Women's Drama.
I remember when I used to have a relationship. Whenever I see my man post a lady's picture, my heart will begin to palpitate. My stomach will begin to rumble😂. Why? Simply because I don't want him to date another girl. Most times, I don't show that I'm jealous because I wouldn't want a situation whereby my man will begin to complain about my jealousness. Because the moment he begins to complain, he may now start to have other girlfriends and I don't want it to be so. I don't like it when I disturb a guy with my jealousy.
There are many times that I have cried silently without letting my partner know. I know that if he knows that I'm crying because I saw him with another girl, it's gonna be a double cry for me because he will see me as a senseless person. After all, it's not possible to conclude that two people are dating just because you saw them together. But there's one thing I don't do. I don't quarrel with him because of other ladies. I believe that whenever you begin to have issues with your man because of other ladies, you tend to chase him away from you.
Men don't like troublesome ladies. I used to be very troublesome but I had to stop because I realized that it is not needed. To me, when you're in a relationship, you should be able to make each other happy. You should be able to find peace in your partner. I learned it a hard way though. And I noticed that whenever you're too cool, people take you for granted so you should just be moderate. My last relationship failed because I was too calm. I didn't have enough courage to confront my man about the things that he does.
And one general thing about women is that they will always check your phone😅. And whenever we check our man's phone, we begin to cry. I mean, unnecessary cry because we can't tell him the reason why we are crying😂. Imagine sleeping beside your man and you took his phone at the midnight to check his chat with other girls and you see that he's seeing other girls. How would you feel? Then, you will begin to cry. And the young man will wake up to ask you why you're crying but you don't have anything to say😅. You'll just continue to cry.
And if you have a lady that loves you so much and she can't do without you, you'll be having everyday experience of women's drama. She calls every day and when you don't pick up, it's a problem. And if you eventually pick, she'll begin to interrogate you like a detective. She will ask you where you were when the phone was ringing, what you were doing when it was ringing, and all. And if she's an over-thinker, she'll be able to know exactly what you were doing at that moment. And if you don't call back, that's extra drama😂.
I think one of the major reasons why I don't want to have a new relationship is because of all of this stress. I don't think I can live without one of these in a relationship😅. Honestly, I have a guy I like but I'm scared of starting a new relationship. I no longer have the strength of asking someone why he didn't call me. Asking someone about what he ate and the other things that you all do in a relationship so I prefer to remain like this for now😅. And I know that whenever I feel like having a new relationship, I'll be happy with my partner.
Honestly, women are lovely and wonderful people. We are the salt of the world. The world wouldn't have been a sweet place without women here. Also, I'm proud to be a woman with little touches of drama in my head😅. Also, I'm proud to be one of the most caring, loving, and forgiving women out there. God bless every women❤.
Courtesy Goes A Long Way.
Kudos to my mother and kudos to every other mother out there. I think I should not generalize it. Let me say, kudos to every mother that trains their children in the right manner. There are still a lot of them out there and I know there are a lot of good women to come. Even though there are a lot of negative vices in the world these days, you can still find good parents like yours and like mine😊. I wouldn't want to bore you with my circumlocution let me just go straight to the point.
There are sometimes that you get close to someone and they feel free to the point of behaving anyhow whenever they are with you. I will give you two instances to buttress my point. Yesterday, a lady came to my apartment. She's my sister's friend and we live in the same compound. So, when she came, she told my sister that she needed cassava flakes which are mostly called garri in Nigeria. Since she's a friend, my sister told her to take the size she wants. My sister and I didn't bother to check the size of the cassava flakes, we just left them there.
When we wanted to cook this night, we saw the remaining size of cassava flakes. We were shocked because we didn't expect her to take as much as that. Since I was a little girl, my mother has always taught me about courtesy. We should always do things because of next time. My sister and I got angry. Do you think we will help her next time? No!!! She just proved that she lacks courtesy. And I'm very sure that she must have done that to different people and she will be known for that bad act that she lacks courtesy.
The second instance: I went out to buy something with my friends during the day and a car mistakenly splashed water on our body. The man waited and a lady amongst us went to meet the man hoping for him to give her money. This girl loves to beg all the time. She lacks courtesy. And people like that can be easily poisoned because they can eat anything. She begs a lot and I don't like it.
Yesterday, I bought a bunch of banana and I asked her to take part of it. There are many things we should know. The fact that I asked her to take part of it does not mean that I asked her to take everything. Would you believe that she took half of what I bought? I'm an African lady and a Yoruba girl to be precise. Our mothers have always taught us to take little of people's things. If we're asked to come and eat, we may decline politely or eat little of it. That's how African mothers train their children and I'm sure that the Africans here can testify to this.
Courtesy is needed in every part of your life. Courtesy takes you to a higher position in life. And one thing I know is that people look at you. People observe you and they can tell if you lack courtesy. If people realize that you lack courtesy, if they have a job for you, they won't award you the contract. If they have a group outing, they won't call you because you lack courtesy. And even if your parents don't teach you all of these, you may develop them by yourself. These are norms that should be in you.
Courtesy goes a long way!!
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Sharpen Your Pencil.
Good evening to my beautiful friends here. I should have written this article since but I've been busy helping my boss at the studio. Today is one of the best days at work because we finished the two episodes very early. At a time, I was very tired and I began to shiver so I took little rest and I was okay.
What is talent? Talent is a natural skill. I believe that everyone has potential. There's one thing that we all can do better and we even tend to be better than those that have been doing it for years. This is because it comes naturally and when something comes naturally, it flows.
For those that have been following my articles for days now, you must have read about the movie studio where I school and work, at the same time. I've met a lot of actors and actresses. Have you ever felt goosebumps when you see some people act? Yes, I have and it's even happening frequently these days.
There's a guy called Katastrophy on the movie set. I've not seen a lot of his works but I can tell that he's a very good actor. Firstly, the role he plays is a very hard one and it takes a very intelligent person to play that role. Even some popular actors cannot do it.
Honestly, I appreciate other actors work on the set but I feel like Katastrophy is a different breed. It flows well. Let's have it in mind that no matter how it flows, people still make mistakes. No human in this life is above mistakes.
I'm sure Katastrophy has taken his time to build his career. I wonder how many sleepless nights he has had just to improve the talent in him. I'm sure you can mention over ten people that became better in what they do, over time. I know some of us are doing this too.
Now, let's talk about you. I know there is one thing that you know how to do better. Sometimes, you become very confident because you believe that no one does it better than you do. But I think some of us do not appreciate our talents. Some people wish to become famous and they'll begin to act or sing while their talent is "writing". Such person may become popular but still not good at what they have chosen to do until they work towards their talent.
I know a lot of us have seen a pencil sharpener. The more we sharpen, the more we see the pencil lead. That's how talent works. The more you show it, the more you make use of it, and you become better. It brings out the talent in you. Sharpen it and it will keep coming up. It's gonna improve. I don't think there are two ways about this. This is how it works.
We all become better at what we do whenever we do more of it. Your talent is your pencil. Make sure that you sharpen your pencil. A day will come and the pencil will begin to feed you. Sharpen it and keep sharpening it. It never fades. You can as well bring up new styles.
Everyone came into this life with his or her pencil. Do not be jealous of another person's pencil.
Make sure that you sharpen your pencil ✏️.
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I love my look.
I have gotten enough comments about the way I look. A lot of people have told me that I am short and slim. Most people even tell me that I'm small. I feel bad most times when people tell me all of these but I do not let them get into my head. Even some of my friends maltreated me because of my stature. Even when I was in secondary school, my teachers used to treat me like a very small child because of the way I look. I have accepted fate and I love my look.
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While I was acting yesterday, I acted very well. As a beginner, there will be few complaints but trust me, I did well. After then, a very saucy man called me. He's the line producer of the movie. He's a very strict man and playful at the same time. He told me that he was never gonna give me a role. Since I know the kind of person he is, I didn't take it personally. I didn't even ask him why he said that. Then he said, it's because of the way I look. I look very small and all of that. I kept calm and didn't even give him a response. With the way he said it, I wanted to burst into tears but I held it. I know it wouldn't be nice for me to cry in the presence of everybody. There are a lot of people who cry on set because of what they've been told or how they have been scolded. But I promised not to do that. Those are the normal things that happen on set especially when you're an upcoming actor. It happens to the veteran actors too.
Since then, my mood changed. I wasn't myself. Though I didn't want it to show on my face I couldn't hide it. I began to ask all the people around me. I said, "Am I small?" I asked too many questions because I became cautious of my body. I felt like the smallest person on the set. Someone had to ask me about my age. Am I that small?
I look taller here but this is my stature. I don't want those talks to get into my head. I see a lot of ladies that use gain weight products but I feel like I don't need them. I want to grow naturally.
I know a lot of people are going through this. They may not be short. They may be very slim or have some kind of physical appearance but we should not feel bad. We all are beautiful the way we are. I love myself and I love my stature. I love the way I look😊.
I may be small but I'm mighty. I've got talents. I can sing, I dance, I act. I'm a blessed soul.
I am beautiful the way that I am💯.
I love my look❤.
I Was Given A Role😊
Guess what??? It's a good day already. A very great one. I took a break from work yesterday because I was feeling very tired. At a time, I felt like I was going to faint. Thank God it didn't happen. Immediately after I got home, I met my sister at her friend's place so I collected the key to our apartment. I cooked spaghetti and egg. When it was time to eat, I couldn't eat because I was so tired and felt like vomiting. I wasn't able to visit enough articles too. Later, I managed to eat a little out of the food. I found it very hard to sleep due to a reason that I don't know. Then later, I slept like a baby. I woke up at the midnight to visit some articles and I slept back like the baby that I am😊. I know I've told you all that I wake up as early as 6:00 am and get to work by 7:00 am. But it was different today. I'll be having a 9:00 am class before going to the studio where we are shooting our movie. I enjoy it more than waking up very early in the morning. At least, I'll be able to rest.
