sickness, now how did you feel, for me nothing makes sense while that sickness lasted, all that's on my mind is to get rid of it, no one likes sickness, indeed one loses the taste of life while one is sick. Those whose are sick views everyone else as lucky people, they pray to be as everyone else who can live and play as will, whereas those who have good health don't view it as anything special, it's almost like that's how it should be. Humans general are quick to forget, we don't know what God keeps doing for us. Good health is so Underrated, in our health is live, live enjoyed better.
So there should always be a place of gratitude in our minds, grateful to the one that creates life, and keeps us alive, however we can't deny the fact that our bodies has been given to us to take care of, we are in charge of the experience our bodies undergo, do you eat enough, sleep enough, are you using a good lotion, did you get into a fight, did you change environment, are you drinking good water, all these and many more examples are things that's affects our body and its our actions that determines them. So yes we must be grateful and prayerful to God for good health, but we should learn to carter for our bodies also this way we truly stay in charge.
All the enjoyment and wealth of the world would be useless if your body doesn't make you enjoy it, it's so quick you lose pleasure in them, more reason why the issue of catering for our health is so important, be cautious. A popular saying quoted "health is wealth", well it's no jokes, health indeed is wealth. In health we are capable and energized to go find wealth, in same health we are able to enjoy our earnings from our works. People need to see the balance between focusing on the money alone and knowing the need to pay close attention to their health so it doesn't raise concerns in the nearest future. You shouldn't pursue money so much at the detriment of your health.
In good working environment you would most likely see the safety sign boldly written "safety first", and it's so true. There have made scheduled timing to ensure that all workers are well informed and are working within the safety guidelines. It's more loss to treat than to prevent. Even for the victims, they would prefer to have prevented the illness or damage than to treat it, especially when it entails getting a syringe through your skin, or laying down at a spot for hours or days, or not being able to carry on the normal daily activities you normally would do, indeed prevention is better than cure.
The human body isn't a machine nor a robot, it isn't feed via battery life, nor is it sustained by energy, there are more to it, there are manners at which we should care for it so we don't break down someday. Eating food isn't enough to get the body going and working smoothly too, other areas like good sleep, like exercise, like happiness too shockingly, like being careful in doing work, like stopping some habits that can be detrimental, indeed there are many things the human body considers in his endeavors to working well. I had recently learnt that a seating in a particular spot for so long too can be bad, especially for coperate jobs that requires their staffs seating for extended period of time.
Also there is a need to eat healthy, basically take in healthy green foods rather than already processed and cholesterol junks. A doctor once said that God placed for us everything we would need for a successful and healthy life. It's no mistakes that the apples has so much benefits, or the vegetables, or the grains, even the cucumbers, in fact all plants and animals created for our consumption are all giving so much benefits to us as humans. It's far better than the speed fertilization from factories on our crops and junks process which are reduced in health benefits as well as harmful to our body.
Remember the bible, how Daniel and his 3 friends decided to go all green while the rest of the king stewards still went on with meats and the fats of the palace, hope you remember the outcome, after a while it was time for an assessment and it was discovered that Daniel and his friends were far better, I mean stronger and more good looking than the rest of the kings stewards. This difference was so pronounced that the king had to make it mandatory for everyone else to follow the dieting of Daniel and his friend. Food is important but also food is a good drug as well as a good body builder.
Prevention of course is better than cure. Health they say is wealth, it's also said that "where there is life, there is hope" so as long as you're living and healthy then you're still in the game, anyday could be the one day you're looking for all this while, but then how do you ensure you keep giving your 100% when you're not trying to be healthy. Can we be intentional about this, can we stop the smoking and excessive intake of alcohol, can the diabetic start cutting down on sugar, can we get up every morning to at least few minutes of excercises, can we eat more greens that's fruits and vegetables, can we stay happy as much as possible too. Pay more attention to your health guys.
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Avoid Pride
Self examination is a useful tool to dealing with self issues, self issues varies like anger, jealousy, pride. Without self examination and listening to others opinions about us we never really may identify these cases in us. Among the many cases pride is what we trying to talk on today. How do you easily notice you have pride? I would say one easy way to knowing if you're too proud or not is seeing the action from another person's view, cause most times when we talk to ourselves, very rare that we see the wrong in ourselves, but when someone else's does it, we see clearly, so try thinking your action was done someone else then judge the actions.
The issue of pride is one that has brought so many controversies, although the basic stereotype has been "hey avoid pride", but some people has seen a good need to have pride, especially those who were firstly humble before they were taken for granted by pride. So in all the basic conclusions is for all to be careful, even if there is a clear need to not take any nonsense from anyone anymore, as you want to bring out your self worth to be more pronounced. I guess it's good we are still careful in doing that, do not forget pride is as an unbalanced platform, one has to be careful not to fall down off it. So instead of coming off the high horses and walking slowly, why not learn the craft so you can meet your aim and still be hated for pride.
When a prideful person falls finally, then comes the trouble, especially when he or she shows such pride too much, reason being that overtime in the execution of this pride, he or she must have stepped on toes, in fact it might be considered as karma, and very much the downfall might truly be as a result of the pride exhibited. So getting people who would want to help you rise back maybe harder than expected, people are naturally resentful in helping someone who is known for pride, they feel the need to allow them enjoy the punishment God is giving them. The fall of a person of pride is often disastrous, more crazy than trying to picture someone fall off a moving horse, in so many areas, the fall would have effect.
Of course what could be the greatest fear for someone with pride if not the fear of being insulted, embarrassed and taken for less. Much more than the money lost, much more than the mess created, the insult would be the real injuries, and it's very inevitable cause they have stepped on so many toes, people would readily want to take revenge and give them a taste of their own medicine. you too would also want someone who has pride to be taught a lesson, no matter how good you are its the natural feeling to want to trash the bad, even if we are bad ourselves. We might have pride too, but we sure want others having pride to be corrected, while we get away with ours.
One crazy aspect to pride is a fact that we don't know we have it most times, everyone feels they are good people, like I know myself I'm good and kind, but y'all keep saying I got pride, like where do you see that. It's great we know where and how we got pride so we can see ways to stop it. In a circle, everyone wishes to me more respectful and regarded compared to the rest of all, to this we all have different approach, some wouldn't mind how they are viewed, and would likely keep doing their thing, whatever comes comes, some others would want to be respected so much but since they can't force anything, they would silently do things more pronounced in a way people would notice them, more likely that they try to outshine the rest.
Then the last group are the rugged time, who are not afraid to speak out their worth, they feel they have been disrespected for long and it's time to correct those impressions, from this you would most likely hear "you don't talk to me in that manner", "Do you know who I am", anyways to seize it. If I may ask "who has got pride between all 3 class of people, I'm sure most would go for the 3 class when in fact its both the 2nd and 3rd class although, only the 2nd class Is taking a smarter approach to it, so rather than be hated and disliked by the public, the public are slowly dancing to his beat but disagreeing with the 3rd man. Rather than dislike the 2nd class, it's better we learn from it, it gets the goal better without hate involved.
Need I remind you that we all have pride, only we are cautious not to show it, but we crave to be respected and highly regarded, intact when we are insulted it changes our mood too bad. So truly there is a good need to earn your respect, but how do you do it, certainly not be shouting and insulting and instigating fear into people, that would more likely lead to hate and disdain, some would avoid you, waiting the day you fall to come laugh, so the more subtle way is the best. Its subtle, it's bad but it's a plan and it works best. Take it with strategic planning.
Imagine in the office, where there is competition, that guy who is always pushing for himself in the eyes of the boss would most likely be hated by others, but they wouldn't mind going for someone who wants same position, but is doing his works like he only cares for the better of everyone and disagree with the way the first guy is taking matters. Call it a game, you'll be correct, we all want better for ourselves, however we have to get it smartly, else people would be ready to fight us for it.
Like I said earlier, pride is an unstable high standing placement, but rather than come off it, I feel it's best you learn to ride on it. People do ride on high horses and get to their destination successfully, we all have this pride, be careful how you show it. Every single one would love power, but don't prove like you care so much about it. Just like a contesting party would act like they have the people at heart, but actually they only care for their selfish purpose, we only see it clearly when they fully mount the position. Desires are the aim, brain is the game. Play smart.
Well you can choose to come off your high horses and walk humbly, but the question is do you really not care about getting your due respect, or is your humility your game strategy too? It's not bad to aim, get the best approach to it and you'll be fine.
Thanks for much for reading guys, really love and appreciate your supports, keep liking, commenting and subscribing. Learn to ride on your high horse better to avoid falling off it. Cheers.
Someone Who Makes You Smile
It is a wonderful experience to get someone who makes you happy from within, gets you smiling without stress. Getting someone you like and likes you as much, gives the energy you need and always want to see you sincerely happy. Its wrong to think you can't experience this level of joy, its wrong to think no one can make you feel as you hope to feel, cause it is very possible, only that we only wait and do nothing about it, we want happiness but we don't pursue after it, happiness like they say is free, so let's go for it. Someone can be a reason to be happy, yes humans can disappoint, but humans can be a great source of joy, there's really no harm in trying. You know right.
Have you ever met someone and feel God brought him or her into your life. Like they are there right on time whenever you need them and they bring with them solutions, could be the right words you need to calm you down, could be the assistance you need to get a particular work done, could be the listening ears you need to talk to someone, they are nothing short of a miracle coming in a person. Everyone has people who they cherish so much and it doesn't necessarily need to be the one who they got married to or are in a relationship presently, moreover true help holds no hidden agendas.
For someone to take a liking into you in the first place is a blessing in disguise also, without getting to be in your family or you being acquainted or any reasons to say ok I know why there is an attachment now, rather they have liked you for the you they saw, maybe your character contributed, maybe your looks contributed, or maybe your works contributed, in all it's still you and all those attributes are what makes you the present you we know and see. Your works, your look, your character, your smile, your anger, even your postures, they make up your distinctive attributes that differentiate you from everyone else, it's not faking, it's the real you.
A good example of miracle in a person however are those who take up charity organizations, or create homes for the less privileged, or thos philanthropists who seek to help out off their own little earnings. You know if this people did decide not to help, then no one would quarrel them, oh its their money and no one holds the right to dictate on how they should spend it. Its can only be a pure heart of love and gold towards humanity for any to come up with the option of inconveniencing his or herself so that others would get a easier life. It could only be a miracle.
For such act we can understand better when we think from the shoes of the orphans or less privileged, being in such position has nothing to do with their choices as life just took its course on them. Its deeply appalling and traumatic for the victims in fact and could likely lead to the feeling of low self esteem. None deserves to feel such, and so they truly need help, a light to feel love and shoulder to hug and know we all are one. So such actions of show of love towards them can't be quantified less than a miracle, a miracle in form of a person.
Another miracle in form of a person I'll like to share today is none other than one who has helped the world draw closer to the truth and has torn the veil between mankind and our creator, so therefore we have an easier life, where we can always ask knowing it'll get answers. You know, of recent I have been thinking of how many of my prayers has been answered, I mean those that really bothered me and how they got answered, and truly I found out that so much has been answered, in fact those which aren't yet answered are the most recent ones, thereby giving me an assurance that it too would be answered. Now isn't that a gift, the gift of God to man. Jesus is nothing short of a miracle to mankind.
Often times I try not to be spooky or sound like a preacher so a lot of people won't tag me and run away, so I try to talk on the most natural way possible and yet see that the truth is said. The world has to know the gifts offered from the best and only source of life, a gift in form of a man which later turned out to be a gift in us, so now we dont need to run to the man everytime, since he has left the world to dwell in us forever, so now he's in us and working through us as he walked on the world and more cause his awesomeness are new every morning. With the acceptance of this knowledge I bet every thing impossible is going to be possible, ponder on that knowledge.
Our parents can't be left out, or should they? Someone once said, being a parent doesn't mean giving birth to a child alone, how about taking responsibility for that child, just like a you paid for an item but left the item to be collected and owned by another person, I'm sure if the item could speak it wouldn't recognize you as its owner, moreover who took care of my tender needs, while I was more dependent as I could do nothing for myself, who did it all for me, this is a miracle we all experienced. Do you know how easy it would have been to die at that age, die from being abandoned, die from not feeding well, die from being left at home or outside, die from the silliest of reasons, yet none of this happened cause your parents kept a close watch on you. Isnt that a miracle too.
It's no jokes that the females enjoy this benefits more than the Male, yet it doesn't mean the men don't. The men are born egoist and would most prefer to be the ones helping than those being helped. However the men know how to render help on motives and rational thinking, but the women help more readily, it could be for no just cause as long as they feel an emotional attraction to that thing or person, I bet they would shower as much love as possible. That's why most people feel mothers are sweeter than fathers, even while the fathers toil day and night for the family.