I guess the sleep hits differently when it's very early in the morning. It becomes sweeter. I don't know if you've felt that way before. While I was enjoying my sleep and dreaming of a brighter future, the executive producer of the movie we're acting called me. It was still around 6:30 am. He asked me to get prepared for the day. He said I've been given a role. I was so excited but I didn't show it in my voice. I don't know how I stopped feeling dizzy. I stood up to take my bath. While taking my bath, I began to practice some of my acting skills. I was saying words of encouragement to myself inside the bathroom. I also remembered how many people are there. We are too much and I may feel shy while acting. I just promised myself to be courageous while acting and I won't look into anyone's face so that I would not be scared. I ate the remaining spaghetti I made last night. I took some costumes and rushed outta the house.
Immediately after I got to work, the make-up artist applied some foundation powder on my face. I look finer but I haven't taken a single picture because I'm not a picture freak. I hardly take pictures. Trust me, I look finer😊.
I'm about to be on set guys. Please make sure you pray for me. I'm tensed up but I know I'll be fine😊. My heart is palpitating too. Feels like I should faint. But acting is what I'm very good at and I promise to make myself proud and my family members proud too😊. If you love me, please pray for me😪.
Also, I've been here for a few days and I see how others are acting with confidence. I'm a human being with blood in my veins and it's normal to feel nervous for the first time. I'll do well and I know that 😊.
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You're A Hero!!
A new lady resumed at my workplace today. She is so cute and we flowed well. Within a few minutes of meeting with her, she told me so many things about her. We also exchanged contacts. Her name is Ayomide. When we began to talk about what we do for a living, she also mentioned that she's a writer. I felt so good because I love it when I see people that do the exact thing I do. We tend to flow well. I don't know if this happens to you. At times, I easily roll with people who were born in the same month as me. Especially the same day as my sweet sis @Ellawrites.
While talking to the lady, she told me that she never attended university because she didn't gain admission. And she said she has tried for over six years but all her efforts were to no avail. Then she talked about how many jobs she has done. She also told me that the first job she got is when she was sixteen years old. Guess what??? She was paid over $400. I was amazed but didn't show it to my face so she won't look down on me because so many people are fond of that. She was able to make a presentation in the Nigerian House of Assembly at the age of sixteen without even being a university student.
The presenting and writing job has taken her to many places like Dubai, London, and so many countries. I felt somehow while she was saying this because I had no story that could meet up with the one she said. I kept shut instead of telling lies. I believed her because she showed me some proof. I'm so happy that I met her because she is well connected to people of high caliber. I know I don't have a lot of people of high caliber.
I wanted to start feeling melancholy while she was saying all of that but I had to calm myself. I began to think of where I'm coming from. Honestly, I know I've tried. If no one praises me, I'll praise myself. I've seen a lot but I choose to stand strong. I know I've not traveled outside the country but trust me, it will still happen. I can feel it. I can smell it. I've dreamt about it countless times and I know it will happen. Even if it's gonna take time, I know it will happen.
At times, I feel like I'm late to my desired destination. At times, I feel like I'm taking the last position already because I feel like all my friends are doing better than me. But if I still give it a deep thought, I begin to thank God. Starting from my family, I thank God. I remember when my father has no car. He takes the public bus to and fro work. But look at us today, we're doing good. We have cars and we can use them whenever we like. It took us over ten years to complete the house we're living in now but thank God it's been completed. I give God the glory. And I know my parents never got involved in cybercrime before they could achieve all that they have today. Cybercrime is not a must or a yardstick to make it in life.
So, I promised myself to continue trusting the process. And success is like a ladder. The more you climb, the more you're close to the top. Believe me, it works. So, the next time people give testimonies about their struggles and everything they've gone through, even if I haven't made it big like them, I won't be shy to talk about mine too. I've tried.
Look at you. Think of where you're coming from. Haven't you tried? You have!!! Do you think coming here to write articles every day is an easy task? You're hardworking. You've tried. Keep trying. I know you'll get there. I know you must have been in situations that you feel like you may never be able to get out of it but you did. I know you've saved challenges that seem to be bigger than you but you were able to conquer them. It shows that you're strong. You're a living legend.
Hello, you're a hero!!!!
I guess I've been able to motivate some of us here. I wish you all success❤.
Happy reading😊😊😊.
Let Love Lead.
I watched a movie this afternoon which shows how much our friends influence our lives. I believed that your friends have a very vital role that they play in your life simply because they are your friends and they are very close to you. But it depends on the friend you choose. Some people choose friends that are going to influence them negatively while some people choose friends that are going to influence them positively so it depends on yourself and who you are. I've realized that a lot of people cannot cope with positivity and some people also cannot cope with negativity and that's why I said it depends on the individual himself. And some people don't even take their time to study people that they call their friends.
So, this movie is about two young ladies. Mrs. A is married while the other lady isn't married. After a while, they both planned to go to their secondary school reunion. Though Mrs. A was feeling reluctant to go to the reunion she got gingered up by her friend so they went together. On getting there, the so-called friend disappeared for a while. She went outside to meet Mrs. A's secondary school boyfriend. She and the guy planned to r*pe Mrs. A. They injected her drink to make her feel sleepy. Due to the trust Mrs. A has for her friend, she agreed to take the drink. While the party was still going on, Mrs. A fell asleep and the devilish friend took her to a room so that the guy will have s*x with her. Some people can be so wicked for no reason. They had to make a video and showed it to her husband.
Before I proceed, let me say a prayer. I pray that we all get married to the one who loves us wholeheartedly and forgives us whenever we offend him or her. I'm sure you all know how painful it would be if you see a video of your partner having s*x with someone else. Despite how painful it is, her husband forgave her and they continued their relationship. After a few months, they found out that it was the friend that's behind the video. She was devastated but forgave the friend and promised herself not to be close friends with the lady anymore.
This is one major reason why we should study the one that we're planning to get married to. If you notice too many red lights stating that your partner doesn't love you, leave!!!. It's rare to find a man that will forgive you even when he knows that you're not at fault. I pray that someone loves me unconditionally one day. It's good to feel loved. It makes you feel alive again.
These kinds of deceitful friends are the ones outside now. It's hard to see a true friend that loves you and wants the best for you. Some friends will even go as far as poisoning their friend. It's not fair. Why can't we let love lead? If you know that you can't be a true friend to the people that you call your friends, it is very normal to distance yourself from them instead of showing fake love. Fake love wouldn't take you anywhere. It will only bring hatred into your life and you'll be a melancholic soul. Don't hate. Don't be bitter.
I've noticed that some people are not comfortable and happy with themselves because they don't wish good for other people. They just hate others for no reason. It's a very stupid habit. If you fall in this category, please change. It's not too late for you to change.
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Be true to your core
Be true to yourself
Be true to your friends
Be true to the world
Don't hurt people because you're jealous that they have what you don't have.
You're different from them.
Love people from the bottom of your heart.
Forgive people from the bottom of your heart.
Let love lead❤.
You're Unique.
I have been sharing my work experience for some days now and I'm sure some of you know what I go through at work. But I did not go to work today because I was so tired and even feeling reluctant to go to work. I'm sure it happens to some of us. But I began to think of how our parents do it because we all know it is not easy to wake up very early in the morning and come back late at night. It shows that they are the real MVPs. I think I'm being lazy because I do not have someone to feed or someone looking up to me to pay his or her bills. But by Monday, I would have enough strength to pick up myself and go to work.
I know of a very talented albino. When my boss told me that the albino would come to our workplace yesterday, I was so happy because I've been longing to meet him. So when he came, he sat down for about two hours before it began to work. I handed over his script to him and he head "thank you". The guy was so humble.
When it was time for the guy to act, I went to my boss's office to call him. Immediately he began, and we all started laughing. I am sure he hasn't even spent up to five minutes when we all began to laugh. The guy is a comedian. I know a lot of people that do not like albinos because of their skin color and they even look down on them. I'm that kind of person that doesn't care about how you look, your genotype, or your color before I can believe that you are talented or you have something relevant to do in life.
I have a friend that doesn't like to see albinos because of their skin color but I feel very offended because I believe that they are human beings like us so we should have no reason to hate them because of their skin color and we should not even look down on them. When he finished acting I had to go to him to praise him and tell him some kind words for him to keep moving forward.
Then he confessed to me that he has faced a lot of problems because of his skin color. I said a lot of people dislike him and some people even look down on your name because of how he looks. I felt so sad but I had to tell him to keep on believing in himself.
I think this is almost the same way people look down on sickle cell patients. We know they are not as strong as us but we should not look down on them because of their health conditions and think they can't do something relevant in life. No!!! Whether you like it or not, I want you to believe that everyone on earth brought a gift from heaven to show the world so think of what you can do regardless of your race or your skin color. Do not think of what other people say about you, just what you can do. Remember that you are born to reign, excel, and dominate. You're born for something. Begin to make use of it. You're wonderful and beautiful the way that you are. I love you❤.
Remember, you're unique💯
Stinginess Is A Bad Habit.
I've been moody for two days due to what happened to me. I'm that girl who loves to save money but I've noticed that I use the money to buy something that is not relevant. My phone screen guide broke six days ago and I planned to buy a new one but I've been so busy with work so, I couldn't get the screen guide. And for those that read my article regularly, I'm sure you must have read what I wrote about how strenuous my job is. So, I took it off my mind, and I made up my mind not to get a new screen guide since I will be able to maintain the screen. I've been taking care of the phone screen for four days ensuring that nothing happens to it. I'm always trying as much as possible to protect the screen.
While I was on my way to work two days ago, I was trying to check something in my bag. I can't remember what I was trying to do but I know I was checking something in my bag. Suddenly, something fell off my hand. It was my phone!!! And it's the screen that fell on the floor. I looked at the phone and began to think of what could have happened to the screen. It took a few seconds before I took it. I guess it was up to a minute. Then, I saw my phone screen, broken into pieces, broken into something I never imagined. My stomach began to rumble. My mood changed and I felt reluctant to go to work. I became sad and I was very dull at work throughout the day. Imagine you go out not knowing that you will be in debt. I'm in debt right now💔. The screen debt💔.
Look at what stinginess and procrastination have done to me. How I wish I had bought the screen guide, I'm sure I won't feel sad today. My phone screen guide is just $1 but right about now, it will take me $67 to repair the phone. I feel very bad right now. I would have loved to repair it immediately but the crypto market is not on the good side now. If I sell it, I'll lose drastically. I'm sure you all will learn from this. I've noticed that a lot of us have money to eat but we want to save the money because we need it for something else. Food is life. Eat before any other thing. If you continue to starve yourself, you'll develop ulcer.
I've seen a lot of people that ruined their lives due to stinginess. Stinginess will make you pay triple of what you should pay. Only those that have experienced this will be able to tell. Don't be stingy and don't procrastinate. I don't want you to be like me so that you won't come here to write a painful story like I'm doing right now.
Don't be stingy to yourself.
Prevention is always better than cure💯.
Happy reading😊😊😊
No Energy!!
I feel so sad for not being able to engage on this platform for a few days. I have been so busy with work and I didn't have enough time to engage with people on the platform. One thing about my work is that whenever we are on set we don't use our phones and anyone that makes use of his or her phone, will get her phone seized. And even aside from the fact that they will seize your phone, you wouldn't be able to touch the phone because you will be so busy doing one thing or the other. At work, we have different departments. We have the costume department, the makeup department, the continuity department, and many more. So whatever department you are in you will always be busy with one thing or the other. All I know is that you can never be idle.
I don't know if some of us have been busy to the extent that we are not able to attend to some of the things we do every day. For example, I bought two courses that can help me with my writing skills and some other things but I've not been able to check them because I've been so busy at work and I began to think of how people that work from morning till night still have the time to attend to some other things on their phones. And most times when I get home at night I only sleep. There are sometimes that I don't even eat because I do not have much energy to begin to cook for myself or to even dish out my food so I'll just sleep because I'm so tired. I prayed for this moment in my life because I wished to know what it takes or what it feels like when you are working-class personnel.
Also, I miss a lot of things I do on my phone. I miss scrolling through my social media pages to see what's happening in town or to see some celebrity news that I am mostly interested in. But one thing I never stopped doing is listening to music. I guess I mentioned in one of my previous posts that music is just like my medicine and I can't do without it. Music is so cool❤ .
Even while I am tired I feel very good and I think I am loving the experience but my prayer is just that everything works out to be fine.
I think one thing I need to learn is that I need to learn to take care of myself even while I am going through all of these. I just have that feeling that I will be used to this in a couple of days so I need to start learning how to combine my work with having time for myself
So if I have not been visiting your articles I think you should be able to understand what I wrote here. I do not feel good that I'm missing a lot of interesting articles here but I know how to make it up to you all in one way or the other.
Stay safe😊
Can Love Be Limited?
I'm sure a lot of us have been dealt with by love. I know a lot of strong people that became so weak due to love. I've done many things that I never thought of doing all because of love. There was a time I poured out all of my kindness on the person I love. I did things I never believed I could do all because of love. Have you ever met someone that love hasn't dealt with? Honestly, I don't think there's anyone that has never been in love. Also, I heard that some people have never been heartbroken but I find it hard to believe them. Anyways, it's possible. As long as anything is possible in this world, it is possible.
I wrote this topic due to a heartbreak I felt in my last relationship. Imagine giving all of your kindness to one person, putting all of your trust in one person, giving all your body and soul to one person, and at the end of the day, they disregard you. They act like you don't matter. They throw you away like dirty water. I've noticed that a lot of people are not sincere with their feelings or I should say they are not sincere with other people. Some people just feel like they can come into your life and leave at any time and when they want to leave they but not even care about the way you would feel or about how bad you will feel and some of them even think that you should remain the same or normal way you were when you guys have not met. Come to think of it, how do you think it is possible for you to go into someone's life and you can just leave that same way without them getting attracted to you. I think the people that are fond of doing this are those that leave without saying goodbye or those that live without even caring about other people's feelings or how other people feel about their absence.
I don't wish to go deep but I know you know how it feels. And I am very sure that a lot of people have lost their sanity due to this particular reason also a lot of people are depressed right now and some other people even committed suicide because of this too. I'm sure most of us have read love stories like Romeo and Juliet and we know what happened in the text.
And I think one major reason for committing suicide or being depressed or some other things is simply because someone doesn't accept you or someone doesn't love you back is because you are very much attracted to the person but my question is that can it be limited?
Also, I have always heard that love has no boundary so I don't think love can be limited but I think you will be able to know if your partner is for you or if he or she is not for you. Also, you can be able to know the red light and the green light before becoming attracted to the person. Also if you are that person that can control his or her attraction to a fellow human being you are very lucky because most of us do not know how to do so.
Do not mind the way I ended my article tonight. I am very tired and I need to sleep.
Goodnight
I love you all❤❤❤
What We Discussed This Morning.
I got to my workplace very early this morning. I feel so weak this morning due to the stress from the previous day. I wasn't able to write an article last night due to fatigue. I'm so tired right now and I've not been eating well. It's not like I don't have the money to get food but I don't have the time to eat. I'm very happy about the stress. Do you know why? It's because I've always wanted to have the experience of working-class personnel. I've always wished to be on the movie set and even if I'd finish the scenes late, I'm still cool with it. I easily get tired but it's so amazing that I'm not tired of this maybe because it is what I love to do. I've noticed that when you do something you love, you won't get tired. Though it may get tiring sometimes may be due to some particular reasons, I am sure you will still pick up simply because you're doing what you love. The same thing goes for writers. There was a time the platform was somehow but some people didn't stop writing because it is what they love to do. When you do what you love, you won't get tired of it.
While sitting outside, my boss came to meet me and some other people joined. When we began talking about different topics and there's a guy among us that speaks his local dialect and he's always mocked for speaking his language. So my boss told us that he is proud of the guy because he is also proud of his local dialect and we began to compare Nigeria to other countries like Korea, India, and some countries that speak their local dialect instead of adopting the English language. I'm not saying that English language is not good. I studied the English language in the university and I can tell that it is a very good language but I don't think it is nice to neglect our language or culture to embrace foreigners language.
And this is one of the major reasons why I wouldn't let my kids speak a foreign language at home. I'd let them learn and be able to speak fluently but they must understand my language to an extent. Neglecting our culture wouldn't help us. It has affected us in so many ways. Let's all try to embrace our culture. Be proud of your tradition. You own it. It's yours so you shouldn't be shy.
And we even got to talk about the movies we watch and I realized that we embrace foreign movies more than the way we embrace ours it is not supposed to be like that. Let's always learn to appreciate what we have.
I'm Tensed Up.
I am very sure that a lot of you will think I am tensed up because of something very relevant but I think this is also relevant and I decided to share it with you all so that. I am tensed up because I don't know how to split myself I don't even know if I'm going to split myself into two or three. I'm sure that a lot of you have been following me back to back and will know about the movie academy that I'm enrolled in. Before I left there yesterday my boss addressed all of us and he asked us to resume by 7:00 in the morning. Who am I to say I wouldn't abide by the rules?
I do not have a problem with the resumption time because work is work and we may even be asked to resume as early as 6:00 as long as it is not my work, I don't have any reason to make complaints or any reason not to abide by the rules. But I think the major problem I am having is that we round up very late. Sometimes we finish around 2:00 a.m. at midnight but I live as early as 6:00 p.m. because I need to go home. Honestly, I don't like the fact that I always tell them that I want to go home but it's just because of the condition of the country and I'm not familiar with this place very well so I just have to leave.
But I came to realize that it wouldn't be nice for me to leave work by 6:00 p.m. when others are working. And it will even make me feel like I'm not serious with the job. But I'm just wondering how we can make two episode that contains about 15 scenes in an episode. And from what I noticed it takes us about eight to nine hours to make an episode so I'm just wondering how they going on or I'll be sleeping over there like some other people. And I am even spending over $3 for transportation every day.
We have never shot two episodes in a day but since we got the order from above that we should shoot two episodes per day we just have to do it. So I'm just wondering how crazy or how hectic the job will be tomorrow because I'm very sure no one will smile at work tomorrow. After all, we just have to face our work and we have to meet our target.
As the assistant director, I'm capable of querying anybody I meet sitting down or anyone who does not do anything because you just need to work so I think I will just try to make work as fast as possible.
And if you are in the movie industry or you think you have any idea of how we can shoot twenty-six scenes in a day please let me know and appreciate it.