Miracles exist everyone and everyone is in one way or the other a miracle to another. We too most have enjoyed such miraculous benefits sometimes in our course of living. So don't be afraid to be a miracle to another, it's a gift you have to give too. So show love, train up your children well, love on your partner, offer to charity, help the less privileged, tell people of the awesome benefits of God without any shame or regrets, be you and let others know you. You are a miracle.
Thank you all for Reading. I appreciate your time and efforts taking to read through. One love guys!
Hey Think
Hello guys, how are you doing today, all I want to tell you today is simple and it goes like this "Think". Thinking isn't a hard thing to do, luckily for us, its not hard, we could relax and think, we could be active working and we still can think, the benefits of thinking is so much that I feel we should all have a laid out time specifically to think. So many people feel like they think already, probably cause they were silent for sometime, or maybe their mind got unconscious for a moment then they feel like those unconscious time was spent thinking, well it's not so. In a way you thought of something, yeah like the brain is always functioning, but then what was the benefits from that thought.
With every passing day comes something to do, something to hope for, something to get done with, as much as we want to be okay and stable, we know it wouldn't just come with our folding of hands, we've got to do something, anything. Most of live live with the hope of seeing a day where we would have everything we need, from houses to lifestyles to even spending our lives with the love of our lives. This and more are our reason for living, they give our lives a meaning, but they all won't come by mere folding of hands, no we indeed have to get someone started, anything, for this we have to think.
What can we do to bring our Hopes closer and faster, what can be done soon or today to calm our quest that at least we are trying. Like earlier said this and more are what gives meaning to life, we are the main characters of our live, it'll be a taboo not to see yourself as the leading actor in the movie of your life and this movie has got to gave a happy ending. For all this positive mindset and positive hopes to happen in real time we have to think it into work then into reality. It wouldn't just happen guys, yes we are all special, but our being special is not a yardstick to think God would send a million dollars to our bank accounts for doing nothing.
Take time out to think, that is the first step, afterwards we can look into doing other steps like working towards it. The step should not be skipped, neither should it be rushed. There is a way we spend more time in thoughts, we could end up with a step by step plan on what to do, how to do, with whom to do, for whom to do even the whys, could go forward to planning counter measures in case of uncertainties, as life happens, but then what could possibly happen and what can be done. After a good thinking the workload is greatly reduced as we become faced with what we already planned for.
Another good reason I think is on how it helps in remembering. Remembering by far helps the future, like they say once beaten, twice shy" a lot of second atrocities we have prevented simply because it had happened before. Something bad could happen to us and we just let it slide cause we have learnt our lesson so we know that thing can't and won't happen again, but time hides our memories, sometimes we have got to think to unlock so hidden past experiences so we can learn from it and inculcate it into our present, thereby making better choices. A lot of people have made better selections of jobs or relationships just cause they learnt from the past. Well only if they can think to remember.
Thinking never gets old, thinking has always been the father of the advancement. Someone has got to think it possible for it to be possible one day. Sometimes we listen to outstanding people talk on how they tried and tried and tried before they could finally get it done, and we just clap, do we bother to know why they kept trying, seeing back then it was all hypotheses meaning it could work or not work, so why try for long, well the not giving up spirit was backed the moment they thought deep about it and believed it can work, yes believe it can work, they believed cause they have thought really in depth about it. Such thinking has brought the possibility to view before it became possible in reality.
Thinking also does something remarkable, I dont know if you also see it this way but I see it, whenever we reminisce, we realize that all would be fine, cause we then remember few rough times and fast forward to the present time those rough times are nowhere to be found, a lot of concerns back then, always bothering us, few leading into depression and late night weeping but here we are now stronger and better, so we see that God has alway helped. This would help us a long way now, cause we are faced with new challenges, some old challenges probably returned or never left, but then we are calm cause we know our God who did it before is going to do it again. Better.
In all this we should realize we have a super power we don't really utilize, and when God created us separate from the animals, the major difference was in this our super powers, however it's appalling that we don't explore it to its deepest archives. The super powers was what biologists referred to as "Homo Sapiens " a reasoning man, but how often do we reason. If you can think more then you can open more possibilities for yourself. God is good, his love is strong on us, to bestow us with the power of thinking, same power that has placed us on the highest chain of feeding, same power that separates few from the crowd, think today guys.
Thanks for Reading, and I hope after this article we could set out time to think then plan afterwards. Much love guys, stay brilliant.
Be Careful For Nothing
While we are young and energetic is the best time to take crazy steps to greatness. Why are we afraid, why are we too careful, what is there to lose, moreover time is still on our side, it wouldn't hurt to try, would it? Actually no time is the wrong time to do what you want to do. Even while there are kids involved and the responsibilities just increased, still on can do what one must do, only now we can't be too reckless, so we don't lose so bad that the home suffers. Notwithstanding we all know what we got to do and we live through life with the urge and aspirations of accomplishing the quest of our hearts.
God knows more than we do and he knows much more the burning desires he has placed in us to fulfill. Sometimes our backgrounds or environment can speak the opposite, but when we make up our minds and choose to risk to fight against all odds, the victory emanating is always breathtaking. Understanding the need for a certain level of risk that can be taken at a certain age or certain level of time, especially judging from the responsibilities at hand is paramount to our living. You must agree that some risk we take would make us look as highly irresponsible cause of the repercussions especially if it doesnt pull through.
While we were younger and more dependent, we had people who really didn't care on how we spent our money, our parents tried to bless our wallets, oh even if they didn't, they still took care of the home needs, leaving us with the luxury of do what you like with your money, we would be fine, not because they had enough though but because they needed your full concentration on studies and grooming up to be a better person in the society.
Apparently, few of us still earned at that point, many young adults are open to earning opportunities and fewer responsibilities, no wonder you could take their girlfriends out or buy gift items for your boyfriends, its indeed a time our ties weren't choking up our necks, it was the best time to embark on taking crazy risk. Yes I mean it, from teenage age up to your late 20s where you are still unmarried, likely not ready for marriage as a guy, or still young in marriage as a lady, it wouldn't be a bad idea to put that money in something so daring, an investment you feel would work out well and yield greater returns in the future for you. It wouldn't be bad.
However guys, no time is a best time to waste your money, so when we want to take risk at anytime, be it young or older, ensure your risk are well calculated and studied, don't say well I'm young and I can take risk now, so let me close my eyes to the fact that this business is looking shady and invest anyways, learn to deep investigate. Learn it from the beginning, treat your money like gold at all times however when it looks like it is not so bad to dive in, let go of the good, it might just be refined and brought up to you in a more pleasant and costly worth. We have seen people waste crazy amounts on something we see clearly that would have been unproductive, then when a better opportunity arises, they are left with little to utilize the chance.
No matter how many seeds are with a farmer, he must look for the best available soil to plant it, he wouldn't say I am wealthy so let me plant on stones or on clay just for trial sake, moreover I'm young, such unwise decisions could have been used wisely and enjoyed as a bigger profits in the coming days to come. Same goes to us, if it's not looking profitable learn to save, rather than waste, safe and store for a better opportunity, and if that crazy idea that was not looking like it eventually turns to be profitable, still you shouldn't beat yourself up, you did your research and it wasn't smart to jump on it, well now you've learnt and can act on that for a next time. Some could place a very little amount to try out those crazy risk, Cause of uncertain reasons like this.
Now there are times you know very well the detriments of parting away with a sum that could be used at home for something more useful, all because you feel there is a better business opportunity. Imagine using your child's fee to stake on a risk that is dicey, the probability of iy turning out positive to you is so low and yet cause your inner mind feels like it's going to turn out well, you have this strong feeling so why not, you still went ahead, with the fee of your child, or maybe the money meant to feed the family for some time.
Did you think what could happen if it doesnt work. Can you bear the thought of not having to feed, or your kid not being able to school all from a one minute decision you made. So not right. A risk must be rightly assessed, looked and thought off critically, with possible options weighed. Sometimes we don't go ahead with a plan cause the negative appears more costly and it would make no sense to risk it. Oh yes the bigger the risk the bigger the gain, but then nothing yet beat your peace of mind, if the risk is capable of distorting your peace then it's not worth the try.
Thanks for taking out time to read through guys. Thanks so much. God bless. Stay brilliant.
We Need Each Other
Procreation has always been a usual life occurrence. We live and we give birth to others, invariably we are not the only ones living on this earth, and we can never be the only ones, so at all times we have neighbors, we have families, we have friends (at will), everyone living together trying to coexist, you would notice as years has gone by that it was all for our Good. So many things we can't do by ourselves and for ourselves alone, it's great we have others. In life truly we need each other. A man needs his wife and vice versa, we need our friends, colleagues, even we need other countries too, not only for export and import purposes. We really need each other.
Fights, war, hates, are strong opposition to the perfect will of God, but guess worth, unity is a stronger force, more reason God had to intervene on the tower of Babel plans, he knew with such unity, their goals would be achieved. The power of unity is so strong, nothing can pull it down, you could be strong and feel like you do more alone, but then comes someone who compliments you and you see yourself doing better. Especially among couples, both man and woman were complete before they got married, they separately had their lives to live and they separately have their individual achievements, but then they came together and combined forces together, this combined force started going for goals, achieving things with twice this speed, because you've found someone who makes it easier and gives you the right boost.
Friends also are not left out, however we have seen that many music groups or sport teams were not made of couples, rather they were made of people from individual families, coming together with the understanding of the task at hand and working it to fulfillment. Friends, as long as they are all ready to give in their time and energy into achieving the goals, they would most defined succeed. Often time the major cause of havoc is when there is an misunderstanding or change of attitude coming from one or part of the circle, then the goal can be tampered with. But with togetherness comes speed and accuracy.
Little wonder why the bible recorded that God himself had to step in, when the people unified to build the tower of babel, everyone came together and agreed to a common goal, and yes they believed its was achievable, maybe some didn't believe but then they all agreed to do the work and see how it would go, none reluctant, no grumbling, none fighting the agenda, everyone all ready to build a tower to the heavens and slowly slowly they kept going. Now, knowing how far they sky is from the earth, it's likely going to be a childish plan, moreover, outside the atmosphere comes no oxygen which pose a problem. Well they must have found a way around that too.
For God to see and conclude that "If he let this people continue with their building, then it wouldn't they would achieve what they sent thier minds to do, sends a great message indeed. Firstly it tells us the benefits of fixing our minds to a particular goals and not wavering in our decisions. More than the previous, it speaks a lot about the importance of team work and unity. Look at the counter measures used to stop the project from continuing. Easy disrupt their language and that would disrupt the unity. In unity lies strength and endless possibilities, the question is, who are you unifying with?
The world would undoubtedly become a better place, if we are unified to a particular goal for a greater purpose. Look at the situations round the world, as much as the government is with the veto power, but as soon as the masses have had enough and unify to riot or protest, with adamant dedication and not giving up, it's certain that they government would have no choice but to give in to the demands or seek a more appealing way out, because the power belongs to the strongest force, and unity has the strongest bond force.
It isn't far fetch from chemistry either, the greater bonds Comes from elements that are both ready to share their electrons to make a compound, just like the covalent bonding of a metal to a non metal, but in cases where the sharing is one sided to doesn't add up quite alright, that compound can easily be broken. So we began to see that the interest rate of every one involved matters for the success of the goal. If you want to go far in life, try getting a partner that is ready to understand and push alongside with you relentlessly, life just got easier.
The country might be in mess right now and we keep looking for the solution, like we keep pondering what could be wrong, what sector of the economy do we need to evaluate and become actively involved to finding a solution. Yet its staring us in the face. The political parties are not in good terms with one another and this are the people we have offered powers to, this are the power who are responsible to make decisions for the country, now tell me how would it work, when there are people ready to make your governing a mess so that they can have a edge in the coming election. How do you rule over a state whose loyalty doesn't lie with you from the onset, the disagreement and power chase is too much and the full country is suffering, unity is the answer.
For as much as we know, a problem that has to do with other people being involved might just be having the issue of unity. Nothing really grows when the supposedly team players are not in good terms with one another. The family is in ruin when the couples have fallen out of love and zeal towards one another. Also applicable to non living things. Our love for the job can be the one thing that keeps the business going, when you lose it, the unity between you and that work is done, that is the end of the downfall. We are humans, and so our heart has to connect for the job to be successful. With whomever we choose, with whatever we choose, unity would assure a better outcome.
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Kick Against Jealousy Felt
Are you jealous presently? Have you ever been jealous, no harm in admitting, absolutely no harm, it's as natural as anything. We want so many things, our desires runs wild, and to some of this desires we can't achieve, it just doesn't come as soon as you want it, or it doesn't come at all. However how natural it is, it is very dangerous also, and there's a calls for caution, we need to be very cautious. All over the world, there are thousands of regrettable actions, bad deeds done all emanating from jealousy, so much from the beginning of time till this present and beyond, as early as cain killing Abel, so we know it's not only a relationship problem.