And I still need to visit the platform and other platforms that I am on and I bought two courses online earlier and I'm still not done with them so I'm trying to merge everything and that's if it will work and if it wouldn't work I would just pause some of it.
At the same time, I am very happy because there are lots of people out there that are being idle but I have something I can do I have something I can wake up to and say I need to go to work. I think it's a form of achievement and I'm very much happy about that. At times I would just call myself one of the busiest people on earth. I enjoy it. I enjoy the little men working so hard and trying to make it up with my career.
I also enjoy being in my little world and doing me heavily. I guess I have unlocked a new level in life. I know I told you that I am tired but I had to count my blessings again and I realized that I still need the stress for now until I am like Will Smith😊. It's possible and God will make it possible.
At times I feel like it is not possible but whenever I think about the position and where I want to be in life I would just try to ease my mind and motivate myself that I can do it and that I can become a better person. That's my style😊
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Love Is Beautiful.
I worked throughout the day at the film academy and I must confess that I'm so tired right now. We worked for more than twelve hours without sitting down and I'm not sure everyone here knows what it means not to seat for more than twelve hours. Though we didn't have a lot of scenes to shoot we got delayed by minor things and I'm sure you know that things like that are bound to happen. It may be the light having some issues, the sound, the camera, or even getting delayed by the actors. It's normal but it gets me annoyed because I always feel like, those things should be put in place before we begin to shoot the movie.
When we were about to round up, @Jumper-01 called me that he will be coming around. Honestly, I was so glad because I've not had time to go say hi to him and I know how bad we wanna see each other. He waited for me for over thirty minutes because I also had a meeting with my boss so that took my time. When we finished the meeting, I went to meet the cute boy outside. Honestly, he's not photogenic. He's so cute and scents nice. From now on, he's my crush. We hugged like it's been a long we saw each other. I greeted his brother and his girlfriend. Then, they drove me to my house. While we were on our way, I saw how the lovebirds relate to each other. Too many kisses and all that. This got me thinking about so many things but I didn't say it 😅.
When I got home, I told Levi "thank you" and I told him I loved the way his brother's relationship is. I feel very happy for them because I know love is a beautiful thing and I won't let anyone tell me otherwise.
I began to remind myself when last I felt that way. It's been more than four years now😪. Though I've dated different guys after then I've still not gotten a very beautiful relationship that I wish to have. Right now, I don't think I want any man or any form of romantic relationship in my life because I feel like my career is enough for me. But come to think of it, even if I'm a very young girl, I'm not getting any younger. I may decide that j want to get married whenever I like but I still haven't found the right one😪. And even if I find the right one, what's the assurance that I'll treat him right? Because the last energy in me is not for love. It's for something else entirely. And for a very long time now, I've not thought of having a new relationship. I forgot how beautiful love is. It was so bitter for me asides from the only guy that treated me right but I still broke up with him due to personal reasons. I forgot everything about love😪.
But these wonderful couples had to remind me how sweet love is. They made me believe in love once again. And I corrected one thing this night. I used to think that love hurts but I think I should say that love doesn't hurt when you are with the right person. I saw how happy they were and I know that some of my readers that are in a committed relationship are happy like this too.
I'm a fine ass girl😊. Even though I'm not as pretty as Kelly, I still know that I'm cute. I get advances from different kinds of men each day and you know I can't say yes to every one of them. I just thought of giving love another chance. I know if I try to love again, it won't hurt me. I was reminded of how beautiful love is, so, I'll give it a new trial, and even the best of the best. It's just the way I know how to give in my all in a relationship. It shows how committed I am to the relationship and I know I'll do it again and it will work this time around.
Dear readers, I want you to know that loves is a beautiful thing. Do not let anyone deceive you or tell you lies. And don't forget that I love you❤❤.
Happy reading😊😊😊
It's Gonna Be An History.
Hello😊😊. Before I proceed, please who is tired of reading about my experience at the film academy? Who? I want to see your hands up right now. You know what? Even if your hands are as long as Alpha Centauri, I won't stop sharing my experiences because my life depends on it😊. I guess some people think I'm just scratching through the surface or I'm just playing around but I know what I'm facing here. But, I've decided to share my experience. I believe that if I'm able to share my experience, you all will motivate me to do more. You're going to advise me to add more salt😁.
I'm sure you've come across some theatre practitioners. I'm talking about people that believe they can act and they want to stare in movies. I think I now know the reason why it takes time for them to unleash their talents and that's why I'll tell you all about my experience.
In the movie academy, we were told to be free to go to the studio where they as shooting one of their movies. They made us know that it is not compulsory but it's not compulsory I loved the idea because I'll be able to see what they do practically instead of doing the theoretical aspect all the time. Two of all the academy students took the opportunity. You see, I learned something. I learned not to be too forward. The other lady we went there together is too forward. Whenever we get there, she will carry a bag for the actors and turn herself into an errand girl. I know she wants to show that she's respective but I feel like it shouldn't be in that way. I remember what @Olasquare tells me every time about knowing my worth and valuing myself.
I've read so much about the movie industry and as a smart Lagosian, I feel like I know how to find my way😁. When the line producer called me and realized I wasn't doing anything, he gave me a better work. I'm the Assistant Director of the movie series, "Awon Aladun De". Not for every season though because they change directors too. I feel happy about this because I'm the only student given this opportunity. Even the ex-students didn't do this.
Since I was given the post for over two days now, I've been working and I now know how stressful it is to make a movie. It's like I will get paid. I wish to get paid for the work😁 but even if I'm not paid for the work, I love the beautiful experience. I think I've also faced or experienced how male actors or male directors woo females and promise to give them roles. A lot has happened to me within a week of resuming there. It's a bit normal but I think the movie industry has added it to their norms 😁 so what do I do? And I just kept wondering how many newbies have fallen into their trap maybe because they wanted to play a role. It's been, God. It's all God and I'm very grateful for that. And sometimes, I begin to cry because God makes me feel like I've bribed him.
One thing I learned about God is that whenever you pray for something, let him see that willingness in you. I've always wanted to do acting all my life and I know that God will make it possible.
I got home very late yesterday and I worked myself out. I couldn't even talk to anyone when I got home because I was so tired. I think I now know the reason why some crew and casts drug themselves before they begin to act. But when we show the movie, it wouldn't look like we stressed ourselves because it has always been an interior shoot. So I began to pity those that act in stressful roles.
I'm so happy to share my experience with you all. I love the stress. I love the way we go to meet some celebrities in their rooms to come down to act. I know that very soon, I'll be like that and even bigger than that.
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This Came To My Mind😊
I slept off last night because the network provider in my room is poor. When I woke up, I tried to think of what to write but nothing came to my head. My head was just blank. Even right now, I'm still thinking of bringing up a topic but I later decided to write on this particular topic that I'm writing on. I know we all write whatever comes to our minds. You can't write something that is not on your mind. You might have had the topic in your mind before now or you just thought of the topic and you wrote it immediately. That's what I do most times because I believe that I'm never out of topics but it failed me today. Hehe😂. I never believed I could run outta topics. And I know what happened. It's because I'm stressed out. My brain is not settled. I'm leaving the house in less than four hours now and I need to get prepared. So lack of inspiration brought me to these questions👇👇.
How do you write? What inspires you to write? I asked these three questions because they are one of the vital questions that a writer should be able to answer whenever he's being asked. I'm sure that a good writer should be able to give a very valid answer to this question. I believe that everyone will have an answer to this. I learned one thing so many years ago. I learned that if you hear what inspires some people, you may try it out and it may be your inspiration too. I've seen cases like this very well and it is really helpful. I hope it helps you too😊.
**How do you write?**
Writing is sweet when you write in your form of language. I'm not talking about writing in your native language here. I'm talking about the use of language techniques and all that. I've learned that a lot of people do not want to use their style of language because they believe that they are not good enough so, they will begin to imitate other popular writers. They'll copy their style and every way they write and this is one of the major reasons why you see another person write like William Shakespeare. I believe that everyone should always write and improve in his style naturally instead of trying to write like someone else.
**What inspires you?**
One thing I've learned is that we are different people and we all get inspired by different things. Some people's inspiration is from smoking weed while some people will just go to a silent place and so many ideas pop in. Also, some people could sit in the toilet all day because they believe that once they are alone in the toilet, they can have an idea of what to write. We're different people with different mentalities so I found out that we all get inspired in different ways. And when I talk about inspiration, it's not only about writing. Inspiration has to do with any creative work. One major thing that inspires me is music. I'm a lover of music and the kind of music I listen to determines what I will write. And I think it's very normal to not be able to write in a very noisy place. I've tried it but it didn't work for me. What j believe one can do is go to a noisy location, jot things down and go back to write them in the desired place.
I'm still looking for an appropriate time to share one story I've been longing to write with y'all. I've been busy due to the film academy work and all of that. Ever since I resumed, we've been shooting movies all through and it's been stressful. I never knew that shooting a movie is a very big deal. It took much time before the actors were able to cram their lines. One amazing thing is that they have to say the lines word for word. So imagine that they miss a line, and they will start again. It's so tiring and I can't blame the actors because cramming a line and acting it more than twice is not an easy task.
I hope we all have a nice time. Goodbye😊😊
Add More Salt!!
I'm not here to break your heart. I'm not here to feed you with my alluring words but whatever you read here remains the fact about life. A fact that remains the most real fact in life. Whatever you do in life, make sure that you add more salt!! I know my readers are from different parts of the world but here in Nigeria, it's very rare for someone not to add salt to his or her food. When you cook without adding salt, it will be tasteless. There's no way you'll do it, you gotta add salt, and when the salt is too much, the food becomes too tasty to an extent that you wouldn't be able to eat it. I've been diffusing. I know right, but I wanted you to understand the essence of salt in food.
Let's take it this way. Imagine that you're the food and the salt is the effort you put into making something better. It's quite understandable that we all have different priorities. Some people prioritize their love life, some prioritize their career and so many more. Do what you wish with your life. It's yours and you're gonna take full responsibility for it. Effort goes a long way in life. The effort shows that you want that particular thing to work out. The effort shows that you're longing for something. Let's take a writer's effort as an example. The effort a writer shows in his work matters a lot. We all know it's not very easy to come up with different topics every day of our lives and we still come out to publish them and a lot of people will appreciate those works. Even if the work is not good enough, even if the work is not appreciated by people, instead of putting a stop, you can as well add more salt to your work.
Adding more salt is not easy. It requires you to put all that you have in it. Let's take a relationship for example. One thing I've always known is that a lot of people are having a one-sided relationship but they are not ready for that conversation and I think we should leave that for another day. Effort in a relationship matters a lot. Even if your partner doesn't feel anything for you, the salt you add will make him or her feel something for you. Effort in a relationship means that you check on your partner from time to time, put more effort to prioritize yourself, put more effort into doing things that align with your soul, put more effort to make your partner happy, and put more effort into doing better in the relationship just to make it move forward and many more.
I'm still on the topic of "adding more salt" and I want you to understand vividly what I mean. The salt is the same effort that a man adds whenever he's wooing a woman to make her fall in love with him. Asides from the fact that the woman may have other personal reasons, the effort is enough to make the woman fall in love with him.
Take a mirror and look at yourself. Whether you're white, black, albino, or any other color, you're beautiful just the way that you are. Think about the effort God added in creating you. If he didn't add more effort, you wouldn't look as beautiful as you are😊. Think about the effort God adds in forgiving you. You've sinned and sinned but he still adds little effort by forgiving you. Isn't that beautiful? Isn't it amazing? Think about the efforts your parents added to making your life better. Think about it and say a big thank you to them😊. Think about the effort I added to make this article a pleasant one. Think about me and tell me soothing words too😊😊.
Have it in mind that effort beautifies wherever you put it. Add more effort to your life today and await a fascinating result😊.
I've also added more effort to love my sponsors.
I've also added more effort to love my readers. I love you all now and forever😊.
Happy reading😊.
First Day In Movie Academy
I told you all about a movie academy sometime ago. I remember I made a post on how I was almost kidnapped in Ibadan and I mentioned that I was going to register for three months movie academy program. I guess this new set is lucky because they're shooting a very popular movie that is always shown on African Magic Yoruba. So, every new student went there to see how they do their movies. It's my first time being a part of a movie crew. Honestly, making a movie is a stressful task. It wasn't easy. It wasn't even easy to cram the script lines. When we wanted to shoot the exterior part, we all went down to a very far place under the hot sun to shoot the movie.
I learned different things yesterday. I learned that whenever they are shooting the movie, no one should talk because if you do so, your voice will be heard underneath those actors' voices and it may cause confusion for those watching it because they may not hear you well. We were also asked to put our phones on silent so that they wouldn't ring. I met different people there yesterday and there was no discrimination. They didn't even care if I was a new student, they treated me like one of them. They shared food for every one of us but I didn't eat it simply because I took my home food there. After we went to shoot the exterior part of the movie, we went inside to eat and took some rest. After some minutes, I saw some big celebrities like Jaiye Kuti, Segbowe and a lot of them. I was very happy to see them but I didn't show it so that they wouldn't feel like a mini God because celebrities are fond of that.
Later, they began the interior shoot and the director asked me to hold his scripts. I was happy because the venue for the exterior shoot was so tight and not everyone was allowed to stay there. So, holding the director's script was an added advantage for me because I was able to enter the place to see how the veteran actors do it. I observed something. The veteran actors were so perfect with their lines without any mistakes while the upcoming ones were still struggling to cram some lines. It was fun looking at them but at a time, I began to get tired because I was idle. I wasn't doing anything asides from holding the script for the director.
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I Smiled Again
Look at you!!! Take a good look at yourself. Look at how beautiful you are. I'm sure you know that you're wonderfully made. You're not a perfect being. Everyone knows that but you're beautiful in your own way. I'm sure you didn't make yourself beautiful. You think it's all the cream, lotions, ear piercings, tattoos, pedicure, manicure and all made you beautiful? No!!! Have you ever thought of the kind of cloth that you wear? That cloth which is visible to every soul that looks at you. Have you ever thought of the cloth? Or do you even think that you bought the cloth? No!!! Have you ever sat down to think about that person who did all of these for you? It's God. It's God yesterday, God today, God tomorrow and God forever. I admired your beauty. I talked about how beautiful you are. Have it in mind that God gave you the beauty. He loves you so much and decided to beautify you. Someone that hates you wouldn't beautify you. I spoke about a particular cloth. I'm sure you were thinking that it's a cloth that everyone can see. No, it's not. It's a spiritual cloth of grace. Come to think of it, have you ever noticed that people love you whenever they get to meet with you? Have you ever noticed that people cherish you even when you offend them? It's the cloth. The spiritual cloth I'm talking about.
Though, we all wear a different cloth but they all carry God's grace. Do you think a human being will give you that kind of cloth? If a human being gives it to you, have it in mind that he will collect it back💯. You might have been praying to God for one particular thing for over twenty years but because he hasn't done it doesn't mean that he won't do it. Don't be dicey about God's work. He will do it!! Seems you're not happy. But, whenever it feels like everything is not right, pray!! Pray, pray and keep praying. Trust God!!!! He listens and he will do it. Our hearts are heavy😥. We all want one or two things from God. And whenever we want to pray, we'd ask about it. He will do it!!! One thing I've noticed about us is that, whenever God does that particular thing we want, we won't pray until we have another problem which is not supposed to be so. And I feel like that's why God withhold some of the things he is supposed to give us or to do for us. Even when you have nothing to pray about, just say thank you. Your thanks to God goes a long way.
What really inspired me to write this? I've been praying to God for one thing for over ten years and it feels like it's not possible. I woke up this midnight and began to weep. And one thing I know is that God cherishes me so much. While I was weeping, I felt his presence and he decided to ease my mind and he motivated me to write this. God had to remind me of various dreams I had about this particular thing. My dreams don't lie, it happens!! I thought of it again and I believed that it's still gonna happen. I picked up myself again and felt good. At least, I'm not the one doing all the things that have always happened. It's still God. I'm his daughter and he loves me so much.
His presence means a lot to me. I felt relieved and it was like something came to me to wipe my tears. I've felt this way countless times and God came through for me. He made me realize how important he took me. I'm not a second class person to God. I'm a first class person!! I thought of all these and hoped for the best again. I had to start smiling. Smiling and soliloquizing concurrently. Thinking of which way God will do it like he has always done the rest😊. I took a deep breath and said it in my mind that weeping is not my portion. The way God eases my mind is something I don't joke with. I smiled😊.
So I smiled again and hoping for my package from God😊. Bisolammy, smile because God loves you😊😊.
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She's In A Dilemma
Juliana is a young lady in her early twenties. She has been engaged in past relationships but they seem not to work out. At a time, she thought it was a spiritual problem but her friends always tell her that it is a normal thing simply because they have faced that too. Juliana has dated three other guys and they all broke up with her. So, she had to take a year's break from relationships. When she was ready to be in a relationship again, she met a very handsome man. She gave him all of her because she loves him. After two months in the relationship, she realized that he had a main girlfriend with whom he was willing to get married. She felt bad but due to what has happened in her previous relationships, she decided to stay and give him a second chance hoping that the guy will change. The guy shows her red light and she already knows that he's a no-go area. It means that they can't get married. The guy kept on posting pictures of his main girlfriend without restricting Juliana from seeing the post and he's even going to write a caption to make it obvious that they are dating.
Even though Juliana felt bad, she didn't confront him twice. The last time she confronted him about having another woman, she shunned her and insulted her. If it was you, what would you do? And I feel like Juliana is very much attracted to the guy and that's why she doesn't want to leave him. Or, she doesn't want to be the only one without a relationship among her friends.
Five months ago, Juliana met a guy of her tribe, compatible genotype, and every other thing. She met the guy through a friend and as the very jovial person that Juliana is, the guy loved her vibe and decided to exchange contact with her. They began to talk and talk and she began to like him. The green light is very obvious. And it's very much obvious that the guy likes her. Recently, he asked if she could come sleep over but she refused because she's having trust issues. The guy calls almost every day and even provides almost everything that she needs. So she felt like, a guy doing this for her will have something in mind for her. After a few days, he wooed her and till now, she's yet to give a response. She's being dicey. She doesn't trust him. Though, she already knows little things about him and his work and other necessary information that one could know about a friend. She knows his house too.
One problem is that the guy doesn't post on WhatsApp. She expected a cute boy like that to have a girlfriend or to have someone with that they do things together. She checked his snaps and didn't find a single picture. So, she believes that she doesn't know much about him that way. And their genotypes are even compatible. Also, Juliana doesn't want a situation whereby the guy will jilt her as every other guy has done or the guy will have a girlfriend like her present man. She's taking her time and doesn't want to rush things. I feel like if she accepts the guy's proposal, it may end up well because he doesn't hide things from her and he treats her like someone next to him. So, it's very obvious that they love each other.
If you were in Juliana's condition, what would you do?