A usual occurence howbeit we must seek to deal with it and not allow it win over us. It's a deliberate fight to stop it, first we must acknowledge that it's there, and we want to change, then we can take essential steps to changing. Anybody would be lying if they says they don't get jealous, its as normal as your sense of feel, humans emotions are a way of life, and how we feel about things like i already discussed in my previous article I titled "Feelings", this emotions we can't command how it comes, but then how we deal with such emotions are up to us to control. Now jealousy being the main center of our article today, you can't help that someone gets what you want and you don't.
You can influence someone to be attracted to another person while you hope it would be you, but then many have acted irrational to such feeling of jealousy, and they are guilty to face the consequences. Jealousy as normal as it is, happens to everyone, just as anger is completely normal too, however dealing with it are what makes us grow, your growth is aligned to your tolerance level, staying good amidst the pain, well its painful when you're jealous, its like you're not important then you begin to wonder why luck didn't benefit you in that aspect, especially in the area of love, to finding a partner and you're just not wanted back, also in material possession, why can't I get that car, that house, that clothing and the likes, but here my neighbour has it and his busy showcasing it before my eyes, oh what's wrong, what's making my case different.
One tricking thing about jealousy is that it rarely comes strong when it involves someone you're not close to, we don't get jealous over someone we just saw past, maybe you're taking a walk and someone random passes on a flashy ride, oh you might feel down but then you don't begin to envy the person, you don't even begin to dislike the person, in fact you can start admiring the person rather, but just when its your close pal, someone you both are together, spend time with, and starts getting it more, this feeling is often stronger, it shows in your countenance, you feel he's has left you behind, and you aren't just smart enough, or you aren't just good looking enough or you aren't lucky enough, well you should know all this doesn't matter in life as the main essence of living is to be good and contentment is a needed attribute to staying good.
No matter how you are, or what you have there's somebody somewhere that envies you and is hoping he or she can at least get a tip of what you have, but we individually are never satisfied, surely we aim for more, however in our pursuit for more, let's not hurt someone along the way, let's not bring destruction down even as we seek for our own piece of the cake.
Patience is a virtue indeed,sadly no one has patients any longer, we want it on it, everyone is in an hurry, your family are also pressuring you to hurry, your spouse are also pressuring you to do better, all these added to our own aspirations have increased our level of rush. As though we have a limited time frame and should get it in no time, so when someone next to you (neighbours, friends, family) gets it and you're still wanting, automatically it creates more tension, causing you to be jealous. Forgetting that they have their own worries and are still never satisfied.
Leading to strive and hatred are often the bad children from jealousy, as some people get motivated from seeing others get their expectations, some has learnt to walk up to who they are jealous off and come clean so they can learn a thing or two, like oh I'm jealous of how you got the position, you know I'm hoping for it too, how did you pull it off, so I can step up my game, there's nothing bad in this, in facts its get the person excited and proud that he or she can pour out some vital info that can help. Others have learnt to just call their self to order, when such feeling is strong and it seems as though it wants to take over and lead to some bad decisions, they'll just speak to them selves and assure their self that their time would come and that thing that's there's would surely be theirs, as long as they stay good.
Its is good since sometimes we can't come clean depending on the occasion, however the actions are our call to make therefore we choose to act good and shun hatred birthing from jealousy, we learnt to channel the feeling into creating more energetic approach to our need. Indeed jealousy is a strong emotion and at such anything it acts on, who produce a strong result, if you decide to do bad with the feeling, I bet you can cause huge havoc, however if you channel it rightly, then you can create positive changes for yourself.
Thanks for reading, I appreciate your likes and comments alongside your subscribing. Jealous effects can be reduced when you know you're great just the way you are, contentment.
Time Out With BCH
It's been few years now and we are still on and enjoying BCH, we have nothing to bother about as we enjoy all it has and all it brings. In recent times we have seen how people divert into lesser Cryptocurrencies when looking to carry out transactions but those on BCH haven't gotten a reason to yet. Still operating leaving accomplishment in the hearts of the users, as it remains swift, low gas fee, support trading, as well as a good moving trend, so much possibilities lies with BCH, good to know and hope it'll keep serving the world in same capacity it is serving the world with ever since its inception.
Kindly take time out today and get to know much more than you do already know about BCH, as we know Cryptocurrency is the new wave and the earlier we accept it to start paying more attention to it the better. Sometimes you'll notice some persons are swayyed by the popularity of Bitcoin and Etherium that they shut off other coins that would better profit them, eventually they get to study the crypto market, get to know the best possible ways to utilize the platform, soon they begin to focus on those which has better to offer, the best example being bitcoincash.
Take out time to explore the benefits anyone stands to enjoy holding the coin, already if you're reading this article then its certain that you've been seeing numerous articles about BitcoinCash, there is definitely something about BCH that you must be missing, more reason why we should take out time to know more about BCH.
If you're already aware about the features of BCH, if doesn't stopped there too, as there are nice initiative and happenings done via BCH, that would be more beneficial to all, for example the next Tipb.ch program, where you stand to earn via tweeting and attaching a BCH tag, this is another platform that might come to your knowing with you seeking to know more about bitcoincash and every thing it entail, you can possibly research and know everything at a go, but over time, then you'll know why we say what we say and root for what we root for.
Well one thing remains certain, you can't truly know bitcoincash cash and not just love it, its regarded as the people's coin, its a coin that has served the people more and has made its genetic make up from inception to just better improve the experiences of people on the crypto space, for those just getting on board on the world of cryptocurrency and are just enjoying the ease of transactions and feeling it was so from the onset, well it wasn't, in fact there was a time we had little option to pick from with just the few early crypto to work with, and we had to deal with some difficulties which I'll soon discuss in details, but then we hoped for an easier way out.
Now diving little further into more detailed benefits of BCH that's making it a coin worth everyone's knowledge, it has a build up that solves most of the problems currently encountered in the crypto space, the issues of high network fee to send out a transaction is of course one area that firstly dealt with the early coiners, operating coins like BTC and ETH was more of a buy and store purpose for the average earner, just let it stay on hold and hopefully as the coin increases we would make profit, the is mostly attributed to Bitcoin. More like a digital gold, let's store and await a price hype.
When the problem comes of when you want to send to a second party, you might want to reconsider cause the fee to get such transaction successful might be having much effect on you, or like ETH where you'll have to keep checking back till when the traffic (amount of people currently on the Etherium block chain) would reduce thereby causing a decrease in the network, and then you can send out yet with a higher fee still, but not as high as the first instance.
This aspect BCH has been made to cater for among other good offers. With BCH its a very low transaction fee removed and its very low not up to $0.1, yeah it's that low, isn't this almost considered as free. Especially when compared to BTC and ETH where you be seeing from $1-50, just for processing a transaction. Yeah we are glad with the selfless advent of BCH cause it has paved way for other coins to follow suit.
BCH has made it possible to process multiple transactions at a go, not sending and scared of a previous transaction altering or preventing your transactions from being successful, as well as it has made peer to peer a causal and easier trade, with the low fee and faster transactions, no doubt you'll want to consider BCH to send and receive way more than you would want to use your bank.
Now quickly dive in onto the other aspect of humanitarian or community service, it's BCH all the way creating a sort of empowerment scheme to help people get funds, earn decently for doing what we know how to do, and doing it well, as well as the improvements each one of us stands to get from mingling with like minds with different style of craft. Platforms like Read.cash, noise.cash and tipb.ch among others that would be hopefully created to assist more talents.
Its enough to love BCH via its features, and of course we love BCH for the good it does also, most coiners gain with an increase in coin price when they already have coins on store, but with BCH it helps you earn and still present you the option of hodling, and as you can see it keeps benefiting its holders from it good value increase over a short period of time, oh it's just beginning as it is sure to keep climbing higher.
Do give a try to studying more on BCH, that way you can see what few are enjoying already and what many others are yet to enjoy. BCH remains the true king. Know more about BCH.
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Never Turn Your Back On Family
Family is really deeper than we think, it goes beyond the blood link, far beyond the facial resemblance, still far beyond the characters difference, yes beyond the house, yes goes past the food, the celebrations, it goes past all of our definitions, at last we would settle at defining it as Gods perfect people for us. Don't know how your home feels, don't know about other homes where brothers hates brothers, even till the extent of killing or causing harm, but this I can say and it's TRUE, God never makes a mistake of the family he places you in.
I too can't lie about being in good terms always with my family, have you met my siblings, I bet you haven't seen such annoying people before, just when you think you're very concious of your reactions, just in a second they can make you lose it. Oh I've fought, am I still going to fight, though I feel like I've grown past that stage and we can't be acting so childish fighting over the slightest provocation, but we never know yet, hurtful words could be said, and you just dont want to let it slide which may lead to the worst case scenarios, in this we still don't stop being family.
It all begins to make sense sooner or later, when you begin to accumulate past events, added to the current, just realizing how stable they have stayed, probably they've stayed so regular that we dont see the sacrifices as much as we should, that sense of entitlement has reduced our show of gratitude greatly, more reason for an article like this, to make us see yet again what we ought to see and not be carried away by what we like to see. Family first is the trend, but how sad it is that we dont follow the trend in real life settings.
Nothing last forever is not just the key word for this article, it is a resounding phrase that can help us choose better. Let's better prioritize our life, not only because God mandates us so, but also because it still wouldn't be enough to say thank you, its the least you can do. No one has ever come through for me as much as family, how unfair it would be to your family that when you finally have gotten the prayers answered that they've all been collectively praying for you to get, just then you choose someone else to enjoy it all, and you still don't think something is wrong.
Well nothing would feel wrong, until as usual that person disappoints you and you have to fall back to those who never left, family. Well they have no choice, it's God ordained, we can only try to live it the best possible way. However there are friends that have earned the spot of being closer than a friend, you wouldn't be wrong to address them as family, not just friends also, cause soon we all finds someone, someone whose not family, but after a while becomes family and we are now entitled to prioritizing this person first, even more than our already existing family, and we all would like it that way.
This he or she eventually becomes the new family bonded by God, by tradition, by religion and soon to be bonded by blood, soon enough you both begets offspring, so yes they now come first. Your new and most loved family, in this your existing family stands by you and on no account should they be forgotten, truly expenses are enormous and may not be enough, but still it's our duty to try our best. Soon comes a time when dad and mom works no more, then we should step in, a lot has been put in us, much more is expected of us, we can do it.
Far from expected, I am not going to kick against you having pleasure, if we keep living our lives without we doing whatever makes us happy, then we may never experience what it feels to be a free man, we all should live as free men., however its very costly and deadly to Continue without applying caution and wisdom, all this I say because the most reasons why people neglect family is to focus on other things that gives them joy, such as drugs, alcohols, womanizing, gambling and other addictive activities, in this we may not stop early but do well to apply wisdom.
To be sincere its very rare to see someone who can self advice him or herself to stop an addiction, most people stop after having a better experience, some of which they've survived, some of which not so good, in all life teaches eventually. This steals from those who are truly deserving, and it is a wrong in all sense, we should constantly be on the lookout to making our family smile and proud of us, true fulfillment too can come from this. Family is everything, when everyone else goes, guess who stays, guess who is going to keep standing and cheering us to get better? Yes you're right Family.
Thanks for taking time out to read, God bless your family for collectively putting hands together to raise a beauty like you. Stay true to yourself, God bless.
You're Very Important Dear
You're important no doubt about that, we mostly live our lives trying to make others see how important we are. How then do you feel when you're taken for less, or not seen among the crowd. Never stop feeling important, for a lot of people, today is a time to feel depressed, like valentine is a day of love, and lovers would be parading all around with the singles left to watch and think about their lives and how lonely they are, may likely stirr up a rush to get into a relationship as soon as possible, this shouldn't be so. There's nothing wrong with anyone, we should al know we are important and very valuable.
We are all important, yes we are, even when it doesn't yet appear so. Ever wondered why some people treat you so strangely, you would have expect a different and more natural feeling but anytime they see you, they act differently, you know they've definitely seen something in you that you don't. Most times we see ourselves the main actors in a movie, I guess everyone does, because we all can only feel ourselve, we can only motivate ourselves and dream for ourselves, therefore we sometimes feel life is all a story and we are the main actors, everyone and everything else is playing a supporting role to help the movie but we are the main people everyone should be looking out for, and with this we'd expect everyone to treat us with importance but they mostly don't, this upsetting sometimes.
Sometimes after we get upset we feel calm, because we know movie hasn't ended and it'll surely get to the point where we can teach them a lesson, as though we authored the script of life. Maybe it's a believe that whatsoever goes around, comes around. Maybe it's an assurance that we would surely be great tomorrow, Maybe it's a believe that karma would take its course, or yet we may just be day dreaming. Personally I feel it's good we think of ourselves such although its not entirely true, as it show as good boost of self esteem which would motivate us into going that extra miles just cause we believe we can.