Also, if it happens to be your sister, what would you advise her to do?
She's in a dilemma
Juliana needs help😪
Is Relationship Stressful?
Firstly, I would love to tell you all that I'm sorry for disappearing. It's not my fault. I got busy for over a week so I had to take a break from the platform. I'm back with full force now😊.
Also, I would love to say a big thank you to my lovely sponsors. Even when I wasn't active, they still showed their support by remaining my sponsors.
Please help me say a big thank you to them and I hope you accept my apology.
I was talking to a male friend this evening and he told me that a relationship is stressful. Do you agree with that? I agree and disagree. You know what? I'm being dicey about it. I'll tell you why I agree and why I disagree.
I agree because I've been in some relationships in the past and I know how it feels. Presently, I'm in a relationship and I know what the stress is like. Imagine seeing your man posting another girl. How would you feel? Imagine getting a very rude message from your partner and your heart begins to palpitate because your partner may break up with you soon. Imagine that you see your partner receive a call from the opposite sex, what's gonna come to your mind? Aside from that, many things may sound stressful to us. Whenever you're in a relationship, you should always think about your partner. Any step you want to take, think about your partner. And I'm sure that a lot of us don't have the time to think about one partner anymore😂. We all just want to be alone because we are running away from relationship stress. The fight between partners is also stressful. I'm sure that those who have dated troublesome people know what I'm talking about.
I can still say that I disagree. Why? I'd tell you. Whatever you do in life, always see yourself as your priority. You shouldn't be an option to yourself. And if you're ever gonna be an option, you should be the first. Some people do not know how to set the ball rolling in a relationship. Before engaging in a relationship, always make sure that your partner is aware of you are your priority and that your career is your priority... Let your partner know that you can't live for him or her. Set the ground well. Have an agreement and I'm sure that with this, your relationship would not be stressful.
I think trust is one of the major issues why people have a stressful relationships. I've noticed that a lot of people have trust issues. If you have trust issues, the relationship won't grow. Sometimes, you gotta trust your partner and do not entertain any outsiders to begin to tell you things about your relationship or to begin to sabotage the image of your partner.
Lend Us Your Ears.
She used to be very friendly. She was fun to be with. Amongst all her family members, she is known as talkative. They mostly call her "talkative of the house". I think there's something general about talkative like me. We don't know how to keep malice with a fellow human being. As I was saying, she's a talkative and also a kind-hearted person. Having a kind close to you is a blessing. Hold them right!!! But, there are many things she does, and her family members are not fully in support of it. What does she do? She's a lover of pierces, tattoos, semi-nude dresses, leg chains, and other accessories. I know it's cool to train your child in the right way but I feel like we should always understand our children. I know a lot of people that we're brought up in religious families but were sent packing due to the lifestyle that they have chosen. For instance, if you have a child that loves to play football every time, leave the child and let him choose his career path. I've noticed that most parents want their children only to go to school and do office work at the end of the day. I don't think it's nice. Let them find the hidden treasure in them and work on it!!.
As I was saying, she loves all kinds of wild fashion. She has been telling every of her family members that she wants to be an actress. No one answered or created time for her to explain her point clearly. All they wanted for her was to get an office job. They all turned deaf ears to her daily clamors. Things changed and she went through hard times at home. They didn't love her like they used to. They're killing her vibe!!! I like the fact that the girl has a spirit of perseverance. She still tried to explain to her family members and even promised to make them proud. Let's pause. Be sincere with yourself right now. If you were the one, what would you do? Would you leave the house or what exactly are you going to do? Due to the hardship, she was going through, she missed so many movie auditions which could have turned her into a superstar. She became melancholic and no longer spends beautiful time with her family members. She became sober and prayed over it every time.
She got another audition and tried to go for it without letting any of her family members know about it. She was very good at acting but she didn't perform well at the auction. Why? She didn't perform well because she had no one to support her. She also didn't perform well because she was melancholic. She was sent outta the audition hall and went home that day. Even when she got home, she didn't have anyone to talk to about how she spent her day. Her family members killed her vibe💔💔. I'm sure some of y'all will think that since she's talented, her vibe can't be killed. It's a lie!!!! A talent is just like a pencil. If you don't sharpen it, it won't write again.
It's very understandable for a parent to dislike the career path of his or her child. But whenever the child keeps on ringing the bell of what he wants in your ear, the right thing for you to do is to support and guide them instead of scolding them. Family support is the major and pure kind of support. When your family members support you, it's going to make you go harder because you already know that you have people that love what you do.
Dear parents, listen to us😪.
Lend us your listening ears😪
Please listen to us.
We need you in all ramifications😊.
Support us because we need it🙏.
If you're a parent that doesn't show any form of support to your child, please stop it. Begin to show a maximum form of support🙏 and I know that you'll be proud of them.
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It's Telling On Us.
It's gradually telling on us. Isn't it? It is. I'm not happy about it but things like this gotta happen because we all need it to learn. We all need these lessons to navigate in life. During the days of our forefathers, the judgment used to take so much time but right now, these days, it's just the twinkle of an eye. I'm so sad. I feel pity for the greenhorns😪. The little kids that don't know anything about it. Kids with angelic hearts. I'm sure we've been warned by the elders but we don't want to listen. They've always told us that life is vanity and we should ease our minds. But, we won't listen. We all want to run faster than the Cheetah. We all want to fly higher than the Eagle. It's alright. It's your choice. There are three principles of a righteous human being.
**Don't Wait**
**Don't Stop**
**Don't run**
Honestly, nothing beats these three principles. I know that the person reading this has a lot of things you're pursuing in your life. We all have it. It's normal. Sorry for breaking your heart, you may not be able to achieve everything. I know that the truth is bitter💯. It's more bitter than Bittrex but I gotta let you know.
When I sit down thinking of what went wrong, I blame technology. When I blame technology, I'd still come back to blame the unsatisfied human mind. And that's why I brought about the idea of these three principles.
Don't Wait: If truly you want to achieve something in your life, keep going!!! Do not wait by looking for the perfect time. The time has to be now. Yes, it may be slow but trust me, you'll get there. I'm very sure of that. Also, make sure that you believe in yourself.
Don't Stop: Life is just like a race. While running a race, if you feel tired, you may pause and continue when you have energy. Stopping the race is more like a sin. Don't stop, keep going!!!
Don't run: This is where the issue is. Don't be confused. I spoke about something telling on us earlier, I'd explain it here. I'd explain why I almost blamed technology here before concluding that I'm supposed to blame the unsatisfied human mind.
I've realized that most of us want to get things early. We don't want to work before getting what we admire but we just want to get it by all means. How's that possible? I was in my house today when I saw the news that a friend stole a car. I was devastated😪. Why would he do that? I've seen a lot of mentally derailed people out there and when I made findings of the cause of their ailment, it's because they involved themselves in fetish things that later bounced back on them. And this is mostly because they all want to run to get things that they don't want to work for. The unsatisfied human mind will make you feel like you're not doing enough. It will make you want to have every good thing in the world overnight. Is that possible? It will make you feel inferior to the point of depression and some people may even commit suicide.
Material things are good-looking. We all know that but it shouldn't be used as a yardstick for involving yourself in such negative vices. They'll bounce back on you.
All because some people want to acquire things overnight, they rob other people of their properties and they may even get jailed if they were caught. Why not ease your mind? So many people have involved themselves in kidnapping, killings, and other evil acts simply because they are unsatisfied.
What's telling on us?
What's telling on the people of the world?
The killings, kidnappings, suffering, and many more.
Is it telling on us or not?
It is💔💔.
Just Like A Movie.
What A Red Night!!
On this wonderful night, I lay on my bed listening to Adele's "When we were young". I'm a lover of music so I try different songs every day. On that particular night, my boyfriend broke up with me. I don't think you know how it feels when your lover calls you to tell you that he's no longer interested in you. It was just like a movie. I pleaded and pleaded but all my efforts were to no avail. I pleaded for hours but all my attempt was futile. I expected my man to be magnanimous.
I cried like my eyes weren't going to be useful to me anymore. It still felt like a movie. My heart keeps reminding me of our ecstatic memories. Wonderful memories that we've spent together. What a red night! A red night full of love, anger, lust, action, and tears. It was just like a movie😪. I miss him. I can't doubt that. If I try to act like I don't miss him, my heart will remind me of the beautiful memories we spent together. Richard!!! You promised our love life to be unending. Where are you? Where have you gone? I know Richard can never break up with me. I mean more than life to him. Let me not circumlocute, Richard was murdered😪. He was murdered!!!
On that night, we went to a concert. The performance was so electrifying. The band played with such panache and we all had a nice time. One thing about me is that my intuition doesn't deceive me. I told him to let us hang around somewhere, but he wouldn't listen. It was still midnight and I was very scared. While we were going, we met some Street Urchins. Being a nightcrawler may be very frightful. I know what we've faced many times while coming back from parties. These Street Urchins turned a frigid gaze at us. Gruesome and evil-looking!! We got scared and they began to pursue us. We ran for our dear lives. I was almost shot, but I dodged the gunshot. I never knew that my man was going to take a shot for me😪. They shot at him and he lost his life. It makes me feel like I murdered him😪😪. My wailings sound like a song to me that night😪. Dear Richard, I'm sorry. I love you now and forever.