However, this self believe sometimes gets into some peoples head, and they begin to misbehave, do we feel its okay to speak to anyone as we please, cause we are that so important and life can't be working against us. Indeed as this level of self confidence has it's good side it also undoubtedly has it's bad effects, like you now expect everyone to be nice to you and if they don't then they are bad people, and you feel okay not be nice to others, oh what does it matter, I am the one who's important, they would get over it. Such people has this needs to be reminded that they are also normal with nothing out of the ordinary so they should come off their high horses.
Maybe when they get to be put in their place then they would be calm and their pride would lessen so they can act and be better humans, you know the truth is life doesn't revolve around you and you alone, that is the truth, although we mostly feel the opposite. I too am quite guilty, especially in a competition with others I'll just expect things to work out to my favour, like it can only be me who the crown fits perfectly. Funny enough sometimes I've lost and felt like the competition is not over, maybe they'll call me back, oh can I lose, little me could ponder as though I was acting a movie for real, eventually I go home sad, feeling off. Well I learnt right now, you know life teaches.
That's right, we all would learn right, cause life teaches, as much as we want to feel like the only boy or girl in the world, life would continue to teach us on how there are billions of people existing and God cares for us all the same. So while you feel life is centered around you, you should also know I feel the same too, oh including that insane man across the street, your employee feels same way too, he could be feeling like he would get a bigger one than yours tomorrow, but what can you do it's how he feels, it doesn't make it true, how about you who feels their life would ruin if you sack them so you act so strict, its how we feel it doesn't make it true.
Nevertheless, I must commend the positive effect even as I have shun the negative, there are some good to feeling this way, however I hope we can balance it. Feeling like life is revolving around you, with God and his Angel's taking you alone as the main highlight of earth, can prove positive too to some extent. This can increase you confidence that you try out crazy things hoping with more certainty that it would work out. You could literally be in a competition with people and feel like it's you, it has got to be you, while others might be scared with cold feet, you're there feeling confident like they all mean nothing. You have to win, and most times such confidence birth forth victory for real.
Other times it doesn't, and that should make you realize that it isn't about who's important or not, its about earning the win for real. It's not the world always backing you up, or mother nature preferring your face to others, its mainly about how well you've earned your spot, you can choose to be lazy just strolling around and expecting to be treated with importance everywhere, surely you'll learn how no one truly cares and you just have to take care of yourself first and groom you into the you you want others to see, then they can see you for who you worked on yourself to be and treat you with such respect.
The celebrated celebrities are not celebrated cause mother nature loves them more, they all have something they do and do so well that the work celebrates, oh yes they worked hard. Hopefully we can strike a balance, seeing this feeling of self importance can be good as well as bad. For me I like to feel like things would work out perfectly for me especially in a competition, it raises my hope and it makes me not give up yet until the final whistle, however I know better than to think everyone else is secondary and treating them such, life has taught me that some people would be preferred to me as well as some i would be preferred to others, but it doesn't mean anyone is more useless, as God still loves us equally. It's still has to do with how well we have earned what we want to achieve.
So we all have to work it out to becoming what we hope for. You want to be treated like a king or queen, it is going to be by hardwork, and the hardwork starts now. It takes lot for others to see what we see in ourselves, however with hardwork and consistency we can enforce it into their sight.
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Seeing Time As A Teacher
How do you see time, as a measure to keeping up with events or a reminder of existence, or do you see it differently, not just for its tick tocks, the seconds and hours, not just the calendars reminders, can we start seeing time for something else, oh for someone else, can we start seeing time as a teacher. You must agree with me that time teaches. Life teaches generally but time tells the full story. Time teaches, time heals, time reminds, indeed time is way more than the minutes and hours, time is more of a teacher.
You must have learnt a thing or two off time, some personal tutorings as well as from other people experience, remembering some days I've looked forward to a particular time, with so much excitement, So many days I've looked forward too, I've so anticipated a lot of days as though when that day come it would never leave, when it came and now its gone. Slowly I've gotten to realize that it's same time movement each and every single time. Its same tick tock tick tock, and it would go more slowly for anyone, it hasn't lowered its speed for anyone and I don't think it has any intentions of easing down for anyone in the future, its probably the one of the things that can't be bribe, you can't bribe your way into getting enough time, well unless God says so.
With this we seat up, time is not on anyone's side, time doesn't have a thing against you, nor is it nature getting angry with you to steal your time away, it's a well programmed data that's going to keep reading and reading till the end of the earth. We it's best we act with discipline and tolerance, do what we ought to do and quit lazying around. I can remember not doing my assignments on time and hoping that I'll still have enough time to copy it from my friends by morning, only to get there and everyone has submitted, oh couldn't time just do this one thing for me? Eventually no one can lay hold on time.
Like a shadow of life, time is closely associated with life, when you life start, time starts. When life ends time ends, when we say since the beginning of time, we actually mean since the start of the start, cause its closely another way to signify life as far as earth is concerned. Day and night and afternoon to evening are merely supposed to ease our understanding and not be confused, eventually the time choices were fashioned so well that its has become so useful to us and our living. The night comes while we are mostly tired and ready to sleep. The afternoon comes with the sun to shine our paths for the active work, so it all works out well. Truly a wise God we have here.
Time has proven to be one of the most disciplined factors we have on earth, money too is disciplined, but overtime we have seen people get money through crooked means, money surely has a other route, another route people can take to earn more of it, it doesn't matter if the route later leads astray, there is a short cut and people are most likely going to go by it. Yet I wonder where the short cut to buying more time could be, cause a lot of things I'll be needing that for, much more than people needing money, more people would know better to buy themself more time, because time has got it all in it. Infact when you get the money, you'll still be needing enough time to enjoy it.
How many times have you said to yourself, oh I wish I could get enough time, especially during crucial times that's very important to you. For students it could be on the examination day, for workers it could be beating the deadline to submit or project your work. For parents it could be to gather enough before the rent is due, for us, it could be getting to write a good article before we step out of the house. So many things we need time to agree with us upon, but time just keeps relaxing on his swinging chair chanting tick tock tick tock. I just imagine I could someday lay hold on time, so much would change no doubt.
Do you remember your superheros, have you ever wondered what superhero would be more powerful, while others would go for strength and speed, some might go for being invisible, maybe a combination of it all, I still feel controlling time is the best. With that firstly I can go back in time to kill the villain while he or she was still little and powerless. While superman would want to use his laser or his super punch.. I'll simply pause time, then go grab a bite, eat enough and drink then look for a way to kill him, then resume time. Oh if time was a person it would surely be the most powerful being alive, we would be lucky if he used it for good.
Luckily for us, time isn't fully a person but it resides in the hands of the greatest there is and would ever be. The singular control of time is enough to worship him forever. Oh he doesn't just control the general time, he also control our individual time, however being the good God he is, he's so lenient with our time and doesn't meddle much, he simply start our time via birth and end our time via death, the rest of the agendas are fully up to us to do at well. I mean it could be night time with everyone sleeping and you decide to watch a movie, he wouldn't stop you to say, and force your eyes to close. As you lay your bed, it's so you would lie on it.
Do you wonder if God has ever paused the time on us, everything seems to be working perfectly, I wonder maybe he repairs it whenever he feels it's going bad, he just pauses it to repair it, and yet we wouldn't know, how would we know, we would feel like nothing strange happens. Truly our God being the holder of time is surely doing a good work with it, I don't think anyone else can do the job. Though I wouldn't mind taking control of time even for a day, maybe I'll rob a bank or manipulate a lotto, maybe get a expense paid Visa to travel the world, or make the president my friend.
However time is no man's friend, so get up and work, be discipline cause time on itself is very disciplined, so you can match with and meet up with time. It's never waiting, never resting, it's always tick tock, tick tock.
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Play Wisely Not By Education Alone
There are lot of graduates year in and out, lot of educated people but years later there are little or nothing to write home about, similarly there are many people not educated and still nothing to write home about, so both being educated and uneducated isn't a sure road to success, rather it's the ability to know what to do, how to do it, when to do it and with whom to do it, simply put the application of wisdom is a sure route to success. Only that education helps us in gaining more wisdom, so it's a reason one should prefer to be educated than not.
Beinh educated however should not be mistaken for being wise. I like to show these two areas being totally different. You can be educated and not wise, but you can't be wise and not be educated. The final aim however is not in being educated but rather in being wise, simply because wisdom is the application of acquired knowledge into real life settings. So if you're educated, it's better when you can apply what you have learnt overtime to make it work for you, but when you just learn and learn and learn without any application of it to the betterment of your life, then I guess you're only educated not wise.
I don't think education is limited to a school system alone as well as I don't think schools has to deal with young children going to a building to learn mathematics, physics, and more other subjects, because education has been described simply as a process of passing across a needed knowledge, yes most times it's a school or college setting, but also knowledge is being passed in a workshop, knowledge is been passed in a rehearsal ground, knowledge is being passed as an apprentice for a bookstore, there are so many ways of passing knowledge and so in that case they all are education. Some educated by books which should be our first and basis knowledge, some by apprenticeship, Some via working for a firm.
However it's never enough to only be educated and educated alone, if you aren't applying what you've learnt, then I guess that's not wisdom. Education in every sense is supposed to help us become wise, cause its only via wisdom that we get to enjoy the benefits attached to being educated. For example, a graduate going for an interview would most likely be asked some question and the response to the question would determine if such person is qualified for the job or not, remembered i said a graduate. But being a graduate doesn't assure him the job already.
Already he or she I educated, you can't take back the fact they he went to school, or erase the fact that she took her examination and passed, as long as he or she is a graduate, then they were educated, however they still need to prove that they can apply what they were taught am make it work in reality, these is the essence of the interview. For some jobs an illiterate with no formal education but can do the work could be preferred to an educated person who is confused on what to do. Oh yes both of them are educated in their various ways, so may the best man get the job.
I wonder how people take completing your schooling program as already successful and forget to know that even a dull person would also graduate, its no longer a assurance to get a PhD or get a masters and feeling like you're the best in the world, we still want to know are you now truly wise as your degree proclaim you to be. For you to attain that level of degree owning to your name, it's expected that you're wise already and you're more than capable of applying it on a real life settings, more reasons why projects are done, why field works are encouraged. So we look past our Education and ask sincerely are we wise.
So no one gets me wrong, education is one of the best gifts our world has currently, it has sharpened the minds of the young stars so that they can think and see broader than what they think, now their brains are getting more developed and that is the exercise the brain gets. See how people have gotten crazy sense of humours, our sarcasm, our mode of words construction, our dictions and ease of communication. All these and more you'll agree to be a greatly aided by education.
Education has brought a possibility for everyone to communicate, you could be in your country and learn the language and culture of another country, we learn more by dedicating ourselves to the process. Education has created one of the strongest friendship and connection the world has ever seen, see old time classmates being buddies to old age, cause via that process of education where many people share the single room, a great bonding was taking place invisibly. Education we can't throw away, oh yes our coming children too have to be educated, but much more than that they've got to be wise.
Firstly wisdom is a function of the brain, so if the brain is malfunctioning you'll really need a supernatural push in other to make wise choices. So next up, as we learn and learn lets look for ways to apply it on realty, as that's what's important, the application of what has been learnt overtime into the physical. You've been taught a lot about business, when do you start up yours. You've learnt a lot about car mechanics, don't you think its time to start working for yourself. Its good we learn, it's good we are educated, but it better we are wise, wise enough to put all what we've learnt into profitable use.
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How Often Do You Pray For Your Nation
When the righteous rule, the people rejoice but when the wicked rules, the people mourn, having heard this, how often do we pray for those in authority, as it's a sure way to bring happy, like it or not, the affairs of our states or country would largely affect our happiness. For instance the time of the lockdown, the world together had to pray for it to be over cause we didn't like being lock up inside. Similarly if there are crisis or any form of distortion from the normal process especially a negative disturbances that would create worries, it wouldn't be so nice.
As important as praying for ourselves and praying for our loved ones, praying for the nation is also important, dont leave it to your neighbors to do alone, you pray for the nations, the peace of troubles would affect everyone, but it wouldn't matter if it affects someone else cause you'll only speak for yourself and how it affects you and your family. You very much don't need to be a good person or bad person to suffer in a case where the country Is in trouble. One morning everyone is fine the next minutes everyone is leaving their cars and houses just trying to secure their lives first. We pray for many things to stop but for the country we ought to pray for prevention, like it shouldn't happen at all, so many damages could be done before a repair surfaces. Intentionally we see that we are at peace, but do we know what actions the governments are taking behind our backs that may lead to chaos and mayhem uprising.
Worst still do we know what a group of people may be having planned that's about to cause an unrest for the entire public, we can't be too extra careful, most of us are merely citizens, the best we can do is to pray for the country and hope everyone making important decisions are directed enough to make the right decisions. Not limited to fights and chaos only, we could also experience natural disasters, in such cases what can the government do? How often are we aware and fully prepared for what is to come. Come praying for your country is for your own good too.
We often make the mistake of not knowing how important it is to pray for a national peace. There's so much you could control at home or in your environment, but there's so little you can do when your country is in chaos, when there's unrest in your land or maybe war, the tension weeps round everyone home, then it becomes a survivor of the fittest as everyone's family is trying to save theirselves first before any other. Those friends and colleagues would matter less to you, in more critical states no one might matter because there's so much going on for you to care about another.
The recent generations have been so opportune to witness a more humane kind of living, where there's an instant shun to violence, the forces are always on the lookout to ensure peace, but we have seen documentaries, movies have recaptured some of the moments and we surely don't pray to experience that, of course things were worst than what the movies displayed, the stories we were told were only the aspect they knew of, or yet remembered, things were worst in reality, you couldn't possibly imagine. Your forefathers at least experienced such moments, a piece of us was present, not the actual us, someone with our DNA, all lives are related remember.
If the nation is at peace both with itself and other countries, the citizens would have lesser problems to deliberate about, problems like food scarcity, pollution, wide life conservation, ozone layer depletion among many others, all these issues are issues that the people can control, as they would come up with solutions to see that such matters is resolved, well they could decide to pass across a law prohibiting the killings of any wide animal, or a restriction to national energy consumption, something can be done, maybe not to stop it entirely, but to curb at least to an extent. But in a time of war, when the government is not in control of the situation, or there's very little anyone could do to save his or herself as you can't tell where the next hit would be landing.
National disaster is yet another reason to pray for your country, the choice of what country you would like to be born into was never an option for you to pick, it just happened so, if it weren't so I'm sure some countries would never be populated, but God just placed us as he best desire, and so we have to grow with the place and join in the building up of the country in our own various capacities. When national disaster strike, its really no ones fault, its just the place issues in regards to its position on the earth, these national disasters have lead to many death and many others displaced, some are orphans while some lost loved one. It indeed is a dark awakening for any place it comes to.
From earthquakes to volcanic eruption, to flood, to outer space asteroid landing, just to mention a few, there are usually countless loses recorded, you can never be too prepared, unless we have a Noah who God would direct to build an ark so we can at least just try to hide as a safety precaution, but since its not so therefore it takes on unaware. Houses built on sweat and fortune have been totally swept away or destroyed by floods, cars lost, lives have been taken by volcanic eruption the likes, so we pray that God would stop this from reoccurring, of course he created the world and all there is in it so if any can stop it, that would be him. Pray for your country.
Pray that there would be peace among the various tribes that exist in the country, some countries are multilingual and so there are going to be some ethnic clashes but let them be easily resolved. Pray that your country don't get into war with another country or better pray your country don't get into war with a higher power country that could send just missile and your country has just guns to fight with.
Pray that you have a good government too, not one that would make the country a little hell for it's citizens with the constant bad choices and you all have to pay for the wrong decisions and bad governance. Pray against national disaster, as you might not know when or where its about to hit next, just a boom and destruction sweeps, so pray well for all round peace in your country.
You should know that your country is your home, we are all born soldiers of our mother's land because we are meant to defend it at all cost, no matter who's wrong, its our home, your brother could go make trouble outside and come running home to hide, well as long as he's home, he knows he's somewhat defended unless the people are coming with higher arms and power, same with our country, we are to defend it to the win unless the opposition are more powerful to defeat or cause our surrender. While we pray for ourselves daily, remember that praying for your country for her national peace is another indirect way of praying for yourself.
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Don't Worry About Me
I often a reason for concern when it comes to a relationship, like you would take me for a player when in reality I'm very loyal, I still dont know how to calm down the situation, I guess you don't expect me to leave all my friends alone. It's all an understanding. The females have this bother more, the guys always want to keep tab on them, hello dear, where are you now?, what are you doing? Who are you with? Yes sometimes its insecurities and sometimes it's the fear to know there are many other guys trying to get her attention, they only want to be on guard.
It's all a matter of trust, accountability too, it's not wrong to let your patner know what you are doing, if you're outside, it's ok to let them know your reason for going out, at least its what you signed up for, accountability is okay, I feel the only reason why you could want to keep your movements private from your partner is when you indeed are planning something fishy, and should your partner not care about finding out your movement is either they don't want to be hurt so they dont inquire, or they really dont care and that's bad, like why would he or she care what you do.
How much assurance could you offer to the one who cares deeply about you, do you like them tensed up and over burdened with your actions or you like things clarified so their minds would be at rest. There are actually people who derive so much joy from making their partners jealous, and so they do it more often, eventually they begin regretting their actions when the partner could no longer deal with the emotional trauma and decides to quit, Just to safe guard their sanity. Not everyone has same tolerance level, some can bear it, others can't and would soon think it best to quit.
Help him or her to trust you more, you could do it easily, a constant assurance till he or she can trust you with their eyes close, we all deserve that security, to know that one day won't come and someone has stolen you away, to know that it's also in your mind to make things work for the better. When we truly love the person, believe me we are scared, we don't want to lose you, yes we have invested so much, days has gone by, months to years has gone by with our fully attention and life invested to being with you, oh we deserve that level of security to know we don't have to bother cause you want it to work also.
Maybe we should stop accusing people of being jealous and try being crystal clear for a while, maybe that person who is allegedly very jealous isn't as jealous as you think, he is only madly in love and you are not making it easy for him to trust you, whereas he or she is so scared of losing you, so maybe you can be crystal clear and so how calm he would be when he knows deep down that all is well, he needs so heart security. Many people are currently living with their blood pressure always raising, and its only because the are in love with someone who derives joy from getting them jealous, I just hope they don't die before you stop.
Also for the deep lovers, they need to treat issues more calmly, it's not wrong to be in love, but your mental health comes first, when you dont feel secured that the person you love loves you back, and there's nothing you can do about it, yet you can be getting I'll now and then. Stressing and always keeping watch, there are more things important, probably have a talk out with the person so they know how it is with you, it's not wrong to let them know their actions gets to you a lot, no it's not wrong, at least they can adjust and help you cope better, every gets jealous when it comes to someone they truly love, some however knows how to manage it and you won't know.
It's ok to say "Dont worry about me" that level of assurance to know that wherever you go, however you move, you heart lies with someone and you're not willing to let it go. Faithfulness indeed is a choice, forget the tales of men would always be men, that is a lie, such men are not in love, when love Is involved it brings forth commitment, knowing that you have someone you never want to lose would keep you living to please that person, however some are in love but think they would never get caught, so they indulge, however truth always unfolds soon, so the wise ones would better keep themselves.
You deserve to be with someone trusted, you also need to be accountable to someone else, trust is a two way thing, trust and br trusted, it helps the relationship foster better. You can be with your spouse all day everyday, you got to work also, he or she needs to work too, so what do you do then, always call, no that wont work, it gets easier when you both establish that trust, you know what "don't worry about me, you have my heart my love" its only you and no ones else, yes not by words alone, but words goes a long way. Learn to reassure your love.
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Can You Do It All By Yourself
Do you think you can do it alone, do you feel you are capable of doing it all by yourself, without the help of anyone else. Everyone needs help in one time or another, this life is so intertwined, at points in time we are in need of something, of someone, it doesn't necessarily need to be money, most times the solution comes provided by someone, we all need that someone. As kids we needed our elderly parents or guidance, as grown ups we are in need of our helpers, people who can provide the solutions we need at a point in time, at old age we need the attention of the younger generation who can attend to out every need. We can't live fully without needed help at some point in time.
It's a normal occurring phenomenon that needs be met and such needs could only be cured of a more experienced personal. No one successful today can truly say he got to where he or she is today without any form of assistance. Its not necessary the helper must be successful first, although it's more rampant that way, but it could be as simply as knowing how to direct a person and you are the helper he needed to see a better life. We all need assistance one way or the other, let's be open minded and positive too. Everyone seeks success, you and I, same way everyone needs help at some point.
I'm yet to see someone who says I don't need any help whatsoever, the richest man still needs help to maintain and gain more too. If you're settled in one area of life then you automatically aim for another area to sorted out. Most times we are at peace not because we have everything sorted and taken care off, rather its because we are content with what we have and won't let the quest to get that desire consume and lead us into drastic decisions.
Many times I've seen people just conclude from afar that everything is fine with you, plus you have plenty in store and so you can help them, and should you not then you're wicked and its like one day you too would come begging for their help, but life doesn't work that way. A wicked and stingy man with the right business mindset who Is wealthy now can remain wealthy forever till he dies, don't be surprised.
So rather than get upset over someone who is refusing to help you, we should all grow with the mindset that no one owes us a dime, in fact everyone needs help. Good business people would prefer to give you money on the basis that you can solve or assist a particular need. Sadly most people want to result to seeking pity, but how many people can they pity as well as you have tagged yourself as an expenditure, so don't be shocked when they seek alternatives to avoid you.
The world today don't pity anymore, its said to be laziness that you who has all your body functioning can't get some particular needs met and you require them to help, some might yet drive you out or insult you politely as some would have compassion because they understand how situations can be sometimes, however we can't hate someone because they refuse to help us, should tables turn and they ask for your help too, its totally up to you to help or not, they shouldn't hate you too for your decision, because every needs and pray help too remember.
The easiest way to get help for yourself is to help the helper. Rather than plead on his conscience to pity you, you can look for what you can do to push forward his favour to you. This reason is why some rich people feed more to their girlfriends or boyfriends than their families. Yes no doubt its bad and irrational, but that girlfriend makes him happy, he longs to see her again, she's hoping to sneak out to meet him again, but when his sister ask for something its an immediate "No I don't have". Well family shouldn't need to help you first, they are your priority already, they are your blood and at such helping them is helping yourself too. However it doesn't change the law from being effective, if you can help then you can be helped too.
Not money alone should we discuss in this matter of needing help, for some people their current main goal isn't getting money, isn't to increase their financial capacity, although money has a way it answers most things, however you still care to solve that issue more than your crave for money. Some times its career, fixing up your career is what you are focused and deliberative about, you probably have tried many times yet it keeps crashing down, so you seek help, not necessarily money, could be the right expertise to work you through, could be the right team to cover other areas you can duplicate yourself too, could be a looking for a perfect spot or location too.
Most times secretly our main objectives is finding the right relationship, its no news how people happiness are now being tied to how much someone can love them rather than how much they can do for themselves. Relationship no doubt is a vital aspect of our lives, we can't afford to make the wrong decision so we don't go hurting and starting afresh, however we can't fully place our happiness on another person, this is more times a bad investment than it is good. Well I guess we aren't discussion relationship in details now, so yes, some people could be more bent on relationship and they need help in that area more.
Some its health, family, appearance, spiritual matters, could as well be crypto trade but I guess that's in someway money too. People differs in what they crave about, everyone has one or more things they need help for, so your life too is just fine, you're not the only one with issues, everyone does, simply control yourself and look for a way forward, get a plan to work with. And most especially remember that nothing is impossible with God.
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Controlling My Emotions
Be you a man or a woman your emotions can get the better off you. I accept the stereotype has mostly accepted females displaying their emotions, as the Male are seen as weak when they show their vulnerability. I used to be weighed down by any thing that hurts me bad, like I could spend all my free time pondering why on earth such happens to me. Every matters that are beyond my control I ponder on too as if I created myself or I could recreate myself better. Little did I discover that so many people around the world also battles with their feelings, unfortunately not everyone can overcome and so the feelings get the better of them and they are depressed.
The ability to think within ourselves and see ways to navigate the current issue, so it doesn't interrupt our growth or thought process Is key. Your mental health matters, reason what makes you feel bad, often times they are not worth it. Sometimes I feel funny, sometimes I feel good, other times I feel moody, while some other times I feel super excited, I guess I'm human and my nature is dynamic, it changes and with my various natures comes my different responses to it. What we feel and how we feel is totally out of our control, however how we react to our feelings, our corresponding actions, that we can control.
The fact that you feel some kind of way towards a person or thing isn't your choice to make, although we often say I choose who I like, well that statement is quite incorrect, rather we choose who we follow, but who our hearts and emotions accepts are just matters of the heart. There are some Foods you like and others you don't like, yet your sister likes the opposites, all this cannot be tagged as our choice, they are just our feelings towards it, its our personality accepting or rejecting, sometimes your good will wants to do otherwise but you just can't lie to yourself, you just can't like what you dislike, you just can't love what you hate.
I have always advice those who seek counsel from me on this delicate matter, on the need to think things through before acting, as much as this feelings speaks a lot about you, yet there are many decisions that might not be favourable, and you've just got to keep your feelings in check, and say hey feeling, we are not going through with that plan. Often times people tend to justify irrational decisions with I am only going with my heart. Well it doesn't change the fact that you've done it.
As guys have you seen a girl you like very much date your friend, well you know you like her, oh sorry you know you love her, but as far as she's dating someone else, not to mention your friend, and she choose to date him, no matter your feelings, wouldn't you move on or pray for your turn. Going through with your feelings would be tagged betrayal, you just want to come clean and be good, probably open up to your friend and the girl in question, well that's if its uncontrollable. Oh what if the guy is not your friend and she isn't married yet, then its not betrayal as she still have her choice to make, so keep shooting those shots.