No wonder he begged me to follow him to the party that night. Did he know that he was gonna lost his life? Was the last ecstatic memory a way to bid me a farewell? I feel devastated anytime I remember this. I knew I lost someone very precious to me. You know that feeling of not being able to talk to someone you've always talked to for years? You can't see them anymore, you can't eat with them anymore😪😪. He left me and turned me into the only tree in the desert😪. I'm pained💔. I remember the sweet words he told me when we were young. I remember how he made me smile every time we were together. Showing me all the love I could ever imagine. One question that comes to my mind every time we're together is, will I ever feel loved again?
I pleaded with him not to die as if he could be able to do anything at the point of death. I wept profusely 😪. I remember the day he wore a very beautiful necklace found my neck. I felt loved. Can I ever get this again? Or, can Richard come back? Dear Richard, where are you? You left me alone in this wicked world😪😪. I promised not to ever live without you but here I am, living lonely😪. I love you and you know it. Continue to rest in peace🙏.
Tell me what song would have fit in my mood if it's not Adele's " When we were young".
Tell me what song would have fit in my mood if it's not Michael Jackson's "Alone".
Tell me what song would have fit in my mood if it's not Wizkid's " Turn on the light".
I wish he could turn on the light but I realized that it's too late💔.
What a red night!!!
Still like a movie💔.
***Disclaimer: This story is fictitious. And it's not to make anyone feel bad but to enjoy the fabricated work.***
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Could This Be Karma?
My parents lived in Osun State, Nigeria before they relocated to Lagos State, Nigeria. My Dad got a job in Cadbury Nigeria Plc in the year 2004. I was still very young then but I won't tell you my age so that you all won't tell me to add aunty and brother to your names😂. When my Dad got the job, he wrote an application letter for his friends. He wrote the application letter for five of his friends without their consent. And when they released the interview date, my Dad called his friends and told them about it. They got excited and decided to go for the interview. When the results came out, they passed the interview and they were asked to start work the next week. Let's take a break😊. How would you feel if this happens to you! Have you ever met a friend that did this or something close to this for you? I mean, friends that lift each other. Friends that wants to see you do good. If you don't have one, change your friends!!
Till today, they all work in Cadbury and they're very successful. They've got cars and houses but that's not my point. When my elder brother gained admission into the University, he met a very good friend. A loyal one precisely. They've been so good to each other and visit each other's families. When they graduated from school, they were so lucky to serve in the same state. Right now, they live together. That's still not my point. When NYSC posted them to school, my brother's friend's father changed the location and asked them to work under him. We were so happy in my family and we are very grateful. Since we are not capable of giving my elder brother a good job, we accepted the offer and we're glad that it's paying well. After a month, they changed my brother's location and his friend's location too. They posted them in the same place again😊. Let me give you an hint, they work in National Census office in Nigeria. And they were both given a good position that pays higher than they've been receiving. My brother was given the Deputy registrar, his friend was given the Registrar and his friend's father has always been the state coordinator. So, it's a politician work😁 and they both studied political science at the university.
So, I thought of many things. I was like, "could it be what my dad has done for his friends, my elder brother is reaping now?". I thought of many things. I don't think some of us know what it means to give someone what he'll eat for the rest of his life and right now, someone has done that for my elder brother. Could this be Karma?
Three days ago, my uncle won APC primary election in Oyo State. During the general election, all my family members will go to our village to vote. Actually, my uncle has a higher chance of winning the general election because of some certain things. So, do you think that if my Uncle wins the election, he won't give my brother and his friend a better work than they are doing now? God so good, they studied political science so it will be very easy for my uncle to give them a good position. Apparently, my brother will help his friend too😊. And that's how life is. If I know that you've helped me before, I'd have it in mind to repay you too. If it's not you, it may be someone else that will later help you based on the help I rendered to him. Karma is the best Mathematician😊😊. I'm sure you saw how long that is😁.
You see, what goes around comes around. I'm not telling you to help someone because you want to benefit from them but do it because you're willing to do so. One thing I know is that, my father has never mentioned it in the house that he helped his friends. I heard it from his friend. We were told when my Dad buried his parents. I just believed that Karma is real. It may not happen immediately but trust me, it will definitely happen.
Live good and live a righteous life!!!
Help without expecting anything in return!!!
Could this be Karma?
Yes, Karma is real💯💯.
Happy reading😊😊
Train Yourself!!!
I went to my mom's shop this morning to take something. When I got to the shop, I saw my mom's friend talking about a young girl of fifteen years old. This girl lives opposite our shop and I asked what the girl did. I was told that she has aborted a pregnancy for the second time. You see, it's not my first time hearing cases like this but it's so disappointing. And when I asked who the boyfriend was, I was told that she was dating a married man. A married man that has kids that is older than her. One thing I know is that "charity begins at home". The way you train your child matters a lot. I even heard that her mom was the one that invited to nurse to abort the pregnancy. Partially, it means that her mother knows that she's sleeping with an old man. What could have caused this or what could have influenced her negatively to do this? Then, I thought of peer pressure. It plays a major role in one's life. And that's why they say " show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are". It's the truth. You're very much likely to have the same attitude as your friend. Also, your home matters. There are many things girls wish to don't they can't because they know the kind of home they come from. My mom is a no-nonsense mom. You can't try shit with my mom!!!!. I felt bad about the story and I took what I was sent to take in the shop.
Immediately I wanted to leave the shop, I saw one woman shouting.
***Hold him, hold him please. Don't let him go. Brother, please hold him for me.***
At first, people thought the boy was a thief. But the mother explained that she was taking him to the church and that he beats her almost all the time. I was shocked. I was thinking in my mind about why he could have been beating the woman that brought him into the world. That's one of the greatest sins in the world. And the boy was still yelling. He asked everyone to leave him alone. He wants to go his own way. He didn't even feel bad when his mother told outsiders that he beats her almost all the time. But I'm glad that they were able to tie him and carried him to the church. He wants his story to be like that of the prodigal son. I still had that thought in my mind again. I wondered why a young boy will beat his mother. If you're reading this, I pray for you today, "You won't beat your mother". It's a prayer that you should say amen to. Do you know why? It's a very great sin that God can deal with you for. Making your mother or your father cry is a curse on you. And if you want to be successful in life, you gotta respect your parents.
I had this thought again in my mind that people get things wrong. A lot of people might have read stories of others leaving their comfort zones to make money but some readers get it wrong and as writers, we should be able to explain things well to our reader's understanding. Let's take a look at the boy that wants to leave home. The way I saw him, I don't think he had up to $5 and he wants to run away from home😅. Leaving your comfort zone could be that you go out to work and come back at night. Steadily grinding!!! But some people think that you gotta leave home finally. That's if you have a backup somewhere but if you don't, stay at home and grind!!! Do not let your friends pressure you to run away from home. You'll suffer!!! With the recession happening in the world now, you may suffer.
Know the kind of friends you move with.
Your parents trained you but it's very important to train yourself positively because, at the end of the day, you'll be the one left for yourself.
Have a nice day😊
Happy reading😊😊
How To Live A Peaceful Life!!
**Never wake up with hate in your heart.**
I've noticed that a lot of people wake up with hate in their hearts. You know that moment of waking up to remember that you hate someone, you won't feel good. You won't be happy. You're just going to be angry for no reason. You'll be harsh. Throughout that day, you won't feel good because you have someone in your mind. I mean someone that you want to harm. Whatever someone does to you, tell the person immediately so that he or she can make amends. If you don't dare to do so, just let it off your mind. Let it go and do not hate on someone. If you wanna have peace, don't hate on someone else.
**Know Your Limit.**
Many people get things wrong here. Some people may even turn it to anger. It's not done like that. Knowing your limit is one simple thing and it's a character that we all should develop. There are red flags and green flags everywhere. Whenever you realize that someone is showing his red flag, stop there!! Know your limit and don't do more than yourself. Set your boundary in the person's life. If you do not set the boundary, that person will use you. As long as you know your place or position in someone's life and you're able to set a limit, you will be at peace with yourself because you won't be surprised at whatever the person does to you. Imagine I know my stand in your life and you hurt me, I may feel bad but it won't hurt me that much because I know my stand.
**Don't expect anything from anyone.**
Expecting something from someone is just like you rely on such a person. You can always rely on God. God is just like a pulley that lifts us whenever we're down. We have different people with a different mindsets. Some people believe that because this guy is their boyfriend, he should cater to all their responsibilities. If he doesn't do it, he'll seem like a bad person. I've noticed that some people expect the minimal thing from a human being like them. It shouldn't be so. You're enough for yourself and if you're to expect something from anyone, if it's not God, let it be from yourself. I've always taught myself that anything someone does for me is just a plus. It's an addition because I didn't expect it. If you're selling your product at a particular price, I won't expect you to reduce the price. If you do it for me, I'll appreciate it. That's how to love!!
**Be at peace with yourself**.
Being at peace with one's self goes a long way. It includes a lot of things to be at peace with yourself. I'll give you many instances. Self-love is the major way to be at peace with yourself. A lot of people hate themselves. I know what I'm saying. You'll see some people that commit suicide. If they love themselves, they won't do that. They'll always want to see themselves smile every day. Being contented is another way to be at peace with yourself. I'm not on the Forbes list. I'm not even part of the rich people in my country but I'm at peace with myself because I'm satisfied with what I have. I've seen lots of material things and wealthy people. It's normal to admire them but the moment that you begin to think to the point of depression because you don't have money is when you should begin to notice that you're not at peace with yourself. Whatever condition you are in life, learn to be happy with it. Learn to appreciate it. If you do so, God will give you more. And always learn to take things slow and steady. Some people do not want to crawl before walking. How's that possible? We should always learn to take things to step by step. Let me give you an example. We all know that there are numerous ways of making money online and if you can be consistent with one or two ways of making money online, you'll make it in life. Some people don't want to take it slowly. They wanna make millions overnight. I mean, millions that they didn't work for😅. They'll begin to engage in businesses that will double their money overnight and at the end of the day, they'll lose all their money. They'll still lend money from friends and family to double it again and all their efforts will be wasted. Then they begin to think. Is that person at peace with himself? No!!!