The society already has a way of making a girl feel cheap if she goes ahead to ask a guy out, we forget that they too are humans, same blood, same hormones, same energy, but as the lady you're mandated to carry yourself with high esteem and wait for the guys to come, I laugh often times, cause life has a way of sending those they don't really crave for their way, and those they crave for aren't showing signs, or worst are liking their friends, all this kind of makes life interesting though.
Well as ladies, you have emotions too plus you know what you want and you are capable of getting your desires. Anyways they have devised a way to get both to play out for their favour, this way they don't really open their mouths to say I want you, and still they get who they want, it's call giving a green light, sometimes it graduates into systematic seduction, well you can blame them, the society fights them for coming clean, only few brave hearts overlook the system and go ahead with it.
Well, like I said earlier these feelings should seek permission from your thoughts before the plans are executed, sometimes the thoughts can say let's just do it, we'll bear any outcome, yet other times the thought could say this isn't a good plan, here is why, so let's forgo this. The stronger the feelings the stronger you should think on it. That's why the teenagers should be given stronger advice and supervision, because then the hormones are overtaking their heads, sorry their thoughts, and they crave to explore especially those nasty stuff, we've all been there, that's when they need a strong reason why they should stay good and responsible. They need to know the benefits and the repercussions with good explanation, so they can succumb, but they still have to play a vital role of placing rational thinking over emotions.
Are you ready for negative result, before you act blindly to emotions, oh she's pretty but lacks good character, so you just want to sleep with her, nothing serious, but brother when it goes the other way and a cute boy brings you ties forever, are you ready. Oh he's too cute, I'm going to ask him out, no I'm going to do it, and then you get turned down with a NO, are you still going to be okay,or would you cry your eyes out. This business is booming, I don't have to see that its not legit, or I don't need to research on it, I'm just going to invest, when your money goes swimming away, are you ready to smile and move on, or would you almost loose your sanity. Many times the feelings are strong, but we are not ready to see it go otherwise, not just ready. Life of course involves risk, but those who take it knows best to be expecting the worst, and when it comes they accept it, it's just the game.
So yes, the feelings are totally normal, in fact they won't stop coming, but then think things through before you act. You shouldn't steal ice cream because you want it, if you can't buy it then let it go.
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Why BCH Still Remains Close To Our Hearts
Behind the price fluctuations and current dips BCH still carries as on as a true leader, still functional and best at serving its holders. So my love I've got for this coin, the one true coin I hold cause I genuinely love it, maybe its cause of the good offers it brings, maybe its because of the earning platforms it creates, maybe its because of its ease of transactions, but I sure do care a lot about BCH.
Nothing short of being tagged brilliant, exhibiting properties that Bitcoin could only hope to achieve, its programmed make up has been developed in such a way as to serve the public, no wonder why its often called "The Peoples Coin". Generated to serve the people, its yet working up to expectation. Indeed go round, make your findings and let's see how you'll concur to the fact that this is nothing short of brilliant.
Before now, I had thought btc was the brilliant crypto, mainly because it was more like digital gold, also as its value kept rising making it's holder benefit, but as it went higher, it kept deviating from helping the people to leaving everyone behind and just kept going up. To invest in btc for a higher percentage income presently, one has to pump in a large sum too, that little cash of the everyday man would have little effect even with a bullish trend. Reason why most people tend to seek another coin that's has yet the prospect to rise with time and still readily affordable, to this effect BCH is yet a top choice for any serious minded person, make the research and see the light.
You can easily notice the kind words that are written about BCH especially on this platform and other crypto related platform, these is to show there are many beneficiaries currently enjoying their stay, to HODL and transact your daily activities would always be a delight, especially when you have previously used other coin, just to later hope their excesses would be curb to better serve its users, well those excesses are being curb with BCH, the Bch program is done to serve the people, serving humanity is the throne of BCH and I can't see any other crypto overthrowing.
One of the brilliant make up of BCH is making it a coin capable of P2P, just as your normal country currency is being transferred from person to person and to carry out buying and selling, BCH too can better serve such purpose, its undoubtedly a best fit for peer to peer use, with the low fees on transfers, lower fees yet compared to bank charges or any charges BTC or ETH would offer and is currently offering.
Same reason as this, would make it a good fit to becoming used as a countries currency, although, like I discuss in my previous articles, these would meet many adversities, yet its only normal that new changes especially good changes be fought first, before becoming accepted. Already we can guess the benefits in store for the general populace should they imbibe the culture of dealing with BCH, well no doubt cryptocurrency is taking over, and sooner than expected, crypto would be overthrowing fiat currency, and as he ascends the throne, it'll take another great initiative to unseat him (crypto).
This way you could go about the daily works of sending cash to friends or family even in diaspora and not just the fact that they would receive it quickly, you also would be saving a lot more than you should do initially, imagine the cost of going to the bank because you want to transfer to your family in the Philippines or China, any country at all and then you know the stress you might be undergoing plus the informations you might force to give out, but all these could be averted, just with crypto, 100% decentralized, not controlled by any institutions, you are in control, although this truth applys to all crypto but what makes BCH stand taller is because it offers a better advantage, in form of the low charges, allowing peer to peer to be easily done.
Talk less on its empowerment opportunities, to allowing people earn BCH, to start their journey in the crypto world. Earning sites like Read.Cash or noise.cash has gotten many users kick started on their journey in the crypto world, alongside the value added knowledge, you can't simply not admire the diverse areas BCH has been able to touch, in these cause to helping humanity, none else does a better job than BCH.
It would keep going higher, its only a wise option for any to hop in the train while its still waiting at the station, BCH is already at the go with enough space to carry as much as possible and cater for each one throughout their journey, while giving a wonderful experience throughout the ride. It has indeed become a footprint for others to follow, so many other coins didn't choose BTC to follow its working function, where the blockchain processor takes limited transactions per time, or the high transfer fee charge per transact, rather choose to learn from the brilliant, BCH is the brilliant initiative, and would keep on serving in the best capacities. Join the trend. Create more awareness as we take a stand with BCH.
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Money Turns The World Insane
Sometimes we hear of some crazy occurrences and after all said and done we realize the sole motive for such actions, and more often it boils down to money, I like to say that money amounts to more than 90% of the world's actions, and I mean for all levels, from federal to states, all actions are money concerned, back home to work and study most actions are still money concerned, like though we weren't told but the main goal of our schooling was to become successful and make money, enough to care for ourselves and our families. We can't deny that money has become so powerful, it's a hot pursuit for everyone.
We all have our fair share of the crazy things money has made us do, some jobs we had to bear, some insults we received, some high hopes that later turned to disappointments. With the title you should have start reminiscing on those crazy things you've done just for money, no doubt we do stuffs for various reason, somethings for passion, more times for love and much more times for money. Now most times these crazy things we do are wrong things, oh intact they are bad things but then we want the cash more. Don't we know these extra miles or short cuts we are taking to make a few bucks are wrong choices? Well of course we know, we aren't dumb, we can distinguish what's good from what's bad, so it's very clear to us.
However, whenever we think on the money involved, we get blinded by greed, what could possibly go wrong, I'll be lucky, just this one time, we often say, but it's rarely so. The little step you take opens a more tempting option for you, well if you can't overcome the urge to step into it in the first place, I doubt if you would easily overcome the urge to go deeper.
There's a popular slang saying the only thing better than money is "more money", well true, you can never have enough of it, the more you get the more you want more, people who are okay with theirs financial status are merely grateful and contented with that which they have, all the same they still yearn for more.
If money answers to all things or at least almost all things and we humans are burdened with wants and needs on a daily basis, such that money would go a long way to seeing them solved, I guess that alone is enough justification that money should be sorted after. Waking up early and returning to rest late at night only to start again at daybreak is the routine we mostly see around the world, everyone is actively pursuing after money, therefore some have resulted into seeking another way out, another means to an end.
So many wrong decisions we make in our quest to get money. Well its our money and at such we choose how to spend it, moreover we aren't stealing or hurting someone in the process, we are simply staking our money in bets we see possibly, already there are legal platforms that allows us bet as well as few people have been lucky to win a life changing game. However this facts aforementioned, it doesn't shift away the adverse effects of such acts. One area we often battle with is its addiction and it's tempting offer.
We must know that the platforms organized for people to place bets on weren't established because they want to make you rich, no they were established because they hope you'll keep losing your money to them, which of course is a better probability, good business is not staking capital on probability. Many have thrown away good money because they believe Madrid would beat Chelsea, which is not going to happen, LOL. Some have starve both themselves and their family not because they didn't have the money, rather because they used the money to stake hoping on a jackpot.
Gambling is an act that is better avoided than seeking solution afterwards, it's a two way system, you don't want to climb a ladder blindly, you wouldn't know when to stop climbing. Get a plan to work with, and for those who are really hoping on luck as they are actively looking for ways to raise a capital, are advice to curtailed it to the barest minimum, weekly. Its your money but be sure you're not blindly throwing it away.
Crime covers all areas you can think off, you won't be arrested for gambling but be sure to face the law if found wanting of crimes. The forceful collection of someone else's belongings be it money or material possession, as long as it isn't yours and you used force to get it, then you've committed an offense. As much as there are grade to this and someone might say well mine isn't that bad, moreover I don't kill or if I were to be caught I won't be jailed for so long, isn't enough reason to keep going.
Such actions that are tagged crime usually involves a victim and to this you have hurt that person. You can say sorry or return the material but you can never return the effect and trauma you might have caused along the way. Life is centered around sowing and reaping, so planting bad is definitely a wrong decision, it finds its way around bouncing back and harder. Beware!
More among the ladies but not limited to the ladies alone, this act of giving out ones body for money is bad, so much is at stake here, standing a chance to ruin ones life totally, the constant abortions can lead to womb damage that when ready to settle down to Start a family there isn't much to look out for. Already its clear they stand a higher chance of contacting a bad virus that would totally destroy the body if not well curtailed, all these as well as the social image that's diminishing, its totally wrong to indulge in this act.
Its not until you're outside and standing along the way that makes you a prostitute, many young boys and girls today have multiple partners they sleep with just for the benefits attached, I don't know how else we can define that act. Not based on love and affection, just for the benefits plus multiple partners, well I see no difference. This actions is bad, seeking money shouldn't lead us deep to start considering this option, our lives owe more values and at such we must guard it well.
Betrayal is one major happening birthed from greed being excessive love for money, guess Judas Iscariot should come to mind, well not him alone, so many are guilty of this act too, so many have betrayed the trust and relationship because they seek to get a little buck. If you dislike a friend, then its best you leave them alone rather than hurt them so bad. Well the clause here is "should they be doing bad, and you're being interrogated, if you cover up then you too can be charged with such crime, so its advisable you give the needed information to the authorities". However in matters that has been confided in you to preserve and not illegal, then exposing it to the enemy who can use such information to do evil just for a few cash is bad.
Many have sent thieves to go steal from their friend, since he know he has a good sum of money at home, some have bad mouthed their friends among people who wants to help him or her, so they won't get it, brothers have betrayed brothers for money, the world is turning upside down with everyone tumbling just because we are all actively searching to get money at all cost. This shouldn't be so.
Rather let's get a plan we can work with, a plan that has good written all over it, follow up with hope and prayers and let's see God help us. Of course money is good, it isn't the root of all evil, but the love ( a must acquire) for it, is the root cause of all evil. Let's be guided and vigilant, it's truly isn't easy but its achievable to stay on the good lane and earn decently, let's keep pushing right, God is the best rewarder.
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Mom Has Taught Us So Much Already
Recently, I saw home with my family, though dad wasn't home but mom was and few of my siblings, from a distance I was sitting just thinking, then my eyes caught on my mom, and so I began to stare, I stared and stared and my head began to bring forth memories, oh my God, how much this woman has tried, I had nothing but appreciation for her, indeed she has put in her best into the success of her kids, my dad is my hero, that man has do so much, much more than anyone else, see this two people, so selfless when it comes to their kids. I truly appreciate them, however my eyes were fixed at my mom so I pondered deeply on what mom has taught me growing up.
If anyone deserves accolades for being the world's greatest teachers,it must firstly be moms, cause they started off from the early stage and keeps teaching till their last days living, your school teachers only teaches for an appointed semester. Moms are by far one of the great teachers God gave to mankind. They don't necessarily need to hold a book or teach on a board for you to learn, we learn from each encounter, each day spent with them is indeed a day to learn something new. Mom taught me a lot, look at the man I've become, the mom effect is singing all around me, Mother's are priceless gift.
Simply amazing is a preferable description, I can remember how she has gone selfless just so as to satisfy her kids needs. Well we pray God bless us so well that we can give them every good thing they desire, Oh they truly deserve it. They are the true life example of what a super hero truly is, ready to respond and fill in for us any day, anytime, total safety you feel around mom.
We spent most of our childhood days with our moms especially, the only place that would share our attention was school, back then movements was more like a routine, we are either with our mom or we are in school, if we were in church too we'll still be with our mom, if our friends came to play, we'll still be around our mom who can keep watch, so the only place where we often leave our mother's are to school, then we were being placed in the care of a teacher, so they mostly shared our childhood attention with our mothers.
Let's agree on this fact that mother's can step on your nerves and they are very good at it, almost like they studied the art of doing it, sometimes we flare up, shout at and refuse to talk to them, but for how long, you both are stuck together therefore it can't be long before you too get back and talking. Sometimes we prefer to be in school away from mommy and her troubles, but then school is a lot of stress, so much work, few fun times but as soon as the teachers gets to the board it's an immediate headache and hunger, then we want to just close and head home to eat and play. However both have our best interest at heart, maybe we didn't know, maybe we knew but just didn't care, yet maybe we didn't bother knowing their true intentions.
Mom couldn't possibly teach us on all educational subjects, my mom couldn't solve mathematics for me, she didn't go to school unlike some learned mom, she only did elementary before she dropped to assist the family, back then female children were mostly trained to marry and not to get a official job. So mommy is not happy when she see's her mate speaking fluently or having an office job, she has determined that all her kids must be well educated, since education offers a certificate that would render better options for a better life. And yes mom did it, all her kids today are educated. Kudos mom.
Going to school wasn't an option for us, mom and dad made it compulsory, I remember vividly how my school fees together with my elder brother's fee would not be paid on time and so we had to go back home, immediately mom would take us back and see the authorities to explain and plead to pay up soon, don't mind me sometimes I get excited because I could go home to play and eat, especially when few of my friends too weren't able to pay their fees too, we would all go to the field, that's a crazy story for another day, but mom never wanted us to miss class even for a second, if I can't do it, my children would do it, she'll often say.
That notwithstanding mom taught me a lot, she taught me the values of life, groomed me into the good man I am today, of course I spent most hours with her so if I can't learn from her, then I'd wasted most hours, she taught the essence of being good and staying good, definitely someone to emulate, so selfless to herself and care more for the home and all that dwell therein. She didn't just teach love, she shows exactly what love is about. She has taught me to do the craziest of things, she has a lot if stories to tell I doubt if she can ever exhaust them all. She is powerful.
In schools I learnt a lot, also I learnt about life too, I had good relationship with people, fellow students and authorities so school was truly a training ground, but at home especially with mom I learnt everything that love has to teach. I saw love in a person, I saw love in mommy. I say a very thank you to all the mothers, you guys are simply beautiful, saying thank you isn't close to enough, but however please bear with us, we love you all, you guys are simply the best.
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Does It Matters Who Hates You
Excuse me a few minutes off your time, does it really matter? I mean, to know there's someone who hates you, or dislike you, that's if hate sounds too wicked, so does it really matters to you? What would you do, how would you feel, do you try to make everyone feel good about you, or you just do you and anyone can think or take whatever they want, you don't bloody care. What category do you fall under, the few who care so much about what the next person thinks of them and always trying to maintain a good relationship, or the other set who don't care, they are ready to go fist with you and make you bitter, it doesn't move them a bit.
Of recent I've come to realize that I care so much, and its almost like those who don't care stay happier. When people come around me, I try so much to make them feel good, I'm so serious to see that they smile and be happy, but then they begin to take it as a right, almost like a master to worker situation, they become too important and it feels like I'm unimportant this time, For an example could be in a student setting where chairs are limited, you come in to see someone sitting on your chair and you're very polite, it's my chair but you can use it for now, don't worry, but when they see you, the rush and demand are so annoying.
So lately I began to think if I need to ge stricter, maybe that's the paying queue, all this good guys things pay less, maybe I'll stop caring, anyone can think what they like, they can disappear for all I care, I'm about to shock a lot of people with my new added character. So I started off, its was so hard, my conscience was a worthy contender, it won for most of the times, I had to inwardly forcefully go to make amends, lot of apologies I did back then, infact some scenarios were they person took no offense but I still did apologize and things were awkward, but yeah I cleared my conscience.
Slowly I began to understand that I too didn't care what anyone thinks, I do what i want, the only difference is that I want to love, I want to care, i want everyone to be happy and I don't care who doesn't want it, I don't know and care who like the person being sad, when I'm there and there's something I can do to make things happy, I do them not minding that someone spoilt them initially, it's how I love to operate, it's just who I am, and i too don't care who wants otherwise, they can also think otherwise as long as my conscience is clear, I'm good.
Apparently there would always be hate, its inevitable, just as love is inevitable, it's the two sides of the coin of life, just as light as a counterpart called night, the light is being ruled by love as the darkness is being dominated by the hate, so life in itself has always experience those two sides. The side of love and the side of hate, apparently the world is more dominated by hate, more reason for the killings, the rape and all bitter events making rounds around the world, but when it comes to our personal lives we want love to lead, more reason for the fun, relationship, laughs, but we put the hate outside for the worlds to fight.
So when the hate is brought to you, when someone has hatred for you, what do you do? How do you react to it. As I earlier said, we are fond of experience and showing love in our personal lives but we carry off the hate into the environment, inside of locking it up as it profits nothing. Therefore that person hating you is loving at home, probably has a family he or she deeply cares about, he or she has reasons to get excited, may be playful, but as their nature is already used to making outsider feel bad and doesn't care about their feelings. However it's your call, if you allow the hate recieve get the best of you, or simply remove it and keep loving.
It's our call generally, no wonder people now take medications seriously, cause the hate recieve in the world on daily basis are so much, enough to spoil the day, the energies recieved as so bad, we need to send it back, it's a serious practice needed for everyone, not saying we all need to start doing meditations or yoga reliving excercises, but the act of sending back negative energy and accepting the positive in order to get the best of the day is a very good tool to know. So when someone hates us, we remove the hate and respond in love.
We are love, no doubt we hate too, every human has both, it's the too sides to life, you'll mostly experience the hate when you're very angry and bitter, points were you don't care as you want to hurt so bad, but in calmer times as well as regular times we can be loving as well as hateful depending on the individual, cause there truly as regular wicked people, and that's for real. However here it is, it pays to suppress every form of hate you have, learnt it, deal with it, so you can experience love personally as well as put out love to the world as others are doing via philanthropy, educating, sponsorship, free healthcare, even a normal help to a friend. Like I like to say, Let Love Lead.
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Bearing Our Consequences
Have you ever done something bad and fear the consequences for your actions, in some way you feel what you've done would come back to hunt you, how serious do you take this feeling? Overtime does it really come to the future to taunt you. So many people preaches forgiveness and how when you are truly sorry for your crimes, you can be let loose without any punishment or bearing of consequences, but others do not concur, apparently its said that for every of our actions we must recieve the reaction, it's a life law and cannot be escaped, call it karma, still don't know what's the real deal. Karma simply put is getting a consequences for your done deeds. Ever heard of karma, well are you still deliberating if it's real or not, just in case you're then just stop, its real.
However I feel like karma was a name given and making it seems like a fetish occurrence but not quite so, rather its just a law of planting and harvesting. What you sow, you shall reap, this is a good reason why our lifestyle should be centered around love, then we are sure and expectant of harvesting love in return and should in case there's a slight mistake somewhere and you get into what we call an undeserved bad events, then you can come boldly in prayers and demand for a repair, I haven't done anything to deserve this so please oh Lord take it back. Now because you know and believe that shouldn't be happening to you, surely a turn of event or a restitution to vindicate you shall surface, now I'll tell you why this happens naturally, though many think and believe its more of a prayer effect, well God is always involved, but such effects takes place naturally too.
Just as a farmer plants maize and is sure that maize should be harvested, similarly, when we are living right in our own sight we expect that everything around us must be in order, hoping that God would be rewarding us for our good works done. Well he said "your righteousness is like a filthy rag before the lord, another says, its not he that wills or run but its just God that shows mercy" but then there is a benefit to living right, firstly and most important it secures you your good spot in heaven that's in eternity, so its rather for our benefits to be good and live in love. The other benefit is the fact that it helps our faith, we know and always hear that God is ever loving and always forgives us, yet whenever we do a wrong, our conscience disconnects and starts feeling like bad things can start happening.
Well, God doesn't stop loving because we've done something bad, if it were so he wouldn't have come for the sinners as Jesus clearly told us, so he has already forgiven us, remember the Bible says "what can separate us from the love of God, no depth, no height completely nothing, so he doesn't send evil because of our wrong, instead he looks forward to you turning away and accepting his love, if you as humans, we know can care for your children, how much more him the God Almighty, huh?
Already when our children misbehave, we don't cause sickness on them, nor injure them, our love for them doesn't decrease, we can be angry with them but our love towards them still remains, that instance if something bad was to happen you'll still be ready to shield them. You can not love them less, so does God who is the best example of a father, he is never going to hate you, he dislikes your action and needs you to change so you can enjoy all he has planned.
But tell that to our minds, our conscience still feels like we are condemned at every slight wrong and we are being awarded at every slight right, that's the reason for why the illustrations in the first paragraphs remains valid, cause our actions has a way of effecting our faith, and our faith is a powerful force that can recreate.
You can call down the impossible with faith, and with a good lifestyle, you mind sees no reason why things shouldn't happen in your favour, well, things should happen in our favour whether you are right or not, and things might not happen in your favour whether you live right or not, we are living a life and life is a play ground we must play all levels, its life.
However then we have a cheat called faith to cause the supernatural to assist us, and this faith is often boosted more by a right living rather than being taught the word. So we should live right, not only because we seek to make heaven, but also because we need it as a faith booster to help us command the needed change we need in our life everyday. It makes us have authority even while we are living on this usual earth. Remember again for without faith it's impossible to please God.
God is love, we too are love beings, let's make it a lifestyle to love one another even as we love ourselves, there is no need for hate, create no room for bitterness, let there be no cause for strife, follow peace with all men. At last all our cravings would fade off, and sooner we would be more bent on where we would be living our forever, this is the main mandate for life.
Sadly we youths are mostly carried away by the fun and cares of life, but when we remember death is no ones friend we know deep down we should have a change of lifestyle, but then emotions again sets in the next day as we step outside. Well only God can truly help us. So let's try to live right at least, Love is the watch word. For our Good is love.
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Sunday Relaxes The Soul
Happy Sunday yet again, the year seems to be racing quite fast already. How was your week? Mine had loads of work in it, but here we are cause its weekends, let's relax it all, Saturdays not so much, almost feels like a work day, but Sunday nahh, come sunday come a deeper relief, something about Sunday that feels like a spa, like all the body has been massaged, it speaks loud to us, it says relax, relax, relax, the main activity of a sunday has been the regular church service, and guess what a church is also a place to relax, yes, church calls us to relax, if church is a home of God, and God is our father, therefore church is home, at home we relax, more reason why I see no reason why pastors stress its members or make their heart race with fear. God is love y'all.
How's your Sunday going everyone, hope you started the day with prayers, infact hope you start everyday with prayers, and not only who sundays where you're reminded its church day. You can't deny there's always a special feeling to Sundays, maybe its cause of the larger number of people who rest on that day, or its truly the atmosphere giving a special feeling, or its the Sunday meal that's so unique, or maybe its church always giving us the feeling like something special is happening. Or is it with we getting to wear a special cloth and getting to meet with friends and everyone is looking their best. Indeed there must be something very special about Sunday, have you noticed it too?
I know Mondays looks like oh damn here we go again, with everyone looking like work has began again, Fridays are yet another day with a different sense as it looks like a relive, just like a close off work, every one has been stressed relive, with some feeling like partying through out the week. And Saturdays gets us to put all the stress of the week into resting, laundry, TV, friends and so on. These particular days are truly different, but you see this day called Sunday, its more like a day more special than the rest.
I thought like there are more angels around on Sundays, well while I was young, but as I began to grow I still feel like there are more angels at work, in fact I'm getting more convinced. I have seen people refusing to do some certain kind of things because its Sunday, more like everyone is more aware of their actions and are careful not to be found guilty, more like Sunday has become a semi judgment day, but in this we are only kidding ourselves, because God watches and takes note every time.
Oh no doubt family really makes Sundays special, some times I lose track of the day, I might be on a Tuesday and be thinking its Thursday already, but you see when its Sunday, that's so unquestionable, we know for a fact that it's Sunday, maybe it's different with few people depending on the factors involved, but for the most, it's always a surety that today is Sunday, and yes family has a lot to play in giving this kind of feel. Sundays are one time out of a full week you get to see all members of the family in the day time.
Normally very early in the Morning, most of us are up and out of the house, all in the quest for money, trying to get by everyday, but you see that Sunday, you can see our faces more clearly as we are home and relaxing. Now everyone has stories to tell, so much laughs and plays, Sundays always host the best family times. Before heading out to be the day more fun, hook up with friends from around, grab a drink and make conversation, Tomorrow we go again, but today is made for rest, so let us rest.