Always learn to be peaceful with your self so as to live a good life💯.
Happy reading😊😊.
Just Questions!!
I've read numerous relationship stories this morning. You all are making me feel like I should write something on love😊 but I don't wanna do that. I'm even lazy to write today because my hand hurts so bad. So I just decided to ask y'all questions and I'll also give my own opinion on those questions. Leggo😊
**Can you continue your relationship with someone that slept with your best friend?**
I can't!!! H*ll no!!! Why will I continue such a relationship? It's of what benefit? You see, we are different people with different emotions. We all act according to our emotions. I'm sure some of you here can take it but it's not something I can take. In an African society, it's not something that you can be proud of. It happens very well but it's a shameful act. I know of two love birds. The lady slept with the guy's best friend. How come? They're still together and they are happy in their relationship but I just have that feeling that the guy will bring it up someday. He's going to hunt the lady with her past anytime she does something wrong to him. I'm not saying he will do it. But I just have that feeling that he's capable of doing it. Drop your opinions please😁.
**Can you get married to someone that your genotypes are not compatible?**
No!! I'll cut the relationship off straight away. Some people believe that when they get to the bridge, they'll cross it. One thing we should know is that not every bridge is meant to be crossed. Let's assume that both partners are AS and they want to get married to each other. They may have it in mind that they will check the genotype of the baby before giving birth and if it's SS, they'll flush it. Yeah, it's possible. It happens very well. But, ask yourself. Be sincere with yourself. Can you go through that stress? Can you go through the stress of flushing almost every pregnancy that comes your way? Just let go of that person, please. But if you're blinded by love, you can go on. Also, if you feel like you can go through that stress, go on!!
**Can you survive in an abusive relationship?**
I know why I included the question. I know why. Just calm down😊. I know some ladies will say yes. I can't get married to that person. Some ladies prefer a man beating them. Some ladies are going through this in their relationships. Do you know what makes me laugh? You know your man is beating you blue and black almost every day and you're still in that relationship. Why? I've always believed that a man who truly loves you will never raise his hands to beat you. A man who truly loves you will never want to see you cry. I've seen a lot of abusive relationships out there. One funny thing about those relationships is that you can't advise the man or woman in the relationship because they'll still tell each other😅 and they'll turn you to their enemy😅. So, just leave them alone😅. As for me, I cannot survive in an abusive relationship.
**Can you marry someone that has no job?**
If you observe something in this question, you'll observe that I didn't ask if you can marry a man that doesn't have a job. And I didn't ask if you can marry a woman without a job not to talk of getting married to a man that doesn't have a job. Job shouldn't be gender-based. We both should have a job to sustain us. The only thing I know is that my man will do the most and I will support him. Also, I can't be the one to cater to all the responsibilities. And I can't survive in a broke relationship. I like money😅😅.
I'm still thinking of what to ask but I don't know😅. The questions left my head. And if you feel like you have other questions to add, please do.
Have a nice day😊.
You Own It All
Take it all. Take everything. Take it, it's yours. Take it!! I like a lot of people. Should I tell you those I love most? I love people who want to enjoy their life to the fullest. It's one of the greatest feelings. You know that feeling of owning your life to the fullest, no one can dictate for you, and you can always enjoy yourself. It's nice. And when someone talks to you about something, you tell her, it's your life and you gotta live it to the fullest. I know you wanna live your life to the fullest but sometimes, you gotta listen. I know it's not good to listen to everything someone says. But just make sure that you pick the good ones out of it. And when you pick the good ones, don't live to impress the person to know that you've changed. Like I said, it's your life. Live and enjoy it to the fullest.
I live in African society and an elderly person that you don't know may just approach you to correct you about your mode of dressing or anything. It's a good thing but it depends on how you take it. Some of us may be so rude as to insult the elderly person. It's not nice. We all know that everyone has his life to live to the fullest. It's quite understandable that external factors may ruin someone's life because only you understand yourself, your life, and where you are going. But there are some mistakes we make that are not known to us. But, the moment someone calls our attention to these mistakes, we should be grateful, think about what correction the person made and we should make amends.
You see, I've met a lot of people. I've met the rude ones, the polite ones, and many more. As a young polite girl I am, if an elderly woman approaches me politely to correct me about something I'm doing wrong. I'll give thanks because such a person wants the best for me. If it's a rude one, she may insult the woman. If you don't change, no one will beat you and that's why it's your life, you gotta live it to the fullest. Some words hurt a lot. Some people don't know how to talk. I agree. But, can you just pick the good ones and let others outta your head? It may be hard but trust me, it's possible.
You know one of the unlucky sets of people on earth? They are the ones that don't have someone to talk to them. They don't have someone to advise them. They don't even know if they are on the wrong path or the right path. They are just going. Going and going again. Going to a place without a specific destination. But you!!! You have someone who cares about you. Someone that can call your attention to something that you're doing wrong. Someone that even if you yell at her for not minding her business, she would come back stronger. Back to correct you again. People like that are blessings. This is not a case of monitoring your life. It's a case of wanting you to be great in life. But you!! Yeah, you!! You are always misbehaving😢. Why😪😪. Listen!!!
Listen to that person around you. Listen to the voice in you. Listen to your Dad. Listen to your Mom. Listen to your Siblings. When you listen, go back inside your room and think about it. If you feel like what they've told you makes sense, put it to use. Please don't be lost. Lost in this context doesn't mean they won't see you again. I mean, don't be lost in life. The lost ones are those that don't know their purpose in life. Don't ever try to be lost!!!
Listen and listen well!!
Change and change for good!!
Know your purpose in life!!!
Don't just live for nothing!!
I'm sure my words will hit some of us here because we don't listen.
Don't forget, it's your life. Live it!!!
Take it all😊😊
Say No To Suicide❗❗
I was walking along the road. Soliloquizing, yelling, angry, and frustrated. My head was hot!! I was sweating profusely while walking very fast. If anyone had greeted me at that moment, I'd have fought with the person. Have you ever felt this way? Have you ever been frustrated? Yes, you!!! I'm talking to you. Have you ever felt like you want to delete everyone in your life? That feeling that you don't want to talk to anyone. You just wanna be alone. I'm sure this particular person reading this has felt this way. Think of it. What caused it? What made you frustrated? I'm sure that if I get a response from every one of you, the reason may be because of money.
You see, I know money isn't enough. Even the world's richest person needs more money. And there are sometimes that you need a particular thing but you don't have the money to get it. Your money isn't enough. I know you'll feel bad. It has happened to me countless times. I know how it feels.
You know one thing? Most people think money is the major problem of man. I'd say no. Some people battle loneliness. Have you ever had that feeling of you wanting to talk to someone? But when you look up, down, left, and right, you tend to realize that there's no one for you. Have you felt that way? I know someone somewhere is reading this and it's just like I'm talking to you. Some people need close friends that can tell them everything but they've not found one. It's a big deal. Do you know why? You can't live your life alone. You need someone. We all need ourselves. That's why we're humans.
Other things can make someone frustrated. Your love life. Love is sweet, love doesn't hurt and love is considerate. Sometimes, it makes you depressed. Let me ask you. Have you ever loved someone that doesn't love you back? If yes, how did you feel? I'm sure you'd feel like entering the ground. Has your partner ever ignored you? Have you called someone for days, the person is seeing the calls but not picking them up. Wait, what's gonna run through your mind? It means such a person is ignoring me. Why will you ignore me while we're in a relationship 😢. It hurts so bad. Should I give you another instance? Leggo👇👇
Have you ever tried something multiple times? Do you know that it can be frustrating? You know that feeling of trying something over hundred times and you're still not getting it right. I've felt this way. I was frustrated. I was angry. I'm sure some people will want to break their phone or destroy the entire thing they are doing. Just calm down. Take a deep breath and start again or continue 😊. You may as well listen to Mariah Carey's "Hero". The lyrics are overwhelming. It's gonna melt your heart. Trust me 😊
Have you ever thought of what these frustrations could lead to? It may lead to depression. Depression may lead to suicide. There are too many cases of suicide every day. I feel so sad when I hear about a suicide case. I know how the person feels. Maybe the person is tired of the whole thing. The jealousy, coup, isolation, and other things that he or she has faced and he felt like he took a bold decision by committing suicide😢. I'm sure that there are some people out there planning to commit suicide. No!!! Don't do it!! I beg you😢. Please. I love you❤. Don't commit suicide😢. It hurt so bad. Did you even think about your family members, your friends, your lover, and everything you love? Please do not commit suicide.
There's always a solution to every problem. Do you know that? The best solution is just for you to be grateful to God for your present position. Do not pressure yourself. You can't have it all. You can't!!! Take a chill pill and look at the beautiful things surrounding you. I'm sure you'll be fine. Ease your mind. Brood no more. You'll be fine.
This is for every depressed human out there. You're strong. Look up at the sky and smile again😊. You deserve the beautiful things of the world. I'm sincerely telling you that "I love you❤❤" and I mean it.
For those that have died from suicide, you all are the real MVPs. It's so sad that you all took this brave decision. Your friends and families miss you so much. Keep resting in peace. I love you all❤.
Say no to suicide❗❗
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