Sundays are made for rest is a word coined because our God created the whole world and he rested on the seventh 7th day, now we have adopted that action and infused it on our everyday life, so on the seventh day we are resting, though many has claimed that the rest day is Saturday and not Sunday, however true that may be, it wouldn't change the registered mindset people have of Sundays. The special aura that rovers around on Sundays can not be substituted to any other day.
Oh maybe it is the many prayers that happens on Sundays, everyone in church gets to pray, others knowing that it's Sunday or gets reminded by that neighbour passing by would also get to pray, so its more like the world gets reminded to pray on Sundays, so maybe this is another factor affecting the unique aura that Sunday has to offer. Some people didn't remembered to pray at all throughout this week, but by Sunday mornings they get pray and this happens so a lot of people all around the world. All around the world, the unique Sunday atmosphere is different from the rest.
Like I have earlier said, this difference in a Sunday Aura is definitely subjective, in a sense that you reading it might not feel it so, its totally dependent on how you are, your daily business, what makes up your Sundays and things of that nature, but for me and a lot of people I know who has shared similar thoughts with me, I'll say that there's definitely something different about a Sunday.
Yes there sure is, and this is what I intend doing and I feel its best, is to make the best of the day, build better and stronger connections, a better connection to God and then to family and friends, moreover Sundays we get to see more clearly plus the unique aura must have a spiritual advantage, to help boost our bonding efforts. Happy Sunday everyone. Sundays for sure has a special aura it emits to the world at large.
Happy sunday world, let your light shine before men, so they see and glorify your father in heaven, Spread love. Thanks and have a lovely day.
Money Opens The True Character
Have you ever seen a situation where someone so kind and humble suddenly goes hard and strict once they hit a huge sum of money. And for the record, not a rich people are arrogant, some are still kind hearted, it's all a matter of mindset. Money changes people and that's true, but money doesn't bring new desires, it only modifies the desires you've been nursing inside for a long time. You can't fully say this man is humble or good when he is poor or striving to get by everyday, most times its simply because they don't have enough at hand they've become so reserved.
No doubt money changes us, yes most people wouldn't agree and say it's subjective, but one main factor that changes people drastically is none other than money. With wealth comes changes in so many areas of life, change in status quo, change in friends and association, change in appearance, change in the respect you demand. So many effects you'll see with the incoming of money, no wonder they say money answers to all things.
Its said you can't truly know a person for who they truly are until they are rich, so many people are good because they hope their kindness would some day pave the route for them to rise, of course we wouldn't agree that anything can change our characters, as we are adamant to our claims of being good people. Well not everyone is found guilty of this claim, few others have withstood the force that comes with being wealthy and as such they kept on with their usual nature. People like this are the few who wouldn't let the intoxicating lifestyle get to them, as they have a more broader view about life.
Some have faced embarrassment formally, like have you ever been told "hey you're not my class so move along" or have you told someone too, to be able to say this words confidently and then you're not just hyping, cause in reality its true,you're way better financially than the person so you'll just put the person in his or her place is fast becoming a wish to everyone, we see oppression happening daily and everywhere simultaneously, everyone working hard to defend their ego and the victims of this such oppressions would immediately start wishing they too would become wealthy instantly, so they can revenge and revenge harder.
You know, growing up the main motive was to become a solution to a world problem, what can we do to solve a need around us rather than just chase for money. You can clearly see that we were told that you can't just get money, rather money is a reward for a need you can meet, so our focus was channeled to the right angle, what can we do was the passion, then came the constant oppressions and peer pressure, we have begin to cut corners and now our minds are focus on getting the money first before we can start thinking of what to do. Nevertheless this is the new reason in town why most people wants to make money, you guess so too right?
While everyone would say in a public interview that their main reason why they want to be rich is to make their family comfortable and give their children the best gifts in life, then when it comes truly we'll see more than what was told, we see a new side unfold and you began to wonder if you ever knew him or her. Oh there is a new side to you that you too might not know you are capable of until most of your worries are taken care off, of course most of our worries are things we can't afford that's why we worry about it and work so hard to get it achieved, the rest that money can't buy then you'll need to go down on your knees and pray to God Almighty, those issues are for God then. Yet you must agree that most of our worries are the wants we can't yet get or afford.
Nothing changes a person like when he or she doesn't need any of your help anymore. Then there's no reason to put up with any and every attitude, he doesn't see a reason to listen to someone who can't get more or up to him or her. That guy who's always dragged and made fun of instantly becomes outstandingly respected, well everyone begins to need his help so they too have got to act nicely
It's almost like a game, everyone just wants a piece of the cake so they begin to act nicely, of course the wealthy people aren't blind, they too can sense a fake smile when they see one, if not then experience would teach a thing or two, sooner or later they begin to see everyone as the same, just pretending for my Money. Some can choose to exploit the opportunity, use people to their advantage and not feel a remorse, they see and feel everyone just want to eat a portion, no true love, no true kindness.
It isn't an easy job to remain good when you're wealthy, but its achievable, remembered that the Bible said It would be easy for a camel to fit into a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven, nevertheless we need to work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Everyone has hope and prays to be wealthy, but as we are in a search for wealth let us endeavor to see a bigger picture that there is life afterwards, money ends its use at death, but we don't stop there, we'll continues our journey, the things that would stay with us are what we truly are, our personality becomes out main determinate. Be a good person no matter what, in wealth or without. You already are winning when you're good.
Being good and staying good is always going to attract blessings, being good and wealthy is a great combination, the world needs more of that, people who would use their money to put smile on faces and not to oppress, people who has a main priority of making things better and not to only get higher by climbing over others. God gives true riches, the only problem is we mostly change when we are given wealth. Are we better or smarter than king Solomon, he is the wisest man, yet he changed, yet Job too was wealthy but didn't change, likewise Abraham, so you too can remain good. But don't you really want to oppress your neighbours.
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Information Is Wealth
Sometimes we just need to shift focus, we spend more time thinking on how best to get money, and so we try and try and try and get stressed yet earn little, while there are many others who do little and get more, it all lies in the information we can get, getting the right information often leads to the needed result, the task however is how to get the right Info we desire, but once we know where and how to get it, the rest is up to us, to firstly acquire then act upon it as soon as possible. There is someone out there that has an information that could make you a millionaire, someone can give you the solution to that problem you've been seeking, as much as we have problems in the world, we the people still have the solution, it'll be more profitable if you knew who to meet or who to ask.
Look for profitable update, look for profitable people and get acquitted with them, that way you also can be updated on the next step to take to getting your desires actualized. Good friends, good family who knows their way through, who has the right contact would always come in handy when the time comes, well we too must try to get updated so we can be upgraded. That thing you know and can do, is what you can put into use to bring you cash. Getting the right information and using it the right way is an easy way to fulfilment. The more unique and highly valued your information is the higher you can get paid for it.
Take for instance, imagine how much the world is regretting not having invested in bitcoin as at the time it first came to light, not everyone was informed, some knew but wrote it off, sooner when the benefits start showing we started having regrets, yet a few people are made today because of their move to seizing the opportunity they heard about. Today so many opportunity are still everywhere, we gets an update to buy a particular asset, coin, token or even a business, oh it's going to pump soon, buy now, oh elon musk just tweeted or is pushing on this, let's join in before the pump and often time the information has proven to be correct, we just need to get the information to work with.
Today so many people are home hoping and praying for an opportunity to earn money, among them are good writers, probably already having a few articles already but just for fun, no pay coming in whatsoever, but here we have Read Cash, while so many people who didn't have a passion at first to write, and just took up the hobby, today have earned massively and still earning, what then is the difference.
Whoever would tell the other person who doesn't know about what this platform can do with their talent, would be forever appreciated. But then first he or she has to be informed. Those few who has been gifted with over a thousand dollars and more should be grateful to the person who introduced them to this platform, no doubt, sometimes the person who did the introduction might be fed up already and left, but here is the referral smiling. We all need to get an information before we can work.
Connecting with the right people is an easier way to getting that information, right association cannot be overemphasized. Already you see them doing what you love, or being in a place you aim for, then you just have to link yourself to them and get it off the horses mouth, there must be something they are doing right, you just need to be informed too. When you know what they know you can do what they do, and in turn hope for a result as they are getting. Its all in knowing, seek to be informed.
Many a times we are more hardworking than those who have better results, the pay isn't always with the workload, it can be in the slightest of reason, maybe the location, the people, the pattern and so on, but if you don't know then there's nothing you can do about it. Let's up our game, let's seek for improvement, building up an habit that can help us associate better, not one that acts on envy or jealousy, but one that can be genuinely friendly to wish one well and just hope his or her story gets better too. Definitely you can't always know it all, and if you aim for growth then you must seek to be humble, that way you can be well taught and be sure to learn for your own good.
Its not enough to know who has the information, you need the skill of getting the information, few people are kindhearted and are willing to share their source of wealth, their secret with you, while others don't easily but needs you to prove yourself, yet some others dependent on what it is they do would never share with you, first understand the person, that way you can know the right way to associate with the person and get your information for the betterment of your life.
However this character is the best proven yet to help you achieve this aim, be good and humble. A good heart attracts good things and a humble person would be easy to teach and be sure to grasp all that's needed. We need money then we need the right information, get the Right information, maybe it could be by linking up with a person or simply doing your own research. However with a better information comes an opportunity for a better pay if you can work with it.
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Hanging On To Hate
When people say "I know how you feel" they could be lying, very minimal they truly know how you feel, we just trying to make you feel better, some things we experience are so painful, we feel like never letting go, we feel like raining curses down till it affects all those who made us feel so, but only when we have super powers right, we don't have super powers so we have to bear with time. Eventually we see there's nothing happening to them soon, moreso they are having the time of their lives and we have been the one hurting through and after the event, now we see reasons not to hang on to hate.
If we have no means to exact vengeance than to wait for God and time to do his and its work, then we must follow leave it to them and carry on with our own lives, and I mean carry on with our lives as one unaffected. Living unaffected isn't a day's job as we all have different healing time space, but we must try to heal quick so we can live life as though there are nothing wrong. This is important for so many reason, hanging on to hate has lead people into deeper trouble, while they see the doers still roaming which leads to more hate, with this we plead that people heal, and let God do his work.
It's also worthy to note that some reasons are not tangible enough to hate, we are only trying to be important, when we think deep about it, we see it makes no sense to hate on the person. For example, when you see teenagers break up from a relationship and they hate the partner, now in this there are no time wastage unlike an adult who is ready and preparing for marriage only to be told by the patner he or she has dedicated years to, that it's no longer possible. Or cases we hear of someone hating on another person because their friends hates the person, still makes no sense to hate.
It's very possible to live a hate free world, with no one you deeply dislike or having bad intentions for, more easier for people who has not been hurt deeply, however those who has been deeply hurt also find time to visit the therapist, cause more than others they understand they need to let go of that burden inside. Hate as invisible as it looks, is very poisonous, and more than the effects it can cause us to harm another, it harms us more. It destroys from inside, till there are no more joy left within, hate is worth dealing with.
When we know that there are more to achieve in life, the goals and objectives we need to accomplish is far more important than letting some one or some events stop our speed. It's more like after they did that wrong to us, we keep on placing each day to their victory. Haven't you seen scenarios were more attention was given to the loser because of his attitude after the game, apparently he has more joy compared to the winner, this goes as far to show that the win is only a title, the true win comes with the happiness from within. No matter what hanging on to hate is like losing over and over again.
Success is the best revenge you must agree with me. So if we are to vexed, wouldn't it be nicest to push to be successful, and when we truly aim towards success, then we have to put aside any and everything that wouldn't make that success achievable. Hate doesn't help success in any form, love does, for the sake of success we have to love, for example, love your job, love who you work with, love that annoying customer, love love love, cause hating would ruin your profits to the bearest minimal, even if it's to learn or act it first, let's try putting aside hates and let love lead.
It's a new week, today we are refreshed, it's no jokes that mondays often feel like the start of a new era, we would be seeing people again today, and still greet like it's been a long time, just cause of the weekend, so Monday is a good time to let loose and let love in. Over 80% of the world's plans kick starts on a Monday, meaning that most people who plan, do plan to kickstart their plans from a Monday, we like it from the very beginning for accountability sake. So yeah, it's a good time to let loose that hate, and let in more love, at least for your own sake and the sake of your joy.
Hate reduces productivity, and your boss doesn't care what's going on with you, he or she is paying you to be productive. Hate produces anger, it most likely makes you exert this anger on your loved ones, leaving them thinking were they got it all wrong. Hate kills joy, most likely stay indoors now, even the few times you stepped out for fun, it really wasn't that fun, cause you didn't let loose. All this while you should know the possible cause of the hate isn't aware and may never care. So take charge of your life, let go what needs to leave. Let go of hate.
Thanks so much for Reading guys. Have a lovely week ahead. Gods love over you all today and every other days. Shalom.
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